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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts.
Speaker 1: This is the podcast for ordinary people who want to
Speaker 1: do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the rn
Speaker 1: C Potty. It is your host Georgie Stevenson, and today
Speaker 1: we have a bit of an interesting episode about success.
Speaker 2: Oh us this whole week. That's curious.
Speaker 1: My coach has told me to shift out of like
Speaker 1: shame and guilt, you shift into curiosity. And so in
Speaker 1: the office, all the irons and me have been like.
Speaker 3: Hmm, that's interesting.
Speaker 1: How curious when we're like going to like not put
Speaker 1: ourselves down but be like, oh my god, I hate
Speaker 1: when I do that.
Speaker 2: We're like, hmm, that's so interesting.
Speaker 3: I do that.
Speaker 2: So interesting. I snooze my alarm.
Speaker 1: This morning, so just a little inside that. I love
Speaker 1: how we do inside jokes with our community I know
Speaker 1: you're part of it.
Speaker 2: I love it, guys.
Speaker 1: We have an exciting episode. We are chatting what actually
Speaker 1: makes someone successful and what success even looks like in
Speaker 1: the first place, because this is such an interesting subject that,
Speaker 1: like you're here in the episode, me and a Tea
Speaker 1: explained like it's really evolved for us for sure, and
Speaker 1: it's really been this journey and I think, you know,
Speaker 1: what we once thought was successful, we are now in
Speaker 1: like a completely different place and it's really.
Speaker 2: Interesting, so curious.
Speaker 4: I'm so curious about this journey of success, and I
Speaker 4: think it's just a really beautiful conversation to bring to
Speaker 4: you guys, for you to have a think of, like
Speaker 4: you know, how you're currently defining.
Speaker 2: Your success and if it's.
Speaker 1: Really in line with your values and who you want
Speaker 1: to be, and maybe a shift needs to happen because
Speaker 1: I think sometimes we have this definition of success and
Speaker 1: we really live our life by it, but then when
Speaker 1: we actually look at it, it's we haven't made that definition.
Speaker 1: Someone else has or society has, and then we realize
Speaker 1: we're like living life not on our terms. And when
Speaker 1: you realize that and you start living life in your
Speaker 1: own terms and really defining what success means to you,
Speaker 1: it's like a weight lifts. Yeah, and you're like, so true,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can actually just do life, buy
Speaker 1: my own rules how I want to do it, and
Speaker 1: it gets to feel.
Speaker 2: Really really good.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: So I'm really excited for you guys to hear this
Speaker 1: episode before we get into though. Guys, this is your
Speaker 1: final reminder, final reminder.
Speaker 2: It's so scary. So that feels so intense.
Speaker 1: That was really aggressive, and I do apologize, no final reminder.
Speaker 1: If you want to join us for the one and
Speaker 1: only live round of the project this year, this is
Speaker 1: your final call.
Speaker 5: I'm literally so excited for it with oh, oh my god,
Speaker 5: Ellie told me what you're manifesting in the project, and I'm.
Speaker 2: So excited for you.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 2: What are you manifesting? I was gonna say, I do
Speaker 2: you want to know what?
Speaker 1: So what I'm manifesting is really this next level self
Speaker 1: like I want you to think like boss Bitch energy.
Speaker 1: I'm talking like CEO Energy of Naked Harvest and RNC
Speaker 1: Wider Vision.
Speaker 2: So I was like, I can't tell you because that's
Speaker 2: what I'm going to figure out.
Speaker 3: I don't know yet.
Speaker 2: I don't actually know yet. But that's when I'm out
Speaker 2: on the project. So I'm really.
Speaker 1: Feeling a call like everyone else. And it's like I'm
Speaker 1: being called to my next level of Georgie, who really embodies,
Speaker 1: you know, her values and everything, everything she believes. And
Speaker 1: I think for a long time I have limited myself
Speaker 1: on my dreams because I have let society kind of decide, oh,
Speaker 1: I can dream big, but.
Speaker 2: Like only here.
Speaker 1: And it's like next level Georgie is not dreaming here,
Speaker 1: she's dreaming she can't even reach that I'm pointing up.
Speaker 1: And so I'm really excited because I'm feeling this call
Speaker 1: to explore what that looks like. And you know, my
Speaker 1: whole theme for this year is like really surrender.
Speaker 2: So it's not going.
Speaker 3: To be like the.
Speaker 1: I want this car, I want this house, I want
Speaker 1: this amount of money.
Speaker 2: Not even in the realm of that.
Speaker 1: It's like in the realm of like who I am,
Speaker 1: what the footprint I leave on the world sort of
Speaker 1: vibes like big vision energy. I love that I've never
Speaker 1: done that before. That's so exciting, And I'm feeling so
Speaker 1: called to like really explore what that next level looks like.
