1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: The private school rankings from around the nation were released 2 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: just over a week ago, on two or three weeks 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: ago now actually, and the papers have been filled with 4 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: stories about how each school hits, how each school is 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: serving our kids. Now, I'm going to be really clear, 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 1: I don't like this stuff. Parents are scrolling through lists, 7 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: they're calculating fees, and they're wondering should I be doing 8 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: more for my child's education and we failing by staying public? 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: What can I do to put myself into greater financial 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: debts so that I can give my child the opportunity 11 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: to go to a school that has this ranking or 12 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: this particular outcome. Today we're cutting through the marketing hype 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: to look at what the research actually says about school choice, 14 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 1: and you might be surprised by what really matters for 15 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: your child's future. Stay with us, Hello and welcome to 16 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: the Happy Families Podcast, Real parenting Solutions every day on 17 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: Australia's most downloaded parenting podcast. We are Justin and Kylie Colson. Kylie, incidentally, 18 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: we received via a Happy Fani do I use? Somebody 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: sent us a voice note asking a question about what 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: to do about choosing a high school for their kids. 21 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: Is what Joseip, Good morning, Happy families. Joe here from Canberra. 22 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 1: I was hoping for some advice about what to look for, 23 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: what kind of questions to ask, or what research to 24 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: do when looking for our high school for children. 25 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 2: Thank you. I feel like we've gone through this conversation 26 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: maybe a handful of times in our home, more than 27 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 2: a handful, because our children haven't stayed at the same school. 28 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 2: This is a really hard question for parents to. 29 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: Grapple with, yeah, all the time, really really frustrating, and 30 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: there's so much information out there as well. I'm not 31 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: a big fan of these school rankings, what about you, No. 32 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: I feel like it creates this this idea of exclusivity 33 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: and it's competitive, right, and the more competitive a school is, 34 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 2: the more they can charge. And then families find themselves 35 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: in this position where they want their children to have 36 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 2: the best possible outcomes that they can give them and 37 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 2: they're willing to do anything for that. And having been 38 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: in that position where we put our children into a 39 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 2: school that we probably really shouldn't have been able to affward, 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 2: and the emotional, mental and financial stress that we sat in, 41 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: oh yeah, for that two years was ridiculous, and it 42 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: didn't benefit anyone in the long run. 43 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: No, it was really, really, really a heavy load to 44 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: carry and pulling the kids out of that school simply 45 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: from the anxiety reduction that it created for us. I mean, 46 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: we went backwards financially for a couple of years, and 47 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: pretty soon you get to a point where you've got 48 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: nothing left and you're going, we can't keep on doing this. 49 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: It's very, very difficult. 50 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: And interestingly, the contrast to that, we put our children 51 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 2: into the public school system and they. 52 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: Thrived, they were really happy there. Yeah, so let's have 53 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: a quick chat about this. In a nutshell, single sex 54 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: schools are dominating. Based on these recent rankings, fees in 55 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: some of these schools are approaching forty five thousand dollars 56 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: a year. That doesn't include if you're boarding, because the 57 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: numbers go up even more for boarding and. 58 00:02:58,320 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 2: The mark How do families afford this? 59 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. The marketing promises sound really compelling. Here's 60 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: what I want to explore today. What does the evidence 61 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: actually tell us about school choice and what should parents 62 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: really focus on? So let's kick off with a conversation 63 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: about private versus public quick reality check recent Australian research following, 64 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: thousands of students found that napland scores of kids in 65 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: private schools were no different to those in public schools 66 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: when you account for socioeconomic background. So let me say 67 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: that again, because statistically this can sound a little bit 68 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: confusing for some people. When you control statistically for family circumstances, 69 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: private schools aren't actually producing better outcomes. 70 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: So, just so I'm clear, what you're suggesting is they're 71 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: kind of they're looking at families from the same socio 72 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: economic in both public and private. Is that right? 73 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: That's exactly right. So what we know is that public 74 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: schools generally draw from a broader socioeconomic catchment. That is, 75 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: you've got people who can't afford private school, so they're 76 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: much lower on the socio economic scale, as well as 77 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: plenty of people who can afford but choose not to 78 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: spend their money on private schools, so they've got a 79 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: much broader range. So when you look at the overall 80 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: outcome of the public school compared with the fancy private 81 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: school down the road, the private school wins hands down 82 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 1: on napland scores, Right, they just win. But once you 83 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: partial out on once you account for statistically, the socioeconomic 84 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: circumstances of some students. So you start to compare like 85 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: against like, yep, no difference. And