WEBVTT - Introducing...Bec Syed!

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr

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<v Speaker 1>the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before

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<v Speaker 1>we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land

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<v Speaker 1>of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,

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<v Speaker 1>acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming

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<v Speaker 1>through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing

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<v Speaker 1>and the storytelling of you to make a difference for

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<v Speaker 1>today and lasting impact for tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get into it.

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<v Speaker 3>She's on the Money, She's on the Money.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast

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<v Speaker 4>for millennials who want financial freedom. Today is Friday, which

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<v Speaker 4>means it is time to get the team together and

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<v Speaker 4>celebrate you our incredible She's on the Money community. And

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<v Speaker 4>before we get there, we're just letting you know one,

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<v Speaker 4>welcome to twenty twenty three whew. But two, we're shaking

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<v Speaker 4>up the format of our Friday episodes to make them

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<v Speaker 4>more engaging and wait wait, more juicier. So today, not

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<v Speaker 4>only will we be sharing our favorite money wins, which

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<v Speaker 4>just does as always we were never going to cut

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<v Speaker 4>that part out. We'll be helping to answer a juicy

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<v Speaker 4>money question, which this week is all about superannuation, but

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<v Speaker 4>we are also going to unpack a spicy money dilemma

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<v Speaker 4>one of our community members has had recently about sharing

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<v Speaker 4>money and sharing an emergency fund with her partner.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll get to all of that.

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<v Speaker 4>But before we get there, miss jessic RICI, welcome back.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so excited that we're here doing more pods.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, happy news here everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>My gosh, she knew. Who's that? Who's that? Who were

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<v Speaker 4>we you? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I just I snuck in here.

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<v Speaker 6>My name is Beck, sired and I believe I am

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<v Speaker 6>joining your team this year.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>She made it obvious before. She hasn't signed anything, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh, it's probably good for both of us, sir,

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<v Speaker 4>so not bad, not bad.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is a decider this episode right here.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. If Jess doesn't agree, we'll have to talk after

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<v Speaker 4>the show. So perform. Well, Beck, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you so much. It's really nice to be here

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<v Speaker 6>with you both.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh. Beck. Obviously the community knows Jess because

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<v Speaker 4>Jesse is our dy money queen. Also, they know me,

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<v Speaker 4>but they don't know you. Can you do like a

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<v Speaker 4>little introduction, like we're going around in circles and you're

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<v Speaker 4>put on the spot and have to be like, oh, hi,

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<v Speaker 4>my name's Beck, and these are my hobbies and these

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<v Speaker 4>are my interests and this is what I do for work,

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<v Speaker 4>Like ready, set go, okay, wow, pressures on.

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<v Speaker 6>This is the you know when you start like a

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<v Speaker 6>new job or something, and they ask you these Honest,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not prepared and I but I was going to

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<v Speaker 6>say that I really really hate these kind of questions.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why we're asking you, not vice versa. That's why

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<v Speaker 4>volunteer Jess or I to answer first. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>do a surprise one on both of you. Are okay,

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<v Speaker 4>but no, just kidding, I won't.

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<v Speaker 2>But my name's Beck.

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<v Speaker 6>Of course, as you guys know, and hopefully everyone listening

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<v Speaker 6>now knows, I've worked.

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<v Speaker 2>With you guys, but behind the scenes about.

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<v Speaker 4>It about a year I could say, Yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 4>like Beck has big beck energy, we need be on

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<v Speaker 4>the pod.

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<v Speaker 2>B BB just kind of crept up on me. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really really stoked about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I'm so excited that you love these.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 6>I've done a little bit basically, you know, to give

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<v Speaker 6>everyone context, I've not done anything in the radio world before,

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<v Speaker 6>but I've worked basically, I've worked in radio, just not

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<v Speaker 6>kind of behind the mic, and I've recorded demos with

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<v Speaker 6>you guys before and all this kind of stuff, So

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<v Speaker 6>I guess it kind of it makes sense on paper

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<v Speaker 6>that you get to go here, that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here now, Well, it's just because.

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<v Speaker 4>You're nice, Like you weren't picked because you worked in radio.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean when we met, because you worked in radio.

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<v Speaker 4>But then we're like, that's SOMEVB, that's BBA.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on the pod.

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<v Speaker 4>What about your money knowledge? Are you a financial advisor?

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<v Speaker 4>You mortgage broker? Did you go do maths at university?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Where are we at?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, I don't think you're gonna like this, But

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<v Speaker 6>I have no idea what I'm doing financially right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I have minus seventeen dollars in my bank account and

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<v Speaker 6>I have previously been bankrupt, so I guess I'm starting

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<v Speaker 6>from scratch.

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<v Speaker 4>I love this. When Jess joined that she's on the

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<v Speaker 4>money team, she was doing very well on her own,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm not saying that the circumstances are the same,

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<v Speaker 4>but I feel like Jess joined him, Like Victoria, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know about being on the podcast. I have no idea,

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<v Speaker 4>And now I basically am redundant on a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>the podcast because Jess could run it for me, because

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<v Speaker 4>she's basically smarter than me. Now done, I would because

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes just would be like, oh, hey, they just want

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<v Speaker 4>to run this past you because we're doing something for work,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'll be like, yeah, that's actually much better than

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<v Speaker 4>what I could have produced. So I'll just see myself

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<v Speaker 4>at Wow. I have high hopes. But also I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>so excited to have you on the team, not only

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<v Speaker 4>because I know the community is going to love you,

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<v Speaker 4>not only because you don't have a lot of financial

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<v Speaker 4>knowledge yet, but because I'm just putting myself in the