Speaker 1: And I'm almost a little bit scared because so excited.
Speaker 1: I don't this is gonna sound so like weird. I
Speaker 1: feel like weird saying this, but like I'm such a
Speaker 1: powerful manifesto. I feel scared because once I'm clear, Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2: We're going there. Fara, I'm ready.
Speaker 3: I'm ready for it.
Speaker 2: Buckle in.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's what I'm going to use a project
Speaker 1: for this round of like really getting clear in like
Speaker 1: next level Georgie, because I can, like I can taste it,
Speaker 1: and it's so exciting and I'm gonna do it in
Speaker 1: a way I never have. And I'm really excited about
Speaker 1: this round too because there's going to be some little
Speaker 1: secret bonus videos added in there, which you know, I
Speaker 1: can't tell you too much about it. You've just got
Speaker 1: to be in there. But what I'm talking about about
Speaker 1: me finding that next level self, it will makes sense.
Speaker 3: So I'm very excited.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And of course, guys, if you've previously done the project,
Speaker 1: you will get that content because once you buy the project,
Speaker 1: you have lifetime access, so if we add content and
Speaker 1: any future rounds, you get that.
Speaker 2: But guys, go to the.
Speaker 1: Link in the show notes or you know our Instagram
Speaker 1: and description and if the course is calling you.
Speaker 3: Do not wait.
Speaker 1: This is our one and only live round and I
Speaker 1: feel I couldn't even introduce a course, but it's a
Speaker 1: seven week self development and manifesting course where I teach
Speaker 1: you my formula and principles to create your dream life.
Speaker 5: I'm so excited because this is both the most unclear
Speaker 5: I've felt but most called to the course.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my George is dropped.
Speaker 5: I know, like and people would think, yeah, that that's
Speaker 5: like so not goes together, but it's like even more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, I feel I kind of feel
Speaker 1: the energy from you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I don't know quite what it is that I'm gonna get,
Speaker 5: but I'll figure it out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's so exciting.
Speaker 1: Yeah. That's like a lot of people in my DMS,
Speaker 1: and I know when your dmsit here are like I've
Speaker 1: just got a feeling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've just got to go with it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that is your intuition.
Speaker 2: Let's do this.
Speaker 3: And it seems like grow on the same.
Speaker 2: Boat this time. No one knows what they want, but
Speaker 2: we always something coming.
Speaker 6: My god, I know that is literally the energy and
Speaker 6: I love it, yeah, because I'm like we're just getting
Speaker 6: like armed ready.
Speaker 2: Yeah, fuck shit.
Speaker 3: Up bra brah.
Speaker 1: But yeah, guys, so exciting makes you check it out.
Speaker 1: If you're feeling called, do not wait. This is your
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Speaker 1: I okay, So mine's a bit rogue this week because
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Speaker 1: So I thought it would be interesting if we just
Speaker 1: started with, like, you know, what success means for both
Speaker 1: of us and maybe how that has evolved, and then
Speaker 1: at the end of the episode, I really want to
Speaker 1: get into like what makes a successful person? Yes, I
Speaker 1: love it, all right, so let's get into like, you
Speaker 1: know what success means for us?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what does it mean to you?
Speaker 1: It's it's really interesting.
Speaker 2: Because what did it mean to you? Oh, she's in
Speaker 2: with the heart hitting questions.
Speaker 1: I grew up in a family where, you know, success
Speaker 1: was very much defined about and this is like something
Speaker 1: I very much liked to explain. Is just like my
Speaker 1: parents were amazing and they did the best so they
Speaker 1: could with their parenting, and they're incredible people and obviously
Speaker 1: they raised an incredible human. But like your evolution is
Speaker 1: like being very looking at your childhood with curiosity. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so just something like growing up. For me, what
Speaker 1: was like kind of curated in my childhood was success
Speaker 1: was very much based on, first of all, how you looked.
Speaker 1: So I remember being younger, and so my dad grew
Speaker 1: up from a family where, you know, my grandparents were
Speaker 1: immigrants from England, and so they did not have a
Speaker 1: lot of money. And my dad had this big thing
Speaker 1: about if we would go to the shopping center, we
Speaker 1: had to look like we couldn't wear thongs, and we
Speaker 1: had to dress like not proper, proper, but like we
Speaker 1: couldn't wear thongs or a tracksuit.
Speaker 2: Like you had to Literally, my mother is exactly. I
Speaker 2: swear it's like.
Speaker 1: An immigrant thing because it was like, no, you cannot
Speaker 1: show that you're poor, and those things like meant you
Speaker 1: were poor. So it's like and he always spoke about,
Speaker 1: you know, there was no rips.
