WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Rage-Baiting & Italian Babies 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:05.960 A good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn Brady 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:11.120 or work our windows my world rison the dust. Only 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:16.040 good babs are all down. I don't much, but yeah, 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:18.959 I know I'll big get and what I want. It 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:23.239 don't matter where. This is the pickup, Hi, guys, it's 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.000 a pick up with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:29.160 And you've got a very important appointment tonight. Laura, and 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:30.560 you were just telling me about. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:33.640 I'm leaving the show today to go and get my girls, 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.839 to go and do a mad dash to Kmart to 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.560 go and get everything that we need to make Easter 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:39.200 hats for the Easter hat parade. 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:41.160 What are you going? You're going like a wide brim 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:42.520 a cap. What's the base? 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:45.200 The problem with Easter hat parades is that you really 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:47.159 have to work with whatever you can find. So it's 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:48.960 a bit of a scavenger hunt. Because you hear me out, 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:51.400 I don't think that's true. I think you can do more. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:54.800 Shops need to like sell things that are specific for 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:57.520 making the Easter hats. You gotta go hunting. You gotta find, 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:59.800 like we things to hot glue gun on it, or 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.400 it's a paper mache or crepe paper, like it's a 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:05.040 whole thing. I just loved Pitchy doing it. I do 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.400 it every year. What are you talking about last year? 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:09.920 I went and bought like fake flowers, and so she 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.840 had like ornaments of rabbits stuck on her hat and 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.800 then fake flowers around the ornaments. It was a masterpiece. 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.759 She held onto that one. It's still in the cupboard. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:19.080 You know. One of the only things I've ever won 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.720 in life. Couldn't even win The Bachelor. The only thing 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:23.720 I ever won was the easter hat parade when I 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:24.959 was about five years old. 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:27.480 I nailed it. We had to do a well do 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:28.080 you still do it? 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:28.200 Is? 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.440 Do I do an actual parade? The parade around? 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:32.880 Oh, we were on the catwalk. I'd gone to modeling classes. 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:33.880 I did model classes. 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:35.839 I knew how to walk, and I strutted that hat 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:37.480 and I had you know what won me? 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:38.440 Plus my mum. 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:41.199 It was a full easter hat parade, like beautiful hat, 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:44.720 but it was a wide brim and she put like, 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:47.160 we're in the outback where you put like cork to 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:49.000 get the flies away, And so I had like an 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:50.760 outback cork swinging around my head. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:53.400 Sorry, was it cork? Or was it tiny little easter eggs, 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:54.320 because that would have been. 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.160 Well, maybe she did the East trokes. I can't remember, 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:57.760 but it was to keep the flies away. 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.040 I thought I won. I mean that gives me some 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:02.760 that gives me some inspo. Maybe I can do that, 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:03.440 but with Easter eggs. 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:05.280 Yeah, she'll probably win if you do that. 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:07.360 I do have to get her into modeling school. That's 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:07.880 probably the ones. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:11.040 I'll come around this afternoon. I'll show her some things. 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:16.639 Now. Look, I have been unintentionally, slightly intentionally. It started 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:20.600 off intentional. It was intentional, but now it's unintentional rage 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.400 baiting people on the internet. Now, if you don't know 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.200 what rage baiting is, it's basically when you create content 0:02:25.240 --> 0:02:28.960 on Instagram with the intention of making people angry. 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:31.440 I feel like it's pretty self explanatory, Like you're baiting 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:31.920 the rage. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:35.120 I'm baiting the rage. Yeah. My husband and I, Matt, 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:38.480 we have been doing a renovation and we've been documenting 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:40.320 the process over the last couple of months. It's been 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.280 nine months. And let me tell you, we have put 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.240 some blood, sweat and tears into this renovation and dollars 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:50.400 and some cash. It is eclectic, it is weird. I 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:52.240 mean you described as a Willy Wonker house, but we 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:54.480 wanted to have a house that was like colorful and 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:56.600 fun that when you walked into it, you felt like 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:57.400 you're on a holiday. 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:58.880 It is a fun house. You got to put those 0:02:58.880 --> 0:02:59.880 sunglasses onto walking. 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.919 Over the last couple of months, we've realized that people 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:04.919 either love it or they hate it. And in the 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.440 last week we've started to do room reveals because we 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:09.639 were our own little mini block here. The first one 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.920 was the bathroom, the second one was the kitchen. And 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:15.560 I just want to say I was not prepared for 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:18.320 how angry renovation content makes people. 