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<v Speaker 4>control seat here. I get to be on this journey

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<v Speaker 4>with you, or we all get to be on this

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<v Speaker 4>journey with you of educating you and getting your budget

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<v Speaker 4>up to scratch and like talking about investing and savings

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<v Speaker 4>and Beck we just recorded in an episode that's going

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<v Speaker 4>to drop next week about lipstick index and recession, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think the thing that I loved about your involvement

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<v Speaker 4>in that episode, was you just being like, what's a recession? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just I don't know where I'm at. And as

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<v Speaker 4>much as a lot of our shees on the money

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<v Speaker 4>community has been with us for three years and would go, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I know what that is. Our community is always growing

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<v Speaker 4>and always evolving and there are going to be so

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<v Speaker 4>many people that are exactly in the same position as

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<v Speaker 4>you that maybe reset a goal for twenty twenty three

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<v Speaker 4>to absorb more money. Content would have been thinking that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like your job, my friend big Boots,

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<v Speaker 4>to feel you're the voice of the community. Ah okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I hope that you do them justice. I hope so, sir,

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<v Speaker 4>But I know you will because I'm so excited to

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<v Speaker 4>have you on the team, and I know Jesse's as well. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>but Jess g Ricci is your time to shine. We

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<v Speaker 4>were speaking about the community and Jess spends a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of time in the community and solving all their money

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<v Speaker 4>wins and confessions and chatting to them basically every single day. So, Jess,

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<v Speaker 4>I want a quick whip around, what are your favorite

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<v Speaker 4>money wins and confessions that you've dragged out of our

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<v Speaker 4>community from this week?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, first one comes from our friend Lindsey, and

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like this is a very timely reminder. At

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<v Speaker 5>the start of the yar, she says, I finally bit

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<v Speaker 5>the bullet and reviewed my insurance with the staff discounts

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<v Speaker 5>I get moving my insurance to where I work. I've

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<v Speaker 5>saved almost one hundred and sixty dollars a month across

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<v Speaker 5>our two cars and contents insurance. Is that time of

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<v Speaker 5>year everyone's renewing, They're coming around. They've probably jacked the

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<v Speaker 5>prices up. They always do, they always do. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>was about to say, isn't that what happened to you?

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<v Speaker 5>And you called them and you just got a discount

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<v Speaker 5>immediately exactly. And if you need help, there's a script

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<v Speaker 5>on our website if you're a little don't like being

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<v Speaker 5>on the phone, can relate, read it word for word

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<v Speaker 5>and hopefully they'll knock it back down for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I was talking about this on TikTok the other day

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<v Speaker 4>because someone said as like a question on one of

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<v Speaker 4>my videos, like, oh, well, how do I deal with this?

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<v Speaker 4>And I think a lot of the time the responses are, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>just like have big dog energy and just tell them no,

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<v Speaker 4>Like if you've got to like negotiate something or change something.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not like that, like, yeah, exactly. If I have

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<v Speaker 4>a big conversation to have, or a conversation that I

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<v Speaker 4>believe is going to be big for me, I actually

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<v Speaker 4>want a little bit of like a script to follow,

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<v Speaker 4>Like if I'm asking for a discount for my insurance

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<v Speaker 4>or something, I don't just want to go into it

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<v Speaker 4>completely blind and go, oh, well, I just called an

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<v Speaker 4>asked for a discount, Like I'm not that girl. I

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<v Speaker 4>need the script to be like, hey, I just want

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<v Speaker 4>to chat about this, like I do know it can

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<v Speaker 4>be really simple, but just having that in front of

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<v Speaker 4>you while you make the call can make you feel

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<v Speaker 4>so much more empowered, which is why we wrote it,

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<v Speaker 4>jess And it just puts you back in the control seat.

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<v Speaker 4>So don't feel bad if you don't have the big

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<v Speaker 4>dog energy that everybody else on TikTok seems to have

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<v Speaker 4>where they just negotiate off the bat like not everyone

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<v Speaker 4>is like that, no all, and definitely check to see

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<v Speaker 4>if your premiums went up. Kids next win comes from

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<v Speaker 4>Jessica great Name, who said I just applied for the

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<v Speaker 4>new South Wales Creative Kids and Active Kids vouchers. Now

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<v Speaker 4>I have another child enrolled in school. It's one hundred

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<v Speaker 4>dollars voucher that you each get, so four hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 4>in total for two kids that can go towards dance fees.

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<v Speaker 4>Dances expensive, So that's a massive win. What I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>even know that existed. Do you know if there's something

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<v Speaker 4>like in Victoria or in other states that is similar.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know off the top of my head, but

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<v Speaker 5>I would say to people definitely check your local government

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<v Speaker 5>website because I know that there were things like this

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<v Speaker 5>when I was a kid. They're trying to encourage active

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<v Speaker 5>living and you know, kids getting out and doing fun things,

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<v Speaker 5>which can be super expensive. So have a look at

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<v Speaker 5>your local state website. And if you're in New South Wales,

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<v Speaker 5>I would be applying that is.

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<v Speaker 4>If you've got kids getting on that that sounds a

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<v Speaker 4>lot like free money to me, and I love.

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<v Speaker 2>Free love, free money.

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<v Speaker 5>All next win comes from Lazar, who said I made

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<v Speaker 5>a resolution to put twenty four hours between my non

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<v Speaker 5>essential purchases, put two outfits in my basket, waited until

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<v Speaker 5>the next day, and was rewarded with a twenty percent

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<v Speaker 5>off sale money.

