WEBVTT - Froomie 👙 Swims 🏊‍♀️ With 🦈 Sharks 😳 *Redacted*

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast, Happy Tuesday, Little Tiny Freaks.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of weeks ago, I found myself for the

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<v Speaker 1>Royal National Park up north, about forty five kilometers from

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<v Speaker 1>the CBD. It's crazy to me, we don't get this

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<v Speaker 1>in Victoria. You drive for half an hour, You're in

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<v Speaker 1>National Park right outside Australia's most cosmopolitan city. Like just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make her mind. In New South Wales, you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>so proud that you have residency here, guys, residency you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you got a long stint. Yeah, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>get here on my own, Robbolition.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, so Mickey and I are the real Necker baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Like honestly, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, where I went allegedly had sharks. So I

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask you, Flexi and Mickey and everyone else listening,

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<v Speaker 1>would you swim in shark infested waters not only for

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<v Speaker 1>a bit, but also because it's really hot when you

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<v Speaker 1>go for a hike. You alwayslex broops. Let's go, ladies

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<v Speaker 1>and gentlemen, it's time for Flexi is a big question

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<v Speaker 1>of the week.

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<v Speaker 2>I love doing this series so much. We've had a

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<v Speaker 2>few big questions. The first one.

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<v Speaker 1>Was big, but not that big. Hey.

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<v Speaker 2>The first one was what's the worst way someone could

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<v Speaker 2>describe you? The second big question we had is why

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<v Speaker 2>do your friends like you? Or why do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>At the very least, and our third big question, what

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<v Speaker 2>have you decided is your purpose for life?

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm asking because for a few reasons, But the

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<v Speaker 2>one that's got me is someone who's raised quite religious

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<v Speaker 2>or in a religious household, and then has now broadened

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<v Speaker 2>my interest into spirituality and esotericism and all these things

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<v Speaker 2>that provide meaning right or at least a direction for

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<v Speaker 2>how to filter what's happening in life. I start to

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<v Speaker 2>think to myself, does everybody feel this way? Is everybody

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<v Speaker 2>going around living day to day thinking this is all

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<v Speaker 2>for some grander meaning? For me? For example, every day

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<v Speaker 2>I get up and I think to myself, is this

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm actually here to do? Like of all the

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<v Speaker 2>sperms of all the eggs that have the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 2>vie for my position, I made it. I was fighting

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<v Speaker 2>on the way out, and now that I'm here, is

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<v Speaker 2>this It is this what I meant to be doing?

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't think and I don't want to sway

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<v Speaker 2>anyone else's opinion on what life's purpose is, and we

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<v Speaker 2>don't usually answer the question before we pose it. But

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<v Speaker 2>I would say there is no grand, singular purpose and

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<v Speaker 2>that's the confusing thing. But I think unless you give

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<v Speaker 2>yourself a purpose, you kin'dt always live and regret a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit because you don't have anything to measure your

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<v Speaker 2>history by. Let's say you say, oh, the purpose for

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<v Speaker 2>life is just to love and be loved.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeap.

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<v Speaker 2>When you do things that aren't in alignment, like you're like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't love my work. Go find something that you

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<v Speaker 2>want to do that you really love. H I don't

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<v Speaker 2>love my social life. Okay, well you can make some

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<v Speaker 2>small adjustments. But let's say life doesn't have a purpose

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<v Speaker 2>for you and you're also not enjoying yourself. Where do

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<v Speaker 2>you make adjustments to, like, figure out how to make

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<v Speaker 2>it good for yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Your depressants great sunlight.

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<v Speaker 2>And sunlight that'll do it. So that is the question

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<v Speaker 2>for the week. How it goes is on our Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and frooms. We post a question box on our

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram story and that is where you can put your

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<v Speaker 2>answer and then we'll discuss your answers and see if

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<v Speaker 2>we can find not even just a singular response, but

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<v Speaker 2>just to get a bit of a barometer check on

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<v Speaker 2>what you feel and why you feel it, so we

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<v Speaker 2>can be closer to you and you in turn can

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<v Speaker 2>be closer to us.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a Guardian article about pet theft in Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>This is really sad, guys. They publish a following story

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<v Speaker 1>with the title They're My Kids, Pet theft, pet detectives

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<v Speaker 1>and the rise of the multi species family. Well, so

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<v Speaker 1>allegedly there's been the advent of a thing called pet

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<v Speaker 1>detective Why because we are seeing that people are actually

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<v Speaker 1>stealing pets. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually kind of makes sense because I would say, on

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<v Speaker 2>average twice a week I see someone post a story

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<v Speaker 2>being like has anybody seen this cat? Has aybody seen

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<v Speaker 2>this cat? And I, as someone who doesn't own pets,

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, damn, are those all running away? Like what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on there? No, they're being taken.

