Speaker 1: This is Outspoken the podcast. It's not afraid to say
Speaker 1: exactly what you're thinking.
Speaker 2: Our names are Amy, Kate and Sophie Torba.
Speaker 1: We're identical triplets, but we often don't have identical opinions,
Speaker 1: so sometimes things can get heated. Outspoken covers all things
Speaker 1: reality TV, influences, entertainment, and issues facing women.
Speaker 2: That is so fat.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Welcome back to another episode of Outspoken.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: It was quite funny listening to that intro because it
Speaker 1: was quite a contentious topic on our trip to Port Elliott. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because it was actually a question in a quiz we
Speaker 1: played over the weekend, so we had a girl's verse
Speaker 1: boys friends style quiz, so we basically broke off into
Speaker 1: groups and Kate, Sophie and I came up with some
Speaker 1: banger questions.
Speaker 2: So can you run us through some of the questions
Speaker 2: we heard?
Speaker 1: Well, it was we had to come up with ten
Speaker 1: personal questions about each of us and so did the boys,
Speaker 1: and they range from very very obscure things like what
Speaker 1: lipstick color do I wear? Two more easy answers that
Speaker 1: the boys really should have known, what are the names
Speaker 1: about aunties and uncles whom they have met? And the
Speaker 1: thing is we played this game a number of years
Speaker 1: ago on another holiday and it just led to confrontation,
Speaker 1: arguments and upset and the boys really didn't want to
Speaker 1: play the game again. Somehow we really wanted to play,
Speaker 1: but the worst thing was that we kind of turned
Speaker 1: on one another instead of the boys. Well, I'm the
Speaker 1: one that got turned upon because I think it was
Speaker 1: around twelve o'clock on the last night of the trip
Speaker 1: and it was a tie. So Amy and Sophie were
Speaker 1: being so competitive that they wanted to do a second round,
Speaker 1: and I was just so tired that I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you guys can come up with a question. So you
Speaker 1: went off to the room and you came out very smug,
Speaker 1: and you asked a question regarding what street did our
Speaker 1: parents live on when they lived in Port Agusta when
Speaker 1: they first met. Now, the trick game was it was
Speaker 1: quite a memorable street because it was Himan Avenue and
Speaker 1: what we thought it was Hyman Avenue, and Amy and
Speaker 1: Dale had shared what funny discussion about the.
Speaker 2: Fact that it was Heim.
Speaker 1: The reason the reason I remember it was Hyman is
Speaker 1: because when Sophie and I were coming up with our
Speaker 1: business name, I asked mum and dad, Hey, what was
Speaker 1: the street that you that you had a house on Importagusta,
Speaker 1: because sometimes street names are really cool business names. And
Speaker 1: Mum's like, I don't think you want to use our
Speaker 1: street name. It was Hyman anyway. Yeah, got the wires
Speaker 1: crossed because that was actually the name of their street
Speaker 1: at their first house in Edwardstown in Adelaide, not in Portagusta.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I knew that this was the edwards Town address
Speaker 1: because I had been looking at a house in that
Speaker 1: area and went on the street. So I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: hang on, isn't that the street name of mum and
Speaker 1: Dad's first house in Edwardstown? And oh the daggers that
Speaker 1: I got. I literally got roasted.
Speaker 2: What traded.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you were team girls. Even if he knew
Speaker 1: that you shut up, you'd have gone on with it.
Speaker 1: And can I just say.
Speaker 2: It was not a draw.
Speaker 1: We were actually winning by one and Sophie's boyfriend kicked
Speaker 1: up a stink because he said the point shouldn't count
Speaker 1: for us because Sophie said his favorite movie.
Speaker 2: Was Karate Kidd and not The charact So that was
Speaker 2: a contentious issue.
Speaker 1: I do have to say I was very impressed with
Speaker 1: Brann and he did seem to know well. I feel
Speaker 1: like he answered most of the questions about myself and
Speaker 1: also Kate who he used to work and he.
Speaker 2: Really held that team up there.
Speaker 1: But when it turned to questions about our podcast and
Speaker 1: our podcast intro, it was quite clear that they don't listen,
Speaker 1: which I am glad about.
Speaker 2: But here let's throw to a clip of.
Speaker 1: What they think our podcast intro is. Recite our podcast
Speaker 1: intro you block work on your podcast and the podcast
Speaker 1: where we talk about all these influences and having a
Speaker 1: bad Now, I feel like one of our listeners, Rodney,
Speaker 1: has really put the boys to shame because they couldn't
Speaker 1: even get one line right, Whereas he a couple of
Speaker 1: months ago was reciting on his Instagram story that we
Speaker 1: all loved to be fair. I think Dad would also
Speaker 1: be clueless. However, I think Mum would actually be able
Speaker 1: to recite it. Will have to try and ask her
Speaker 1: tonight at family. Did her she's number one listener? Yeah,
Speaker 1: film it for a real put it to the test
Speaker 1: and see if she knows all the words. I think
Speaker 1: she would because she listens to the podcast episodes a
Speaker 1: couple of times in one day now, Kay, there have
Speaker 1: been a couple of questions in our Facebook community about
Speaker 1: your puppy and you are actually visiting her today. I
Speaker 1: am so excited. I feel like I have been waiting
Speaker 1: for this day for so long. It's only been I
Speaker 1: think seven weeks since she was born, and we get
Speaker 1: to take her home at the eight week mark. So
Speaker 1: today we get to go down meet all the puppies.