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:19.359 You baited too hard. 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.959 I didn't mean to age. The problem is that when 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:24.800 past rage baiting and now it's like people are just 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:26.760 being me and I'm like, this is still my house, guys. 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:30.440 So this is what I mean by it's making people enraged. Firstly, 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:33.160 Daily Mail has written an article about how enraged people 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:34.320 are if you want to go and look for it. 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:38.680 But also it things like this, oh, actually funny. Her 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.160 handle is plain Jane, so maybe it's why she doesn't 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:43.560 like it, but she wrote love that for you. You 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:46.480 were being stubborn with your style. I just don't understand 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:49.520 how it works though it doesn't work with the natural simplicity. 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:50.160 It's ugly. 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.720 Wow, imagine writing someone. 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:57.360 Here's another review. Oh my god, that marble is hideous. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:02.040 Here's another review from Stacy Yuck. The cupboard doesn't match 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.080 anything and the tiles are just horrible. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:06.000 Hang on in the kitchen or we're stillroom. 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:08.880 We're in the bathroom now. Marble fixtures and layout is 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:12.080 the only saving grace. This person wrote, well, you would 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:14.600 be ripped to pieces by SHANEA blaze. Let's put it 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:16.160 that way. It's a no from me too. 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:18.239 Okay, well it's not the block. Shane is not coming 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:18.680 to stay. 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.279 Someone wrote you couldn't pay me to stay here, and 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.159 I was like, you'll never get to stay here. 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.200 It's okay, Sharon, you're not invited. 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:27.880 And then the last one was and this was about 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:29.880 the kitchen reveal, So that was the second room that 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:32.279 we were like really excited to share with everyone. And 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.440 someone wrote better than your crap. 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:42.360 Bathroom at these private dms written publicly. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:43.719 Look, I'll be honest, I. 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:45.679 Guess you do put it out there. You open yourself 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:48.240 up when you say what do you think? Yeah, which 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:50.320 you did do so you have to expect people to 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.320 say that they don't like. 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:53.880 I want people to know that, like, I'm okay with 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:57.520 it because, like we there's been a lot of kind feedback. 0:04:57.600 --> 0:04:59.520 There's been a lot of people who love it. There's 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.880 been a lot of people who are into the maxim minimalist, 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:06.200 like eclectic style of a crazy house that's got personality, 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.359 and then there are people who are not, And I 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:09.200 appreciate that. 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.279 Producer Grace, why don't we get some of the block 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:12.719 judges on, why don't we get one of them on, 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:14.840 let's show them some of the house. Let's get and 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.640 see what they think, what Shana thinks, Let's see what 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:18.280 SHANEA thinks. 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:20.800 Darren Palmer, Darren Palmer is going to be like, it's 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:24.960 a monstrosity, let's do it. Yeah, I'm down. My only 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.640 worry is someone saying things like, oh my god, it's 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:29.359 getting worse. And I was like, guys, we've shown the 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:31.839 best two rooms. You started from the top, like it 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:33.640 really is. It really does get worse. 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:40.400 There's a really interesting discussion going down all the way 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:41.440 over in Italy. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:42.520 Now. 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.240 The reason that I want to talk about this is 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.640 because it's something that I have been thinking about recently 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.680 getting married. Whose name I'm going to take my fiancees 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:51.760 or not? What are we going to name our kids? 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:52.880 Whose name are going to give them? 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:53.680 But over in. 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:59.000 Italy there's a politician named Dario Francescini who is proposing 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:03.760 a new bill that any children born will automatically take 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:07.320 the mother's surname instead of the father's surname. Now, we 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:11.520 know in Australia that the default usually is the father's name, 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:13.839 but you can choose, so you can if you both 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.480 agree to, you can say, you know, we're going to 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:18.400 to give it a hyphen double barrel, or we're going 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:20.320 to give it the mother's name, or whatever it is. 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:25.000 But kids in Italy are automatically registered with their father's surname, 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.880 and the mother's surname is only permitted if the father 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:30.360 is absent from the child's life. Yeah. 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.440 Look, I mean I read this. I have opinions on 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:36.200 it for multiple reasons, but I think it is really 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.800 an injustice, and I know that that's one thing he said. 