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<v Speaker 1>So the advent of pet detectives reflects a broader change

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<v Speaker 1>in the way many in wealthy societies interact with and

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<v Speaker 1>value pets. So over the past few years, the price

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<v Speaker 1>of pets, particularly dogs, and especially fashionable breeds has vastly increased.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we talk about why during lockdown?

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<v Speaker 1>My dad wanted a dog? Okay, okay, classic, it is

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<v Speaker 1>not likely that that man shows an interesting pets. However,

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<v Speaker 1>he was infected by the kavoodle crase and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>I want one of them kovoodle dogs, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>poodle and a cavalier. I think is that what the

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<v Speaker 1>kovoodle is and they're the real extensive ones.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, how many want to talk?

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<v Speaker 1>Watch cup round dog? Give ten k? Oh, it's giving

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<v Speaker 1>ten k about twelve years ago to get a little

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<v Speaker 1>tiny toy poodle. We were talking about two k, which.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the higher inflation hit every industry.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten k during COVID. Okay, eight k probably, but like I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Wanting to add the little things you gotta get out

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<v Speaker 2>of the vet bills and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it makes sense that somebody wants to steal

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<v Speaker 1>a little krusty kavoodle, although I do believe they are

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<v Speaker 1>the krusties of animals. So alongside the dollar value rise,

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<v Speaker 1>pets have become. Pets have come to occupy an increasingly

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<v Speaker 1>intimate role in Australian households, and with this the business

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<v Speaker 1>of not only keeping pets but stealing and retrieving them

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<v Speaker 1>has changed.

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<v Speaker 2>So was the presumption that because the idea of a

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<v Speaker 2>pets role has changed and it's seen as this luxury item,

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<v Speaker 2>this luxury whatever, the people stealing them aren't doing so

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<v Speaker 2>for emotional reasons, like I want a dog and you

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<v Speaker 2>have a cute one. But it's the value. Like, for example,

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<v Speaker 2>if I have this ten thousand dollar dog it goes missing,

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<v Speaker 2>I say, dog's missing. Here's a reward two K. And

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<v Speaker 2>then you give the dog back, you make some cash.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that we were talking. I didn't think it was

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<v Speaker 1>that deep. Oh. I was thinking more like people want

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<v Speaker 1>the type of dog, but they don't want to pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, so they see Like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what's worse. Let's do a show of hands. We've got

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<v Speaker 2>four people in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>What's worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody stealing the pet for the payday of the reward

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<v Speaker 2>of giving it back, or somebody stealing a pet because

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<v Speaker 2>they want that pet and can't afford it.

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<v Speaker 1>The latter is way worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think the latter is working it because just

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<v Speaker 2>being like I want that dog and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I never really understood the crazy about dogs like, in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote it quite a scape.

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<v Speaker 2>She's very confusing because chiuahas are a huge part of your.

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<v Speaker 1>Virtual, massive, massive the idea of them. But I will

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<v Speaker 1>say we have a family dog called Pepper, a toy poodle.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a cutest dog on earth, and it's very confusing.

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<v Speaker 1>My sister just sends me photos of Pepper sleeping with

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<v Speaker 1>her body curled up with her head on the pillow.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I see that animal like, I finally understand

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<v Speaker 1>why people love pets.

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<v Speaker 2>When did this family dog come to be twenty ten?

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<v Speaker 1>Should know last legs? And when she dies, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be actually just start loving her about five years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>But actually no, maybe even the last year. She's become

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<v Speaker 1>very posed these timelines. Guys, I know my limits. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna do yeah anyway, so watch out if you

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<v Speaker 1>lose a pet. There is such a thing called a

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<v Speaker 1>pet detective. Google Guardian pet detective and then you'll probably

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<v Speaker 1>find someone. But yeah, one detective found this woman's four

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<v Speaker 1>chuabas in a boot of a car that it was

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<v Speaker 1>like so good to be reunited with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Doggies, Listen, it's okay to be embarrassing. We have said

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<v Speaker 2>before that being cringe is on the direct path to

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<v Speaker 2>being successful in any manner of the way. So we

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to pretend that embarrassment isn't a necessary part

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<v Speaker 2>of life, but I do think we can take some

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<v Speaker 2>precautions to ensure that we're not embarrassing ourselves for no

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<v Speaker 2>good reason. Tell me why a video of Hailey Bieber

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<v Speaker 2>is surfacing on my on my feet and plenty of

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<v Speaker 2>feeds around the world. World. What we witness is Hailey

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<v Speaker 2>Bieber being filmed from almost a bird's eye view, top

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<v Speaker 2>down right to give the impression that somebody is filming

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<v Speaker 2>her close up, and she's kind of looking at the

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<v Speaker 2>camera and looking away and talking and kind of responding.