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<v Speaker 4>When I feel like that often happens. The other thing

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<v Speaker 4>that I think happens sometimes is like retail is quite smart, right,

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<v Speaker 4>so they can see that you put those things in

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<v Speaker 4>your bas yes, right, and then they're like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 4>like Beck didn't check out. I wonder what it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we need to send you a little carrot to

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<v Speaker 4>get her to check out. And then they send you

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<v Speaker 4>like ten or twenty percent off because they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>did you forget your basket? His little carrot to get

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<v Speaker 4>you to go through with the sale works every time, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>So definitely, leaving twenty four hours between you and making

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<v Speaker 4>an online purchase not bad. Double that up with your

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<v Speaker 4>shop back, and we're just basically now making money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>Next one I have for you comes from Rhiannon, who says,

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<v Speaker 5>I made my husband call out bank to see if

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<v Speaker 5>they could do better with our interest rate on our

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<v Speaker 5>mortgage and they got it down over one percent. Thank

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<v Speaker 5>you Kate from Zeala money for the tip.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh was that actually? Oh? I love that. That's Kate

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<v Speaker 4>from our team. And do you know what getting your

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<v Speaker 4>mortgage down one percent in this current economic environment, that's

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<v Speaker 4>big dog.

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<v Speaker 5>Energy, Big dog energy.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I need to stop s big dog energy,

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<v Speaker 4>but like, that's the energy I chose to take into

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<v Speaker 4>twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, else, who do you explain it?

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<v Speaker 4>B b E b B BECK energy, Like that's what

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<v Speaker 4>we want to embrace.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my very last win for this week definitely embraces

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<v Speaker 5>the bd bb E energy. It comes from Peter And

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<v Speaker 5>she said, my first year debt free since domestic violence.

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<v Speaker 5>I have over two hundred dollars a week in my

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<v Speaker 5>pocket now, And I just wanted to say, Peter, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>so proud and so excited for you. That is freaking incredible, amazing,

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<v Speaker 5>What a good way to start the r p B

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<v Speaker 4>That is actually such a wholesome way to end the

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<v Speaker 4>community money wins. As always, I have loved hearing them,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think in addition to bb we're going to

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<v Speaker 4>add WWJD. And like I think a lot of people

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<v Speaker 4>are like, oh, what would Jesus do? No, no enough,

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<v Speaker 4>what would just would just do? And I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>that's a good way to live your life. In twenty

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<v Speaker 4>twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>I ask myself that every single time I'm going.

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<v Speaker 4>To get a bracelets made like everybody is really on

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<v Speaker 4>top of this. All right, let's go to a quick

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<v Speaker 4>break and after the break, we're going to be answering

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<v Speaker 4>your juicy money question about stuperrenuation, and we're also going

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<v Speaker 4>to be talking about hiding your savings from your partner.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't go anywhere.

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome back to our shining New Friday with our shining

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<v Speaker 5>new team member. I hope you guys are enjoying bb

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<v Speaker 5>BB for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm loving this.

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<v Speaker 1>On me.

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<v Speaker 4>I love this guys.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we have a really fun money dilemma to

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<v Speaker 5>answer today. Should we take a listen?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Please go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi there. Have you got a money dilemma you just

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<v Speaker 4>listen to this week's money dilemma.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey you v and happy near to the She's on

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<v Speaker 7>the Money fanbam.

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<v Speaker 5>I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 7>This is the most amazing community.

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<v Speaker 2>My name's loan.

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<v Speaker 7>I recently scored a great opportunity at my work, which

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<v Speaker 7>equals to more money and some commission. I'm super excited,

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<v Speaker 7>but it got me thinking. Up until now, all of

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<v Speaker 7>my super has been going into a retail worker like

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<v Speaker 7>specific super fun. But now I'm not working in retail anymore.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm making more money. I'm wondering if this is the

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<v Speaker 7>best option for me. So my money dilemma is where

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<v Speaker 7>do I go to find good super advice because I'm

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<v Speaker 7>super confused. Is this something a financial adviser would be

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<v Speaker 7>able to help me with? Or where do I go?

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you so much for helping me out.

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<v Speaker 5>They loved the little pun she slipped on a mess.

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<v Speaker 5>I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, I love you guys. I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 4>love you do Lauren? I really sweet? Also, how good

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<v Speaker 4>is it she got a new job and now she

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<v Speaker 4>gets commissions. I have so much to say about budgeting

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<v Speaker 4>and like living on your base salary and then using

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<v Speaker 4>your commissions to save and invest and create financial freedom.

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<v Speaker 4>But that wasn't actually what the question was about, yess So, Jess,

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<v Speaker 4>as I said before, Beck, basically a finance wizard. Where

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<v Speaker 4>would you start, jess Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like, she's definitely right in the looking at

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<v Speaker 5>the different super options out there is a way to start,

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<v Speaker 5>because I was the same I started in retail. I

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<v Speaker 5>remember when you reviewed my super V you were like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>who are you with? And I was like blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 5>and you were like and I was like what, And

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<v Speaker 5>You're like, they're not good?

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<v Speaker 4>But also they weren't good. It's not to say that

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<v Speaker 4>all fun but I think.

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<v Speaker 5>A lot of the time potentially they're just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>going one size fits all, right, And you have thousands,

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<v Speaker 5>arguably of employees working across the country for a retail company.

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<v Speaker 5>If you're picking one super fun for all of them,

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<v Speaker 5>very good chance that it's not going to work for everyone.

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<v Speaker 5>So I guess the place to type would be the Google.

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<v Speaker 5>The Google yaht Google seems like a good before I respect,

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<v Speaker 5>What would you do?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you do about your super funny?

