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Speaker 4: On the cutting room floor today, it's all about smells.

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Speaker 1: Smells. We actually when I went to the logis last night,

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Speaker 1: you get dressed like at lunchtime, so you have to

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Speaker 1: I needed some deodorant. Obviously, my deodorant had run out,

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Speaker 1: and the only one I could find was one of

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Speaker 1: my son's old links. Oh dear, I was chased by

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Speaker 1: middle aged women all night. Best not I've had in ages.

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Speaker 4: At least that away from the other smells.

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Speaker 1: If that supposed to be that all the.

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Speaker 4: Cans, that's just your four of your car. Sure are

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Speaker 4: you going to work at Fox Sports now?

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about smells. I've got a couple of

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Speaker 1: stories this morning that are about smells, body chemicals and

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Speaker 1: the effect they have on us when we're not even

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Speaker 1: aware of it. This first one, the headline was Women's armpit.

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Speaker 1: Bo can be relaxing for men. So maybe I shouldn't

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Speaker 1: have bothered with Deodora last night. All the men in

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Speaker 1: the room would have been so relaxed.

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Speaker 4: That would have been relaxed.

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Speaker 1: Research apparently has shown that women's they've known this for

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Speaker 1: a while, that women's body odor changes throughout your menstrual cycle,

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Speaker 1: but men find it more appealing around ovulation. That's obvious

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Speaker 1: as to why, you know, while you're appealing when you're ovulating,

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Speaker 1: therefore more chances of reproduction. But the chemical cocktail responsible

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Speaker 1: for turning sweat into this subtle signal remains a mystery

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Speaker 1: until now. High tech chemical analysis has allowed researchers at

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Speaker 1: the University of Tokyo to pinpoint three body odor compounds

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Speaker 1: that fluctuate throughout the menstrual cycle and spike during ovulation.

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Speaker 1: So those compounds were added to umpit. Sweat samples taken

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Speaker 1: from women and men constantly rated that centers more pleasing

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Speaker 1: and match the faces as more attractive therefore and more

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Speaker 1: feminine when they could smell that particular scent. So when

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Speaker 1: you get a whiff of those compounds, it relaxes the

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Speaker 1: male participants reduce their levels of stress compared to the

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Speaker 1: control group. Okay, what about story number two. It's not

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Speaker 1: about number two.

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Speaker 4: Don't smell that.

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Speaker 1: So I saw this the other day. A woman was

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Speaker 1: talking about a scientific study where there were two groups

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Speaker 1: who were asked to produce sweat. One group sweated on

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Speaker 1: a treadmill. They ran on a treadmill and produced sweat.

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Speaker 1: Another group and which group would you prefer to be

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Speaker 1: in when skydiving? Both activity produced sweat. So they took

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Speaker 1: the sweat from both groups exercise sweat, skydiving sweat, and

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Speaker 1: gave those samples, fed those through you know, not fed them,

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Speaker 1: but you know what I mean, passed them on to

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Speaker 1: people who went into an fMRI machine. So this is

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Speaker 1: a third group who went into it. They didn't know

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Speaker 1: what they were smelling, and it scans their brain. That's

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Speaker 1: what that machine does. What happened was when they were

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Speaker 1: given the smells of the sweat from the people who'd

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Speaker 1: been on the treadmill, their brains didn't change. When they

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Speaker 1: the skydivers, that sweat was a fear sweat and it

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Speaker 1: led to activity in their magdala did he say it?

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Speaker 1: Magdella the part of the brain that is triggered by fear.

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Speaker 1: So what this means is that when they smelt fear,

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Speaker 1: they weren't aware of why it generated their own fear. So,

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Speaker 1: and you can catch fear. And the follow up to

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Speaker 1: this or not this, what this means is you should

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Speaker 1: always trust your gut. That's what this study was saying,

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Speaker 1: well as facial expressions, body language, all of that. We're

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, all those olfactory senses.