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<v Speaker 2>And the video that I saw didn't have any sounds,

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<v Speaker 2>so what we could gather is that she was being

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<v Speaker 2>filmed by Justin and then she was kind of responding

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<v Speaker 2>to his compliments, giggling, looking away, being coy. Why did

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<v Speaker 2>some eagle eyed fan or hater decide to screenshot the

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<v Speaker 2>video zoom into her pupil for a reflection that showed

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<v Speaker 2>Hailey's arm holding the phone stop. I can't what do

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<v Speaker 2>you have to be going through to be experiencing that?

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<v Speaker 2>I can tell you Haley and Justin have been married

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<v Speaker 2>since twenty eighteen. Number one. That's a long time, and

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<v Speaker 2>that whole relationship they've been fighting allegations of not being

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<v Speaker 2>in love on her end. People are so convinced that

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<v Speaker 2>she's in love with Justin on Justin's and people are

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<v Speaker 2>convinced that he is not in love with her, that

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<v Speaker 2>he's in love with Selena, and that he's in this

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<v Speaker 2>relationship out of convenience because it's nice to have someone

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<v Speaker 2>dote on you. For those who do not know, Hailey

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<v Speaker 2>Bieber was a very very very intense Justin Bieber fan,

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<v Speaker 2>a fanatic. She went to meet and greets all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>So her trajectory from fan to wife.

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<v Speaker 1>She killed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Plenty of us are looking for the rule book now.

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<v Speaker 2>The interesting thing is because the Internet has been poking

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<v Speaker 2>holes in their relationship. Once you see it, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>unsee it. And there have been heaps of instances where

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<v Speaker 2>Justin has been fanning the flames of that narrative of

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<v Speaker 2>not being in love with her, not wanting to be

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<v Speaker 2>with her. One of them was recently when Selena and

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<v Speaker 2>Kylie were bullying Haley on the internet or her fans

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<v Speaker 2>it's conjecture at this point, but basically, there was bullying

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<v Speaker 2>happening on the internet. It was getting very obvious that

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<v Speaker 2>Selena was saying things that would then carry on to

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<v Speaker 2>Haley's fans, and Hailey would get bullied and vice versa.

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<v Speaker 2>I said at that point in time, and I said

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<v Speaker 2>this on radio, that all of this could be squashed

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<v Speaker 2>if Justin would just clear it up. Yep, stand by

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<v Speaker 2>your wife and say, hey, I don't know what you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are talking about. I don't care. I love my wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't talk about us. Zip Lips. Didn't say anything, didn't

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<v Speaker 2>infer anything, just went about living his life and posting

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me why not. Weeks later, I'm at Coachella, Frank

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<v Speaker 2>Ocean does the worst performance of his life. The whole

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<v Speaker 2>Internet's like this was terrible. Why does Justin climb out

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<v Speaker 2>of his hole to start making posts in defense of

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<v Speaker 2>Frank Ocean? You guys don't understand this guy's amazing? La

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<v Speaker 2>la la. I'm with you, bro all the way. Where

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<v Speaker 2>is this energy for your wife? It was not there,

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<v Speaker 2>which makes me think. And I've got a quick question

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<v Speaker 2>for you for on a scale of one to ten,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe one to cringe. How bad is this really

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<v Speaker 2>faking an intimate moment with your partner to present a

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<v Speaker 2>united front? And secondly, what lengths would you go to

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<v Speaker 2>to present a united I feel like I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Done much worse really, just like in terms of it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of reminds me of like the hand in

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<v Speaker 1>the shot, Like if I'm hanging out with a with

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<v Speaker 1>a man friend, I'm gonna be putting it on the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I'm saying, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>E like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think like I think it's cute. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just really trying in this life to just not

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<v Speaker 1>think anything ever is cringe, because I think the cringe

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<v Speaker 1>thing is to like be mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's sad. Yeah, it's not even like cringe

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<v Speaker 2>implies like a little bit of humor to it or

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<v Speaker 2>like there's something quite laughable. But if you just put

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<v Speaker 2>the facts on the table, you've been with someone for

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<v Speaker 2>five six seven, they've been married for five years, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>together for six or seven years, but you've spent this

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<v Speaker 2>whole relationship trying trying to prove to the world that

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<v Speaker 2>you are solid, you are fine. Maybe you know the

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<v Speaker 2>paparazzi called us looking onhappy. But that's what they do.

