WEBVTT - #232: Woo-Woo with Jules Rangiheuea 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:06.720 Just stood a couple of minches. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:13.119 Delese yourself for the rude shocks of young adults. You 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:14.880 want to know a crazy fact that I had a 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:16.160 bio scan downe at my. 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:19.680 Gym this week? When last week? When did I ask? 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:30.040 And Mitchell Coups, how are you? Hello? How are you? Oh? 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:33.519 I'm good. Have you seen that you've gone viral in 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:38.520 a way, mem I've gone viral? Yep, I try hard. 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:42.159 Well, you ran your mouth on this podcast me. We 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:44.519 put it on TikTok and a lot of people have 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:48.080 viewed that audio and they're kind of clapping back at you. 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:50.839 Oh, I know exactly what you're talking about. Is this 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:51.800 the airline video? 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:53.640 It is my video? 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:57.760 Yes, yes, yes, prize keeper jennets here of course viral. 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.520 Yes, you've got tested a talk gone. It's good. 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:02.880 And it was so funny because in that video you 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.280 and Jenner was slagging off the flight attendants. I'll play 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:07.759 it actually, but it was pishy. I felt good watching 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:09.360 it because I was like, I didn't say anything bad 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.160 about them. So what happened is they've taken this audio 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:16.440 of you slagging off flight attendants and they've actually it 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:19.080 makes more sense ified its play folks actually remember this moment. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:23.880 The flight attendants need to stop lying on Instagram in 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.280 Paris for the weekend. No, you're not beat, you're on 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:28.720 a casual shift. But I feel like they're either at 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.080 the beach or they're partying, or it's. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:33.039 A photo of the turbine of the jet with the 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:35.640 stairs going up and they're like back at it. 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:38.720 I'm like, they're working. You just cocked in. Oh right, 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:41.520 You think that they're acting more like jurious than their life. Really, 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:46.240 you get them on Instagram morning Sanrio, I was a 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.560 dinner with you last night, and then the next day 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:50.920 they've got a picture of them and their grandma. Always 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:53.160 with a grandma. So that was it. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.480 And now so many people have used that audio and 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:59.040 just posted videos of them as flight attendants living the 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:01.280 glamorous life that actually comes with that job. 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:04.920 Fuck you, dude, we actually do have a sick job. 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:07.000 They've got millions of views on their videos. I'm a 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:11.000 viral audio showing off and like, we actually do get 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:11.840 to enjoy the world. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.440 You know, there was this one flight attendant that I 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:15.080 went on a date with and it didn't work, and 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:16.360 it was like, it's just we don't have the right 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:17.119 vibe because. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:19.359 The one that wanted to like fly you to LA 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.160 with him that one. 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:22.960 Yeah, He's like, let me take it, Ola, I'll put 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:25.120 you on standby. I can think of nothing worse than 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:27.320 waiting to maybe get on a flight. Yeah, and then 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:29.679 we one day it didn't work. And then I checked 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:33.000 the other day and he's unfollowed me. And then he 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.680 messaged me once drunk and was like that video is 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:36.800 so rude, so. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.280 Really why my god? I pissed him off. 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.520 And apparently another friend who's a flight attendant who thought 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:42.960 it was funny, said it was sent around the group 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.680 chat like an anger that I know anger, Yeah, Like, 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:47.480 who's this guy? 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:50.160 I think he is mine? Attendant? Message to me who 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.120 I know goes rude. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:54.680 See eye was not embroiled in this scandal at all, 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.639 which is just such a good feeling for one. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.680 I kind of love it. I love what industry should 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:03.960 I come for next? Minus they're always mining. 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:05.840 By the way, did you see that video on our 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.120 TikTok that blew up the one of us arguing about 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:09.240 cure the fake one? 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:11.440 How many syllables are in it? Can I just say 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.399 we're fucking genius is because we orchestrated that whole thing. 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:16.919 It was fake. Our livings know that that was and 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:18.200 it's in theory argument. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.280 That got me in an argument with Stephen. Why because 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:23.880 Stephen commented on us because he's a speech prithologist. He's like, technically, 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:25.920 it's two syllables because of the vowels and that because 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:27.280 he knows right, he studies language. 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:30.160 But you didn't realize that you also agreed that it 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:32.919 was two syllables before we recorded the video. Yes, no, 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:33.240 I know. 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:35.120 But then Steven's like, I commented on that reel by 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:36.800 the way, Mitchell Coombs is right, and I was like, 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:38.520 oh no, babe, it's a joke. It's actually like if 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:40.560 you're a real lydiot, you'd know. And so then he 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:43.000 deleted his comment and he was He's like, no, I 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:44.800 don't because he wanted to be in on the joke. 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:49.040 He didn't want to explanation. I said, you're you're a beautiful, 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:51.840 gorgeous boy, and you're a genius. Leave it. He's about 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:55.320 one of the only people that agreed that it's two syllables. Cure. Yeah, 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.880 well he's actually studied, so I believe I take his 0:03:57.920 --> 0:03:58.280 word for it. 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.520 But we and everyone said that you were right, even 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:01.800 though that wasn't your syramy. 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:03.440 I actually so funny. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.560 I think it went viral in America, where the vowels 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:06.880 are different to Australia, they. 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:10.040 Say cure, cure, yeah, correct. They also say mirror instead 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:10.680 of me rabbit. 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:12.720 I'm going to in spirt to TikTok. Now, how many 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:13.400 views is it at? 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:19.039 I don't know, sorry on their phone speaker turn up 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:22.200 all the way, I don't, I don't. Oh my god, 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:25.200 one hundred and seventy k it was one hundred and 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:26.880 thirty last time I checked. That's crazy. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:29.359 That's going viral. Kathin Kim's going viral. We've had a 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:29.840 great month. 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:31.479 What profession do you want to slag off? Now we 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:34.760 can go viral again? You know what? Fucking nurses let me. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:40.560 It's a joke, guys, it's a joke. Aged care workers scarce. 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:46.119 You know who's pissed me off? Early? Child care workers, work, 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:53.120 stay at home mom. Don't get me heart surgeons nah No, 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:55.040 I feel like that's kind of niche. There wouldn't be 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:57.800 enough out there to get it. There's not remember that neurologist. 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.600 I'm going to set them off that I just said 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:01.479 that it's a niche. It means it's a hard profession 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.800 to get into specialty. Yeah, should we just do what 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:06.120 we did again and fake it so the people listening 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.400 to this show get it. Isn't that what I said? Yeah? Yeah, 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:10.040 but I mean actually we have a full on like 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:13.839 we act. It can't be any of the things we 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:16.520 just floated, like nurses. I've got an idea. 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:19.360 We make it niche to something that is like, is 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:20.839 not at all going to get us in trouble? 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:24.000 Like you know what, I've had enough of astronauts totally totally. Yeah, 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:28.560 Or it's just me or a baker's. 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:31.400 Go for bakers and then we get all that. Man, 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:34.320 should we just do we get the baker audio total? 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:37.520 That's right, let's just right. No, I'm not Is it 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.680 just me Mitchell? Or the bakers need to get off 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.800 their high Hoh, don't get me started on busy day 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:48.919 in the kitchen? What rolling though finish a long shift 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:50.480 with flour on their nose? 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:52.920 Oh, I know you've just dusted that. I'm there for props. 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:57.920 I've cooked cakes, Betty Crocker. It's not that hard. Oh, 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:04.520 I just piped for hours. So in our loving relationship. Finger, 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:06.560 buton what about this finger? 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:19.000 This finger I feel if you're a Baker, I'm so sorry. Okay, 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:21.360 I'll post that I want I'm not in it. I'm 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:25.720 not in it. By the way, he gave it the 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:30.280 middle finger on TikTok, very short preface. If any Bakers 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:32.160 see that, then come here. He's a big fan of 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:35.719 your work. It doesn't mean look at me. Get Mitch's 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:36.640 errors to emerge. 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.839 You'll see I'm a big Baker fan, especially in my 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:43.520 previous years. I love a finger but too. All right, 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:45.599 welcome to Is it just me? Every week we start 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.360 the saying we slag off an industry worker. Mitch has 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.400 any I have any gym. We don't know each other's. 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:51.080 That's how it works. 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:54.320 Jules rang is joining us in a little bit, but 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:55.960 we will kick off of our edgems first. 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.840 That's recovering party girl on TikTok. You may have seen 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:00.000 a videos have gone very far. