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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts.

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Speaker 1: This is the podcast for ordinary people who want to

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Speaker 1: do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the rn

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Speaker 1: C Potty. It is your host Georgie Stevenson, and today

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Speaker 1: we have a bit of an interesting episode about success.

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Speaker 2: Oh us this whole week. That's curious.

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Speaker 1: My coach has told me to shift out of like

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Speaker 1: How curious when we're like going to like not put

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Speaker 2: We're like, hmm, that's so interesting.

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Speaker 2: So interesting. I snooze my alarm.

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Speaker 1: This morning, so just a little inside that. I love

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Speaker 1: how we do inside jokes with our community I know

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Speaker 1: We have an exciting episode. We are chatting what actually

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Speaker 1: episode before we get into though. Guys, this is your

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Speaker 2: What are you manifesting? I was gonna say, I do

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Speaker 3: Do not wait.

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Speaker 5: I'm so excited because this is both the most unclear

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Speaker 1: If you're feeling called, do not wait. This is your

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Speaker 1: last call before you get into the show. Quickly a tear.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but so highly What was it again?

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Speaker 5: Jay Shetty's podcast with Lewis Hamilton. I literally cried, really

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Speaker 5: genuinely why Because he talks about his life and like,

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Speaker 2: We are obsessed. He is our boyfriend. I love that.

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Speaker 1: Continue to listen to this podcast, but just not anything else.

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Speaker 5: so Ellie said, so many people recommended the book The

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Speaker 2: Guess why we hit ten million dead loads? Guys?

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Speaker 1: We hit ten million downloads. Like I can't even comprehend

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Speaker 1: So it was very like materialistic status. It's kind of

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Speaker 1: So that's what it used to mean for me? What

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Speaker 5: It's literally not even like the income you get from it,

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Speaker 1: But I think, how twenty two dude, I literally can't

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Speaker 1: So you've had this progression of very similar to me,

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Speaker 1: Like success to me, it still includes certain material things,

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Speaker 1: Like a big thing on this podcast is I'm allowed

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Speaker 1: Just like these episodes where I would have worked quote

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Speaker 1: It's like, sometimes why I have a love hate relationship

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Speaker 1: you're successful this year and even what success you know

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Speaker 1: And the reason why I'm so passionate about the Rise

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Speaker 2: On your heart, like you have not got it wrong.

447
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 1: And I think a big thing though, is people don't

448
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: even let that success be on their heart, if that

449
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 1: makes sense, Like they just.

450
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, or they don't even know what the difference is

451
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 5: internally of what a head desire is and a heart

452
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 5: desire feels.

453
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yes, So it's just all a bit of

454
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 3: a math.

455
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 2: A little bit way of maths.

456
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: But it's also like, you know, it's like something I

457
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: was chatting to someone in the project. I remember this

458
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: was actually like a year ago or something, and I

459
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: was chatting to someone and they were saying like their

460
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: goal for the project was to lose a certain amount

461
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,479
Speaker 1: of weight, and I just I thought this was so

462
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: interesting because I said to her, Oh, in the project,

463
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: like we do heart heart scentered desires. Yeah, and it's like,

464
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: if it truly is a heart centered desire that you

465
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: need to lose, you know, takelo's whatever she wanted. I'm

466
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: happy for that, but I would just love to dig

467
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: a bit deeper here. And then so I said to her, like,

468
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: why do you want to lose this weight? And she goes, oh, well,

469
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: you know, I just want to feel better and I

470
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 1: want to be able to run around, run around with

471
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: my kids, and you know, to feel sex in front

472
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: of my husband and blah blah blah. And I said,

473
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,199
Speaker 1: you know, like I kept asking her this, but yeah, okay,

474
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: but why And then we kind of got to the

475
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,959
Speaker 1: bottom of it, and it's because she had put a

476
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: you know, action of society of she needs to be

477
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 1: a certain size to be happy. And then when we

478
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: got down to it, she's like, it's actually nothing to

479
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 1: do with the way, it's to do with this other

480
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: thing I want. That was yes, to do with her health,

481
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 1: but you know, I mean like she had let society

482
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: decide what success meant for her rather than being like, no, actually,

483
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: what feels like for me personally? If you know, there

484
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: wasn't all these magazines with women's size fucking six and

485
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: all these things around me, what would I actually want?

