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Speaker 2: The Will and Woody podcast Will pretty poor fatherhood on

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Speaker 2: my part recently bad daddy.

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Speaker 1: So basically you were involved, Can I just say as well?

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Speaker 2: And I just think I wasn't. I was an accessory.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: As my wise mate. I just wish you pulled me

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Speaker 1: into line here because I've embarrassed myself and done the

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Speaker 1: one thing you should never do as a father. So

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Speaker 1: where I was at the park with you, your daughter

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Speaker 1: was there?

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Speaker 2: Was it your daughter's party?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly was.

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Speaker 2: She was there, of course.

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Speaker 1: Party and all the kids decided to do a race

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Speaker 1: they were doing, like a running race.

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Speaker 3: Did they decide to do a race that was running around?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think naturally when kids start running, it

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Speaker 1: becomes a bit of a race where they, you know,

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Speaker 1: test each other out.

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Speaker 2: Who's the fastest.

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Speaker 1: So you just see these kids from the back of

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Speaker 1: the playground. They come out of nowhere and they are

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Speaker 1: just tearing. They can't believe how quick they're going. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: all the kids had gone past, and we kind of

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Speaker 1: went back to our beverages and started talking, and then

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, out of nowhere. About a minute

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Speaker 1: later comes my beautiful daughter, Remy, who is going so

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Speaker 1: incredibly slow. It's like the kids have forgotten about it.

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Speaker 1: They've moved on to other activities. And there's Remy head down,

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Speaker 2: She's so far behind.

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Speaker 5: And as as she was running, she was those's either

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Speaker 5: running up hill or into a fifty k in our.

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Speaker 2: Headwind YEP, that can confirm there was no wind.

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Speaker 3: She just and but the effort was the effort was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: She was going for it and it led to this

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Speaker 1: huge laugh from all the parents.

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Speaker 2: So every single parent and it's just had the shoes

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Speaker 2: with the lights on them as well.

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Speaker 3: At step of foot would light up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then you and then as dad there I fell

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Speaker 1: for it as well. I am pissing myself laughing at

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Speaker 1: how funny the whole thing is. And I just had

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Speaker 1: this moment where I was like, ah, she's doing something

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Speaker 1: a little bit embarrassing and whilst this is funny, like

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Speaker 1: you have to admit that this is I think as

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Speaker 1: a parent there's sometimes where you're like, ah, I shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be laughing at you right now.

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Speaker 5: It's interesting that you raised this because and by the way,

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Speaker 5: thirteen one oh six', five if you've laughed at your

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Speaker 5: kid when you shouldn't. HAVE i think it's interesting you

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Speaker 5: raised this because you literally brought up the other week

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Speaker 5: about you, know when do you tell your children the hard,

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Speaker 5: truths like when you're going to tell your daughter that

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Speaker 5: she's bloody?

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Speaker 2: Slow, no, no it's.

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Speaker 1: Funny AND i was, LIKE i Think i'll be someone

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Speaker 1: who'll be able to have that. Conversation, YEAH i realized

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Speaker 1: on the weekend there's no. Way AFTER i laughed at

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Speaker 1: her face for a, WHILE i got right around AND i.

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Speaker 2: Was, like you are moving like the. Wind, yeah, yeah, Right.

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Speaker 1: YEAH i find myself laughing at her a, lot, actually

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Speaker 1: though at inappropriate. Time so she's just started doing dancing.

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Speaker 1: Classes oh cute as, well, lovely, right except the teacher always,

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Speaker 1: says point point your, toes, right so it's a, ballet

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Speaker 1: and so point your toes And remy points at her toes.

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Speaker 2: The whole.

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Speaker 1: Point laughing at, it which again is, like don't laugh

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Speaker 1: at your daughter when she does something. Embarrassing, yeah, yeah another.

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Speaker 2: One because you don't want.

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Speaker 5: To you want, them you want to get around, them

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Speaker 5: you want them to feel like they can do silly

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Speaker 5: things in front of you without being laughed.

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Speaker 1: At you also don't want to condone bad behavior as.

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Speaker 1: Well so where just starting and have conversations around because

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Speaker 1: she's she's seeing me And mum. Naked, ye just trying

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Speaker 1: to understand, like, okay Wise dad got that thing between

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Speaker 2: That so it's like that's the, vagina that's a, Penis

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Speaker 2: like you start to have.

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Speaker 1: That but what's not funny or WHAT i shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: laughing at is when she Sees, nanny which is MIM's,

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Speaker 1: mum and Says nanny has a. Penis, Yeah And i've

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Speaker 1: laughed at that a number of, times and that's that's poor.

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Speaker 5: Behavior well actually funnily, Enough So, max my, daughter was

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Speaker 5: staying at mum And dad's place recently and down the,

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Speaker 5: BEACH i Think dad just got out of the out

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Speaker 5: of the water and he was getting changed And max

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Speaker 5: walked up to him and said she got him, dark

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Speaker 5: and in front of my mum and another one of

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Speaker 5: my siblings, said, oh does got a tony?

