1 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This podcast is 2 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: for women who want to take ownership of their lives, 3 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: live unapologetically, and are ready to turn their biggest dreams 4 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: into their reality. If you're ready to be armed with 5 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: the tools that will inspire to take bold action, feel 6 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: confident within yourself, and conquer your goals, then you've come 7 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: to the right place. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. I'm 8 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: a lawyer turned entrepreneur, co founder of Naked Harvest Supplements, 9 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: and social media personality with a community of over three 10 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 1: hundred thousand. I grew up believing I had to pursue 11 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: the safe option and fit into a mold others had 12 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: created for me. But then I entered my corporate law 13 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: job and I realized that settling for a reality that 14 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: didn't set my soul on fire was something I was 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: not prepared to do. I want to more, and I 16 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: have a feeling you do too. Join me and special 17 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: guests weekly as we get down to the nitty gritty 18 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: on all things health, mastering your mindset, creating lasting habits, 19 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,559 Speaker 1: thriving in your career and relationships, plus so much more, 20 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: and together we'll gain the knowledge and perspective to pursue 21 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: our wildest dreams and kick fear to the curb. Well, 22 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: what are you waiting for? Let's rise and conquer. Hey guys, 23 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: and welcome to another episode of the Rise and Conquer Podcast. Today, 24 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: I'm in conversation with Rachelle Fox, who is a renowned 25 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: meditation teacher, traveling entrepreneur, and co founder of mind Spot 26 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: Meditation Retreats. Meditation became the source that saved her life, 27 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: freeing her from years of PTSD depression and anxiety, and 28 00:01:56,640 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: after experiencing the powerful benefits of her practice herself, she 29 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: felt colled to share it with others. Since twenty sixteen, 30 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: she has been on a mission to make meditation cool, relatable, 31 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: and practical. Rachel and her fiance Chris founded the company Mindspo, 32 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: which you may be familiar with on Instagram. Mindspo offers 33 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: online meditation classes as well as meditation retreats and self 34 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: love retreats at the Mindspo Mansion in Bali. Rachell says 35 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: her life is the manifestation of her dreams and stands 36 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: by the notion that you create your own reality. In 37 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: our chat, we get down to the many benefits of 38 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: meditation and just exactly how you can implement the practice 39 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: into your life. We also chat about all things self 40 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: love and how Rochelle took the leap to starting her 41 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: dream company and setting her life up in BALI. I 42 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did. 43 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: PS Before we get in to the interfew, I just 44 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: wanted to let you guys know that after my chat 45 00:02:55,840 --> 00:03:00,399 Speaker 1: with Rachelle, I actually took the Mindspo Meditation course where 46 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: you learn the Mindspo meditation formula, which is a mantra meditation. 47 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: And before the course, I did do meditation, and I've 48 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: done it for quite a few years. But oh my gosh, guys, 49 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: this course is life changing and just this practice of 50 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: mantra meditation, it just has been transformative for me personally, 51 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: and so I just wanted to share it with you guys, 52 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: And so I asked Rochelle if I could have a 53 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,839 Speaker 1: code for the RNC FAM So, if you guys want 54 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: to try mind Spo the meditation course, Rachelle has given 55 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: us a twenty percent off code which I will put 56 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: a link in the show notes, but use Rise and 57 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: Meditate for twenty percent off. Oh my god, guys. I 58 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: cannot recommend the course enough. I have been doing the 59 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: Mantra meditation and it's amazing. Specifically, if you haven't done 60 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: meditating but you want to try it, this course goes 61 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: through step by step and really teaches you. Or if 62 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: you've previously tried meditation and you don't feel like it's worked, 63 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: I highly recommend this course. It was awesome. I just 64 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: I can't get over it anyway. Okay, enough of that. 65 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,839 Speaker 1: This has been a very long intro. Let's get into 66 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: the episode. Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of the 67 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: Rise and Conker Podcast. I'm sitting here today with the 68 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: inspirational and amazing Rachelle Fox. Welcome to the show. 69 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yay, hello girl. I'm in the house with the dogs. 70 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: So we're currently at my house. Rachelle lovely luckily came 71 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: over to me because she's currently out the Gold Coast 72 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: just for a little bit. So it was awesome. We 73 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 1: got to connect in person and she's met the puppies 74 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: and she's a bit obsessed. 75 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 3: I'm totally obsessed with the dogs, also obsessed with the 76 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: manifestation goals house. I remember this being on your vision 77 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 3: board and I'm currently sitting in your vision. 78 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 2: Board, which here it is amazing. 79 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: It looks like it. 80 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm totally cheering. I literally love seeing people's realities 81 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:04,799 Speaker 3: come to life. 82 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 2: So thanks. You's pretty rad. 83 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: I do that. 84 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: Well, before we get into all the fun questions, something 85 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: that I am asking all my guests is what season 86 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: they're in, And I won't explain it because you know 87 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: exactly what I mean. So what season are you currently in? Rush? 88 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 3: I am currently in the chillionaire season, so I'm on 89 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 3: the vibration that fuck all the money in the world 90 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: if you don't have chill when you get there. So 91 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 3: I'm just zending out. I'm in Australia right now on holidays. 92 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 3: I've just come off a really big hustle twenty nineteen. 93 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 3: By the time this podcast comes back up, I'll probably 94 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 3: be a little bit more on my grind. But yeah, 95 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 3: I've just been in a complete zen relaxation, soaking life up, 96 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 3: having the best time kind of season. 