Speaker 1: We don't know which one is ours yet. We did
Speaker 1: have the breeder ask what sort of personality we wanted
Speaker 1: and color and size, but we just said we wanted
Speaker 1: a friendly dog because I almost thought it was a
Speaker 1: test if you really focused on the aesthetic of the dogs.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't mind, I just want
Speaker 1: a friendly dog that will get along with Shadow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd like the most instagram worthy looking dog that you
Speaker 1: have to offer.
Speaker 2: Is there one that's got like one different colored eye?
Speaker 1: I would like it noted that I did not ask
Speaker 1: for the most instagram able dog. My dog just became
Speaker 1: insta famous on his own well.
Speaker 2: His brother Winston's got a big Instagram following.
Speaker 1: And I really hope you my two dogs now get
Speaker 1: a shout out from your page.
Speaker 3: Morning guys and Welcome to a beautiful morning here in.
Speaker 1: CANAA influencer and content creator Kurt Tills revealed he considered
Speaker 1: becoming a drug dealer and a stripper before meeting his
Speaker 1: wife Sarah's day. He made the admission during a recent
Speaker 1: podcast episode of The nearly revamped Health Code Daily. Kate, firstly,
Speaker 1: can you give us a rundown on Sarah and Kurt's podcast?
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, they launched their podcast called The Health Code back
Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen, and at the time when it launched,
Speaker 1: they did long form episodes covering topics relating to fitness,
Speaker 1: which really haven't aged that well. There were things like
Speaker 1: how to get abs, are you training hard enough? As
Speaker 1: well as relationship episode sharing dating advice. So last year
Speaker 1: Spotify then funded a daily Health Code show where the
Speaker 1: couple released five to ten minute episodes each day. Now
Speaker 1: every day they had a specific top to cover, so,
Speaker 1: for example, on Tuesdays it was tasting Tuesdays, Wednesdays was
Speaker 1: workout Wednesdays, so there was a bit of a formula there. However,
Speaker 1: it was quite clear it got old quickly and it
Speaker 1: was quite a restrictive way to record podcasts because it
Speaker 1: didn't allow Kurt and Sarah to be quite creative or
Speaker 1: bring up stories like the stories I had to talk
Speaker 1: about could only fit into that specific format. So two
Speaker 1: weeks ago, the Health Code Daily had a complete rebrand
Speaker 1: and they launched season two. So in this new season,
Speaker 1: they've got rid of the daily topics and it started
Speaker 1: to go rogue as they like to call it. So
Speaker 1: it's quite clear their strategy is to share juicier and
Speaker 1: more relatable content about their lives, which is I am
Speaker 1: definitely here for at the moment, and I have really
Speaker 1: been enjoying the new content. Now. On Wednesday's episode, they
Speaker 1: discussed how Kurt considered becoming a stripper and a drug
Speaker 1: dealer when he was struggling financially a couple of years ago.
Speaker 1: Now this was before Sarah and Kurt started dating, and
Speaker 1: Sarah said he went through a bad boy stage after
Speaker 1: breaking up with his ex girlfriend who cheated on him. Now,
Speaker 1: Kurt explained that he was severely broke, living out of home,
Speaker 1: working a few different jobs, and just scraping by week
Speaker 1: to week. He said it got to a stage where
Speaker 1: he couldn't afford food like rice and tuna, and his
Speaker 1: parents had to help him out to afford rent, but
Speaker 1: he ended up blowing all of his money on the
Speaker 1: weekend's partying. And he said that it was at this
Speaker 1: stage of his life when he was in a very
Speaker 1: dark place and considered drug dealing.
Speaker 2: Here's a clip of what he said.
Speaker 3: It's pretty bad to admit, but I even like looked
Speaker 3: at like dealing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, far out.
Speaker 3: It was pretty bad.
Speaker 2: Like we had these is when you were a trady.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I was a trady and like I went
Speaker 3: through high school, never touched a drug in my life,
Speaker 3: never touched a drug. Didn't even really like alcohol that
Speaker 3: much until like year eleven and twelve he starts, you know,
Speaker 3: he started partying in.
Speaker 1: That No, I don't know, but yeah, you always sheltered
Speaker 1: child now. Kurt then went on to explain that he
Speaker 1: was at rock bottom at this point and he was
Speaker 1: living in a complex where his next door neighbors were
Speaker 1: selling drugs, So he and his roommatee were both in
Speaker 1: the same position. They were both struggling financially and in
Speaker 1: such a rut that they said, hey, why.
Speaker 2: Don't we do what they're doing.
