WEBVTT - The one attribute all successful people have in common  🤯

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<v Speaker 1>The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the

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<v Speaker 1>land which this episode is being recorded. We further acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community.

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<v Speaker 1>We pay our respect to their elders past and present

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<v Speaker 1>and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and terrestrid Islander peoples. Today.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the podcast for ordinary people who want to

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<v Speaker 1>do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the rn

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<v Speaker 1>C Potty. It is your host Georgie Stevenson, and today

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<v Speaker 1>we have a bit of an interesting episode about success.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh us this whole week. That's curious.

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<v Speaker 1>My coach has told me to shift out of like

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<v Speaker 1>shame and guilt, you shift into curiosity. And so in

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<v Speaker 1>the office, all the irons and me have been like.

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>How curious when we're like going to like not put

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves down but be like, oh my god, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>when I do that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're like, hmm, that's so interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I do that.

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<v Speaker 2>So interesting. I snooze my alarm.

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<v Speaker 1>This morning, so just a little inside that. I love

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<v Speaker 1>how we do inside jokes with our community I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>We have an exciting episode. We are chatting what actually

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<v Speaker 1>makes someone successful and what success even looks like in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place, because this is such an interesting subject that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're here in the episode, me and a Tea

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<v Speaker 1>explained like it's really evolved for us for sure, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's really been this journey and I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what we once thought was successful, we are now in

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<v Speaker 1>like a completely different place and it's really.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, so curious.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so curious about this journey of success, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think it's just a really beautiful conversation to bring to

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<v Speaker 4>you guys, for you to have a think of, like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, how you're currently defining.

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<v Speaker 2>Your success and if it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Really in line with your values and who you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be, and maybe a shift needs to happen because

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes we have this definition of success and

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<v Speaker 1>we really live our life by it, but then when

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<v Speaker 1>we actually look at it, it's we haven't made that definition.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone else has or society has, and then we realize

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<v Speaker 1>we're like living life not on our terms. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you realize that and you start living life in your

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<v Speaker 1>own terms and really defining what success means to you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a weight lifts. Yeah, and you're like, so true,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I can actually just do life, buy

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<v Speaker 1>my own rules how I want to do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it gets to feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Really really good.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm really excited for you guys to hear this

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<v Speaker 1>episode before we get into though. Guys, this is your

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<v Speaker 1>final reminder, final reminder.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so scary. So that feels so intense.

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<v Speaker 1>That was really aggressive, and I do apologize, no final reminder.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to join us for the one and

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<v Speaker 1>only live round of the project this year, this is

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<v Speaker 1>your final call.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm literally so excited for it with oh, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>Ellie told me what you're manifesting in the project, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>So excited for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you manifesting? I was gonna say, I do

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<v Speaker 2>you want to know what?

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<v Speaker 1>So what I'm manifesting is really this next level self

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<v Speaker 1>like I want you to think like boss Bitch energy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking like CEO Energy of Naked Harvest and RNC

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<v Speaker 1>Wider Vision.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, I can't tell you because that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm going to figure out.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't actually know yet. But that's when I'm out

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<v Speaker 2>on the project. So I'm really.

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<v Speaker 1>Feeling a call like everyone else. And it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being called to my next level of Georgie, who really embodies,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, her values and everything, everything she believes. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think for a long time I have limited myself

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<v Speaker 1>on my dreams because I have let society kind of decide, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can dream big, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Like only here.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like next level Georgie is not dreaming here,

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<v Speaker 1>she's dreaming she can't even reach that I'm pointing up.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm really excited because I'm feeling this call

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<v Speaker 1>to explore what that looks like. And you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>whole theme for this year is like really surrender.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not going.

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<v Speaker 3>To be like the.

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<v Speaker 1>I want this car, I want this house, I want

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<v Speaker 1>this amount of money.

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<v Speaker 2>Not even in the realm of that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like in the realm of like who I am,

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<v Speaker 1>what the footprint I leave on the world sort of

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<v Speaker 1>vibes like big vision energy. I love that I've never

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<v Speaker 1>done that before. That's so exciting, And I'm feeling so

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<v Speaker 1>called to like really explore what that next level looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm almost a little bit scared because so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't this is gonna sound so like weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like weird saying this, but like I'm such a

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<v Speaker 1>powerful manifesto. I feel scared because once I'm clear, Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going there. Fara, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Buckle in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So that's what I'm going to use a project

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<v Speaker 1>for this round of like really getting clear in like

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<v Speaker 1>next level Georgie, because I can, like I can taste it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so exciting and I'm gonna do it in

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<v Speaker 1>a way I never have. And I'm really excited about

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<v Speaker 1>this round too because there's going to be some little

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<v Speaker 1>secret bonus videos added in there, which you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell you too much about it. You've just got

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<v Speaker 1>to be in there. But what I'm talking about about

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<v Speaker 1>me finding that next level self, it will makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm very excited.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course, guys, if you've previously done the project,

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<v Speaker 1>you will get that content because once you buy the project,

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<v Speaker 1>you have lifetime access, so if we add content and

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<v Speaker 1>any future rounds, you get that.

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<v Speaker 2>But guys, go to the.

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<v Speaker 1>Link in the show notes or you know our Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>and description and if the course is calling you.

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<v Speaker 3>Do not wait.

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<v Speaker 1>This is our one and only live round and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel I couldn't even introduce a course, but it's a

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<v Speaker 1>seven week self development and manifesting course where I teach

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<v Speaker 1>you my formula and principles to create your dream life.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm so excited because this is both the most unclear

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<v Speaker 5>I've felt but most called to the course.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, my George is dropped.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, like and people would think, yeah, that that's

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<v Speaker 5>like so not goes together, but it's like even more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh my god, I feel I kind of feel

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<v Speaker 1>the energy from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know quite what it is that I'm gonna get,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'll figure it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it's so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. That's like a lot of people in my DMS,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know when your dmsit here are like I've

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<v Speaker 1>just got a feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've just got to go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, that is your intuition.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do this.