this I mean, I've 86 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: always said, you show me the postcode and I'll tell 87 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: you what the napland scores are. It's got nothing to 88 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: do with the school. It's got everything to do with 89 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: the post code. That's why there's a post code premium 90 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: that real estate agents really leverage because if the home 91 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: is near a school in the right postcode, people will 92 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: pay a premium because they want to be in the 93 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: right postcode. Why because the catchment. Well yeah, and you're 94 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: in a school where a whole lot of families are 95 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: saying we value education because we're earning the money because 96 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: we've got our good educations ourselves. That's how that kind 97 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: of works. Study after study after study, including in that 98 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: of sixty eight education systems that are participating in the 99 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: international PISA tests, shows that private school attendance is not 100 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: consistently related to higher test performance. There was also an 101 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 1: analysis recently in Victoria. The VC results showed public schools 102 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: are actually outperforming private schools when you compare schools with 103 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: similar socioeconomic rankings. 104 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: So what are parents really buying for forty five thousand dollars. 105 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: So what I'm going to say may sound really cynical. 106 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to say it anyway. They're purchasing the illusion 107 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: of superiority, and they're purchasing the comfort of social segregation. 108 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: It's a class system. Private schools have become luxury brands 109 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: and they deliver status rather than outcomes. Right, private school 110 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: it's like walking through the airport and you've got the 111 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: LVMH bag, You've got the fancy bag with the Louis 112 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: Vuitton bag with the logos, right, and you just get 113 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: to feel a little bit superior. That's one thing that 114 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: private schools provide. Now, am I saying that every family 115 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 1: who sends their kids to a private school therefore gets 116 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 1: to feel superior. No, I'm not doing that at all. Well, 117 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that the private schools now market 118 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: themselves as luxury brands, and in so doing they become aspirational. 119 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: Everybody wants their kids to have the luxury. We all 120 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: want the very best for our kids. So this is 121 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: not a slight on the kids. This is about the 122 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: class system that we've built in education around this. We're 123 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: so invested in the promise that we spend the dough 124 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: and we don't look at what the statistics actually show. 125 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 2: I know that when we've gone through this process a 126 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: handful of times, the schools have basically told us that 127 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: it's not us choosing them, it's whether or not they 128 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 2: choose us. 129 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that notion of exclusivity absolutely absolutely, Colin. 130 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: Let me say this. I get to work in a 131 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: lot of these schools, and maybe after today's podcast, I 132 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: never will again. I don't know, but these schools are astonishing. 133 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: I mean, they've got these incredible Olympic level pools, they've 134 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: got green fields, they've got beautiful views and grounds. I've 135 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: been in some schools where the views you literally cannot buy. 136 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 2: So state of the technology. 137 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you've got forty five k a year to spend, 138 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: you're going to get smaller classes, you're going to get 139 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: more resources, you're going to get broader subject offerings. The 140 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: co curricular programming is exceptional, and you will get a 141 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: very different school culture. And I would even go so 142 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: far as to say that these things matter for the 143 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: school experience, even if they don't necessarily translate to better outcomes. 144 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: And when I'm in those schools. Generally speaking, the kids 145 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: are pretty happy. They're not worried about the same sort 146 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: of things that kids in maybe the public school down 147 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: the road are worried about. But here's the thing we're 148 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: only talking today about. Academics and public schools are achieving 149 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: comparable results while serving a vastly different population. Disadvantaged students 150 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: account for forty six percent of public school enrollments compared 151 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: to only twenty percent in private schools. Public schools are 152 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: doing more with less, and frankly, they're doing it well. 153 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: So is private better? I think that it just depends 154 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: on how you measure better, what better means to your 155 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: better resourced. Absolutely, it's undeniable better for your child's learning. 156 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: The evidence suggests it's probably not, at least not in 157 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: ways that show up in academic achievement. The question that 158 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: I ask myself is this, would I pay forty five 159 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year? I think the local private school 160 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: down the road from US is about twenty five or 161 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: twenty eight thousand here on the Sunshine Coast, and that's 162 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: one of the highest fee paying schools on the coast. 