Speaker 1: They're making so much cash at the moment.
Speaker 2: So they sat down.
Speaker 1: And talked about it, mulled over it for a while
Speaker 1: and then thought, oh my god, what are we doing.
Speaker 1: We could end up in jail, we could.
Speaker 2: Lose it all.
Speaker 1: And it was very lucky that Kurt didn't go down
Speaker 1: this path because Sarah explained that the next door neighbors
Speaker 1: a few weeks later actually got caught. So Kurt said that,
Speaker 1: being a religious man, he thinks that God was watching
Speaker 1: over him during that time, and during that time he
Speaker 1: was also praying a lot, and he said that it
Speaker 1: was quite a scary place to be in because despite
Speaker 1: the fact that he was looking for God for advice,
Speaker 1: he was still drawn into this quick cash grab. I
Speaker 1: was just completely shocked that they would share this type
Speaker 1: of content on their podcast. I mean, as Kate said,
Speaker 1: these podcasts are so much better than the previous series
Speaker 1: of The Health Code Daily because they are so juicy,
Speaker 1: and this is the type of content that I actually
Speaker 1: love listening to. But again, in terms of a Browning perspective,
Speaker 1: I am really surprised that Sarah and Kurt would let
Speaker 1: out this type of information. Oh, I was getting my
Speaker 1: smoothie ready this morning, and I had listened to Tuesday's
Speaker 1: episode where they touched on that Kurt really loved magic
Speaker 1: Mike and wanted to be like was inspired by chatting
Speaker 1: Tatum to become a stripper, And it was like a
Speaker 1: lighthearted conversation, and they said, oh, we should do a
Speaker 1: whole episode of this.
Speaker 2: So I was taken.
Speaker 1: Aback enough that Kurt was talking about being a stripper,
Speaker 1: and suddenly they just dropped into the conversation about him
Speaker 1: considering being a drug dealer, and all I could think
Speaker 1: about was Sarah's day's father.
Speaker 2: Who seems very straight laced.
Speaker 1: I mean, they always joke about how Sarah has lived
Speaker 1: in a very sheltered life, and I.
Speaker 2: Just could not imagine it. I found it so strange.
Speaker 1: I think that that was where Kurt was in his
Speaker 1: life at the time, and how much his life has
Speaker 1: changed from meeting Sarah. Well. Sarah actually said that when
Speaker 1: she met Kurt, one of the things that she loved
Speaker 1: most about him was that he was so honest about
Speaker 1: the fact that he was into partying. She didn't say
Speaker 1: that he took drugs, but she sort of alluded to
Speaker 1: the fact that he knew her morals yet was honest
Speaker 1: about his past. And he also said that a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks before he met her, he had considered being
Speaker 1: a striop. Well, she said something like Kurt knew that
Speaker 1: I'd never done drugs before, and Kurt also referenced the
Speaker 1: fact that he said I'd never done drugs at high school,
Speaker 1: so he didn't say he had done drugs. But as
Speaker 1: you said, so Vi, there was a lot of talk about.
Speaker 2: Him being a bad boy.
Speaker 1: Do you reckon the fact that people have somewhat not
Speaker 1: celebrated Nadia Bartel but related to Nadia Bartel after the
Speaker 1: alleged white powder incident. Do you think that maybe they
Speaker 1: saw how that went down and how it was received
Speaker 1: and thought, oh, okay, maybe people like this sort of connory.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't even know who Nadia Botelli is. She's not
Speaker 1: in the Cronulla bubble. So no, I definitely don't think so.
Speaker 1: I don't think they're worldly enough to kind of understand
Speaker 1: that concept. I honestly think it's a part of this
Speaker 1: born again Christian narrative that they're pushing. I think we've
Speaker 1: discussed on another podcast that Sarah's Day is really trying
Speaker 1: to rebrand away from just a fitness influencer. She is
Speaker 1: really turning a channel into a mummy blogging space. And
Speaker 1: I think that she is really trying to target that
Speaker 1: American Christian market as well. And I think, you know,
Speaker 1: a lot of people will sit back and say, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, they saw her wedding video and there was
Speaker 1: a lot of religious conversations and sentiment going on. However,
Speaker 1: a lot of people are like, well, it's not very
Speaker 1: religious that they had fox before marriage and all these
Speaker 1: different things. And so I really think that they're trying
Speaker 1: to show that they have found God in their life
Speaker 1: and he's improved it, and this is one method that
Speaker 1: they are using to explain how Kurt has managed to
Speaker 1: change his life thanks to God. Now we've got to
Speaker 1: go into how Kurt was approached to be a stripper. Now.
Speaker 2: He said that he was in his physical peak.
Speaker 1: Sarah described it by saying that his body looked as
Speaker 1: though it had been photoshopped.
Speaker 2: And I remember Kurt fondly back back in this time.