486
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: And then her.

487
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: Desire to end up being something so different and so beautiful.

488
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: And it was just so interesting because I think we

489
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: get very like, yeah, stuck on what we think we

490
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: should want, not what we actually want.

491
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 5: And this year, like, in a word or two, what

492
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 5: is success for you?

493
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 2: Success for me? Like I was saying at the start,

494
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 2: is my time.

495
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, so having my time with Ivy, having my time

496
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: with Tim, and having my time with myself.

497
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: I love that.

498
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: That is like the biggest If I get to the

499
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: end of the year and I've ticked off those things consistently,

500
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: I'd be like amazing, even if my fucking business is

501
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: burned to the ground.

502
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like tick tick tick tic dick would be best

503
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 7: hashtag success.

504
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: Another big thing too, like I said, is those sort

505
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: of heart scented things that are really important to me

506
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 1: and making sure I have been integrity when.

507
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: Going towards my goals.

508
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: Something interesting that came up when I was going through

509
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 1: my goals at the start of the year is Naked

510
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: Harvest has always been you know, eco conscious, and it's

511
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 1: always we call it like one.

512
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 2: Of our pillars.

513
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, but from the start, like we've been very conscious.

514
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 1: And then just maybe two years ago, we did this

515
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: whole thing where all our you know, the way that

516
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: we pack a box, our feeling, everything was recyclable and

517
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: we partnered with this really amazing business and they helped

518
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: us make everything recyclable and we had this really beautiful journey.

519
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 2: Obviously there's always more to do.

520
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I kind of then obviously went into motherhood

521
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 1: and that kind of just got put on the back.

522
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,479
Speaker 2: Burner, of course.

523
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: And it's funny because it's like something came up when

524
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: I was doing my goals and I was like, that

525
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: is such a huge.

526
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 2: Thing for me personally.

527
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 1: And it's funny because like when I got down to

528
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: the why, it's because, you know, like me and Cooper,

529
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 1: we grew up on a farm, Like we grew up

530
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: my mom like we had goat's milk from the goat outside.

531
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: My mom is so like into you know, like making

532
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: sure everything's natural and no chemicals and you know, everything

533
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: like that, and that's what's very embedded in us and

534
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: the reason why we started a natural supplement business. But

535
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: then also being conscious of the environment. And I realized

536
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: that got put to a back burner and so I

537
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm not gonna make I want Naked

538
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: Harvest to make this amount of money this year. I

539
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: want us to continue on our eco conscious journey. And

540
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna get killed for saying this, but like

541
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: a big goal that I have is by twenty twenty

542
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 1: four being like completely eco conscious, yeah, in every aspect

543
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: of n H. And I've ready setup meetings and I've ready,

544
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: you know, started to do that. And that's what feels

545
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 1: so good, Like even making those little steps of making

546
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: the meeting with the person who can do fully recyclable

547
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: packaging and like all these things and it just felt

548
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: so like aligned and good.

549
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 3: And it's so exciting.

550
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: It's so exciting, Like you can probably see now a

551
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: tier like my face lights up when I talk about it,

552
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: and I think, this is what I'm saying about evolution

553
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: is there will be some years where it is I

554
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: want my company to make this amount of money. Yeah,

555
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: and that is fine. Yeah, but it's just about constantly checking.

556
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: In another little example, I was actually telling a to

557
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: your off airs shrewd Ol. Yes, So going kind of,

558
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: you know, with the eco conscious situation is I'm due

559
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: to get a new car and I have had on

560
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: my vision board for a very long time a certain Maserati.

561
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: Which we love, which we love. She's gorgeous and we

562
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: love her.

563
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: But it's interesting because I had a conversation with Tim

564
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: and he's like, you know, you're talking about you wanting

565
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: to be eco conscious with naked Harvest. And we also

566
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: made the decision to get solo on our house, so

567
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: our house is very eco conscious and all these things

568
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, and obviously I'm not perfect, but

569
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: it's like these little steps. And I will never say

570
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent eco conscious or anything like that,

571
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: because I know people come after me. But he said,

572
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: it's interesting that the car you want is a Maserati

573
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: that choose up a lot of diesel, and he's not

574
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: eco conscious. Always like oh no no, and then Tim,

575
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: so Tim's always been obsessed with Tesla's.