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Speaker 1: Penis there you, go which and, yeah you can't, laugh

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Speaker 1: which it's obviously.

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Speaker 5: Hilary hard not to. Laugh dad hasn't. Surfaced he's so.

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Speaker 1: Tough he's never he'll never get undressed.

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Speaker 2: Again going back from, that thirteen one six five is that?

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Speaker 2: Number when did?

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Speaker 1: You when did you laugh at your kids when you

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Speaker 1: really shouldn't? Have, so for, example when my daughter was

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Speaker 1: trying to pronounce dinosaur for a long time and she

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Speaker 1: pronounced it asshole, WHAT i don't. Know she was definitely

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Speaker 1: referring to, dinosaurs but she was, saying, ah, Wow.

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Speaker 2: And when you're finding that, funny what? Happens you going

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Speaker 2: to keep doing? It he. Does so we're in the supermarket,

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Speaker 2: saying where's the?

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Speaker 1: Assook i'm gonna stop saying that works the snaughty would

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Speaker 1: but it's just a.

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Speaker 2: Mistake so, yeah we GOT.

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Speaker 5: I find it particularly hard with your partner as, Well

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Speaker 5: like if they're laughing at your partner and you know

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Speaker 5: you don't want, it you can. Don't, yes we mentioned

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Speaker 5: before it Was max's birthday last, weekend And sam spent

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Speaker 5: a lot of time researching your present For. Max, yes

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Speaker 5: spent a lot of, time you. Know so she ended

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Speaker 5: up getting there with this, magnet like this giant. Magnet oh,

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Speaker 5: YEAH i think that she Makes it's like blocks with magnets,

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Speaker 5: Anyway i've seen.

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Speaker 2: Them they look.

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Speaker 3: Great oh they're.

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Speaker 1: Great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah max opens the.

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Speaker 5: Presents first present she opens it is the biggest box as,

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Speaker 5: well so she opens it, up takes one look at,

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Speaker 5: it and then she, goes this is for my. MUMMY

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Speaker 5: i then gave it straight Factor sam right across.

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Speaker 2: The, table WHICH i thought was.

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Speaker 1: Great did you laugh, obviously, Yeah AND i thought that

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Speaker 2: Well of course it's good.

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Speaker 3: Gear at the end of the daw you can't give

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Speaker 3: to present straight back To.

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Speaker 2: Maddie, hi, guys, hello now matter you're a. BABYSITTER i.

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Speaker 6: Am i've been babysitting for a long time, now And

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Speaker 6: i've never heard something so hilarious come out of a kid's.

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Speaker 6: this two year OLD i look, after He's i've taken

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Speaker 6: him to this indoor playground and he starts saying WHAT

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Speaker 6: i think is dump, truck but as you could, imagine

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Speaker 6: it's coming out as dumb and then And i'm, going

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Speaker 6: it again And i'm, like oh my. GOSH i start.

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Speaker 6: Laughing and now BECAUSE i. Laugh you know now.

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Speaker 2: It's good, Gear.

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Speaker 5: Maddie we've got t shoes coiled on thirty and WHEN

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Speaker 7: Now but we were at a family gathering at my

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Speaker 7: unie's place and her father in law was there and

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Speaker 7: unfortunately her father in law lost her. Legs, sorry he's

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Speaker 7: standing there any shorts one leg, crutches and my son

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Speaker 7: Leg we all have a bit of a. Chuckle he's,

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Speaker 6: Wow and of course we all cracked, up and.

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Speaker 7: Yeah he thought it was. Hilarious so we kept bringing

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Speaker 7: the attention back to this man with a missing.

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Speaker 2: Leg, yeah, yeah you can't laugh. THERE i apologize for.

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Speaker 3: Up nothing to say.

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Speaker 5: That we actually We're the other, morning we had an

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Speaker 5: interview over at my place in the.

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Speaker 2: Morning we interviewed was It Lady, Gaga Chris, Pratt, Millie Bobby, BROWN.

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Speaker 2: Podcast could have Been.

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Speaker 5: was one of those. Names, Anyway you And juni producer

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Speaker 2: Morning it was pretty early in the, morning so my

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Speaker 3: There, AFTER i like that look.

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Speaker 5: Anyway so so she was sitting on the rug and

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Speaker 2: It, Anyway so you and analyst, said By max, later, well,

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Speaker 2: ses she offered me a. Tea she, said do.

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Speaker 5: You make you a cup of tea hospitality service at my?

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Speaker 5: double hand as straight in The notorious Vag. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: Yeah and she was offering me tea, yeah which you,

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Speaker 2: Funny well you have to. Laugh it's just there's nothing

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Speaker 2: so this was your. Son, yeah you had a laugh

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Speaker 8: Should, yeah probably shouldn't. Have but, yeah my husband AND

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Speaker 8: road doing a poo in one of the toilets because

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Speaker 8: he was being potty, trained and he was very proud of.