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<v Speaker 3>And it seems like grow on the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Boat this time. No one knows what they want, but

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<v Speaker 2>we always something coming.

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<v Speaker 6>My god, I know that is literally the energy and

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<v Speaker 6>I love it, yeah, because I'm like we're just getting

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<v Speaker 6>like armed ready.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, fuck shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Up bra brah.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, guys, so exciting makes you check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're feeling called, do not wait. This is your

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<v Speaker 1>last call before you get into the show. Quickly a tear.

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<v Speaker 1>You got five seconds watch your weekly recommendation.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I know I actually recommended this last week, guys,

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<v Speaker 5>but I hadn't finished the podcast episode yet, so I

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<v Speaker 5>cut it out of the episode and I'm re recommending it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but so highly What was it again?

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<v Speaker 5>Jay Shetty's podcast with Lewis Hamilton. I literally cried, really

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<v Speaker 5>genuinely why Because he talks about his life and like,

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<v Speaker 5>I very much fell into this trap with him, which

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<v Speaker 5>I have now worked through on myself, where I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>he must have been rich to get into Formula one

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<v Speaker 5>because like to Barry that, yeah, I know, so rude

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<v Speaker 5>of me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's that's it. Oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a limiting belief. You need to work the project.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I assumed that because of Formula one, just like

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<v Speaker 5>the barriers of entry like next Level, and it's about

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<v Speaker 5>his life and how everyone around him as a kid

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<v Speaker 5>told him he was never good enough, he was never

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<v Speaker 5>going to amount to anything, and how like his teachers

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<v Speaker 5>at school, he was bullied his friends. All of that

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<v Speaker 5>coupled with the fact that he was obviously a man

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<v Speaker 5>of color and going into an industry as the first

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<v Speaker 5>man of color to ever be in that industry and

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<v Speaker 5>then become a world champion, and just his entire mindset

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<v Speaker 5>and perspective around it and how he dealt with it.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I genuinely cried, I cannot recommend this podcast episode and.

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<v Speaker 2>Send it to me because you said you wouldn't use it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's also his first podcast interview ever, and did he

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<v Speaker 5>speak beautifully?

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<v Speaker 3>So I love him.

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<v Speaker 2>We are obsessed. He is our boyfriend. I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's such an incredible recommendation. What's yours? Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>I okay, So mine's a bit rogue this week because

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I haven't read it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but time.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been consuming content because I've been doing my

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<v Speaker 1>own personal development work, which we love, we do. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like there's such a time and place to stop

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<v Speaker 1>consuming content when you're doing inner work. Actually, that's actually

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<v Speaker 1>a recommendation. I'm going to get it going to give

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<v Speaker 1>if you're about to do the project.

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<v Speaker 3>If our listens, drop.

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<v Speaker 1>Continue to listen to this podcast, but just not anything else.

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<v Speaker 5>No tells people to stop consuming content as a content creator,

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<v Speaker 5>but also make sure you listen to the R and

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<v Speaker 5>C Potty and go on Georgie Timminsims Instagram. No, just quickly,

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<v Speaker 5>so Ellie said, so many people recommended the book The

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<v Speaker 5>Third Space to me, which is all about the transition

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<v Speaker 5>from like different things in your life like work to home.

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<v Speaker 1>And you, guys know that's suddenly I'm trying to like

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<v Speaker 1>conquerte the moment. So I'm really interested to read that idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we going to tell the audience the milestone that

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<v Speaker 1>happened today? Guys?

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<v Speaker 6>This is why the listeners contru a tears smash and

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<v Speaker 6>okbiyes beautiful RONC ladies part surprised me with balloons this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess why we hit ten million dead loads? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>We hit ten million downloads. Like I can't even comprehend

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<v Speaker 1>how many downloads that is, can I? So we just

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<v Speaker 1>want to say a big thank you from the ron

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<v Speaker 1>C team for supporting the Potty, listening, for downloading.

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<v Speaker 3>Sharing it with your friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just I just can't get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's our favorite thing to do and we

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like having you guys as our besties and

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<v Speaker 1>our community.

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<v Speaker 2>Is just all the fields here. Yeah, yeah, we appreciate

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<v Speaker 2>you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want to say a big thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for supporting the podcast listening all the things, because yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we appreciate you guys that much.

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<v Speaker 3>We love you all.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you so much. All right, on that note,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get into the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought it would be interesting if we just

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<v Speaker 1>started with, like, you know, what success means for both

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<v Speaker 1>of us and maybe how that has evolved, and then

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the episode, I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>get into like what makes a successful person? Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>love it, all right, so let's get into like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what success means for us?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what does it mean to you?

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Because what did it mean to you? Oh, she's in

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<v Speaker 2>with the heart hitting questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up in a family where, you know, success

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<v Speaker 1>was very much defined about and this is like something

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<v Speaker 1>I very much liked to explain. Is just like my

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<v Speaker 1>parents were amazing and they did the best so they

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<v Speaker 1>could with their parenting, and they're incredible people and obviously

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<v Speaker 1>they raised an incredible human. But like your evolution is

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<v Speaker 1>like being very looking at your childhood with curiosity. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so just something like growing up. For me, what

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<v Speaker 1>was like kind of curated in my childhood was success

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<v Speaker 1>was very much based on, first of all, how you looked.