97 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: Amazing. Well, let's get straight into that. So I saw 98 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: that on your interest the story and your intention was 99 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: twenty twenty was professional chillionaire, which is like less doing 100 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: and more being. Yes, can you tell us a little 101 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: bit more about why you want this intention right now 102 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: and what kind of things and changes you're making to 103 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: implement your chillionaire lifestyle. 104 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 3: So I want this intention right now, and I'm going 105 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 3: for a chillionair energy. Just because I had a really 106 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 3: intense twenty nineteen. I think you know, any female entrepreneur 107 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 3: that's on the grind can appreciate that we go through 108 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 3: these seasons that I kind of NonStop all about the hustle, 109 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 3: and I was realizing that I was working really hard, 110 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 3: but I was very much out of alignment. And I 111 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 3: keep saying this, you know, f all the money in 112 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 3: the world if you don't have chill when you get there. 113 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 3: Because I'm a meditation teacher, and I had this realization 114 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 3: that I was working so hard towards all my dreams 115 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 3: and just kind of going at a pace that didn't 116 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 3: feel sustainable and also didn't really feel in alignment with 117 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 3: my true values. I'm someone that really wants to enjoy 118 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 3: the moment. I want to be completely here and present. Yes, 119 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 3: I have goals and things that I want to achieve, 120 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 3: but at the same time, like the journey is the destination, 121 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 3: and I just really want to like relish in the journey. 122 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 2: Enjoy every single moment. 123 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 3: And that's something that I'm really putting as a priority 124 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 3: right now, just being super mindful, super present, you know, 125 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: taking every day as it's comes, and just like creating 126 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 3: my own reality but with a more intentional and clear mindset. 127 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 3: And one of the ways that I'm doing that is 128 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 3: I'm just being really really clear on what I want 129 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 3: to say yes too and when I want to say 130 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: no to, and realizing that time is precious. It's so precious, 131 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: and I just really want to make sure that if 132 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 3: I'm putting my energy towards something, then it's like a 133 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 3: hell yes. 134 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 2: And that's something that I'm really doing at the moment. 135 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: I love that. I love what you said at the 136 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: start when you're saying you talked about the word pace 137 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: and something that I was actually talking to my friend 138 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: about the other day is sometimes when we're in this 139 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: hustle mode, it can kind of feel like we're on 140 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: this treadmill and we're inclining, like we're upping the speed, 141 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: and when you're in that hush mode, it can kind 142 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: of feel like you don't want to pull it down 143 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: because you're in this like fast motion and you've got 144 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: momentum and things are happening, and it can feel really 145 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: hard to like jump off the treadmill, if that makes sense. 146 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: So I love what you said about really kind of 147 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: being intentional because we really do need to jump off 148 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: because we can't always be on this treadmill running one 149 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: hundred miles now because we're just going to burn out. 150 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think something I'm really passionate personally at 151 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: the moment is business without burnout. Like I want the success, 152 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 3: but I don't want the burnout. Actually bought that domain 153 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 3: name the other day because I was obsessed with it 154 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 3: so much. I'm like, yeah, girl, that is a business 155 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 3: idea because I'm so passionate right now about just teaching 156 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 3: people to have a business, you know, to create this. 157 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 3: You know, one of my taglines is I create my 158 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 3: own reality. You create your own reality. That's something that 159 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 3: I'm really big on. The manifestation and law of attraction, 160 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 3: that's something that I'm super passionate about. And I just 161 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: really realize that although I want all this success, at 162 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 3: the same time, like I just want to enjoy life, like, 163 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 3: oh my gosh, I'm and I think it's so easy 164 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 3: with things like Instagram and stuff to get on this 165 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 3: like comparison Bandwagon, where we're comparing first yes, do this, 166 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:12,719 Speaker 3: and just comparing our life to everyone else's online, and 167 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 3: I just at the end of the day, it comes 168 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 3: down to like how are you feeling? And how do 169 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 3: you want to feel? And that's something I ask myself 170 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 3: all the time. I'm like, how do you really want 171 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 3: to feel? No, Rachelle, how do you really want to feel? 172 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 3: And if I'm going for something and you have a 173 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 3: goal and I'm going all out, if it's not going 174 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: to actually give me the feeling that I want, which 175 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 3: is like peace and ease, and it's just going to 176 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 3: create more to dos and stress and anxiety or pressure, 177 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 3: then I'm like, why why am I going for that? 178 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 3: Like what are my true values? Like how do I 179 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 3: really want to exist on this earth? 180 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 2: I love that. 181 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: So we went war right a head and got into it. 182 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: So I just realized, obviously I've done the intro, but 183 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: can you explain in your own words who Rochelle Fox is? 184 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 3: Oh? Okay, well, Rochelle Fox is an energy. That's how 185 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 3: I like to describe it. 186 00:09:59,240 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: First. 187 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 3: But for me, firstly, what I do I guess is 188 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 3: I'm a meditation teacher. I'm the co founder of a 189 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 3: company called Mindspo, which we're all about teaching meditation to 190 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 3: millennials and as many people as possible, making meditation cool, 191 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 3: relatable and fun. 192 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 2: A bit of a digital nomad. 