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:42.240 He described it as centuries old injustice. But it is 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:46.880 an injustice if the only time the mother's name is 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:50.479 permitted to be the chosen name is in the absence 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.680 of a dad, because the thing is, there's a lot 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:55.479 of dads who might show up as a really half 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:58.120 assed parent who then may be in and out of 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:00.320 that kid's life for the rest of their life. I 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:02.880 understand that that's a possibility. And it may be also 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:05.920 that the mum does know who the father is, but 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:08.800 they're not together and he's not an active participant in 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.760 the child's life. Like, there's so many reasons, so many 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:14.160 reasons why it shouldn't just be the default of the 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:17.320 dad's name. It should always be a conversation. But I 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:19.760 think like having it like this and having it written 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:23.240 into legislation means that it makes it really hard for 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.480 moms who want to be able to have the same 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:28.840 last names as their children and also have that connection 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:29.240 to them. 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.320 So do you think here in Australia would you ever 0:07:32.400 --> 0:07:34.440 want it to be the default that it was the 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.240 mother's surname that was give passed on. 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:37.600 I mean, like, I don't think we need it to 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:39.280 be a default here because I think we have the 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.720 opportunity of choice. The problem is, though, is that we 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:45.080 are still very steeped in tradition that most women take 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.560 on their partner's name. There's definitely been changes. I didn't 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:50.720 take on my partner's last name when we got married. 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:53.840 My name's Burn, his last name's Johnson. There's definitely people 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:56.680 who are breaking from that. However, I would be lying 0:07:56.720 --> 0:08:00.320 if I didn't say that. They're like literal years and 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:02.880 years and years, and my upbringing and everything else didn't 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:05.600 influence my decision making when it came to me having children. 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:09.320 I never took on Matt's last name. But when I 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.680 was pregnant with Marley, it wasn't even a consideration as 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.600 to whether she would have my last name or Matt's 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.600 last name. It was as though it was just an expectation. 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:20.720 So we never discussed it, and both my both my 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.400 children or our children were still happily married. Both our 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.840 children have the last name Johnson, and I don't share 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:29.800 that last name with them. And in our family it's fine, 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.079 because you know, I grew up in a family that 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.760 had lots of last names, because my mum got remarried 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:36.880 and I had a half brother who's you know, my brother, 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:39.480 but we all had different last names. However, it is 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:42.000 interesting to me that even though I think I am 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:45.080 progressive in this space I have no interest in changing 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.600 my last name. That it didn't even occur to me 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.480 that my kids having my last name was an option. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.480 Did that not even come on to your radar when 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:54.080 you were getting married, that maybe you could give them 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:54.439 your name. 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:57.559 No, Because I you know, regardless of whether we are 0:08:57.559 --> 0:08:59.720 together forever or not, he's a great dad. I know 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:02.600 he will always be a co parent. I think we're 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:05.160 going to be together forever. That's not me saying otherwise. 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.960 But I knew that I had a great parent in him, 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:10.080 so it doesn't bother me that they had the last name. 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:12.760 The thing is, that's not always the case. And I 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:15.720 think about my brother growing up. So my mom, she 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:17.760 had my little brother, we've got a quite a big 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:19.760 age gap, and he has a different last name to me. 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:22.559 His dad was absent from from the day he was born. 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.400 My mom raised him as a single mom. 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:25.480 She doesn't even get the name. 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.320 And like they were married, you know, it was a 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:32.760 very tremultuous relationship. He was a horrible person, and my 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:37.240 mum ended up keeping her married name his last name 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:39.040 because she didn't want my brother to grow up in 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.040 a household where he was the only one who had 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:41.680 a different name. 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:43.559 Maybe she didn't think of that as an option. She 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:45.440 could have also changed his last name. 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:47.679 The problem is is once it's on a birth certificate, 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:49.480 you have to get their approval to change the name. 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.440 You can't as a mum just change a name. So 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.480 I think the problem is is that a lot of 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:56.880 women in Australia and across the world are in situations 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.800 where they have no contact with their ex'es or their 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:02.360 past anders. They may not even be nice people, and 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.280 yet their children have to carry the last name of 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:05.839 that person because it was never an option to them. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:08.440 Well, it is interesting the arguing against this. There's another 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:12.280 politician over there, Mateo Salvini. He has said that if 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.480 this bill comes into place, we are wiping these fathers 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.680 off the face of the earth, which I think is 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:20.200 interesting because for centuries, what have we done wiped the 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.200 women off the face of the earth pretty much. 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:25.600 I think that my argument to that is I don't 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.600 I don't have a last name as my kids, but 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:30.599 I'm still their mum. I haven't been wiped off the 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.400 face of this earth exactly. My role and responsibility as 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:35.040 a mum is not defined by the fact that I 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:36.640 don't have the same last name as my kids one 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:38.920 hundred percent. Yeah, I think that. I mean that to 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:42.480 me just feels very fragile, ego unfortunately interesting to see 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:42.920 what happens. 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.200 I feel like Italy and France are usually pretty progressive 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:46.960 with these kind of things, So watch this space. 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:51.360 Have you ever done your DNA test, like an ancestry test. 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:53.960 I actually haven't, but I've never felt the need to. 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:57.160 Are you just a bit curious about like I don't 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:59.559 know your family tree and like what it is? What's 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:00.640 your maker? 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:03.200 I mean if you are questioning where I'm from? 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:05.800 Yeah, if you have questions about me, I can definitely 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:06.480 go and get it done. 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:08.000 I don't belong to my parents. 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:11.960 No, i's this going. Do you know something? I don't, Brittany, 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:15.160 this is your life? No, I find it really fascinating. 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:17.520 And so my husband and I we actually did DNA 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:22.240 tests together recently, ancestry DNA tests, and we got an 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:25.559 email saying that their results were inconclusive. So we weren't 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:29.040 able to get our results back. And I don't know, 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:30.760 but I'm gonna do it again because I made these 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:32.440 big jokes to Matt and I was like, what if, 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:34.560 like they found out something because when you do it. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:37.080 You have to submit like this is my dad, this 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.600 is my mom, this, and you submit as much as 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:41.840 your family tree as you possibly can. And I was like, 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:44.400 what if the reason why they kept it is because 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.719 they found out something they don't want us to know 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:49.800 about it, Like maybe your dad's not your dad. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:51.800 They don't want to blow up your life. 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:53.120 Maybe my uncle's not my uncle. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:54.920 I don't know, but like, look, I think they'd tell 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:56.320 you if you're your uncle of your uncle's that's not 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:56.920 that impactful. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:59.280 Well, I don't know, I think it is. Anyway, this 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:01.560 article that came out, so a woman kind of she 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:03.319 went and did all the different DNA tests. There's a 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.719 couple that are really big ones in Australia. One's my 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.160 heritage obviously ancestry DNA, which I think most people know of. 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:11.120 And then there's also another one which is kind of 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:13.800 like the crem Dela Creme of DNA tests called twenty. 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.960 Three And me, hasn't that just gone into what's it 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:16.880 called receivership? 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:18.680 Yeah, maybe you know more about it than I. 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:20.319 You're like the krem Dela Creme. I'm like, it just 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:21.040 went down to go go. 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:23.160 Do you know why they say it's the crem dela 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.160 creme purely because it's the most expensive, it's meant to 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:28.520 be the most thorough. But in the experience of this woman, 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:31.360 it absolutely wasn't the case. But one thing she did 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:35.040 find out plot twist. She found out that her childhood crush, 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:37.800 who she had been obsessed with and in love with 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:41.520 for the majority of her adolescents, turned out to be 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:45.560 her cousin. Imagine if you found out not when you know, 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:47.800 not a childhood crush. Imagine if you found out like 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:49.760 you were dating. There was a. 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:53.160 Couple that found out in America. She did the DNA test. 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:56.160 She found out that her husband or fiance was a 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:58.880 direct relation to her, and she was going to bury 0:12:59.000 --> 0:12:59.720 that information. 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:01.679 Tell him I can't remember, I'm on the edge of 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:01.960 my seat. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.600 Produce your grace park to look it up. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:04.160 Okay. 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:06.280 So there was a couple who discovered, after ten years 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:08.560 of marriage and having three children that they were cousins. 