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<v Speaker 2>You ask V?

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<v Speaker 6>Because I actually used to work in super You did

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<v Speaker 6>not disclose that in your interview.

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<v Speaker 4>I know when we said earlier on the podcast, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>what do you ring to the table? You financial adviser,

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<v Speaker 4>You're like, nah, I was broke, and we were like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>no worries. Thanks for sharing. Now, Now, Jess, she's like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>actually I used to work in super anyway.

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<v Speaker 6>Financial advisor. No, I was scared I would be too

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<v Speaker 6>qualified for this position. Oh I didn't mention it, but no,

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<v Speaker 6>I used to work in super and I kind of realized,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if everyone else has this as well,

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<v Speaker 6>but i'd like seven different super accounts a really common

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<v Speaker 6>really and so like I really didn't know who to

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<v Speaker 6>go for. But yeah, I just googled it and it

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<v Speaker 6>was like, you know, you know, you get the I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know what's it can Star or something. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I just like went to the number one. I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>even check anything. I just thought, that's the number one

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<v Speaker 6>super company. I'm going to go with that one.

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<v Speaker 5>And so that essays don't do that.

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<v Speaker 4>That is actually exactly what we're not going to do.

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<v Speaker 4>So we're not going to do that. And I'll give

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<v Speaker 4>you a reason why because I think in your situation,

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<v Speaker 4>and that makes so much sense, right because cancer that's reputable.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>They give other companies like awards and stuff for being

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<v Speaker 4>the best super company, and I would think that that's

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<v Speaker 4>really good. The thing you want to be aware of

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm not saying that can Star is bad. Finder

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<v Speaker 4>is the same, though. The thing that I would want

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<v Speaker 4>you to know about that is they are actually basically

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<v Speaker 4>an advertising company. So obviously they do lots of other things,

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<v Speaker 4>but superannuation companies pay them to appear on the tops

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<v Speaker 4>of their charts or be in their articles or yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>So from my perspective, yeah, there might be a fine

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<v Speaker 4>super company because legitimate super companies they do advertise to

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<v Speaker 4>get more clients like you, Beck. But what you probably

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<v Speaker 4>didn't realize is that that quote best super company came

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<v Speaker 4>up because they were very likely paying for that ad space,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's what got you. That doesn't necessarily mean that

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<v Speaker 4>you're in the best position. So I would also go

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<v Speaker 4>back to what Jess said and use the Google. But

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<v Speaker 4>what I would be using when it comes to the

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<v Speaker 4>Google is I would google ATO your super comparison And

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<v Speaker 4>the reason I would google that is because the ATO

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<v Speaker 4>last year, the start of twenty twenty two, released your

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<v Speaker 4>super Comparison tool, and that takes all of the work

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<v Speaker 4>out of it in terms of is this advertised, is

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<v Speaker 4>this a paid partnership? You know? All of that stuff

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<v Speaker 4>is really hard to see through. This is actually a

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<v Speaker 4>government run website that is going to just enable you

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<v Speaker 4>to compare apples with apples. When you compare on a

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<v Speaker 4>platform like Cansterer or Finder, you're not usually comparing apples

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<v Speaker 4>with apples. You're comparing the features and benefits that company

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<v Speaker 4>wants to showcase with the features and benefits of a

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<v Speaker 4>maybe less superior company. That you go, ah, well, you're right,

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<v Speaker 4>that one is much better, and you feel good about

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<v Speaker 4>your decision. But it's actually just advertising. So the ATO

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<v Speaker 4>website has it. It is free. And the thing I

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<v Speaker 4>would do before that, though, is because you mentioned, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in a retail super fund, that doesn't necessarily mean

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<v Speaker 4>that that retail super fund is bad like you might

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<v Speaker 4>be with like host plus or rest or something like that,

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<v Speaker 4>and they are legitimate super companies. The first thing I

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<v Speaker 4>would actually do is log into my mygove portal and

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<v Speaker 4>actually have a look at what super funds I have, because,

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<v Speaker 4>just like you, Beck, you might have seven accounts that

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<v Speaker 4>you didn't know about. Because if you jump around from

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<v Speaker 4>casual employment to casual employment, especially when you're a bit younger,

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<v Speaker 4>often you starting a super fund. Yeah, tick the box,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I can't One time I ended up

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<v Speaker 4>with a new superfund because I literally couldn't be bothered

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<v Speaker 4>going and finding my old super fund.

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<v Speaker 5>The information yeah right, I could does matter.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't matter. I don't have any money like that

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<v Speaker 4>was the mentality that I had. And that's not okay,

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<v Speaker 4>we don't do that. That is not BB scrapping it.

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<v Speaker 4>That is not what Jess would do these days. So

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<v Speaker 4>we are going to compare it. If you have a

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<v Speaker 4>number of super funds, I would be having a look

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<v Speaker 4>at all of them, making sure that there aren't any

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<v Speaker 4>important insurances in them, because if you are leaving a

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<v Speaker 4>superannuation fund that has default insurances, that can actually be

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<v Speaker 4>a negative thing. And it's a negative thing because sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>our default insurances are actually really powerful. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>use Jess as an example here because Jess, you are

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<v Speaker 4>very active, way more active than I would ever be.