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<v Speaker 1>So I remember being younger, and so my dad grew

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<v Speaker 1>up from a family where, you know, my grandparents were

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<v Speaker 1>immigrants from England, and so they did not have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of money. And my dad had this big thing

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<v Speaker 1>about if we would go to the shopping center, we

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<v Speaker 1>had to look like we couldn't wear thongs, and we

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<v Speaker 1>had to dress like not proper, proper, but like we

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't wear thongs or a tracksuit.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you had to Literally, my mother is exactly. I

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<v Speaker 2>swear it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>An immigrant thing because it was like, no, you cannot

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<v Speaker 1>show that you're poor, and those things like meant you

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<v Speaker 1>were poor. So it's like and he always spoke about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there was no rips.

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<v Speaker 2>And jeans or like anything like that, because no, we

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<v Speaker 2>need to be proper.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to be proper and when you go out

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<v Speaker 1>into public, you need to show like all us four

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<v Speaker 1>kids would all be very presentable, that's the word.

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<v Speaker 2>Would all have a hair down.

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<v Speaker 1>Be very presentable. Everyone would have nice clothes. I even remember,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this is so bad. But I remember

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<v Speaker 1>using that as a former manipulation for my parents when

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted new clothes.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh I'm so aware of that too. Like I would

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<v Speaker 7>be like, oh, but these clothes are so old and ratty, Dad,

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<v Speaker 7>And then he would be like, Mom, you've got to sorry, Debbie,

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<v Speaker 7>You've got to go get Georgia some new clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I bit I would purposely you that because I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a weird trigger, yeah, trigger for him, which.

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<v Speaker 2>Is oh my god. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope my parents don't listen to this. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>We're very open about, you know, all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So very much how you looked in that way, so like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being presentable to society. Money was a huge

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<v Speaker 1>thing for my family. It's because we didn't have much

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<v Speaker 1>of it, yeah, and so it was very much, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a status seeing of like my dad built his business

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<v Speaker 1>from the ground up and did get to a point

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<v Speaker 1>where we were well off. Yeah, so it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, like not showing off your money, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being stable and having that status of like

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<v Speaker 1>I work hard and I have a great income.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 2>To think what else.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Friday afternoon, everyone's leaving for it for me in

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<v Speaker 1>a dore like.

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<v Speaker 2>Stuck here.

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<v Speaker 3>For God in this great episode for here.

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<v Speaker 2>We hope you love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was very like materialistic status. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>so typical like what you'd see on TV. Yes, would

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<v Speaker 1>you say?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I agree?

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what it used to mean for me? What

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<v Speaker 1>did success mean to you?

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<v Speaker 5>This is so hard because I feel like I'm now

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<v Speaker 5>at a point in my life where I'm questioning it

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<v Speaker 5>and I hadn't really questioned it properly before that. But

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like, mainly for me, it was have a

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<v Speaker 5>good job, like a high status job, like you're a

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<v Speaker 5>doctor or a lawyer or an engineer.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you want to be an engineer? Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>It's literally not even like the income you get from it,

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<v Speaker 5>obviously it is also to do with that, but just

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<v Speaker 5>like being able to like prove your intelligence to other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I noticed I do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just did an intro before I'm anyway on

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<v Speaker 1>a zoom where people didn't know me, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a lawyer. It's something I said because it's

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<v Speaker 1>a way to identify yourself of tick, I'm smart, tick,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, presentable in society.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly and so normal.

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<v Speaker 3>That's exactly what it was for me.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like having that job, being able to like

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<v Speaker 5>do whatever I want financially and be secure, but also

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<v Speaker 5>have extra And then also I think as I got older,

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<v Speaker 5>I started to question that in the sense of like

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<v Speaker 5>is that really worth it? And then success sort of

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<v Speaker 5>evolved for me into being a bit more content Like

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<v Speaker 5>success is contentment.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think, how twenty two dude, I literally can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe you've already come to this episode if you could

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<v Speaker 1>meet my twenty two year olds with my Porsche, my

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<v Speaker 1>vision bond, doing my law degree.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it was she's so enlightened.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like for me where it's like, if you're

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<v Speaker 5>going to be happier packing up your stuff and going

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<v Speaker 5>to live in Italy or on a Greek island, like

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<v Speaker 5>Mama Mia what the mother does and she opens this

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<v Speaker 5>old hotel and she's just so happy, and it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never seen it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you need.

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<v Speaker 2>To watch put it on the lip.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, if you're going to be happy at doing that,

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<v Speaker 3>why wouldn't you.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've had this progression of very similar to me,

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<v Speaker 1>of what success means, but you're at this beautiful stage

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<v Speaker 1>where you're actually it's like you're on the cusp. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not quite yeah, and you're just you're learning different

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<v Speaker 1>things and you're like, oh, this is so interesting. This

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<v Speaker 1>used to hold something over me, and now I'm starting

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<v Speaker 1>to realize it kind of doesn't fucking matter. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>this is perfect because this is what this episode is

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<v Speaker 1>all about. Exciting, Welcome to the episode. Well, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to chat about a similar sort of evolution of how

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<v Speaker 1>I got there to wear success.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not going to fucking lie to you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Like success to me, it still includes certain material things,

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<v Speaker 1>and it still includes certain like status things, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just see it very different. And also I want to

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<v Speaker 1>preface this, and I feel like I should preface this

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<v Speaker 1>with fucking every episode, but it like what I say

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<v Speaker 1>today might not be reflected in me.