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.560 Chatting all things sobriety, but she's not preaching. She's very 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:07.080 honest about it. She will say things like, god, Saturday's 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:08.320 a boring now you know now. 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:08.839 That I'm talked about. 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.360 Yeah, she s'll say things like fuck on miss bottomless 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:13.960 brunch like. She's very honest about the whole journey. She's 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:15.520 been sober for nearly two years. And we'll chat to 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:18.360 her in a bit. But yeah, first first, that's the rule. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:20.840 Do you want to go meet first? Sing her first? 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.200 Mine's dumb as fuck by the way, Bradley, let's go. 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:27.320 Is it just me? 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:33.360 Is the word lunchtime kind of cute? Yeah? But we 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.600 don't use it as adults, really do we? Oh? Yes, 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:40.200 we do lunchtime Like ten News their midday bulletin just 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.120 rebranded to ten News Lunchtime. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:46.440 It's just kind of sweet, Like you just think, God, 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:49.560 human beings are adorable having their lunch in their little 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:51.520 lunch fo Yes, it's. 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:56.440 Time for it's lunchtime for people. Use lunchtime in full seriousness. 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:59.120 I heard the other day this horrible story on the news. 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:00.120 It was like a. 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:03.080 Random man in a park has poured a hot beverage 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:08.040 over a small tile. Was unprovoked attack. It happened around lunchtime. Yeah, 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:09.840 and I was like, well, that just makes it sound 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:12.360 less different, It makes it sound a bit silly. Use 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:16.080 lunchtime an official capacity. I wonder at what point in 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.920 our lives we stop adding time to things. Because if 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:20.480 I were to leave this show right now and I'm 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:21.840 going to go have a nap, you'd be like, okay. 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.480 But if I said, Mitch Jenner, I've got to go naptime, 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:27.880 like you think I'm a fool. I mean, honestly, my 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:31.320 hot stone yin yoga classes I go to that's basically 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:31.920 nap time. 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:37.079 Since when have you done? Ying yang hotstone massage. It's 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:37.600 the best. 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.920 It's basically like nap time at preschool. But they put 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.480 hot stones on your back and you do relaxing poses 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:46.559 and you just hold it for ages. Really not vigorous. 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.079 It's not exercise, not one calories burn. You just lay 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:49.680 there and they put. 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:52.920 Hot rocks on you. That's a shout plates scout, scout, Yes, 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:55.640 can I do it all there? Yeah? 0:08:55.800 --> 0:09:00.120 It's incredible. Sorry, just complete sidebar. I'm impressed by your here. 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.120 We should give it a guy. Hot stone yoga. It's 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:06.040 literally nap time you stand on the stones. No where 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:08.480 are we to get that information? I was quite clear No, 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:11.000 I was to put it on the back, but how 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:17.120 can you nap standing on a stone? Now? 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.600 I'm more mean, you're you're on your back? 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:21.880 Well, it depends there's different poses. 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.439 Go down my dog and whatnot? Now, yeah, slue to 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:24.760 the sun. 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.880 But it's just like nap time. Got it? Does anyone 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:30.000 say dinner time? Anymore? Dinner kids? Dinner time? 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:32.319 You know what we should add? We should add time 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:36.679 to things. Hey, honey, oh, sexy time. I sometimes say that, 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:39.560 I don't really sexy time. 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:44.280 No, would you? I don't think so pound time? No, No, 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:48.280 I like it. I'll never say that. 0:09:48.559 --> 0:09:50.720 What could you add time to I don't know. It's 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.120 pot time. Maybe that's what we start calling the show. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:56.400 Pod time, guys, I mean, typically speaking, we do record 0:09:56.440 --> 0:10:00.800 the episodes of our lunch time. We do. It's like lunchtime. 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:01.079 That's it. 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.360 It is cute, and it also kind of makes it 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:06.560 more novel when you're eating lunch. It's also open to interpretation. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:07.680 It's not very specific. 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:10.440 What if you're a shift work a baker, and you're 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:12.120 kind of jet lag because you've been up since the 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.560 crack at dawn, your lunchtime might be ten thirty am. 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:16.760 True, that's very My dinner time is yeah, very red. 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:18.000 During the night show, it's very hard. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:21.240 Yeah. When through lunchtime, it could be four pm. True. True, 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:23.680 lunchtime it comes from within. It's personally. 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:26.680 So when did this hot liquid over the toddler happen? 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:29.720 Hard to say, yeah, lunchtime, I guess well, I guess that. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:34.439 Was whenever people could have been eating after breakfast, before dinner. 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.720 That's what lunchtime is. But who's lunchtime? It's a good point, 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:43.560 well said, I'm done with that personally do but mine 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:44.720 actually is on a. 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:47.959 Similarvent, very similar. Really, Yeah, you roll at Bradley or 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:48.719 you'll find out. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:55.120 Is it just me? Do you think we need to 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:59.720 bring back out of bounds? That's good. It's one of those. 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.600 Things that you only ever see in primary schools. Remember 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:04.320 when you're on the quadrangle or you're on the silver 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:07.440 seeds and the school rooms were out of bounds. 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:10.600 Yeah, Canteen bought for out of bounds at all times. 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:12.640 Sometimes it was oh well that over with out of 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:14.880 bounds during resets. Yes, you can go at lunch. 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.400 But let me tell you how hard did you respect 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.240 out of bounds? Oh? You but never questioned it? You 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:21.160 would never it was an imaginary line. You would not 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.640 cross out of bounds. You developed critical thinking as adult 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:25.560 and go, how the fuck can they tell me where 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:26.360 to stand? I know. 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:28.360 But the thing is, I was on a walk yesterday, 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:30.400 hot go walk, and I walked past this private school 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:32.000 and I had this big sign that said out of bounds, 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:33.719 and all these kids were just walking around it. 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:35.280 That's magical. 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:38.480 We need to bring terminologies like that into adult life. 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:41.439 Like imagine if you were driving and instead of you know, 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.920 the dumb riding they've got on the concrete, it's like 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:48.240 T two lane, T three clearway, just out of bounds, mate, 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:49.200 and I would not out. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:53.719 Of bounds from three, out of bounds from lunchtime. Maybe not. 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.880 That's a bit confusing. What about you know, in the workplace, 0:11:57.480 --> 0:12:03.079 touching coworkers out of bounds? Odd, It's not the same thing. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.960 It would be like you know how it says authorized 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:11.800 personnel only in like the switch bordroom or something, Mitchell. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:14.440 That's exactly we need to bring out of bound spirit 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:16.959 into our everyday life. America could use it for their 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:20.280 gun their gun control, out of bounds guns. 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.719 By safety, door, do not obstruct. What could that be 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.400 this floor space in front of the door, out of bound. 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:27.520 Out of bounds. You know what else? 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.400 We could bring it? No hat, no play in our 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.319 school today we all listen to that that's so true. 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:35.439 So you could bring that into like, you know, teaching 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:38.240 kids about or adults about men about same sex and 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:43.160 ringing condoms, dumb, no play, no fuck today, and and 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:44.880 all the men are going, I'm with it. 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.120 It still does rhyme. You're right, what weight watchers could 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:53.880 take it on. No fat, no play. No, I don't 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:56.560 have it. I can't say no food today. My god, 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:59.920 Oh no, that's health. But there's no fat, no play. 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:07.120 That's just me. Yeah, no fat today, that's ruel. Will 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:10.640 it depends? Okay, Maybe it's just an out of bounds thing. Yeah, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.400 I just think we really could use it. Out of bounds. 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:14.079 It's fantastic. 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:16.320 I can't remember what my school rules were, but they 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:20.040 were like fucking five. We had like five pillars that 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:23.160 we had to live ya oh, the houses, No, the rules. 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:25.079 Did either of you go to a Catholic school? 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:29.600 Yeah you did. Yeah. I remember being fucking freaked out 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:33.080 when I did a tour of the school before we decided, yeah, 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:35.200 we're gonna move our kids here, because I swapped halfway 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:37.439 through in you four what, from a public to a 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:40.360 gack and they took us around during one of the 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.200 classes and I was like, this is terrifying. 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:46.600 The principal goes, oh, everyone, this is our Mitchell and Mark, 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:50.640 so good afternoon. And they said, good afternoon, Michell and 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:53.199 Mark and may God bless you. And I said, what 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.360 do they have a second verse at Catholic schools? 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:57.400 What the fuck? Where did the n may God bless 0:13:57.440 --> 0:14:00.800 you but come from? That's indoctrination, but that's a bit yeah, 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.199 that's a bit cold. I did not do that. 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:05.400 Oh my god, for every teacher, let's give me a 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.040 teacher name Missus Smith, good. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:10.720 Morning, Missus Smith, and may God bless you everything. 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.520 First of all, the rhythm is completely off right. 