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<v Speaker 4>You play frisbee, right, So say you've got a default

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<v Speaker 4>insurance inside superannuation, but you did your ACL playing fuz

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<v Speaker 4>be really common.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually yeah that like I know like six different people

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<v Speaker 5>who have done it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh ill, But say you did your ACL like one

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<v Speaker 4>of your friends, and you went to another insurer and

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<v Speaker 4>you were like, okay, cool, like, Hey, brand new super fund,

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<v Speaker 4>I need some insurance. I now need to apply because

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<v Speaker 4>default insurance isn't that common these days, but it was

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<v Speaker 4>ten years ago when you got that super fund. I

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<v Speaker 4>want to apply and they go, no worries, Jess, what

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<v Speaker 4>previous health conditions If you had and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really healthy. I just did an ACL one time,

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<v Speaker 4>They're like, okay, cool, no worries, Jess, We're just not

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<v Speaker 4>going to cover you for your ACL. So that means

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<v Speaker 4>that if ever you have to take time off work

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<v Speaker 4>or go through an incident, if it's ever related to

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<v Speaker 4>your ACL, they will not give you an insurance payout.

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<v Speaker 4>And that can actually be really negative. And that's why

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<v Speaker 4>default insurance could be really good, especially in the example

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<v Speaker 4>of Jess, where you might go, oh, I've done my ACL.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I'll have a look at the other insurances see

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<v Speaker 4>if I can change without any you know, negative impact.

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<v Speaker 4>But if I can't, maybe I keep that insurance to

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<v Speaker 4>make sure. You know, if I do the other ACL,

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<v Speaker 4>or I do something that's related to that part of

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<v Speaker 4>my body, I'm not upshit Creek without a battle. Does

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<v Speaker 4>that make sense? Yeah, So you need to take that

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<v Speaker 4>into consideration. And the next thing I do is I

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<v Speaker 4>actually step back and go what are my values? What

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<v Speaker 4>are my thoughts? What do I actually want to achieve?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 4>Like superannuation these days is so customizable, Like you could

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<v Speaker 4>go and investing a superfund that only has crude oil.

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<v Speaker 4>Not that sexy if you're in cheese on the money

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<v Speaker 4>because you probably have similar aligned values to us. But

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<v Speaker 4>have a think about what type of asset classes? Do

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<v Speaker 4>you want an ethical fund that's completely possible, do you

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<v Speaker 4>want you know, really well diversified asset classes. Do you

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<v Speaker 4>want access to bonds? Do you actually want to have

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<v Speaker 4>more say or do you just want a really good

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<v Speaker 4>cookie cut of fund that's going to work for you

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<v Speaker 4>in this moment for your risk profile and your age

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<v Speaker 4>and what you earn. So you really need to think

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<v Speaker 4>about that. And then that's when I go to your

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<v Speaker 4>super comparison tool and start looking, well, where are your

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<v Speaker 4>funds that you're already in performing, because maybe it's a

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<v Speaker 4>good fund for you, but the thing you need to

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<v Speaker 4>change is your risk profile on that fund. So maybe

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<v Speaker 4>instead of being imbalanced, you've done your risk profile and

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<v Speaker 4>you're actually a high growth investor, so you might stay

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<v Speaker 4>with that fund, but just change your profile, in which

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<v Speaker 4>case that's a good outcome too, and you've reviewed your

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<v Speaker 4>super properly, or you might go, oh, that fund is

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<v Speaker 4>not good. In fact, I've been ignoring those letters that

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<v Speaker 4>they're fincening me saying they're closing because they're that bad

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<v Speaker 4>and you need to find a new one, in which

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<v Speaker 4>case we're not just finding a new super fund, we're

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<v Speaker 4>also looking at our risk profile and going if I'm

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<v Speaker 4>moving to, for example, Australian super which one of their

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<v Speaker 4>seven risk profiles am I going to fall into? You

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<v Speaker 4>need to actually spend the time looking at that because

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<v Speaker 4>they all perform differently. A balanced super fund is going

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<v Speaker 4>to have a very different performance to a conservative super

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<v Speaker 4>fund and a high growth super fund. So there's a

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<v Speaker 4>lot to take into consideration. Just because you were in

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<v Speaker 4>a retail fund doesn't mean you shouldn't stay there. But

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<v Speaker 4>what we're going to do is our research, and if

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to do our research, we're not going to

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<v Speaker 4>be swayed by advertising. Does that wrap it up, Jess?

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<v Speaker 5>I think so. I think I know what Beck's going

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<v Speaker 5>to do tonight.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, from her face, that's not what she's going to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Tonight, I'm going to have been seven super funds.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I really want to get into the spicy stuff

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<v Speaker 5>because we said we're making the episode even more community

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<v Speaker 5>centric this year, which I am pumped for, and that

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<v Speaker 5>means we want to kind of bring some of the

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<v Speaker 5>conversations that we're having in our dms to life on

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<v Speaker 5>the pod for people to kind of weigh in because

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<v Speaker 5>they need more better, right, No, more.

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<v Speaker 4>Opinions is more better?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Vote just GRICI twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 5>Put that on a mug and drink out of it.

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<v Speaker 5>But this week we have a really interesting dilemma. Do

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<v Speaker 5>you want me to read it out so everyone we're

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<v Speaker 5>talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>Course, we obviously screenshot it and put it on our

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<v Speaker 4>stories obviously deidentified, so we could get your opinions as well.

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<v Speaker 4>But Beck, you haven't heard this yet, So jess what

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<v Speaker 4>have we got?

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<v Speaker 5>All right? Our community member says, HEYV I have a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit of a sticky situation. My partner and I

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<v Speaker 5>have a joint account and share majority of our finances. Lately,

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<v Speaker 5>I've started to feel a bit guilty because my boyfriend's

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<v Speaker 5>and something to me about not having any other savings

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<v Speaker 5>outside of our joint savings. Of course I have an

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<v Speaker 5>emergency fund, and while I haven't necessarily been hiding it,

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<v Speaker 5>I also haven't been forthcoming and mentioned it to him.