576
00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: And then Tim's like, you should get.

577
00:29:59,720 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 5: It to.

578
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 2: That wiped out and you just want a Tesla.

579
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: But and then I started thinking about it, and I

580
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: was like, to be very honest with you guys, the

581
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: Maserati very much feeds into my ego and my old

582
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: definition of success, which again I want to stress is

583
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: so fine.

584
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes yeah, it is so fine.

585
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: But in that moment, I really like, I had a

586
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: big think about it, and I was like, oh my god.

587
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,479
Speaker 2: Like he's so right.

588
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: And then we went in testro some Tesla's and I

589
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I feel like I'm in

590
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: a fucking space ship.

591
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 2: This is amazing.

592
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: And I love that it literally says sixty percent emissions.

593
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's incredible.

594
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: It's incredible.

595
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: So then I did a lot of research in it

596
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: and was listening to podcasts and I was like, no,

597
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: this is you know, this is right decision. And so

598
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: I may be picking up my new Tesla soon.

599
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: But it's so interesting because once I.

600
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: Then like, I felt so fucking good and I was like,

601
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: oh my god, no, this feels really good. And it's

602
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: funny because like I personally think Tesla's are just like

603
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: so quirky and the like I would not say, they're

604
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: like a quote unquote cool car, and.

605
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 2: That's something I'm into.

606
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: If you haven't noticed with cars like I, you know, yeah,

607
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: like I can happily say that to you guys. And

608
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: it's funny because I'm like, I really don't care because

609
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: it's like it's something that is inteke rule to what

610
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: I want to make happen this year, and I'd really

611
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 1: like big goal in that way. And then once I

612
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: kind of wratch my head around that, I'm like, oh

613
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so excited and it feels so good,

614
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: and it's okay if you know, you don't think it's

615
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: a quote unquote success or you know what, it feels

616
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: fucking good to me. Yeah, and it feels like, oh

617
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: my god, No, she's in line with her values and

618
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: that is success to me.

619
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 3: I love that so much.

620
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: I can't wait to take you in my car. I

621
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,040
Speaker 2: can't wait to get your.

622
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: So that is kind of like my journey of what

623
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: success means to me.

624
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 2: And I love that you're kind of similar.

625
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: And a big thing, like you said, is like, you know,

626
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: you might get the promotion or get the money or

627
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: get the whatever, but at what cost?

628
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 3: Yeah?

629
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: And I think you're realizing the happiness aspect.

630
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: Yes.

631
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 5: And I think something that's shifted for me this year

632
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 5: in is like how I'm measuring success for myself for

633
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 5: the year. So tell us, Yeah, my three words for

634
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 5: this year three three, So success for me this year

635
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 5: will be risk taking, consistency, and integrity.

636
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: I love this so much.

637
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

638
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 5: So if I get through the year and I've taken

639
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 5: risks and I've gotten comfortable being uncomfortable and grown as

640
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 5: a person, even if even if the risks didn't work,

641
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 5: I would be successful for me. If I've stayed consistent

642
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 5: with goals and habits and routines. That success for me,

643
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 5: And if if everything I do is in line and

644
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 5: brings me joy, and isn't, like you mentioned, integral to

645
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 5: who I am as a person, like that I will

646
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 5: feel good at the end of the year. Like it's

647
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 5: not about getting material things this year. Last year it

648
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 5: was like some design things.

649
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: It was last year. I love it.

650
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: Like last year we were like bougie bitches.

651
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 2: This year, like we are monks. Material things mean nine.

652
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 2: But that's also I still would like.

653
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 3: Some nice things.

654
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 5: But it's not my death, Like, it's not the box

655
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 5: I have to tick to feel good at the end

656
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 5: of the year. It's completely different to that.

657
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's incredible. And so this is what's so beautiful

658
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: about this conversation and Tia, if someone might be listening

659
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: and they're like, no, no, no, I've done all that

660
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: shit the last couple of years, and this is the

661
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: year I buy a maserati, So do it. That's amazing.