193 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 3: I currently live in Bali, Indonesia, have a big house 194 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 3: there called the Mindspet Mansion where we run Mindspet retreats 195 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 3: and have lots of influencers and cool creators and stuff 196 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: come and stay with us. 197 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm a little. 198 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 3: Bit of a multifaceted entrepreneur, I guess, but my passion 199 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:38,359 Speaker 3: in life is really meditation and self love, personal development, mindfulness, manifestation, 200 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 3: law retraction, all that jazz my jam. 201 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: Very much so. And that's I followed Rachel literally back 202 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: in the day. And you've done so many things, like 203 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 1: I hope. 204 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 3: I wouldchoose like a dtail, always been a slashy Wow, 205 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 3: I'm a libra. 206 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: Can you tell indecisive? Af nobe? 207 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: You've done so many things, but definitely what has attracted 208 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:02,839 Speaker 1: me to your content and to stay is definitely your 209 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:06,119 Speaker 1: law of traction and meditation. So let's get into Mindspo. 210 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: So you teach meditation, and it's obviously something you were 211 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: so passionate about. So let's go back to the beginning. 212 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: What compelled you to start meditating in the first place, 213 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: and then why did you feel compelled to bring this 214 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: in a more of a you know, to more people 215 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: and to teach people. 216 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. 217 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 3: So I basically was diagnosed with PTSD postmat ex stress 218 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 3: disorder from childhood abuse and events in my past. In 219 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 3: my early twenties, I had really bad depression, anxiety, panic attacks, 220 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 3: the whole attack kin kaboodle name a mental health struggle, 221 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 3: and I was probably going through it bolimia disordered eating. 222 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: Binge eating. 223 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 3: I was just really really messed up in my early twenties, 224 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 3: and I had been through most of my schooling. 225 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 2: But I was really good at wearing a mask. 226 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 3: I was like the professional mask where where you look 227 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 3: at me and you'd be like, yeah, she's totally fine, 228 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 3: you know, like are you okay? Day? I was the 229 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 3: girl that needed to be asked are you okay? Because 230 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:02,719 Speaker 3: inside I was really cracking. So I found meditation and 231 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 3: it saved my life. It literally saved my whole entire life. 232 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 3: It completely changed who I was, and it made me 233 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 3: realize that I'm not actually my thoughts the thoughts are 234 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 3: just things, and I could observe them, and I used 235 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 3: to have I always used the line to my students, 236 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: don't be your brain's bitch. 237 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 2: I was my brain's biggest bitch. 238 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 3: I was believing every single negative thought in my head, 239 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 3: every single you know, criticism, every single little voice. And 240 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,079 Speaker 3: I was always tearing myself down and I was filled 241 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 3: with self doubt and fear, and meditation just taught me 242 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 3: how to observe that voice. It taught me how to 243 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 3: just like look at it and realize that that's not 244 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 3: actually me. And when I had this you know, transformation 245 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 3: through meditation, I was like, oh my god, how did 246 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 3: other people not know about this? At the time, I 247 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 3: was a DJ and a presenter and an instagrammer back 248 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 3: in the day when it was just starting out, and 249 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: I was in the entertainment industry. I was working for 250 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: Today FM well, doing like radio presenting. I used to 251 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: be the girl in the pit with the mic, grabbing 252 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 3: all the sound bites from the celebrities, and I'd go 253 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 3: to all these fancy events in Sydney and then I 254 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 3: would walk away and I would be, you know, at 255 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 3: a cocktail party with all these like people swaming around 256 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 3: and they'll be talking about things and this and that, 257 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 3: and I'd be like, oh my god, have you heard 258 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 3: about this thing called meditation. It's freaking amazing. So last week, 259 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 3: like a month ago, I was having panic attacks and 260 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 3: I learned this thing, and like now I'm totally saying 261 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 3: and people would just look at me being like, this 262 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 3: girl is batshit crazy. 263 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 2: And I was just so passionate about it. I was 264 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 2: so excited about it. 265 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 3: And it took me a while, but I meditated for 266 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 3: I think I was mentating for two three years before 267 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 3: I became. 268 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 2: No longer than that, actually got way longer. 269 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 3: My timelines were always distored it in my head, but 270 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 3: I was meditating for quiet. I need to write it 271 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: down one day. Actually, I was meditating for quite a 272 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 3: few years before I decided to become a teacher. I studied, 273 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 3: went and got my certification, became a meditation teacher. 274 00:13:58,160 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 2: Also did my yoga teacher training. 275 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 3: I quit my DJing duo, I quit, you know, presenting 276 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 3: all that sort of stuff. I still up my Instagram going, 277 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 3: and I decided I was going to become a meditation teacher. 