WEBVTT - UNPACKED REALITY - FARMER WANTS A WIFE - FARMER TODD 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:01.760 It's in the news today, but it was actually on 0:00:01.800 --> 0:00:05.080 TV Reload the podcast last week. There right, Hey guys, 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:07.360 welcome back to TV Reload. I want to thank you 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:10.560 for clicking and downloading on today's episode with Farmer Todd 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:13.160 from Farmer Wants a Wife, which I believe is the 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:15.680 highest rating show across the networks at the moment. So 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:18.200 well done to Channel seven and to the fans for 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:21.560 making this series a smash in twenty twenty four. Farmer 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.120 Todd is a charming thirty three year old cattle farmer 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:27.680 hailing from the quaint town of Banbar in New South Wales. 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:31.240 He is the proud third generation farmer, living and breathing 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:35.000 the values of family, hard yaker and the simple pleasures 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:38.280 of country life. Despite being surrounded by the charm of 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:41.000 his family farm, Todd's on the hunt for a love 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.440 that is as solid as the bonds that he sees 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.640 in his folks and his sister's relationships. As we know, 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:49.080 Farmer Todd came to the show late, and I don't 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:51.400 think that's a bad thing because we've been able to 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:53.720 get to know him quite well and I'm delighted to 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:56.440 be chatting to him today. We will talk about that 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:58.960 full on family and friends date and what he thinks 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:01.680 of some of the comments that were made regarding Daisy, 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:05.280 comparing her to his ex girlfriend's red flagging that she'd 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:08.800 been married and that she may be too confident. We 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:11.800 will unpack Farmer Bert's exit and find out why Farmer 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:14.840 Todd thinks Farmer Burt left. Was it the girls, or 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.119 maybe was it the show was too much for him? 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:20.560 You will get some interesting insights into how he came 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:23.720 onto the show late. Was he a last minute replacement 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:26.160 for Farmer Dean or was his time on the show 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:29.240 planned all along. I'm also going to ask about his 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.920 thoughts on the choices of women that are picked for 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:34.360 the farmers and if the producers do a good job 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.280 picking the ladies for this show. There's actually so much 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:39.960 to unpack with Farmer Todd, So sit back and relax 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:44.040 as we unpack the wonderful world of Farmer Wants a Wife. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:46.759 Hey Todd, how are you? Oh? 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:47.920 Well, thank you? How are you? 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:51.400 I'm doing well? Do you know what's really strange is 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:54.040 like when I start doing these podcasts? Well, actually, when 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:56.520 I'm about to have a guest on, I'd not only 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:59.080 been watching this show, but I go back and rewatch 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:02.600 episodes over and over again, So admittedly I become a 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:04.880 little bit like obsessed with the guests that come on 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:09.079 the podcast. Just kind of an embarrassing way to start 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:14.280 a podcast, Ryan, that's all right, how are you going anyway? 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:17.280 What a whirl win season this must have been for you? 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:18.480 Yeah, it's pretty for long. 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:22.200 Yeah, I mean, yeah, the whole thing even Yeah, without 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:22.760 coming in. 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:24.720 Later, it would still be a bit of a well 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.080 wind full on sort of a gig. 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:29.200 You arrived late, But at this point I think we 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:32.200 are seeing more of you than any of the others 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:34.680 you've You've come in later, and then you're taking up 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:37.600 the lion's share of the screen time. It feels to me. 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:41.320 Yeah, I noticed that sort of Yeah, last night was there. 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:44.160 The Todd Show, A big fortunately of the time was 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.639 donated to a little well, we. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.520 Want to get into the aftermath of some of that. 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:51.359 But look, I wanted to ask you, are you getting 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:53.720 quite a bit of attention at the moment. What is 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.480 the talk of the town from where you're from. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:56.480 Yeah? 0:02:56.960 --> 0:03:00.799 I don't sort of go into town too much when 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:04.639 I mate the day through this morning, and it there's 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:06.560 five six people in there, and it was more fun, 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:07.520 more into life talk. 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.600 Yeah, you'll never go down to get a sausage roll 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:14.120 ever again in the same way people talk. Because this 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.160 is the weird thing. When you're on reality show like this, 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:18.440 people want to talk to you like they know you, 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:19.720 which is odd. Yeah. 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:23.400 Yeah, well luckily I haven't you know, people been trying 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:26.560 to talk me on Facebook and that sort of thing. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.799 But I just, you know, like all that stuff and 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.480 I don't even know. I'm not so many of it. Yeah, definitely, 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:34.720 there's been a few people out on the streets they're 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:35.800 just sort of being. 