Speaker 1: Well, we did see at Sarah's hen's party, her bride'smaids
Speaker 1: print off a big life size cutout of Kurt when
Speaker 1: he was back in his photo shop days. And you
Speaker 1: do often hear Sarah make comments that Kurt has a
Speaker 1: dad bod now and he's not the same as he
Speaker 1: used to be, which I always feel a little bit
Speaker 1: sorry for Kurt when she says that. Well, I felt
Speaker 1: sorry for Sarah because Kurt dropped that heaps of girls
Speaker 1: told him that his body looked photoshop. It sounded like
Speaker 1: that he was seeing them around the same time as
Speaker 1: he seems still sort of cut by it.
Speaker 2: You know, when you just like Kurt just stopped talking,
Speaker 2: like you have some sense. Is it any.
Speaker 1: Surprise though, because the rumor is that they met on Tinder,
Speaker 1: So it's not like when you're on Tinder that you're
Speaker 1: being ultra exclusive, like you're dating a whole bunch of girls.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Now, it was actually at a nightclub where.
Speaker 1: Kurt was approached to be a stripper. He said he
Speaker 1: was wearing a button up top which explodes part of
Speaker 1: his chest, so his physique was quite apparent to those
Speaker 1: displays on display, and he said that the guy came
Speaker 1: up to him asked, oh, what do you do for
Speaker 1: a living, and he said he's a trade at the moment,
Speaker 1: the guy then said, have you ever considered stripping? So
Speaker 1: if this sounds at the time you were approached to
Speaker 1: be an escort, I was going to tell that story later,
Speaker 1: I will you told it before now I'll hold that
Speaker 1: off for any new listeners. I feel like I must
Speaker 1: give context anyway. So the guy said, well, have you
Speaker 1: ever considered stripping? And Kurt said, I'm actually a terrible dancer.
Speaker 1: I would never be a stripper. I would be terrible
Speaker 1: at it. The guy said, please take my card.
Speaker 2: Consider it. So Kurt said. A week later, he was
Speaker 2: watching Magic Mike and he thought, is this fate?
Speaker 1: This actually looks really fun. Maybe I should become a stripper.
Speaker 1: He decided to get his friend's take on it, and
Speaker 1: they said, are you serious?
Speaker 2: What are you thinking?
Speaker 1: Can you imagine, though, if he had become a stripper,
Speaker 1: all the stories that would come out after he dated
Speaker 1: Sarah's Day, because the internet is just wild with rumors.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a rumor that I probably
Speaker 1: wouldn't have believed if I'd heard.
Speaker 2: It a few years ago.
Speaker 1: Can I just say that there is actually nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with being a stripper either, because I mean, I think
Speaker 1: he was quite brave to talk about it, because I
Speaker 1: think that it's a lot of Yeah, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of stigma, and it is something that a lot of
Speaker 1: young men and women do want to do when they
Speaker 1: are trying to make a lot of money. Well, he
Speaker 1: did joke that we could actually see his content on OnlyFans,
Speaker 1: which Sarah was very quick to say was not actually
Speaker 1: a thing. Just to provide some context to the escort
Speaker 1: story that you dropped before, Amy, I have discussed it
Speaker 1: in a really early episode, but he was thinking of.
Speaker 2: Becoming a drug dealer and escort when I was not.
Speaker 2: I was not. No.
Speaker 1: So basically it was when we were working at seven
Speaker 1: at the time and I was in Sydney.
Speaker 2: Amy was at a cadet ship.
Speaker 1: I thought I'd tag along and I was shopping by
Speaker 1: myself in.
Speaker 2: Berk Street, Pitt Street, Pitt Street, anyway.
Speaker 1: I'm walking along and this like creepy guy approached me
Speaker 1: and he's like, have you ever considered modeling before? And
Speaker 1: I was like, uh no, I think I'm a little
Speaker 1: bit too short. He's like, no, it's not sort of runway.
Speaker 1: It's like Playboy's like what is that Magazink Ralph sort
Speaker 1: of stuff. And I was like, I don't think so.
Speaker 1: And then he handed me his card similar to Kurt,
Speaker 1: and said why don't you consider it?
Speaker 2: And yeah, the car got ripped up. It was a
Speaker 2: bit no you rip it up.
Speaker 1: We googled it and it turned out it was an
Speaker 1: Escor agency. Yeah, sadly, my modeling career is not taking off.
Speaker 1: So if he was happy to be in zoo but
Speaker 1: not draw the line.
Speaker 3: Good morning, guys, Welcome back to another blog.
Speaker 1: The Worst Kept Secret is out in the Open, with
Speaker 1: influencer Jonathan Sower confirming he's back with Madison Wooley after
Speaker 1: posting a photo of the pair on a romantic getaway. Sophie,
Speaker 1: can you fill us in on all the goss? Well,
Speaker 1: as we've discussed a number of times on this podcast,
Speaker 1: Madison revealed that she and Jonathan broke up in the
Speaker 1: middle of June after almost two years together. Now, soon after,
Speaker 1: followers notice that the pair were still in fact following
Speaker 1: each other and they kept liking one another's photos. Now
Speaker 1: it was actually during a lockdown vlog where followers also
Speaker 1: spotted Jonathan in Madison's apartment enjoying a cocktail. Now that
Speaker 1: was in the reflection of a mirror, so it was
Speaker 1: very good detective work.