278 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 3: I had no idea in the world how I was 279 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 3: going to make it work. You know, back in the 280 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 3: day when I was DJing, I said goodbye to you know, 281 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 3: a really solid income doing that. 282 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 2: That was very easy as well. 283 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 3: And yeah, I just went all balls in on meditation 284 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 3: teaching and then I created mindspo and mind Spore was 285 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 3: really just me. When I learned meditation, I learned through 286 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 3: a thousand dollar course and although it was the best 287 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 3: money I ever spent, I still say this to this day, 288 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 3: and back then I literally spent like the last one 289 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: thousand dollars, like the only one thousand dollars I had 290 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 3: in my bank. I wasn't rolling in it back then 291 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 3: by any means, and I spent that on this course 292 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 3: and it saved my life. And I just realized that, 293 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 3: you know, this was before like Headspace and all those 294 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 3: different things that came out, Like it was just you know, 295 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 3: when meditation just wasn't as popular back then, and I 296 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 3: wanted to create a course for people to make it 297 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: accessible and cool and relatable to our generation. And that's 298 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 3: when we created the Mindset Meditation Course, which is now 299 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 3: transformed into the Mindset Meditation Method. We have an online 300 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 3: course with me as your teacher, teaching you how to 301 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 3: meditate and it's not just like an apple you jump 302 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 3: on and listen to a voice. Like I go into 303 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 3: really explaining you know, what is meditation, what are your thoughts, 304 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 3: getting into the nitty gritty, really helping people with the 305 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 3: mental side of meditation, and just going deep on it 306 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 3: because I feel like it's something that so many people. 307 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 2: May have tried. 308 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 3: Maybe you've tried meditation, or you've heard of meditation and 309 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 3: you've decided, oh, I can't meditate. 310 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 2: I have too many thoughts or I can't. 311 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, like they don't see the benefit straight away, so 312 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: they give up. 313 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have too much time. 314 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 3: And a lot of that I think these days is 315 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 3: because people actually haven't got a teacher. It's like you 316 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 3: go to the gym and you try and squat and 317 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 3: you're like, oh, yeah, I suck at that. It's like 318 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 3: if you've got yourself a personal trainer, if you invest 319 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 3: it in it, in it and you actually learn, then 320 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 3: you would have a transformation. And that's really what mindspoe is. 321 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 3: It's a it's like going that step further. Yeah, So 322 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 3: it's really what we teach is you can do it anytime, anywhere. 323 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 3: It's a twenty two men practice with three steps visualization, 324 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 3: the mindsept meditation, and then a gratitude practice at the end. 325 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 2: So it's like habit stacking as well. 326 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 3: And it's a system that we've created and it's really 327 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 3: you know, you go through the whole entire course and 328 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 3: then you have this twenty two minute method that you 329 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 3: can learn, and you connect with all these meditators from 330 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 3: around the world that are doing our method. 331 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: That's amazing. I actually, like I've always known about mind 332 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: Spow and always loved what you speak about everything like that, 333 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 1: and I didn't realize just what you said about that 334 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: sort of stackable habit yeah thing or whatever you called it, 335 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: habit stacking. 336 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 2: Yes, that's really. 337 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: Cool, and I wondered what the difference was, and that's 338 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: that's really cool to know. 339 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I think for us it's like mind Spow. 340 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 3: The core of mindspot at the moment is like it's 341 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 3: an online meditation course and we also have a digital 342 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 3: self love course and we're all about like online education 343 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 3: for people. But for me, I just I really wanted 344 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 3: to make meditation easy and I wanted to get everyone 345 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 3: to just understand and like have it done in like 346 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 3: the best way possible. So it's just not something that 347 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 3: you try and never do again. It's something that you 348 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 3: actually make. And I one of the biggest things about 349 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 3: our course is teaching people how to make it a habit, because, 350 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 3: as I always say, like I can teach you the 351 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 3: most amazing thing in the world, the most life changing skill, 352 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 3: like George, you could teach you something that was like incredible. 353 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 3: But if I don't get up and apply it, if 354 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 3: I don't take action, if I don't do that thing, 355 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 3: then it's worth nothing. And I always say, like, I'm 356 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: not passionate about teaching meditation. That's not actually my passion. 357 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 3: I'm passionate about creating meditators because how you're going to 358 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 3: make a change in your mindset, how you're going to 359 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 3: make a shift in your life, How are you going 360 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 3: to create your own reality. How you're going to actually 361 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 3: like see that mental transformation and get out of that funk, 362 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 3: get released from that anxiety, that depression, that PTC, whatever 363 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 3: is going on. You have to become a meditator. It's 364 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 3: not someone that just meditates once or twice, like you. 365 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 3: You have to become a meditator. You have to embody 366 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 3: that thing, change that mindset, shift that belief and make 367 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 3: it part of your life. 368 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: I love that. And so let's go into kind of 369 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: the benefits of meditation. So I do a meditation practice 370 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: every single morning. 371 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: I know I've seen. 372 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, girl, and I've been doing that for Yeah, 373 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 1: a couple of you is like dabbling. Like to be honest, 374 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: I'd love to be way more consistent. I probably do 375 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 1: it three or four more. 376 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 2: I can help you with that. 377 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: Yes, I was actually thinking, yeah, we'll talk about this 378 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 1: aften and then I can definitely notice a difference in 379 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:21,919 Speaker 1: my day when I meditate and when I don't. But 380 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 1: can you tell the audience what are the actual benefits 381 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 1: of meditation? 382 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 3: There are so many this could be a podcast in itself. 383 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 3: I snapshott the topics. 384 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 2: I got it. 385 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 3: I think when it comes to meditation, benefits vary from 386 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 3: person to person, depending on what's going on for me personally. 387 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 2: I just become my own best friend. 