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Speaker 2: Michael Hutchins, for example, when that taxi driver punched him

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Speaker 1: So he had meningitis and lost his sense.

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Speaker 2: He lost his sense of smell and taste, and that

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Speaker 2: changed his personality because that was you know, he's a

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Speaker 1: Way that we interact with the world in ways we're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he did say did he miss tasting women?

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Speaker 4: Which I always thought he actually said that that's not me.

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Speaker 2: But you know, poor old Hatch, he like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying that that's why he took his own life. But

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Speaker 2: I feel that he was he was pushing the boundaries

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Speaker 1: Have they said I thought it was death by accidental misadventure.

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Speaker 2: I think that's always, you know, because that's a thing.

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Speaker 2: Erotic asphyxiation is a thing. People get into that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and wanting to push boundaries. If only he could

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Speaker 1: have smelt someone's biot with us today, if only he

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Speaker 4: Relaxed, if you had the lynx Africa, it.

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Speaker 4: It might have might have helped. But instead you've just

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Speaker 4: On the cutting room floor today. What have we got, Amanda?

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Speaker 1: Do you go to Ikea much?

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Speaker 4: I haven't been for some time.

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Speaker 2: One time my daughter and I went there just for

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Speaker 2: we're driving past an Ikea in Rome said let's get

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Speaker 2: some meatballs from Ikea.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then we went throughout the whole shop.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. You can't just walk into the meatball, Partner.

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Speaker 4: When you can walk right into the meatball.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask for Alan key to serve you.

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Speaker 2: So we went through and we bought some cushions and

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Speaker 2: a few flag We didn't eat them, but those meatballs,

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Speaker 2: good lord, they are so good.

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Speaker 1: The reason I asked is that I've been looking at this.

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Speaker 1: They've printed here a commentary really on five ways that

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Speaker 1: IKEA kind of hack psychology. I love this turn browsers

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Speaker 1: into buyers again and again. So say you want to

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Speaker 1: go and just for the meatballs. Here's why you get

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Speaker 2: Well, and I realized this after i'd been there. You

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Speaker 2: can get into the back way into our IKEA, but

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Speaker 2: it's just not really predominant.

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Speaker 1: He like to weave you through, don't.

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Speaker 2: You've got to go through. That's part of the experience.

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Speaker 2: They send you on this meandering path.

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Speaker 1: That's right. So they call this the endowment effect. IKEA

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Speaker 1: lets you touch everything. You can sit on chairs, you

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Speaker 1: can open drawers, you can move a fake lamp a

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Speaker 1: this is because they say here, when you interact with it,

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Speaker 1: you start to feel like you own it. We're wired

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Speaker 1: to not let go of what we feel is ours.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah, I get that.

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Speaker 1: So when you see say an Ikea bathroom. There's a toilet,

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Speaker 4: Excuse me, that's not plumbed in, sir.

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Speaker 1: What about this one choice bracketing? So there'll be three

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Speaker 1: three sofa colors, five lamps. Not overwhelming, but just enough.

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Speaker 1: IKEA's limited variety model reduces cognitive load, so you think

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Speaker 1: you're choosing freely, but they're controlling your options. If there

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Speaker 1: was a whole lot of stuff, you'd feel overwhelmed. Choices

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Speaker 1: there's a few little options that make you feel like

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I see that when you go to restaurants and

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Speaker 4: they have too much stuff on the.

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Speaker 1: Home menus that have ninety thousand things on, like some

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Speaker 1: old Italian restaurant that'll have six pages of menu, I think,

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Speaker 1: how can they possibly have all these fresh ingredients that

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Speaker 1: they bought at the market.

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Speaker 4: It's just passed to Giuseppe, whip it up and make.

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Speaker 1: It gee, and you get spit in yours on bed.

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Speaker 2: No Giuseppe is my local Italian restaurant, is he? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's got too many items on these thing though.