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:37.960 Oh, and I was like, yeah, so I've got to 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:38.400 keep going. 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:39.800 I'm busy. I know. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:42.600 I was saying on the internet that sort of thing 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:45.920 before it was actually before I was. 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.800 Actually on the TV. People had just seen the you. 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:52.120 Know, were all profile came up there. You came into 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:56.000 the show as Farmer Dean decided to leave. How much 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:57.280 time did you have. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:00.400 To prepare a little bit of time prepared. It wasn't 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.400 sort of a drop of a hat like. It wasn't 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:03.560 like one day I. 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:07.040 Was on the Farmer, next I was down in eight ladies, 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:07.840 had a bit. 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:09.800 Of a time to work out a few things, make 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:12.320 sure I could get people to look after the basel 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:12.960 away and. 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:13.520 That sort of thing. 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:15.560 They must have had some idea that he was going 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:17.839 to go, because I'm trying to look at that turnaround 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.080 with a farmer leaving and they need another one in there. 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:23.320 Was it like a week? What was the the turnaround? 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:23.640 No? 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:25.839 I think they might have already had a bit of 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:29.720 an idea to bring someone in later as a bit. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:30.279 Of a surprise. 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.239 Okay, so I don't I don't think it was just 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:35.560 because being left and I was sort of made it 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:36.760 pretty convenient. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:38.600 Yeah, because I'm kind of getting at this. I mean, 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:42.040 you'd been announced last year for women to apply, so 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:44.839 your profile turned up and we got to see you know, 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.120 six or seven farmers. You know, there was a few 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.480 farmers that you know, the ladies could choose if they 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:51.240 wanted to, and your profile had been up for a 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:54.000 little bit. What happened after your profile had been up? 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:55.840 Did you get a call from the producers and say 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:59.040 there wasn't enough shelers after you when we picked some others. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.279 What kind of conversation happened at that point? No? 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:04.320 No, so they was sort of just silence there for 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.839 a while after I actually got the phone call to 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.840 day I was on, and they said, look, photos. 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:10.800 Are going to go up, and we'll let you know 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:11.760 when they go up, and then the. 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.719 Ladies will reply and then we'll stuck it out and yeah, 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:16.640 talk to you again. I was a little bit of 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:20.320 radio silence there for a minute while that was gone on, and. 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:23.320 Then they called me up and we're like, radio, we 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:26.760 want you on the show, like you're in sort of thing. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.680 Had you worked out that they'd picked other farmers and 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:32.599 they were going ahead with them before circling back with you, 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:34.920 What did you know about the other farmers, you know, 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:36.279 getting onto the show before you. 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.559 I didn't really know much about the other farmers getting 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:39.000 onto the show. 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.360 They just said I'll be starting at this time, which 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:41.920 will be later. 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.479 Okay, that's starting to make sense. Okay, this is what 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:46.960 I was thinking, you know, And I'm sure while I'm 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.159 asking you this stuff, this is what the people at 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:51.520 home watching the show wanted to know as well, because 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:54.320 what happens to these farmers that have their profiles up 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:55.960 for a while that don't get picked to be on 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:57.840 this show? Are they just are they sitting at home 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:00.520 crying into the wools off the sheep, how think to them? 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:01.200 Are they okay? 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.160 I don't know what the other other bloke draps sort 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:05.720 of what happens with them? 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:08.719 They're fighting it. I'd have been fired. I'd have been like, oh, well, 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.960 I'm sort of imming an errand to be on it anyway. 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:13.600 It was sort of a bit of a thing, but. 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:15.920 I'm yea happy I made the choice now attacks to 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.440 go on and like a once in last time think right. 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:20.159 At the start, I was going to do I want 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:21.560 to go, I want to and I was like, well, 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:22.400 a lot of good. 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:24.280 Stuff has come out of farm want to wife. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:26.320 I knew one of the girls on it from last 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:29.240 year who ended up with from Rats Are Clear and Brad. 