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:10.720 Yeah, and they found out via DNA. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:13.240 You just stay if you're being married and you've got kids, 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.720 it's goorn too far. You're in two DP, you've already 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:16.000 done all that. 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:17.360 You're in white lotus territory. 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:20.040 Just staying there. Look, I mean we opened up the 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:21.559 text line and also I did a call out on 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.360 my Instagram for this. You would be shocked by how 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:27.880 many people discovered really salacious things about their families or 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:30.440 about their lives. This One girl wrote in and said 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:33.360 that her grandma had six kids and they all did 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:37.400 their ancestry tests as grandchildren, and they found out that 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:40.320 the grandma had been having an affair with the farmer 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.960 who lived on the farm next door, in Italian farmer, 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:47.679 and the youngest three children were not actually their grandfathers, 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:49.640 but it was this Italian farmer. So three of the 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.600 kids had the Italian heritage in DNA, and they were 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:53.640 all linked to a different dad. 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:55.360 They were all having a rumble behind the shed. 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.280 No, they weren't just her, just the grandma. The kids 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:01.080 absolutely were not rumbling, They all weren't. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:02.280 But they were Wow. 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:05.040 Good on her. People who found out that their biological 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:07.840 dad just wasn't like their dad, wasn't their dad. Loads 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.400 of those came in. That would be a really sad discovery. 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:12.800 Imagining thirty years old and finding out that your dad's 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:15.480 not actually a biological dad. Know that that is gut 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:18.959 wrenching and your mum did the dirty all those over there. 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.440 Another girl wrote, my sister found out that she has 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:24.120 a different dad. There's a lot of dads out here 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.160 that are finding out that they either have kids that 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:28.560 they didn't know they had, or that they're not the 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:30.200 father to the kids they thought they did have. 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:36.320 I just think, let dead dogs lie. What that's the saying, 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:36.720 isn't it? 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:38.680 This is why I would worry about going and doing 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.520 a test, not that I think anything would come of it, 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:42.600 but I'm happy with my life. I don't need the disruption. 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:44.520 If it came out then my dad wasn't my dad, 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:46.680 which he definitely is. Hang On, I don't want to 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:48.320 go anywhere my dad is my dad. I don't have 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.760 any queries, but I'm just saying sometimes I think ignorance 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:52.520 is bliss. 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:56.080 How's this one? This girl found out that Ivan Malatt 0:14:56.400 --> 0:15:00.560 is her dad's second cousin. See you know that's Skelton 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:01.640 in a wardrobe and a closet. 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.120 You don't need to know about it related to a psychopath? 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:05.280 What are you going to do with that information? 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:07.840 Anyway? We've got to call her on the line, Rosie, 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.880 What did you find out from your ancestry? DNA hibrit 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:11.840 high Lord time. 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:15.400 Yeah, it wasn't myself directly, but it was a family member. 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.760 It was probably in her late fifties at the time. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.600 She'd been doing the whole ancestry journey for a long 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:25.400 amount of time with her sister and her dad wasn't 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.720 her real dad, and it was actually the next door 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:29.200 neighbor when she was growing up. 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.000 I linking to the neighbor though, how did she get there? 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:36.240 I think maybe that family had also been doing kind 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.360 of their own journey, so there was already DNA kind 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:41.680 of in the system that was able to be linked. Yeah, 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:42.400 a bit of a shock. 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:45.200 So did his neighbor. What's the outcome here? Did the 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:46.840 neighbor take her on as like the dad? 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:50.320 So look, I'm not sure he was actually alive, but 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.320 I do know that she's now in touch with the 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:55.120 children that he did have, so she has kind of 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:58.200 got other siblings out there, and she's in very much 0:15:58.200 --> 0:15:59.960 the same mindset as you said, Britt, Like, you know, 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:03.040 my great grandfather was her dad, that's who raised her. 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:06.360 So still kind of her opinion, but kind of good 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:08.200 story is which is yeah, kind of got some more 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:09.080 family members out of it. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.040 So that's nice, all right, you sold me, I'll go 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:11.600 do one. 0:16:11.840 --> 0:16:13.320 I don't want to do one because I'm frightened to 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:14.240 what I might find out. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:16.120 To be honest, you need to do one because you've 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:18.720 done it and it came back inconclusive. So either they're 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:20.840 saying that you're one of those avatars and your DNA 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:23.960