Speaker 2: The man in the mirror he was dubbed that's right.
Speaker 1: Now. They've also been sharing stories at the same locate,
Speaker 1: with Jonathan sharing Madison's shadow or arm or feet, and
Speaker 1: it's very clear that he's more into trying to make
Speaker 1: this a public thing, and Madison has really danced around
Speaker 1: the topic. She hasn't confirmed or denied the fact that
Speaker 1: they're together, and on a recent podcast episode, she said
Speaker 1: that she'd chosen to no longer discuss her personal life now.
Speaker 1: This is despite starting a podcast about dating.
Speaker 2: And she opened up that she'd.
Speaker 1: Actually received a lot of backlash following all the relationship
Speaker 1: drama because her followers felt like she was being dishonest
Speaker 1: with he. I've heard her mention multiple times in recent
Speaker 1: weeks that she's single, and she also announced that her
Speaker 1: friend Lexi had a boyfriend and that she was very
Speaker 1: much single herself, so she felt left out?
Speaker 2: Yeah, she posted this photo.
Speaker 1: Of herself standing in the pool by herself with Lexi
Speaker 1: and her boyfriend or canoodling, acting as if she was Oh,
Speaker 1: poor me, I'm single. But we all know that her
Speaker 1: and Jonathan have been together ever since the lockdown started,
Speaker 1: and who could blame anyone for wanting to re kindle
Speaker 1: a relationship during lockdown because there's not many other options
Speaker 1: out there.
Speaker 2: However, I was very surprised.
Speaker 1: When Jonathan shared a selfie of him and Madison on
Speaker 1: a midweek staycation at a winery and they captured the
Speaker 1: photo high and it was kind of this soft launch
Speaker 1: of them getting back together that we all knew was happening,
Speaker 1: but to have it actually put on Instagram story a
Speaker 1: photo of them physically together, I was like, ooh. That
Speaker 1: being said, he seems to be the one that keeps
Speaker 1: trying to push it though, because he shared about ten
Speaker 1: to fifteen different stories of their getaway, including more long lunches,
Speaker 1: their spicy mugs, what they were up to, as we said,
Speaker 1: a photo of her, whereas interestingly, Madison shared just one
Speaker 1: photo of the scenery and did not tag Jonathan at all. Now,
Speaker 1: let's be honest, Madison keeps Jonathan relevant. We have noticed
Speaker 1: that his Instagram following has been dropping. It's dropped ever
Speaker 1: since he broke up with Shiny Grimm, and I probably
Speaker 1: peaked a little bit since he started dating Madison. I
Speaker 1: know he has been doing modeling work, but at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, he kind of needs an insta
Speaker 1: famous girlfriend in order to stay front and center of
Speaker 1: people's mind. We also moved to Sydney to be with her,
Speaker 1: so he probably doesn't have that many friends. Over there
Speaker 1: at the moment, and you know she's the only reason
Speaker 1: he went there.
Speaker 2: Well, he is a.
Speaker 1: Professional boyfriend of Instagram. We all know that, and as
Speaker 1: you said, he is a nice handbag for influencers to have.
Speaker 1: But on the other side of things, I do think
Speaker 1: Madison has more clout I suppose with a boyfriend. But however,
Speaker 1: with her podcast, it would be more interesting if she
Speaker 1: was single and sharing some of these wild stories that
Speaker 1: they keep mentioning but never actually seem to happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, see why.
Speaker 1: When they first started their podcast, I almost thought that
Speaker 1: they were going to try and make it a bit
Speaker 1: like Call Her Daddy when it was the start of
Speaker 1: Call Her Daddy, and then they kind of, as you said, Ketch,
Speaker 1: promising that they were going to share these wild stories.
Speaker 1: And there are literally no wild stories that they've shared
Speaker 1: all about their dating lives. Well, she did stuck it
Speaker 1: the other day after one of her extravagant lunch dinner
Speaker 1: days and broke a finger out. That was probably the
Speaker 1: most excitingment I've heard from one of their nights. And
Speaker 1: how obvious was it that Jonathan went and picked her up.
Speaker 1: She's like somebody came and picked me up. It is
Speaker 1: interesting though, to take a look at Jonathan's track record
Speaker 1: with relationships. Obviously he's had as much focused on relationship
Speaker 1: with Shany Grimman, and in that situation, Shany Grimman went
Speaker 1: running back to him and she took him back. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's playing out in a very similar way,
Speaker 1: and I think, ye, Jonathan is ready for a fall again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but the thing with Shani is that we've got to
Speaker 1: remember Jonathan was her manager, so he had an inn
Speaker 1: to keep talking to her.
Speaker 2: I almost think it's him that's.
