WEBVTT - MINI: What did you learn AFTER you moved in together?

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<v Speaker 1>Laura, I've been having a wild time on the Reddit threads.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I got stuck down a rabbit hole on Reddit.

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<v Speaker 2>My favorite is the am I the asshole thread. Yeah, well, there's.

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<v Speaker 1>One at the moment that is people sharing like the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdest habits about their partners that they didn't know until

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<v Speaker 1>they moved in with them. So, you know, it's all

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<v Speaker 1>like happy families when you're dating. It's the chemistry's there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all sexy and attractive. Everyone's so quote unquote normal.

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<v Speaker 2>Because everyone's on their best behavior before you move in together,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's only a certain amount of time that you

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<v Speaker 2>can hold up that sort.

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<v Speaker 3>Of life for Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, everyone's like going on and talking about the things

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<v Speaker 1>that they discovered after the fact. I don't live with

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<v Speaker 1>my partner Ben, my fiance, because he lives on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of the world. But since we've like committed

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<v Speaker 1>to each other and we're locked down and we're getting married,

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<v Speaker 1>the first two years he was the neatest person you've

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<v Speaker 1>ever met, like the cleanest.

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<v Speaker 3>Person, and I was like, what a unicorn? Like this

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<v Speaker 3>man that has not real it's not real, not real.

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<v Speaker 1>He's such a salob and everything is so messy and

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<v Speaker 1>when we used to FaceTime long distance, he would clean

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<v Speaker 1>a section behind him and around him, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>would facetimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Get could get it okay, my husband, So I've been

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I was saying, I've been living with him

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<v Speaker 2>and we've been together for eight years. There is one

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<v Speaker 2>thing I discovered after we got married, and it is

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<v Speaker 2>it still horrifies me to this day. Matt brushes his

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<v Speaker 2>teeth without using any water at all. He puts toothpaste

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<v Speaker 2>straight onto his toothbrush, brushes dry, and then just wipes

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<v Speaker 2>his mouth on a towel. It is like, it's criminal.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me feel physically sick. And we have to

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<v Speaker 2>wash every tower in our house because every time he

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<v Speaker 2>brushed to his teeth, instead of just washing his mouth

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<v Speaker 2>like a normal human, he wipes his spitty toothpaste onto

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<v Speaker 2>a towel. We have had so many fights over this.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, speaking of dry, someone said hell speaking at Dora,

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<v Speaker 1>he will occasionally eat dry tortellini straight out of the

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<v Speaker 1>bag when he's reading in bed, so he doesn't cook it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's fine, it's not. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was a kid, I used to just eat

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<v Speaker 2>it raw all the time, straight out of the Great Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>totalini with the meat inside of ravioli.

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<v Speaker 3>Well it sounds healthy.

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<v Speaker 2>You just eat it that's cooked. The meat inside is

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<v Speaker 2>already cooked. They eating ham. You can choose to cook

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<v Speaker 2>it or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you do some weird things, so I'm grain of solid.

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<v Speaker 3>There was another one on there.

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<v Speaker 2>She found out that when her boyfriend gets out of

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<v Speaker 2>the shower, instead of drying his balls with a towel,

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<v Speaker 2>she drives it. He drives it with a hair dryer,

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<v Speaker 2>which I think is very thorough.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how normal that is. It just means he's

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<v Speaker 1>quite hairy down there. He doesn't want it all wet

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<v Speaker 1>and stucks together on stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So he gets out of the shower, cocksponn leg, gets

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<v Speaker 2>out the diceon and just gives it a little little

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<v Speaker 2>blow dry.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this one's a sociopath. He wanted to put all

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<v Speaker 1>the cutlery just straight into the drawer without any dividers,

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<v Speaker 1>so like knives, forks, spoons, everything's missed together.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's crazy. No, do you know what, I've got

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<v Speaker 2>another one for you. When I moved in with my

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<v Speaker 2>ex boyfriend, the poor guys I talked about on yesterday's

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<v Speaker 2>show as well, he didn't have a bed bass. He

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<v Speaker 2>had a mattress on the floor and we lived like

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<v Speaker 2>that for years.

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<v Speaker 3>I did that for a while, but that was a choice.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like a feng shwei thing.

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<v Speaker 2>He only got sheets because I moved in with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Prior to that, he had no sheets and just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like had his blankets in a pile on his

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<v Speaker 2>bed like a nest.

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<v Speaker 3>This one he won't dry using a towel. Instead, he

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<v Speaker 3>just chooses to dry naturally, so he just walks around

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<v Speaker 3>naked till he dry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's fine. It's your own home. Be free,

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<v Speaker 2>be comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we've got a bit of a.

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<v Speaker 1>Special caller on the phone. Actually your husband, Matty jais Corvin.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, Matt, I'm an angel.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, my darling. Look you are perfect. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>get something off my chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh please do What could I possibly do that annoys you?

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<v Speaker 2>After I've been single parenting for the past five weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>What could it possibly be?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, thin Ice, mat Yeah, thank you for bringing that up. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>I've just noticed that I've looked at the bin and

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<v Speaker 5>there's actually there's a huge stack of cardboard boxes that

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<v Speaker 5>aren't in the bin. They're just next to the bin.

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<v Speaker 2>That's because it's your job to physically put them into

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<v Speaker 2>the bin. I put them, I put them within the

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<v Speaker 2>vicinity of the bin, and then you've sought them.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so well that was wine. I've got a second

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<v Speaker 4>one if I can also.

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<v Speaker 3>How long we got No, we've got time. This is

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<v Speaker 3>the second one.

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<v Speaker 4>I've talked about this a lot before, but it was

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<v Speaker 4>when I looked at Laura. I thought she would have

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<v Speaker 4>been having a shower before she went to bed, But

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<v Speaker 4>what she was actually doing was fully dressed, not brushing

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<v Speaker 4>her teeth in this think, but she was brushing or

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<v Speaker 4>washing her feet in the sink. Yeah, so she doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>shower at night time like most people.

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<v Speaker 2>I sometimes shower it n it depends on what I've

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<v Speaker 2>done in the day. But sometimes my feet just need

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<v Speaker 2>to wash.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Laura, you always need to wash. Just showering your

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<v Speaker 3>feet isn't a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But what if I've had like a shower at four

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<v Speaker 2>o'clock and then my feet just need a rint.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot happens between four and eleven.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I don't want to be damp when I go

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<v Speaker 2>to bed, and I just want my feet to be cleared.

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<v Speaker 3>I can dry yourself before you get.

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<v Speaker 4>Seped also, and who you kid? When have you ever

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<v Speaker 4>had a shower at four o'clock. That's not happening. You

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<v Speaker 4>have a shar at like six thirty in the morning.