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Speaker 3: IT i don't plate.

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Speaker 2: It well Now i'm gonna play.

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Speaker 5: It BUT i actually know that much of an issue because

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Speaker 5: he's a bird, person hence a freak by.

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Speaker 7: It there was a, bird SO i had a.

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Speaker 2: Bird, yes immediately she's got Their. SARAH i just love.

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Speaker 2: That more than three.

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Speaker 1: Cats gotta be a red, FLAG i, think to be,

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Speaker 1: HONEST i can multiple pets as a red.

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Speaker 2: Flag oh just what have you got to hang?

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Speaker 1: On different different breeds, though as in like if you've

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Speaker 2: Number of people about. This, Chris Chris, griffin, guy this

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Speaker 1: Yeah should we play Some chris on his, Podcast The Pocket.

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Speaker 1: Podcast i'm going to cross this. Podcast this is What chris, SAID.

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Speaker 10: I don't want my partner working unless she wants to.

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Speaker 10: Work if you feel the need to go and work

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Speaker 10: to make money and then you come home and you're

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Speaker 10: Money ask you how is your day, today?

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Speaker 2: BABE i want your eyes to line up with.

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Speaker 10: Excitement it's the, calm it's the. Harmony it's the peace

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Speaker 10: that's chasing his dreams needs when he's trying to wind.

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Speaker 10: Down this is WHY i heavily encourage hot girl. WALKS

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Speaker 10: excitement about their. DAY i don't think a girl needs

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Speaker 10: GIRL i think she can fill her days with passion

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Speaker 2: Amazing, wow how do you feel listening to?

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Speaker 5: THAT i can empathize chasing dreams honest for my partner

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Speaker 2: And women don't need to go through. Pain and you

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Speaker 5: Yourself say hot so that WHEN i come home you

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Speaker 4: Right the scary thing, though is that. CONTENT i, mean

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Speaker 1: You the scary thing about it for me is THAT

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Speaker 1: because he's the kind of guy who's, LIKE i wouldn't

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Speaker 4: Exactly the problem one With chris's content and this type

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Speaker 4: me essentially WHEN i get, home and she needs to

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Speaker 4: Conditional you can, work but you can't.

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Speaker 5: Complain the one thing THAT i didn't necessarily take issue

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Speaker 5: say to your. Partner it's when they're going follow your

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Speaker 5: dreams so you can be. Happy it's follow your dreams

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Speaker 4: Exactly and some belief in there they want them to be.

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Speaker 4: i listened to the full, episode because you never want

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Speaker 4: Changeable the researcher came out that this type of content

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Speaker 4: Men they believe in gender roles more than the older,

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Speaker 4: generation which is.

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Speaker 11: Insane that really does feel like it's flipps like it's

446
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Speaker 11: only taking a few generations for it to go back

447
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Speaker 11: the Other what do you think was the turning point, There,

448
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Speaker 11: laura because it feels like in my, head you always

449
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Speaker 11: when you're talking about you, know toxic masculinity and, stuff

450
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Speaker 11: that's the older.

451
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Speaker 2: Generation what has happened for that to go back the other?

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Speaker 4: WAY i think the biggest thing is because this content

453
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Speaker 4: has come into mainstream and men are making a lot

454
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Speaker 4: of money from. It and the thing that's really scary

455
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Speaker 4: is very rare to go on someone's page and every

456
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Speaker 4: single piece of content is. Misogynistic but it's the fitness.

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Speaker 4: Content it's the you, know discipline for, it like go,

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Speaker 4: go go punish. Yourself don't that you have to otherwise you're?

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Speaker 4: Weak and then also make money quick or this is

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Speaker 4: how you make money kind of. Content that's what it's

461
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Speaker 4: kind of surrounded, by which you can understand that that

462
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Speaker 4: can be appealing to. People they see, it they start,

463
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Speaker 4: following and then their beliefs actually.

464
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Speaker 5: Impacted one of the women down in just down on

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Speaker 5: the floor was showing me something On instagram the other

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Speaker 5: day that she follows Called hinge. Bios so it's like

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Speaker 5: screenshots of.

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Speaker 3: Guys bios On hinge.

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Speaker 5: HILARIOUS i asked if it was a joke one of.

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Speaker 5: Them like the tagline like under his name WAS i

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Speaker 5: don't think you should be able to have a child

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Speaker 5: if you can't control what you put into your body every.

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Speaker 2: Day that was his. Bit that was, it and just

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Speaker 2: a photo of him with his rigap is that that

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Speaker 2: point for like clean?

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Speaker 5: Living was that the point he was saying if you

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Speaker 5: can't diet properly to keep weight, OFF i don't think

478
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Speaker 5: you should be able to have a.

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Speaker 2: Kid oh that was the. Bit AND i was, like

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Speaker 2: what is this a?

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Speaker 5: Joke and she was like, NO i have a look

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Speaker 5: and showed you another one. Again the tag on in

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Speaker 5: his profile was JUST i will make you feel.