Speaker 1: A little bit soppy and can't let people go, and
Speaker 1: the girl kind of maybe goes back and then thinks, oh,
Speaker 1: hang on, no, I've got to really cut ties and
Speaker 1: things will end. One hundred percent agree that's what I
Speaker 1: was saying. I think that Jonathan is the one who
Speaker 1: is wanting to make this happen. Still, I do wonder
Speaker 1: if it's one of those things where girls break up
Speaker 1: with him, then they see him looking really good on
Speaker 1: Instagram and wonder, oh, maybe he is the right guy
Speaker 1: for me. But in reality, maybe he doesn't have as
Speaker 1: much substance, or he and Maddy don't have as much
Speaker 1: in common. There was a very big age gap between
Speaker 1: the pair of them. He's turning thirty next year and
Speaker 1: she's only twenty three. Yeah. I suppose we'll just have
Speaker 1: to keep our eyes peeled. I do wonder if Madison
Speaker 1: will share about this trip or whether she will remain
Speaker 1: tight lipped.
Speaker 4: Hey guys, welcome back to my channel. I hope you're
Speaker 4: all doing Wow.
Speaker 1: Molly may Haig has spoken for the first time since
Speaker 1: thieves ransacked her and partner Tommy Fury's apartment last month.
Speaker 1: Robbers made off with eight hundred thousand pounds worth of
Speaker 1: designer clothes and jewelry. Amy, can you tell us more?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So, this week, Molly shared a thirteen minute video to
Speaker 1: YouTube entitled Let's Talk, which addressed questions surrounding the robbery. So,
Speaker 1: at the time of recording, Molly's YouTube video had over
Speaker 1: one million views and it's currently trending number one on YouTube.
Speaker 1: So there's a lot of interest around this video. So
Speaker 1: Molly spoke openly and honestly about the ordeal and said
Speaker 1: she felt she owed it to her followers to talk
Speaker 1: in more detail about the robbery, and she shares so
Speaker 1: much online and felt like her fans deserved to know
Speaker 1: what had happened. So I felt really sad for Molly
Speaker 1: because she sounded quite shaken when she started discussing the robbery.
Speaker 1: So Molly told her followers it was the worst thing
Speaker 1: that's ever happened to her and Tommy, and she went
Speaker 1: on to describe the robbery as awful, horrendous, and terrible.
Speaker 1: Molly also confirmed media reports surrounding the robbery were true.
Speaker 1: She said she and Tommy were ransacked and only left
Speaker 1: with a handful of items. She also said she'd been
Speaker 1: staying with her manager Fran in the days following the robbery,
Speaker 1: but had since moved into a new apartment with Tommy
Speaker 1: and was yet to return to her old apartment now. Interestingly,
Speaker 1: Molly said she had been grappling with emotions she didn't
Speaker 1: think she'd have to deal with, such as guilt.
Speaker 2: Let's have a listen to what Molly said.
Speaker 4: I never thought like if I was to ever be robbed,
Speaker 4: I would feel guilty for being robbed. But I think
Speaker 4: seeing a lot of the things on social media, and
Speaker 4: let's seeing a lot of people's opinions about why we
Speaker 4: got robber, I started to feel like, God, was this
Speaker 4: my fault? Like did I share too much? Did I
Speaker 4: do the wrong thing, and I think on reflection now,
Speaker 4: I mean, at the end of the day, with a
Speaker 4: job like mine, my job is literally to share my
Speaker 4: life like that is, that is tally what I get
Speaker 4: paid to do. That's how I make a living. I
Speaker 4: share every aspect of my life with you, the things
Speaker 4: I buy, where I live, what I do with my boyfriend,
Speaker 4: where I'm going. It's really really hard to find that
Speaker 4: balance of sharing so that you guys want to keep
Speaker 4: up with my life and see what I'm doing, but
Speaker 4: then also keeping my life private so that I stay safe.
Speaker 4: And I think I potentially maybe lost that balance. It's
Speaker 4: no one's fault. It is no one's fault. It's just
Speaker 4: a truly, truly awful thing to have happened.
Speaker 1: I felt really sorry for Molly when she discussed this
Speaker 1: sense of guilt that she felt, and I did agree
Speaker 1: that it must be really hard to find a sense
Speaker 1: of balance of how much to share online.
Speaker 2: What did you guys make.
Speaker 1: It at all? Well, the first thing I thought was
Speaker 1: that she must have been copying it from the media
Speaker 1: and also her followers. In terms of that it was
Speaker 1: her fault, and it appears there must be a lot
Speaker 1: of victim blaming going on, because for her to feel
Speaker 1: guilty over having all of her possessions robbed is a
Speaker 1: really strange emotion to have straight after a robbery. I mean,
Speaker 1: you think you would feel more that your privacy was
Speaker 1: breached and you'd feel a sense of loss. However, it's
Speaker 1: really sad that that was her first feeling. Well. I
Speaker 1: think that a lot of Molly's guilt really stem from
Speaker 1: the fact that some fans predicted that this robbery would happen.