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:15.920 It depends on the syllables. The next morning Missus Smith 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:18.719 and may God bless you. 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:23.200 It works better with sake, good morning, mister Chy, may 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:24.040 God bless you. 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.360 Oh wow. Yeah. It was fucking weird. 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:29.040 And I actually, because there was thirty students chanting it 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:30.280 at me, I didn't catch what they said. 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:32.160 So on my first day when I didn't, I was like, 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.240 what's the second birth? I haven't learned it. Do you 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:37.440 guys know the Lord's Prayer? Of course I could not 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:42.120 tell it to you. Well then great, don't I'm not practicing. 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:43.960 So it's fine. I don't want to hear it anyway. 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:52.880 Is it just me? The rude shocks of young adults? Food? Okay, 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:56.640 it's guest time. Yeah, guess or guess yest? I thought, 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:59.000 what my guessing? I hate guesses? Smart enough for quiz 0:14:59.080 --> 0:14:59.680 to the day. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.080 My guess is here in the room, Juelie is here. 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:04.640 But before you even speak, do not speak until I 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:05.200 get your name. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.400 If your mouth is open, closet, think I want to 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.080 get the name wrong. You know this is important to me, 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:12.680 of course it is. Yeah, Please welcome our next guest, 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:17.400 Jules Rangihawa. Wow, how do you go? Did I do it? No? Not? 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.320 It was the vibe I was feeling it. 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:25.520 Is it wrong? Rang ye? Heyuiya oh. I just wasn't 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:29.040 di stinct enough with the band jewels because I was nervous. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:31.920 Even when I say it on TikTok, I get dragged 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:34.000 by my own community. So at the moment, we can 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:35.960 just whatever you feel like. My last name is, we'll 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:36.440 just run with that. 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:38.840 Clearly. I even say it wrong. I think it's a 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:39.480 beautiful name. 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:42.320 I love it. I'm actually going and this is far out. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.480 I'm already getting woo woo in spiritual, which we will. 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:45.120 I love it. 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:47.280 Actually going back there is a lot of power in 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:47.640 a name. 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:50.240 So I was Jewels Rangy. I was Jewels Rangy Hey. 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:52.760 Where I'm going back to Julia Julia dong y heywear 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:55.040 And I'm actually seeing a psychic about it on Wednesday 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.120 because she really says you should go back to your 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.440 birth name because it has the most power for your 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:00.320 life's future. 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:04.240 Wow. So I to change it from Julia. Legally it 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:05.080 was always Julia. 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:09.640 It was j u l Z in Perth when I 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:10.640 was at my peak addiction. 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.400 Isn't that funny? And now, my man, it was ju Ellie. 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:15.920 That's when I came to Sydney. Everyone was a bit 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:17.640 more cooler here and now it's going. 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:18.560 Back to I like that. 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:21.360 You need to give some context, Julia. It's also so 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.640 royal and regal. People can get you on TikTok. What's 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:26.000 your what's your handle on TikTok? 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:27.520 Recovering party girl? Wow? 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:29.800 So what is the story of your TikTok journey? Because 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.640 your videos go viral. Mitch first introduced me to you, 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:34.960 I had like a sober period. I think Mitch is like, 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:37.120 you need to follow follow this chick. So before like 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:39.880 a year, didn't come from any addiction or anything like that. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:41.480 But for me it was great for my mental health 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:45.280 and whatever. But you what is your journey and what 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:47.080 was the journey to TikTok and being here on the 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:47.520 show now? 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:50.880 Yes, so look on paper, I was an alcoholic, but 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.480 I hate telling people that because straight away when I 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:55.520 say that, they think of me as other And I 0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:57.760 could never be like that, right, like that's the person 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:00.080 in the street drinking out of the brown bag. But 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.920 for me, it was bending once or tits a week, 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.399 drinking every night. And when I say drinking every night, 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:08.240 it's like no two or three glasses. But yeah, definitely 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:09.080 that binge drinking. 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:11.600 Can you define bender? Bender? 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:15.000 Start at bottomless brunch, then we'll go to kick Ons 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:16.760 at like four pm, which that in itself is a 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:18.800 bit sad, right, and then you go to the club 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.200 and from the club it's another kick Ons and then yeah, 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:23.720 basically stay awake until about eight pm the next day. 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:27.520 The next day, I couldn't do that even with substances. 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:28.879 My body let me do it. 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:32.040 I was so hectic, Like I'm the one who was 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:34.919 doing cartwheels around like I never wanted the bender to end, 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:38.040 like I'm doing egg and spoon races cartwheels soon. 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.160 How did you get so funny? 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:43.000 They need to do like an Olympics just for people 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:46.600 who are fucked up? Is that like a drug term 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:50.680 or you're talking about a people are starting to be like, 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:52.320 oh maybe I should go home and like. 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:54.800 Eggs. 0:17:56.720 --> 0:18:00.960 Yeah, drinking almost every night that I was drinking to 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:04.720 excess every night, but you know, like the classic Australian home, 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:07.720 like having a few wines at dinner. I was at 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:10.000 a dead end job. Me and my partner were fighting 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:12.520 every time we drank, and like I'm talking like screaming 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.960 matches down Oxford Street, like so embarrassing, dead end job, 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:19.879 bad relationship. I was in a sharehouse where we had 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:22.000 like mold and everything, and I was thinking what can 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:24.320 I change in my life? Like what is the most 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:27.280 obvious toxic thing? And I changed the job and I 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.960 changed everything else, and I still was like had the 0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:33.200 worst luck. I was hungover. I was sleep walking throughout 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:36.080 my whole life. You know, when like we know hangovers, right, 0:18:36.200 --> 0:18:40.080 so imagine being too well, Yeah about being hungover three 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:42.359 to four times a week, Like your life's just not 0:18:42.440 --> 0:18:43.400 going to go anywhere. 0:18:43.680 --> 0:18:43.880 Yeah. 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:46.879 So I woke up one day and I thought, I 0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:50.560 want to give myself one year to try and chase 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:53.000 after my dreams, just to try and give like the 0:18:53.119 --> 0:18:55.080 media thing a crack. I'm just going to try and 0:18:55.200 --> 0:18:57.520 if it doesn't work out, I'll go back to just 0:18:57.600 --> 0:19:00.320 being like a nine to five admin, which no shame, right, 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.000 no shame. But I just thought, I just want to 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:04.600 give myself the best chance in life, and that for 0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:07.280 me was no substances, no alcohol. 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:09.359 So you said it from the a year of no 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:12.320 drink one year? Is that not a big goal? Wouldn't 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:14.040 you be like, Oh, I'll start with a week. 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.800 Funny enough, I actually had to tell my friends because 0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:18.760 they were the ones that were shocked because I was 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:21.480 the bender queen right like, I was the best time ever. 0:19:22.119 --> 0:19:23.920 So I actually told them, oh, I'm just going to 0:19:23.960 --> 0:19:27.399 do dry January, and even then they were shocked, so 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:30.920 I got, oh, fuck, come, I don't know, Yeah, that 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:33.440 was crazy. I knew in my heart of hearts I 0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:36.040 would do one year, and all of the sober creators 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:38.320 who I followed at the time blessed them. They were 0:19:38.440 --> 0:19:41.040 always middle aged who like and they were like, oh, 0:19:41.040 --> 0:19:42.719 I've been sober for ten years and this is how 0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:44.560 you can do it. And I was like, great, Like 0:19:44.640 --> 0:19:46.200 we all did drugs in the sixties. I'm sure, like 0:19:46.280 --> 0:19:48.040 I don't want to learn from that. Like where are 0:19:48.080 --> 0:19:50.800 the girls who at totties at two pm and want 0:19:50.800 --> 0:19:52.920 to get railed in the sun dress, you know, like those. 0:19:52.760 --> 0:19:54.000 Of my painting in this room? 0:19:55.760 --> 0:19:58.040 Like where are just city girls who just don't want 0:19:58.080 --> 0:19:59.919 to drink? But it just seemed to be these extreme 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:03.119 creators that were like, just get out there, get into nature. 0:20:03.200 --> 0:20:04.280 Wow. And I was like, WHOA. 0:20:04.920 --> 0:20:06.640 So I just picked up the phone and I said, 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:10.760 I've created my whole life around drinking. My whole personality 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:12.719 is based off the person who I am when I'm 0:20:12.800 --> 0:20:16.600 drinking and follow my journey. And they watched me detox, 0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:19.320 they watched me cry after therapy like they've been through 0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:19.840 it all with me. 0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:22.199 So it's interesting that you told your friends you were 0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:24.520 doing it, because haven't you since said on TikTok, don't 0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:26.639 tell anyone if you're going to quit drinking, Just don't. 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:27.040 Don't. 0:20:27.160 --> 0:20:29.920 I think if you are known as like the good 0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:31.760 time girl, and I think when I say that, you 0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:34.000 all think of like one person right where you're like, oh, 0:20:34.040 --> 0:20:35.720 they're always a fucking lose time. 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:37.800 You're like, oh, god, is she going to be there? 0:20:37.840 --> 0:20:38.960 That's going to be a big night, right. 0:20:39.160 --> 0:20:41.600 Exactly, we all had that one person, and we all 0:20:41.680 --> 0:20:43.960 go to that person for our big night. So when 0:20:44.320 --> 0:20:46.200 we're at our big night, and if I'm that big 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:48.560 person to you and I say I don't think I'm 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:49.600 going to drink tonight. 