388 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 3: And I think that is like I always say, like, 389 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,479 Speaker 3: don't be a brain's bitch. Become your brain's bestie. And 390 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 3: it's like I actually just you learn to be with yourself, 391 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,239 Speaker 3: You learn how to manage yourself, you learn how to 392 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 3: like love yourself, and just like hang out with yourself 393 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 3: without that you know, overthinking, you know voice like going on. 394 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 3: That's one of the biggest benefits for me. There's a 395 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 3: massive difference between the rehell that meditates and doesn't meditate. 396 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I notice what you just said about the voice, 397 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: Like I have this like nasty bitch voice. Oh yeah, 398 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: that inn in my head all day if I don't meditate, 399 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: Like I've noticed so much, how much more nasty I 400 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: am to myself about like everything, every little thing. 401 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, meditation is like turning that volume down. And that's 402 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 3: one of the most amazing things. And that's why I 403 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 3: get so excited about women specifically learning meditation, because they're. 404 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, Like the inner bitch is like 405 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: shut up. I'm like, yes, that's a thing. She she 406 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 2: doesn't actually always have to be on the show. It's awareness. 407 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 3: You realize that that voice is just a voice, it's 408 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 3: not actually you. 409 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 410 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 3: Other benefits for me. I sleep better, I'm calmer. I 411 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 3: don't have panic attacks anymore. I used to have chronic 412 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 3: panic attack disorder. I'm more kinder to myself in all aspects. 413 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 2: Of my life. I have a better relationship. 414 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 3: I fight less with my partner now, fiance, better sex, 415 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 3: definitely better sex, and I meditate more mindful and intentional. Gosh, 416 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 3: so many things. I could go on and on and on. 417 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: No, that that's one hundred percent. 418 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 2: I love that. 419 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 1: And so where can people find out more about mind 420 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: spow Like, we have lots of talkets to talk about. 421 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure I don't forget this. 422 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 1: Where can people find more about mindspirit. 423 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 3: So www dot mindspo dot com. We're also at mindspo 424 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 3: on Instagram and YouTube. We spoke like post lots of 425 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 3: inspiring content on YouTube as well and compilations. But also 426 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 3: I just want to say on this podcast, if you're 427 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 3: interested in meditation all, we have a completely free Mindfulness masterclass, 428 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 3: which is basically like a free mini course. 429 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 2: It's pretty amazing. Gives you an introduction to meditation. 430 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 3: It's me with your teacher as your teacher, and I 431 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 3: teach you about how to be in the present moment. 432 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 3: And that's one of the huge, gosh huge benefits. I 433 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 3: didn't mention about meditation. It's just learning how to be here, 434 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 3: learning how to be now, like learning how to just 435 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 3: really being in this moment, how to be present, how 436 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 3: to just find the joy in the I have this 437 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 3: new quote, find the joy in the journey, just like 438 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 3: find the joy in the everyday moment and every day life. 439 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 3: It's like my new tagline, find the joy in the journey. 440 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: Love it amazing, and I'll make sure I put all 441 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: that in the show notes. 442 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 2: A course, so check that out. 443 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: It's a freebee amazing. Okay. So something like I said 444 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: that I get really attracted with your content is definitely 445 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: your mindset, Like you just are such a high vibe 446 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: person and in person it's exact same like on your Instagram. 447 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: I can watch your stories, consume your content, everything and 448 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 1: I'm just instantly raised. And even in person you can 449 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: tell you're such a high vib person, which is amazing. 450 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,919 Speaker 1: We thank you, no worries. And then so something I 451 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: want to talk about is your approach to mindset, setting, 452 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: attentions and journaling. I'm a big journalist, which has only 453 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: been recent actually, yeah, I've noticed life changing. Do you journal? 454 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: And if you do, I know you do. Let's be honest. 455 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: If you journal, can you let us know some prompts 456 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: that usually ask yourself that you know, set some intentions 457 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 1: and something that listeners could also use. 458 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 3: I'm going to give you a really big one that 459 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: is actually from my new course enough and it's something 460 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 3: that it's a question that I journal probably once a month, 461 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 3: but I've actually been asking myself this like on the 462 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 3: weekly at the moment, which is kind of a scary 463 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 3: question to ask. It's actually the question that changed my 464 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 3: life and it stopped me being, you know, going and 465 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 3: doing all my djaing and presenting and all that stuff 466 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 3: and led me to become a meditation teacher. And it's 467 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 3: knowing what I now know, what would I do differently? 468 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 3: And the trick is when you ask yourself this question, 469 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 3: it's not about regret. It's about taking everything to ground zero, 470 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 3: imagining you could start out from the top, start like 471 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 3: redesign your whole entire life with all the knowledge that 472 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 3: you have now, with all the wisdom, with all the 473 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 3: harm moments that you've had, take everything to ground zero 474 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 3: without emotion. This is a very important part for females 475 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 3: without emotion, because I know when we ask ourselves these questions, 476 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 3: it's like, oh my god, there's so many things that 477 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 3: could just take it without emotion and ask yourself, like, 478 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 3: knowing what I now know, what would I do differently? 479 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 3: And when you find the answer to that. It's like, 480 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 3: if it's something that you would change, or something that 481 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 3: you would shift, or something that you would alter, you 482 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 3: ask yourself the question, Okay, how could I do that? 483 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 3: And how fast? Like how can I make that change? 