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<v Speaker 5>I have just under fifteen K in my personal emergency fund.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think I should be sharing this with him?

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<v Speaker 5>Or should I be keeping it for a rainy day? Advice?

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<v Speaker 5>Appreciate it?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you reckon she means when she says sharing

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<v Speaker 4>it with him? Does she mean like sharing the money

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<v Speaker 4>or sharing the fact she has it?

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<v Speaker 5>I think reading that, I'm reading it as she hasn't

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<v Speaker 5>told him that she has that money stashed away, so

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<v Speaker 5>he doesn't know it exists. That's how I'm interpreting the

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<v Speaker 5>message anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's a tricky, oh splicy, But also I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's great. Like I mean, if she's feeling like it's

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit deceptive, I think maybe just in PARSI

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<v Speaker 4>being like, oh, yeah, like I do have an emergency fund,

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<v Speaker 4>and then maybe suggesting that he gets one as well,

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<v Speaker 4>because it's really important to have individual financial freedom, regardless

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<v Speaker 4>of whether you have shared finances. Maybe that's how I

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<v Speaker 4>deal with it. If an emergency fund is so ingrained

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<v Speaker 4>in the way that you've been doing budget and cash flow.

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<v Speaker 4>Then you know, maybe it just didn't come up because

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<v Speaker 4>it actually wasn't a joint asset. It wasn't a part

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<v Speaker 4>of the joint decision making. Like you know, if you're

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<v Speaker 4>saving for a house, like you're not going to use

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<v Speaker 4>your emergency fund to go towards the house. So maybe

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<v Speaker 4>it's not a valid conversation to have, and that's why

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<v Speaker 4>it diing come up. I don't think she's being sneaky.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think if she has any reservations, if she's a

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<v Speaker 6>little bit stressed, or she wants that there for whatever

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<v Speaker 6>reason she feels like just in case it goes bad

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<v Speaker 6>or whatever, and she kind of wants to keep it

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<v Speaker 6>a secret.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep it a secret. I don't think that's sneaky at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think that's bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's bad.

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<v Speaker 4>If you had fifteen grand in a savings account that

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<v Speaker 4>was like away for a rainy day, would you tell

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<v Speaker 4>a future partner about it?

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<v Speaker 6>If I had fifteen k saved and a long term partner,

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't feel obliged to tell them because I don't

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<v Speaker 6>think it's absolutely necessary essential to tell your partner because

0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:01.640
<v Speaker 6>it is it really is your money. We can keep

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<v Speaker 6>things separate, you know what I mean. I don't think

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<v Speaker 6>that she needs to say anything. I don't think it's sneaky.

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's actually very clever and it's very safe,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'll probably keep it that way to be honest,

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<v Speaker 6>just in case you just don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you never know what's going to happen. Jess, what

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<v Speaker 4>would you do?

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<v Speaker 5>I think, like, I'm very pro sharing that you have it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm also very pro keeping it entirely individual. As you said,

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<v Speaker 5>I think everybody should have access to money that only

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:31.320
<v Speaker 5>they can touch, and I think she should keep it

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<v Speaker 5>that way. I guess to kind of play Devil's advocate.

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<v Speaker 5>If you're in a partnership and you are planning your finances,

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<v Speaker 5>and she said that she's sharing a lot of finances

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<v Speaker 5>with her partner, I guess when you're doing, say your

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<v Speaker 5>budget for the art, if you're saving for a house.

0:24:42.920 --> 0:24:46.400
<v Speaker 5>If we're using that example, you would kind of be going, okay, well,

0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 5>where are you contributing your money? In my mind, to

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:50.800
<v Speaker 5>be able to set that up properly, you kind of

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<v Speaker 5>have to go okay, well, I ESSM trying to put

0:24:53.280 --> 0:24:57.080
<v Speaker 5>fifteen thousand in an emergency fund. My partner, you've already

0:24:57.119 --> 0:24:59.400
<v Speaker 5>got fifteen thousand, so you don't need to be allocating

0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:02.160
<v Speaker 5>any more money there. You potentially can be contributing more

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<v Speaker 5>to the house fund. Yes, I feel like knowing what's

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<v Speaker 5>going on with each other enables you to get a

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<v Speaker 5>better picture of how you can best reach your shared goals,

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<v Speaker 5>because they do have those. As I said, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>think he should have access to it by any structure

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<v Speaker 5>of the imagination. But I also think that if this

0:25:18.960 --> 0:25:22.520
<v Speaker 5>is your long term partner, I would be questioning, why

0:25:22.600 --> 0:25:24.479
<v Speaker 5>don't you want to share that with him? Is it

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<v Speaker 5>because you don't trust him or her? Is it because

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<v Speaker 5>you're feeling anxious because of something that you've seen that's

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<v Speaker 5>a part of your money story. Is that something you

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<v Speaker 5>need to work through? Because I don't think fundamentally there

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<v Speaker 5>is anything wrong with telling them that that's there. Are

0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:41.959
<v Speaker 5>you worried that they're going to feel entitled to that money?

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<v Speaker 5>If so, is that a bit of a red flag?

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<v Speaker 5>I do we need to be.