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<v Speaker 5>Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a big thing on this podcast is I'm allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to show up and tell you what success means today

0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:19.040
<v Speaker 1>and then three years that change again, and I hope

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<v Speaker 1>it does change again for me. Yeah, but let's talk

0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:25.600
<v Speaker 1>about me right now. So success. It has very much

0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:31.920
<v Speaker 1>evolved where I realized. And it's funny because I kind

0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:34.200
<v Speaker 1>of it's in the last couple of years and then

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<v Speaker 1>very solidified this last year since having IVY. Because for me,

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<v Speaker 1>success is like kind of flipped on its head. Where

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that I value the most now so it

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<v Speaker 1>used to be probably money, status, material things. The thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I value most now is my time.

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<v Speaker 2>That is my.

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<v Speaker 1>Biggest resource and form of success to me personally. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and also if my life is integral to my values

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<v Speaker 1>or my priorities, and they should always not always, but

0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:13.560
<v Speaker 1>they should be shifting and changing. And so that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to do this episode because I think

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<v Speaker 1>so many of us would have created a vision board

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty twenty three and there would have been things

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<v Speaker 1>on there that you deemed as success, which maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't really thought about. It's what society deems its success.

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<v Speaker 1>And again I'm true, I'm not saying you can't want

0:20:35.240 --> 0:20:38.520
<v Speaker 1>materialistic things like fuck look at me, but like I'm

0:20:38.560 --> 0:20:42.400
<v Speaker 1>a very materialistic person. But yeah, it's about this dance

0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:47.520
<v Speaker 1>of understanding the very reason why you want that thing

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<v Speaker 1>and what you might have to potentially give away in

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<v Speaker 1>order to have that thing to think.

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<v Speaker 3>It's almost like your measuring sticks changed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, And so let's just do something examples,

0:21:00.400 --> 0:21:02.680
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like maybe I'm not making as much sense.

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<v Speaker 1>So previously, success was very much the money, the house,

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<v Speaker 1>the car, the things, the status, whereas now it is

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<v Speaker 1>my time with Ivy, it is the integrity of both

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<v Speaker 1>of my companies. It is the integrity of how I

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<v Speaker 1>feel as a person. So for example, in previous years,

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<v Speaker 1>I would literally work myself to the point of burnt

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<v Speaker 1>out or having a mental breakdown.

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<v Speaker 2>Tim not you know, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like these episodes where I would have worked quote

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<v Speaker 1>unquote so hard in order to achieve this goal, but

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<v Speaker 1>at the cost of what my mental health, my physical health,

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<v Speaker 1>and these certain things. And that's fine, and I did

0:21:47.960 --> 0:21:50.879
<v Speaker 1>life like that for a certain amount of time. But

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<v Speaker 1>in the last couple of years, I've really been dabbling

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<v Speaker 1>in this new thing of no, I actually get to

0:21:56.920 --> 0:22:01.120
<v Speaker 1>create my complete own set of rules and I get

0:22:01.160 --> 0:22:04.200
<v Speaker 1>to live by them. And this is another big thing too.

0:22:04.440 --> 0:22:06.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like, sometimes why I have a love hate relationship

0:22:06.960 --> 0:22:11.560
<v Speaker 1>with social media is what you see about me and

0:22:11.760 --> 0:22:16.920
<v Speaker 1>my life. Your judgments mean nothing to me because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about how you judge my life or what you

0:22:19.400 --> 0:22:24.199
<v Speaker 1>deem successful. It's about me and how I judge my

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<v Speaker 1>life and what I deem successful. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people don't even get to that point

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<v Speaker 1>of finding out what that means to them, because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like there has been so many instances where I

0:22:36.080 --> 0:22:40.159
<v Speaker 1>have created these goals off very things that I thought,

0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:44.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, I wanted, but then achieved them and not

0:22:44.600 --> 0:22:48.920
<v Speaker 1>had that feeling and gone. I've completely created this of

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<v Speaker 1>what success means to someone else, not what success means

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<v Speaker 1>to me, And this is why I don't feel happy

0:22:55.760 --> 0:22:58.919
<v Speaker 1>that I've achieved this goal. And so I wanted you

0:22:58.960 --> 0:23:01.720
<v Speaker 1>guys to do a little bit of, you know, an

0:23:01.880 --> 0:23:06.280
<v Speaker 1>order of what you have deemed as what will mean

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:11.680
<v Speaker 1>you're successful this year and even what success you know

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<v Speaker 1>means for you and something I talk about in the project.

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason why I'm so passionate about the Rise

0:23:17.600 --> 0:23:21.080
<v Speaker 1>and Conquer project is because I really get you to

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<v Speaker 1>run through so many practices and exercises where you have

0:23:25.359 --> 0:23:28.840
<v Speaker 1>to dig so deep and you have to really feel

0:23:28.880 --> 0:23:32.000
<v Speaker 1>into what feels good for you from like a soul

0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:37.359
<v Speaker 1>centered intuition way and lead that way. And something I

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:39.840
<v Speaker 1>always say is like what you have.

0:23:39.880 --> 0:23:42.000
<v Speaker 2>On your heart, like you have not got it wrong.

0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:45.680
<v Speaker 1>And I think a big thing though, is people don't

0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:50.040
<v Speaker 1>even let that success be on their heart, if that

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:51.640
<v Speaker 1>makes sense, Like they just.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, or they don't even know what the difference is

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<v Speaker 5>internally of what a head desire is and a heart

0:23:58.480 --> 0:23:59.200
<v Speaker 5>desire feels.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, yeah, yes, So it's just all a bit of

0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:03.200
<v Speaker 3>a math.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit way of maths.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's also like, you know, it's like something I

0:24:08.240 --> 0:24:10.320
<v Speaker 1>was chatting to someone in the project. I remember this

0:24:10.400 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 1>was actually like a year ago or something, and I

0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:13.920
<v Speaker 1>was chatting to someone and they were saying like their

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<v Speaker 1>goal for the project was to lose a certain amount