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Speaker 2: Insecure and there's only dating at where he's trying to

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Speaker 2: attract women and they.

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Speaker 4: Think that that will attract me strong.

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Speaker 2: Man, yeah so scared.

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Speaker 3: It, actually it's same THING i had to have explained to.

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Speaker 2: ME i was, like what's he going? For So, laura

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Speaker 2: other women that are believing this too? Now, Yeah so

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Speaker 2: we have.

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Speaker 4: Seen a really big rise recently in kind of the

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Speaker 4: trad wives traditional traditional wife. Exactly but there's kind of

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Speaker 4: now a type of social media influencer that he's a trad.

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Speaker 4: Wife there are women that follow, this this type of belief,

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Speaker 4: SYSTEM i, suppose but it's nothing to do with it

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Speaker 4: being a stay home parent being bad At.

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Speaker 2: It's funny you say, THAT i actually am very.

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Speaker 5: GLAD i think, earlier very early, ON i said, SEVEN

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Speaker 5: was going to keep working while she Had max and

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Speaker 5: looked After max and raised. Her and one of the

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Speaker 5: first things he said is he was, like all, right,

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Speaker 5: mate well you're going to be earning. Money she's not

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Speaker 5: going to be earning.

506
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Speaker 2: Money so he was, LIKE i.

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Speaker 5: Don't really want to strong arm you into, this BUT

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Speaker 5: i think you should just kind of just need to

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Speaker 5: join everything because, otherwise you, know well like even if

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Speaker 5: LIKE i die or, whatever like you, know IF i

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Speaker 5: haven't got, impact IF i haven't got income prediction or you,

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Speaker 5: know all that sort of, stuff you're gonna be leaving

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Speaker 5: a completely high and DRY i don't think you. Should

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Speaker 5: if you're listening to, this and you, should you should

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Speaker 5: necessarily blame yourself if it's something you've thought of. Before

516
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Speaker 5: either because the reason that a lot of this kind

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Speaker 5: of manisphere stuff has, arisen and maybe why a lot

518
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Speaker 5: of the younger boys are gravitating towards it is because

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Speaker 5: there was that move towards you, know like condemning toxic,

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Speaker 5: masculinity et. Cetera BUT i think, that like you, know

521
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Speaker 5: as can naturally, happen the left can kind of start eating,

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Speaker 5: itself where you get wrapping young boys over over the

523
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Speaker 5: head with a stick and being like you're you're not good,

524
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Speaker 5: enough you're all, toxic and then they don't have anyone to.

525
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Speaker 2: Talk, to and then there's almost like a, rebellion and

526
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Speaker 2: then all.

527
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Speaker 5: Of a, sudden there's a guy over here, going, hey

528
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Speaker 5: people making you feel alienated and redundant and that you're sexually. Impotent,

529
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Speaker 5: hey there's this there's this language we're all using over,

530
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Speaker 5: here we're all getting around each.

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Speaker 2: Other so you could see the natural progression.

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Speaker 5: There SO i mentioned that because if you haven't had

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Speaker 5: these thoughts to yourself about, this and you haven't thought

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Speaker 5: about your, role you, know with your, partner or how

535
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Speaker 5: you might be able to support, them and thinking about superannuation.

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Speaker 2: Stuff that's.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah you know the best. Time the best time

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Speaker 5: to plant a tree is ten years ago or right,

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Speaker 5: now you. KNOW i think it's just listening to it

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Speaker 5: now and going like oh and understanding it from that.

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Speaker 2: Perspective.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely we're not judging you for. It and you

543
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Speaker 5: might have been aware of. It you might have been

544
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Speaker 5: caught up in this group and been like it Is

545
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Speaker 5: i've been talking like.

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Speaker 2: That it's. Awful This chris guy thought he was doing

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Speaker 2: the right.

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Speaker 1: THING i think it's also important to demonize This Chris.

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Speaker 1: GRIFFIN i think he's he's saying that Thinking i'm being

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Speaker 1: a great partner through all of.

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Speaker 8: This.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, arguably, yes be the scariest part about it. Though

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Speaker 2: thanks so much for coming. In thanks really appreciate.

554
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Speaker 5: It head al on to the kick. App find out

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Speaker 5: and get it Around steff And. Laura we love getting

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Speaker 5: around these. Guys there are some things coming In, Laura

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Speaker 5: thank you Will what is?

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Speaker 1: Vulnerability this tune registered to be part of The push

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Speaker 1: Up challenge and raise much needed awareness and funds for mental.

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Speaker 5: Health get, involved, Guys it's, Easy it's so, easy and

562
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Speaker 5: you've only got a couple of days to get involved as,

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Speaker 5: well so make sure you register this tune to be

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Speaker 5: part of the Push Up. Challenge we've been getting you

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Speaker 5: guys excited for that by doing the Push Up challenge this.

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Speaker 3: Month two hundred and fourteen push ups is the.

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Speaker 2: Goal how many we?