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's a bit bigger than should you should

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<v Speaker 5>you not tell them? It's why do you feel like

0:25:52.359 --> 0:25:53.919
<v Speaker 5>you should or shouldn't tell them?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>We put it out to our community earlier this week

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<v Speaker 4>to say, well, what would you guys say, and we

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 4>did actually have a few people say red flag. I

0:26:02.520 --> 0:26:05.440
<v Speaker 4>think that that's definitely a red flag. But I also

0:26:05.560 --> 0:26:08.240
<v Speaker 4>wasn't sure if it's a red flag that you're hiding

0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:10.760
<v Speaker 4>it or it's a red flag, do you know what

0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:13.320
<v Speaker 4>I mean? I think, in my circumstance, you should probably

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<v Speaker 4>be encouraging your partner to actually get one. And Jess,

0:26:15.640 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 4>your example before was really good where you're like, oh, well,

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:20.280
<v Speaker 4>if they already have their emergency fund, maybe they contribute

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 4>in a different way. But should they have dipped into

0:26:22.560 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 4>their emergency fund for something, then maybe the budget changes

0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:27.600
<v Speaker 4>a bit for them to top that back up until

0:26:27.600 --> 0:26:30.480
<v Speaker 4>we're back on track. But I do think your partner,

0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 4>actually the conversation's probably more around like, oh, hey, well

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:35.320
<v Speaker 4>I have an emergency fund, and I actually assumed you

0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 4>had one, and you probably should be working towards it. Jess,

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:40.959
<v Speaker 4>what was some call outs that you saw the community have.

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<v Speaker 5>I liked what one person said, which was, my emergency

0:26:44.800 --> 0:26:47.360
<v Speaker 5>fund isn't hidden, but my partner knows that he has

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<v Speaker 5>no claim to it, and that that money is solely

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<v Speaker 5>for my discretion, which I think shows that they've said

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:55.680
<v Speaker 5>really clear boundaries. You know, they've gone, yes I have it,

0:26:55.840 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 5>Yes you can know about it, but that's not for you.

0:26:59.240 --> 0:27:01.160
<v Speaker 5>That's mine. And so you need to have your own

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:03.240
<v Speaker 5>emergency fund for your own emergencies.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I agree. Someone else said I don't think it's

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 4>healthy in a healthy relationship to have separate money, and

0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:11.560
<v Speaker 4>I think that that's a hot take.

0:27:11.720 --> 0:27:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that is strong hot take.

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 4>And as somebody who I think I'm in a healthy relationship,

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:19.480
<v Speaker 4>just I think you're in a healthy relationship. Both of

0:27:19.560 --> 0:27:22.320
<v Speaker 4>us have our own emergency funds that our partners can't touch,

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 4>and I feel like that actually keeps it healthy. And yes,

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 4>you know, looking at this circumstance, you know you might

0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:31.800
<v Speaker 4>be a little bit apprehensive to tell your partner, but

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:35.240
<v Speaker 4>like should he not be supportive of you being financially free,

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:38.680
<v Speaker 4>Like should you not be like supporting each other in that,

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:41.160
<v Speaker 4>Like shouldn't you be wanting your partner to also have that.

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:44.560
<v Speaker 4>Steve knows about my emergency fund. He knows it exists

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:46.720
<v Speaker 4>because we've talked about it before. But you know what,

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:48.520
<v Speaker 4>now thinking about it, I don't think he knows how

0:27:48.600 --> 0:27:50.680
<v Speaker 4>much is in it. Yeah, he just knows I've got

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 4>it because I've always had it, well not always, but

0:27:53.320 --> 0:27:56.000
<v Speaker 4>I've always had it in the relationship that we've been in.

0:27:56.040 --> 0:27:58.080
<v Speaker 4>So he's kind of like, Yep, she has that, And

0:27:58.359 --> 0:27:59.719
<v Speaker 4>do you know what. I couldn't tell you what's in

0:27:59.760 --> 0:28:02.280
<v Speaker 4>his but I know he's got a fund that I

0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:02.920
<v Speaker 4>can't touch.

0:28:03.000 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 5>And does that give you a bit of comfort knowing that?

0:28:04.880 --> 0:28:05.800
<v Speaker 4>I think it's important.

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:07.840
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I feel it is.

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 6>You need to know that if anything happens in the

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:12.560
<v Speaker 6>relationship that both of you, yeah, are going to be okay.

0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:15.199
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely, not just you, not just them.

0:28:16.840 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 5>Interestingly, someone else said not everything needs to be shared

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 5>when it comes to money, and I was like, oh,

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 5>that's another hot take.

0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:25.240
<v Speaker 4>That's a good point. And I mean, you know, I

0:28:25.280 --> 0:28:27.600
<v Speaker 4>always use my relationship as an example because I don't

0:28:27.600 --> 0:28:29.119
<v Speaker 4>want to say that there's a right and wrong thing.

0:28:29.160 --> 0:28:32.080
<v Speaker 4>It's just how Steve and I've fallen out to do it.

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:35.680
<v Speaker 4>We do share our finances, I say, we share everything,

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 4>but also it's really controlled, so like we don't just

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:43.040
<v Speaker 4>have our pay automatically put into the one account. So

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 4>you know, if she'd hit the fan, we wouldn't be okay.

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.520
<v Speaker 4>Like every single month he goes in and transfers his

0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:52.520
<v Speaker 4>pay to the shared account, So if something happened, he

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:54.520
<v Speaker 4>could just stop doing that and it wouldn't go into

0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 4>our shared Does that make sense? Like yeah, and vice versa.

0:28:57.280 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 4>Like I obviously am my own business owner, and I

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:02.680
<v Speaker 4>don't have a PAYG salary, but like I pay myself

0:29:02.960 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 4>and I transfer the money into the account on a

0:29:05.840 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 4>monthly basis, so that we have joint funds. I think

0:29:09.280 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 4>at any point both of us have our own control

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:14.240
<v Speaker 4>over our incomes and where that might be going. So

0:29:14.280 --> 0:29:18.080
<v Speaker 4>if something happened, that would be okay. Just in your relationship,

0:29:18.160 --> 0:29:20.480
<v Speaker 4>you have shared money, but you definitely do it differently

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:20.720
<v Speaker 4>to me.