0:24:16.800 --> 0:24:19.479
<v Speaker 1>of weight, and I just I thought this was so

0:24:19.640 --> 0:24:22.280
<v Speaker 1>interesting because I said to her, Oh, in the project,

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:27.200
<v Speaker 1>like we do heart heart scentered desires. Yeah, and it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>if it truly is a heart centered desire that you

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 1>need to lose, you know, takelo's whatever she wanted. I'm

0:24:32.640 --> 0:24:35.120
<v Speaker 1>happy for that, but I would just love to dig

0:24:35.160 --> 0:24:37.119
<v Speaker 1>a bit deeper here. And then so I said to her, like,

0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:40.040
<v Speaker 1>why do you want to lose this weight? And she goes, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just want to feel better and I

0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:44.639
<v Speaker 1>want to be able to run around, run around with

0:24:44.680 --> 0:24:47.320
<v Speaker 1>my kids, and you know, to feel sex in front

0:24:47.359 --> 0:24:49.360
<v Speaker 1>of my husband and blah blah blah. And I said,

0:24:49.640 --> 0:24:52.199
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I kept asking her this, but yeah, okay,

0:24:52.240 --> 0:24:54.520
<v Speaker 1>but why And then we kind of got to the

0:24:54.560 --> 0:24:57.959
<v Speaker 1>bottom of it, and it's because she had put a

0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, action of society of she needs to be

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:06.439
<v Speaker 1>a certain size to be happy. And then when we

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:09.600
<v Speaker 1>got down to it, she's like, it's actually nothing to

0:25:09.640 --> 0:25:11.920
<v Speaker 1>do with the way, it's to do with this other

0:25:11.960 --> 0:25:14.399
<v Speaker 1>thing I want. That was yes, to do with her health,

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:18.120
<v Speaker 1>but you know, I mean like she had let society

0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 1>decide what success meant for her rather than being like, no, actually,

0:25:23.960 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>what feels like for me personally? If you know, there

0:25:28.960 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 1>wasn't all these magazines with women's size fucking six and

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:36.359
<v Speaker 1>all these things around me, what would I actually want?

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 2>And then her.

0:25:37.600 --> 0:25:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Desire to end up being something so different and so beautiful.

0:25:41.880 --> 0:25:43.840
<v Speaker 1>And it was just so interesting because I think we

0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:46.840
<v Speaker 1>get very like, yeah, stuck on what we think we

0:25:47.040 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 1>should want, not what we actually want.

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:55.000
<v Speaker 5>And this year, like, in a word or two, what

0:25:55.280 --> 0:25:56.320
<v Speaker 5>is success for you?

0:25:57.680 --> 0:25:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Success for me? Like I was saying at the start,

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<v Speaker 2>is my time.

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so having my time with Ivy, having my time

0:26:05.600 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 1>with Tim, and having my time with myself.

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:09.560
<v Speaker 3>I love that.

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 1>That is like the biggest If I get to the

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:14.960
<v Speaker 1>end of the year and I've ticked off those things consistently,

0:26:15.080 --> 0:26:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like amazing, even if my fucking business is

0:26:17.640 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 1>burned to the ground.

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:21.480
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Like tick tick tick tic dick would be best

0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:23.280
<v Speaker 7>hashtag success.

0:26:24.760 --> 0:26:27.560
<v Speaker 1>Another big thing too, like I said, is those sort

0:26:27.600 --> 0:26:30.919
<v Speaker 1>of heart scented things that are really important to me

0:26:31.080 --> 0:26:34.680
<v Speaker 1>and making sure I have been integrity when.

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Going towards my goals.

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:40.119
<v Speaker 1>Something interesting that came up when I was going through

0:26:40.359 --> 0:26:42.879
<v Speaker 1>my goals at the start of the year is Naked

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 1>Harvest has always been you know, eco conscious, and it's

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:47.439
<v Speaker 1>always we call it like one.

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:48.119
<v Speaker 2>Of our pillars.

0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:51.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but from the start, like we've been very conscious.

0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:54.640
<v Speaker 1>And then just maybe two years ago, we did this

0:26:54.800 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 1>whole thing where all our you know, the way that

0:26:58.600 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 1>we pack a box, our feeling, everything was recyclable and

0:27:02.800 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 1>we partnered with this really amazing business and they helped

0:27:05.600 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 1>us make everything recyclable and we had this really beautiful journey.

0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Obviously there's always more to do.

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:14.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I kind of then obviously went into motherhood

0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:17.360
<v Speaker 1>and that kind of just got put on the back.

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:18.479
<v Speaker 2>Burner, of course.

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:21.280
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because it's like something came up when

0:27:21.280 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 1>I was doing my goals and I was like, that

0:27:23.440 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 1>is such a huge.

0:27:24.800 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 2>Thing for me personally.

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:30.919
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because like when I got down to

0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:33.680
<v Speaker 1>the why, it's because, you know, like me and Cooper,

0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:36.919
<v Speaker 1>we grew up on a farm, Like we grew up

0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:40.639
<v Speaker 1>my mom like we had goat's milk from the goat outside.