163 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: Would I pay that thirty grand a year if I 164 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: had the money. I can't say for certain that I 165 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: would or I wouldn't. We don't have the choice, so 166 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't have to make the decision. But based on 167 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: the research, I'm not convinced that would be the best 168 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: use of our resources. After the break, I'll tell you 169 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: what is the best use of your resources when it 170 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:48,239 Speaker 1: comes to your children and education. Okay, it's vexed, it's emotional, 171 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: and people really struggle when they're making these decisions. Here's 172 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: what the research says about children and education outcomes. I 173 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: want to talk about two ideas. One is the teacher 174 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: factor and one is known as the proximity principle. Teachers 175 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: matter more to student achievement than any other school related factor, and. 176 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 2: I wish every teacher understood that. 177 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: I think I think many of them do. I want 178 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: to make this point really clear. Whether I'm in private 179 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: or public schools, or Christian schools and on denominational schools 180 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: or alternati schools, it doesn't matter what school I go to. 181 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: The overwhelming majority of teachers that I work with, they 182 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 1: love their work and they love the students. They struggle 183 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: with the system. Most teachers will tell me the system 184 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: is not fair on us or on the kids. But 185 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: they love their work and they love the students. I 186 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: get goosebumps talking about it because you can just tell 187 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 1: the professionalism, the enthusiasm, the desire. For the overwhelming majority, 188 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: I'd say eighty to ninety percent of teachers are just 189 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: in it for all the right reasons. But when you 190 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: look at school factors, teachers are estimated to have two 191 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: to three times the effect of any other element, including 192 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: the facilities and the resources and the leadership. You get 193 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 1: this students assigned high value added teachers are more likely 194 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: to graduate from high school, go to university, be employed, 195 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: and earn higher wages. I found this study from Harvard 196 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: economist RAJ Chetty. Now this was a controversial study that 197 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: he published and it was in the US, but I 198 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: think that it's enough for us to at least have 199 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: a conversation about. He and his colleagues found that replacing 200 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: a bottom five percent teacher with just an average teacher 201 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: would increase student's lifetime income by more than a quarter 202 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: of a million dollars. In other words, teachers make a 203 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:36,599 Speaker 1: huge difference. 204 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 2: As you're talking about that, I'm thinking about so many 205 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 2: different teachers in our children's lives who were so instrumental 206 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 2: in sparking our kid's curiosity. And one teacher in particular 207 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 2: comes to mind. His name was mister Cotter. He was 208 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 2: a science teacher. And Chanell, our eldest, she hated science. 209 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 2: And one day she came home and we were talking 210 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: and she said, I just love sigeience. I just love 211 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 2: it so much. And I looked at her and I went. 212 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: What is going on here? 213 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 2: When did that change? Yeh, yep, yep, And she said, 214 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 2: my teacher just brings it to life. And what's amazing 215 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 2: is all these years later she's actually gone science based 216 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,599 Speaker 2: and she's in Midwiffrey. I just I love that this 217 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 2: teacher sparked in her something that she never would have 218 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: gone to had he have not shared with her his 219 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: passion and love for all things science. 220 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: Yep, yep. You can't buy it, you can't guarantee. It's 221 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with school fees. It's all about 222 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: relationship and inspiration. So let's bring this home and wrap 223 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: it up. What should you be looking for? If we 224 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: would answer our cambermum's question about trying to select a school, 225 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: what should you be looking for? This is my list? 226 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: Number one. I'm going to say, focus on school proximity 227 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: home and I'll tell you why. Students who feel more 228 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: connected to school have higher tendance rates, they have higher 229 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 1: academic outcomes, they have better mental health. Kelly and Allen, 230 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: from a University of Melbourne, has done a whole lot 231 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: of research on school belonging her and her colleague Diana 232 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: Vella Broderick, and what they find is that when kids 233 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: feel like they belong in their school, they just do 234 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: better both inside school and outside of school. Plus, when 235 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: you choose a school inside your local community, your kids 236 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: are much more likely to have friends nearby. They're more 237 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: likely to participaid en after school activities with those friends 238 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: and feel genuinely connected not just to their school environment, 239 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: but to their home environment as well. 240 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: What we've found over the years is our kids have 241 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 2: gone to different private schools. Is often kids are traveling 242 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 2: fifty minutes an hour and a half. 243 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: Let's catch up on the weekend. Yet we live like 244 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: on the other side of town. It's nuts and it's. 245 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 2: So hard, and kids have basically said, yeah, my parents 246 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 2: won't drive me. Yeah, and it's really really challenging. 247 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: And you know what, the parents won't drive them because 248 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: the parents are exhausted because they're absolutely smashing themselves, so 249 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: they can pay the school fees to get the kids 250 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: the best opportunity they can when the school down the 251 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: road could help Australia as public education system is actually 252 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: really good by international standards. So unless you've got really 253 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: strong values based reasons for avoiding public schools, and I 254 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: think that's a legitimate consideration, child is likely to do 255 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 1: just as well academically an equality local public school. We've 256 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: always said, don't look at results, resources and reputation, instead 257 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: look at fun, friends and the philosophy of the school. 