662
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: Make sure it's like you have defined it for you. Yeah,

663
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: and it feels really good, and don't give a fuck

664
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: what anyone else thinks.

665
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 2: Literally, I love that.

666
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,760
Speaker 1: You also said it's like you tick off those things

667
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter if they don't work out.

668
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Speaker 5: It's just that I did it. Yeah, yeah, and that

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Speaker 5: I tried and I think as well. Success is being misunderstood. Yes,

670
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Speaker 5: if I might be a bit of a sicko for

671
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Speaker 5: saying tell us if people don't understand what I'm saying,

672
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Speaker 5: not like because it's too intelligent or things like that,

673
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Speaker 5: but if my goals people are like, what the freak?

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Speaker 5: I love it because I something I notice is that

675
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 5: insanely successful people you don't understand what they're doing when

676
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 5: they're doing it but a way, and then the world

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Speaker 5: catches up to them.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, they're literally like crazy in like the best.

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Speaker 3: Way, best way ever.

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Speaker 5: And I feel like people forget that when it's happening,

681
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 5: Like people thought Steve Jobs was insane, like clinically he

682
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 5: got kicked out of Apple for a portion in a

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00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 5: time and then they've got him back. But like you see,

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Speaker 5: I see the cycle repeating with Elon Musk, and like,

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying he's not problematic, but you see how

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00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 5: people are reacting to the things he's doing. I'm reacting

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Speaker 5: to the things he's doing the way people react to

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Speaker 5: Steve Jobs, and I have to pull myself up being like,

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Speaker 5: hang on, sane, this guy's probably onto something. And I'm

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00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 5: gonna realize five years too late, let me actually investigate

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Speaker 5: and I want to be that.

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Speaker 1: Well something I love that you said right then and like,

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Speaker 1: let's actually unpack this and get into this because I

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Speaker 1: love that this is one of your goals too. But like,

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Speaker 1: would you not argue that the most successful people are

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Speaker 1: the biggest risk takers and those people those risks at

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Speaker 1: the time. The reason why they're fucking called risks is

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Speaker 1: they're misunderstood. Yeah, and they don't make sense.

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Speaker 2: That's literally why it's called a risk.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what.

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Speaker 3: That's so good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, legit, I was still thinking, I'm like, what did

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Speaker 2: I just say?

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Speaker 3: Brian's explode?

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Speaker 1: So this is Oh my god. I love that we've

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Speaker 1: gone here. Yeah, this is so interesting. Of like I

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Speaker 1: would love you guys to think of just like this year,

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Speaker 1: like what risk can you take in a quest, you know,

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Speaker 1: for your success?

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Speaker 2: What feels really good for you?

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Speaker 1: And it might not make sense to anyone else And

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00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: that is okay.

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Speaker 3: It might not even make sense to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, why am I getting obsessed with this?

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00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: Saying yeah, and I love that too, because that is

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00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: so that's so true. Like all the successful people that

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00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: we know and love, like at the time took these

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00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: huge risks, not even huge risk, but like I feel

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Speaker 1: like they consistently took risks every time and like you'd

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Speaker 1: get knocked back. I'm just thinking, and I know I

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Speaker 1: tell the story fucking every time, but it's like the

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00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: time that I spent forty five thousand dollars on a

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Speaker 1: business coach when I was.

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Speaker 2: Only sixty thousand.

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00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: That's doing that literally gives a tear anxiety. But do

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Speaker 1: you I mean like I was like so in the

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00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: zone and I was like, no, fuck it, I don't

728
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Speaker 1: want any money this year. I want to loan because

729
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: that was my definition of success.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So it didn't make sense to anyone else, but it

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00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: made sense to me. Oh my god, we're getting so aggressively.

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Speaker 3: I love that story and it does make me feel sick.

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00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 5: Still so much money, but like exactly, like that was

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Speaker 5: success for you. That year was investing in yourself and

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Speaker 5: growing and becoming this.

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Speaker 2: Whole in high level coaching.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was like, no, I want to do

739
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Speaker 1: the thing and I don't want it to take five years.

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Speaker 2: I want to do it in six months.