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Speaker 1: What about price lulling? What's that that dollar forty nine

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Speaker 1: lint roller that's not there to make money. Apparently it's

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Speaker 1: there to relax your spending resistance. So small winds up

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Speaker 1: So cheap first expensive later. So do you ever feel

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Speaker 1: like that, it's like breaking the seal. Yeah, if you're

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Speaker 1: overseas and I want for buying something, you think, God,

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Speaker 1: I've gone all day and through all these shops.

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Speaker 4: I've got to buy something.

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Speaker 1: I've got to buy something. So if you buy something

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Speaker 1: small breaks the seal, I can keep going.

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Speaker 4: My son did that to me.

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Speaker 2: I was he worked at Reese Wreese Plumbing Supplies, and

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Speaker 2: I went in just to get some silicon, some bathroom silicon,

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Speaker 2: and I went in there. I said, I'll get some

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Speaker 2: silicon six dollar purchase. But as soon as I bought

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Speaker 2: that six dollar purchase, you suddenly look around the shop

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Speaker 4: I'm chatting to my son, and then there was this.

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Speaker 2: well they got Well that's on special. It's on sale

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Speaker 2: right now, and I said, and I said, well, what's

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Speaker 2: it usually working? He said, well, you usually it's sixteen

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Speaker 2: Next minute, I've bought it well similarly, and then I said,

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Speaker 2: not really, that's just what it's getting sold for.

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Speaker 1: The I went into a friend's florist and she's sent

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Speaker 1: bits and pieces, flowers, coffee, ob je dar But I

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Speaker 1: went in and bought some flowers and a coffee, not

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Speaker 1: expensive purchases at all. But my other friend is with

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Speaker 1: me said I'm surprised you're not buying that, and I said,

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Speaker 1: what do you mean? I looked up on the wall.

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Speaker 1: It's a giant fiberglass rhino head with a light in

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Speaker 1: its horn. And guess what you bought it? I bought it.

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Speaker 1: I've had it for years. But I bought that in

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Speaker 1: a coffee florist's shop. What are the chances?

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Speaker 4: Is it expensive?

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Speaker 1: Yes? All right? How about this time based control. There's

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Speaker 1: a reason that it feels like a journey through Ikia.

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Speaker 1: Ikia's long path slows you down, but the cafeteria break

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Speaker 1: speeds you up. It's intentional pacing, so they control how

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Speaker 1: when you exhausted. They manage your tempo to manage your decisions.

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Speaker 1: Brillant and finally, assembly as investment. Flat pack furniture isn't

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Speaker 1: just efficient, is it. It's sticky, meaning the more effort

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Speaker 1: end product. It says, effort equals ownership equals satisfaction. Even

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Speaker 1: if the shelf leans, so you feel connected to it

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Speaker 1: in a way you may not from another piece of furniture,

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Speaker 1: which means you might be a return customer.

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing I remember that when I put my leaning

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Speaker 1: I like to get a flat pack, take it out

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Speaker 5: Hey, hey, everybody, here's some more Jelsey and a man's

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for on the cutting room floor today?

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Speaker 1: Do you brandan post part Do you love anything that's Latin?

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Speaker 1: Postpartum means you know past baby? Is that past birth?

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Speaker 1: What does partum actually mean?

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Speaker 4: After something's happened?

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Speaker 1: All right? This woman says, here mom's moms, tell me

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Speaker 4: Not on hings.

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Speaker 2: She got very emotional though. After our first child was born.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to cry about it. You don't understand.

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Speaker 2: If I could get to the shop that sells bib

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Speaker 1: Well, this is a kind of thing that happens. And

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Speaker 4: Did you ever get any of this?

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Speaker 1: I'm sure I did. I'm sure I did. I had

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Speaker 4: How one used to worry about that with our eldest

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Speaker 4: You're on your own.

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Speaker 2: I like this one here, a lady wrote she made

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Speaker 2: It's like you've got the baby and I go, will.