Speaker 2: And jeans or like anything like that, because no, we
Speaker 2: need to be proper.
Speaker 1: You need to be proper and when you go out
Speaker 1: into public, you need to show like all us four
Speaker 1: kids would all be very presentable, that's the word.
Speaker 2: Would all have a hair down.
Speaker 1: Be very presentable. Everyone would have nice clothes. I even remember,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is so bad. But I remember
Speaker 1: using that as a former manipulation for my parents when
Speaker 1: I wanted new clothes.
Speaker 7: Oh I'm so aware of that too. Like I would
Speaker 7: be like, oh, but these clothes are so old and ratty, Dad,
Speaker 7: And then he would be like, Mom, you've got to sorry, Debbie,
Speaker 7: You've got to go get Georgia some new clothes.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I bit I would purposely you that because I knew
Speaker 1: that was like a weird trigger, yeah, trigger for him, which.
Speaker 2: Is oh my god. Wow.
Speaker 1: I hope my parents don't listen to this. No, I'm
Speaker 1: We're very open about, you know, all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: So very much how you looked in that way, so like,
Speaker 1: you know, being presentable to society. Money was a huge
Speaker 1: thing for my family. It's because we didn't have much
Speaker 1: of it, yeah, and so it was very much, you know,
Speaker 1: a status seeing of like my dad built his business
Speaker 1: from the ground up and did get to a point
Speaker 1: where we were well off. Yeah, so it was like,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, like not showing off your money, but
Speaker 1: you know, being stable and having that status of like
Speaker 1: I work hard and I have a great income.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying.
Speaker 2: To think what else.
Speaker 1: It's Friday afternoon, everyone's leaving for it for me in
Speaker 1: a dore like.
Speaker 2: Stuck here.
Speaker 3: For God in this great episode for here.
Speaker 2: We hope you love it.
Speaker 1: So it was very like materialistic status. It's kind of
Speaker 1: so typical like what you'd see on TV. Yes, would
Speaker 1: you say?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I agree?
Speaker 1: So that's what it used to mean for me? What
Speaker 1: did success mean to you?
Speaker 5: This is so hard because I feel like I'm now
Speaker 5: at a point in my life where I'm questioning it
Speaker 5: and I hadn't really questioned it properly before that. But
Speaker 5: I feel like, mainly for me, it was have a
Speaker 5: good job, like a high status job, like you're a
Speaker 5: doctor or a lawyer or an engineer.
Speaker 2: That's why you want to be an engineer? Yeah, and
Speaker 2: I want to be a lawyer.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: It's literally not even like the income you get from it,
Speaker 5: obviously it is also to do with that, but just
Speaker 5: like being able to like prove your intelligence to other people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I noticed I do that.
Speaker 1: Like I just did an intro before I'm anyway on
Speaker 1: a zoom where people didn't know me, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I was a lawyer. It's something I said because it's
Speaker 1: a way to identify yourself of tick, I'm smart, tick,
Speaker 1: I'm you know, presentable in society.
Speaker 2: Exactly and so normal.
Speaker 3: That's exactly what it was for me.
Speaker 5: It was like having that job, being able to like
Speaker 5: do whatever I want financially and be secure, but also
Speaker 5: have extra And then also I think as I got older,
Speaker 5: I started to question that in the sense of like
Speaker 5: is that really worth it? And then success sort of
Speaker 5: evolved for me into being a bit more content Like
Speaker 5: success is contentment.
Speaker 1: But I think, how twenty two dude, I literally can't
Speaker 1: believe you've already come to this episode if you could
Speaker 1: meet my twenty two year olds with my Porsche, my
Speaker 1: vision bond, doing my law degree.
Speaker 2: But I think it was she's so enlightened.
Speaker 5: It was like for me where it's like, if you're
Speaker 5: going to be happier packing up your stuff and going
Speaker 5: to live in Italy or on a Greek island, like
Speaker 5: Mama Mia what the mother does and she opens this
Speaker 5: old hotel and she's just so happy, and it's like.
Speaker 2: I've never seen it.
Speaker 3: Oh, you need.
Speaker 2: To watch put it on the lip.
Speaker 3: But like, if you're going to be happy at doing that,
Speaker 3: why wouldn't you.
Speaker 1: So you've had this progression of very similar to me,
Speaker 1: of what success means, but you're at this beautiful stage
Speaker 1: where you're actually it's like you're on the cusp. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not quite yeah, and you're just you're learning different
Speaker 1: things and you're like, oh, this is so interesting. This
Speaker 1: used to hold something over me, and now I'm starting
Speaker 1: to realize it kind of doesn't fucking matter. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: this is perfect because this is what this episode is
Speaker 1: all about. Exciting, Welcome to the episode. Well, I want
Speaker 1: to chat about a similar sort of evolution of how
Speaker 1: I got there to wear success.