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 1>My mom is so like into you know, like making

0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:47.440
<v Speaker 1>sure everything's natural and no chemicals and you know, everything

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:49.720
<v Speaker 1>like that, and that's what's very embedded in us and

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:52.359
<v Speaker 1>the reason why we started a natural supplement business. But

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:55.560
<v Speaker 1>then also being conscious of the environment. And I realized

0:27:55.600 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 1>that got put to a back burner and so I

0:27:58.040 --> 0:28:01.040
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I'm not gonna make I want Naked

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:03.879
<v Speaker 1>Harvest to make this amount of money this year. I

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:07.320
<v Speaker 1>want us to continue on our eco conscious journey. And

0:28:07.400 --> 0:28:09.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm probably gonna get killed for saying this, but like

0:28:09.160 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 1>a big goal that I have is by twenty twenty

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:16.880
<v Speaker 1>four being like completely eco conscious, yeah, in every aspect

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 1>of n H. And I've ready setup meetings and I've ready,

0:28:19.680 --> 0:28:21.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, started to do that. And that's what feels

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:26.520
<v Speaker 1>so good, Like even making those little steps of making

0:28:26.560 --> 0:28:29.280
<v Speaker 1>the meeting with the person who can do fully recyclable

0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:31.359
<v Speaker 1>packaging and like all these things and it just felt

0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>so like aligned and good.

0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:34.800
<v Speaker 3>And it's so exciting.

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:37.399
<v Speaker 1>It's so exciting, Like you can probably see now a

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 1>tier like my face lights up when I talk about it,

0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:43.360
<v Speaker 1>and I think, this is what I'm saying about evolution

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:46.320
<v Speaker 1>is there will be some years where it is I

0:28:46.360 --> 0:28:48.520
<v Speaker 1>want my company to make this amount of money. Yeah,

0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 1>and that is fine. Yeah, but it's just about constantly checking.

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:56.120
<v Speaker 1>In another little example, I was actually telling a to

0:28:56.160 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>your off airs shrewd Ol. Yes, So going kind of,

0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:03.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, with the eco conscious situation is I'm due

0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 1>to get a new car and I have had on

0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:10.840
<v Speaker 1>my vision board for a very long time a certain Maserati.

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 2>Which we love, which we love. She's gorgeous and we

0:29:14.720 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 2>love her.

0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting because I had a conversation with Tim

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:21.680
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, you know, you're talking about you wanting

0:29:21.720 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 1>to be eco conscious with naked Harvest. And we also

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:27.400
<v Speaker 1>made the decision to get solo on our house, so

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 1>our house is very eco conscious and all these things

0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:32.520
<v Speaker 1>and blah blah blah, and obviously I'm not perfect, but

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:35.120
<v Speaker 1>it's like these little steps. And I will never say

0:29:35.120 --> 0:29:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm one hundred percent eco conscious or anything like that,

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:40.680
<v Speaker 1>because I know people come after me. But he said,

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 1>it's interesting that the car you want is a Maserati

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 1>that choose up a lot of diesel, and he's not

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 1>eco conscious. Always like oh no no, and then Tim,

0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:57.960
<v Speaker 1>so Tim's always been obsessed with Tesla's.

0:29:58.440 --> 0:29:59.840
<v Speaker 2>And then Tim's like, you should get.

0:29:59.720 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 5>It to.

0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 2>That wiped out and you just want a Tesla.

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 1>But and then I started thinking about it, and I

0:30:08.240 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 1>was like, to be very honest with you guys, the

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Maserati very much feeds into my ego and my old

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:20.560
<v Speaker 1>definition of success, which again I want to stress is

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 1>so fine.

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes yeah, it is so fine.

0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 1>But in that moment, I really like, I had a

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:29.840
<v Speaker 1>big think about it, and I was like, oh my god.

0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:31.479
<v Speaker 2>Like he's so right.

0:30:31.880 --> 0:30:35.360
<v Speaker 1>And then we went in testro some Tesla's and I

0:30:35.400 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my god, I feel like I'm in

0:30:36.640 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 1>a fucking space ship.

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 2>This is amazing.

0:30:39.200 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 1>And I love that it literally says sixty percent emissions.

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's incredible.

0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 2>It's incredible.

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 1>So then I did a lot of research in it

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:49.760
<v Speaker 1>and was listening to podcasts and I was like, no,

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 1>this is you know, this is right decision. And so

0:30:53.280 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I may be picking up my new Tesla soon.

0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 2>But it's so interesting because once I.

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Then like, I felt so fucking good and I was like,

0:31:03.960 --> 0:31:06.760
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, no, this feels really good. And it's

0:31:06.800 --> 0:31:09.640
<v Speaker 1>funny because like I personally think Tesla's are just like

0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 1>so quirky and the like I would not say, they're

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 1>like a quote unquote cool car, and.

0:31:14.880 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 2>That's something I'm into.

0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>If you haven't noticed with cars like I, you know, yeah,

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 1>like I can happily say that to you guys. And

0:31:22.880 --> 0:31:25.920
<v Speaker 1>it's funny because I'm like, I really don't care because

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:30.360
<v Speaker 1>it's like it's something that is inteke rule to what

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:32.720
<v Speaker 1>I want to make happen this year, and I'd really

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:35.960
<v Speaker 1>like big goal in that way. And then once I

0:31:36.040 --> 0:31:37.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of wratch my head around that, I'm like, oh

0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:40.440
<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm so excited and it feels so good,

0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:43.880
<v Speaker 1>and it's okay if you know, you don't think it's

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 1>a quote unquote success or you know what, it feels

0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 1>fucking good to me. Yeah, and it feels like, oh

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 1>my god, No, she's in line with her values and

0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:54.600
<v Speaker 1>that is success to me.

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:56.600
<v Speaker 3>I love that so much.

0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to take you in my car. I

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:00.040
<v Speaker 2>can't wait to get your.

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 1>So that is kind of like my journey of what

0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 1>success means to me.

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:09.600
<v Speaker 2>And I love that you're kind of similar.

0:32:09.680 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>And a big thing, like you said, is like, you know,

0:32:14.120 --> 0:32:17.000
<v Speaker 1>you might get the promotion or get the money or

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:19.280
<v Speaker 1>get the whatever, but at what cost?

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:32:19.920 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 1>And I think you're realizing the happiness aspect.