0:20:49.400 --> 0:20:52.080 What do you do? You go, Oh, come on, it's 0:20:52.119 --> 0:20:52.879 my what are your men? 0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:56.880 It's you exactly, And often in your early days of sobriety, 0:20:57.160 --> 0:20:59.000 you don't have that confidence and you don't have that 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:02.120 conviction to be like, I'm not drinking, so you fall 0:21:02.200 --> 0:21:02.520 into it. 0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:06.240 So you pretend to drink. What's the advisor's I have to. 0:21:06.240 --> 0:21:08.560 Have something in my hand. I mean, I wouldn't say, like, 0:21:08.640 --> 0:21:10.000 go to the vapes or six or something. 0:21:10.560 --> 0:21:13.000 You were CoA zero girl, I like, Lily, Oh my god, 0:21:13.080 --> 0:21:15.480 that was my biggest hack. I would just down the cokes, 0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:17.120 little bit of lime, still. 0:21:17.160 --> 0:21:20.160 Have something in my hand, so I would still go out. 0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:22.120 To be fair, I did hibernate for like the first 0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:22.560 six months. 0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:24.840 I'm gonna say it'd be tricky to hang out with 0:21:25.000 --> 0:21:26.920 people when they're drinking and not yeah, and we'd be 0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:28.679 so tempted to be tempted. 0:21:28.800 --> 0:21:31.040 I'm such a yes and a wo girl, so like 0:21:31.240 --> 0:21:32.959 I would be scared if i'd quick with my arm, 0:21:33.680 --> 0:21:34.880 I might get blown into the pub. 0:21:35.040 --> 0:21:38.920 As at the moment, well, so are you currently sober? 0:21:39.320 --> 0:21:42.080 Yehill six hundred and four days. So we thought that 0:21:42.119 --> 0:21:45.600 would well established no sober for a year. I didn't 0:21:45.600 --> 0:21:46.760 know if that was the thing you were doing. Then 0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:47.800 you were winning back on to it. 0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:51.679 So as the year ended last year, you guys will understand, right. 0:21:51.800 --> 0:21:54.240 So I was used to being podcasting. I have always 0:21:54.280 --> 0:21:56.600 tried my hand and it always had really bad luck. 0:21:56.800 --> 0:22:01.280 The moment I went sober, inspired, unemployed, reaching like two 0:22:01.359 --> 0:22:03.600 broke chicks for each out pedestrian wanted me to do 0:22:03.680 --> 0:22:06.240 them rate at first Sight podcast I hosted Be on 0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:07.840 the Valley, Like what. 0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:10.399 All these opportunities came here? With that where you're come 0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:12.080 in with the woo wooth stuff. You're like, it's meant 0:22:12.119 --> 0:22:12.280 to be. 0:22:12.520 --> 0:22:17.520 It's ex everything aligns once you go sober, everything that 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:19.800 you were supposed to have starts aligning. 0:22:19.880 --> 0:22:22.439 It is crazy. So now at the end of to. 0:22:22.520 --> 0:22:24.640 Answer your question, Mitch, at the end of the year, 0:22:25.040 --> 0:22:27.240 I thought, why the fuck would I jeopardize this good 0:22:27.320 --> 0:22:29.840 luck just so I can be lead again, And like, 0:22:29.960 --> 0:22:32.560 now I don't even really see the positives. Obviously, I 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:37.280 missed that drunken camaraderie and that passport of acceptance that 0:22:37.400 --> 0:22:38.200 alcohol gives you. 0:22:38.400 --> 0:22:40.920 But it is so not worth how good my life's gone. 0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:43.080 Well, like you said before, I think the person you 0:22:43.160 --> 0:22:45.720 are when you're drinking is actually not the real version 0:22:45.720 --> 0:22:47.600 of yourself. And if you're stuck in a state like 0:22:47.680 --> 0:22:49.440 that twenty four to seven and you're in a relationship 0:22:49.560 --> 0:22:51.639 like that that is toxic, you would have such a 0:22:51.720 --> 0:22:54.399 warped sense of self and identity. So you're really falling 0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:56.639 in love with this new version of yourself truly. 0:22:56.800 --> 0:22:59.280 And that's why it's also so hard to give up alcohol, 0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:01.639 right because a lot of the time, all the qualities 0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:03.920 that I was celebrated for was when I was lit, 0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:06.200 So it was like being the crazy woo girl and like, 0:23:06.359 --> 0:23:08.480 oh my god, you're so outgoing. And I remember, even 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:10.960 with an ex partner who like cemented this for me. 0:23:11.200 --> 0:23:13.400 I remember coming home it was only like a year 0:23:13.400 --> 0:23:15.080 before I went sober, so I must have kind of 0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:17.800 been a little sober curious. I didn't tell anyone, and 0:23:17.880 --> 0:23:19.520 I came home. We just had a huge night out 0:23:19.520 --> 0:23:21.040 and sitting on his bed and I said, I don't 0:23:21.080 --> 0:23:24.000 think I can do this anymore. Like I don't think 0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:26.080 drinkings for me. I think I've just made a fool 0:23:26.080 --> 0:23:28.399 of myself again. I don't think drinkings for me, and 0:23:28.760 --> 0:23:31.920 I really want some help. And this guy goes, WHOA, 0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:34.919 the vibes are so low in here, let's just get. 0:23:36.880 --> 0:23:36.920 So. 0:23:37.040 --> 0:23:39.560 What he was saying is no, no, no, like that's 0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:41.639 not for you, your jewels, the Woo girl, and that 0:23:41.840 --> 0:23:43.600 just like kept me bendering for another year. 0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:46.320 You still have all your Woo girl friends around? Or 0:23:46.560 --> 0:23:49.320 is being sober changed that you lose all your friends? 0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:52.760 Really, I'm such a sober advocate, but you your best 0:23:52.840 --> 0:23:56.399 friends remain and you Actually, one of my biggest regrets 0:23:56.440 --> 0:23:58.840 is how I treated them throughout those fifteen years. Yeah, 0:23:59.040 --> 0:24:02.840 being addicted because I was a really shitty friend. Your 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:06.320 best friends remain, and fuck they are rock solid. Like, oh, 0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:08.879 I owe my life to those girls. But all your 0:24:08.960 --> 0:24:11.200 friends or even people you think are your close friends, 0:24:11.400 --> 0:24:12.480 now you'll never see them again. 0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:15.640 This is what I enjoy about your sobriety journey because 0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:17.600 some people can be a bit preachy, you know, they're like, 0:24:17.640 --> 0:24:17.960 oh my. 0:24:18.000 --> 0:24:20.120 God, it's the best gift you can give yourself. 0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:23.480 But you also talk about like you'll admit, well, life's 0:24:23.480 --> 0:24:25.960 a little bit boring. Now you'd say that there's bad 0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:28.920 things that come with it, but overwhelmingly an advocate of course, 0:24:29.000 --> 0:24:29.400 of course. 0:24:29.480 --> 0:24:30.840 But yeah, the monotony. 0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:33.879 I was not prepared for that every day, and I 0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:37.960 realize I'm such a serious person. Yes I love to joke, 0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:40.320 but I'm not a silly goofy goo. And I think 0:24:40.560 --> 0:24:43.560 I loved that about my drunken self. So, like Mitch 0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:46.160 was saying before, when you're discovering who you are again, 0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:48.560 sometimes you don't even really like that person. 0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:49.200 It's crazy. 0:24:49.400 --> 0:24:52.200 I also remember at one point you mentioned like three 0:24:52.320 --> 0:24:54.879 things that I'm not ashamed to admit it's about being so. 0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:57.240 But one of them was I was actually hotter when 0:24:57.280 --> 0:24:58.520 I was a drunken beer What. 0:24:58.600 --> 0:25:01.600 Do you what do you mean crazy hot guys? Well, 0:25:01.600 --> 0:25:03.840 because I was bending like at least twice a week, 0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:12.800 so that's not eat TikTok on my old photos when 0:25:12.840 --> 0:25:15.920 I was in peak bender and everyone was like, maybe 0:25:15.920 --> 0:25:16.840 you should go back. 0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:20.800 Funny, funny, funny. I was just like I had this 0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:22.480 like little foddy body. 0:25:22.680 --> 0:25:24.760 And because you're running around night clubs, I was wearing 0:25:24.840 --> 0:25:28.160 like bikinis in the club. I was just crazy stunning. 0:25:28.720 --> 0:25:29.720 You just don't know it at the time. 0:25:29.800 --> 0:25:31.960 But wait, we had to be shallow for it. Sexually, 0:25:32.040 --> 0:25:35.280 you've noticed vain things about being sober, like skin or 0:25:35.400 --> 0:25:37.520 hair or something. Your liver doesn't want to fall out. 0:25:38.119 --> 0:25:38.760 That's a good sign. 0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:44.920 Liver kidneys amazing. The mental clarity is crazy. But I 0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:47.440 need to like warn people because this is something I 0:25:47.520 --> 0:25:50.040 was shocked with. You gain weight because you are now 0:25:50.080 --> 0:25:51.040 addicted to sugar. 0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:53.760 So it's a swamp. It's a swap of addiction. 0:25:53.920 --> 0:25:56.760 Yeah, because instead of having your wines every night or 0:25:56.880 --> 0:25:59.359 your champagne at two pm on a Saturday, you're like 0:25:59.480 --> 0:26:03.720 eating so so much. My skin actually broke out, so 0:26:04.560 --> 0:26:07.040 and yeah, you cry a lot. So you're fat, You've 0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:08.119 got acne and you cry a lot. 0:26:08.960 --> 0:26:09.720 Get prepared for that. 0:26:09.960 --> 0:26:12.800 Is it like specifically sugar, because I remember, I feel 0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:14.680 like it might just be another vice that you need 0:26:14.720 --> 0:26:15.440 if you're not drinking. 0:26:15.440 --> 0:26:16.720 Because I did drive July. 0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:18.760 Once and I was like, look at me, go, I'm 0:26:18.800 --> 0:26:20.920 not drinking, but I feel like I was craving some 0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:22.600 other guilty pleasures. 0:26:22.680 --> 0:26:26.000 I took up smoking during drive your line. I'm like, 0:26:26.160 --> 0:26:27.320 I'm a picture of help. 0:26:28.119 --> 0:26:29.840 This is back at UNI when I was drinking all 0:26:29.880 --> 0:26:32.439 the time. I had like a goom bag under my beds, 0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:35.280 you know, and so but jewels. But at this point 0:26:35.320 --> 0:26:37.280 I was like, I'm doing drive you lit, but let's 0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:39.440 take up smoking. How fuck an ironic? But I reckon, 0:26:39.480 --> 0:26:41.840 there's something in that, like you need another vice. 0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:44.840 There's something in that. And you mean, sure, apparently mine 0:26:44.920 --> 0:26:46.800 sugar and we'll touch on the wooo. But I'm currently 0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:50.680 in like a four week hypnotism, Like I'm trying to 0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:53.280 get hypnotized to see because I said, I'm always chasing 0:26:53.320 --> 0:26:56.280 a high, whether that be sugar or drugs or alcohol. 0:26:56.359 --> 0:26:58.400 I need that dopamine Barry's boot cap. 0:26:58.520 --> 0:27:00.919 So you're being hypnotized. So have you had it yet? 0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:03.800 Yes, So I've had my initial call. It's for well, 0:27:03.840 --> 0:27:05.560 that was for an hour. And then she sends you 0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:08.359 a tailored thirty minute hypnotism. Her name is Rachel Crether. 0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:10.879 She's based in Sydney. A thirty minute hypnotism and I 0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:12.680 have to listen to that every day, which I do, 0:27:13.240 --> 0:27:15.960 and then she checks in every like twice a week. 0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:20.920 I've been hypnotized for what for terrific trauma. My whole 0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:24.080 family are like weight loss, weight and being overweight is 0:27:24.880 --> 0:27:27.159 just like so scary for the Cheery family. It's bizarre, 0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:29.680 my whole family. I was on the lemon detox diet 0:27:29.680 --> 0:27:31.960 at six, like I was fat and paprika and lemon juice. 0:27:32.000 --> 0:27:33.920 At primary school, Mum had me on weight watchers. Like 0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:36.400 that's just it's just the family dynamic. So my dad 0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:38.480 took all my family to be hypotized to lose weight 0:27:38.600 --> 0:27:41.080 to be skinny, which isn't even fucking possible. 0:27:41.280 --> 0:27:41.920 It didn't work. 0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:44.080 I was the heaviest I've ever been after it. Yeah, 0:27:44.200 --> 0:27:48.040 but it just didn't work for me. But yeah, look 0:27:48.080 --> 0:27:49.800 after yourself with the hypnotism, because I don't know, it 0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:50.199 didn't work. 0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:53.640 More sensible. It's not like a one stop shop. Yeah, 0:27:53.680 --> 0:27:55.720 like it's a commitment by the sounds of it. Yeah, 0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:56.720 I am so with you. 0:27:56.760 --> 0:27:58.960 And I've actually just done a video about that, saying 0:27:59.320 --> 0:28:01.960 my binge I now realized that I'm a binge eater 0:28:02.040 --> 0:28:03.720 because when she was doing the hypnotism. She was asking 0:28:03.760 --> 0:28:05.720 me all of these questions and I got ten out 0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:08.480 of ten for bingeating and emotional eating. So there was 0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:10.480 something there that I'm clearly chasing. 0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:12.440 Was it always like that? Or is that maybe replace 0:28:12.560 --> 0:28:13.080 the alcohol? 0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:15.000 I'm with Mitch where I come from a family. I'm 0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:16.640 a Polynesian who grew in Perth. 0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:19.040 So that's like puberty blues, so like stuck out like 0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:21.080 a sore thar right, and really overweight. 0:28:21.119 --> 0:28:23.760 I was five foot ten in and like ninety kilos 0:28:23.800 --> 0:28:27.040 in year eight and I realized that my quick acceptance 0:28:27.320 --> 0:28:28.439 of me was drinking. 0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:30.359 All the cool kids were doing it. I could do it. 0:28:30.680 --> 0:28:32.560 So I think there is some like trauma with me 0:28:32.720 --> 0:28:33.720 too linked totally. 