Speaker 2: And I'm not going to fucking lie to you guys.
Speaker 1: Like success to me, it still includes certain material things,
Speaker 1: and it still includes certain like status things, but I
Speaker 1: just see it very different. And also I want to
Speaker 1: preface this, and I feel like I should preface this
Speaker 1: with fucking every episode, but it like what I say
Speaker 1: today might not be reflected in me.
Speaker 5: Bro.
Speaker 1: Like a big thing on this podcast is I'm allowed
Speaker 1: to show up and tell you what success means today
Speaker 1: and then three years that change again, and I hope
Speaker 1: it does change again for me. Yeah, but let's talk
Speaker 1: about me right now. So success. It has very much
Speaker 1: evolved where I realized. And it's funny because I kind
Speaker 1: of it's in the last couple of years and then
Speaker 1: very solidified this last year since having IVY. Because for me,
Speaker 1: success is like kind of flipped on its head. Where
Speaker 1: the thing that I value the most now so it
Speaker 1: used to be probably money, status, material things. The thing
Speaker 1: that I value most now is my time.
Speaker 2: That is my.
Speaker 1: Biggest resource and form of success to me personally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and also if my life is integral to my values
Speaker 1: or my priorities, and they should always not always, but
Speaker 1: they should be shifting and changing. And so that's why
Speaker 1: I really wanted to do this episode because I think
Speaker 1: so many of us would have created a vision board
Speaker 1: for twenty twenty three and there would have been things
Speaker 1: on there that you deemed as success, which maybe you
Speaker 1: hadn't really thought about. It's what society deems its success.
Speaker 1: And again I'm true, I'm not saying you can't want
Speaker 1: materialistic things like fuck look at me, but like I'm
Speaker 1: a very materialistic person. But yeah, it's about this dance
Speaker 1: of understanding the very reason why you want that thing
Speaker 1: and what you might have to potentially give away in
Speaker 1: order to have that thing to think.
Speaker 3: It's almost like your measuring sticks changed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, And so let's just do something examples,
Speaker 1: because I feel like maybe I'm not making as much sense.
Speaker 1: So previously, success was very much the money, the house,
Speaker 1: the car, the things, the status, whereas now it is
Speaker 1: my time with Ivy, it is the integrity of both
Speaker 1: of my companies. It is the integrity of how I
Speaker 1: feel as a person. So for example, in previous years,
Speaker 1: I would literally work myself to the point of burnt
Speaker 1: out or having a mental breakdown.
Speaker 2: Tim not you know, but.
Speaker 1: Just like these episodes where I would have worked quote
Speaker 1: unquote so hard in order to achieve this goal, but
Speaker 1: at the cost of what my mental health, my physical health,
Speaker 1: and these certain things. And that's fine, and I did
Speaker 1: life like that for a certain amount of time. But
Speaker 1: in the last couple of years, I've really been dabbling
Speaker 1: in this new thing of no, I actually get to
Speaker 1: create my complete own set of rules and I get
Speaker 1: to live by them. And this is another big thing too.
Speaker 1: It's like, sometimes why I have a love hate relationship
Speaker 1: with social media is what you see about me and
Speaker 1: my life. Your judgments mean nothing to me because it's
Speaker 1: not about how you judge my life or what you
Speaker 1: deem successful. It's about me and how I judge my
Speaker 1: life and what I deem successful. And I feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't even get to that point
Speaker 1: of finding out what that means to them, because I
Speaker 1: feel like there has been so many instances where I
Speaker 1: have created these goals off very things that I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted, but then achieved them and not
Speaker 1: had that feeling and gone. I've completely created this of
Speaker 1: what success means to someone else, not what success means
Speaker 1: to me, And this is why I don't feel happy
Speaker 1: that I've achieved this goal. And so I wanted you
Speaker 1: guys to do a little bit of, you know, an
Speaker 1: order of what you have deemed as what will mean
Speaker 1: you're successful this year and even what success you know
Speaker 1: means for you and something I talk about in the project.
Speaker 1: And the reason why I'm so passionate about the Rise
Speaker 1: and Conquer project is because I really get you to
Speaker 1: run through so many practices and exercises where you have
Speaker 1: to dig so deep and you have to really feel
Speaker 1: into what feels good for you from like a soul
Speaker 1: centered intuition way and lead that way. And something I
Speaker 1: always say is like what you have.
Speaker 2: On your heart, like you have not got it wrong.
Speaker 1: And I think a big thing though, is people don't
Speaker 1: even let that success be on their heart, if that
Speaker 1: makes sense, Like they just.
