1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:01,480 Speaker 1: I need a lift. 2 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 2: It's will and wouldy. 3 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 3: I need to talk to you about something that we 4 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 3: spoke about on this show the other day, which has 5 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 3: really really sparked a big conversation with a lot of 6 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 3: other people. 7 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: I saw there was an article in. 8 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 3: The news about it today as well, And it's the 9 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 3: difference between taking a mental health day sick day versus 10 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 3: taking a sick day. And the reason this came up 11 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 3: is I was in here last Friday and as a result, 12 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 3: there was some stuff that we replayed because I was sick, 13 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 3: I pulled out of the show very late. But I 14 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 3: wasn't actually sick. I was depressed, and ordinarily I think 15 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 3: these days you wouldn't you wouldn't say that. It wasn't 16 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 3: right for me to say that, but I said that 17 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 3: on the radio, and I was like, look, I did 18 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 3: have a mental health. 19 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: Day because I was really depressed. That a shocker. 20 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 3: And what I found really interesting about is I haven't 21 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 3: been that depressed in a really long time. So I 22 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 3: used the experience to kind of look at it and 23 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 3: try and figure out what was really the issue with me. 24 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 3: And what I found really hard was that I couldn't 25 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 3: tell people what was going on I found it really 26 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 3: hard to say, like, hey, guys, I'm actually depressed and 27 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 3: I should probably go home. 28 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 4: Even with you and me, we've had like conversations about 29 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 4: it and talk about how we're open with each other. 30 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 4: But it was funny when you were in the throes 31 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 4: of it. Yes, all of a sudden, it was actually 32 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 4: me and executive producer who actually brought up with you 33 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 4: saying you're okay, and you actually said at the start, no, yeah, 34 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 4: I'm fine, Yeah, I know, I'm fine, And then it 35 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 4: actually had to like wiet. 36 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: And well, but I've told you that before, Like I've 37 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 3: told you before that I'm going to tell you that 38 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 3: I'm okay, I'm not okay. Make sure when you know, 39 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 3: if you can read the symptoms, then please just send 40 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 3: me home. 41 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 2: But it was so fascinating to me that whilst I 42 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 2: know that, and when I'm not in the throes of 43 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: the illness. 44 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 3: I'm very happy to talk about it. But when I 45 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 3: am in the throes of the illness, it's nearly impossible 46 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 3: for me to talk about it, even to my girlfriend, 47 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: even to you. And that's the great paradox of mental 48 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: health issues in general, is that it's totally agreed upon 49 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: that the way through them is to talk about them. 50 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 3: But talking's the hardest thing to do. That's why it's. 51 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 2: Such an issue. You can't share what you're going through. 52 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 3: And I've been thinking about this a lot, and I 53 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: have an idea which I think could help, but I don't. 54 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 2: Really know whether or not it will. 55 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 3: And the idea is based on the fact that I 56 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 3: think that given that the person who suffering the mental 57 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: illness finds it so hard to talk about that, I 58 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 3: think the owners should be on the people who are 59 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 3: with that person to help them start talking about it. Yep, 60 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: you know, we all say, you know, are you okay? 61 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 3: To spreads exactly the same message, But it's really hard. 62 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 3: If you are in let's say your position or my 63 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 3: partner's position, and you're living or working with the person 64 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: with mental illness, you're not like, you're not a psychologist 65 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 3: and you're not a wizard. You can't just look at 66 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: the person and go oh, depressed, anxious people often very 67 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 3: very good at hiding it. So I think what we 68 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 3: need to do is develop something where the person who 69 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 3: is suffering can flag it without actually having to audibly 70 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 3: flag it, with actually having to start the conversation. Do 71 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 3: you understand what I'm saying? 72 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 4: Yes, I do. 73 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 3: So I've had a good think about this, and I've 74 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 3: just realized they've taken a little while to set that up. 75 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 3: So we're going to go to a song and then 76 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you my idea up next. 77 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 2: Okay, what I wouldn't mind, just because I need a 78 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: bit of a sounding board for it. Though. 