1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Nine Our voices, Quick heads up. 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 2: This podcast can sometimes get a bit rough on bros 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 2: and cons. We talk about real life and we're committed 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 2: to having open conversations with no filter. Some experiences and 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: tastes can be challenging to digest, So if you're easily rattled, 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 2: you probably want to sit this one out. Listener discretion 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: is advice support is always available. You can contact Lifeline 8 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 2: on thirteen eleven fourteen or thirteen Young on one Thing 9 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: nine two seven six for Aboriginal or toe straight Islanders. 10 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: All right, let's get it. 11 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: At Double Bay at the Sheaf in two thousand and eight. 12 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 3: I was at the Roosters, went down the back streets, right, 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 3: wasn't in front of anyone or nothing. That's about eight 14 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 3: of still in a piss. This dude rolled past proper paparazzi. 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 3: That's how you get caught. Well when dude, yeah you 16 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 3: got me gun. 17 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: What he said? 18 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 4: We just think about the YouTube, but he can said. 19 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 3: Like accountability and that all happened because he was in 20 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: there during COVID so with two boys. 21 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: Bro, Like wow, yeah, so really changes, Like he just 22 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: bought a fucking house in upnear Raymond Terrace, uping in newcast. 23 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 3: Oh well, well yeah, the moon probably thirty two acres. 24 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: We're brothers men, but we're best mates. 25 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, well my life is like it was one 26 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 3: foot in, one foot out. 27 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 5: Well, I've seen some ship there for yeah, at least 28 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 5: you remember at our usual place. 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 4: You know, the fans are going off. 30 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: So you've got a place out in Bankstown. 31 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, we yeah, it's it's it's a local little bank 32 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 2: someone much smaller than this. 33 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: But they called quits to live there when I was young. Yeah, 34 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: Condall park Well in ninety nine, yeah, in ninety nine. 35 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: Hold you boy, wow have you seen that? 36 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 3: You see I've seeing all these are man, they're all mad, 37 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: big gangsters, like because we sort of come through together 38 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 3: the two thousands and now these guys are like sergeant 39 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: arms and like presidents and yeah, it's a funk around 40 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 3: in the Cross all the time. But heavy hitters, like 41 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 3: all the league players and the gangsters just used to 42 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 3: roll together. 43 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a normal thing. Yeah, that's true. Like 44 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: the Cross is just saying my mate used to my 45 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: mates used to run the Cross. 46 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm like we used to roll around and 47 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 3: go on these mad benders with comos and all that 48 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 3: suff up in. 49 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: Fucking banks down somewhere. I tell my wife the fuck 50 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't know where, but it was mad. It was madness. 51 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: We all used to get along. It's never like anything 52 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: like and. 53 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: That was underbelly day, yeah man, yeah, yeah, have you 54 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: seen the last came across or anything? 55 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: What's it taken on that? 56 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: And it's very like. 57 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 3: It's yeah, they come to blows with it because my mate, 58 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 3: he's he he's the one who funded it, right, he's 59 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 3: so him and John John try to change a lot 60 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 3: of the ship because they wanted to put real ship 61 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 3: in there, and John just liken, this happened like a 62 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 3: total like fabricated Yeah, well yeah, so fantasy that my 63 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 3: mate Mark Fantasy. He runs that studio, Paramount Studios, he 64 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 3: owns it. And he was telling me because we catch 65 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: up for dinner and stuff because he's a big hitter 66 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 3: on the roosters, like he's on one of the big 67 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 3: dogs on the rooster's board. Yeah, but I've been making 68 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 3: for ages. He goes, yeah, he just lost his ship 69 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 3: because they wanted to. 70 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: Put some real ship in there. He wouldn't allow it. 71 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: He just wanted people to like sort of idolize him 72 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 3: and all that, and I was like, dude, you did 73 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 3: some fucking proper ship man, and then they just come 74 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 3: to blowers but they just it's an amicable agreement. 75 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: Now yeah, because John John was coming in man, and 76 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: just like sitting on set gun that shi. It's a 77 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: fucking movie. Make you like a gangster, but like. 78 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, like you can't component or something. 79 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, anyway, yeah that's what I mean. 80 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: Ah, Lads and led Debts, welcome back to another episode 81 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 2: of Bros and can Man. We have an exciting guest today. 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,239 Speaker 2: We got the giant known for being tough as nails 83 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: on and off the field. Really yeah, so you guys 84 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: can see it's a different setting. This is uh we 85 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: don't usually do it here, but unfortunately we couldn't do 86 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 2: it at our home base. 87 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: But here we are. Man, we may give us an introduction, bro. Yeah, 88 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Guys. I want to say big shout 89 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: out to you boys as well. I've looked at what you. 90 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 3: Did and you know, big influence on what you do, man, 91 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 3: like your young cats West like you're doing good to 92 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 3: do something and you suck it up, come back and 93 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 3: right the wrongs and try and influence the younger kids 94 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 3: in a better way. I mean, I've been watching what 95 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: you've been saying. It's very powerful man, especially out west. 96 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 3: These young kids up to you guys. 97 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. And you can send 98 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: them either way. Yeah, and you send them the right way. 99 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: It's good. 100 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 2: I guess a lot of we had a big talk 101 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 2: about doing our transition and we felt like a lot 102 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 2: of the mess in Western Sydney, like we played a 103 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 2: big part and all we wanted to do is at 104 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: least try and undo as much as we can, you 105 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: know what I mean. Like, even if it's just conversations 106 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 2: like this and after I'll surprise it actually helped a 107 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: lot of young boys that they reached out to us 108 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 2: and they're like, bro, we love it. 109 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: Well. 110 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 3: They connect with you guys, right because you're authentic and 111 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: you real and you've lived it. Sitting here is like 112 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 3: three guys just trying to educate and tell people what 113 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 3: to do. 114 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: Kids don't like that. Ship. Imagine you're in that position. 115 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys weren't real and you're telling these guys 116 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 3: how it is or when you've lived it, so like 117 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 3: that you're doing. That's why you're authentic, right, and that's 118 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 3: what people fuck with you. Okay, Well, listening to these 119 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 3: guys because they've lived it. People can tell all this shit, 120 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 3: but they can see all the young kids, especially like 121 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: everyone blames gen Z for being lazy and all that 122 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 3: sort of shit, But you guys get a hammering, right, 123 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: It's like you're smarter than people give credit for. 124 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 4: Yeah, do you know what I mean? Like it's like, bro, 125 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 4: it's amazing to hear it from amazing. 126 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: This girl. Right, Yeah, this stuff out west, people don't understand. 127 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,559 Speaker 3: Like Rique was talking before, I said, look, we're twenty 128 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 3: five thirty kilometers that way, and it's a. 129 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: Whole different thing. This postcode wars is all that sort 130 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: of stuff. When did if you don't mind me, ass, 131 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: when did all that start? 132 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: Because I'm forty five in the two thousands, she wasn't there? 133 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, act when did it just appear? And like you have. 134 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 3: Post code where they represent hard Where did this come from? 135 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: I think like you can even notice this on on 136 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 2: the in the NRL fields like Islander is we're pretty passionate, Yeah, 137 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: pretty personate and loyal bro. Yeah, and when it comes 138 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 2: to physical contact, like who doesn't like seeing Big Islanders 139 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 2: classic game? And then that same that same kind of 140 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 2: thing just dragged into the streets for the boys that 141 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 2: didn't make the NRL field where were we We just 142 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 2: ended up clashing again other you know. 143 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: Ye, And I guess in a kind of sense that 144 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: was our NRL. It was. 145 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: It was like, you know, you've got the Malonnie Boys 146 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: at Penrif Boys, and then you have all the boys 147 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: from Granville and Auburn and that, and these were all 148 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 2: the islanders that we didn't make THEE and we just 149 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: tried to make something anyway. And yeah, I think it 150 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: boiled over, buddy when out of proportion. 151 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 7: Yea, they went out of proportion because of the music. 152 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 7: A lot of the times back then in the early 153 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 7: two thousands, he used to just be like all in brawers, Like, yeah, 154 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 7: the boys get together. 155 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: It was pretty fucking wild out there. 156 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, from Kembelltown, Lapini Pay all these boys used to 157 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 3: catch the trains and they to play with the roosters. 158 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: They're good dudes, but. 159 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: They were like on the other side, they going to 160 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 3: church and all that kind of stuff, and they were 161 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 3: playing footy and playing at NRLL level where he goes 162 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 3: these boys, all the brothers out there, all the tongue 163 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: boys and some boys were always at it. Yeah, but 164 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: this was no post code I'm talking like this is 165 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 3: the mid two thousands, Like there wasn't this postcode war. 166 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 3: No one was getting tattoos. It didn't mean that much. 167 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 3: It was always about suburbs. Mounte's and like you know, 168 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 3: Pretchyard and all that sort of stuff. Was like I 169 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 3: get that Mount drew it. So you guys, you know 170 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 3: you got your things tattered on your neck and your 171 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 3: arms and there. 172 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, well you get that passionate. 173 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm saying like I'm forty five. Yeah, such probably 174 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 3: a generation oh than you boys just like fuck it 175 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 3: god hectic for like last ten years. 176 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, It's interesting you brought that up 177 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: because I feel like over time we kind of we 178 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: played in It wasn't as a big deal to us 179 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 2: when it first started, but then we just kind of 180 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 2: played ourselves into this role, into this role where now 181 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: we got people that are looking up to us to represent. 182 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: Now we're representing areas that we didn't even put our 183 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 2: hands up to do this, but like we've become this 184 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 2: kind of everyone will be like like depending on us 185 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 2: to like hold it down for the area and then 186 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 2: I feel like even for that side, I could be wrong. 187 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 2: I could be wrong, but I feel like for their side, 188 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 2: we kind of just started like getting passionate together. So 189 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 2: they will get passionate and start throwing up the Mount 190 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 2: Duyt signs, and then it would just make us. 191 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: Feel like, oh yeah, yeah, well we're from here. 192 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: And then it just it grew like that we were 193 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: feeding off each other's energy. 194 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 3: Then the music. So when you chuck that in, it's 195 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 3: all good. When it's just here to say on social media, 196 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 3: you fucking can wrap and say some real ship and 197 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 3: the rest of the world can hear it. 198 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: I reckon. 199 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 3: That's when it got fuck you real proper, like Ignited, 200 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 3: and I'm like, what is happening out there? 201 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, these rap groups like one four and 202 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: twenty one, Yeah, going hard at it. 203 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 4: And I'm like, because the music was probably the biggest 204 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 4: thing that. 205 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 3: Tanged the whole Ignite, Yeah, everybody can see it, yeah exactly. 206 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: And I realized, well, they started on some of the starting, 207 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: but I was just retired, Like I just retired. 208 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: It was like twenty fourteen, fifteen. 209 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 3: I come back twenty seventeen in the show, and I'm like, man, 210 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 3: this Drie rap's really caught on. 211 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: I get it. I don't mind. I love that music, 212 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: but I'm like, fuck, it's getting heck together. 213 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. 214 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I speak to some of the brothers out there, like, yeah, 215 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 3: it's wild out here, man, because they still live out Seat. 216 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: Town and all that kind of Yeah, Mount drew it, that's. 217 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 2: Crazy, And I think that's the reality is it's still real. 218 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 2: It's not It's still happening. Even as we're as we're 219 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 2: trying to like be advocates for, you know, more positive light, 220 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: it doesn't take away from the fact that there is 221 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 2: still things happening on the street and we're just trying 222 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 2: to push as much of our boys away from it 223 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 2: as possible because but it's all we all end up 224 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 2: in the same place on that side, you know. 225 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, what gave you that sort of like that light 226 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: bulb moment where it's like, fuck, this is this is stupid? 227 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: I think I'm not stupid, but like we're influencing it 228 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: still relatively young. Yeah, it's still be in the streets easily. 229 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, some of your mates would be that. But like, 230 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 3: where was the light bulb moment was like I gotta 231 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 3: do something better? When was that I think. 