Speaker 5: Yeah, or they don't even know what the difference is
Speaker 5: internally of what a head desire is and a heart
Speaker 5: desire feels.
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yes, So it's just all a bit of
Speaker 3: a math.
Speaker 2: A little bit way of maths.
Speaker 1: But it's also like, you know, it's like something I
Speaker 1: was chatting to someone in the project. I remember this
Speaker 1: was actually like a year ago or something, and I
Speaker 1: was chatting to someone and they were saying like their
Speaker 1: goal for the project was to lose a certain amount
Speaker 1: of weight, and I just I thought this was so
Speaker 1: interesting because I said to her, Oh, in the project,
Speaker 1: like we do heart heart scentered desires. Yeah, and it's like,
Speaker 1: if it truly is a heart centered desire that you
Speaker 1: need to lose, you know, takelo's whatever she wanted. I'm
Speaker 1: happy for that, but I would just love to dig
Speaker 1: a bit deeper here. And then so I said to her, like,
Speaker 1: why do you want to lose this weight? And she goes, oh, well,
Speaker 1: you know, I just want to feel better and I
Speaker 1: want to be able to run around, run around with
Speaker 1: my kids, and you know, to feel sex in front
Speaker 1: of my husband and blah blah blah. And I said,
Speaker 1: you know, like I kept asking her this, but yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: but why And then we kind of got to the
Speaker 1: bottom of it, and it's because she had put a
Speaker 1: you know, action of society of she needs to be
Speaker 1: a certain size to be happy. And then when we
Speaker 1: got down to it, she's like, it's actually nothing to
Speaker 1: do with the way, it's to do with this other
Speaker 1: thing I want. That was yes, to do with her health,
Speaker 1: but you know, I mean like she had let society
Speaker 1: decide what success meant for her rather than being like, no, actually,
Speaker 1: what feels like for me personally? If you know, there
Speaker 1: wasn't all these magazines with women's size fucking six and
Speaker 1: all these things around me, what would I actually want?
Speaker 2: And then her.
Speaker 1: Desire to end up being something so different and so beautiful.
Speaker 1: And it was just so interesting because I think we
Speaker 1: get very like, yeah, stuck on what we think we
Speaker 1: should want, not what we actually want.
Speaker 5: And this year, like, in a word or two, what
Speaker 5: is success for you?
Speaker 2: Success for me? Like I was saying at the start,
Speaker 2: is my time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so having my time with Ivy, having my time
Speaker 1: with Tim, and having my time with myself.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 1: That is like the biggest If I get to the
Speaker 1: end of the year and I've ticked off those things consistently,
Speaker 1: I'd be like amazing, even if my fucking business is
Speaker 1: burned to the ground.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like tick tick tick tic dick would be best
Speaker 7: hashtag success.
Speaker 1: Another big thing too, like I said, is those sort
Speaker 1: of heart scented things that are really important to me
Speaker 1: and making sure I have been integrity when.
Speaker 2: Going towards my goals.
Speaker 1: Something interesting that came up when I was going through
Speaker 1: my goals at the start of the year is Naked
Speaker 1: Harvest has always been you know, eco conscious, and it's
Speaker 1: always we call it like one.
Speaker 2: Of our pillars.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but from the start, like we've been very conscious.
Speaker 1: And then just maybe two years ago, we did this
Speaker 1: whole thing where all our you know, the way that
Speaker 1: we pack a box, our feeling, everything was recyclable and
Speaker 1: we partnered with this really amazing business and they helped
Speaker 1: us make everything recyclable and we had this really beautiful journey.
Speaker 2: Obviously there's always more to do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I kind of then obviously went into motherhood
Speaker 1: and that kind of just got put on the back.
Speaker 2: Burner, of course.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because it's like something came up when
Speaker 1: I was doing my goals and I was like, that
Speaker 1: is such a huge.
Speaker 2: Thing for me personally.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because like when I got down to
Speaker 1: the why, it's because, you know, like me and Cooper,
Speaker 1: we grew up on a farm, Like we grew up
Speaker 1: my mom like we had goat's milk from the goat outside.
Speaker 1: My mom is so like into you know, like making
Speaker 1: sure everything's natural and no chemicals and you know, everything
Speaker 1: like that, and that's what's very embedded in us and
Speaker 1: the reason why we started a natural supplement business. But
Speaker 1: then also being conscious of the environment. And I realized
Speaker 1: that got put to a back burner and so I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm not gonna make I want Naked
Speaker 1: Harvest to make this amount of money this year. I
Speaker 1: want us to continue on our eco conscious journey. And
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna get killed for saying this, but like
Speaker 1: a big goal that I have is by twenty twenty
Speaker 1: four being like completely eco conscious, yeah, in every aspect
Speaker 1: of n H. And I've ready setup meetings and I've ready,
Speaker 1: you know, started to do that. And that's what feels
Speaker 1: so good, Like even making those little steps of making
Speaker 1: the meeting with the person who can do fully recyclable
Speaker 1: packaging and like all these things and it just felt
Speaker 1: so like aligned and good.