Speaker 1: So in late August of this year, The Mirror reported
Speaker 1: that fans were worried Molly would be the victim of
Speaker 1: a Kim Kardashian style robbery after she showed off one
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty eight thousand pounds worth of jury in
Speaker 1: an instant story. I feel it's obvious that she has
Speaker 1: been looking at a lot of the comments made online,
Speaker 1: and even though I don't think guilt is the right
Speaker 1: emotion for her to be feeling, I think it is
Speaker 1: good that she's reflecting on what she is going to
Speaker 1: share going forward, and she realizes that she needs to
Speaker 1: put her and Tommy's safety first.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 1: I found this really interesting because they were a report
Speaker 1: in August as well, that Molly had confirmed that she
Speaker 1: had security guards as she was concerned that so many
Speaker 1: people knew where she lived. So this all came after
Speaker 1: a fan traveled five hours to see Molly and rocked
Speaker 1: up on her doorstep. So Molly told her followers at
Speaker 1: the time that she was concerned that a pr company
Speaker 1: had shared her address as there was no other possible
Speaker 1: way people would know where she lived. And she also
Speaker 1: revealed that she'd spent a lot of money on security,
Speaker 1: especially for when Tommy was away. So she said, I've
Speaker 1: had a few incidents. I just really don't feel safe
Speaker 1: anywhere anymore. I didn't feel safe in our last apartment.
Speaker 1: I don't really feel safe here. I don't really feel
Speaker 1: safe anywhere anymore, because I just feel like, no matter
Speaker 1: how much you try and keep your life private, when
Speaker 1: you're in the public eye, your life is never private.
Speaker 1: So due to feeling unsafe, Molly had a security car
Speaker 1: sit outside her apartment twenty four to seven when Tommy
Speaker 1: was away. So it's obvious there were greater concerns over
Speaker 1: Molly's personal safety as opposed to perhaps fears that they
Speaker 1: could be robbed. See I do recall this because I
Speaker 1: thought at the time. When we discussed it a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks ago, it was strange that she didn't have
Speaker 1: her security there, But I suppose they follow her around
Speaker 1: and they weren't so focused on protecting the goods inside
Speaker 1: the house. And in terms of this guilt she's feeling,
Speaker 1: I suppose she feels that because she was flashing her
Speaker 1: jewelry online, she made not only herself but Tommy a
Speaker 1: target as well, because who knows what would have happened
Speaker 1: if they had been home. I mean, it does seem
Speaker 1: like they've been following her social media and they knew
Speaker 1: she was away. However, it could have been a very
Speaker 1: different story if the robbers had come in and attacked
Speaker 1: her or Tommy.
Speaker 2: It's just scary to think about.
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like Tommy could have probably fought them off,
Speaker 1: considering is a professional boxer and facing Jake Paul soon.
Speaker 2: That's so true.
Speaker 1: The thing that was really surprising was that Molly said
Speaker 1: the saddest part of the robbery was the fact that
Speaker 1: they had to move. So she said that a lot
Speaker 1: of people would have thought, oh, maybe she was upset
Speaker 1: about all the things that were taken, or the fact
Speaker 1: that she felt her space was violated, but she said
Speaker 1: that her old apartment, would was robbed was actually her
Speaker 1: happy place, and she said she felt the most relaxed, happy,
Speaker 1: at peace, And ironically, she said she felt really safe
Speaker 1: in that apartment and that it was her favorite place
Speaker 1: in the world.
Speaker 2: See when you said you were surprised, I wasn't because
Speaker 2: when I'm a very big Avid Molly May YouTube watcher,
Speaker 2: and I know that she's always going on about how
Speaker 2: much she loves that apartment. I think.
Speaker 1: I mean, they even offered to buy it off the
Speaker 1: people to own it. They love it that much, and
Speaker 1: every time they've gone shopping for a house they seem
Speaker 1: to compare it back to this apartment. But the good
Speaker 1: news is her new apartment is amazing. Like she said,
Speaker 1: she feels at home now and is really loving the
Speaker 1: apartment and that this new place is even better than
Speaker 1: the old one.
Speaker 2: So that's really positive to hear.
Speaker 1: I found all of that commentary super interesting because, as
Speaker 1: you mentioned, Amy, they haven't been back to their apartment
Speaker 1: that got robbed, so they moved swiftly in with the manager,
Speaker 1: and then whilst Molly was away on a brand trip,
Speaker 1: the manager actually moved all of Molly and Tommy's possessions
Speaker 1: into this brand new apartment, found the apartment for them,
Speaker 1: made it really homely.
Speaker 2: They've even got they've got pictures on the wall.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been in this rental for over a year.
Speaker 1: I don't have any pictures on the wall. They totally
Speaker 1: deck this place out. And I just think that's the
Speaker 1: power of Molly May, the fact that her manager wants
Speaker 1: to keep her on board that much that she will fully.
Speaker 2: Furnish a house for her. Yeah, she's a good manager.
Speaker 2: She's obviously a really good friend. Molly too. Well, let's
Speaker 2: be honest. They probably wasn't that much to move in,
Speaker 2: wasn't it all? Yeah, let's be off.