232 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 7: It was an So I went to jail on twenty 233 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 7: nineteen with this guy and we came out and it 234 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 7: was like our another, like it might just keep going, 235 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 7: you know. 236 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: You double down on it. 237 00:10:55,280 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what it is, man, it's like. 238 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 7: And then I think, I think what happened was my 239 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 7: eldest brother when he got arrested. He was looking at 240 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 7: a whack as soon as he got arrested. And I 241 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 7: think that's when we all got together and we're like, man, 242 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 7: fuck this year, Like we're all just going to keep 243 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 7: coming in and now if we want to keep doing this, 244 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 7: that's smart. Yeah, And we did realize that we were 245 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 7: probably like the biggest influence on our area as well, 246 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 7: and we were also doing. 247 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 8: Our own work as well, and we were a big 248 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 8: influence on our oldest brother too, So when he got 249 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 8: locked up kind of impacted us in a different way 250 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 8: by and it was we just felt like. 251 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: We were saying for so many years, we kept saying, 252 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: free my brother, Free my brother, But is he really 253 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 2: free if we keep pushing this agenda? And then we 254 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: just kind of went from like like trying to impress 255 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 2: the area code too, bro, I just want to look 256 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: after my brothers. You know, I don't care what happens 257 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 2: on the street anymore. I just want to I want 258 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 2: to make sure that I'm the right role model for 259 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 2: my brothers. And even if we spoke about like this 260 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: before we started, we're like, bro, people are gonna hate 261 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 2: us for switching, but as long as we're together. 262 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: You're not just get anything wrong. Like you're trying to educate. 263 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 3: Like if anyone's mad at you boys, that's that's a 264 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 3: problem for them, you know what I mean. Like it's 265 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,319 Speaker 3: not like you're switched up and you're like you're you're 266 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 3: fucking yeah, snitch or something like. 267 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: That, do you know what I mean? 268 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 3: You're just trying to educate and try and like influence 269 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 3: that because the next little fifteen year old who's out 270 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 3: there who's trying to be in a spining NRL player 271 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: or anything like that, like rappers, you got, you guys 272 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 3: got so much influence, right, and like I don't think 273 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 3: he's understand that. 274 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: And it's very admirable and smart for you guys at. 275 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 3: This age, right, because you guys could be deep double down, 276 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 3: fuck it, get smarter and go out there. 277 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,599 Speaker 1: And not get caught that mentality. 278 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 3: Because most of these like old bokes learn to their 279 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,079 Speaker 3: fifty or sixty Yeah, telling you man, it's smart. When 280 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: I when I started following you guys, I like, fuck, 281 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 3: you guys are onto it. 282 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,599 Speaker 7: I think it's because we've got brothers as and I 283 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 7: realized that as you were growing up, like everyone wants 284 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 7: to get to get on the news. That's the main goal. 285 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 7: Do something big, get on the really someone inside, Like 286 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 7: when you get like different shit, guy that was on 287 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 7: the news, that's that guy. And I think and even 288 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 7: the jail birds respect you, like when you get when 289 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 7: you get on the news and you come to jail, 290 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 7: a lot of them look up to you. A lot 291 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 7: of them to you with respect. And what I found 292 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 7: was that was shocking about this podcast is that we 293 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 7: had a lot of jailbirds that were actually supporting us. 294 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 7: So we got that same sort of like, you know, 295 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 7: that same sort of feeling from people that we look up. 296 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 3: To because they wish they could do that as well. Yeah, 297 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 3: older guys probably in their forties and fifties. 298 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: Second or third bid, Yeah for the long one. 299 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 3: This time, if I had had that talk between brothers, 300 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: like at thirty or twenty twenty five to thirty, shit, 301 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: wouldn't happen. 302 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what's mad someone someone said in 303 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 2: or comments as well, like the conversations we have every 304 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 2: like everyone has these conversations behind closed doors with their brothers. Yeah, 305 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,080 Speaker 2: but we're just kind of saying it out in publish proper. 306 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 2: Yeah what everyone what everyone is thinking of saying? And 307 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 2: I remember mentioning before that the whole my my. What 308 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 2: pushed me a lot to want to bring these conversations 309 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 2: is that when we were young, like all of our 310 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 2: elders that kind of change their lives, they just left silently, 311 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 2: but they didn't really leave something behind front Blue Street. Yeah, 312 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 2: this is not the way. They just kind of had 313 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: kids and then they just went off into the sunset. 314 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 315 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 2: And so now we're just kind of trying to be that. 316 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 2: We're trying to be that for the next person, Like 317 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 2: this told you know, that's. 318 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: What I'm saying. 319 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 3: It's unreal what you guys are, Like, I don't think 320 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 3: you understand the influence that you're going to have on 321 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 3: a fifteen year old kid who might be gone, Yeah, 322 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 3: one foot in here, I got one foot out there, 323 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 3: Like I'm like, you know, do play in RL play sports? 324 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 3: That's the main thing or just be a good person. 325 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 1: Man. 326 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 7: You didn't you didn't mention that it wasn't really happening 327 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 7: around your generation. 328 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 4: How was your upbringing where about. 329 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: You, guys? 330 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 4: I was. 331 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 3: My upbringing is a bit like it's probably rough to 332 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 3: most people now, but it was just normal for me. 333 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: Man. 334 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 3: Like, I'm from Toronto West, up near Newcastle, but I 335 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 3: was born in New Zealand. Come over when I was five. 336 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: So it was. 337 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 3: So like we come here and we're like on one 338 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 3: of eight, right, so we're like in commission houses and 339 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 3: all that sort of ship. We're moving around in Newcastle, Woollongong, Newcastle, Wollongong, 340 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 3: end up settling in Toronto. So that's where I grew 341 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 3: up from eight to like seventeen, So that's when you remember, right, Yeah, 342 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 3: and then got contracted and then come down to the dogs. 343 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 3: But Toronto was Toronto West was like it was pretty tough, man, 344 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 3: It's up to you. It's like southwest of Newcastle such 345 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 3: a bit of a shit. I've been up there a 346 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 3: couple of times, but it sort of makes you who 347 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 3: you are. 348 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't even know that little poor or anything. Yeah, 349 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: I was like in high school. 350 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're hanging out with all the like you're hanging 351 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 3: out with your brother, like, oh, my mate lives on 352 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 3: the lake and commission house. 353 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: But it was just it was just normal. Man. 354 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 3: My old man passed away probably when I was seventeen, 355 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 3: So that was a real, like life life changing moment. 356 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: Man. You know. 357 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 3: That's why, like most things can't fuck with me, like 358 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 3: in a normal sort of setting. 359 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: In so like media, bullshit paper, all that sort of. 360 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 3: Stuff, I don't give a fuck of I don't care 361 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 3: because when you go through list year as a young 362 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 3: kid and a real impressionable age at seventeen, you lose 363 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 3: your father, you go only guy that can sort of 364 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: tell you what to do, like my brother. I told 365 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 3: you were in with my brother. He's fucking huge, right yeah, 366 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 3: And so him and I were coming through together. We're 367 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 3: going out doing some real dumb ship. I could have 368 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 3: easily went into his way right foot. He kept me 369 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 3: on the shade and narrow go down to the bulldogs. 370 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 3: As a seventeen year old kid from Toronto West didn't 371 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 3: even know what a Lebanese person was. 372 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know what I mean? 373 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 3: Because it was like there was none of that ye 374 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 3: indigenous and a couple of Islanders in the in the 375 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 3: school that was it. Yeah. Yeah, so like Lebanese and 376 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: all that sort of stuff, they weren't. They weren't coming 377 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 3: through you would have been for I was just like, 378 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 3: come down to Bedown, the seventeen year old kid like me, 379 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 3: come down to Bellmore, right, I live in Belmore. 380 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck is this? 381 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, shad in the and I'm just like, okay, well 382 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 3: a single swim time right like an she said the 383 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 3: late nineties, like ninety eight, ninety nine. Yeah, So I 384 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 3: just go down there and they sort of make make 385 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,360 Speaker 3: do and obviously things worked out. 386 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: Brought mama house when I was twenty one, so twenty one. 387 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so all that sort of ship I just wanted 388 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 3: to do because I just wanted to get, like the 389 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 3: family out of the ship little pace that we lived, 390 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 3: you know, like when you have that sort of drive 391 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 3: behind you, like nothing much can stop ya. 392 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 4: But what is your background? 393 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: I told my mom's half tongue and in half someone 394 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: where Yeah, so my mom. 395 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 3: But my mom, you know when you're born in the Islands, 396 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 3: like yeah, because her mom is Simon my grandma. She 397 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 3: never like they never get to say in the Island, 398 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 3: so she got brought up Tonguean because her dad. 399 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 1: Was Tonguan in fron of. 400 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 3: Missy like yeah, yeah, so yeah, like she and I 401 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 3: didn't know that I was a quarter someone until I 402 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 3: was like twenty two. 403 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 404 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 3: I kept that under the rights because I'm the exact 405 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 3: same as someone his oame tongue quarter and yeah, yeah 406 00:17:54,200 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 3: I was sitch from in Funo. MISSI in inat Beutiful, Man, 407 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 3: I've been there. He that's where, that's where our mom is. 408 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 1: I bet they're related. I bet they can talk. 409 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 3: And yeah, all right, that many people are in everybody 410 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 3: knows everyone. 411 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. So it's at small so probably is 412 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: a good chance. Well I didn't even know you were. Yeah. 413 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 2: And then your dad's dad, my dad was an Aussie, OK, 414 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 2: so he was like yeah, I didn't. 415 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: Really know him as a man. Yea. So I was 416 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: seventeen when he passed. 417 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 3: I was like, now I sort of do, because my 418 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 3: my was a godfather, was his best mate, and I 419 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 3: sort of got what he was like when he was 420 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 3: younger because he was a wild cat, Like he hitchhiked 421 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 3: around the show when he was like sixteen with his 422 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 3: best mate, who's my godfather. He's passed on now. Then 423 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 3: they moved to New Zealand. They stole weight and stolen 424 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 3: got on a boat because they must have gotten ship here. 425 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 3: So this is all the stuff I had to figure out. Yeh, well, 426 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: we were born in New Zealand, the first four and 427 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 3: then the second four were born in a show. He's 428 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 3: what I'm saying that I would have got a little bit 429 00:18:56,920 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 3: of homework and Dad's like, oh, my Godfather's like, we 430 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 3: we've gotten shipped here. 431 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: So we had to funk off to New Zealand. 432 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 3: We had no money, so we just jumped on a 433 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 3: boat and stole away and then landed in Auckland and 434 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 3: then got out when he was running pubs and all 435 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 3: that sort of ship like in New Zealand. Must have 436 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 3: gotten shipped there. And then we come back to Australian 437 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 3: eighty five. Yeah, yeah, and that's the that's what. 438 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 439 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 3: I wish I wish he was here so we could 440 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: just fucking hear these stories because that would have been 441 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 3: in the fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, nineties. 442 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have been some good times. Starway. Yeah, 443 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: New Zealand and then we then yeah. 444 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 3: So all this happened before I was five or six. 445 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 2: And you imagine you I have a brother, is that 446 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,239 Speaker 2: only one brother? You got two brothers, five sisters. And 447 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 2: he was close to Yeah, yeah, we're close. He just 448 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 2: he was in with him, I reckon. 449 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 1: I think I seen him past eight. 450 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he's it's a credit to him as well 451 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 3: as you boys as well. But like he he could 452 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 3: have went, he could have come out, doubled down and 453 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 3: got a little like went straight back in, but he didn't. 454 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,400 Speaker 3: Man Like, he manned up, got a he's got a family, 455 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 3: you know, Like he's just bought a house something near 456 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 3: the back of like thirty two acres. Like he's just 457 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 3: away from everything. He's up forty six forty seven. Just 458 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 3: smokes briskets and fucking cooks. No drinking, no, no nothing everything, 459 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: you know, Like and that's good to see. I'm so 460 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 3: proud of him as a brother. Like he's about eighteen 461 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 3: months older than me, so we're best mates. Right, So 462 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 3: he was in he's been the more mad Mondays than me. Yeah, 463 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 3: he really represented everyone knows big legs from all the 464 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 3: mad Mondays we used to have with the dogs and 465 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 3: everything else. 466 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: So it's good that you can. 467 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 3: The message is probably like you can just change everything, right, yeah, 468 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 3: if you want to, Like you guys had every every 469 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 3: reason fucking keep doing man, and even Leeds had that. Man, 470 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 3: I'm just like I've got to respect that ship. 471 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 1: Yea. Was it a big moment of change for him? 472 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: Like did you yeah talk with him and. 473 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 7: Yeah, well you probably would have played a part in 474 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 7: his teams. 