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Speaker 4: You be all right with them? Yeah, of course I'll

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Speaker 1: Yes, And that's where bad habits begin, because you need

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Speaker 1: it's a slave to you. It's a rod to your

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Speaker 1: own back, this woman said. I kept saying, I was

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Speaker 1: taking my son to the vet instead of the pediatrician.

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Speaker 1: This was one I dialed nine on one in a panic.

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Speaker 1: I saw on the monitor that someone was standing over

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Speaker 4: So she's looked at that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I've got a grandson now and my kids.

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Speaker 4: My son, he talks to me like I've never had

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Speaker 4: a baby in my life.

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Speaker 1: But that's the nature.

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Speaker 4: You're holding him too tight, Dad is too tight.

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Speaker 2: And then they've got this monitor that you could they

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Speaker 2: glowing eyes. Because it's night vision camera, it looks like

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Speaker 2: with a sasquatch videos, you know, with a film.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a sasquatch over there.

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Speaker 1: Because I think every generation has new ways of doing things,

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Speaker 1: you have to be shut your neck, I do, and

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Speaker 4: Yeah I do.

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Speaker 1: I say this to my mother times since you've had

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Speaker 2: And I say this to my mother because my mother

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Speaker 2: this to me. And so her relationship with the grandkids

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Speaker 2: them to put on weight. We don't like their neck

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Speaker 2: tattoo or any of that stuff. It's none of your business.

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Speaker 1: Your grandson have a neck tatto he's only six months old,

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Speaker 1: Well you.

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Speaker 1: And also at that age you want them to put

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Speaker 4: You're the parent, because suddenly you're a parent.

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Speaker 1: You're a parent.

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Speaker 4: That's exactly what happens.

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Speaker 1: It's a parent. You're a parent.

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Speaker 4: You know, every generation blames the one before.

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Speaker 1: I love Mike and the MCCA.

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Speaker 2: That's from the teachings of great Latin philosophers, Mike and

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Speaker 2: the mccans.

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Speaker 1: You could have actually got some overalls from the mechanics.

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Speaker 4: These are all good ideas.

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Speaker 2: Now on the cutting room floor today, did just see

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Speaker 2: the story about this guy. He's built a Lego project,

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Speaker 2: incredibly impressive. He spent two hundred thousand dollars, but it's

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Speaker 2: cost him, not just financially but personally. He's had two

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Speaker 1: Describe the Lego project. What do you get for two

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Speaker 2: He's built a replica of the Star Wars Battle of Gionosis.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's that?

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Speaker 4: It's fifteen foot long and it is amazing.

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Speaker 2: It's got the clones being made, it's got everything in there,

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Speaker 1: So I'm just looking at this story here. Two hundred

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Speaker 4: Go on down the drain, because he's love of the

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Speaker 4: little brick.

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 1: This story isn't real. I've just verified it. What's weird

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Speaker 1: it cost him over two hundred thousand dollars. The shock

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Speaker 1: of this is it hasn't cost him his marriages. I

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Speaker 1: those made up stories. But weirdly, the real part of

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Speaker 1: it is real. He has spent two hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 1: and made what did you call it? The Star Wars?

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 4: The Battle of Gionosis?

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Speaker 1: Are you disappointed that his marriages haven't ended? I'm shocked

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Speaker 4: I looked you, I looked at this story. But he's

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Speaker 1: Well, but you know you like train set.

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Speaker 4: I love trains.

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Speaker 1: If it was a two hundred thousand dollars train set

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Speaker 1: that was over fifteen feet long, you'd say, how brilliant.

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Speaker 1: So why is this nerdy?

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Speaker 4: And that's not train sets aren't nerdy?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you joking?

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Speaker 6: You?

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Speaker 1: And Rod Stewart, he's obsessed with them.

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Speaker 4: He's got a great train set. He was on the

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Speaker 1: It was a very good front.

