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Speaker 2: Now, if you're new to the show, this is going

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Speaker 2: to shock you. If you're old to the show, this

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Speaker 2: will also shock you.

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Speaker 1: Wood he could be a father? How to explain? Well, No,

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Speaker 1: I think I don't think we should be calling it father.

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Speaker 3: Don't have the wrong terminology to be using.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yes, biologically you would be the father.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but look, I'm wanting to. I'm not wanting to,

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Speaker 3: but I'm potentially going to be giving my sperm to

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Speaker 3: a same sex couple Chloe and Tagan. I am still

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Speaker 3: on the fence about it a little bit. But again,

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Speaker 3: if anyone has missed any of it, I have lit

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Speaker 3: into this last week.

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Speaker 1: Would he dropped this bombshell?

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Speaker 3: Two women got in touch with me recently and they

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Speaker 3: want my.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a really beautiful it's a really, it's a

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Speaker 3: really it's a beautiful couple.

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Speaker 1: And what is little swimmers become hot property?

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Speaker 3: Should he donate his sperm or not?

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Speaker 4: You had you say I don't believe he should do it,

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Speaker 4: Although it's a beautiful gesture and a transaction. What happens

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Speaker 3: Then on Friday we met Tigan, the woman who Woody

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Speaker 3: will create a baby.

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Speaker 1: With is He says, yes.

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Speaker 3: How much of a role would you want Slash allow

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Speaker 5: Colle and I are quite open minded where you know,

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Speaker 5: like quite a major role in our child life, and

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Speaker 5: that's totally fine. If they just want to kind of

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Speaker 5: the kid turns eighteen or something like that, that's fine.

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Speaker 5: But we will obviously tell the child about their father

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Speaker 5: and you know what happened, the great story behind it.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, it all depends on the person.

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Speaker 3: Will would he become a sperm don't the journey to

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Speaker 3: discovery continues. That made it pretty intense with the emotional

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Speaker 1: Stuff there with the team.

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Speaker 2: I was like, let's make sure he knows what he's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a nice thing to talk.

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Speaker 3: About, and you know, and that's why I haven't rushed

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Speaker 3: into it saying yes, I'm definitely opened to it. So

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Speaker 3: I think it was such a such an amazing thing

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Speaker 2: Now last week you said to me, you were something

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Speaker 2: like sixty five percent. Yes, thirty five percent. No, that

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Well, I wasn't speaking to Tagan after speaking of Teagan.

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Speaker 3: That's when I was thirty five for it. I think

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Speaker 3: I mean you intend to overthink these seems a little bit.

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Speaker 3: But look, what I want to do is I know

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Speaker 3: we're going to go to a song right now, but

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Speaker 3: the most important people in my life. Yep, his opinion

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Speaker 1: It's my father. It's my dad.

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Speaker 3: You'd know him from this show because he was actually

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Speaker 3: dating women for me that didn't work out. But don't

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Speaker 1: I'm trusting him again.

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Speaker 3: I want to ask him what his thoughts on.

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Speaker 6: All of this.

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Speaker 2: Great idea, great idea, all right, but his dad, Steve

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Speaker 2: is going to be on the show right up next

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Speaker 2: to help him decide should he be a sperm donor

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Speaker 2: or notting No special guest on the show right now

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Speaker 2: in what is Dad who joins us Steve live with

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Speaker 2: his own oper Jesus is happy about it? Now, Steve,

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Speaker 2: there's a reason you're on the show, mate. Let's get

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Speaker 2: down to brass tacks. You've gone from dating prospective partners

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Speaker 2: a dumb moment for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh no, no, no, I think we should hold

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Speaker 1: But you even said the M word. I mean, normally

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Speaker 6: I know we've taken a risk just doing that. Back

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Speaker 3: Very smart, very smart Dad, stay safe for people that

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Speaker 6: Dad.

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Speaker 3: A same sex couple Chloe and t Can have approached me.

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Speaker 3: They approached me online about donating my sperm to them

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Speaker 3: to create a child.

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Speaker 1: Dad.

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Speaker 3: I want to hit you with it, you know, just

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Speaker 6: I think very noble thing that you're even considering it

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Speaker 6: is a very noble thing to do. But I think

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Speaker 3: Do you do you think Dad, that I would be

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Speaker 3: donate the sperm and then just don't have a role

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Speaker 6: Or something like that to say, well.

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Speaker 1: Look you can will no no, no no, leave it

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Speaker 3: His ice block of sperm is going to?

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Speaker 6: Of those wheels, the wheel were Fortune.