475 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 1: And yeah for sure. You know, like it's just him 476 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: forgiving himself. 477 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 3: And then you know there's a lot of trauma in 478 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 3: there involved and he had to do deal with all 479 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 3: that kind of stuff he has. He's just worked on himself, right, 480 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,199 Speaker 3: you can mask it all, yeah, right, but if you 481 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 3: don't honestly work on yourself, you're not going to get 482 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 3: any breakthroughs, you know. Like so he's clean as hell, 483 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 3: Like he's just like this is the most clearest. 484 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: I've ever seen him. And he's dangerous when he's like that. 485 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,199 Speaker 6: Yeah too smart, He's a smart big He's smart and 486 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 6: he can like now his. 487 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: Whole thing is just like watching his boys play footy 488 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: and him just yelling on the sidelines. 489 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 3: Stop doing that ship, les because I go and watch 490 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 3: his games and I sponsored I sponsored the kids. 491 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: Their jerseys and all that sort of stuff. 492 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'll go and watch him like his boys 493 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 3: play because they're going to be little machines. And yeah, 494 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 3: because my dad used to yell at me when I 495 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 3: was playing. I fucking hated it, right, and then he 496 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 3: started yelling, I said, don't do that. Ship just gave 497 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 3: me mad PTSD all the time, yelling at your boys 498 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 3: are six or seven. But that's him now, Like he 499 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 3: just he just puts all his energy into his boys 500 00:21:52,600 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 3: and just arguing with fucking coaches on the sideline. 501 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 7: Going, I remember you did mention like sometimes you need 502 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 7: that extra how we were talking about before, sometimes you 503 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 7: need the extra year. I feel like sometimes we just 504 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 7: got to go through that, that hardship just to like 505 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 7: ever come something like greater. 506 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 3: I think he needed that extra year, right, he had 507 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 3: three years and like in the first two years, I 508 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 3: don't think, and that's a long time, yea for three 509 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 3: years may sounds small, but long. 510 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: And it was during COVID as well, so no visitors. 511 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was terrible, man like for what he 512 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 3: did like and what he how we got got treated 513 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 3: like a murderer. 514 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 7: But it was like, yeah, you know, so COVID was 515 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 7: like pretty much like segregation. 516 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 1: What they do? Did they lock you in all day 517 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: or so? A lot of times. 518 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 7: I remember silver Water boys were locked in twenty four seven, 519 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 7: twenty four hours, Yeah, and like they wouldn't even let 520 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 7: them come out from. 521 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 3: There randomly, like fuck, for the whole two weeks we 522 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 3: were twenty four hours. 523 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was crazy, the worst something to be inside 524 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 7: there or. 525 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 4: No, really, I think it was only this week, man, 526 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 4: not much. 527 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: It was pretty hecked like that. 528 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 3: Three years would have felt like ten for some people 529 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:07,399 Speaker 3: during COVID because of the contact with the outside, right, 530 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 3: and that's what you guys rely on. Yeah, so you 531 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,880 Speaker 3: take that away for a couple of months, that extends 532 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 3: it by a lot. And he went in there and 533 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 3: so he went through a lot of like he would 534 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 3: have got a searching, you know what I mean. And 535 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,679 Speaker 3: then by the end of the last six to ten months, 536 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 3: he was like talking to a whole other person. 537 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: Wow. 538 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 3: He lost heaps of weight, like because he was a 539 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 3: big boy. Like one time, I reckon he was at 540 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: least like one sixty five. Now he's like I would 541 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 3: be bigger than him. Wow, you know what I mean, 542 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 3: He's dropped so much weight. 543 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: Change his diet, all that sort of stuff. Sometimes. 544 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes it's like a little bit of a stint 545 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 3: in there, fucking. 546 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: Fix anyone up. 547 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 3: Yea, with some little prity when you see on the 548 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 3: shoes you go and fucking jail for about six months, 549 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 3: how you feel? Yeah, yeah, everything taken from you. When 550 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 3: he explained it to me, like fuck, what a man 551 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 3: to go through that ship. 552 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, anyone who's been in there, Yeah for that 553 00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: last that last year. 554 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 2: Sometimes you're you need a bit extra time because especially 555 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 2: when you come up in trauma, like when you said 556 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 2: that hole your father pass away, when. 557 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, things like that, it colorses your mind for a 558 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: long time. It does. 559 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 2: Really like you need to feel like otherwise, like you 560 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: need to be able to work on yourself. No one 561 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 2: can save you. You can only save yourself. You have 562 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 2: to tell yourself the truth and then that's how you. 563 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 3: That's how you get recovered. And I suppose that's what 564 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 3: he did. And it's like a credit to him. I'm 565 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 3: like wow, because I love him. He's my brother, right, 566 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,239 Speaker 3: so we've been through a shitload of stuff. Yeah, but 567 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 3: then it's just like now just watching him, like just 568 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 3: be like the man that he's supposed to. 569 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 4: Be makes you happy. 570 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 3: It does, because when I'm forty five, there's so many 571 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 3: people that are fuck with I don't care about that 572 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,360 Speaker 3: many people. Yeah, yeah, can't count the amount of people 573 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,360 Speaker 3: on my hand. It's my family, my brother, a couple 574 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 3: of mates here and there. 575 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,719 Speaker 1: It's about it. Man, When you get older, this circle 576 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: gets smaller. 577 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 3: You need to pick the right people that's going to 578 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 3: go for that next You know, I'm halfway through life 579 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 3: forty five. 580 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,400 Speaker 1: You guys are still young. You won't get that mentality 581 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: to your. 582 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 3: Over forty Yeah shit, I'm fucking forget to aid him, 583 00:24:59,000 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 3: all right? 584 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying. 585 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,959 Speaker 3: That's the different mindset of like a thirty five year 586 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 3: old me was like, fucking shut up five in ten 587 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 3: years like the growth that you have to have, you 588 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 3: should that you should have. If you're sitting there talking 589 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: to me as forty five looking at a thirty five 590 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 3: year old me, looking at a twenty five year old me, 591 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 3: I'd like. 592 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,400 Speaker 1: To see growth in ten years. 593 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 3: Another ten years, I've still got the same mentality as 594 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 3: a thirty five year old me. You'd fucking you'd be 595 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 3: an idiot, you know, yeah, you do because everyone else 596 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,400 Speaker 3: starts growing stuff growing. You know that they start doing 597 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 3: different stuff and you get left behind, you know what 598 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 3: I mean? Like that's what's doing a podcast. I do 599 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 3: a podcast twice a week, you know what I mean? 600 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 3: Like I keep busy. I'll do stuff with the Bulldogs 601 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 3: and Ambassador coach Pathway from seventeen to twenty ones, which 602 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 3: is fucking. 603 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: Great age, right. 604 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:47,919 Speaker 7: Yeah. 605 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 3: I wish I had someone when I was that age, 606 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 3: like someone like me to teach to go this is 607 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 3: what's going to fucking happen. 608 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like that's why I love what I'm doing. 609 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,919 Speaker 3: Like the young kids like seventeen, I'm like, it's like 610 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 3: I've done a whole three right, I was that seventeen 611 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,120 Speaker 3: year old kid twenty five years ago. 612 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: Fucking longer than that twenty. 613 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 3: Twenty eight years ago, right, And then like I'm out 614 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 3: the back at Belmore with Marc O'Meally and stuff like that, 615 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 3: We're coaching these seventeen year olds and I'm like, what 616 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: this is cool? 617 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 4: It's cool. 618 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 1: Like you got to really like respect those moments. Did 619 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: you always know you were going to end up in 620 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: NRL when you. 621 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 3: Were Yeah, I was really driven at a young age, 622 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 3: and it was only me that was going to stop it. 623 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 3: That's the sort of mindset that I had. Wow, Like 624 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 3: if I get my own way. 625 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 4: And when you say young age, what age. 626 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 6: Was twelve thirty, now you already knew yeah wow, you 627 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 6: just sort of got to work hard, right, because it's 628 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 6: different now. 629 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 3: Social media probably connects these young kids to these players 630 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 3: a little bit too much because they think they think 631 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 3: it's really easy to get at. 632 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,639 Speaker 1: It's really shortcut. Now, something really easy to attain. I 633 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 1: just need to get in the pathways I go boom boom, 634 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 1: boom boom, and I'll. 635 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 3: Being first graded so hard to get there, You've got 636 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 3: to stay focused, yeah, you know, and you've got to 637 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 3: be driven. You got to like all these little habits. 638 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 3: You've got to be drilled into your head. By the 639 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 3: time you get to like twenty one, you should be polished. 640 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: Right. 641 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 3: So this is where I love my job. From being 642 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 3: seventeen to twenty one. I always say the analogy is like, 643 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 3: just say you've finished school right now, you're seventeen eighteen. 644 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 3: We're giving you four years and you could be a plumber, 645 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 3: brick layer, go to UNI, be a lawyer, whatever. We're 646 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 3: giving you four years to fucking pick up the right 647 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 3: habits and everything to figure out, to figure it out 648 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 3: by time you're twenty one and twenty twenty one and 649 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 3: we're trying to make you an NURL player. You can swim, 650 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 3: sink or swim, right if you don't pick up all 651 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 3: the fucking habits and shit that I'm trying to tell 652 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 3: you to do. I'm not an idiot, right, I'm telling 653 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 3: you how it is. The blueprint's out there if you 654 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 3: don't listen, because you. 655 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: Can just fall off so easy. So we'll give four years. 656 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 3: Seventeen, pick up some eighteen ninety, nineteen, twenty twenty, and then. 657 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: If we push you to first grade, you should be 658 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: all right. 659 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 3: But you've got to work on your fucking game, right, 660 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 3: your fitness levels, your skill set, all. 661 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 1: Everything every year. 662 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,239 Speaker 3: Like you've got to learn how to be a professional, right, 663 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 3: You've got to learn all these little things. So when 664 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 3: you get to that, you understand it quite easy and 665 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 3: you go you're like, oh shit, that that young kid 666 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 3: like he was so ready that like a hell a 667 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 3: sema right, the young brother there, I'm like, that's what 668 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 3: he's doing, professional ship and he's not mean. Someone's coached 669 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 3: that kid really good, really good. You know, like he's 670 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 3: been mentored and he's been coached good because he's got 671 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 3: natural talent. But he's doing little things that I noticed. 672 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, shit, you don't do that till you're a vet. 673 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 3: You understand it's very important. 674 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,639 Speaker 1: To understand where we like. 675 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 3: At my point of view, I'm just like, just listen, 676 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 3: I'm going to give you so many nuggets, right, And 677 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, you're going to have a lot of information 678 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 3: getting put into your brain right, it's just. 679 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: A matter of time how you can process it and 680 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: download it. 681 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 3: I don't know what You're going to sit there nod 682 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 3: in your fucking head like you know everything. 683 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, they'n I'm going to test you up. I'm 684 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 1: assuming that you know everything because you're not asking me 685 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: any questions, do you know what I mean? So it's 686 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: like that's all. I love what I'm doing because young 687 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: kids they love it. 688 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 3: And I'm sitting open book when I'm like this a train, 689 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 3: I'll city like because I don't really have a role there, 690 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 3: roll up the train and you sort of, you know, 691 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 3: pick the good like young kids, and like, yeah, just 692 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 3: pass knowledge on just what I was like, Like younger 693 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 3: players in the game now as well that they're like 694 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 3: out of this world tallernah man. 695 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 1: It's a lot. Man. 696 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 3: The young kid from the Roosters, the Senate's his name, Toya, 697 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 3: Robert Toya. Yeah, him playing against nineteen year olds. 698 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were actually I was actually got to ask 699 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 1: you about him. 700 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 2: So we're very close with his family, with his brothers, 701 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: and I was going to ask you what did you 702 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 2: think about his uh, his game of Origin. 