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.920 This is interesting, though, is that once somebody gets on 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:35.400 this show, the word gets around and other people might 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:38.200 feel more comfortable to apply. Is it because you knew 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:41.160 people that have done it before? Is why you applied? 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:41.560 Yeah? 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:43.800 Actually my mom applied for me, but it was yeah, 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:45.720 because I knew someone that. 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:49.040 Was on it and she ended up with a partner 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.920 out of it, and now they've got a kid in that. 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:54.280 It was like, well, I guess it does work, so yeah, I. 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:56.880 Might as well give it a crack and see what happens, 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:58.800 which I'm yeah, I'm glad I did well. 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:00.640 I'm loving this for your mom because your mum's at 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:05.080 home going. I want grandchildren, and you know, Todd's being 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:07.320 really slacked with this. We're going to get a move. 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.360 On, so you're not far off it. Really. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:12.640 I love the guts that it takes for her to 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.840 be like, she's got the faith in you. She wants 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:17.320 to put you on national television, find a woman and 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:18.200 get the grandchildren. 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:20.600 Yeah. She was a big part of going on there, 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:21.400 that's for sure. Yeah. 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:24.520 Do you think it's harder to try and compact your 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:28.440 experience into a smaller time frame because you are on 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:31.200 the show a few weeks later, but you're still meeting 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.400 the same amount of women, so it's obviously a much 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:35.640 faster process, you know. Is that harder or do you 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:36.440 think that was easier? 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:37.960 In a way, it shall be harder. 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.840 Yeah, obviously not getting to know or the ladies as much, 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:42.360 have as much time with them. 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:46.040 But I still feel that I enough time to I 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.560 guess get to know the lady a fair bit to 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:49.360 make a decision. 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:52.400 Were your first impressions of the ladies good, were You're like, Okay, 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.440 the people casting this show do a good job of 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:58.320 finding suitable matches, or well, that's what I would think. 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.600 I'd be worried because I'd assume, you know, you sit 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:02.200 down with the producers, you tell them the sort of 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:04.040 women that you're interested in, and then they go and 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:06.400 find them. But you know, I'd be sitting at home 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:09.080 worrying about turning up on that first day of set 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:11.560 because like what happens if they've found the Witches of 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.600 Eastwick or something, or they've got they've muddled it up. 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:17.960 Yeah, it was a bit their wrapping. 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:21.040 I mean, I'm very happy with the choices that they 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:22.040 they said. 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:23.160 I came back, but I was. 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:27.600 I was surprised that, yeah, such lovely ladies actually wanted 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.400 to become and meet may I never thought i'd be 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:32.000 on the show and then. 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:34.559 No one on a block me anyway. I had just 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:36.960 a little cattle farmer from out in the middle of nowhere. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:37.360 No one. 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:39.200 It's not really a feeling to people. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:40.960 That's not how I say. I think this is going 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.079 to sound like it lands really badly, but I think 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:46.080 you're a grower, not a shower. Where when I first 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.400 saw your promo. I was like, oh, yeah, he's all right, 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.280 And then like the more we've gotten to get to 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.920 know you as this show has gone on, people are 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:55.520 connecting to you more. This is definitely the wrong analogy. 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:58.960 I can already can feel people writing to me and complaining. 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:06.360 It's I get up stand where what you're saying? Okay, 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:07.920 and at the start. 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:12.280 Properly completely nervous, like meeting eight ladies and then getting 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.920 thrown into this like cameras and that everywhere. People everywhere, 0:09:16.240 --> 0:09:18.679 even my friends that have seen it ore like, you 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:19.600 were so nervous. 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:21.960 That's not you. You're a lot more relaxed at more. 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:24.559 And then even the ladies said it. And then when 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.920 we got back to home, they're like, wow, this is 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:30.600 actually todd. This comfort level was up when I was 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:32.720 home on the farm in my element. 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.200 Yeah, I've been able to show that fart being on 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:36.839 the farm, on the horse riding. 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:39.040 Around, Well, that's the real you, that's who you are. 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.120 Like yeah, I mean the magic of this show in 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.640 a way is that we want these farmers to be 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:46.960 it sounds ridiculous, but real. And then to try and 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.320 get you guys who haven't found a partner in your 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:51.320 own means to be in front of the cameras. 