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Speaker 1: And the will powerball. We were talking about this last time.

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Speaker 1: The powerball is frozen in a sphere and you can.

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Speaker 6: Apply for this the right to be on the on

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Speaker 1: Them off. Yeah, not bad, dad, Steve. They're they're wonderful thoughts. Mate.

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Speaker 2: I'm aware of just how much time we've got to actually,

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Speaker 1: Hear about this the better.

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Speaker 3: Oh definitely. No, I'm really keen to hear. I'm actually

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Speaker 3: keen to hear from people who have experienced it. Maybe

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Speaker 3: I'm just interested to hear about how that all worked.

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Speaker 2: Out, right, Steve, Thanks, thanks coming on the show mate.

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Speaker 2: As always, per wisdom mixed in with some great gags.

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Speaker 6: I'll turn the radio on and listen to the callbacks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, perfect, perfect, good stuff.

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Speaker 2: Mate thirty one has don't act like the radio wasn't

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Speaker 2: It is will and Woody, but Woods has been approached

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Speaker 1: Just spoke to your old man about it. Wood and

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Speaker 3: You've got Georgia here, Georgia, your dad gone really good.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so my dad basically kind of the same situation

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Speaker 6: And we've always called them their cousins. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm twenty five. They're thirty two and thirty six.

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Speaker 4: Oh, when they were younger, not so much much. Just

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Speaker 9: So they come over.

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Speaker 4: But kind of as they got older and like they

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Speaker 2: There, and okay, okay, it's an interesting setup because I

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Speaker 2: mean that's one of the things that your dad raised

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Speaker 2: Woods is if you have your own kids, what's the

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Speaker 2: what your dad was saying. Georgia's dad had kids before

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Speaker 2: I think. I think that's a really good thing to raise.

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Speaker 2: Amazing that's worked out that well for them. But I

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Speaker 2: can imagine that would cause headaches maybe potentially.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's nice to hear that it can go.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've got Jane here thirty one to six y five. Jane,

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Speaker 2: you've donated eggs yourself, Yes, I have. And mate of

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Speaker 2: yours donated his sperm.

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Speaker 1: Is that right?

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Speaker 10: Wasn't I wasn't a friend of mine or was a

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So what happened?

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Speaker 1: And what's the story?

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Speaker 2: I mean, your pro Woods donating the sperm?

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, go for it? Yeah, yeah, definitely go for it.

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Speaker 10: The guy donated to my sister who didn't have any

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Speaker 10: eggs lists yeah, and I'd already had my children from

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Speaker 10: ibs and yeah, it's great. I mean, you have got

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Speaker 10: nothing to do with the parenting. You're not a farther

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Speaker 10: in any way, shape or form, really, apart from the

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Speaker 10: fact that you've just helped create someone.

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Speaker 3: So is that easy said than done, though, James, I

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I carried this baby for nine months, She's breathed her,

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Speaker 10: this baby. She's rasist her and her partner racist girl

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Speaker 10: completely as the parents, and I feel absolutely no tie

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Speaker 10: as far as a parent. As far as a parent goes,

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Speaker 10: apart from the fact that she's my children's cousin and

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Speaker 10: they all know about it, and I love the fact

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Speaker 10: But in no way do I feel like a parent

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Speaker 2: Hey Jane, Jane, would you have done it if if

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Speaker 2: would you have done it if it wasn't your sister?

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Speaker 2: Would you do it if if it was a stranger?

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Speaker 1: Like would you?

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Speaker 4: Probably not?

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Speaker 10: Because I was going through IV at the same time.

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Speaker 10: We had to jump through a lot of poops to

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Speaker 10: we had the same doctor, so.

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Speaker 1: It was under the same roof. All right, Jane, thanks

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Speaker 1: so much for the call. Interesting stuff again, Let's go

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Speaker 1: to Jody.

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Speaker 3: Jody, tell us your experience with all this.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, so we my wife actually just gave birth to

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Speaker 9: a little boy two days ago.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, awesome, congratulations.

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Speaker 9: Thank you. So there wasn't til spending I was anonymous.

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Speaker 9: We went to the clean and they know if baby

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Speaker 9: ones do, he can figure out here's a donal was

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Speaker 9: a past eversa. But it's just absolutely life changing.

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Speaker 6: So nice to give him the biggest hug. Oh jeez.

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Speaker 2: And that's the story that moves Woody up into those

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Speaker 2: seventy thirty areas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, that's the Jody. We're gonna talk about

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Speaker 1: this more this week. I mean, it's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: It could be a big deal. See what you're hearing.

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