703 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 3: Awesome against Proud of him because the tills a fucking beast, bro, 704 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 3: don't get it twisted. The troll tries to take you mentally, physically, 705 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 3: bully you, everything like that. 706 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: And he didn't fall into that. 707 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 3: He didn't fall in like the Troll had his moments, 708 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 3: but like Toya had his moments, he didn't look out 709 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 3: of place. And everyone was like, he's too young. He said, 710 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 3: you've seen the kid play. Have you seen how physically 711 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 3: he is. He's not like a kid who's nineteen. 712 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 1: Look at it. 713 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 3: He could deadly fucking three hundred squatt and bench and that, 714 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 3: like his numbers would be off the chart. Imagine he 715 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 3: played against his own age. He's doing that to first graders. 716 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? I watched that and 717 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm just like, even like lek A a young young 718 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: tonge brother from New Zealand. What a beast. 719 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 3: And there's some really good young players man, especially the 720 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 3: Polynesians man. Yeah, young, he young, they're all like under twenty. 721 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,959 Speaker 3: These kids are absolute beasts. That's what I'm saying. They 722 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 3: get it, they get it. Get it with those kids, 723 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 3: get it right. 724 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: But it's the young grinders that I'm trying to work on. 725 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 3: Isaiah Cartolas, Mate, he is twenty one years old, he's playing, 726 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,479 Speaker 3: he's doing ship that Joey Johnson and Jonathan Thurson will 727 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 3: doing at twenty one. That's why you hear Joey just 728 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 3: going just raves about him because he knows how it is. 729 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 3: So because he's doing stuff. And I know what a 730 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 3: good I know what a good halfback looks like. I 731 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 3: might have played in the Falls, but I'm like, I 732 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 3: know what a good seven that's him. 733 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. A lot of Tongan brothers, the s Won boys. 734 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we watched one of the before you were you 735 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 2: sent me that video. Uh there's a video of you 736 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 2: on YouTube where you were miked up. That was what 737 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 2: together the way. 738 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 3: That was when I was like, that was the late 739 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 3: part of my career. That was like the second last 740 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 3: I was thirty four at that time. Wow, So that 741 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 3: was when the game was more fun. Yeah, like even 742 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 3: to me, like just just say the two thousands, when 743 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 3: nothing was recorded, it was real proper, like you fucking 744 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 3: head on a swivel. Man, it was like real different 745 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 3: sort of roughness. It's like you didn't know what a guy. 746 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 7: Was going to do. 747 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 3: Nah. Yeah, she was a young kid like playing against 748 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,719 Speaker 3: a Gordon Tallis or someone who I loved as a player. 749 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 3: You know where he's going to punch your head straight off. Yeah, 750 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 3: you know, like because you have so much respect for 751 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 3: these old Yeah, and you're like you don't want it, 752 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Yeah, it's Gordon Talus, my 753 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 3: favorite player. I tried to mold my game after him. 754 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 3: Next minute I'm playing against the next minute I'm playing 755 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 3: with him. 756 00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: Yeah in tests, you know what I mean. 757 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 3: I was like, play against these guys and play with 758 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 3: him like the Shane Webkeys. 759 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 1: And I was part of that era. 760 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 3: I was a new guy on the block and they 761 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 3: already been playing a game for like ten twelve years. 762 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 2: Who do you reckon is the toughest player you've played 763 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 2: against Remember Petro Siver, big Fijean brother, played like forty 764 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 2: Tests and thirty origins. 765 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 3: He will be the number one absolute beast and the 766 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 3: best bloke in the world. 767 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 1: That's what's so bad. I wish he was. I wish 768 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: he was a terrible person. 769 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 3: I could try and fight him or something, because we 770 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 3: went on like three or four kangaroo tools together. We 771 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 3: played against each other in Origin for years and then 772 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,719 Speaker 3: like the respect that I have for him as a 773 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 3: man and as a player, it was just like you 774 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 3: can't and I see him now, the biggest hug like 775 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 3: he's about three years older than me, and he was 776 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 3: just like a beast on the field, like he just 777 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 3: you couldn't fuck with him. He's like hitting granite. 778 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: General generalman off the field, like just like bad Fiji, Fiji, 779 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: I kill you with smiler. Yeah, that's right. 780 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 7: It's a lot of NURL players have been doing things 781 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 7: outside of NRL. 782 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you've got Aways telling us about his fishing, 783 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 2: vlogging he's doing outside. Then you've got you've got some boxes, 784 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 2: You've got Paul Gallan doing a bit of boxing. 785 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 1: Tell us more about what you're doing outside. 786 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 3: Of the footy and that I think it just gives 787 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 3: you a platform, yeah right, and what it gives you 788 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 3: a head start on life if you use it properly 789 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 3: with rugby leagu right like I was fortunate to play 790 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 3: sixteen years in the NRL, and the amount of networking 791 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 3: that I've done naturally and organically, like these you get 792 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 3: put in rooms where there's millionaires, billionaires that actually want 793 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 3: to help you, but only at that time. 794 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 1: You're with that club. 795 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 3: So it's up to you to outsource stuff and get 796 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 3: to know each other and all that sort of. 797 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 1: There's a lot of networking to do, right, and I 798 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 1: think I did that just naturally. 799 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 3: I don't go out there to try and get money 800 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 3: off people give me a free start, like you work 801 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 3: for fucking every eyes. 802 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 1: I don't look at guys and go what can he 803 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,239 Speaker 1: do for? What can you do for? I'm like no, no, no. 804 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 3: And that's where like footy players get that in tolament, 805 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 3: they go, oh yeah, they gain the game. 806 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: Should help me. Fucking game's not there for you because 807 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 1: they when you retire, that next guy is going to 808 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,839 Speaker 1: keep well oiled machine. Mate. 809 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 3: Don't have this entitlement because nobody gives a fuck. And 810 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 3: I already knew that, and it was a business rule. 811 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 3: I was like twenty seven twenty hours because some of 812 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 3: my really good friends that weren't as good as me 813 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 3: or someone else as a player, they're getting shopped out 814 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 3: somewhere else because their talent. 815 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: Right, So they're only getting you for your talent. It's 816 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: a business. It's a transaction. I guess you've got to 817 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: milk it, like, yeah, you work it, work it out, 818 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 1: like figure the game out, understand what's going on in life. 819 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 3: If as soon as you figure that out, get some 820 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 3: good people around you, like, it's just a springboard into 821 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 3: the next sort of path, right, And that's why I've 822 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 3: always had that mentality. 823 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 1: One road ends one beginning. 824 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 3: So when I retire as well, one one fucking the 825 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 3: NFL career ended, what's next? 826 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 1: Right. 827 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 3: I didn't look at it and go, oh my god, 828 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 3: like game like I retired on my own fe I wanted. 829 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,359 Speaker 3: I was over the game. You want to go trained 830 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 3: and stuff like that. I'm like, it's thirty six, bro. 831 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 3: I was blessed enough to get to that level because 832 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 3: not many people get to play in that many games 833 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 3: and be successful and everything like that. 834 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: So I was blessed enough to play for that. 835 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 3: So you see yourself up. You have to I'm not retiring, 836 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:19,439 Speaker 3: going well, I don't have anything set up. Yeah, I'm 837 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 3: fucking retiring so I can retire from the game. Yeah, 838 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,480 Speaker 3: I mean, the game's given so much to me now 839 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 3: it's trying to give back and set myself up. And 840 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 3: like that's why things now, like podcasting is kicking off, 841 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 3: like Levels podcast. I've been doing podcasts since twenty seventeen, wow, 842 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 3: because yeah, but because I knew the landscape was changing, 843 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 3: because Joe Rogan and that started doing. 844 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 1: About twenty twelve thirteen. Wow. Yeah, yeah, that's when they start. 845 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 3: So I've been around for ages and I sort of 846 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 3: try to like maneuver myself and just go, okay, well 847 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 3: I don't really want to be the like I was 848 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 3: doing Channel nine and Fox and all that, and it's 849 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 3: like that's real. 850 00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: Like yeah, like professional. Yeah, it's like they've want to 851 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: spreadsheet out, You've got to. 852 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 3: Do this, and I'm like, can't. You can't script me. 853 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 3: I'm like, come in and say this. I might want 854 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 3: to say that, trying stereotype you into like being an 855 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 3: x Ford or dumb guy and this and that like 856 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 3: a bit smarter than that where podcasting come in. It's 857 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 3: like more of a conversation talking about footy, talking about life. 858 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 1: I said, that's where I can sit and just hone 859 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:26,760 Speaker 1: my skills and that sort of stuff. 860 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,720 Speaker 3: And then obviously podcasting is kicked off Levels podcast. Levels 861 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 3: network is one of the best, like rugby league podcasts 862 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 3: in Australia, Channel seven. So I've sort of like one 863 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 3: foot in mainstream, one foot in like the normal yeah, 864 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 3: the real ship, you know what I mean. So like 865 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 3: Channel seven of them, I've got a suit on on 866 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 3: Mondays and Thursdays, and then like on the Mondays and 867 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 3: Thursdays where I film Levels, I'm just dressed like this, 868 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:51,399 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But it's like it's so 869 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 3: I've sort of figured it out, like you've got to 870 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 3: have mainstream and then you just sort of got to 871 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,240 Speaker 3: be real. But I don't really change from Levels to seven. 872 00:36:58,600 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 3: All I do is not swear. 873 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. The same minute. Yeah, god, you can't. 874 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 1: Can't not swear, I said, I choose to swear. I 875 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 1: want to swear. 876 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 3: Because it's like, yeah, it's a natural dialecte and it's 877 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 3: sort of just not sound like I'm going, oh fuck you, 878 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 3: it's natural for me. I'm like, and that's what people going, 879 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 3: You won't be able to do seven because you can't stop. 880 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: I said, I want to swear. Yeah, I could not swear. 881 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 1: I cannot not swear easily. Yeah, it was choice. 882 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 2: Was there anything that you said there? And then they said, oh, 883 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 2: we got to cut that out. 884 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 1: You can't. They just let it roll. They let the 885 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: tape roll. That's because they know I don't have a 886 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: script or anything on Channel seven. 887 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, whatever I'm thinking, I said, just asked me the questions, 888 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 3: and Melolo, who is a legend, she just she knows. 889 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 3: She just lay me up to the questions and I'll 890 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,239 Speaker 3: just fucking hit him out of the park. 891 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 1: It's crazy. And I do that. And then I just 892 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 1: do some stuff with the Bulldogs, which I love. 893 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 3: I got a couple of little side hustles and it's 894 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 3: always just doing something. 895 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, can I just do one thing? 896 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 3: Like I could sit down and just get and earn 897 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 3: enough money from Channel seven levels and just so not 898 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 3: doing anything else. Yeah, And I was like, no, No, 899 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,800 Speaker 3: there's a lot more to be made, the money to 900 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 3: be made helping young kids. You're doing all these sort 901 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 3: of you know, educating younger kids, on stuff. And that's 902 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 3: like when you get a lot in your forties, you need. 903 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:23,760 Speaker 1: To have that sort of network. 904 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's coming back to being a good person, right, 905 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 3: that's the main thing. Like all this shit happens in 906 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,120 Speaker 3: your forties, because understand that, like I've been in this 907 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 3: game for twenty five years pretty much like being around 908 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,320 Speaker 3: the block, and it all comes back to your network 909 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 3: and how you've been treating people twenty years ago. Yeah, 910 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 3: they're the guys that are helping you now. They're the 911 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 3: guys that I'm are helping me do stuff that I 912 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 3: met twenty years ago. And I've always been me and 913 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 3: I've always been authentic and I've always been like I've 914 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 3: never changed from the get go. Yeah, from the get go. 915 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 3: And they're like they love that shit. They want to 916 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 3: they want to fuck with you like that. He's going 917 00:38:58,719 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 3: for it. 918 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 1: Good. Oh help. Yeah, But if you change up and 919 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,400 Speaker 1: change you know, you think you switch it, switch up, 920 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,399 Speaker 1: you think no one likes it, likes. 921 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 3: That in Australia, but no one we like that. Take 922 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,400 Speaker 3: anyone down, switch up like that on your boys or 923 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 3: any sort of any level. Right, Yeah, if you turn 924 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,399 Speaker 3: into a dig, isn't the wrong country to do that. Yeah, 925 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 3: I don't have any friends, man, because I would like 926 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 3: to think if I was doing being a dig my, 927 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 3: brother would check me and the mates would check me 928 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 3: and go what. 929 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 1: Are you doing? They would do that. 930 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 3: And that's about having a good cool cool. If you're 931 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 3: messing around, I expect you to go, hey, that's about 932 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 3: That's about having trust with people and building trusts and 933 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 3: building friendships. To the time you get in your forties, 934 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 3: you've got everything set, everything you don't. 935 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 1: Life isn't that hard. 936 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,160 Speaker 4: We did talk about it on the last podcast about 937 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 4: having tussle with him. 938 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,800 Speaker 2: People like that's how you get your network and you 939 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 2: you bounce off like real energy, like no one likes it. 940 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: Yes, man, people that are just saying yeah, yeah, that's great. 