484 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 3: How can I make that shift? The most amazing thing 485 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 3: about this question when you're talking about intentions, is it 486 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 3: really we're making choices all the time in our life. 487 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: Life is continually made out of choices. But quite often 488 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 3: in life we're scared to reevaluate our choices. 489 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 2: We're scared to you know, turn around and say. 490 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 3: Oh, actually I made the wrong choice there, or hey, 491 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 3: I'd like to realign things, or actually looking at my 492 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 3: life right now, like you made a huge choice, you 493 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 3: were doing all your law and everything, you turned around 494 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 3: and go, hang on a second, I've got a whole 495 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 3: other thing that I want to do. This is like, 496 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 3: there's actually something that I'm so much more passion about. 497 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 3: I want to empower women. I want to do this thing. 498 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 3: I want to you know, follow this opportunity that I have. 499 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 3: I want to go all in. And that's why this 500 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,400 Speaker 3: question for me is such a powerful one because it's 501 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 3: like asking you to become aware, like knowing what you 502 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 3: now know, Like, what would you do differently? How would 503 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 3: you change? How would you shift your life? And try 504 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 3: and do it from a place where you're not scared, 505 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 3: where you're not emotional, where anything is possible. And that's 506 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 3: where I like to have this law of attraction abundance mindset, 507 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 3: where it's like all doors are open, infinite doors, infinite opportunities, 508 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 3: like go all in, like have some fun with it, 509 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 3: be creative and be limitless with your thinking and limitless beyond. 510 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 3: I do this new thing recently me and Soul. I 511 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 3: actually mentioned this to anyone. So this might sound a 512 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 3: bit weird, but I'm not going to mention what entrepreneur 513 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 3: it is. But my partner, my fiance and I we 514 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,880 Speaker 3: sort of role playing, pretend we're not us, and then 515 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 3: we pretend to be these other entrepreneurs that we find 516 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 3: really inspiring. 517 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 2: And you have a really cool mindset. 518 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 3: And we have business meetings where I wear glasses and 519 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,919 Speaker 3: what I do is I use the glasses as a trigger. 520 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 3: So when I put on the glasses, I become this person, 521 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 3: and when Soul puts on his watch, he becomes this guy. 522 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 3: And I ask myself these journaling questions and stuff, and 523 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 3: I do it from a really non emotional place, pretending 524 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,919 Speaker 3: to be someone else, looking at my life from an 525 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: observer perspective, which is really for me. I've been meditating 526 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 3: for ten years, so I'm able to kind of observe 527 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 3: myself without being myself, which is really fun. And yeah, 528 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 3: so that's something that like, just like when I'm trying 529 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 3: to say with that, it's like, look at your life 530 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 3: without limits, look at yourself from like a third party perspective. 531 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 3: Ask yourself, what would you do? What would you change? 532 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 3: You know, what, what do you actually want out of 533 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 3: your life? 534 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: I love that and that's so powerful. 535 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,439 Speaker 2: It's a good one. Yeah, I'm going to use that. 536 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I asked that, like oh my girls and my retreats, 537 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 3: and then it's in my new course. I got so 538 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 3: many girls that are doing the course being like, ah 539 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:39,400 Speaker 3: that question. 540 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, you're making some changes, babe. It's a 541 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 2: really beautiful one. 542 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 3: And hey, sometimes the best thing you are just it's 543 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 3: not always about changing, it's not. 544 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: Sometimes I ask myself that question. 545 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 3: I ask myself that the other day I'd be like 546 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 3: I'd be right here in crumbin sitting eaten. I was 547 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 3: eating Cabri Kara milk, and I was like, I would 548 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 3: not change anything right now. And I was about to 549 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 3: watch the Tailor Swift documentary. I'm like, this is great 550 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 3: and that's amazing. Well, you last yourself enough if you realize. 551 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 2: That you're in alignment, and when you're in alignment, it's like, oh, 552 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 2: that's amazing. Ah, that feels so good. 553 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: So you were just chatting about law of attraction. Yeah, 554 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 1: and so let's get into this. So this is obviously 555 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,399 Speaker 1: something that you have been using for a lot of 556 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: your twenties. Now, how did you first kind of learn 557 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 1: about this and get into it? And then how do 558 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: you I guess it's a hard question of how to 559 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: use it every single day, but how do you sort 560 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: of use it to change your mindset? Cool? 561 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 3: Okay, So how I got into it basically spiritual awakening 562 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 3: in my early twenties, got into meditation. I think when 563 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 3: you get into that, you sort of start That's what 564 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 3: happened to me to get into everything and it's like, 565 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 3: oh wow, like there's this thing called the law of attraction. 566 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 3: You start with the secret and then it kind of snowballs. 567 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's how I kind of got into it. 568 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 2: How do I use it? Every single day? 569 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 3: I have what I would say installed abundance or installed 570 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 3: law of attraction manifest mindsets in the sense that I 571 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 3: just sort of function from a place where I use this. 572 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 3: It's like my mantra, like I believe that I create 573 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 3: my own reality and that is the truth because I'm 574 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 3: doing things that are completely you know, not designed off 575 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 3: by anyone else, like on my rogue, doing my thing, 576 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 3: and I've proven that to myself. 577 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 1: I am a little bit ro no, but it's amazing. 