258 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: I was about to say that for me, it's a 259 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 2: values based thing. What are the things that I value 260 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 2: most and then go from there, And for me, relationships 261 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 2: are high on the list. I wouldn't be sending my 262 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: children to a school because their best friend goes there, necessarily, 263 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 2: I would be sending them to a school where a 264 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 2: number of their friends go. As we know, relationships change 265 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: can be really transient and if there's only one person 266 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 2: that they're counting on, that's going to be challenging. But 267 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 2: if they have multiple kids who go that they enjoy 268 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 2: spending time with, they're going to feel a lot better 269 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 2: because they already feel a sense of belonging. 270 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: All right, we're out of time, but I want to 271 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: do some maths with you really quickly. Yeah, no, no, I 272 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: got really excited about doing this. I was just thinking 273 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: about how much money we spend on school fees as 274 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: an Australian community. Right, So first of all, let me 275 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: again emphasize look for the great teacher and stay in 276 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: your local community if you can, Like, if you send 277 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: your kids still a good local school, and then you 278 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: invest the time that you save on commuting in family 279 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: activities and community connections and sleep, and you're just going 280 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: to have a better life. Research shows that students feel 281 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: supported by teachers and peers just have better outcomes. But 282 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: if you determine to spend that forty five k each year, 283 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: this is the maths that I did. Let's say instead 284 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 1: of a high fee paying school, we're just going to 285 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: go with a low fee paying school, which is usually 286 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: somewhere around about ten thousand dollars. So if you were 287 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: to invest ten thousand dollars per year and an index 288 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: fund from age twelve through to eighteen your child's high 289 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: school years, that's sixty K that you're investing with conservative 290 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: seven percent returns, your child at the age of thirty 291 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: five will have two hundred and seventy three thousand dollars, 292 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 1: and if you have an optimistic ten percent return, you're 293 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: going to have half a million bucks at the age 294 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: of thirty five. That's a significant head start in your 295 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: mid thirties when you really need the dough. But then 296 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: I got really ambitious. So let's say you're going to 297 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: spend twenty five thousand dollars a year that a lot 298 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: of elite private schools is actually cost when you're factor 299 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: in all the extras. If you invest that same amount, 300 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: so I still haven't gone to the forty five thousand, 301 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: but let's say it's twenty five k because it's an 302 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: expensive private school. Let's say you invest that in the 303 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: market instead, and your child walks into adulthood at the 304 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: age of thirty five that twenty five K year. Over 305 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: six years, it's one hundred and fifty k. But because 306 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: of the way compounding works, once they're thirty five, that's 307 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: six hundred and eighty three thousand dollars that it will 308 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: have become. Or if you get those teenp center returns, 309 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: it'll be one point two million dollars, like we are 310 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: literally talking about giving your children enough money to buy 311 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: a house outright, or start a business or never worry 312 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: about money again. So that's not giving them an education. 313 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: They'll get the education of the public system anyway. What 314 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: that is is generational wealth transfer. But I mean, we 315 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: can keep on obsessing other school uniforms and Latin programs 316 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: if we want. I don't know, that's my cynical take 317 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: on it. Or you can do what we've done and 318 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: choose home school and use targeted tutoring because it gives 319 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: us maximum flexibility and allows us to tailor education our 320 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: children's needs and cost a fraction of private school fees 321 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: while it potentially delivers great outcomes because of the personalized learning. Anyway, Joe, 322 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: thanks for the question. Maybe I've gone too far, maybe 323 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: we've said too much, But hopefully the whole idea of 324 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: this conversation is not to tell you that we're right. 325 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: It's to provoke thinking around the education decisions that we're making. 326 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: The rankings in the marketing are always going to try 327 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: and convince you that more expensive equals better, but I 328 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: think the research tells a different story, folks. I'm finding 329 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: good teachers build great school connection, create a learning rich 330 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: home environment. I think those factors are going to serve 331 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 1: you kids far better than any school ranking ever. 332 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 2: Will Well, for now, I'm just grateful we don't have 333 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 2: to make any decisions around school. It's home school and 334 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 2: all the way. 335 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, although she's been making some noises, I know. We 336 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: really hope this's giving you somebody to think about it. 337 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: Thanks so much for listening to the Happy Families podcast. 338 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: If you know somebody who would benefit from this conversation, 339 00:16:55,600 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: please forward share the podcast episode with them. 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