79 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 3: Thirty one O six five is the phone number if 80 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 3: you suffer a mental illness or you work with someone 81 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 3: that suffers a mental heart So you live with someone 82 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 3: that mental illness, can you give us a call because 83 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: I wouldn't mind hearing from you honestly, whether or not 84 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: you think this will work. I really don't mean to 85 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 3: harp on about this, but it's creating a whole bunch 86 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 3: of very interesting ideas for us. I was depressed last Friday. 87 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 3: I didn't do the radio show, and people are very 88 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: surprised that I'm saying that, which I find really funny 89 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 3: because if I had a sick day, then I'd probably 90 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: just tell everyone I was sick. And I've been thinking 91 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 3: about this, woods been thinking about this. I'm like, why, 92 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 3: why is that the case? And how frustrating. That is, 93 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 3: if you have, if you are going through a mental illness, 94 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 3: that you can't just say, hey, sick day and why 95 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 3: is that? But often it's not somebody else stopping you 96 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 3: from saying that, it's yourself stopping you from saying that. 97 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 3: Just given that I was depressed on Friday, I had 98 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 3: a really good chance to look at just how I 99 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,119 Speaker 3: was reminded of how hard it is to talk about 100 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: what you're going through. And it got to be really 101 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 3: thinking about trying to get people to explain to others 102 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 3: what they're going through without having to initiate the conversation. Now, 103 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 3: I know that sounds mad, but I've had an idea 104 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: and I just I'm just throwing it out there so 105 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 3: we can kind of see what other people think. But 106 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 3: I want to I think I've got this idea to 107 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 3: create an app, and I want to call the app 108 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: check in okay, And basically you download the app right 109 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 3: on your phone. 110 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: We'll charge of, you know, fifty bucksports. I don't know, 111 00:04:59,560 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: it'll talk. 112 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 4: That's that's on of my area. Well don't you start 113 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 4: talking dollarsand s. 114 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 3: So you download the app and then the app turns 115 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: on when you wake up and it gives you a notification, 116 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 3: like a push notification comes up and it says, please 117 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 3: check in with yourself, and it's just super basic. 118 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: So just one to ten, how would you rate yourself today? Yeah, 119 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 2: just one question, just one to ten. How you feeling? 120 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 5: There? 121 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 3: Really easy because let me tell you, if when you're 122 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 3: going through this sort of stuff, you don't want to 123 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 3: be thinking. You can't think about it too much, you 124 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 3: can't talk about it too much. It's hard to analyze. 125 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 3: So let's say you go, I'm a two. Yeah, that's 126 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 3: pretty low right. You then have a whole day of 127 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 3: interactions with people. So the idea of the app is 128 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 3: the next slide on the page would be who would 129 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 3: you like. 130 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 2: To tell that you are a two? 131 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 4: Okay? 132 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 3: And then it just accesses your phone book on your 133 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 3: phone and then you might go, okay, cool, Well, I 134 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: wouldn't mind telling my mum, I wouldn't mind telling my 135 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 3: work colleagues, I wouldn't mind tell him my best mate. 136 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 4: So on Friday, can I ask the Friday this go 137 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 4: one where you didn't do the show because you had depression? 138 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 3: Yes, So before you go into this, they then get 139 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 3: the notification, so then you can then choose on the app. 140 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: Please can you ask me about this? Or Hey, I'm 141 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 3: just letting you know that this is the case, but 142 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 3: you don't have to ask me about this, okay, because 143 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 3: then that's servicing the person who's going through the mentalanesce, 144 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 3: because then you're like relief. I've told you guys how 145 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,119 Speaker 3: I feel. That means I don't feel like an idiot, 146 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: and I don't feel like you're judging me given that 147 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 3: I'm acting really differently. 148 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 2: And it's also. 149 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 3: Relieving for the purpose people that you do work with 150 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 3: and that are in your life, because they're looking at 151 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 3: this going ah, cool, good to know. 152 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: Thanks very much. 153 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: I know that I need to tread delicately around you 154 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 3: or whatever whatever systems you've got in place. 