0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:36.440 Do you think there is a people have a predisposition, 0:28:36.560 --> 0:28:39.440 whether it be chemically or genetically with addiction, Because for 0:28:39.520 --> 0:28:42.960 me getting rid of alcohol, I mean luckily, I didn't struggle. 0:28:43.120 --> 0:28:45.400 I found it easy. I didn't like love it beforehand. 0:28:45.440 --> 0:28:47.280 I would go out and I would drinkle a lot. 0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:49.240 And I'm six 't three, I was one hundred and 0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:51.480 sixty kilos. I needed a lot of alcohol to get drunk. 0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:53.800 Even going out with me like I'd have to, I'd 0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:55.600 sober up in half an hour, Like I, oh, yeah, 0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:58.640 I really needed to keep drinking, so I needed a lot, 0:28:58.720 --> 0:29:01.160 But I found it very easy to cut. But I 0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.200 feel like I've got friends and family members who have 0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:06.160 struggling with this, the addiction gene. 0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.440 I think it's real, right, which is why I'm like, 0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:11.960 fuck mey, how has it nearly been two years for you? Like, 0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:14.240 surely in the early days of quitting, you had to, 0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.520 like every time there was a drink on off, I 0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:20.040 give yourself a pep talk active not today, not today, babes. Yeah. 0:29:20.120 --> 0:29:22.440 So if we were sitting in this situation now, if 0:29:22.480 --> 0:29:24.800 I'm talking to you, I'm thinking, don't look at her drink, 0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:26.200 don't look at her drink, don't look at her drink. 0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:28.200 And then I'm thinking, how fast is that person? It 0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:32.000 consumes your whole hole even to this day. No, Now, 0:29:32.280 --> 0:29:34.800 the further you get away from your last drink, it 0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:37.160 just becomes a less a less event. 0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:39.520 Wow. Crazy, And then you document this on TikTok. You 0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:40.760 still posting your tiktoks. 0:29:40.880 --> 0:29:43.400 Yeah, So now I don't do as much daily updates because, 0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:45.200 like I just said, like, the further you are away 0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:46.800 from it, the less it's like a non, I really 0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:48.719 don't think about it anymore, which is such a blessing, 0:29:48.760 --> 0:29:51.080 and I feel like, yeah, I've come so far and I'm. 0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:52.400 So grateful and proud. 0:29:52.600 --> 0:29:55.040 But now people a lot of people ask me questions. 0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:57.800 There are so many people struggling out there, so many 0:29:57.880 --> 0:30:01.400 lonely people too that are struggling. So I also answer 0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.160 questions or like three reasons for three reasons why I 0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:06.320 quit drinking, or three reasons that you should look out for. 0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:09.320 I'm definitely not a therapist. It's just someone who has 0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:10.040 been through the ringer. 0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:11.880 I actually want to ask the question about one of 0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:15.360 your tiktoks, speaking of therapy, I saw one recently where 0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:17.880 you were saying like, I don't like the sit down. 0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:20.760 Talk it out sort of therapy. You said, I'm a bit. 0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:23.000 Woo woo, and I was like, oh, oh, I want 0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:26.200 to know by attention because I I've done a lot 0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:28.200 of sit down talkie talking therapy and I don't know 0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:29.520 if I necessarily connect with it. 0:30:29.680 --> 0:30:31.360 I'm not even listening to what she's saying. And I'm like, 0:30:31.400 --> 0:30:34.520 I'm paying for advice, my mom. What accents when they 0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:37.360 woo woo style of therapy? What are we talking? Oh? Guys. 0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:38.320 So this is a thing. 0:30:38.400 --> 0:30:40.720 Once you've become sober, you have so much time on 0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:43.520 your hands and you have a lot more money. So 0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:46.640 I estimated that I would have probably spent about I said, 0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.600 one hundred and forty K on alcohol in my lifetime. 0:30:50.480 --> 0:30:51.120 Just alcohol. 0:30:51.520 --> 0:30:54.000 So imagine the pack party favors. But I reckon it'll 0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.840 be like two fifty k easy, easy inside party. And 0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.120 that's before the taxis And I actually can't because I 0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:01.720 don't want to give myself. So you Yeah, so this 0:31:01.840 --> 0:31:04.320 thing happens where you become so spiritual when you go 0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:05.440 so because you really want to. 0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:07.320 Figure out like who out of boro? 0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:09.880 I guess out of boredom, and more so like who 0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:11.960 am I? Why am I the way that I am? 0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:16.760 So I've done like womb healing, kundalini, hypnotism. 0:31:16.320 --> 0:31:17.080 In a child. 0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:19.720 Wow, I will follow people yet with blind faith. 0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:22.200 Have you done reiki? Of course? Did you like reiki? 0:31:22.360 --> 0:31:23.200 I love reiki? Yeah? 0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:27.080 I did break Yeah, yeah, definitely a little Woo'll try. 0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:30.640 Something I've ever done? Like, have you done any we 0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.800 woo of therapy? Not really, I've done reiki, And again 0:31:33.840 --> 0:31:35.680 I thought, this is a load of ship. It's someone's 0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:37.880 hands near me, but I was like, I really felt 0:31:37.920 --> 0:31:43.040 that healing warmth that actually worked. Thanks for that. My 0:31:43.160 --> 0:31:45.600 neck was saw before, but I'm great now. The other 0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:48.360 oh my god wow. Or we should get Mitchell into it. 0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.040 Maybe we should do something on the show. We should 0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:51.680 do like a I don't know what's. 0:31:51.400 --> 0:31:53.600 The most woo I want to do as well to 0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.000 do what's what's a good gateway into woo woo? 0:31:56.400 --> 0:32:00.240 Oh? Probably like a tarot pool. Someone does tarot for. 0:32:00.320 --> 0:32:02.720 You, as in like a legit one other than just 0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:04.719 my friends doing it because they think they're good at time. 0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:06.960 You get a legit one. Yeah, oh okay, if we 0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:09.240 want to talk really it commits. 0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:10.720 To the bit. Yeah, got beans on the. 0:32:10.760 --> 0:32:13.560 Wall, total crystal ball to have a scarf around their 0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:14.960 head like full next level. 0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:16.960 Yeah yeah yeah. If we want to commit to the bit, 0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:19.240 we can do like angel cards, Mitch, we can. 0:32:19.240 --> 0:32:22.040 Do what's an angel? Can you do these readings like 0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:22.800 an angel card? 0:32:23.160 --> 0:32:23.280 Oh? 0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:25.640 You just have to have a deck because whatever card 0:32:25.680 --> 0:32:27.760 you get was always is meant for you, So you 0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:29.719 just pull it and instead of like taro is very 0:32:29.800 --> 0:32:32.560 much like you're going da a bitch, whereas angel cards 0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:34.680 are like you know, maybe take precaution. 0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:38.280 They're really lovely. I see. Yeah. You're not using those 0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:42.440 angel cards to chop anything up these days, are you? Yeah? 0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:46.400 Those days are long gone. Grail Toddies, don't worry, you 0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:48.320 don't undress. 0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:54.600 Believe me? Is it just me? You should follow these 0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:59.960 idiots online search a couple of mitches jewels here, Julie, 0:33:00.120 --> 0:33:02.640 I should say, yeah, a corver partgir on TikTok as well, 0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:07.080 name apologies. Julia is very in right now, Charlie X. 0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:11.480 You so, Julius And I'm obsessed with Julia the ultimate 0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:12.000 Julia Fox. 0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:14.360 She's so great. I'm obsessed as well. Well, you're a 0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:16.320 guest on the show, so we need to do with 0:33:16.400 --> 0:33:17.600 you what we do with every guest, and that is 0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:18.840 to happen. Is it just you of your own? 0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:21.440 Something you have noticed, something you hate or appreciate. 0:33:21.600 --> 0:33:24.000 I've come prepared, I've got two Oh tell you perfect 0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:25.280 by Yeah? 0:33:25.800 --> 0:33:29.160 Is Shedan came with like twenty seven We're like wrapp 0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:30.640 it by Bitch was just. 0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:31.160 Like, is it just me? 0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:34.000 Or do you love my Jimmy Choo shoes? Well for Dan, 0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:37.960 that's not don't know. I need validation, okay, Bradley go 0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:38.920 for Jules. 0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:47.240 Let's go. Is it just me our weddings? Cringey? Oh 0:33:48.280 --> 0:33:50.320 do you hate love? Jills? So she puts down the 0:33:50.360 --> 0:33:53.040 bottle and all of a sudden, she's a screaming of love. 0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.480 I'm such a hater. I just find them so cringe. 0:33:56.560 --> 0:33:59.560 I just the whole house deposit to pay off a wedding. 0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:03.880 I think it's so I think it's so cringe, like 0:34:04.080 --> 0:34:06.560 the first dance being a flash mob when these people 0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:09.759 wouldn't even say boo in real life. I feel like 0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:12.839 they are so off brand from the couple. And if 0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:15.160 I see one more TikTok being like five things me 0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:16.840 and my husband are doing that no one else is 0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:19.120 doing and it's the most basic shit in the world. 0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:22.080 We were perspective, Why is that in your feet? Is 0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:23.919 that a sign? Is that a sign? 0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:27.279 No, my partner's not allowed to propose to me until 0:34:27.320 --> 0:34:29.239 he's thirty, because I don't think you make good life 0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:30.200 decisions in your twenties. 0:34:31.000 --> 0:34:34.000 Is your partner twenty six? How old are you thirty? 0:34:34.239 --> 0:34:38.120 Or hot? Yeah? Yeah, yeah? We had a Puftorf actually. 0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:41.280 Start of every break straight love story. 0:34:41.560 --> 0:34:44.399 Yes, no, I would argue that that is the perfect way, 0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:46.840 like to me a good straight man. Yeah, to do 0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:47.560 it at Pufftoff. 0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:50.240 Yeah, he's such like little feminists pro everything. 0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:52.120 I love that. 0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:54.480 And we went sober to get like, yeah, we've been 0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:57.120 through every sto door. So that to me is more 0:34:57.520 --> 0:35:00.319 of an endgame, like the person who we gave up 0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:02.680 our addictions to be together. That to me means more 0:35:02.760 --> 0:35:03.200 than marriage. 0:35:03.200 --> 0:35:06.120 Beautiful, beautiful. We're hard to get him over the line 0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.640 with the let's go sober or was he on board? Fully? 0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:10.640 He would have had to be because my self worth 0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:12.840 was becoming so high that if he didn't shape up 0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:13.440 his ship out. 0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:16.399 Oh okay, wow, Yeah, I'm with you on the wedding. 0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:18.719 Sometimes I'm at a wedding and I'm like, this is 0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:19.879 It's been much. 0:35:19.960 --> 0:35:22.040 But also, like I said before, you've got to commit 0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:23.680 to the bit. If you're having a wedding, just make 0:35:23.760 --> 0:35:25.799 it cringe. Do all the cringere. 0:35:26.880 --> 0:35:28.320 You're going to be the ones that come down in 0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:30.680 a balloon and land in the middle, going. 