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:24.000
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we don't actually have a joint account. It's something

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 5>that I have been saying for eightes. Oh, we need

0:29:25.400 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 5>to set one up just for like groceries and stuff.

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 5>We just haven't gotten around to it. Like we split

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 5>most of our shared expenses fifty to fifty and annoyingly

0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:34.200
<v Speaker 5>right now, like I'll just be like, you owe me

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 5>two hundred dollars for transferred us So definitely not the best.

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 5>It would just be easier to have an account exactly right.

0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I think that like for us, that's what works,

0:29:42.360 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 5>and it is such a personal thing, like if you

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 5>want to keep it totally separate, keep it totally separate,

0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 5>but it Yeah, I think it's a bigger question about

0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:51.920
<v Speaker 5>where do you see the relationship going. How comfortable are

0:29:51.960 --> 0:29:54.560
<v Speaker 5>you talking? And if you're not company talking, maybe that's

0:29:54.560 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 5>a conversation to be had. So this one says you

0:29:56.960 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 5>don't have to tell him how much is there? Maybe

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:02.600
<v Speaker 5>just tell him you how of emergency cash money? I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like that's a happy medium, right, That is a

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<v Speaker 5>happy medium.

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<v Speaker 4>I really like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I like.

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<v Speaker 4>That, But I also think it plays into like how

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<v Speaker 4>your partner responds, Like not everything should be a test,

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<v Speaker 4>but I do think it would be interesting to see

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<v Speaker 4>how your partner responds to finding out that you have

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<v Speaker 4>an emergency fund and going, oh, yeah, like I've got

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<v Speaker 4>some cash stashed away for a rainy day if anything

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<v Speaker 4>should happen. I think you need to have it. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it would be supportive if they turn around and said,

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<v Speaker 4>oh great, no worries, like that's fine, but like a

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<v Speaker 4>massive red flag if they're like, how much, why isn't

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<v Speaker 4>it in our savings? What's going on, How does that work?

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you need it?

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you need that? Why do you think that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, why do you think you need a rainy

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<v Speaker 4>day fund? Like, I think that could be a really

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<v Speaker 4>big friend flag.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good way.

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<v Speaker 4>Not a test. It's not a test.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a good way to gauge, it's a gage.

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<v Speaker 4>I imagine if that happened in your relationship, where you

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<v Speaker 4>partner found out you had an emergency fund and they're like,

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<v Speaker 4>why why do you need that? You're like, this is why,

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<v Speaker 4>exactly why? Oh my gosh. I feel like these answers

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<v Speaker 4>having pretty spicy, a lot of people saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>there's nothing wrong with having it, let's just be open

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<v Speaker 4>and honest, all the way through to people being like

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<v Speaker 4>red flag, red flag, and then people saying, no, keep

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<v Speaker 4>it hidden, don't tell your partner. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it's just whatever you feel comfortable with. But I

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<v Speaker 4>think the general consensus at this table while recording is

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<v Speaker 4>it is important to have access to your own funds,

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<v Speaker 4>regardless of whether you save money or not. Could we

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<v Speaker 4>say that that's the summary of this conversation Jess and Beck, Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I believe.

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<v Speaker 5>So that was so fun. I really enjoyed hearing everybody's

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<v Speaker 5>hot takes. Keep an eye out on our Instagram if

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<v Speaker 5>you don't follow us, We're at Cheese on the Money

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<v Speaker 5>a US because we're going to be doing more of these.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it's really fun to bring these daties

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<v Speaker 5>to lie, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I also want to know the community's opinion on what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on and how it works. I mean, it's a

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<v Speaker 4>judgment free zone. Everybody is going to manage money in

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<v Speaker 4>a different way. But it's so interesting to go like, oh, Jess,

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<v Speaker 4>like you don't even have your bank account set up yet,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm just assuming it's because you've been lazy. Yeah, yeah, correct,

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<v Speaker 4>all the way through to like, oh, we actually share

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<v Speaker 4>absolutely everything because we've had this question before on the

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<v Speaker 4>pod where people are like, oh, like having listened to

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<v Speaker 4>the pod and only just starting my financial literacy journey

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<v Speaker 4>and I've been married for twenty years, Like how do

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<v Speaker 4>I tell my partner I want an emergency fund because

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<v Speaker 4>they could take it the wrong way. I think seeing

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<v Speaker 4>from the community what your thoughts and feelings are is

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<v Speaker 4>going to help validate a lot. But also, who doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>love a perview question about somebody else's relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>God, I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it so good.

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<v Speaker 5>Great first episode, Beck, thank.

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<v Speaker 4>You, that was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that we love it.

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<v Speaker 5>But I reckon, it's about time we get out all

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<v Speaker 5>out of here ladies.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it time for a little bit of rage?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, it's about time.

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<v Speaker 5>T G I F M A right, you know what?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, no, no, no no no. Beck told

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<v Speaker 4>me earlier today that sometimes she goes to the pub

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<v Speaker 4>and just order soda water, So like, is that lame?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I mean it's very budget friendly. But like Jess

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<v Speaker 4>and I were having an approll, if you would like

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<v Speaker 4>to join us for that, you are more than welcome. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>ten out of ten give me ten.

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<v Speaker 5>See you next week, guys. Have you good weekend.

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