155 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes lot of sense. I'll ask you my 156 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 4: question to say, let's go to Jessica really quick on 157 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 4: thirty one or six y five. Hey, jess you've just 158 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 4: heard Will's idea there. Can you tell us a bit 159 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 4: about yourself? You're going through some mental health stuff? 160 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am. In my twenty years. I've been going 161 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: through some really severe mental health for a really long time, 162 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: probably since I've been in Since you speaks really yeah, 163 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: and I suffer from pretty bad depression and OCD, which 164 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: can be a really dark, scary place. 165 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 3: Absolutely, yes, I hope you're getting help with that, but 166 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 3: I just just in terms of what I just said, then, 167 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 3: do you think that that would help you? Because I 168 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 3: and I find it so hard to initiate that conversation 169 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 3: with people. 170 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: If you could let other. 171 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 3: People in your life know via push notification that that 172 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 3: you're feeling that way, so you don't have to start 173 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 3: a conversation but they're just aware of it, would that 174 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 3: help you. 175 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: I am actually going to be mad if you don't 176 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: do this because such a powerful and empowering idea. 177 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 5: Okay, cool, because I think. 178 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: You know, when you're actually going through it, it's like 179 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: this place opens up within you and it almost feels safe. 180 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: And not to say anything funny. 181 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: One, but that's so dangerous. That's the dangerous, isn't it. Yeah? 182 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: Absolutely, that's that's the worst part about it, because when 183 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: you're in your right mind, you go, no, I should really, 184 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: I should really talk about this. 185 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: When I'm going through it. 186 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 3: But it's so hard to initiate thea. So if we 187 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 3: flip the owners on the other people who, by the way, 188 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 3: want to help you, they love you, they want to 189 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 3: get around you, but so often they're like they just 190 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 3: don't know. Yeah, and it can be quite scary asking 191 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 3: all right, Jess, that's awesome, Thank you so much for 192 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: your thoughts. 193 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 4: While I've got just I'm sorry, I'm talking business. I 194 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 4: want to get a price point. How much would you 195 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 4: pay for that? I'm joking, I'm joking, I'm joking. I've 196 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 4: got a couple of questions for you. 197 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 2: Do we want to do? 198 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 4: We want to go to traffic and take more calls 199 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 4: on this and hear what other people think. I've also 200 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 4: got a few questions. 201 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, as well. 202 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 3: I'm happy to get probed well obviously, like audibly about 203 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 3: the idea. But also yeah, if you're out there anything 204 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: in yourself, I could make that as well. Please can 205 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 3: you DMS on Will and Woody Instagram face We you've 206 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 3: heard that and you go, that's pretty basic, Will, because 207 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 3: I've got no idea about this sort of stuff, but 208 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 3: it could be something Instagram, Facebook, please DMS. But yeah, 209 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 3: if you're you're going through this sort of stuff and 210 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 3: you wouldn't mind giving you a point of view on it, 211 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: I'd love. 212 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: To hear from your woods. 213 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,719 Speaker 3: I was depressed on Friday. People very surprised that I'm 214 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 3: saying that I was. But I think if I took 215 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 3: a convince sick day, I'd tell anybody comfortably. So I'm 216 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 3: just trying to just flatten that out. But I thought 217 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 3: about it on Friday. It was really interesting. I was 218 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 3: reminded of the fact that how hard it is to 219 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 3: actually tell people that that's what I was going through 220 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 3: to the point where I was in here. I came 221 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 3: to work, I was obviously depressed, and it took you 222 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 3: saying to me, mate, go home, you depressed, And even 223 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 3: then I was denying it, which is just outrageous. And 224 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 3: I was reminded of the fact that when you are 225 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 3: going through a mental illness, initiating that conversation is actually the. 226 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 2: Hardest thing ever. 227 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 3: And that's why the onus, I think, needs the shift 228 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 3: onto people who are around you, who know that you're depressed. 