0:35:30.680 --> 0:35:32.520 To cost a house to prob Jills meet. 0:35:32.600 --> 0:35:34.440 You'll do it on the set of McLeod's Daughters and 0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:37.160 you know how like Mitchell right off into the sunset 0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:38.799 in one of those cars it has the cancers, say 0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:40.719 just married, but it will fall off a cliff and 0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:42.719 then sure and I have to pull him out, and 0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:44.920 then there'll be all the cast of Saddle Club and 0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:46.319 Bridy Card will be the MC. 0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:49.800 I didn't even polse check. Is anyone married? 0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:53.120 No? Is anyone engaged in our twenty throw and we 0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:54.840 don't make decisions like that twenty. 0:35:56.160 --> 0:35:57.839 And you ask if we're in our twenties. 0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:01.359 Oh jenner ism. Okay, well you look like it's she's 0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:05.520 like seventeen husbands, so it's a different story. Have you yeah, 0:36:05.719 --> 0:36:06.520 in your past life? 0:36:07.040 --> 0:36:11.680 Yeah? Yeah, speaking of Wolu, Jenner invented it. She was 0:36:11.680 --> 0:36:13.239 at the Salem which tribes, so. 0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:15.800 We wed that. You're like, oh, okay, I'm connecting with 0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:19.239 you on an astral plane. Yeah. What what's a pulse check? 0:36:19.920 --> 0:36:23.120 Pulse check like a room I need through? Yeah. 0:36:23.920 --> 0:36:26.759 Mitch and I are in relationships but not married. Mitch, 0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:30.640 you'll get there first because our mind's new, newer than Mitch's. 0:36:30.680 --> 0:36:31.680 Mitches just moved in with his part. 0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:32.560 Are you older? 0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:35.440 Yes, yeah, because I feel like people who get in 0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:38.600 relationships older, like they're the ones that just go oh married. 0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:40.400 I know, but my new partner's twenty two and I'm 0:36:40.440 --> 0:36:42.760 twenty eight, So then you go, where do you get? 0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:48.320 We met on an app whench ap rhymes with rinder. Okay, 0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:50.480 but we were getting we want to get dinner, get 0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:52.600 frozen yogurt. I was newly single, and I'm like, I 0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:53.920 don't know if I want to hook up board get 0:36:53.920 --> 0:36:55.879 it grinder and you know, I'll see if anyone wants 0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:56.680 to go on dates through grinder? 0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:57.840 Make you want to get frozen yogurt? 0:36:58.120 --> 0:37:00.960 They sounds so fake, it's real. Listening to this, I'm like. 0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:07.160 Sure Steven's mother listens. It's actually true. I was like, Wow, 0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:07.719 compared to. 0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:10.520 The usual feel that happens on Grinder, I can't believe 0:37:10.560 --> 0:37:12.040 that you've got such a wholesome date out of it. 0:37:12.080 --> 0:37:15.239 That's true. Yeah, what's his starsign? Starsigan is cancer? Oh? 0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:18.000 I love a cat beautiful, really tough of me outside, 0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:20.560 but so soft and so very cure. I'm a libra, 0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:24.520 so very diplomatic. You're always like what's Fair's fair? Completely 0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:25.360 are quite boring? 0:37:25.400 --> 0:37:28.640 Though? Are you boring? They're quiet? Like I also, I'm 0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:31.040 very no. I don't know, I wouldn't sound boring. 0:37:32.040 --> 0:37:34.880 Well, no one else is agreeing something I want to savor. 0:37:35.120 --> 0:37:35.840 I don't say boring. 0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:39.719 I definitely am like an introvert that has an extrovert job, 0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:41.600 so I kind of have to be an extrovert. But 0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:44.920 I very much like being alone and having my own space. 0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:46.880 It's because he has to recover from being the class 0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:49.200 clown all day totally to be the center of attention. 0:37:49.320 --> 0:37:50.719 But then also I love to not you know, I 0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:53.359 really love to blend in hate like posting to social media. 0:37:53.480 --> 0:37:55.440 Really it annoys me, and I really don't love doing 0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:57.840 all that side of things. Yeah, that's why radio podcasting 0:37:57.920 --> 0:37:59.480 is great for me, because it's like I can just sit, 0:38:00.040 --> 0:38:01.360 how I can be like dance monkey, and then I 0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:01.799 can leave. 0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:05.439 You know. But cancer and libra traditionally not meant to work. 0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:09.879 No, they're not, which I'm surprised that, but I love. Yeah, 0:38:09.880 --> 0:38:11.759 I just think cancer men. Have you ever had bad 0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:13.160 experiences with star signs? 0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:14.239 I don't think. 0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:17.880 Yeah, I've every person that I've dated or like had 0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:20.320 a potential thing with has been a gay male pisces. 0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:24.719 Oh my god, that's so emotional. Yeah, that's so emotional. 0:38:24.960 --> 0:38:26.320 I look like you have all the traits off the 0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:28.200 top of your head. You're a leo. 0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:30.760 Yeah, oh so you like the center of attention? 0:38:31.200 --> 0:38:37.359 No, yes, no, yes, no, not at all. 0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:39.120 I would have like a panic attack if I had 0:38:39.160 --> 0:38:42.440 to speak in front of the Yeah, but now now 0:38:42.560 --> 0:38:44.640 you do. Yeah, that's very different. But it's not like 0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:48.120 my natural element. Yeah, I have to psych myself up 0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:48.680 before I do it. 0:38:48.760 --> 0:38:51.040 Comedy show, Whenever someone thinks of you, they're like, oh, 0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:53.480 does he like being the center of attention? And I'm like, 0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:56.920 why it generates me? Well, no, he really doesn't. No, 0:38:57.120 --> 0:38:57.719 it doesn't lie. 0:38:57.800 --> 0:39:00.400 It's just the persona that's as you can do it all. Mean, 0:39:00.480 --> 0:39:02.480 it's it's something that you're not afraid of doing. 0:39:03.160 --> 0:39:06.000 Oh yeah, after a bit of trial and areas, I'm 0:39:06.000 --> 0:39:07.680 still afraid of it to a degree. But yeah, what 0:39:07.840 --> 0:39:10.920 sean star sign wise, it's one of the ones beginning 0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:14.840 with fucking s he's Sagittarius, I think, I think so 0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:18.600 it's twenty first in November, so sad. Yeah is that 0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:20.400 that I think it is? Yeah, I don't want to 0:39:20.400 --> 0:39:23.879 get it wrong either. Scorpio's end of October, so yeah, yeah, 0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:24.759 yeah that. 0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:27.919 SAJ like to work hard, but then they party hard, 0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:29.480 so they're very like clock on, clock off. 0:39:29.600 --> 0:39:33.080 He does, doesn't he know? You said Sean's going out 0:39:33.160 --> 0:39:33.799 more often? Now? 0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:36.640 Oh well, actually now that I started taking like melotone 0:39:36.680 --> 0:39:39.000 in for sleep and it's really just made every night 0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:39.719 and early night. 0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:43.200 So I gets it really addicted. But it's like good. 0:39:43.400 --> 0:39:46.600 It like regulates your bedtime. You're like natural, it's ten thirty. 0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:48.719 Now I'm tired. Now I'm going to bed. It used 0:39:48.760 --> 0:39:51.000 to be Sean going home early and me being like, 0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:52.799 now I'm going to kick on. Now I'm the one 0:39:52.880 --> 0:39:55.399 being like, I'm falling asleep, standing up, have fun. 0:39:56.560 --> 0:39:58.600 So Sagittaris and Leo, are they meant to work? I 0:39:58.640 --> 0:39:59.960 actually don't know about that pairing. 0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.800 I have not to say about my life all the 0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:06.920 dream couple, so I'm just waiting to get dragged from 0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:08.200 like an actual astrologer. 0:40:08.320 --> 0:40:12.600 I just am obsessed with the theory. Maybe you can 0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:14.080 do this for mit To and I because your queen, 0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:16.480 we will. I think looking at a photo of a couple, 0:40:16.560 --> 0:40:18.000 I can tell if it's going to work. I don't 0:40:18.000 --> 0:40:20.120 know why energy wise. 0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:24.080 Do you believe in black cat Labrador that pairing? So 0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:27.719 apparently the man has to be Labrador energy and the 0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:30.640 woman has to be black cat basically meaning that the 0:40:30.840 --> 0:40:32.880 man loves the woman a little bit more than the 0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:33.920 woman loves the man for. 0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:37.000 It to fully fully work. Wow. So it's like exactly why. 0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:39.719 Apparently that's why they think that Haley Baber and Justin 0:40:39.760 --> 0:40:42.919 will never actually work, because that is exactly black cat 0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:44.640 and Labrador energy. 0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:44.919 Wow. 0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:47.239 Have you had terrible relationships in the past, like, like 0:40:47.520 --> 0:40:48.920 real rough? Do you know what? 0:40:49.160 --> 0:40:52.880 I only I have never really liked straight men, Like 0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:55.920 I was raised only with boys in a real masculine household, 0:40:55.960 --> 0:40:58.239 like I said, Polynesian household, only with brothers. So I 0:40:58.400 --> 0:40:59.879 just never saw the appeal for men. 0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:00.200 You know. 0:41:00.239 --> 0:41:02.320 I never needed that male validation because I was always 0:41:02.320 --> 0:41:04.320 going home to so many men. So I didn't have 0:41:04.360 --> 0:41:06.279 my first boyfriend until I was about twenty one, and 0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:08.520 that lasted for about two and a half years. That 0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:11.399 was terrible, just because my self worth was in the drain. 0:41:11.880 --> 0:41:14.759 And then I just kind of rooted around and lived 0:41:14.840 --> 0:41:17.160 my best hot girl summer for many years. 0:41:17.239 --> 0:41:19.960 Many summers. Yeah, I love that. All right, You've got 0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:22.360 a second? Is it just me? Oh? Yeah shit, sorry, Bradley, 0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:24.680 don't clock off just yet. Here we go. 0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:27.759 Is it just me? 0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:39.839 Is clubbing dead? Controversial opinion. I think, no, it's about 0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:40.839 to come back. Really. 0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:43.560 But okay, let's take into obviously from all the sobriety 0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:46.640 chat the run clubs, like there's a rise and run clubs, 0:41:46.920 --> 0:41:49.520 the cost of living is this is it the end? 0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:50.960 But you don't think so? Why not? Man? 0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:53.040 Well, okay, I don't think so purely because I think 0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:56.359 I think it's different culturally. There's different subcultures. I think 0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:58.520 for gays and for queis it's so back. I think 0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:01.480 Bratt Summer. I think the gays are ready to go back. 0:42:01.320 --> 0:42:03.360 Out and party. I mean I will, I don't. I 0:42:03.400 --> 0:42:06.359 hate clubbing. I hate partying for me way myself too. 0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:08.840 And I'm it's sad to admit because I used to 0:42:08.880 --> 0:42:10.520 be like, yeah, let's go out, that'll be fun. 0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:12.800 Yeah see, I'm speaking not personally. Personally, I love to 0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:14.800 go out, have a nice orange wine, a very fancy dinner. 0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:17.960 I'd rather spend two hundred dollars on a gorgeous meal 0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:20.799 with mood lighting with my partner and then just sit 0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:22.759 there and get like a little you know, tipsy, or 0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:23.759 have some food with my partner. 0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:24.399 That's all I want. 0:42:24.560 --> 0:42:26.640 But I kind of agree with you, Juls, because like 0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:29.160 it was never a discussion between my friends and I. 0:42:29.480 --> 0:42:31.440 We never said let's make a pat to go to 0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:32.160 clubs lets. 0:42:32.239 --> 0:42:33.920 It just kind of happened. We used to do it 0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:36.719 most weekends and now it's like every couple of months. 