0:32:22.600 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:25.960
<v Speaker 5>And I think something that's shifted for me this year

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 5>in is like how I'm measuring success for myself for

0:32:30.080 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 5>the year. So tell us, Yeah, my three words for

0:32:35.360 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 5>this year three three, So success for me this year

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:44.400
<v Speaker 5>will be risk taking, consistency, and integrity.

0:32:45.880 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 2>I love this so much.

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:48.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:52.160
<v Speaker 5>So if I get through the year and I've taken

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 5>risks and I've gotten comfortable being uncomfortable and grown as

0:32:55.760 --> 0:32:58.440
<v Speaker 5>a person, even if even if the risks didn't work,

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:02.360
<v Speaker 5>I would be successful for me. If I've stayed consistent

0:33:02.400 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 5>with goals and habits and routines. That success for me,

0:33:07.680 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 5>And if if everything I do is in line and

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 5>brings me joy, and isn't, like you mentioned, integral to

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:17.560
<v Speaker 5>who I am as a person, like that I will

0:33:17.560 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 5>feel good at the end of the year. Like it's

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:23.920
<v Speaker 5>not about getting material things this year. Last year it

0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 5>was like some design things.

0:33:26.560 --> 0:33:28.440
<v Speaker 2>It was last year. I love it.

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:30.760
<v Speaker 1>Like last year we were like bougie bitches.

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 2>This year, like we are monks. Material things mean nine.

0:33:36.720 --> 0:33:38.080
<v Speaker 2>But that's also I still would like.

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:38.880
<v Speaker 3>Some nice things.

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:41.880
<v Speaker 5>But it's not my death, Like, it's not the box

0:33:41.920 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 5>I have to tick to feel good at the end

0:33:43.480 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 5>of the year. It's completely different to that.

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:49.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's incredible. And so this is what's so beautiful

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 1>about this conversation and Tia, if someone might be listening

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 1>and they're like, no, no, no, I've done all that

0:33:54.080 --> 0:33:55.960
<v Speaker 1>shit the last couple of years, and this is the

0:33:56.040 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 1>year I buy a maserati, So do it. That's amazing.

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Make sure it's like you have defined it for you. Yeah,

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:06.040
<v Speaker 1>and it feels really good, and don't give a fuck

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 1>what anyone else thinks.

0:34:07.520 --> 0:34:08.759
<v Speaker 2>Literally, I love that.

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:11.760
<v Speaker 1>You also said it's like you tick off those things

0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:13.919
<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't matter if they don't work out.

0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:16.640
<v Speaker 5>It's just that I did it. Yeah, yeah, and that

0:34:16.719 --> 0:34:23.000
<v Speaker 5>I tried and I think as well. Success is being misunderstood. Yes,

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:26.319
<v Speaker 5>if I might be a bit of a sicko for

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:30.280
<v Speaker 5>saying tell us if people don't understand what I'm saying,

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:35.000
<v Speaker 5>not like because it's too intelligent or things like that,

0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:37.880
<v Speaker 5>but if my goals people are like, what the freak?

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:43.839
<v Speaker 5>I love it because I something I notice is that

0:34:44.280 --> 0:34:48.440
<v Speaker 5>insanely successful people you don't understand what they're doing when

0:34:48.440 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 5>they're doing it but a way, and then the world

0:34:51.040 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 5>catches up to them.

0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, they're literally like crazy in like the best.

0:34:56.400 --> 0:34:57.439
<v Speaker 3>Way, best way ever.

0:34:57.840 --> 0:35:00.840
<v Speaker 5>And I feel like people forget that when it's happening,

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:06.040
<v Speaker 5>Like people thought Steve Jobs was insane, like clinically he

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:08.000
<v Speaker 5>got kicked out of Apple for a portion in a

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 5>time and then they've got him back. But like you see,

0:35:12.680 --> 0:35:14.880
<v Speaker 5>I see the cycle repeating with Elon Musk, and like,

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:18.520
<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying he's not problematic, but you see how

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:20.920
<v Speaker 5>people are reacting to the things he's doing. I'm reacting

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:23.200
<v Speaker 5>to the things he's doing the way people react to

0:35:23.239 --> 0:35:25.279
<v Speaker 5>Steve Jobs, and I have to pull myself up being like,

0:35:25.480 --> 0:35:28.440
<v Speaker 5>hang on, sane, this guy's probably onto something. And I'm

0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:31.640
<v Speaker 5>gonna realize five years too late, let me actually investigate

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:33.719
<v Speaker 5>and I want to be that.

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:37.239
<v Speaker 1>Well something I love that you said right then and like,

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:39.680
<v Speaker 1>let's actually unpack this and get into this because I

0:35:39.719 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 1>love that this is one of your goals too. But like,

0:35:41.920 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 1>would you not argue that the most successful people are

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:50.879
<v Speaker 1>the biggest risk takers and those people those risks at

0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:53.839
<v Speaker 1>the time. The reason why they're fucking called risks is

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:58.080
<v Speaker 1>they're misunderstood. Yeah, and they don't make sense.

0:35:58.120 --> 0:35:59.560
<v Speaker 2>That's literally why it's called a risk.

0:36:00.160 --> 0:36:01.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what.

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 3>That's so good?

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, legit, I was still thinking, I'm like, what did

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 2>I just say?

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<v Speaker 3>Brian's explode?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is Oh my god. I love that we've

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<v Speaker 1>gone here. Yeah, this is so interesting. Of like I

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<v Speaker 1>would love you guys to think of just like this year,

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<v Speaker 1>like what risk can you take in a quest, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for your success?

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<v Speaker 2>What feels really good for you?