941 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 1: That's that's that's what. 942 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,400 Speaker 3: You're getting you especially all the brothers and stuff, like 943 00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 3: you're doing stuff with each other and you're like yeah yeah, 944 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 3: and then like, yeah, one of you guys might be 945 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 3: an introvert not really share your feelings. Like then you 946 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 3: might start talking shit to your friends. These guys fuck 947 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 3: you know, like because when you're in the business together 948 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 3: then money comes. 949 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 1: That's you know, you're going to have things change. When 950 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:20,760 Speaker 1: money comes around. 951 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 3: So I understand that and be strong enough because these 952 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 3: guys are strong enough anyway, because you've flipped out. I 953 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 3: mean you're pivoted and you started doing this, So it 954 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:30,840 Speaker 3: shouldn't be a tough conversation to have. What's going on 955 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 3: because money's coming in. We split everything three ways or 956 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 3: even no fucking five twenty five or vice versa. 957 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, thirty three, thirty three, thirty three. Everyone gets an 958 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: equal share. You put in equal work. Yeah, that's what's 959 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 1: gonna happen. 960 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 3: So if you come in the party, I've got fifty 961 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 3: twenty five, you put it in twenty five percent of work. Yeah, yeah, 962 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 3: you have a fuck this guy, Yeah, do it all that. 963 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 1: That's what happens. 964 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 7: Then. 965 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,839 Speaker 3: So when you do split the and we start doing 966 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,400 Speaker 3: contracts and stuff, that be smart about it. It's like 967 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 3: friendship and business doesn't end well because you're going to 968 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 3: go up and up and up and up. You don't 969 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 3: you just want to sit here, Yeah, exactly, want to 970 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 3: get better. You guys are growing on social media. Everything's 971 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 3: going to happen because you've got the platform anyway, with 972 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,280 Speaker 3: your with with the wrapping. 973 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you already built that sort of platform. 974 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,440 Speaker 3: Now you guys would just grow and that's what happens 975 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,840 Speaker 3: when you just got to get ship sorted, money wise 976 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 3: and all that sort of stuff. So so there's no 977 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 3: hard feelings or anything like that, right, it's business. 978 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, so that's a muchly mad advice the 979 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:35,400 Speaker 1: first that's giving us. 980 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 2: I take it in as well, because these are the 981 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 2: conversations that we like to hear. That Like, like, I 982 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 2: feel like uncomfortable conversations are the most important one. 983 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: They're the ones you got to get. They're the ones 984 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:47,799 Speaker 1: that people just brush by. 985 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what you need to have a crew, like 986 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:51,800 Speaker 3: with your boys that you feel comfortable. 987 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 1: Comfortable with this man, Yeah, one of you guys. 988 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 3: You guys are going to have on a bit of 989 00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 3: a rampage I reckon in the next couple of years. 990 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,800 Speaker 1: It's like, you've got to set that ship straight. Yeah, 991 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,160 Speaker 1: get the little things right. 992 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 3: Tracking everything's equal, like, because get that ship sorted before 993 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,680 Speaker 3: you take off, because it's going to happen. 994 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 2: You know what's hard. We're like we're pretty much behind. 995 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,320 Speaker 2: We're doing everything ourselves. We don't really have a team 996 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 2: like doing everything. 997 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 3: I need that much, man, Yeah, you don't need that 998 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 3: much in the podcast game, you just need a couple 999 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,359 Speaker 3: of cameras here, some mics, and some good people. Yeah, 1000 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 3: it's it like it's not hard, man, it's not like 1001 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 3: a production company. Yeah, get to that level where just 1002 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 3: say the fifteen year old kid who loves you, guys, 1003 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:30,200 Speaker 3: they want to be you. 1004 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:31,840 Speaker 1: Then they can come do stuff with you. 1005 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,759 Speaker 3: You've got to think about that, like the long game, 1006 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 3: like five years, ten years, what's going to happen because 1007 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 3: his young cats will be fifteen or twenty, they'll be 1008 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 3: twenty five. Yeah, they might start they want to start 1009 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,319 Speaker 3: their own podcast. So everyone's got stories to stay. Yeah, 1010 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, everyone's got a journey and 1011 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 3: that's why podcast is so good and get on you 1012 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,000 Speaker 3: and talking shit and like you know, like you've meet 1013 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 3: different people and there's different energy and just learn, constantly learning. 1014 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, what was the hardest thing for you to overcome 1015 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 2: like growing up and like even for your NRL stage, 1016 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,239 Speaker 2: your whole life in general, what was like one hard 1017 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,680 Speaker 2: like traumatic thing that you had to overcome and get past? 1018 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 1: It probably the father thing. But you can use things 1019 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 1: two different ways, right. 1020 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,439 Speaker 3: You could use it as a victim and go as this fuck, 1021 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 3: or you can use it to drive you to another level, 1022 00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:15,960 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And that's where that's what 1023 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 3: it got me, is like it took a while because 1024 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 3: you used to go to church, will raise Catholics and 1025 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 3: all that sort of shit, you know, like and I 1026 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,760 Speaker 3: was like every church every Sunday, Bible studies on Monday, 1027 00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,480 Speaker 3: all that stuff because my mom's. 1028 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 1: Like dad used to drop us off and go straight 1029 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:33,040 Speaker 1: to the pub. I can look after these kids. So 1030 00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 1: we were raised like that. 1031 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,080 Speaker 3: And then when like you think, God took your father away, 1032 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 3: so it's hard to like process and go this is fair. 1033 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, house is fair. One of like eight kids, commission house, 1034 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,759 Speaker 1: no father. My house is fair. So it took a 1035 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: while for me to wrestle in my head. 1036 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,840 Speaker 3: Maybe that was the driving force for take my father, 1037 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 3: to take my father away, and then for me to 1038 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 3: have that extra drive because it was not There was 1039 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,600 Speaker 3: never a day or game that I didn't think about him, 1040 00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 3: and that probably and I'm very emotional with stuff like that, 1041 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 3: but it used to be like I never used to 1042 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,120 Speaker 3: be able to talk about it. 1043 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 1: I get teed up. 1044 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 3: Now I just use it as like an energy force 1045 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,239 Speaker 3: and like it makes you powerful because it can make 1046 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 3: you weak. 1047 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 1: You can have his. 1048 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,120 Speaker 3: Victim mentality and like if you look like and feel 1049 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,680 Speaker 3: sorry for me, oh man, my dad died at seventeen, 1050 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 3: like fucking shut up. 1051 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:23,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know what I mean? That's the way 1052 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,400 Speaker 1: I look at it, just. 1053 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,919 Speaker 3: Just it yeah, yeah, you know, like that's the way 1054 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 3: it is. And I had I did deal with it, 1055 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,480 Speaker 3: so I don't have any trauma in my in my 1056 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:34,080 Speaker 3: life now. 1057 00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:35,799 Speaker 1: Yeah you know what i mean, all it is is 1058 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,319 Speaker 1: like happy days. Man. Like it's like that's because you 1059 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:40,520 Speaker 1: use it as a driving force. 1060 00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 3: I'm not sure how the other seven siblings used it, 1061 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 3: you know, but like I use it like to get 1062 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 3: me to that. 1063 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,960 Speaker 1: Next level and it works. 1064 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:48,600 Speaker 4: You know. 1065 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,839 Speaker 3: I was still look at it today, like I got 1066 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 3: a little boy's like six years old, Like I love 1067 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 3: that little dude. Yeah, I mean, like I do anything 1068 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 3: for him, and I want to live around. I want 1069 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,399 Speaker 3: to be around for like till he's like at least forty. Yeah, 1070 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 3: it's not That's that's why. 1071 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 1: I look at it. 1072 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 3: I'm like I didn't have my father, yeah, you know, 1073 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:05,759 Speaker 3: like I was he was seventeen. So that's a ship 1074 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 3: that sort of drives you to another level. I'm leaving 1075 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,880 Speaker 3: with nothing, like I got left with nothing. So you 1076 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,839 Speaker 3: have these little things in your head like that can 1077 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,719 Speaker 3: just fucking make you get out of bed and train 1078 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 3: make you get out of like just discipline. You just 1079 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,440 Speaker 3: teach yourself and like doing all these other things. Like 1080 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 3: it's just it's a road of just like learning, knowing 1081 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,280 Speaker 3: yourself and how you're. 1082 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,319 Speaker 1: Built and what makes you tick. 1083 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 3: And like by the time you're my age, you guys, 1084 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:30,520 Speaker 3: you should be just fucking animals. 1085 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like you should be built 1086 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 1: really tough. The ship that you've been through, especially going 1087 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 1: to jail and fucking pivoting doing this nothing fuck with you. 1088 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,200 Speaker 4: Guys, Yeah, nothing mean because when you've. 1089 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 1: Been through ship. So I can't talk with young kids man, 1090 00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: who have never been through life stuff. Yeah you know 1091 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 1: you go. You can't tell me what to do, man, 1092 00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 1: you be through shiit? Yeah you do. Like I sit 1093 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 1: in meetings and something. Fuck off. I don't say that, you. 1094 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 4: Know what I mean? 1095 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: Just like, dude, Okay, listen to this, dude, Yeah, silver spoon, 1096 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: feed your whole life. It's shifting a bit, the like 1097 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 1: the new well, I'm still young. 1098 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 2: I can't really say new generation, but because so I 1099 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 2: run like, for example, I've I've got a couple of companies. 1100 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 2: One of them is my HVAC company, air con company, 1101 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 2: and I've I've been like washing through a lot of apprentices, 1102 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,960 Speaker 2: like young younger guys, and man, they don't work. Yeah, 1103 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 2: and it's hard for me to like like, I don't know, 1104 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 2: I can't really connect with them, yeah, connect with them 1105 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,400 Speaker 2: because like it'd be something like that's not bad, but 1106 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,400 Speaker 2: it's not like they will always be on their phone 1107 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 2: or something. They'll do what I tell them to do, 1108 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 2: but then after they do that, they would just kind 1109 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:39,319 Speaker 2: of like switch off. 1110 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 3: And social media is connected everybody, right, yeah, but it's 1111 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:46,759 Speaker 3: disconnected everyone, so fucking yeah, it's a disconnection of the 1112 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,959 Speaker 3: social sort of structure that we used to have, like conversations, 1113 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 3: hard conversations, like they can't even look at you know 1114 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,400 Speaker 3: I and have a conversation, yeah, you know. 1115 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 1: And it's hard because I'm in that world as well, 1116 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,760 Speaker 1: because I'm coaching young young. 1117 00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,040 Speaker 9: Men exactly, and I'm like dude, and I think I 1118 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 9: can listen, and it's hard for me because I'm like 1119 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,239 Speaker 9: on board up old school, but I'm like understand, right, 1120 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,160 Speaker 9: but I'm like you better understand, kid, because like this is. 1121 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 1: A different game, different Well, this is a different world. 1122 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: You're choosing this, well, I understand it. I get it. 1123 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 3: You don't just listen, right, And it's like you can't 1124 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,400 Speaker 3: be pampid in this world. You can't have a mental 1125 00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:22,680 Speaker 3: mental break, mental mental depress. Yeah, like if you do, 1126 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 3: you're not going to You're not going to survive. Like 1127 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,880 Speaker 3: you can't, especially in n A role. You'll try to 1128 00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 3: play NRL son, You've got to be built different. You've 1129 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,319 Speaker 3: got to you know, just you want to play local 1130 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 3: league and play local league, but I'm trying to get 1131 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,600 Speaker 3: you at that spot in a couple of years, so 1132 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,600 Speaker 3: you need to like you know, it's it's a bit 1133 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 3: different than coaching these days. Not a fucking guys that 1134 00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,040 Speaker 3: I have mentally try and break you down before you 1135 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 3: even got to first GA and I reckon that's what 1136 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 3: got us all. 1137 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 1: Through, because that's what we're different. Animals my age are 1138 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 1: differ built different. 1139 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:58,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, psychological thing man, Just yeah, that's why I find 1140 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,439 Speaker 3: even talking to like a thirty five year old, twenty 1141 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,839 Speaker 3: five year old, everyone's built different in those generations. 1142 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but you can't. 1143 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,960 Speaker 3: I try and get with the young kids and just 1144 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,799 Speaker 3: hard work in anything, Like you're teaching his young kids 1145 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:11,760 Speaker 3: apprentice and that's. 1146 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,320 Speaker 1: Like just hard work and work ethic. 1147 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:15,879 Speaker 3: What are you teaching You're going to be a father 1148 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,480 Speaker 3: one day to these young kids are going to be 1149 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 3: a father one day. 1150 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 1: It's what's going to happen in these next generations. That's 1151 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 1: what I worry about. Just why, like I'm solely built. 