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Speaker 1: Onwards we're on threey one hundred and five so by my,

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Speaker 1: calculations one hundred and nine push.

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Speaker 2: Ups to, do, nice, good, good that's, good, yeah nice,

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Speaker 2: yeah good arithmetic from.

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Speaker 1: Me, Ye so, yeah we'll get that. Done, actually we've

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Speaker 1: got a very exciting.

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Speaker 2: Finish, yeah, yeah the finale has. Big the finale's big

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Speaker 2: going out with the.

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Speaker 1: Anchor the, anchor, yes who is our executive, Producer Edel's, yes,

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Speaker 1: yeah not a huge fan of push, ups but he

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Speaker 1: will be doing the final push ups tomorrow on the

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Speaker 1: show the.

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Speaker 2: Show we'll, Go captain.

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Speaker 3: Pp we're going to bring it, home captain looking forward

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Speaker 3: to it FROM.

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Speaker 5: P P r A. P captain P pe says For

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Speaker 5: captain Poot, pants which is what we're no longer allowed

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Speaker 5: to call.

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Speaker 2: Him you've done, that, yeah, anyway the other PART i

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Speaker 2: can't do more than how?

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Speaker 3: Many is it you want to do, ten, well anything.

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Speaker 10: Less than ten, ideally but ten.

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Speaker 2: FINE i like. Fourteen the.

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Speaker 5: Romance there's going to be no romance about a thirty

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Speaker 5: five year old guy with shaky arms trying to push

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Speaker 5: out ten.

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Speaker 2: Pushups, Mate i'll do you that, MUCH i think there.

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Speaker 3: Is are you going to do it in your? Bloodstones?

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Speaker 2: Mate is? THAT agni stick with. You i'll do it

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Speaker 2: in whatever you like me to.

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Speaker 3: Go on record.

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Speaker 5: There you know the huge part of the push up

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Speaker 5: challenges obviously that it is a raising that is raising

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Speaker 5: awareness for mental health woulds and you, KNOW i think

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Speaker 5: that if we had a golden bullet for this whole

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Speaker 5: mental health, thing if we had a way to solve,

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Speaker 5: IT i personally think it would be just trying to

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Speaker 5: get people to be more.

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Speaker 2: Vulnerable AND i think that's what we're trying to do

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Speaker 2: during this, segment is trying to be. Vulnerable.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely we have a vulnerability wheel in here because there's

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Speaker 1: no time for both of us to be, vulnerable so

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Speaker 1: only one of us gets. Vulnerable the thing will be

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Speaker 1: getting vulnerable about is This when did you last cry

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Speaker 1: in front of another?

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Speaker 2: Person spin the?

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Speaker 5: Veil, god it's a long. Spin spin still Going why

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Speaker 5: don't you slow that down a? BIT i, Reckon, okay

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Speaker 5: WELL i can't be in. Control, no you can't touch, It,

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Speaker 5: tommy can you slow that?

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Speaker 2: Down that's, ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: Landed on, me bounced back.

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Speaker 8: To me.

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Speaker 9: On.

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Speaker 8: You it's.

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Speaker 2: Unbelievable no one. MORE i, mean what is going on.

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Speaker 9: The.

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Speaker 3: Wheel the wheel can't decide who wants to.

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Speaker 2: Standard it's on. Me, okay all, right well that was

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Speaker 2: an unbelievable, Bit. Patrix now last time you might be

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Speaker 2: coming back to, me let's just the answer. IT i

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Speaker 2: saw you cried in front of another. Person oh that's

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Speaker 2: a big. One but you're comfortable to. SHARE i think

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Speaker 2: it's worth, saying.

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Speaker 5: Okay, no, no, NO i can share so something That i'm.

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Speaker 3: ACTUALLY i.

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Speaker 5: Recently have discovered, that like a lot of, Men i'm

635
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Speaker 5: pretty good at bottling. Emotion i'm PRETTY i can be

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Speaker 5: pretty good at it IF i IF i need to,

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Speaker 5: be you, know you want to get out.

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Speaker 2: There and be a, big you, know.

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Speaker 3: Manure and IT'S.

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Speaker 5: I, noticed actually recently THAT i had a pretty tough

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Speaker 5: conversation with someone THAT i know and, love AND i

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Speaker 5: left them AND i was walking, home AND i noticed

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Speaker 5: AS i was walking home THAT i. DIDN'T i could

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Speaker 5: feel this thing in my. CHEST i, like it's, There,

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Speaker 5: yeah it's definitely. There BUT i was, Like i've got

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Speaker 5: a walk through the suburb and it's it's pretty.

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Speaker 2: Busy, here AND i don't really want to do.

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Speaker 5: This but THEN i just kind of had a moment

649
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Speaker 5: WHERE i was, like, no, no, no will come on.

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Speaker 5: You you got to practice what your preach. Here you,

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Speaker 5: know you're often talking about people being, vulnerable and, like

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Speaker 5: really it's, important it's good to get in touch with

653
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Speaker 5: how they.