229 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 3: Key issue being that we're not all psychologists. It's very 230 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 3: hard to spot. And so I thought to myself, is 231 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 3: there a way that people who are suffering mental illnesses 232 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 3: can tell other people around them what they're going through 233 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 3: without actually initiating a conversation, Because that's the biggest hurdle, right, 234 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 3: and so I'm kindent with this idea for an app. Okay, 235 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 3: So the idea is you wake up, you set your 236 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 3: you're apt to be in alarm essentially at whatever time 237 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:03,599 Speaker 3: you want. Let's say it's just before we got to 238 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 3: work nine o'clock. The app goes, how are you feeling today? 239 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 3: Check in with yourself. It'll be called check in probably, 240 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 3: and then on a scale of one to ten, you 241 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 3: rate yourself. 242 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: Let's say you say I'm a two or a three. 243 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 3: You can then choose to send to people who you're 244 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 3: going to interact with later that day or close friends 245 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 3: and family, I am feeling a two on the scale 246 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 3: of one to ten today, and then you can say, 247 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 3: please feel free to ask me about this or insert how. 248 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: You can help me with this. 249 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 3: And then that makes it easier for the other people 250 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 3: in your workplace and stuff as well, because they know 251 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 3: there's no anxiety. That's the pitch essentially, and there's shit lots. 252 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 2: Of people calling you. 253 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 4: It's actually an overwhelming response to people saying it's a 254 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 4: great idea. I've got a question for you, though, and 255 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 4: the question is this, this is an ignorant standpoint, But 256 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 4: on Friday when you were depressed, when you woke up, 257 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 4: where were you, like, Adam, if you were doing the 258 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 4: check in on Friday morning, where we're Because to my experience, 259 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 4: you seemed to have it hit you suddenly. Breakfast with 260 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 4: you that morning and it seemed very normal. Yeah, and 261 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 4: all of a sudden that changed. So my question is, yes, 262 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 4: what were you like when you woke up? What was 263 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 4: your out of ten rating when you woke up? 264 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, really good question. 265 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 3: I actually can't remember it, to be honest with last Friday, Like, 266 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 3: I don't even know what I had breakfast. I didn't 267 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 3: know we had breakfast, but ouch, that's but I don't 268 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: know if it would have been obviously depressed. I don't 269 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 3: know if it would have been. But what I do 270 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 3: find very often is that you don't realize until you 271 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 3: actually check in with yourself and have a look at 272 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 3: what's actually going on. Okay, it's more often than on 273 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 3: that you breeze through it. Sometimes you wake up and 274 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 3: you're like, I'm definitely depressed, I'm definitely anxious today. And 275 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 3: you know, but the other feature I thought that might 276 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 3: be interesting to check in with her is you can 277 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 3: set an alarm for the check in at different times 278 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 3: of the day. 279 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a recheck in. That's right. 280 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 3: So maybe you have your alarm you're checking alarm that 281 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 3: goes off at nine o'clock, have a check in alarm 282 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 3: that goes off at eleven o'clock and then you can 283 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 3: check in again. You go, oh, actually, maybe my mood 284 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 3: has changed quite a lot. I need to tell people anyway, 285 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 3: loads of calls coming in thirty one or six five. 286 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 3: I'm still just want a little bit of a sounding board. 287 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: Anybody who is suffering a mental illness or work or 288 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: has a family member for something who's got a mental illness, 289 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 3: would this actually help you if you're new to this conversation. 290 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 3: I've had an idea to try and think about a 291 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 3: mental health app which can help people tell other people 292 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 3: that they're suffering a mental illness or going through a 293 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 3: mental health issue without actually having or having to initiate 294 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 3: the conversation, which given that I was depressed on Friday. 295 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 2: I'd forgotten. It had been so long since I've been depressed. 