578 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 1: And sorry, sorry to interrupt me, because some people I 579 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: feel like they're like, what do you mean you create 580 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: your own reality? Like what does that actually mean? 581 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 3: It means that I am just designing, manifesting, creating, building 582 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 3: my own version of what I want my life to be. 583 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 3: You know, I'm sort of molding it into like how 584 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 3: I want to live my life intentionally, how I want 585 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 3: to think, how I want to feel, and just being 586 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 3: savage about that honestly. 587 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: And do you think some people kind of have difficulties 588 00:27:54,560 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: with this because they have that limiting belief of it's 589 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 1: almost like they don't have the choice, Like they're kind 590 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 1: of like, what do you mean, how do you get 591 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: to pick things like that it's luck or if it 592 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: just happens, like what do you say to that person? 593 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 3: Okay, so one thing I would say going on from 594 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 3: the fact that like my whole mantra with icraatemmor reality, 595 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,199 Speaker 3: when you start working with this, you have what you 596 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 3: have to fundamentally realize is that your beliefs actually are 597 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,159 Speaker 3: the things that are creating your reality. Yeah, it's what 598 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,199 Speaker 3: you believe, it's what you perceive because at the end 599 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 3: of the day, like life is just like you are 600 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,439 Speaker 3: perceiving life through your own lens. So for me with that, 601 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 3: it's like when people say like, oh, how are you 602 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 3: doing that, I'm like, well, you've got. 603 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 2: To get your belief systems right. 604 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 3: You've got to like go and do the work on 605 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 3: your belief systems, your core beliefs, like go off. You're 606 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 3: limiting beliefs like all the things that aren't serving you 607 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 3: so you can get more in alignment to you know, 608 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 3: how you actually want to live your life, because your 609 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 3: beliefs are having such a huge impact on your life, 610 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 3: and so many people don't even realize that they're holding 611 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 3: onto these negative belief systems and that they're like changing 612 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 3: everything for them like people will have it I'm not 613 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 3: enough belief system, and that will be basically just feeding 614 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 3: every single thing in their life because anything that happens, 615 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 3: they just constantly think that I'm not enough, I'm not 616 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 3: worthy of this, so they're just like rejecting it. They're 617 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 3: not in alignment for what they actually want. So it's 618 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 3: really about doing massive self work and personal development work. 619 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 3: And hey, anyone listening to this, like, this is my job. 620 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 3: So I've been very lucky that I've had to like 621 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 3: I've had to, like in order to teach this stuff, 622 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 3: I've had to live this stuff. And it's not like 623 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 3: I was. You know, this is I came from a 624 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 3: really dark place with this. This has been years and 625 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 3: years of work getting to like a better mindset, and hey, 626 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 3: I still have my days where I feel like shit 627 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 3: and things aren't going that well. But I think the 628 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 3: difference between where I used to be and where I 629 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 3: am now is I have the tools and I just, 630 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 3: you know, I realized that, you know, I'm human and 631 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 3: I will also stuff up. 632 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 2: I love that. 633 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 1: And something that I loved is last year you wrote 634 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: this post, this Instagram post where you talked about top 635 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: ten moments of twenty nineteen, and the last one you 636 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: listed was letting go of your I'm not enough story. 637 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: So you've done the work. Can we go a little 638 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: bit deeper into this and explore it a little bit 639 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: more in regards to how did you conquer self doubt 640 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen? What lessons are you now using from 641 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: that to bring into twenty twenty. 642 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 3: So it's kind of not just been I guess at 643 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 3: twenty nineteen conquering I think what really happened in twenty 644 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 3: nineteen and why that was on that post. Of all 645 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 3: the things that I did and was like probably for me, 646 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 3: the biggest, one of the biggest personal ones was in 647 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 3: twenty nineteen. A little backstory, I went all in and 648 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 3: we got this huge house in Bali called the mindsbo 649 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 3: Mansion where we run our retreats and we host influences, 650 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 3: and we moved from Australia when we were not from 651 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 3: Australia actually we were traveling around the world, and then 652 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 3: we settled in Bali and I just kind of started 653 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 3: this whole entire thing that I didn't think was going 654 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 3: to be possible and made all these I guess, big moves, 655 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 3: and the thing that really happened. Was I realized in 656 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 3: making you know, all the moves, having all those achievements, 657 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 3: doing all that work, creating all these things, doing all 658 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 3: these retreats, creating these two programs, you know, redoing our 659 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:13,400 Speaker 3: meditation program, creating my digital self love program, I was like, WHOA, 660 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 3: Like the girl I was like even three years ago 661 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 3: couldn't do this. 662 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 2: Like it was like I had done all the work 663 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 2: on myself. 664 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 3: And then I had this one year where I literally 665 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 3: just went all in and I just didn't even any 666 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 3: point of doubt that I had. I just didn't listen. 667 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 3: I just kept going and going and going for it, 668 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 3: and it just like all unfolded. And that was I 669 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 3: sat back at the end of the year. I was like, wow, Like, honestly, 670 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 3: the girl I was, you know, seven ten years ago, 671 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 3: like would literally be crying on the floor and a 672 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 3: panic attack, like honestly thought she was going to kill herself. 673 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 3: Like was in such a dark place. I just never 674 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 3: thought that any of this would be possible. And now 675 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 3: I'm coaching girls and like running these self love retreats 676 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 3: and having all these you know, beautiful transformations, and you're 677 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 3: showing people that it's possible and that was this huge 678 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 3: thing where I realized that that little voice saying I'm 679 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 3: not enough, like, actually, she's wrong. That's the crazy thing. 