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Speaker 3: Feel you got to try.

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Speaker 5: This SO i actually stopped walking AND i closed my

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Speaker 5: eyes AND i tried really hard to listen to the,

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Speaker 5: feeling and it came up and it's pretty, strong like pretty.

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Speaker 5: Strongly so you're in the middle of the middle of the.

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Speaker 2: STREET i was in the. Street you didn't go to

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Speaker 2: a sidewalk OR i just LIKE i.

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Speaker 6: Did.

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Speaker 2: WELL i wasn't making a show of.

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Speaker 5: IT i was just, LIKE i just want to GET

664
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 5: i just need to get this out because because the

665
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 5: other thing is weirdly And i'm sure a lot of

666
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 5: guys can empathize with, this and the reason they probably

667
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 5: do bottle it up is, guys if you.

668
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 2: Ignore, it it feels like it goes, away but it.

669
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 5: Doesn't you actually just suppressed it and then you sort

670
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 5: of comes back to bigger press memories and then you

671
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 5: get you, know effectively. Trauma SO i was, LIKE i

672
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 5: don't want to do. THAT i WANTED i want to

673
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 5: get in touch with this. THING i want to listen

674
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 5: to it right. Now AND i know that they're, people you,

675
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 5: KNOW i wasn't walking through the MET i was in

676
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 5: a side, street BUT i know they're going to be

677
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 5: walking through some, people.

678
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: And SO i did.

679
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 5: It and, yeah there was a pretty big cry that came,

680
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 5: out and then it started, raining AND i was, like,

681
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 5: SHIT i got to get home And i've got to

682
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 5: probably walk through quite a few people to get. Home

683
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 5: SO i went for, it AND i kind of got

684
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 5: halfway through the, crowd and you, know it's funny were

685
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 5: crying and.

686
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 3: Walking you tend to.

687
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 5: Give those people a pretty wide. Berth sure is they're

688
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 5: going through. Something you don't want to get too.

689
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 2: Involved and that was.

690
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: GOOD i was actually pretty happy for, that you, know actually.

691
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: Part of the red.

692
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 5: STALK i never actually did want anyone to kind of stop.

693
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 5: Me but what was really nice about halfway THROUGH i

694
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 5: nearly got through the crowd this. Beautifully another guy actually stopped.

695
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 8: Me.

696
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah he's about my, AGE i, think maybe a little bit.

697
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 2: Older and he just.

698
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 3: Said to, me, hey, mate are you all?

699
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 2: Right oh it's so. Nice, Yeah AND i was like,

700
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: not but like, thanks and then he, goes do you

701
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 2: want to?

702
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 5: Hug AND i was, like, oh, lovely, YEAH i would

703
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 5: love a hug man and, yeah so he, YEAH i

704
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 5: gave my hug and he gave me a.

705
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: Hug that's.

706
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 3: Beautiful it was really. Cool yet it was actually really.

707
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 2: Good SO i don't want to cry. Again i'm. Not uh,

708
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 2: yeah so, nice so.

709
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 5: Beautiful so, anyway and the thing WAS i actually got

710
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 5: home and rather than getting home and being you, know

711
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 5: maybe passive aggressive or dismissive of my partner and my,

712
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 5: daughter or you, know turning something on THE tv to

713
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 5: take my concentration away and having that weird feeling where

714
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 5: you've ignored a cry but you feel you probably should,

715
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 5: HAVE i felt really. Relieved it felt really. Nice so,

716
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 5: yeah there was some power of.

717
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 2: Vulnerability, well thank you to mystery hugger yea for doing your.

718
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 2: Thing money held on for a bit, long, okay a little?

719
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: Bit oh?

720
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 2: Wow the Critical, well, NO i had to give feedback

721
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 2: a few seconds too. Long, okay fair?

722
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: Enough fair. Enough as a new term that's been coined

723
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: by this, TEAM i think it will be in like

724
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: added to the dictionary once it starts getting used in common.

725
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: Vernacular it's. Proward, yeah and a proward is a proud.

726
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 2: Coward de do maybe.

727
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: So for so long people have seen cowards are something

728
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: to be embarrassed. About no one wants to admit they're a.

729
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: Coward BUT i think times are a change in and

730
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: it's nice to be proud to be a.

731
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: Coward me Will i'm a proud.

732
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: COWARD i Know i'm a, coward and FOR i go

733
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: the first thirty years of my, LIFE i was a

734
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: bit embarrassed about admitting THAT i was a, coward and

735
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: SOMETIMES i would even pretend to be, brave but at

736
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: the end of the, Day i'm.

737
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 2: Not i'm a.

738
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: Coward i'll give you a great example from the. Weekend

739
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: and this is usually the kind of story THAT i

740
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't tell anyone Because i'd be embarrassed about, it but

741
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: Because i'm a proud, Coward i'm happy to share. It

742
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: So mim was selling some outdoor furniture at our place

743
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: on Gum tree, yep, right and that she said they're

744
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: coming On.