Speaker 1: Well, well, I'm just saying now that they've moved into
Speaker 1: this new rental though, a lot of fans have been
Speaker 1: asking are they going to be doing a house tour?
Speaker 1: And Molly May has shot this down and said, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: she can't do a house tour because she has to
Speaker 1: be a lot more careful.
Speaker 2: Now, fans like, no, shit, she's not going to be
Speaker 2: doing a house.
Speaker 1: To They did say, I know you probably can't, but
Speaker 1: will you be doing it? And she said that Tommy
Speaker 1: and her safety is their number one priority and she
Speaker 1: can't risk that anymore. And she said that she will
Speaker 1: try and share stuff about her life online, but she's
Speaker 1: not going to be sharing sort of silly things that
Speaker 1: she might have shared previously that could compromise her safety. Hi,
Speaker 1: Abbi Chatfield's I'm going to talk to you about my
Speaker 1: collaboration with Abby Chatfield and Bachelorette favorite Conrad have reportedly
Speaker 1: been spotted kissing at a Byron Bay Beach hotel. The
Speaker 1: Daily Mail shared the juicy photos of the pair making out, Amy,
Speaker 1: can you tell us the goss? Yeah, So listeners of
Speaker 1: Abby's podcast probably won't be too surprised because Abby has
Speaker 1: been talking about how much she fancies Conrad on her show.
Speaker 2: But what's a bit awkward is he's.
Speaker 1: Currently buying for Brook Blurton's heart on The Bachelorette and
Speaker 1: he's actually tipped as the second favorite to take out
Speaker 1: the show. So I'm guessing the bookies are going to
Speaker 1: have to change that order. So that being said, sometimes
Speaker 1: it doesn't work out between the two even.
Speaker 2: If he does win well.
Speaker 1: The Daily Mail reported that Conrad was spotted with his
Speaker 1: arms around Abby's waist while they waited in line to
Speaker 1: get a drink and then they allegedly kissed each other
Speaker 1: in front of the pub.
Speaker 2: And what I thought was.
Speaker 1: Really amusing was previously on Instagram. When The Bachelorette first aired,
Speaker 1: Abby said that she thought the show was a true
Speaker 1: representation of real life because she said that all the
Speaker 1: guys were.
Speaker 2: Average and the girls were hot. So it's quite ironic
Speaker 2: now that she's been spotted kissing Conrad.
Speaker 1: Now. This sighting of Abby and Conrad together comes as
Speaker 1: rumors have spread that Brooke was spotted at David's house
Speaker 1: on the Gold Coast last week, and according to sports Bet,
Speaker 1: David is an outright favorite. He is paying one dollar
Speaker 1: thirty three to win, and Conrad is currently the second
Speaker 1: favorite to win, as you said, Amy, paying five dollars,
Speaker 1: but I'm assuming his odds will drastically drop.
Speaker 2: After these photos of surface.
Speaker 1: It's pretty obvious that David wins. We know that these
Speaker 1: sports bet odds do tell a big story about what
Speaker 1: the result is going to be on the show. And
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit disappointed because I thought that Brooke
Speaker 1: might actually choose one of the girls to partner up with. Obviously,
Speaker 1: we just want to see her being happy, But I
Speaker 1: am a little bit disappointed. It doesn't really make me
Speaker 1: feel like watching the rest of the series. Oh. To
Speaker 1: be honest, I haven't even tuned in for one episode.
Speaker 1: I have lost not even the first episode. I have
Speaker 1: lost complete interest in this franchise, even the US Bachelor.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like they've got to do something. The episodes
Speaker 1: are too long and boring.
Speaker 2: See.
Speaker 1: I really like Brook so that's why I was really
Speaker 1: interested in tuning in. And I do really like the
Speaker 1: whole concept. But it hasn't been rating very well either.
Speaker 1: I think people are just sick of the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm glad they shook things up a little bit, but
Speaker 1: I think it's more just that I don't want to
Speaker 1: watch Australian reality TV and we keep getting I think
Speaker 1: people think there's a conspiracy because we haven't been talking about.
Speaker 2: Love Island Australia.
Speaker 1: And to be completely transparent, I watched two episodes of
Speaker 1: the show. I was like, oh, yeah, this is all right,
Speaker 1: but I have not been drawn in to watch it again.
Speaker 2: Because Australians can't do reality TV. I'm putting it out there.
Speaker 1: It's better than previous years Love Island Australia, but it's
Speaker 1: still a bit shit, Let's be honest. I've talked Brandon
Speaker 1: into watching Love Island UK again with the Molly May
Speaker 1: and Tommy.
Speaker 2: So and want you to read yesterday to watch it
Speaker 2: with me again.
Speaker 1: So I'm going to invest my time in that instead
Speaker 1: of a subpar version of it. I'm so sorry for
Speaker 1: everyone who is enjoying it because I feel like that's
Speaker 1: our most asked question at the moment to talk about
Speaker 1: Love Island. Well, I think that's all we've got time
Speaker 1: for today. Thank you so much for joining us for
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