Speaker 3: And it's so exciting.
Speaker 1: It's so exciting, Like you can probably see now a
Speaker 1: tier like my face lights up when I talk about it,
Speaker 1: and I think, this is what I'm saying about evolution
Speaker 1: is there will be some years where it is I
Speaker 1: want my company to make this amount of money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that is fine. Yeah, but it's just about constantly checking.
Speaker 1: In another little example, I was actually telling a to
Speaker 1: your off airs shrewd Ol. Yes, So going kind of,
Speaker 1: you know, with the eco conscious situation is I'm due
Speaker 1: to get a new car and I have had on
Speaker 1: my vision board for a very long time a certain Maserati.
Speaker 2: Which we love, which we love. She's gorgeous and we
Speaker 2: love her.
Speaker 1: But it's interesting because I had a conversation with Tim
Speaker 1: and he's like, you know, you're talking about you wanting
Speaker 1: to be eco conscious with naked Harvest. And we also
Speaker 1: made the decision to get solo on our house, so
Speaker 1: our house is very eco conscious and all these things
Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, and obviously I'm not perfect, but
Speaker 1: it's like these little steps. And I will never say
Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent eco conscious or anything like that,
Speaker 1: because I know people come after me. But he said,
Speaker 1: it's interesting that the car you want is a Maserati
Speaker 1: that choose up a lot of diesel, and he's not
Speaker 1: eco conscious. Always like oh no no, and then Tim,
Speaker 1: so Tim's always been obsessed with Tesla's.
Speaker 2: And then Tim's like, you should get.
Speaker 5: It to.
Speaker 2: That wiped out and you just want a Tesla.
Speaker 1: But and then I started thinking about it, and I
Speaker 1: was like, to be very honest with you guys, the
Speaker 1: Maserati very much feeds into my ego and my old
Speaker 1: definition of success, which again I want to stress is
Speaker 1: so fine.
Speaker 2: Sometimes yeah, it is so fine.
Speaker 1: But in that moment, I really like, I had a
Speaker 1: big think about it, and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: Like he's so right.
Speaker 1: And then we went in testro some Tesla's and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I feel like I'm in
Speaker 1: a fucking space ship.
Speaker 2: This is amazing.
Speaker 1: And I love that it literally says sixty percent emissions.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's incredible.
Speaker 2: It's incredible.
Speaker 1: So then I did a lot of research in it
Speaker 1: and was listening to podcasts and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: this is you know, this is right decision. And so
Speaker 1: I may be picking up my new Tesla soon.
Speaker 2: But it's so interesting because once I.
Speaker 1: Then like, I felt so fucking good and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, no, this feels really good. And it's
Speaker 1: funny because like I personally think Tesla's are just like
Speaker 1: so quirky and the like I would not say, they're
Speaker 1: like a quote unquote cool car, and.
Speaker 2: That's something I'm into.
Speaker 1: If you haven't noticed with cars like I, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: like I can happily say that to you guys. And
Speaker 1: it's funny because I'm like, I really don't care because
Speaker 1: it's like it's something that is inteke rule to what
Speaker 1: I want to make happen this year, and I'd really
Speaker 1: like big goal in that way. And then once I
Speaker 1: kind of wratch my head around that, I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so excited and it feels so good,
Speaker 1: and it's okay if you know, you don't think it's
Speaker 1: a quote unquote success or you know what, it feels
Speaker 1: fucking good to me. Yeah, and it feels like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, No, she's in line with her values and
Speaker 1: that is success to me.
Speaker 3: I love that so much.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to take you in my car. I
Speaker 2: can't wait to get your.
Speaker 1: So that is kind of like my journey of what
Speaker 1: success means to me.
Speaker 2: And I love that you're kind of similar.
Speaker 1: And a big thing, like you said, is like, you know,
Speaker 1: you might get the promotion or get the money or
Speaker 1: get the whatever, but at what cost?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And I think you're realizing the happiness aspect.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 5: And I think something that's shifted for me this year
Speaker 5: in is like how I'm measuring success for myself for
Speaker 5: the year. So tell us, Yeah, my three words for
Speaker 5: this year three three, So success for me this year
Speaker 5: will be risk taking, consistency, and integrity.