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<v Speaker 2>They manufacture these moments. We are fine, we are happy,

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<v Speaker 2>and you've gone out of your way to manufacture an

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<v Speaker 2>intimate moment that did not happen. It is not real.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you come back from that? Do you just

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<v Speaker 2>not address it? And maybe she doesn't have to address

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<v Speaker 2>it right now, but the time will come, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel as though a lot of people can delude

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<v Speaker 2>themselves into thinking that their situation isn't as bad as

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<v Speaker 2>it is because they can present the United Front and say, well,

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<v Speaker 2>if you take the right photos and say the right things,

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<v Speaker 2>then people weren't read between the lines. Things are not

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<v Speaker 2>that air tight.

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<v Speaker 1>Flex ands flexi. We have been speaking recently about sport,

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<v Speaker 1>yes people, the act of playing a sport YEP and

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that I realized when I was watching the

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<v Speaker 1>Matildas I was very very privy to the commentary when

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<v Speaker 1>I watched the game. I watched it once in a pub,

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<v Speaker 1>once at the actual field amazing, and then the third

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<v Speaker 1>time at a friend's house with a bunch of girls,

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<v Speaker 1>so all very different scenarios. The first time that I

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<v Speaker 1>watched the game was when I was at the stadium

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<v Speaker 1>and I realized that, Like I was looking at the

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<v Speaker 1>players and like looking at their hair, or like looking

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<v Speaker 1>at mary dog gloves on, and like looking at Samco's boots.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was going to put a story out being like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I love the chicken the pink boots

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<v Speaker 1>as a joke, but I was like, this is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be lost on everyone. They're going to know that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not joking anyway. Then when I was at the pub,

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting near this table of guys and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always like very interested in, you know, the typical sport

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<v Speaker 1>person who enjoys sport at the pub, which is this

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<v Speaker 1>stereotypical Australian man, and how they kind of like we'll

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<v Speaker 1>swear at the TV or do this and that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to say, when they're watching women, is that

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<v Speaker 1>going to change, Like are they going to say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you b word like da da. And there was a

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<v Speaker 1>guy in the pub doing that, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so interesting hearing you say it. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>so eatful. Yeah, because I already have this already sensitive

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<v Speaker 1>to it, so sensitive to it, and also have grown

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<v Speaker 1>up like in footy watching kind of like things environment environments.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm watching with a bunch of girlfriends at home

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<v Speaker 1>and we were talking about how it's so hard to

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<v Speaker 1>not comment on the way the players look, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out, trying to deduce in my own mind,

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<v Speaker 1>like is this just something that we do to all

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<v Speaker 1>people that are visual on TV or because then we

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<v Speaker 1>were saying oh. At the same time, it was when

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<v Speaker 1>that AFL player I don't know his name, got his

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<v Speaker 1>shirt ripped off and everyone's like, oh, we objectifying therasy

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<v Speaker 1>like sleigh, And I was thinking, how like catching myself

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<v Speaker 1>like wanting to say, oh, that person looks like this

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<v Speaker 1>or this person looks like this. But then we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking to group, being like, oh, we actually don't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that, and especially now because we realize that under

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<v Speaker 2>the umbrella of commenting on people's bodies, it's also positively

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<v Speaker 2>commenting or what we attribute to be a positive comment you, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>like have you been working out or you look so

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<v Speaker 2>toned or whatever it might be. It's like, place, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a tricky one.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about it with you, like when I used

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<v Speaker 1>to comment on like the outfits who you were wearing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like even there's so many little nuances to commenting on

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<v Speaker 1>what people are wearing or doing like perceiving someone and

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<v Speaker 1>making it very obvious that is then permissible for other

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<v Speaker 1>people to do it. Yeah, sometimes also not favorable.