1152 00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 1: My purpose is to teach my young boy how to 1153 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,480 Speaker 1: be a fucking man exact you know what I mean? 1154 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,840 Speaker 3: And the right sort of man, right like just like, yeah, 1155 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 3: that's what I blame most. I blame kids that are 1156 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 3: built right the parents, like the parents, because. 1157 00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,360 Speaker 1: You're only learning that ship from your parents. 1158 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 3: And like Archers at school now and I'm like, who's 1159 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:45,800 Speaker 3: his friends and who's his friend's parents. 1160 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:47,120 Speaker 1: That's what I'm looking at. 1161 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 3: She's going to be spending time with some of these guys, 1162 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,320 Speaker 3: gonna be hanging around with other other fathers. 1163 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, watching you. Yeah, do you know what I'm saying? 1164 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 3: And I'm big on that because that's my whole purpose, 1165 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 3: is that little guy. 1166 00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 1: You know, I got other shit sorted. 1167 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 3: I fucking laser in on that because in society right now, 1168 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,319 Speaker 3: you've got to be raised right the right way. 1169 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:09,319 Speaker 1: Man. It's your projection of your father and your mother. 1170 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's a big deal to me because if 1171 00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 3: he goes to school and he's a little fuck with, disrespectful, rude, 1172 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,840 Speaker 3: and now that I'll be looking at me, Yeah, because. 1173 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:20,399 Speaker 1: I reflect a reflection on him. 1174 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,080 Speaker 3: I was going to project what he sees at home, like, 1175 00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,720 Speaker 3: you know, like I'd never drink alcohol, nothing at. 1176 00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,839 Speaker 1: Home, Yeah, because I saw a lot of that ship 1177 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 1: when I was younger. Yeah, never was when I'm never 1178 00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 1: dreaming in front of my son. 1179 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 2: We never have, bro you know what's weird, Like because 1180 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 2: my dad was a he was like that as well. 1181 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 1: He drank a lot. 1182 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,120 Speaker 2: And like I think they don't think that because we're 1183 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 2: young that we noticed. But I remember every single almost 1184 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 2: all the nights where he was overly drunk. 1185 00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,120 Speaker 1: I remember it. I remember. And now that we're. 1186 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,399 Speaker 2: Older and we have kids as well, like those things 1187 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,520 Speaker 2: they stay in head. 1188 00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,719 Speaker 3: Man, And I remember from like just say, from eight 1189 00:49:56,800 --> 00:50:00,080 Speaker 3: to like seventeen, just that a lot of dream a 1190 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 3: lot of alcoholic of domestic viands, all that sort of 1191 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:05,839 Speaker 3: ship still in my head. Now, Wow, I'd never do that. Yeah, 1192 00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 3: you know, it makes you sort of like just not 1193 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 3: do it. Yeah, you see it and you're uncomfortable when 1194 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 3: you're younger. 1195 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 1: And if you deal with your ship and you. 1196 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,520 Speaker 3: You act on it like I do, Yeah, it doesn't 1197 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,320 Speaker 3: traumatize me. 1198 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 1: It just makes me like, nah, it drives you not 1199 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,720 Speaker 1: doing it. Yeah, you know. 1200 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,480 Speaker 3: I've got a fucking vodka company and stuff like that, 1201 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:25,359 Speaker 3: so much alcohol. 1202 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 1: I got a whole seage in a foker company, in 1203 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: a tequila company. The whole fucking garage is full of it. 1204 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:38,720 Speaker 1: To stay touch it, that's a different level. It's easy 1205 00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:40,400 Speaker 1: for me to drink because it's all the way at 1206 00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,759 Speaker 1: the bottom. Girls full of. 1207 00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,759 Speaker 7: Having men like yourself is very important for this next 1208 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,000 Speaker 7: generation that they are. 1209 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,719 Speaker 2: Pushing a lot of the like the male depression, I think, yeah, 1210 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,720 Speaker 2: which is like it's masculinity and all that sort of stuff. 1211 00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,359 Speaker 1: I hear a lot of this stuff. I'm like, yeah, 1212 00:50:58,320 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 1: I get it. 1213 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:02,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, but like social media is powerful, right, 1214 00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,680 Speaker 3: but having the presence of a young, older sort of 1215 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:06,960 Speaker 3: man in your life, you can just tell you what 1216 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 3: to do and just give you some. 1217 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 1: Free game, educate you on stuff. 1218 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 4: I never had that. 1219 00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, when I was coming through, I didn't have like 1220 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 1: a guy I looked up to. 1221 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 3: My dad died at seventeen, right, and then there was 1222 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,000 Speaker 3: never another influence in my life. 1223 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,400 Speaker 1: That's good, Like I'd learned everything myself. 1224 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,560 Speaker 3: I fucking raise myself and like understand things, and you know, 1225 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,480 Speaker 3: like luckily he taught me enough to like to be 1226 00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 3: a man and all these little things and shake hands and. 1227 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:31,880 Speaker 1: I look people in that old school. 1228 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:36,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it serves a long way manners, little things. 1229 00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 10: And you're the perfect You're the perfect example because even 1230 00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 10: at a young age, it's very inspirational what you're saying. 1231 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 10: Because at a young age, like twelve to seventeen, especially 1232 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,759 Speaker 10: when your brain's still vulnerable and you know, and you're 1233 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,080 Speaker 10: trying to connect with society and everything. 1234 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:54,120 Speaker 1: You can plant seeds easily. 1235 00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,759 Speaker 10: Yeah, And it's just amazing how you didn't like look 1236 00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 10: towards drugs and drinking all these bad habits. 1237 00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 3: Easily, because that's what I could have easily went that way. 1238 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 3: But it's like the hardest way was the way that 1239 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 3: I went. Yeah, because you've got to be disciplined. It's 1240 00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 3: not a it's not a fluke. People might think, oh 1241 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,879 Speaker 3: yeah this and that dude, you don't know what I'm doing. 1242 00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,239 Speaker 1: Nothing. I don't know what I'm doing. 1243 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 3: Nothing's given right because I was that that player in 1244 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 3: the two thousands that they should just print anything about 1245 00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 3: I haven't anything if I walked out of a pub 1246 00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 3: or anything like that. Willly Mason spotted in the fun 1247 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,800 Speaker 3: So what Yeah, the only one. I don't care that. 1248 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:39,000 Speaker 3: That comes back to my mindset. 1249 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: I never cared. 1250 00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,319 Speaker 3: About anything that they said in the tabloids or anything, 1251 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,720 Speaker 3: because like I'm like, this is that's not real life, 1252 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 3: that's not makeup ship that you're putting in the paper. 1253 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,040 Speaker 3: That I don't really give a fuck what everyone thinks anyway. 1254 00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 3: All I cared about was like my family, my friends, 1255 00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,960 Speaker 3: the coaches and stuff like that. That's about it. Anyone else, 1256 00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 3: Yeah shut up? Yeah, well what I want to care 1257 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:00,879 Speaker 3: about anything? 1258 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,680 Speaker 1: That's why on social media I don't give a fuck either. 1259 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't care, Like I don't care what your 1260 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 3: average Joe says about me or my his opinion on him. 1261 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: Everyone's got their own opinion. I don't care about yours. 1262 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 1: Really jump up. That's because it's my opinion. At least 1263 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,320 Speaker 1: I got an opinion. 1264 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, sit there on social media and have your little say. 1265 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 3: It's like that doesn't fucking cesspool. I mean, but the 1266 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 3: thing too, I understand, like by the time social media 1267 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 3: come out in Instagram, I was already thirty, I was 1268 00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 3: already psychologically built ready, I was already ready. I don't 1269 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,560 Speaker 3: give a ship, so nothing fazed me on social media. 1270 00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,000 Speaker 3: I don't care about what anyone thinks, anyone you feel. 1271 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:40,080 Speaker 7: Like ever, I feel like because of your strong character, yeah, 1272 00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 7: you would have had people trying to all the time. 1273 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,040 Speaker 3: Yeah they hate it, but they hate it because I 1274 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,920 Speaker 3: never really cared about their opinions page of the Telegraph 1275 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,759 Speaker 3: when everybody believed the Telegraph was like fucking. 1276 00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:53,359 Speaker 1: Gospel, believe that ship. 1277 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,640 Speaker 3: Oh it's just going to wake up to it and 1278 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 3: just think that it's like a fucking bunch of ship. 1279 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 1: You know. 1280 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,880 Speaker 2: It's so I reckon they hated you that much because 1281 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,719 Speaker 2: of like you didn't care. I remember the early two thousands, Bro, 1282 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,680 Speaker 2: you were mentioned in so many everything. Of course where 1283 00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,280 Speaker 2: I thought that because your name Willie Mason was everywhere, 1284 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 2: I thought you were ex convict or something some like kid. 1285 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 1: And then I figured out it's the worst thing I 1286 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: did was piss in public twice. 1287 00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 3: That's all I got because I got hit with this 1288 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 3: whole brand, Like really, it's a bad boy. 1289 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 1: And I'm like, what did I do? I did I 1290 00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:35,680 Speaker 1: pisced in public? So that twice, Yeah, I got caught. 1291 00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:43,480 Speaker 3: Like we were in at Double Bay at the Sheaf 1292 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 3: in two thousand and eight and I was at the Roosters. 1293 00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:48,680 Speaker 3: I went down the back streets right, I wasn't in 1294 00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,960 Speaker 3: front of anyone or nothing. It's about eighty was still 1295 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:54,359 Speaker 3: in a piss. This dude rolled past like popa paparazzi. 1296 00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,200 Speaker 3: That's how you get caught. Well when dude, yeah got 1297 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 3: me gone. 1298 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: There's a photo of it was the back page. 1299 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,280 Speaker 3: It was a back page you gott find twenty grand 1300 00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:10,120 Speaker 3: or some shit like, And I'm like, I was not 1301 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 3: and this was They act like I was pissed on 1302 00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:16,560 Speaker 3: a fucking like a main street back streets of trying 1303 00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:18,120 Speaker 3: to get out of the way. But when you get 1304 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,799 Speaker 3: caught professionally, yeah, you can't do anything about it. 1305 00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:30,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, all you hear is oh shit, But I laugh 1306 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:30,839 Speaker 2: about that ship. 1307 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 1: But people can actually fuck with that because they're like, 1308 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:38,279 Speaker 1: how many times this exactly? Like it's like a normal thing. 1309 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 3: I did normal shiit Like I jumped a cab right 1310 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 3: in two thousand and two because me and my boys 1311 00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:46,360 Speaker 3: from Toronto West, they come down mad Monday, and this 1312 00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 3: cabby thought that were like Wren from Sydney, and he 1313 00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:50,840 Speaker 3: tried to charges eighty bucks when I knew it was 1314 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,080 Speaker 3: a twenty five dollars road road trip. 1315 00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,319 Speaker 1: I threw him the twenty forty bucks and then just 1316 00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 1: got out of there. Yeah, and then. 1317 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,239 Speaker 11: So we didn't pay. They acted like we didn't pay 1318 00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 11: for the cab. Was actually we didn't pay for the cabs. 1319 00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:05,319 Speaker 11: And then I went and bought two hundred dollars worth 1320 00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 11: of piss. So they've got us photograph with all this alcohol. 1321 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,960 Speaker 11: I can't afford to pay a cab. Yeah, so they could. 1322 00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,279 Speaker 11: So people just believe that because. 1323 00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 3: There was no social media or platform for me to 1324 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 3: come back and go no, man, I didn't do that. 1325 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:20,759 Speaker 1: I didn't have told this story because I really didn't 1326 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 1: give a fuck about it. 1327 00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:26,520 Speaker 3: Yeah whatever, yeah, whatever, it's in public jump jump. 1328 00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:28,839 Speaker 1: I didn't jump the cabs. Doud got the money. Don't 1329 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:30,919 Speaker 1: charge me eighty bucks when it's like a twenty dollars ride. 1330 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, that would be crazy, So pub rust it would 1331 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:33,840 Speaker 4: have been. 1332 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they can't do it now. But it's crazy. 1333 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:38,479 Speaker 1: It's a crazy time. 1334 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:40,560 Speaker 2: It's a bit harder, you reckon, for them to do 1335 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,319 Speaker 2: it now because now that we all can have. 1336 00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:46,560 Speaker 3: Our own And that's why the mainstream media is fighting 1337 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:47,080 Speaker 3: for everything. 1338 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:49,400 Speaker 1: They come up with these sensational bullshit. 1339 00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:52,239 Speaker 3: You know, they come up with mad stories because they've 1340 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,399 Speaker 3: got to because you guys aren't getting your news from 1341 00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 3: the Telegraph, all Channel Night, Fox, Sports, all that stuff 1342 00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:00,800 Speaker 3: that you're just watching on your phone. What you're connected 1343 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 3: to on that's that's how I get it. Yeah, Like 1344 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 3: and I'm forty five, makes you want like you're actually 1345 00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:06,960 Speaker 3: twenty five year old, thirty year old? 1346 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, getting it man, because this is attached to our hand. Yeah, 1347 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,479 Speaker 1: watch the news that's going on here, Search it done done. 1348 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,920 Speaker 1: That's like I just watching TV. I watch k that's it. 1349 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:17,800 Speaker 3: So I've got to watch every game on sport like 1350 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:21,440 Speaker 3: on every weekend. Watch that I've got Netflix and like, 1351 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,240 Speaker 3: but I don't really need that much man, seriously, Like 1352 00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 3: what do you need? 1353 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 1: Like how many apps do you need? Yeah? Yeah, secking 1354 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:29,520 Speaker 1: app for everything. 1355 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 4: It's bad. 1356 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,320 Speaker 8: But you see like in the gyms as well these 1357 00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,040 Speaker 8: days there's people sculling on their phone. 1358 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're not present, man, I like to be present 1359 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 3: in everything. 1360 00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 1: Like you see my phones over there when I'm doing stuff. 