Speaker 2: I love this so much.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So if I get through the year and I've taken
Speaker 5: risks and I've gotten comfortable being uncomfortable and grown as
Speaker 5: a person, even if even if the risks didn't work,
Speaker 5: I would be successful for me. If I've stayed consistent
Speaker 5: with goals and habits and routines. That success for me,
Speaker 5: And if if everything I do is in line and
Speaker 5: brings me joy, and isn't, like you mentioned, integral to
Speaker 5: who I am as a person, like that I will
Speaker 5: feel good at the end of the year. Like it's
Speaker 5: not about getting material things this year. Last year it
Speaker 5: was like some design things.
Speaker 2: It was last year. I love it.
Speaker 1: Like last year we were like bougie bitches.
Speaker 2: This year, like we are monks. Material things mean nine.
Speaker 2: But that's also I still would like.
Speaker 3: Some nice things.
Speaker 5: But it's not my death, Like, it's not the box
Speaker 5: I have to tick to feel good at the end
Speaker 5: of the year. It's completely different to that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's incredible. And so this is what's so beautiful
Speaker 1: about this conversation and Tia, if someone might be listening
Speaker 1: and they're like, no, no, no, I've done all that
Speaker 1: shit the last couple of years, and this is the
Speaker 1: year I buy a maserati, So do it. That's amazing.
Speaker 1: Make sure it's like you have defined it for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it feels really good, and don't give a fuck
Speaker 1: what anyone else thinks.
Speaker 2: Literally, I love that.
Speaker 1: You also said it's like you tick off those things
Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter if they don't work out.
Speaker 5: It's just that I did it. Yeah, yeah, and that
Speaker 5: I tried and I think as well. Success is being misunderstood. Yes,
Speaker 5: if I might be a bit of a sicko for
Speaker 5: saying tell us if people don't understand what I'm saying,
Speaker 5: not like because it's too intelligent or things like that,
Speaker 5: but if my goals people are like, what the freak?
Speaker 5: I love it because I something I notice is that
Speaker 5: insanely successful people you don't understand what they're doing when
Speaker 5: they're doing it but a way, and then the world
Speaker 5: catches up to them.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they're literally like crazy in like the best.
Speaker 3: Way, best way ever.
Speaker 5: And I feel like people forget that when it's happening,
Speaker 5: Like people thought Steve Jobs was insane, like clinically he
Speaker 5: got kicked out of Apple for a portion in a
Speaker 5: time and then they've got him back. But like you see,
Speaker 5: I see the cycle repeating with Elon Musk, and like,
Speaker 5: I'm not saying he's not problematic, but you see how
Speaker 5: people are reacting to the things he's doing. I'm reacting
Speaker 5: to the things he's doing the way people react to
Speaker 5: Steve Jobs, and I have to pull myself up being like,
Speaker 5: hang on, sane, this guy's probably onto something. And I'm
Speaker 5: gonna realize five years too late, let me actually investigate
Speaker 5: and I want to be that.
Speaker 1: Well something I love that you said right then and like,
Speaker 1: let's actually unpack this and get into this because I
Speaker 1: love that this is one of your goals too. But like,
Speaker 1: would you not argue that the most successful people are
Speaker 1: the biggest risk takers and those people those risks at
Speaker 1: the time. The reason why they're fucking called risks is
Speaker 1: they're misunderstood. Yeah, and they don't make sense.
Speaker 2: That's literally why it's called a risk.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what.
Speaker 3: That's so good?
Speaker 2: Yeah, legit, I was still thinking, I'm like, what did
Speaker 2: I just say?
Speaker 3: Brian's explode?
Speaker 1: So this is Oh my god. I love that we've
Speaker 1: gone here. Yeah, this is so interesting. Of like I
Speaker 1: would love you guys to think of just like this year,
Speaker 1: like what risk can you take in a quest, you know,
Speaker 1: for your success?
Speaker 2: What feels really good for you?
Speaker 1: And it might not make sense to anyone else And
Speaker 1: that is okay.
Speaker 3: It might not even make sense to you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, why am I getting obsessed with this?
Speaker 1: Saying yeah, and I love that too, because that is
Speaker 1: so that's so true. Like all the successful people that
Speaker 1: we know and love, like at the time took these
Speaker 1: huge risks, not even huge risk, but like I feel
Speaker 1: like they consistently took risks every time and like you'd
Speaker 1: get knocked back. I'm just thinking, and I know I
Speaker 1: tell the story fucking every time, but it's like the
Speaker 1: time that I spent forty five thousand dollars on a
Speaker 1: business coach when I was.
Speaker 2: Only sixty thousand.
Speaker 1: That's doing that literally gives a tear anxiety. But do
Speaker 1: you I mean like I was like so in the
Speaker 1: zone and I was like, no, fuck it, I don't
Speaker 1: want any money this year. I want to loan because
Speaker 1: that was my definition of success.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it didn't make sense to anyone else, but it
Speaker 1: made sense to me. Oh my god, we're getting so aggressively.