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Speaker 4: I had a great train set. I had a really

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Speaker 1: And what era did you have it? And what was

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Speaker 4: I was young. It started off just with a layout,

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Speaker 1: And it was the old school one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the dad put together for me, and I just

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Speaker 1: Ap paris your love of a diorama?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it just and I started. I made a

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Speaker 4: More mountain range.

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Speaker 2: Dad's mates came to.

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Speaker 4: Look at it.

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Speaker 2: He said, that's impressive. But you had no idea what

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you make the mountain range beside the train

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Speaker 1: I had? Why did the train have to be underneath it?

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Speaker 2: Because it's in a tunnel and I have the little

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Speaker 1: To be in the tunnel.

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Speaker 4: What are your critic?

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Speaker 1: What are you working for? Civil engineering? Big? Civil engineering

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Speaker 1: got to you.

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Speaker 2: I'm moving mountains. I'm putting mountains back on the track.

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Speaker 2: And then it all ended with my brother and I

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Speaker 2: had a huge punch up. Every story ends with that,

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Speaker 4: Dad came into the rood and to separate us, and.

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Speaker 2: He said it looked like Godzilla.

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Speaker 4: And some other Japanese king con.

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Speaker 1: That would have been quite painful landing on that chicken wire.

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Speaker 4: And the plaster for powers.

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Speaker 1: Well, for my brother it was yeah, it was what

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Speaker 1: a flex to tell us that you won. I once

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Speaker 1: made he wrecked the training set. I once made a

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Speaker 1: a thing for art at school. You know the King

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Speaker 1: of Id that soon character.

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Speaker 4: The King is a think.

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Speaker 1: I made a replica. It was so lifelike. It was

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Speaker 1: him chicken wire. I'm never good at craft. I don't

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Speaker 1: like craft. You could have used to big a orchy

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Speaker 1: bottle for those I wasn't smoking a bomb.

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Speaker 4: He used a smaller orchi bottle for that.

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Speaker 1: It was this big. Look what I'm doing my hands?

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Speaker 1: How big is that?

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Speaker 4: That's from the table or no, not from the ground.

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Speaker 1: From the It wasn't like it wasn't the size of me.

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Speaker 1: It's how big is that? I?

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Speaker 4: Okay, from the bench right about two and a half.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So it was big, and so chicken wire, paper

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Speaker 1: mache and for his hair, strands of yellow wool made

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Speaker 1: the crown everything, handed it in for school, came home.

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Speaker 1: It's the way I remember it. It wasn't long after

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Speaker 1: came home from school. We had to skip out the

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Speaker 1: front of our house, and that was right at the

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Speaker 1: top of it. MoMA chucked it out. She was very

449
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Speaker 1: non sentimental with those.

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Speaker 4: That was my year twelve, major work, pretty much pretty much,

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Speaker 4: and it's out on the skipp Did anyone take it?

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Speaker 1: A in those days, no one stole from your skip

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Speaker 1: b Who would take that?

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Speaker 2: And then you went to university and broke out the

455
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Speaker 2: smaller orchy bottle.

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Speaker 6: It sells you. It sells on.

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Speaker 4: The cutting room floor.

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Speaker 2: If you want to stop something, you can't complain about

459
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Speaker 2: it because the more you complain about.

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Speaker 4: It, it will keep self perpetuating.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that the barber streisand.

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Speaker 4: Effect the bart How does this go?

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Speaker 1: She complained, I think about she has a cliff frontage

464
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Speaker 1: in Malibu. She was complaining about something.

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Speaker 4: I think it was her bush. There was too much

466
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Speaker 4: bush around the area and the bush had to be cleared.

467
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Speaker 1: Something happened and she complained about it.

468
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Speaker 4: I was going to catch fire that bush.

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Speaker 1: No one would have known that she had this cliff

470
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Speaker 1: front abode until she spoke about it, and then everyone

471
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Speaker 1: kind of knew the privileged positions it watches Barbar Streisan

472
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Speaker 1: put a backfired on her.