1361 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 1: I don't like. 1362 00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,800 Speaker 3: I don't because I get it. I hate that, you know, 1363 00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:45,920 Speaker 3: like young kids that aren't present. Like there's rules that 1364 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 3: the dogs. You can't have phones unless you're in your 1365 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,600 Speaker 3: in your dressing shed. Yeah, there's no phones like when 1366 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:54,200 Speaker 3: you're walking around the actual Belmore now unless you leave 1367 00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,520 Speaker 3: Belmore or you're in your locker room and you can 1368 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 3: check it and then you're out once you're out of 1369 00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:04,040 Speaker 3: the locker room. You got to you gotta have this 1370 00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:06,240 Speaker 3: because there's all these young kids coming up. 1371 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:10,400 Speaker 1: Man, you're not they're not built right, ye you know. 1372 00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 3: So like if you're at another and I'm pretty sure 1373 00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 3: every club has that too now, like just because it's 1374 00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:18,160 Speaker 3: all about connection because the alcohol and everything's gone out 1375 00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:18,560 Speaker 3: of the game. 1376 00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 1: They don't connect like we used to connect. 1377 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 3: And I'm not condoning alcohol or anything like that, but 1378 00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,760 Speaker 3: it's like these young cats don't do that, so they've 1379 00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,000 Speaker 3: got to connect on a different wave. 1380 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 1: Is it social media? Is it like bonding? How do 1381 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:30,640 Speaker 1: you bond? 1382 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,440 Speaker 3: Because most of these coaches only know get on the 1383 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 3: piss you sweet. No, No, most of these kids don't drink. Yeah, 1384 00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like, how do you bond? 1385 00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:42,440 Speaker 3: Then you've got to do other things, man do games 1386 00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,480 Speaker 3: and all that sort of ship. But one thing alcohol 1387 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,560 Speaker 3: does do. Wayne Bennett even said this, It does bond. 1388 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,960 Speaker 3: Players does bond because like just say, if you're an introvert, 1389 00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 3: you're an introvert, I'm an extrovert, whatever, and then you 1390 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,520 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, you don't say shit all pre season. 1391 00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 1: Then we have a couple of beers and you're. 1392 00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,320 Speaker 3: Like, you open up, you know what I mean, you 1393 00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:02,000 Speaker 3: open up so you become honorable, you know, But nothing happened, 1394 00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,480 Speaker 3: Nothing good happens after twelve o'clock. That's the way I 1395 00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 3: need to say as well. So those things they're all right, 1396 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:09,800 Speaker 3: he's all right and everything. So it does open it up, 1397 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,000 Speaker 3: open those those conversations that you wanted to have, especially 1398 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,160 Speaker 3: for the Polynesian brothers. You know, doesn't always gonna get 1399 00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:18,160 Speaker 3: to ausies that are crazy anyway, they don't need sucking 1400 00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 3: any alcohol, yeah I'm saying, but like it's always young 1401 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:22,640 Speaker 3: the young brothers who they don't say much. 1402 00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:24,479 Speaker 1: And then you see him have a couple of beers. 1403 00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's all right, but it's like you can't 1404 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:32,040 Speaker 3: say do it. You can't say don't do it where 1405 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:33,880 Speaker 3: it's like there's a place for it, but like you 1406 00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 3: don't want to say, yeah, these guys are full of 1407 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:38,120 Speaker 3: piss and they fucked up, because yeah, you don't want 1408 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:39,200 Speaker 3: to be responsible for it. 1409 00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,000 Speaker 1: So imagine being a coach. You're like, yeah, have a. 1410 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,400 Speaker 3: Beer and then then you're like you close your eyes 1411 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:46,640 Speaker 3: and you know, the guys on the bi they go away, 1412 00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,240 Speaker 3: like there's no more mad mondays. 1413 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,240 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I'm glad you toss up on that 1414 00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,360 Speaker 2: because I was, because because now I don't drink. But 1415 00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:57,160 Speaker 2: I would always tell my misses that, like man like 1416 00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,800 Speaker 2: it wasn't always like fights and like all bad stuff, 1417 01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 2: Like there were some memorable times with my brothers that 1418 01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 2: I've really enjoyed, you know, when I was on the. 1419 01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 3: So many memories on the piss, it's like it's good 1420 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,320 Speaker 3: that you've done that drawing line in the sand. 1421 01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:11,640 Speaker 1: Like even for me this year, I'm like, I probably 1422 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:15,720 Speaker 1: drank four times. I just don't. I never do anything 1423 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,960 Speaker 1: in Sydney and it's not on purpose or you don't 1424 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,400 Speaker 1: want you don't, Yeah, you don't have tail. 1425 01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,280 Speaker 3: I don't come, I don't connecting if I went to 1426 01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,080 Speaker 3: a club or something and I'm just. 1427 01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:27,440 Speaker 4: Like, yeah, doing here. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 1428 01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 3: Like that'sn't even come in the last sort of eighteen months. 1429 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:33,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, nah, it's sad. Yeah, I see myself down 1430 01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:36,240 Speaker 3: the pavilion or something fucking five minutes from could you right, yeah, 1431 01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 3: walk there, and I'm like, nah, any special occasion. 1432 01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 1: I was in Vegas three weeks ago. 1433 01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 3: Oh, Like I just like I sort of draw a 1434 01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:49,200 Speaker 3: one seeing I do one here here here, and then 1435 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:49,880 Speaker 3: that's about it. 1436 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,160 Speaker 2: That's that's exactly like me. That's what I'm doing. So 1437 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,680 Speaker 2: like we got some wedding events and stuff and birthdays. 1438 01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:57,520 Speaker 2: Maybe I'll have like a few cocktails or a couple 1439 01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:59,760 Speaker 2: of beers with the boys, but other than that, like 1440 01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 2: I also feel like I over milked out, Like all 1441 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,320 Speaker 2: the vendors we've done, I've. 1442 01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:05,960 Speaker 3: Done enough to fucking do you know what I mean? 1443 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 3: Like I don't have to prove myself. I just yeah, 1444 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:12,720 Speaker 3: And I'm just like I just won't. I've come down 1445 01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 3: to I won't do it in Sydney. I just don't there. 1446 01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 3: I just really focused on that, and then I think 1447 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,480 Speaker 3: I did a Magic Rams in Brisbane. I had a 1448 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,920 Speaker 3: couple of beers and like Perth Origin. Then I was 1449 01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:24,560 Speaker 3: in Vegas. That's about it. 1450 01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:28,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, so three and then I'll try and even it out. 1451 01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:31,040 Speaker 3: Then I'm going to go on a levels has taken 1452 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 3: a lot of people are over the ashes that play. 1453 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,480 Speaker 1: England over there. Oh yeah, no, probably you're in England. Yeah. 1454 01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,400 Speaker 1: I mean I'm taking people to you know what I mean, 1455 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 1: And it's fun for me. I'm not Sydney. 1456 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:42,640 Speaker 3: I don't have a problem with alcohol, That's the thing, 1457 01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 3: because I can just not drink if I don't want 1458 01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:45,000 Speaker 3: to drink. 1459 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:46,400 Speaker 1: I don't sit there and. 1460 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 3: Go, oh man, I just want to get off the 1461 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 3: alcohol because I'm get the hangover and I'm like. 1462 01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:51,440 Speaker 1: No, it's not a problem. 1463 01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:51,720 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1464 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 1: I got even drink for twenty six weeks because I 1465 01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,360 Speaker 1: just didn't want to. Yeah. Right, And if I want 1466 01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,120 Speaker 1: to do it, I do it. I'm big enough and 1467 01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:03,840 Speaker 1: strong enough. Now men go yeah, like I know what 1468 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm like too. I fucking still go at it. That's 1469 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,040 Speaker 1: what I'm trying. That's what I try and take away 1470 01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:10,960 Speaker 1: from myself as well. I'm like, don't put yourself in 1471 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: that position. Yeah, because you know what you like? You 1472 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:15,760 Speaker 1: know what you like? That's one or two, one or 1473 01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 1: two three drinks I call the boys. 1474 01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:21,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm saying it's just like you know, like I'm like, ah, 1475 01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 3: that's what I don't really I don't really hang out 1476 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,640 Speaker 3: with that many players as well, and mates in Sydney 1477 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,080 Speaker 3: all the rest of you know, Rennie. Renie is a 1478 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,480 Speaker 3: good friend of mine. We like if we connect, like 1479 01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,760 Speaker 3: could we want to connect on a different level. You know, 1480 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,240 Speaker 3: we go out for dinner and stuff like that. It's 1481 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 3: not like that anymore. Yeah, A lot of the guys 1482 01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,880 Speaker 3: in Sydney, they're all family men, like businesses and all. 1483 01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:41,760 Speaker 1: That sort of shit. That's busy. Everyone's too busy anyway. 1484 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,600 Speaker 1: That Sydney. Yes, it's a good place. 1485 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:47,680 Speaker 3: To focus because you've got so much ship on you 1486 01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:50,000 Speaker 3: get really locked down like that. I say, in Sydney, 1487 01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:52,280 Speaker 3: I could be busy all day every day if I 1488 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:52,800 Speaker 3: choose to be. 1489 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:55,120 Speaker 1: But I've set stuff up where. 1490 01:02:54,920 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 3: It's like like on a Tuesday, I like to just 1491 01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,560 Speaker 3: train in the morning, go do some well his stuff 1492 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,880 Speaker 3: like recovery and like all that sort of stuff, and 1493 01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:03,480 Speaker 3: then I got. 1494 01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:04,880 Speaker 1: Time for this. You got time, you know. 1495 01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:06,960 Speaker 3: That's why I was down and could you before Rico? 1496 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 3: Just like for two or three hours, We're waiting on 1497 01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 3: fucking Omar to come pick us up. 1498 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 2: All man, that Rico guy is dangerous to be with. 1499 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 2: If you want to quit drinking, I'll tell you that much. 1500 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,160 Speaker 1: But try to get Rica on the straight and narrow. 1501 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 2: So I met I met Rico through Omar. But but Rico, bro, 1502 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:24,560 Speaker 2: he knows a lot of guys. 1503 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:28,920 Speaker 1: He knows everyone. This guy knows everyone. He knows everyone. 1504 01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 2: He started telling me people he knew like that that 1505 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:32,720 Speaker 2: he knows a lot of people that we know as 1506 01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:33,439 Speaker 2: well from the area. 1507 01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 1: So I don't know, I haven't even know. We've got yeah, 1508 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 1: a podcast with this guy. Did he grow up in Yeah? 1509 01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:43,120 Speaker 3: And then he's from Ipswich Brisbane. Boy, I meet him 1510 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:44,840 Speaker 3: through a few guys. Yeah, he's a good dude. Yeah, 1511 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,560 Speaker 3: Soul of the earth. Just loves helping people, man, Yeah, 1512 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,480 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like connects people. And I'm like, yeah, 1513 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,080 Speaker 3: he's a good cat. 1514 01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. I did tell him exactly what you just said. 1515 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:55,600 Speaker 2: How Because we me and Omar went up to Gold 1516 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 2: Coast and we felt like the pace there was so 1517 01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 2: slow to like to Sydney here because We went up 1518 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:03,600 Speaker 2: there with the Sydney mentality, We're going to get this 1519 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:04,240 Speaker 2: and that done. 1520 01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:05,000 Speaker 4: We couldn't. 1521 01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 2: Everyone was like, oh yeah, we'll have to order it. 1522 01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,440 Speaker 2: It will come in in a couple of Weeks're like, what. 1523 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, because Sydney's onto it. 1524 01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:11,560 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1525 01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:14,760 Speaker 3: If this city moves quick, start making good moves. Connect 1526 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,680 Speaker 3: with the right people. You be on your way. You're 1527 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:18,560 Speaker 3: busy all the time. You got jobs, You got jobs, 1528 01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 3: you got jobs. This podcast a side hustle for is. Yeah, 1529 01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, your main thing should be 1530 01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:26,600 Speaker 3: family first and then like health and then business. Yeah, 1531 01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 3: that's your prior is when your priorities changed when you 1532 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:31,320 Speaker 3: get older, you know what I mean, Like one's family 1533 01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 3: first and then health, yeah, and then business and whatever. 1534 01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:39,520 Speaker 3: I still go to church, and that I go sometimes 1535 01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,600 Speaker 3: every time. I sort of need to add quiet time. Yeah, 1536 01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:44,960 Speaker 3: I sit there just to reflect, you know, like I 1537 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:46,400 Speaker 3: just it's more I think, you know, I can just 1538 01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:48,640 Speaker 3: go into there's a Catholic church up near my house. I 1539 01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:51,200 Speaker 3: just it's probably like a kilometer walk walk up there 1540 01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:52,720 Speaker 3: on the time. If I've got time on a Sunday, 1541 01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,320 Speaker 3: get there, just listen. 1542 01:04:55,200 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 1: It's good just to be silent. 1543 01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:57,560 Speaker 4: I talk a lot. 1544 01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 1: You know why you talk a lot during the week. 1545 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,080 Speaker 3: You give a lot of any out to people trying 1546 01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:02,800 Speaker 3: to help this, this. 1547 01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 1: This, and next. You know, sometimes you need a bit 1548 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 1: of time for yourself to go the podcast. Yeah, do 1549 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:08,680 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying? Like, and you're trying to help, 1550 01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:09,680 Speaker 1: constantly trying to help. 1551 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,720 Speaker 3: There's a lot of energy coming your way, and like 1552 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:14,160 Speaker 3: it depends how you take it's good and bad. And 1553 01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,760 Speaker 3: just sit there and just reflect and listen. Right, it's 1554 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:19,960 Speaker 3: funny because the dudes must be from Mexico or something 1555 01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:20,560 Speaker 3: like the priest. 1556 01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:22,560 Speaker 1: I can't really understand. 1557 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,920 Speaker 3: Oh, and he's dog like it is, you know, and 1558 01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:31,160 Speaker 3: you know, and dog like this. I'm just like, I 1559 01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 3: can't concentrate what I'm saying. And he's such a cool dude, 1560 01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:37,920 Speaker 3: but he's like he speaks like broken English. Yeah, and 1561 01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:41,440 Speaker 3: it's very much culture, man, very Another guy comes in 1562 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,720 Speaker 3: from the Philippines. He can barely talk English. Yeah, I'm. 1563 01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:51,480 Speaker 1: The broken Philippine language. Right, it's the best. It's hilarious. 1564 01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:52,960 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. 1565 01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 3: So you know what I'm saying, I'm just sitting at 1566 01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,360 Speaker 3: the back, dude, it's making me laugh. I'm trying to, 1567 01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,040 Speaker 3: like because it brings back good, good good and I 1568 01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:02,480 Speaker 3: had memories for me, right, yeah, because like I try, 1569 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,560 Speaker 3: and as I said, my trouble with God and when 1570 01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:08,760 Speaker 3: Dad passed away, so I had to have like these 1571 01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 3: moments like fucking why do you do that? And then 1572 01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,400 Speaker 3: you sort of come around and still those memories come 1573 01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:15,000 Speaker 3: back because the last time I was sort of in there, 1574 01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 3: like Dad was getting buried all that sort of shit, 1575 01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 3: So that sort of hits home still, but it's the 1576 01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 3: good memories as well. Yeah, because you're old enough now 1577 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:23,880 Speaker 3: I'm my father, I'm sort of like in a totally 1578 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,000 Speaker 3: different statuspy from when I was twenty five. 1579 01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:28,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I never going to church in my whole twenties. 