Speaker 3: I love that story and it does make me feel sick.
Speaker 5: Still so much money, but like exactly, like that was
Speaker 5: success for you. That year was investing in yourself and
Speaker 5: growing and becoming this.
Speaker 2: Whole in high level coaching.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was like, no, I want to do
Speaker 1: the thing and I don't want it to take five years.
Speaker 2: I want to do it in six months.
Speaker 5: Exactly, And you do and I did, and I think
Speaker 5: that's exactly.
Speaker 2: So just do the guys do the thing.
Speaker 5: And take the risk because you'll show the rest of
Speaker 5: the world, not even the rest of the world, because
Speaker 5: everyone's gonna tell you you're crazy.
Speaker 3: Like everyone is gonna tell you you're.
Speaker 5: Crazy unless you're surrounded by some really high vibe people,
Speaker 5: which if you are hold on to them, people are
Speaker 5: gonna tell you you're crazy. And take the risk anyway
Speaker 5: and see how far that propels you. And the thing
Speaker 5: I've started telling myself is even if you don't get
Speaker 5: propelled as far as you think, you have to take
Speaker 5: a few steps back to be able to leap forward.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 1: And that's again like you getting to decide what success
Speaker 1: means to you. Like in society, if you take a
Speaker 1: step back, that's quote unquote not success.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But if you switch your mentality and you're like, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm taking a step back, so then I can sling
Speaker 1: shot and quantum leap over here. Yeah, and it's like
Speaker 1: no one does like no one does, like no one doesn't.
Speaker 2: Wow, put the back in. No one has to understand
Speaker 2: accept you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So in conclusion, guys, I think I'd really love for
Speaker 1: you to think, like, what does success currently mean for you?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 1: Does it come from like a heart scented place or
Speaker 1: is that maybe something that has been put in you
Speaker 1: from society or your parents or your friends, Like is
Speaker 1: it really what success means for you? And you know,
Speaker 1: maybe redefining it and just asking is it integral with
Speaker 1: you know, what's truly on your heart and making sure
Speaker 1: that you're not you know, getting to success in this
Speaker 1: way of at what cost? And that's like my favorite
Speaker 1: thing to teach in the project is you know, I
Speaker 1: talk a lot about alignment where I'm like, no, trust me.
Speaker 2: You get to do the thing and it gets to
Speaker 2: feel easy and flowy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if something is feeling so far fucking.
Speaker 2: Hard, you need to shift, you need to change.
Speaker 1: Because anytime that I feel like I'm like really on
Speaker 1: that you know, next level, and it's like I'm doing
Speaker 1: the thing, it's it's still doing work and it's still
Speaker 1: doing the thing, but you have this feeling of like,
Speaker 1: holy fuck, this feels so good to me and I
Speaker 1: can show up and I can do this thing with
Speaker 1: ease and flow.
Speaker 5: I would say as well as like take a look
Speaker 5: at things that you wish you had maybe done in
Speaker 5: previous years and make that one of your words of
Speaker 5: success for twenty twenty three. Like, the reason risk taking
Speaker 5: and consistency is there for me is because those are
Speaker 5: two things that I've I've struggled with in the past.
Speaker 5: Like I struggled to be consistent. I'll have a really
Speaker 5: burst of motivation, be super strong and get somewhere and
Speaker 5: then drop off.
Speaker 3: And I'm never.
Speaker 5: Gonna get to where I want to go if I
Speaker 5: keep dropping off, and it just makes it that much harder.
Speaker 5: And then with risk taking, I'll get to a certain
Speaker 5: point and then I just like would not do it.
Speaker 5: So it's like I have to stop being such a chicken.
Speaker 2: I love it. I love that you have three words.
Speaker 5: Too, Yeah, and I would I would recommend everyone to
Speaker 5: like maybe find three words or three values, like yours
Speaker 5: was time, but you still had three measures of what
Speaker 5: you wanted your time to consist of.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Huge.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So guys.
Speaker 1: In conclusion, like the concept of success is simple.
Speaker 2: But it's not easy.
Speaker 1: It's not easy to you know, get your hands dirty
Speaker 1: and dive head first into uncertainty, and it's not easy
Speaker 1: to shake up your world and go after something that
Speaker 1: terrifies you. But it's so much better than like staying
Speaker 1: stagnant and staying where you are because you're you know,
Speaker 1: too afraid to make that move, like very much what
Speaker 1: you said it to you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like frozen, and.
Speaker 1: You know, like playing the waiting game is only going
Speaker 1: to keep you further from living your dream reality. So
Speaker 1: take the risks, redefine what success means for you.
Speaker 2: And do the thing. Thank you so.
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