745
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 2: Sunday they're going to come and pick up all the outdoor. Furniture.

746
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: Yep AND i was, like, yep, great bit, annoying but

747
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: that's that's obviously fine BECAUSE i was going to be

748
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: home AND i just didn't.

749
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 2: Want to do with the. Interaction, plus my, god it's one,

750
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: person you're the same As, no there was a group. Coming,

751
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 2: yeah the step dad's, coming they're going to be out

752
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 2: in twenty.

753
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 3: Minutes the wife's.

754
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 2: Coming it's care so mims. Me they're, here AND i was,

755
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 2: like oh, God AND i was, LIKE i know what's

756
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: going to.

757
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: Happen i'm going To i'm going to walk out, there

758
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: and then, obviously Because i'm a nice, Guy i'm going

759
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: to offer to help and they're going to take me

760
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: up on that And i'm going to have to help

761
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: them carry all the outdoor. Furniture SO i knew that

762
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: was going to. Happen SO i was, like you know

763
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: What i'm. Hiding so you hid in your own.

764
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 2: HOUSE i hid in my. House they took an air

765
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: and a half to. Clear there's a lot of outdoor.

766
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 2: Furniture where'd you.

767
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: HIDE i JUST i hid in the front room and

768
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: didn't AND i was texting them being, like are they?

769
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: Gone AND i had to duck under the windows at

770
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: the front because they kept feel like less of a. Man,

771
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: nah Because i'm a proud. Coward here's the point thirteen.

772
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: ONE I i feel like a sense of self loathing after,

773
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: THAT i, think and.

774
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 2: You're not a proud. Coward and that's okay as, well.

775
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 7: You know WHAT i.

776
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 2: Mean i'm absolutely fine with.

777
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,479
Speaker 5: IT i was sekdo guys furnistures out the, back let.

778
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 2: Me know if, Anything i'll be.

779
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 5: Here in other, words don't break anything and bucker, off

780
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 5: you know WHAT i, Mean, like just have that.

781
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 2: Conversation, yeah we're different. Beasts, yeah thirteen one in your own,

782
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: House yeah that feels really WOULD.

783
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even peek on top of the window Because

784
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: i'd be too scared they'd see me because you crouched

785
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,280
Speaker 1: in your FRONT i was lying down in my front

786
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: room for an hour and a. Half it's playing snake

787
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: on my. Phone thirteen one oh six y five is the.

788
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: NUMBER i want to.

789
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 2: Know are you a proud coward or do you know

790
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: a proud? Coward? Okay in use today as.

791
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,479
Speaker 1: Well it's a whole town In. Florida they're In Cape,

792
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: coral and they're all very. Stressed there's a lot of

793
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: chaos in the town because there's a duck on the.

794
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 1: Loose so a few people have gone to hospital because

795
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: of this nipping duck and apparently a lot of people

796
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: aren't leaving their houses a.

797
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: Bit like me on the weekend because of this. Duck

798
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 2: now that for me the town of proud.

799
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: Cowards And i'm all for, them and Maybe i'll move

800
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: To Cape coral at some stage in my life and

801
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 1: get around some.

802
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 5: Of My so you're, saying another example of a proud

803
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 5: coward is like somebody who you, know if they got

804
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 5: conscripted to go to, war they're just you, KNOW i

805
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 5: leave the.

806
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: Country, Absolutely, No I'm I'm i'm, patriotic So i'd go to.

807
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: WAR i don't think you? Would, YES i?

808
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 4: Would you?

809
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: WOULD i think you'd moved to This Almona, no, YES i.

810
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: Would, NO i would, Go AND i. Disagree that is

811
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: just that's just a you will do WHAT i have

812
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 2: to do to keep this country.

813
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: Safe and you know that's Just i'm against war, obviously

814
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: but IF i got CONSCRIPTED i would, go but if

815
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 1: there's a noise in the, shed SOMETIMES i call the.

816
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: Cops you know WHAT i, meant rather than go. Outside proud,

817
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: coward we're. Back are you proud? Coward come and be,

818
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: honest join.

819
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 2: Me it's. Nice get it off your. Chest you're proud

820
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 2: to be a. Coward that's. It proud.

821
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 1: Cowards we've all known there's like cowards out. There BUT

822
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,399
Speaker 1: i think it's a nice moment in your life when

823
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: you accept the fact that.

824
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: You are a coward and you become proud of. It i'm.

825
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: There i'm.

826
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: There on an incident recently WHERE i accidentally walked into

827
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: a cubicle AND i didn't, realize but there was a,

828
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 1: woman an elderly woman in.

829
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: There she didn't lock the. Door was at the cafe

830
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 2: with you when you're into the.

831
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 1: Toilet, yeah not my, fault but she's gotten lock the

832
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: door And i've opened the door and she was standing,

833
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: up wasn't she was because she stood up because she'd

834
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 1: gone to close the, door because she heard the rattle

835
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 1: of the door with trousers. Down trousers, down and then

836
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: so rather than you, know go sorry and then wait

837
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 1: for it to come out and, APOLOGIZE i ran.