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:54.960 Yeah, it's definitely a foreign situation, like it's yeah, you're 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:58.040 you're definitely made throwing into the deep end sort of thing, 0:09:58.080 --> 0:09:59.600 and you just go, yeah, well. 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.199 Tod the things that can happen, you know, having too 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:07.880 many women, Yeah, there's worse the shows if you go on, 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:09.480 at least you don't have to sing or dance. 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:11.359 Yeah, that's definitely true. 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:15.000 Okay, so you have four ladies left this week, and 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.360 we saw your friends and family help you with this 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.400 next step, which caused a bit of drama. How did 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:23.600 you how did you go about picking which friends and 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:28.440 family would come along to meet these four ladies that 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:29.120 you've got left. 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:32.679 It was hard because I actually originally had probably five 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:35.320 other friends that I sort of wanted to. 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:37.679 Come along as well, but what happened to them. 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.359 Well, we were supposed to go do a little. 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:43.880 Event before we went and just sort of sat down 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:46.079 and met everyone, but it's sort of. 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:47.640 The weather didn't agree with it. 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:49.559 So it's like those other friends that were going to 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:51.880 help me out, they just sort of, yeah, just too 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:54.160 much for the one for the little area we sort 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:54.520 of had. 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.720 Okay, so then they go and producers go and interview 0:10:57.760 --> 0:10:59.560 the people that you can put forward, because this is 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.360 what I'm thinking, Like if you asked me, but you 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:04.679 know who I wanted? And I said, well, look here 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:06.520 are my five friends. You know you should go and 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.520 talk to them. And then the producers speak to those 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:10.960 five and they realized that, you know, maybe two of 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:12.719 them are a bit more savage and you're going to 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:15.920 ask a little bit more outrageous questions. Then the producers go, well, 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:18.560 let's go with those cousins because we know those cousins 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:21.240 are going to ask harder questions. Or do you reckon 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:24.240 that there's is there an audition process for who gets 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:24.800 to come along? 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:25.520 Not really. 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.640 They asked who I wanted and I was like, well, 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:30.880 these are the people who are really wanted to be there, 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:32.600 the five and then. 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:34.719 Have a bit of a chat film and they asked me. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:37.160 I'm like, well, who do you think because they've obviously, yeah, 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:38.760 I've got to ask questions, and who do you think 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:39.640 will be out spoken? 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:41.160 And I'm a bit more forward? 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:43.520 They did want that that's what you're trying to tell me, okay? 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.000 And I told my friends, I was like, you got 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:46.640 to ask these. 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:48.400 Girls the questions that you want to ask it's going 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:51.080 to be a bit forward with which they were fine 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:54.439 with it because it wasn't a short time frame here 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.439 to try and fine. Yeah, it's a bit of very 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:00.600 much a pressure cooker situation and that we've all been 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:03.720 traying into andy like the Yeah, I asked my friends 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:05.360 to sort of put a bit of crash from the 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:07.920 ladies just to what happened. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:13.839 I mean, there were some savage comments about your ex partners, 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:17.560 you know that they were comparing Daisy to your previous relationships. 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:20.040 Did you find that uncomfortable to watch back? 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.600 So what sort of didn't show in there? Like obviously 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.120 there's time frame to the shew and whatnot, But I 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:26.680 sort of also, I've. 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:30.679 Already noticed some similarities that it's not necessarily the overly 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:35.240 bad similarities. Daisy is just more confidence about going forward 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:36.560 sort of a person. 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.040 It seemed to me like they were trying to be like, oh, no, 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:42.800 these confident women aren't the right people for you, which 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:46.560 I don't understand because, like to me, if you yourself 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:48.640 have been going out and looking for ladies and finding 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.360 confident women that haven't worked out for whatever reason, that 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.720 doesn't mean that all confident women are shit. Maybe you're 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.319 the type of bloke who wants a chick that's a 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.080 little bit more confident, you know. 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:02.760 Yeah, And the way it came across wasn't sort of 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:04.400 the way it was meant. 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:05.880 Okay, it was hard. 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:08.360 It was like a pretty full on day, but. 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:11.040 I won't say that sort a confidence and that was bad. 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:13.800 They were more worried, you know that I have gone 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:14.480 down that path. 