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00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,959
Speaker 5: Exactly, And you do and I did, and I think

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Speaker 5: that's exactly.

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Speaker 2: So just do the guys do the thing.

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Speaker 5: And take the risk because you'll show the rest of

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00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 5: the world, not even the rest of the world, because

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00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 5: everyone's gonna tell you you're crazy.

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00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 3: Like everyone is gonna tell you you're.

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Speaker 5: Crazy unless you're surrounded by some really high vibe people,

749
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Speaker 5: which if you are hold on to them, people are

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00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 5: gonna tell you you're crazy. And take the risk anyway

751
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 5: and see how far that propels you. And the thing

752
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 5: I've started telling myself is even if you don't get

753
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 5: propelled as far as you think, you have to take

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00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 5: a few steps back to be able to leap forward.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

756
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: And that's again like you getting to decide what success

757
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: means to you. Like in society, if you take a

758
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: step back, that's quote unquote not success.

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00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: But if you switch your mentality and you're like, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm taking a step back, so then I can sling

762
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: shot and quantum leap over here. Yeah, and it's like

763
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: no one does like no one does, like no one doesn't.

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00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 2: Wow, put the back in. No one has to understand

765
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: accept you. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So in conclusion, guys, I think I'd really love for

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Speaker 1: you to think, like, what does success currently mean for you?

768
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 2: Now?

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00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: Does it come from like a heart scented place or

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00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: is that maybe something that has been put in you

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00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: from society or your parents or your friends, Like is

772
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: it really what success means for you? And you know,

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00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 1: maybe redefining it and just asking is it integral with

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00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: you know, what's truly on your heart and making sure

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00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: that you're not you know, getting to success in this

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00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: way of at what cost? And that's like my favorite

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00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: thing to teach in the project is you know, I

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00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 1: talk a lot about alignment where I'm like, no, trust me.

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00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 2: You get to do the thing and it gets to

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00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 2: feel easy and flowy.

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00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, if something is feeling so far fucking.

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00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 2: Hard, you need to shift, you need to change.

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00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: Because anytime that I feel like I'm like really on

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00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: that you know, next level, and it's like I'm doing

785
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: the thing, it's it's still doing work and it's still

786
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: doing the thing, but you have this feeling of like,

787
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: holy fuck, this feels so good to me and I

788
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: can show up and I can do this thing with

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Speaker 1: ease and flow.

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Speaker 5: I would say as well as like take a look

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Speaker 5: at things that you wish you had maybe done in

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Speaker 5: previous years and make that one of your words of

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00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 5: success for twenty twenty three. Like, the reason risk taking

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00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 5: and consistency is there for me is because those are

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00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,800
Speaker 5: two things that I've I've struggled with in the past.

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Speaker 5: Like I struggled to be consistent. I'll have a really

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00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 5: burst of motivation, be super strong and get somewhere and

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00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 5: then drop off.

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Speaker 3: And I'm never.

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Speaker 5: Gonna get to where I want to go if I

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00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 5: keep dropping off, and it just makes it that much harder.

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00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 5: And then with risk taking, I'll get to a certain

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00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 5: point and then I just like would not do it.

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00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 5: So it's like I have to stop being such a chicken.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love that you have three words.

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00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 5: Too, Yeah, and I would I would recommend everyone to

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00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,280
Speaker 5: like maybe find three words or three values, like yours

808
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 5: was time, but you still had three measures of what

809
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 5: you wanted your time to consist of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Huge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So guys.

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Speaker 1: In conclusion, like the concept of success is simple.

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00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: But it's not easy.

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00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: It's not easy to you know, get your hands dirty

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00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: and dive head first into uncertainty, and it's not easy

816
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: to shake up your world and go after something that

817
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: terrifies you. But it's so much better than like staying

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00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: stagnant and staying where you are because you're you know,

819
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: too afraid to make that move, like very much what

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00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: you said it to you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like frozen, and.

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00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: You know, like playing the waiting game is only going

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00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:00,439
Speaker 1: to keep you further from living your dream reality. So

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00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: take the risks, redefine what success means for you.

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00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: And do the thing. Thank you so.

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Speaker 1: Much, bye, Thank you so much for listening to another

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Speaker 1: episode of the Rise and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed

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