838
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: AWAY i just, ran AND i never wanted to deal with.

839
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 2: It and then she came and sat back to the

840
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 2: table next to. Us, yeah AND i had to leave.

841
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 2: Immediately obviously kind of proud.

842
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 5: Coward AND i find the funny thing about proud cowards

843
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 5: specifically you actually is obviously that naturally you gravitate towards

844
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 5: people who are going to do your dirty work for.

845
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 5: You you, know they are going to do the confrontational

846
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 5: and stuff for. You so you got, Me you Got

847
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 5: mim as, well Good mim likes getting in. THERE a

848
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 5: couple of examples for. You, firstly if you AND i

849
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 5: get you, know sometimes you AND i get send a

850
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 5: proposal for you, know something to do for a client

851
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 5: or something like. That Sometimes i'll suggest a, video, right

852
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 5: and sometimes the video will be the stinkiest video idea

853
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 5: you've ever seen in your. Life and rather than, going,

854
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 5: hey will not? Sure you, know hey, guys not sure

855
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 5: about this, One you'll just write in the, email bloody love?

856
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 2: This what do you? Think will bloody love? This? Geez

857
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 2: this will be a hot video for? Us will? Vote

858
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 2: what do you?

859
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: THINK i wouldn't want to do it without your Cont

860
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: and Then i'm not sure about.

861
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 2: Odd, jeez we'll be a bit, precious aren't. We BUT

862
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: i have to agree with. Him, SORRY i don't have

863
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 2: to say.

864
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: No We, also whenever we're in negotiation meetings or like

865
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: any meeting were in where there's like just a little

866
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,320
Speaker 1: bit of like maybe slight confrontation going, ON i always

867
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: make sure that there's always lollies in these big, officers

868
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: AND i just crammed lollies into my, mouth and then

869
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: whenever they look to me for a, Comment i'm, like for, them.

870
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: Let's got to Worry. Warwick, hi, guys how are you?

871
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: Hell i'm, outstanding, mate great to be a proud, coward

872
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: runners through a proud coward or.

873
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 7: Not but, ANYWAY i, mean if you're a, coward who

874
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:31,439
Speaker 7: gives a damn as long as.

875
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 9: You're a good.

876
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 2: Blake, yeah, yeah go on. Mate oh, NO i was

877
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 2: just wringing.

878
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 7: YOU i couldn't believe you answered the. PHONE i got through.

879
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 7: It but, Anyway i'm driving.

880
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 6: Home my, phone my phone.

881
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 7: Rings it's if it's my it's the.

882
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 6: Duck And i'm hearing the ducks.

883
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 7: Here i'm, thinking oh, ship where's the? Phone and THEN

884
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 7: i suddenly realized there it. Is, Yes, oh, dear how are?

885
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: You, yeah hang, on you've got, Us, worrick because you

886
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: want to let us know that when you heard us

887
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: play the duck sound, effect you thought it was your phone.

888
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 2: Ringing, correct that's standing. Warrick that is.

889
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 7: Again one of my sons has Got i've got A

890
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 7: clashton horn for somebody else and a.

891
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 6: Horse knowing.

892
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: It's been going to have you, on, Mate we'll make

893
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: sure not to play any horse sound effects while your,

894
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: warrick otherwise you'll think someone else is.

895
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 2: Calling you had to Have worrick on the show, absolutely.

896
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 5: Now what you were talking, about the fact that you

897
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 5: hid in the front. Room, yes and the other day

898
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 5: while people came and picked up your outdoor. Furniture, yes

899
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 5: it's part of A facebook marketplace. Exchange, YES i didn't want.

900
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: TO i didn't want to walk out there BECAUSE i

901
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: KNEW i would have had to offer Because i'm a good,

902
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: person so rather than just kind of undo that doesn't

903
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: it definitely because you're, like you're insisting that you are

904
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 1: a good, person BUT i think we're hiding from the.

905
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 2: Work then you, know technically that makes you a bad.

906
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: PERSON i can see it that way, Now BUT i

907
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 1: didn't want to deal with that. Confrontation SO i hid

908
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: in the. House, yeah and then there was just no

909
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 1: chance that conversation was going to come. Up, Sure i'm not,

910
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: there SO i DON'T i don't.

911
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 3: EXIST i would AM i getting some inside on.

912
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 2: This, So, mimi your wife is called heymm, hey isn't?

913
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: It is that actually what?

914
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 2: Happened, WELL i.

915
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 8: Don't know if you could be like proud, cow considering

916
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 8: your wife's currently pregnant and she was outside in the

917
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 8: cold helping them move things in and out of the,

918
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 8: yeah out of the.

919
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: Garden so you've sun, this did?

920
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: You you weren't, helping you were not, well actually don't

921
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: know BECAUSE i was hiding in the front, room to be,

922
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 1: fair