0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:37.760 Why do you say it, Josh? 0:42:37.840 --> 0:42:40.680 Statistically it is I think it's clubs and Australia are 0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:42.839 down by twenty five or thirty five percent. Please don't 0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:45.320 quote me on that. I think that with the younger 0:42:45.400 --> 0:42:48.080 generation and COVID, I feel like they never kind of 0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:49.600 got that chance. And I think with the rise of 0:42:49.680 --> 0:42:52.839 social media, people are too scared to get fucking lit 0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:53.719 and shit face like. 0:42:53.800 --> 0:42:57.160 We used to your stories and top no down. 0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.280 I used to just like fall down where my Jeffrey 0:42:59.320 --> 0:43:02.239 Campbell platform after I've ordered the Maxi taxi, you know, 0:43:02.640 --> 0:43:05.200 be drinking cooler bar all day, fall down the nightclub stairs, 0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:07.480 bumb it all over myself, and I just didn't. 0:43:07.239 --> 0:43:11.640 Give a fight. You'd end up at a church because 0:43:11.680 --> 0:43:13.120 there was no social media. 0:43:13.239 --> 0:43:15.279 And I feel like with the younger generation, first of all, 0:43:15.280 --> 0:43:18.480 I feel like they skipped their awkward stage. Why are 0:43:18.520 --> 0:43:20.719 all the kids so hot and they can dance so well? 0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:21.600 It's crazy to me. 0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:26.040 I just feel like, maybe, yeah, straight clubbing is rop dead. 0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:29.840 Wow clubbing, I reckon gay clubbing might be heading that 0:43:29.920 --> 0:43:31.120 way too, But we'll see. Who knows. 0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:33.359 I'll put one hundred dollars on it and then we'll 0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:35.000 come back in a year and we'll see is it. 0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:37.959 Maybe I'm just aging out of it because I feel 0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:39.759 too old for it, and also my mellet tone and 0:43:39.840 --> 0:43:42.400 knocks me out. Yeah, I don't even go to a 0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:44.400 club at ten thirty. They wait till eleven thirty. I 0:43:44.560 --> 0:43:46.640 know I aged out of it. And then but when 0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:49.040 I went back, like, I was like, oh, I actually 0:43:49.160 --> 0:43:51.840 like it, like when I'm there in the mindset, and 0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:54.040 I don't even really drink to be honest, when I'm out, 0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:56.720 So it's not the alcohol. Actually, he's actually got modervation 0:43:56.840 --> 0:43:59.840 down Pat. It's so fucking annoying. I wish it. What's moderation. 0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:01.439 It's like you're gonna have one or two and still 0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:03.160 drive home. Oh yeah, I drive everywhere? 0:44:03.200 --> 0:44:06.080 Really, So addiction doesn't run in your family, I'm missing Yeah, yeah, 0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:06.680 yeah that could. 0:44:07.640 --> 0:44:09.600 But alcohol I could love it to leave. 0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:11.360 But my dad runs a liquor company, Like it's in 0:44:11.480 --> 0:44:14.160 the Family's. 0:44:12.920 --> 0:44:14.239 Just so much free booth, and I might. 0:44:14.560 --> 0:44:16.600 That a bit so dangerous for in fact, Juls, that 0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:18.440 money you were talking about a nice house deposit that 0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:21.480 came my way. Thank you, family, My family really benefit. 0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:22.879 We were devastated when you went sober. 0:44:23.760 --> 0:44:25.080 Now one more thing we need from you. 0:44:25.200 --> 0:44:27.840 I feel like you might actually be the perfect person 0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:30.080 to contribute to this list, don't you think, Mitch? Oh 0:44:30.160 --> 0:44:32.319 my god, Yes, we've got a running list that every 0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:34.239 single guest of ours has contributed to. 0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:37.000 It's called the List of Things better than drugs and 0:44:37.200 --> 0:44:39.399 Dick correct drugs and Dick. 0:44:39.680 --> 0:44:44.000 Yeah, my whole favorite who are discouraging our younger listeners 0:44:44.000 --> 0:44:46.200 from getting obsessed with either partying boys. 0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:47.960 You know, there's more little things in life you can 0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:48.480 appreciate you. 0:44:48.600 --> 0:44:50.680 I feel like that could just be called like my 0:44:50.760 --> 0:44:53.080 twenties drugs honestly overdose. 0:44:53.440 --> 0:44:59.200 Actually you can have the name write a book, okay. 0:44:58.760 --> 0:45:01.520 For some examples please, That might make it easier for you. 0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:03.840 So we've written things like, oh, the. 0:45:03.880 --> 0:45:06.080 Crunch of an autumn leaf when you walk over it, 0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:07.279 shit like that. 0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:09.160 Oh, guys, a lot of cocaine. 0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:11.920 This is not sorry, we're so boring. 0:45:12.320 --> 0:45:14.040 I hope you're not going to be broad and say 0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:17.160 sobriety Jack Vision did say sobriety five A m Stance 0:45:17.239 --> 0:45:20.239 Gratitude Journal. No, I'm not pr chain, so I'll be 0:45:21.040 --> 0:45:24.080 a Field said, getting the beginnings of an ingrown toe 0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:27.799 owl cutout is better than drugs and just something oddly satisfying. 0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:31.920 Okay, I've got two once again and we've touched on 0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:33.920 it a lot. But this is the high that I'm 0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:38.399 constantly chasing is psychic readings like yeah, oh my god, 0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:42.080 it is better than sex, drugs, chocolate. Like I will 0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:45.040 go in and just feel so confused and lost and 0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:47.360 be emo, and they'll just be like you're going to 0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:49.640 be a star and just hold your hand and like 0:45:49.800 --> 0:45:53.080 that stays with me longer than any line did. 0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:55.960 But are you like going to the same one You're 0:45:55.960 --> 0:45:57.480 a returning customer because they can be. 0:45:57.680 --> 0:45:59.680 Giving me and as soon as they add me on Instagram, 0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:00.640 I never go to them again. 0:46:01.239 --> 0:46:02.760 I reckon they're looking for clues. 0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:04.480 Funny enough, I went to one at the start of 0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:06.360 this year and she's multi two and she told me 0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:08.360 all about my ancestors and it was so good. And 0:46:08.480 --> 0:46:10.360 then I went to run recently because I was feeling 0:46:10.360 --> 0:46:11.719 a bit like what the fuck am I doing with 0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:14.160 my life? And she said almost word for word what 0:46:14.239 --> 0:46:15.880 the other one did. So I thought, okay, we're on 0:46:15.960 --> 0:46:17.840 the right track. And that to me just gives me 0:46:17.960 --> 0:46:19.839 this high that last almost for like a year. 0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:21.239 That's crazy, yea was. 0:46:21.280 --> 0:46:23.800 I went to my first psychic and he's one of 0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:25.920 the best psychics in the world. I was in Scotland 0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:29.480 and he worked for Scotland yard worked for missing children. 0:46:29.640 --> 0:46:32.760 Like it didn't work for the missing kids obviously, wouldn't 0:46:32.760 --> 0:46:35.440 get paid because they we're missing. He worked for families 0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:37.440 and for the police. Anyway, I was at dinner with him. 0:46:37.440 --> 0:46:39.280 It was a neighbor of my friend that I was visiting, 0:46:39.320 --> 0:46:40.560 and he's like, I need to read you. 0:46:41.480 --> 0:46:43.240 I need to ead you. Come back tomorrow eleven o'clock. 0:46:43.239 --> 0:46:47.279 I need to This accent can waits you so much. 0:46:47.800 --> 0:46:49.040 And I went, oh my god. 0:46:49.040 --> 0:46:50.440 So I went back the next day eleven am. He 0:46:50.480 --> 0:46:52.759 read me for an hour and a half and eighty 0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:55.440 percent of what he said has there's been truth to it. 0:46:55.560 --> 0:46:56.440 It was incredible. 0:46:56.520 --> 0:46:57.799 It might not even be true yet. 0:46:57.880 --> 0:47:00.680 So I when I was nineteen years of eight living 0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:03.240 in Perth, I got on the phone to a psychic 0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:05.400 and she said, you need to move to Sydney. You 0:47:05.440 --> 0:47:07.359 will be the best thing you ever do in your life. 0:47:07.719 --> 0:47:09.719 And I had about thousand dollars to my name, I 0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:12.560 didn't have any job and I had accommodation for two 0:47:12.640 --> 0:47:15.000 weeks and it was the best thing. She was so right, 0:47:15.080 --> 0:47:17.160 and she kept saying, you'll live in a suburb with 0:47:17.480 --> 0:47:19.920 R R R. And I'm looking at I'm like Randwick. 0:47:20.080 --> 0:47:20.920 It had no idea. 0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:24.520 I live in Redfern now my favorite And so it 0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:27.400 came true six years later and now I feel like 0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:27.880 I will like. 0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:32.920 Live and die in Redfern, Grado gorgeous. It's a bit 0:47:33.080 --> 0:47:36.239 like hood but boogie like me. It's like it's a 0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:38.520 nice Yeah. You go two streets the wrong direction and 0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:39.799 you go on with the ten around. Yeah. 0:47:39.840 --> 0:47:42.080 I used to be redfer and Waterloo and now in 0:47:42.160 --> 0:47:43.839 Redfernd Sorry Hills, and you bet your ass. I tell 0:47:43.880 --> 0:47:46.520 everyone's the pariser. 0:47:46.960 --> 0:47:51.680 Yeah, oh my god. Great addition to drugs. And this 0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:52.319 is just a cake. 0:47:52.360 --> 0:47:55.880 One at the hairdresser last night, better than sex and 0:47:56.600 --> 0:48:02.279 drug getting all my vices confused. The head massage you 0:48:02.400 --> 0:48:04.520 get at the basin at their hands lot. 0:48:05.440 --> 0:48:06.839 I feel like I'm cheating. 0:48:06.520 --> 0:48:08.759 Because I'm like, I would pay for this service every 0:48:08.840 --> 0:48:09.520 day if I get it. 0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:14.480 Nothing more like infuriating than when it's a week oh massage. 0:48:14.719 --> 0:48:16.640 It's always a young trainee coming out of tay and 0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:18.960 maybe you squeeze my head like you're making juice, like 0:48:19.120 --> 0:48:20.640 you go to town on that scalp. 0:48:20.800 --> 0:48:23.279 Or if they only do it for like twenty seconds. Yeah, 0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:26.680 I'm like, no, keep going, you guys. 0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:28.600 I wonder if it's different with long hair, because I've 0:48:28.640 --> 0:48:30.560 got very short hair, So I wonder if I feel 0:48:30.600 --> 0:48:31.600 it more, is it still nice with you? 0:48:31.760 --> 0:48:33.839 Probably would feel it more, yeah, because I got really 0:48:33.880 --> 0:48:35.919 thick and yeah, it starts to get a bit lost 0:48:36.000 --> 0:48:36.759 into the back there. 0:48:36.840 --> 0:48:39.719 Yeah, even like those claw things, the metal things, you 0:48:39.760 --> 0:48:42.520 can get the head massage. Yeah, but obviously someone else 0:48:42.560 --> 0:48:44.080 has to do it. It's not the same you're doing 0:48:44.080 --> 0:48:44.680 it to yourself. 0:48:44.760 --> 0:48:44.960 Yeah. 0:48:45.120 --> 0:48:47.520 If you saw someone every day and we hired them 0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:49.279 to come over and give us that head massage, do 0:48:49.320 --> 0:48:50.200 you guys think it's cheating? 0:48:51.440 --> 0:48:54.960 No, no care, sure, self care. You need to get 0:48:54.960 --> 0:48:57.000 a part of It'll do it for you, depends what 0:48:57.120 --> 0:49:05.320 hair they're massaging. Oh my jewels to take this to 0:49:05.400 --> 0:49:08.600 the gutter. Oh, I don't think i'd want a pubic message. 0:49:10.440 --> 0:49:14.560 Girls would massage ovaries? What's it? What's in that area, 0:49:15.840 --> 0:49:17.920 averies is inside of us starling. That's what I mean. 0:49:18.000 --> 0:49:19.640 If you're pushing down, that's gonna. 0:49:19.560 --> 0:49:23.319 Pubic hair is on our vagina near our class very gay, 0:49:26.719 --> 0:49:29.480 I have the girl? Yes, did you not enjoy it? 0:49:30.400 --> 0:49:32.800 Well? My favorite note and go back for anymore. Okay, 0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:37.040 did you see her ovaries? I know they're internal. 0:49:37.239 --> 0:49:39.799 I'm more meant if you massage the pubic area, what's 0:49:39.880 --> 0:49:40.440 underneath that? 0:49:40.600 --> 0:49:42.919 It would not be uncomfortable. My eyes would be rolling 0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:43.520 in the back of my head. 0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:46.520 Really even the top. Yeah, it's been close to the 0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:48.200 clip I. 0:49:48.280 --> 0:49:50.840 Must be having. Can you gonna give you a pane? 0:49:50.960 --> 0:49:53.480 Sorry for this girl? You had sex? So do I? 0:49:53.760 --> 0:49:56.920 So do I. But if we're talking like a permuted triangle, 0:49:57.280 --> 0:50:00.239 I'm picturing that's a twist top. 0:50:00.280 --> 0:50:02.640 I'm not talking about like right beneath it before the opening. 0:50:02.680 --> 0:50:03.960 I mean, like right at the top. 0:50:05.520 --> 0:50:06.560 Goes that far up. 0:50:08.320 --> 0:50:11.799 I watched a lot of eighties films the bushes in Oh, 0:50:11.840 --> 0:50:13.080 I'm glad I brought all that up. 0:50:13.640 --> 0:50:16.040 Yeah, do you feel like you're walking away with any 0:50:16.120 --> 0:50:18.440 clarity about that I think you're more confused than ever. 0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:20.880 Yeah, I've got a pretty shocking mental image of what 0:50:21.000 --> 0:50:24.160 my experience was like, and now it's even worse. Thanks guys, 0:50:24.600 --> 0:50:26.600 Jewels on TikTok Recovering party Girl. 0:50:26.760 --> 0:50:28.200 Thank you so much for being here. Thank you for 0:50:28.320 --> 0:50:32.239 having me. This is so flash I love it. Might 0:50:32.320 --> 0:50:36.560 be the idiots abouts considering doing October after that? What's 0:50:37.040 --> 0:50:40.560 monetize on that? What's October? It's like the poor cousin 0:50:40.600 --> 0:50:43.480 of Drive to Line. It's a thing. It's such a 0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:43.799 good thing. 