WEBVTT - MINI! Dating Terms You NEED To Know These Days

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<v Speaker 1>It's the pick up. Britt, Laura and Mitch. We're here

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<v Speaker 1>for your afternoon or thanks to chemists warehouse today running

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<v Speaker 1>great savings every day. Now, ladies, I'm a gen z

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<v Speaker 1>I identify with being a gen Zetta. What's your what's

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<v Speaker 1>your day to birth?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>What year were you born?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ninety five, so I'm right on the cuffs. But

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel more gen z than I do gen X.

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<v Speaker 3>You and me, Brittany Huckley, we are millennials, which.

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<v Speaker 1>Still sounds young, does it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Millennial That's exactly what I'm doing here today. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>quiz you girls. I love a quiz. You know I

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<v Speaker 1>love a quiz. These are the top dating trends used

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<v Speaker 1>by gen zas. I'm not going to know any of these. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you'll be fine. You guys host a love

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<v Speaker 1>and dating podcast, Live Fun Cut. You should be good

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<v Speaker 1>of this.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been on the dating scene on and off for

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<v Speaker 2>ten years, so hopefully I've either know them experienced them.

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<v Speaker 3>You probably do them, but you may not know the name.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, hit us, All right, what about this first one?

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<v Speaker 1>What would you say? Vulturing? Is vulturing eating them? Alife?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Vulturing. I mean, guess, Laura Bevin, Okay, it's a bird

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<v Speaker 1>of prey. That's what a vulture is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you only eat them when they're dead.

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<v Speaker 1>You're only date dead people. Why do I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>this is wrong? Covering on the edges of a dying relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>So good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping you'll clean up the scraps.

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<v Speaker 2>That slow claps A very good definition of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Next one, what about outsourcing? What would you say outsourcing is?

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<v Speaker 2>I would say you are going to friends of friends

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<v Speaker 2>of friends. Maybe there's some group chats and just saying

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<v Speaker 2>does anyone know anyone?

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to say, maybe you've gone on a

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<v Speaker 3>blind date, like your friend has set you up on

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<v Speaker 3>a date with someone, and that's outsourcing the dating game.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not far off wrong, though. Outsourcing is when you

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<v Speaker 1>get your friends to take control of your dating apps

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<v Speaker 1>and profiles because either they think that friends will be

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<v Speaker 1>wittier and make better decisions on your behalf, or because

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<v Speaker 1>you're just lazy you want someone else to do it

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I do that for my friends. I've written so many

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<v Speaker 2>my friend's profiles.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a vulturing outsource of That's what and what we

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<v Speaker 1>would have add cookie jarring. If you said, God, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been cookie jarring this guy all week.

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<v Speaker 3>Cookie jarring a guy, I'm going to say, you're keeping

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<v Speaker 3>them on hold, like you just they're just resting there

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<v Speaker 3>and you're going to maybe tend to them later. But

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<v Speaker 3>they're just sitting there.

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<v Speaker 1>They're out of reach a little bit, and you're stringing

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<v Speaker 1>them along.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you just keep going back for more and more.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's what I do with a cookie. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you know what bricks your long law? You kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got it. Cookie jarring is when you date someone but

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<v Speaker 1>you maintain contact with potential alternatives or fallbacks while you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. That's just dating cookie jar because you got

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<v Speaker 1>your hand in the cookie jar.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh but you're still eating everything else is saying finger

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<v Speaker 3>in all pies?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that could be something very different. Okay, one, what

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<v Speaker 1>about water parking with a slippery pay?

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<v Speaker 3>Why jelly in a relationship? When you when you slide

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<v Speaker 3>on out of one relationship into the.

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<v Speaker 2>Next, that's a pretty good one. Or when you go

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<v Speaker 2>down the big spinny thing as a turbulent relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, water parking is when you sweat heaps on your

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<v Speaker 1>first date. And I made it mystery doesn't exist. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>up next, actually quite upsetting for you and I, Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>because Brittany Hockey has been accused of theft.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh not surprised at a stretch. It's borrowing and not returning.

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<v Speaker 1>Your neighbor has confronted you in the parking lot of

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<v Speaker 1>your building and this is legit. Yeah, that's not even

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<v Speaker 1>a joke. I wish that was a joke. We'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it next here at the pickup