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<v Speaker 1>And it might not make sense to anyone else And

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<v Speaker 1>that is okay.

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<v Speaker 3>It might not even make sense to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're like, why am I getting obsessed with this?

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<v Speaker 1>Saying yeah, and I love that too, because that is

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<v Speaker 1>so that's so true. Like all the successful people that

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<v Speaker 1>we know and love, like at the time took these

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:53.399
<v Speaker 1>huge risks, not even huge risk, but like I feel

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:57.479
<v Speaker 1>like they consistently took risks every time and like you'd

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<v Speaker 1>get knocked back. I'm just thinking, and I know I

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<v Speaker 1>tell the story fucking every time, but it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>time that I spent forty five thousand dollars on a

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<v Speaker 1>business coach when I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Only sixty thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>That's doing that literally gives a tear anxiety. But do

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<v Speaker 1>you I mean like I was like so in the

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<v Speaker 1>zone and I was like, no, fuck it, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want any money this year. I want to loan because

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<v Speaker 1>that was my definition of success.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So it didn't make sense to anyone else, but it

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<v Speaker 1>made sense to me. Oh my god, we're getting so aggressively.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that story and it does make me feel sick.

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<v Speaker 5>Still so much money, but like exactly, like that was

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<v Speaker 5>success for you. That year was investing in yourself and

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<v Speaker 5>growing and becoming this.

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<v Speaker 2>Whole in high level coaching.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I was like, no, I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>the thing and I don't want it to take five years.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do it in six months.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly, And you do and I did, and I think

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<v Speaker 5>that's exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So just do the guys do the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And take the risk because you'll show the rest of

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<v Speaker 5>the world, not even the rest of the world, because

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<v Speaker 5>everyone's gonna tell you you're crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Like everyone is gonna tell you you're.

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<v Speaker 5>Crazy unless you're surrounded by some really high vibe people,

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<v Speaker 5>which if you are hold on to them, people are

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<v Speaker 5>gonna tell you you're crazy. And take the risk anyway

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<v Speaker 5>and see how far that propels you. And the thing

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<v Speaker 5>I've started telling myself is even if you don't get

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<v Speaker 5>propelled as far as you think, you have to take

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<v Speaker 5>a few steps back to be able to leap forward.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's again like you getting to decide what success

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<v Speaker 1>means to you. Like in society, if you take a

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<v Speaker 1>step back, that's quote unquote not success.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you switch your mentality and you're like, no, no,

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm taking a step back, so then I can sling

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<v Speaker 1>shot and quantum leap over here. Yeah, and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>no one does like no one does, like no one doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, put the back in. No one has to understand

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<v Speaker 2>accept you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So in conclusion, guys, I think I'd really love for

0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:14.319
<v Speaker 1>you to think, like, what does success currently mean for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it come from like a heart scented place or

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<v Speaker 1>is that maybe something that has been put in you

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<v Speaker 1>from society or your parents or your friends, Like is

0:39:23.560 --> 0:39:27.799
<v Speaker 1>it really what success means for you? And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe redefining it and just asking is it integral with

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what's truly on your heart and making sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not you know, getting to success in this

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<v Speaker 1>way of at what cost? And that's like my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>thing to teach in the project is you know, I

0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:52.840
<v Speaker 1>talk a lot about alignment where I'm like, no, trust me.

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<v Speaker 2>You get to do the thing and it gets to

0:39:55.760 --> 0:39:57.360
<v Speaker 2>feel easy and flowy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if something is feeling so far fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>Hard, you need to shift, you need to change.

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<v Speaker 1>Because anytime that I feel like I'm like really on

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, next level, and it's like I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, it's it's still doing work and it's still

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<v Speaker 1>doing the thing, but you have this feeling of like,

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<v Speaker 1>holy fuck, this feels so good to me and I

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<v Speaker 1>can show up and I can do this thing with

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<v Speaker 1>ease and flow.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say as well as like take a look

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<v Speaker 5>at things that you wish you had maybe done in

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<v Speaker 5>previous years and make that one of your words of

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<v Speaker 5>success for twenty twenty three. Like, the reason risk taking

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<v Speaker 5>and consistency is there for me is because those are

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<v Speaker 5>two things that I've I've struggled with in the past.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I struggled to be consistent. I'll have a really

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<v Speaker 5>burst of motivation, be super strong and get somewhere and

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<v Speaker 5>then drop off.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm never.

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<v Speaker 5>Gonna get to where I want to go if I

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<v Speaker 5>keep dropping off, and it just makes it that much harder.

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<v Speaker 5>And then with risk taking, I'll get to a certain

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<v Speaker 5>point and then I just like would not do it.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's like I have to stop being such a chicken.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I love that you have three words.

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<v Speaker 5>Too, Yeah, and I would I would recommend everyone to

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<v Speaker 5>like maybe find three words or three values, like yours

0:41:13.360 --> 0:41:18.000
<v Speaker 5>was time, but you still had three measures of what

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:19.680
<v Speaker 5>you wanted your time to consist of.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Huge.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So guys.

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<v Speaker 1>In conclusion, like the concept of success is simple.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not easy to you know, get your hands dirty

0:41:32.080 --> 0:41:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and dive head first into uncertainty, and it's not easy

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<v Speaker 1>to shake up your world and go after something that

0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:44.920
<v Speaker 1>terrifies you. But it's so much better than like staying

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:48.880
<v Speaker 1>stagnant and staying where you are because you're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>too afraid to make that move, like very much what

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<v Speaker 1>you said it to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like frozen, and.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like playing the waiting game is only going

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<v Speaker 1>to keep you further from living your dream reality. So

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<v Speaker 1>take the risks, redefine what success means for you.

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<v Speaker 2>And do the thing. Thank you so.

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