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<v Speaker 2>So and to clarify what we were discussing as a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of months ago. For me, the best way I can

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<v Speaker 2>put it is the relationship that threw me and I

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<v Speaker 2>have can also bleed out into the environment that we're

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<v Speaker 2>in because we like to invite everybody into what we're doing,

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<v Speaker 2>what we're saying, and how we're communicating, and it can

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<v Speaker 2>be very tricky for other people to determine. I can

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<v Speaker 2>imagine how to engage with us based on this standard

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<v Speaker 2>that we've set of like openness and everybody's invited and

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<v Speaker 2>it's outgoing. And so for me, would comment on what

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<v Speaker 2>I was wearing, like, oh I like this outfit, or

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<v Speaker 2>you know FLEX is wearing this day, it's out for today, whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>And I used to tell her not to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>not because I didn't want her to comment on what

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<v Speaker 2>I look like, but I've been in a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>environments where other people comment on what I look like

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<v Speaker 2>and I can't tell if it's positive or derogatory, And

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<v Speaker 2>because they would see through me doing it and it's

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<v Speaker 2>set to standard of how to do it. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how you actually feel about me though.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how you feel about my outfit. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how you feel about my makeup. So I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want anyone to talk about it in an environment

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<v Speaker 2>where it's going to encourage everybody else to start doing

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<v Speaker 2>it as well. So it's more like a behavioral thing,

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<v Speaker 2>like instead of us. It's easier for us to assess

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<v Speaker 2>how we do us around other people than to start

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<v Speaker 2>making rules for each individual person that observes us being friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly flex and free. I like that FLEXI would

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<v Speaker 1>you swim in shark infested waters? Yes, I swim.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you have to perpetuate stereotypes. It's epigenetic trauma for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I know where my ancestors came from.

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<v Speaker 1>Important.

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<v Speaker 2>What I will say though, is I'm happy to get

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<v Speaker 2>in the water, float around, enjoy myself. I like a pool,

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<v Speaker 2>I like a spa, I like a hot tub. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't love a beach. I don't love an.

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<v Speaker 1>Ocean, A wide ocean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think if there are animals in it,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be in it.

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<v Speaker 1>And unfortunately it's like not knowing where your food comes from.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's very easy to just be in the water

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<v Speaker 1>and think there's not fishes here. Then I go on

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<v Speaker 1>the Bondye Shark drone and I'm seeing actual whales below swimmers.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it's real out there, guys. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the National Park to a place called Flint and Steel

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<v Speaker 1>Beach pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure Northern Oh said it's an arrow away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a narroway from bond Eye And going down into

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<v Speaker 1>the National Reserve, we chat to the chick who's like

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<v Speaker 1>the park ranger, and we're like, oh, we like brought

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<v Speaker 1>our bathers. We just happened to bring up on in

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<v Speaker 1>to swim, and she's like, you shouldn't swim. You're like, what,

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<v Speaker 1>like there's no signage, like we've randomly brought up swimming

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<v Speaker 1>to you. She's like, it's bull shark breeding season. I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't swim there. And we thought, what the hell, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you got.

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<v Speaker 2>A discern is it like a duty of care from

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<v Speaker 2>a corporation or like a girly to girly.

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<v Speaker 1>And my friend is like, I've looked on all the

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<v Speaker 1>like trail things like telling us about hikes, and they

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<v Speaker 1>said it's fine. To swim there. We're the only people

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<v Speaker 1>on the beach. Why do I go in?

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you playing with fire? If she if the

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<v Speaker 2>person literally at the entrance to your utopia saying it's

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<v Speaker 2>not safe there for you, baby, it's hell out here.

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<v Speaker 2>It's horror. It's shark infested waters. You can't double back

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<v Speaker 2>and say, I've actually been on the website. I said

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<v Speaker 2>it's fine. What was the website published two thousand and nine.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll put a photo in this. I looked over across

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<v Speaker 1>the water from a large van. I scanned like there

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<v Speaker 1>was nothing. There was not even fish in the water,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was in Greek reading season.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're gonna come around the corner and bite your

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<v Speaker 1>dick off. I wasn't the only one there. I wasn't,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're sam, Yeah, babe, got down in the cozies.

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<v Speaker 1>Considered a little nudy moment, but too much, too much

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<v Speaker 1>deliciousness to blame it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is such a far cry from the through me

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<v Speaker 2>of four months ago, who almost drowned in Balley got

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<v Speaker 2>caught in a rip was parodying, I might even say,

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<v Speaker 2>preaching sea and being safety now is saying rip is

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<v Speaker 2>a no go, but shark infested waders were happy to see.

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<v Speaker 1>How we go there in a in an area which

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<v Speaker 1>you can't get to buy a ambulance. One k hike anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Flint Steel Beach guys, once bull season is over, highly

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<v Speaker 1>recommend was gorgeous sat sign making on a orange rock.

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<v Speaker 1>After all, he said, it was honestly like magical.

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<v Speaker 2>And you came up drenched and she was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys did it?

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<v Speaker 1>Dumb bitch idiots. You've been listening to The Flex and

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