1580 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:31,000 Speaker 3: You know, it took a while for me to come 1581 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:36,800 Speaker 3: back in there and feel comfortable or not emotional, you know, because. 1582 01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:38,680 Speaker 1: It just brought back all that fucking memories. I'm like, 1583 01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 1: I see. 1584 01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, So every time I'm in there, even if weddings 1585 01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:45,040 Speaker 3: and shit like that, I'll be like, oh. 1586 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:47,200 Speaker 1: What's happening. I'll be like, yeah, it sort of hit 1587 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:47,560 Speaker 1: me like that. 1588 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,960 Speaker 3: I was like, and I deal with it, right, I 1589 01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:51,440 Speaker 3: don't give a shit if I cry or anything like 1590 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. 1591 01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:53,520 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here. I'm not going to cry. I feel 1592 01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:55,440 Speaker 1: like crying. I fucking cry, you know. 1593 01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:57,240 Speaker 3: And I was like, all though my mates getting married 1594 01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:01,520 Speaker 3: in the two thousands stuff, I'm like sitting there going 1595 01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:03,680 Speaker 3: I don't know why, it's not supposed to be a 1596 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:04,240 Speaker 3: happy moment. 1597 01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:06,480 Speaker 1: And I'm just like my part would be like, wait, 1598 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:10,360 Speaker 1: cry for some happy for him. But it was like 1599 01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:11,760 Speaker 1: sitting there thinking. 1600 01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:14,120 Speaker 3: About Dad, and I'm like, oh, last time I was here, 1601 01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:15,720 Speaker 3: I was carrying a casket out, do you know what 1602 01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:16,000 Speaker 3: I mean? 1603 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,240 Speaker 1: You know. I was like, it's a different sort of feeling. 1604 01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:20,880 Speaker 1: But then there's the beginning of a new beginning, and 1605 01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 1: it's like, you know, I always think of stuff like that. 1606 01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:27,240 Speaker 3: Hectic again again, but I go there now just to 1607 01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:31,880 Speaker 3: go just give me some time now, forty five minutes. 1608 01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:36,240 Speaker 1: And just walk home. It's a long time, yeah, man, 1609 01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:39,320 Speaker 1: forty five to an hour. I just did I dip in? 1610 01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:41,080 Speaker 3: I did I just come in because you know the 1611 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,600 Speaker 3: church people like on Sundays or they wait till the 1612 01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:46,280 Speaker 3: end and they try and get I'm already out before 1613 01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,360 Speaker 3: he says, before he says anything, I'm already down the street. 1614 01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 3: So they can't get me already coming towards me. 1615 01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 1: Okay, you always go. 1616 01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:02,560 Speaker 2: To church bro with like, So it's it's interesting actually 1617 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:06,360 Speaker 2: because we've been sharing some Bible versus on on online too. 1618 01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 2: So our dad was a pastor when we're young, which 1619 01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:09,600 Speaker 2: is weird. 1620 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:12,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny because we all went astray when we 1621 01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:13,160 Speaker 1: were young. 1622 01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:17,320 Speaker 2: But I feel like he taught us enough that it 1623 01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:19,840 Speaker 2: kind of even though we weren't listening at the time 1624 01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,400 Speaker 2: for some reason. It just a lot of little like 1625 01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,320 Speaker 2: Bible courts and stuff. Well, just like will sit there 1626 01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,599 Speaker 2: somewhere in the back pocket and then it wouldn't shine 1627 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:32,160 Speaker 2: out to us until we'll like confined inside prison once 1628 01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,360 Speaker 2: where you're when you're by yourself, the human mind, oh. 1629 01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:37,640 Speaker 1: Man, you go because you store that way in the 1630 01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:39,880 Speaker 1: back and then it just went straight at. 1631 01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,240 Speaker 2: The front and then like when you actually have time 1632 01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:44,040 Speaker 2: to sit this why I feel like a lot of 1633 01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:46,479 Speaker 2: boys figure out who they are in prison, because when 1634 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 2: you're stuck there with your mind and you're sitting in 1635 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:51,680 Speaker 2: four walls, you've got no other distraction around you, you 1636 01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:54,360 Speaker 2: really figure out who you are, like who you are, 1637 01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,760 Speaker 2: and then like you and then everything from the back 1638 01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:59,479 Speaker 2: pocket comes out in your mind, like it reminds you 1639 01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:02,120 Speaker 2: all of this special things like that people have told 1640 01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:04,280 Speaker 2: you about you, and like just all they think that 1641 01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:06,759 Speaker 2: it bombards you, bro, like when you're by yourself. 1642 01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:10,799 Speaker 1: What influenced you, Guys when you were younger? Was it music? Obviously? 1643 01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,679 Speaker 3: What sort of music influenced you to get into sort 1644 01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:17,400 Speaker 3: of rapping and stuff. So I love hip hop, but. 1645 01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:20,360 Speaker 2: We we notice as when we were young growing up, 1646 01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:24,320 Speaker 2: we saw the power of music, right, like even in 1647 01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:27,040 Speaker 2: the even in the bad sense. So a lot of 1648 01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:28,840 Speaker 2: the things that me and my brother got caught for 1649 01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 2: the robberies when we were young, Bro, we had to 1650 01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:33,720 Speaker 2: jam a Tupac song on the way there, like you know, 1651 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,880 Speaker 2: and yeah, and it just like there's a lot of 1652 01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:41,120 Speaker 2: power behind music, and yeah, we understood the power of 1653 01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,160 Speaker 2: it when we were so young. We realized like what 1654 01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:45,519 Speaker 2: it does here, how it moves you. And I guess 1655 01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:47,719 Speaker 2: we kind of we took it in the wrong direction 1656 01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:50,600 Speaker 2: by you know, like all the we started doing the 1657 01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,040 Speaker 2: drill music and stuff as well, because we we were 1658 01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:55,400 Speaker 2: in that life at that time, and we felt like 1659 01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:57,760 Speaker 2: we wanted other people who are in the life as 1660 01:09:57,760 --> 01:10:00,799 Speaker 2: well to resonate with us. But then after a while 1661 01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:02,679 Speaker 2: we kind of just had a wake up call because 1662 01:10:02,680 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 2: we saw what he was doing not only to people 1663 01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 2: like kids around us, but also to each other. 1664 01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:11,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have to be accountable for each other. 1665 01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 2: So if my brother gets shot next week, I have 1666 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:15,760 Speaker 2: to live with the fact that I played a. 1667 01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,439 Speaker 1: Part in influencing him. 1668 01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:20,080 Speaker 3: You know, it's fucking heavy, isn't it. Yeah, because that's 1669 01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:22,120 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. It didn't I didn't really expect the 1670 01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:25,320 Speaker 3: whole Western suburbs to blow up like it did in 1671 01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,799 Speaker 3: a real short moment. It's just like, that's what ignited 1672 01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,760 Speaker 3: the whole thing. Was added the music element into the 1673 01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:33,400 Speaker 3: sort of stuff that was already going around. 1674 01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:36,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what sort of music influence you? But like 1675 01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:37,160 Speaker 1: hip hop? Obviously? 1676 01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:40,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, obviously it would have been hip hop a lot of. 1677 01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:41,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which one. 1678 01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:42,640 Speaker 4: It would have been? 1679 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:44,400 Speaker 1: The sick? 1680 01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:45,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1681 01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:48,720 Speaker 1: I think. Yeah, he's aggressive as well, isn't he. 1682 01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:50,840 Speaker 7: I think anyone that who used to listen to him 1683 01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:53,760 Speaker 7: would have been up to the yeah him. 1684 01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:56,640 Speaker 1: Nine two when I was like nineteen twenty. Yeah, he 1685 01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,280 Speaker 1: influenced me, Like you always listen to rough Rider's anthems? 1686 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:03,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, before the games, that's always pump and still yeah 1687 01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:04,599 Speaker 3: that song. 1688 01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:06,880 Speaker 1: It's still going in there, man, it's in the gym, 1689 01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:07,559 Speaker 1: it's everywhere. 1690 01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,920 Speaker 3: DMX influence a hell of a lot of Yeah, two Pac, Biggie, 1691 01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:14,960 Speaker 3: all those sort of place was called fifty three four. 1692 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 3: It was unstoppable. Yeah, unstoppable. The game was unstoppable. I 1693 01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:20,000 Speaker 3: love all those bokes. 1694 01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:20,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you reckon? 1695 01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:23,360 Speaker 7: Would be like your go to music on the footy field, 1696 01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 7: and you say, dumples. 1697 01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:27,360 Speaker 3: A lot of DMX, A lot of a lot of 1698 01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:30,560 Speaker 3: different songs, man, Like different songs would get you in 1699 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:33,719 Speaker 3: a different like different. Yeah, it's like some slow songs 1700 01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:36,519 Speaker 3: and some something about like your father or death and 1701 01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:37,240 Speaker 3: stuff like that. 1702 01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:39,560 Speaker 1: Would get me going in a different level. 1703 01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,120 Speaker 3: Where if I want to just chill out, I'll be 1704 01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:43,519 Speaker 3: listening to DMX fifty all that sort of stuff and 1705 01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:45,640 Speaker 3: snoop all those guys. 1706 01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:46,160 Speaker 4: With slow songs. 1707 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:49,519 Speaker 7: Yeah, romantic music ever along the. 1708 01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:54,200 Speaker 1: Mind players used to listen to Usher and lot Wily Tongue. 1709 01:11:54,360 --> 01:12:06,240 Speaker 1: Yeah before games confessions enjoy it. We used to. I 1710 01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:07,920 Speaker 1: loved hip hop. I was in that era where it 1711 01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:08,919 Speaker 1: was like the two thousands. 1712 01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:11,720 Speaker 3: It was a gangster man. Yeah, I remember going to 1713 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:14,360 Speaker 3: because one of my main sire. He used to get 1714 01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:16,439 Speaker 3: out take get all the hip hop. 1715 01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,879 Speaker 1: Guys out of here in the twenty fifty game, snoop. 1716 01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:22,560 Speaker 3: All those guys, man, I used to get to meet them, yeah, 1717 01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:24,280 Speaker 3: exhibit all these sort of blokes. 1718 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:26,759 Speaker 1: Those guys had a mad run. 1719 01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:31,479 Speaker 3: Into two thousand, but they were the biggest because I remember, Yeah, 1720 01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:33,599 Speaker 3: he got us access like backstage and ship. 1721 01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:35,400 Speaker 1: So we used to love it. And that's when they 1722 01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:35,960 Speaker 1: were at the peak. 1723 01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:38,160 Speaker 3: The peak in two thousands, like two thousand and three, 1724 01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:40,960 Speaker 3: four or five seven, hip hop was mad. 1725 01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:42,120 Speaker 1: The clubs were mad. Back then. 1726 01:12:42,160 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 3: There was heaps of hip hop clubs in the in 1727 01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,559 Speaker 3: Sydney like Moccomar and all these joints Cave. 1728 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:49,000 Speaker 1: That was a mental time. 1729 01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:54,240 Speaker 4: People listening to juwel now they love it. 1730 01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:58,120 Speaker 3: Guys like Fox and like Critter and all these west 1731 01:12:58,160 --> 01:12:59,200 Speaker 3: man Yeah, I love it. 1732 01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:04,360 Speaker 1: Drill you can listen to you know what's funny? You 1733 01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:04,920 Speaker 1: know what's funny. 1734 01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:07,280 Speaker 2: One of my mates actually, like he was telling me, 1735 01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:10,679 Speaker 2: he was laughing because even while we were doing drill music. 1736 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,960 Speaker 2: When I drink, I love a bit of country. A yeah, yeah, 1737 01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:14,960 Speaker 2: I don't mind country. 1738 01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:18,680 Speaker 3: Some right songs, big big dude, Yeah, what does he 1739 01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:22,960 Speaker 3: sell out, Like, I forget his name, Sean Combes, that's puffaddy. 1740 01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:28,080 Speaker 1: Something Cones big Coms. That is that the blonde hair? 1741 01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 1: Are you talking about the big big dude? He's a 1742 01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:37,519 Speaker 1: bigger guy. No, what's your name? Some Combes? It's not 1743 01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:43,280 Speaker 1: b Diddy. I don't even know what is probab He's 1744 01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:46,040 Speaker 1: getting out or something. Didn't he know he's not? 1745 01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:52,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, what an episode, bro. I hope you guys 1746 01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,599 Speaker 2: loved and enjoyed that. This is actually amazing. A lot 1747 01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:56,720 Speaker 2: of the a lot of the conversations. It caught us 1748 01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 2: by shot because we generally like didn't know much about Willie's. 1749 01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:02,080 Speaker 2: A lot of our questions and the answers, we were 1750 01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:04,439 Speaker 2: just soaking it all in because, bro, like we've only 1751 01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:08,439 Speaker 2: seen this guy on the TV and the newspapers. This 1752 01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,880 Speaker 2: was actually a special interview, like not only for you guys, 1753 01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:11,960 Speaker 2: but for us as well. 1754 01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:14,720 Speaker 1: I hope you guys love that episode. 1755 01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:15,840 Speaker 4: As we can. Our young fellow is fine. 1756 01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:21,439 Speaker 3: Yaw Willie Mason ten. Yeah that's my Instagram podcast Levels Network. 1757 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,800 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I'm not on social media, but I'm like, 1758 01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:28,960 Speaker 3: you know, like co lab everything and all that Colab 1759 01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:29,639 Speaker 3: is the best thing. 1760 01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:31,720 Speaker 1: That happened on Instagram. Yeah, have to put the shit 1761 01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:35,479 Speaker 1: up yourself. Yeah, except that's true. That's cool. 1762 01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:38,439 Speaker 2: Before we wrap it up, is there any Is there 1763 01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:41,200 Speaker 2: any advice you'd give to any young blokeout there trying to. 1764 01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:43,720 Speaker 1: Make it out. Just have a crack. Yeah, No, like, 1765 01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,280 Speaker 1: go in there and just have a dig. Like, look 1766 01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 1: at all you guys. There's no excuses. 1767 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:47,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1768 01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:49,920 Speaker 1: And the world is your oyster at the moment. 1769 01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,320 Speaker 3: There's so many platforms you can build, there's podcasts as anything. 1770 01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,400 Speaker 3: You can do anything right now in twenty twenty five, 1771 01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:56,720 Speaker 3: So just go for it. 1772 01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,160 Speaker 2: Is God bless love and blessing to everyone. Thank you 1773 01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:01,160 Speaker 2: for tuning in. We see guys on the next one, 1774 01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:03,000 Speaker 2: will you young man? 1775 01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:04,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to lose. 1776 01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:06,400 Speaker 4: I still don't want to dance with Mark Crew. 1777 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:08,960 Speaker 2: You're from my twenty one day for me on that 1778 01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:11,560 Speaker 2: real life that sorde of laugh For Tuesday