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Speaker 4: Somehow lived in a little firebrow house.

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Speaker 1: No, but if you complain about something and you're a

475
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Speaker 1: giant richie, you have to be very careful because it

476
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Speaker 1: can backfire.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, are you taking notes, Sarahmanda am I Brandon?

478
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Speaker 1: I know why you're talking about this is don't complain

479
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Speaker 1: because it's going to happen again and again and again.

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Speaker 1: They actually the Royals have this saying, never complain, never explain. Yeah,

481
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Speaker 1: so royal pain.

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Speaker 2: Dave Groll from the Food Fighters people throw mentos up

483
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Speaker 2: on the stage. I've forgotten why, but he hates it

484
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Speaker 2: and he goes, I'm going to I'm gonna kick your ass.

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Speaker 1: If only they thrown condom. Well, what's been happening in

486
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Speaker 1: the WNBA? So, for those of you who don't know,

487
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Speaker 1: this is the women's basketball league in the States. Someone

488
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Speaker 1: threw something onto the court and I'll tell you what

489
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Speaker 1: it is in a minute, and that has now become viral.

490
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Speaker 1: Someone threw a sex toy, a bright green, iridescent green

491
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Speaker 1: sex toy, and so that has gone the idea of

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Speaker 1: this has gone viral three times now over the past week.

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Speaker 1: A WNBA game has been brought to a halt because

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Speaker 1: the sex toy has been launched from the stands. So

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Speaker 1: the first time it happened, the scores were tied up

496
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Speaker 1: between two teams, the Atlanta Dream and the Golden State Valkyries,

497
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Speaker 1: dying stages of this contest, scores tied up. As I said,

498
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Speaker 1: little under a minute left on the clock, hugely tense.

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Speaker 1: This object comes flying onto the court, narrowly avoiding the players.

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Speaker 1: It was a bright green sex toy, and so security

501
00:24:20,004 --> 00:24:22,964
Speaker 1: stepped in arrested a fan who was charged with this

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Speaker 1: orderly conduct, public indecency in Disney exposure, and criminal trespass.

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Speaker 1: So they're quite serious charge. It is for just throwing

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Speaker 1: a sexual projectile. So in the wake of this, the

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Speaker 1: an Indiana Fever star player Sophie Cunningham took to X

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Speaker 1: to plead with fans to stop it. She said, stop

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Speaker 1: throwing dildos on the court. You go to hurt one

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Speaker 1: of us. That's a sentence you don't ever dream. You'll

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Speaker 1: have to.

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Speaker 4: Post imagine not unlone if it just hits you. But

511
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Speaker 4: if you rolled your ankle on it.

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Speaker 1: What that insurance claim? How's that going to look? But

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Speaker 1: what's happened is that spurred on more attacks aimed at her.

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Speaker 1: She has found herself on the receiving end of a

515
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Speaker 1: sex toy strike. So this object came flying towards her

516
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Speaker 1: and so she then took to social media to say,

517
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Speaker 1: it didn't hit me. I knew I shouldn't have tweeted it.

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Speaker 1: And at the same time in Brooklyn, a fourth sex

519
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Speaker 1: toy was thrown. But how embarrassing for the person's throwing.

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Speaker 1: It didn't reach the court. It hit another fan in

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Speaker 1: the back of the head in the front row. So

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Speaker 1: this is actually we're talking about it.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: Social media has gone into a frenzy clips and memes

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Speaker 1: of floating people's timelines. So all the security in the

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Speaker 1: world can't stop this craziness. And the players are saying

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Speaker 1: just stop. Barbro Streis and says, don't throw it in

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Speaker 1: my bullsh No, no one knows why, well, just someone

529
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Speaker 1: doing it. And then in this world of social media,

530
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Speaker 1: it happened again and again and again. Why didn't someone

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Speaker 1: throw a dictionary somewhere once? In social media there's a

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Speaker 1: book of words. People enjoy it

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