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:15.840 Is that the right. 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:19.320 One of the right way to go again? If I 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.960 was looking at that sort of thing because it didn't 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.880 work the last time, and my friends are sort of 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:27.240 more trying to look after me, didn't want to see. 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:27.800 Me hurts again. 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:29.920 Well, I've got a couple of questions on this one 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.520 because I wonder, you know your ex girlfriend that they're 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:36.120 comparing it to, you know, comparing Daisy too. She watching 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:37.880 the show? Do we know if she's watching the show 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:38.960 and did is she upset? 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:41.600 I'm unsure whether if she's watching the show or not. 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:43.720 Well, let's get her on the podcast. I'm on the kidding, 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:49.760 I'm joking. It's not Sally Jesse, Raphael Oprah Winfrey specials 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.240 or No. I was curious. I mean, she's got to 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:54.360 be watching the show, and she would be pretty upset. 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:57.120 I think that your friends and family are trying to 0:13:57.120 --> 0:13:59.920 do whatever they cannot to find anyone like her again. 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.960 Like it's coming across that way. But that's not exactly 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:07.559 the way I guess I saw it. I'm all of 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:10.840 it from previous time that hasn't worked and then not 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:12.280 wanting maybe it hurt again. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.720 Look, I can see that I'm leading to the point 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:17.760 that there was a comment about Daisy being masculine. What 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.120 was the aftermath of that comment? I mean, did you 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:23.280 feel uncomfortable when they were saying that, I. 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.800 Mean the whole day, Yeah, it was pretty hard to 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:26.560 sort of hear. 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:28.960 And that I was fit for us. 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:30.800 And then they went on to say, you know, their 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:33.520 impression was that Daisy was there for social media. We're 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:35.520 only seeing snippets of this stuff. But to me, it 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.880 didn't look like Daisy was there for likes and follows. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:41.760 She looked she looked genuinely like she was into you, 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:42.880 you know, and I think that's a good thing. 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:43.240 Yeah. 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.040 No, I don't think any of the ladies there for 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:48.040 social media followers and that sort of thing. 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:50.680 When they were pushing the quieter girls onto you, and saying, oh, 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.880 maybe you should be with them, Like there's a good 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.000 chance that they might be saying you quite go a 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:56.560 bit good for you, and she'll be back on the 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.040 farm and she'll iron your underpants and do all the 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:00.320 rest of the stuff did you want to to do? 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.280 But then that might not be the type of girl 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:03.160 that you're interested in. 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:06.760 I've never really realized I had a type until yeah, 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.800 my friends that sort of yeah, and then I look 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:11.560 back and I'll go, oh, well, yeah, I guess I 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:12.640 do have a bit of a type. 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:15.360 And then yeah, they never said it was a bad thing. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:19.240 I mean it was necessarily sort of. I think they're 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:22.560 more sable. You know, I've had work. Why not try 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:24.000 something different. 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:26.360 When you're editing a show like this together, you're going 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:28.600 to pick up on the small points and if you're 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:31.200 producing it, yeah listen looking for a bit of drama. 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:34.240 Then you're going to leave your friends talking about Daisy 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.680 being a divorced person and you know, do you think 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:39.200 that woman is the right person for you? She's previously 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:42.160 been married, like she's been tainted, and that's a polarizing 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:45.200 thing to say to the Australian audience. It makes great television, 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:49.080 but it becomes a little bit uncomfortable for everybody, you know, Yeah, I. 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:52.000 Mean, and I hadn't had a chat about that on 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.880 our one on one time together, Like we sort of 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:57.080 dove into it pretty deep, and then it sort of 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:57.680 shows me. 0:15:57.800 --> 0:15:59.920 Much of it there. I asked a fair bit about 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:00.920 about it all. 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.520 What do you think about farmer Bert leaving the show? 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.280 Do you think that he was overwhelmed by the ladies 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:08.680 or do you think that he was a bit overwhelmed 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:11.680 by how hard it is and the pressure that comes 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.480 about by taking part in a TV show. 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:16.320 I think it might have been. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:18.880 I guess the whole I don't really have yet, sort 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.040 of too much to do with, never really talk too 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:23.640 much to the ladies and that, so I can't really 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:27.760 comment too much about what they are like they that 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:29.520