0:50:44.880 --> 0:50:48.399 Give it ox October, but sober instead of a tea. 0:50:49.760 --> 0:50:50.680 It's like our mug Vember. 0:50:50.719 --> 0:50:52.360 It's a stretch. But I was going to say that 0:50:53.840 --> 0:50:57.160 I just needed to understand sober sober. All right, well 0:50:57.160 --> 0:50:58.520 I'm down. Jewels, thank you so much for being on 0:50:58.560 --> 0:51:00.879 the show. Thank you, and we should go. That's done. Yep, 0:51:00.960 --> 0:51:03.280 we'll catch you back next week to get Thanks for listening. 0:51:03.400 --> 0:51:08.040 See everyone, is it just Me podcast by a couple 0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:12.080 of make sure You've get to follow on your podcast. 0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:25.719 Welcome to add brief our secret segment on the end, 0:51:26.400 --> 0:51:28.080 I'll pretend the show's over and then we keep talking 0:51:28.239 --> 0:51:29.440 for a little bit. I'm just putting on some poor 0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:33.160 port it mummy Mummy's jewels me too, so cute, what 0:51:33.239 --> 0:51:35.440 a hoo. I could listen to her for hours. She 0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:37.200 mentioned something on tiktook the other day she might be 0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:40.040 starting a podcast, so you probably could maybe. 0:51:40.280 --> 0:51:41.560 Yeah, she's very talented. 0:51:41.600 --> 0:51:44.440 I also find it so strange when she says things like, oh, 0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:47.359 I used to be fun, but now I'm sober and boring. 0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:51.160 I'm like, bitch, you are still so fun. She's so vivacious, 0:51:51.360 --> 0:51:54.359 full of life a lot. If it's also mental, what'd 0:51:54.360 --> 0:51:54.719 you call me? 0:51:54.920 --> 0:51:54.960 No? 0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:57.560 No, no, no, like it's a It's a mental game 0:51:57.600 --> 0:51:59.919 more than anything, right, That's where it comes from. So yeah, 0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:00.960 very cool story. 0:52:01.080 --> 0:52:03.560 By the way, that's been a long time coming, because 0:52:03.640 --> 0:52:07.000 I messaged her in January before we even brought the 0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:08.640 podcast back for you, and I said, I feel like 0:52:08.680 --> 0:52:10.440 you'd be a ripper guess would you want to do it? 0:52:10.520 --> 0:52:11.719 She's like, yeah, that sounds great. 0:52:12.320 --> 0:52:14.960 And then you made the promise on the record off 0:52:15.000 --> 0:52:16.600 for darn will be our first guest of the year. 0:52:16.600 --> 0:52:18.680 And I remember how that was fucking that took longer 0:52:18.680 --> 0:52:20.799 than we would like to lock in. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:52:21.200 --> 0:52:21.560 And then. 0:52:21.440 --> 0:52:23.000 I locked her in and then she was like, oh fuck, 0:52:23.000 --> 0:52:24.520 I can't actually do that day. I was like, no worries. 0:52:24.560 --> 0:52:27.000 Then I accidentally double booked her the same day as artsimone. 0:52:27.280 --> 0:52:28.920 I was like, actually, I hate to do this. I 0:52:29.000 --> 0:52:32.080 know we've been talking since January, but how about yeah, yeah, 0:52:32.239 --> 0:52:35.480 that's fine. So we had two guests in a row. Yeah. Yeah, 0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:39.279 she was the week before. Oh but I'll bet to 0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:42.120 be a week. Huh if it's still two weeks, like 0:52:42.719 --> 0:52:46.359 within a week, no, within two weeks. If it's been 0:52:46.360 --> 0:52:48.839 two weeks, that means it's been two weeks. It's really 0:52:48.920 --> 0:52:51.400 been two weeks. Yeah, because last week we did the 0:52:51.440 --> 0:52:55.080 fucking sea moss. Yeah, I don't remember that you brought it. 0:52:56.280 --> 0:52:59.799 I brought that in. I was on that episode. Yeah. See, 0:53:00.000 --> 0:53:01.440 do you think it was the seamoss that gave me 0:53:01.480 --> 0:53:05.320 the allergic reaction? Because dogs cats definitely made me sniffle. 0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:09.800 That's why whenever I see Isabella and I've always stocked 0:53:09.880 --> 0:53:11.719 up on the zert Tex. I've got so many friends 0:53:11.719 --> 0:53:13.880 in the same boat. Yeah, but dogs I've been okay with. 0:53:14.000 --> 0:53:16.160 But oh my god, this allergic reaction, which I said 0:53:16.160 --> 0:53:17.640 I'll put on in during idiots was bad. 0:53:17.760 --> 0:53:20.160 So haven't you looked after that dog before? Yeah, it 0:53:20.239 --> 0:53:20.960 can't be the dog. 0:53:21.040 --> 0:53:23.200 I've never house sad because I slept in BRIT's bed 0:53:23.360 --> 0:53:26.000 and it was told she did, but I still slept 0:53:26.000 --> 0:53:30.520 in Britz. I know I slept in Here's this. I 0:53:30.600 --> 0:53:32.560 slept in the spare bed, which was just a mattress 0:53:32.640 --> 0:53:35.080 Colhile mattress, and I came in to digen. I had 0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:37.279 a shocking brad brain day, Remember, I said, Yeah, it's 0:53:37.280 --> 0:53:38.920 because I had a terrible night sleep. Sleep for me 0:53:38.960 --> 0:53:41.160 with sleep app now with Kiari is if I don't 0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:42.640 sleep well, I'm ruined. 0:53:42.760 --> 0:53:43.200 Yeah, okay. 0:53:43.320 --> 0:53:45.239 So I was in a bad mood because of I 0:53:45.320 --> 0:53:47.520 didn't sleep well. So I taket Britt after the podcast 0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:51.440 and I was like, need to sleep in your bed's okay? 0:53:52.120 --> 0:53:54.160 So I did, and you reckon that's where the dog 0:53:54.239 --> 0:53:54.759 hair came from. 0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:57.040 Well it has to because the next morning the house 0:53:57.080 --> 0:54:00.600 sat there before Yeah, and was the dog just not home? Yeah? 0:54:00.920 --> 0:54:02.160 I said, I don't want to dog sit, so she 0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:03.160 paid someone to dog sit. 0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:06.799 Not in you making diva demands. Your house sitting comes 0:54:06.840 --> 0:54:10.399 with the t's and c's you negotiate. I will sit 0:54:10.440 --> 0:54:13.000 to the house, but I refused after my breakup, so 0:54:13.040 --> 0:54:14.759 I think she was like, poor Bars said I need 0:54:14.840 --> 0:54:15.560 to get out of the house. 0:54:15.560 --> 0:54:17.200 She thought she thought she was doing me a favor. 0:54:17.239 --> 0:54:19.319 Britt was being a good friend. Now I did soft 0:54:19.400 --> 0:54:22.000 launch Brittain Laura on this show. I asked them, and 0:54:22.080 --> 0:54:24.399 they're both keen to come on this show. O good, 0:54:24.520 --> 0:54:26.200 So we need to get them on. I think they'd 0:54:26.239 --> 0:54:27.320 be great guests. 0:54:28.600 --> 0:54:30.480 Years. Yeah, I was gonna say, I remember suggesting when 0:54:30.520 --> 0:54:33.200 you first started doing the pickup together. I was like, oh, 0:54:33.200 --> 0:54:34.600 we should get them one of the cross per my. 0:54:34.800 --> 0:54:36.239 You know we can tell I already it's to go 0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:39.319 check out your pick up podcast. So the bulls very 0:54:39.400 --> 0:54:40.160 much in your court. 0:54:40.640 --> 0:54:40.799 Yeah. 0:54:40.880 --> 0:54:42.560 No, Well, can I tell you something. We got to 0:54:42.600 --> 0:54:46.279 review the Lifeli cart. Listeners are listening high Lifers. That's 0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:50.680 This is our most recent review on a couple of mitches. 0:54:51.280 --> 0:54:53.200 We often give shout outs, but this one's quite cute. 0:54:53.360 --> 0:54:56.160 This is from christ Wow. She says, I have listened 0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:58.560 to one hundred and twelve episodes in a month. 0:54:59.440 --> 0:55:02.120 Shit, I can't do maths off the top of my head, 0:55:02.160 --> 0:55:04.160 but one episode is an hour and average what would 0:55:04.200 --> 0:55:04.719 that be in a month? 0:55:04.760 --> 0:55:08.359 That's a lot of have to be three a day. Yeah, 0:55:08.480 --> 0:55:11.560 it would have to be blind. I can't figure that out. 0:55:11.600 --> 0:55:12.240 It's crazy. 0:55:12.760 --> 0:55:15.560 Started from the beginning. After hearing hearing jury on life 0:55:15.600 --> 0:55:18.440 on cut churrole, she says, funny. Now my podcast has 0:55:18.480 --> 0:55:19.400 taken precedence. 0:55:20.600 --> 0:55:24.560 Oh we've been fun. We should apologize foreing their listen 0:55:24.640 --> 0:55:26.759 and over any podcast series I was ever listening to. 0:55:26.920 --> 0:55:28.480 Thank you for getting me through my daily life with 0:55:28.560 --> 0:55:30.920 a toddler and a teenager whilst living in rural Queensland. 0:55:31.120 --> 0:55:33.000 Every morning in my coffee feels like I'm catching up 0:55:33.000 --> 0:55:35.160 with three old friends. So many laughs, great moments so far, 0:55:35.239 --> 0:55:37.160 which brings me to my something better than drugs and 0:55:37.200 --> 0:55:41.680 Dick gets the show. I've got the list on me 0:55:41.760 --> 0:55:42.799 hat something else? 0:55:43.040 --> 0:55:45.480 Well, she says, better than drugs and Dick being a 0:55:45.600 --> 0:55:47.640 late starter to is it just me and having heaps 0:55:47.680 --> 0:55:50.640 of episodes to binge definitely better than them two things? 0:55:51.080 --> 0:55:53.400 Oh yeah, better than drugs and Dicky. I knew what 0:55:53.480 --> 0:55:59.160 she meant. What was her name? CHRISTI? Wow? Christy cow Cowry? 0:55:59.520 --> 0:56:01.920 Am I reading that right? Wow? And cow? It couldn't 0:56:01.920 --> 0:56:06.040 be more cow but both with Kay's Christy cow Y 0:56:06.640 --> 0:56:09.239 cow with the k as well, I didn't make the insult, 0:56:10.040 --> 0:56:11.400 by the way, I just had a thought, you know 0:56:11.440 --> 0:56:15.120 how she wrote Churrell. Yeah, because Katy Perry fumbled her 0:56:15.200 --> 0:56:17.480 line of you and she said, Mitch Churrell. Yeah, that 0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:20.839 whole AI voice thing. You could have that sorted out. 0:56:20.880 --> 0:56:22.360 You could fix it. No. 0:56:22.520 --> 0:56:24.640 Well, I'm thinking I'm going to get an interview with Katie. 0:56:24.640 --> 0:56:26.279 I'm going back and forth with the label because she's 0:56:26.320 --> 0:56:29.120 coming for the AFL Grand Final. Ah yeah, and we're 0:56:29.120 --> 0:56:30.920 trying to line up an interview, so I'm gonna I 0:56:31.120 --> 0:56:31.920 think I'll play it to her. 0:56:31.960 --> 0:56:33.680 It's not often that I get jealous of when you 0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:36.239 interview people, but I'm like, oh, that would kill me. 0:56:36.320 --> 0:56:38.440 I love Kate. Well you could ask a fan question. No, 0:56:38.480 --> 0:56:41.239 why didn't you bring her on the podcast? I just 0:56:41.280 --> 0:56:43.680 don't think that would I'd rather Rachel Carpani. 0:56:44.400 --> 0:56:47.120 Yeah, now I see you're Katie Perry, and I raise you. 0:56:47.560 --> 0:56:50.360 Rachel Carpane And by the way, ghosted me again. Like 0:56:50.480 --> 0:56:52.239 I said, I was going to text her and try 0:56:52.239 --> 0:56:53.200 and take the pr out. 0:56:53.320 --> 0:56:56.000 No. Nothing, So did she launch the yogurt company after 0:56:56.120 --> 0:56:57.560 Mcloud's daughters? Huh? 0:56:58.200 --> 0:57:03.200 Or Rachel Chabanni, I've got one, but it's a streatch 0:57:03.239 --> 0:57:06.120 give it a go, do it? No, that's her in 0:57:06.239 --> 0:57:09.480 the Purple Dinosaur set driving a car Rachel Carbarney. Ah, 0:57:10.440 --> 0:57:13.919 yes see, you have to really think about it. Yeah, 0:57:15.520 --> 0:57:17.840 I'm going to the pub for a Rachel Chicken car Parmie. 0:57:18.160 --> 0:57:20.440 Yeah good good, Yeah yeah yeah. What's her name, car 0:57:20.520 --> 0:57:24.560 Barnie CAPANI. Yeah, so I just changed one letter. Yeah, 0:57:25.880 --> 0:57:30.800 your face, your thinking face, I got Nune. My brain 0:57:30.880 --> 0:57:33.720 wants to say Rachel CABERANOSSI. That's it. That's a cheap shot. Yeah, 0:57:33.720 --> 0:57:35.360 why don't you to get it really confidently? Wrong? 0:57:35.600 --> 0:57:37.480 What's I do all the time? I don't want to 0:57:37.520 --> 0:57:39.080 do anymore mispronunciations. 0:57:39.280 --> 0:57:42.720 I thought you meant. I don't want to do anymore talking. Fine, 0:57:43.040 --> 0:57:44.120 we've reached our quota. 0:57:44.240 --> 0:57:46.439 No, let's all go to our phones. And the last 0:57:46.480 --> 0:57:48.200 photo is what we have to talk about. Ready in 0:57:48.280 --> 0:57:48.920 cane Okay? 0:57:50.200 --> 0:57:51.360 Oh yep. 0:57:51.520 --> 0:57:55.760 Two beef patties that I cooked at nine forty two 0:57:56.000 --> 0:57:59.240 last night. I was starving and I just wanted to mint, 0:57:59.320 --> 0:58:01.280 so I cooked donate it like on some sort of 0:58:01.720 --> 0:58:03.880 carnival die Joe Rogan loving fool. 0:58:04.080 --> 0:58:09.280 Jenna Mine is read it read what it says on 0:58:09.360 --> 0:58:12.800 the screen. Hello, I'm an you can say it. It's fine. Hello, 0:58:12.880 --> 0:58:15.600 I'm a Manda Keller. You have to dodd it. That's 0:58:15.640 --> 0:58:18.000 a video, not a photo. It's a screen screenshot of 0:58:18.000 --> 0:58:19.960 Amanda Kella. The lighting good, there is. 0:58:19.960 --> 0:58:23.080 That the natural light for Yeah, mine is a photo 0:58:23.160 --> 0:58:25.880 of the zone number downstairs, so that I could pay 0:58:25.920 --> 0:58:28.040 for my parking, which, by the way, expires in about 0:58:28.080 --> 0:58:28.520 ten minutes. 0:58:28.560 --> 0:58:30.840 All right, so we better wrap. Yeah that actually works 0:58:30.920 --> 0:58:33.160 quite well. You better get out of here everyone. We 0:58:33.280 --> 0:58:35.520 hope this podcast made you feel at least two percent 0:58:35.600 --> 0:58:38.840 better today. That's all. So we do, so, we do, 0:58:39.000 --> 0:58:39.320 so we do. 0:58:39.400 --> 0:58:41.840 Don't forget the merches available, and I would say politely, 0:58:41.920 --> 0:58:42.480 fucking buy it. 0:58:43.520 --> 0:58:43.840 Just do it. 0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:48.000 It'll make you feel better. Yeah, yeah it, Yes, says 0:58:48.080 --> 0:58:50.480 Cozy Lives. But also you've got to treat yourselves. Yeah, 0:58:50.640 --> 0:58:51.200 that's true. 0:58:51.360 --> 0:58:54.520 There's the Mona Jenna. There is itching coffee mugs perfect 0:58:54.520 --> 0:58:55.120 with the Daily Commo. 0:58:55.160 --> 0:58:57.000 They are actually great. The travel mugs, you know how 0:58:57.080 --> 0:58:59.800 sometimes they're tiny. Yeah, you know this one's a big 0:59:00.080 --> 0:59:02.040 The fucker good. 0:59:02.640 --> 0:59:07.040 In this episode might Nope, go on, I was gonna 0:59:07.040 --> 0:59:08.720 say this episode might come out on Father's Day. 0:59:08.840 --> 0:59:12.480 Wrong, shut up, I'm stressed. Shut up. 0:59:13.360 --> 0:59:17.800 It might come out on Boxing Day, won't You might 0:59:17.920 --> 0:59:20.560 listen in the future on Boxing Day like Christy Cow 0:59:20.680 --> 0:59:24.760 Happy Father's Day. If in a bunch of years you 0:59:24.840 --> 0:59:26.440 are listening to this on Father's Day, I want you 0:59:26.520 --> 0:59:29.520 to just message that's so all right, we'll see you 0:59:29.560 --> 0:59:31.040 all next week next to listening and go follow a 0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:32.200 recovering partygir on TikTok. 0:59:32.200 --> 0:59:35.320 That's the Jewels, all right? 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