296 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 3: I've just forgotten how that was like climbing a mountain 297 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 3: telling someone what you're going through. So it's just an 298 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 3: app on your phone, which checks in with you at 299 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 3: the start of the day. You tell the app how 300 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 3: you're feeling, and then essentially you can choose via the 301 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 3: app who you would like to tell. So let's say 302 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 3: it's just your boss. He gets a notification. It just says, 303 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 3: this is how I'm feeling today, just so you know, 304 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 3: here are the instructions that I would appreciate. 305 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 4: It's great, Souff. You've got Alaza here, Eliza, what are 306 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 4: your thoughts on this? 307 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 5: Hey? Days, how are you? 308 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 3: We're good? We're good. 309 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: So I suffered from really bad anxiety and it's really 310 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,559 Speaker 1: really hard trying to text my boss everyday morning if 311 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm not feeling well. 312 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 5: I think, you know, it'd be a really great idea 313 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 5: to have an app that I could get any intro 314 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 5: without having to actually type anything. 315 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 2: Great, brilliant, Eliza, that's so good to hear. Thanks so 316 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 2: much for the call, mate. I really appreciate. We've got 317 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 2: Brook here. 318 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 3: There are loads coming through on thirty one and sixty five, 319 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 3: and I know as well Instagram and Facebook will and 320 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 3: what do you Brook? 321 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? 322 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's a great idea. So my friend 323 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 5: and I at work they essentially, well, we essentially send 324 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 5: each other emojis if we're having bad dates. So there's 325 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 5: a certain emoji we'll send to each other. And if 326 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 5: she sends that to me in the morning, I know 327 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 5: that she's having a bad date. That'st This app would 328 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 5: be really good to be a little bit more structured. Yeah, yeah, 329 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 5: so that do you know she struggles to tell like 330 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 5: our manager, who just she thinks doesn't get. 331 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 2: It, does great. 332 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 5: Is it's something that we could like, you know, pass 333 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 5: through our team or something that at least with no okay, 334 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 5: she's yeah in that space. 335 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, Brook, I was actually thinking. I was actually thinking 336 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 3: on the app. What you could do is you could 337 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: group the contacts in your phone as well, So you 338 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 3: might like group like you know, work for and they 339 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 3: might be three three people at work that you want 340 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 3: to tell. There might be close family, there might be 341 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 3: you know, even just a couple of members of your family. 342 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 3: And again you can choose, Hey, you can choose to 343 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 3: send them. Guys, can you please ask me about this 344 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 3: today or guys, I don't feel like talking about this, 345 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 3: but just so you know, so. 346 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 2: I feel a bit more comfortable. 347 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 3: Cool, all right, Brook, I'm so happy, Like as well. 348 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 3: Thank you to everybody who's called up with that amazing stuff. 349 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 3: Didn't expect that response. But Woods, let's float it on 350 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: the market. 351 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 4: I've already floated it, mate, there's a number of invested 352 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 4: I've spoken to Mark Boris, I've texted Boris Boris is 353 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 4: in a million. 354 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 2: He's in for a million. No, no, no, that's actually 355 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 2: not the case at all. 356 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 3: The reality is that I actually do want to make 357 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 3: this and I have no way of making it. 358 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: We have no way of making it. 359 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 3: And if you know how to make apps and you're 360 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 3: interested in making this, maybe just DMS, Instagram and Facebook, 361 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 3: Will and Woody. Have you got some skills there? You 362 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 3: know someone who's got some skills. I was thinking like, 363 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 3: even if you're someone that goes through this, if you're 364 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 3: a kid that's learning coding or something like that, and 365 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 3: you reckon you could make this, then please hit us 366 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 3: up Instagram, Facebook, Will and Woody, or if you're at 367 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 3: the top end, if you know how to do it 368 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 3: and you reckon, you can nail it. Love to hear 369 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 3: from you, because I think we've got a judging by 370 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 3: the responses, now got a real chance to actually help 371 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 3: some people out in terms of you know, just navigating 372 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 3: that absolute quagmire that is your mental illness. 373 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 2: So agreed. Hit us up, We're gonna get out of here. Hello, Boris, 374 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 2: see what you're hearing. 375 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 5: Find us on Instagram and Facebook search Will and Woody