680 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 3: I could prove that she's wrong. Where the voice would 681 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 3: come up and be like, listen, bitch, look at all 682 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 3: the shit that I just did. Like if I thought 683 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 3: I wasn't enough, if I actually wasn't enough, if I 684 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 3: was what you were saying that I am, that I 685 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 3: wouldn't have been able to do all this, Like the 686 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 3: proof is in the pudding. I just went all in 687 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 3: and it was kind of like, rather than just mentally 688 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 3: believing and doing that mental work, I physically went and 689 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 3: did it. And then there was this huge realization at 690 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 3: the end of the year and that's yeah, well when 691 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 3: I sort of created this program because I was like, 692 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 3: I've let oh that story. Don't get me wrong, though, 693 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 3: it was a cool belief, and for me, it's like 694 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 3: she pops up every now and then that I'm not 695 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 3: enough story. There'll be moments, you know, it's not like. 696 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 2: The golden mindset, you know, it's no, not like that, No, 697 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 2: of course not. 698 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 3: It's like and I have these moments, but the difference 699 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 3: is now that I have I'm strong enough in my 700 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 3: proof that I'm like, no, like, you know, look at this, 701 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 3: and I talk back to myself all the time, you know, 702 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 3: I have these moments of doubt and I'm like, you know, 703 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 3: I think a lot of it comes from, you know, 704 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 3: with me with not good enough. 705 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 2: They'll be like, you know, well, but why are you 706 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 2: deserving in this? I'm like, why not? Why can't I 707 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:08,479 Speaker 2: do this? 708 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 3: Why can't I be the one to you know, create 709 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 3: this for myself? You know what makes everyone else so special? 710 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 3: You know, like, you know, why can't I just believe 711 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 3: in myself up enough? And that's been really really beautiful, 712 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 3: and I think that, like at the end of the 713 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 3: day with it, it's. 714 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 2: Just a story. 715 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, Like that's the thing you have to realize. 716 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 3: It's like I had this realization with that whole entire thing. 717 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 3: It's like, it's just a story. And now I've rewritten 718 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 3: the story. And it's like such a beautiful thing to 719 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 3: rewrite your own story and see it through a different lens. 720 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 2: I love that. 721 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,479 Speaker 1: So when this podcast goes live, it would have already 722 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: been out that tomorrow, Like the first episode of season 723 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 1: two is how to Rewrite Your Story. I growing up 724 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: like I had all these stories that I had given 725 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: myself that really capped my potential. And so I have 726 00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: spent the last couple of years doing a lot of 727 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: stuff development and rewriting these stories. And I think it's 728 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 1: once you do one, it gets almost easier. And I 729 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: think also once you have awareness that it is just 730 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: a story, it is. 731 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 3: A story, and you call it out like I constantly 732 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 3: my brain and brain, I'm like, ah, story, yes, I'm 733 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 3: not enough story, Yes. 734 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 2: Oh this story. 735 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 3: It's like yeah, butt story at the beach. I'm just like, oh, 736 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,680 Speaker 3: butt story, Gonna shut that up now, you know what 737 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 3: I mean? 738 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 2: Or like oh, bloated story. 739 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 3: Like these are all just things that were like hanging 740 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 3: onto and when you. 741 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 1: Do actually rewrite them, like you realize how much power 742 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: you actually have. 743 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's like when you rewrite the story, you 744 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,839 Speaker 2: take the power back. 745 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 3: It's like the thing with stories, it's like you're feeding 746 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 3: a story is kind of like feed into it. 747 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a. 748 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 3: Belief system like I like to think about like this, 749 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 3: do you remember neopets or tama got cheesy? Like I 750 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 3: like to think of like belief systems are like neopets 751 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,879 Speaker 3: or tamagotchies, in your brain that you were like feeding. Yeah, 752 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 3: and if you keep feeding them, they get healthy, and 753 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 3: then they get bigger and they take over, and then they 754 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 3: start like living and taking up this huge amount of 755 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 3: rent in your space the point where they like you 756 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 3: get a headache because they're so big, and it's this 757 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 3: this big, fat, bulbous neopat. 758 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 2: Sitting sitting in your head. You're like, oh my god, 759 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,239 Speaker 2: why is this thing like taking over? It's like, well, 760 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,839 Speaker 2: you've been feeding this thing. You've been backing it up 761 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:16,880 Speaker 2: and leaning into it. 762 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 3: And that's why, like last year I said, like I 763 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 3: stopped feeding that because I was like, look at this, 764 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 3: this is it's not true. 765 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 2: It's not true. 766 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 3: And that's why I always say to people just go 767 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 3: like I know, cliche, rosh, but go fearlessly for your dreams. 768 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 3: Because the thing is when you start getting uncomfortable, when 769 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 3: you get in the discomfort zone. Yeah, it's like all 770 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 3: magic happens outside your comfort zone. And when you get 771 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 3: there and you start going for it, people. 772 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 2: Are like you then have proof. 773 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 3: So you're like, wow, there's like I made a change, 774 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 3: I did that thing, and there's just such a magic 775 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 3: in that. So that's why I'm always like fearlessly. Just 776 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,839 Speaker 3: take the risk, go do the thing you know, make 777 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,760 Speaker 3: that call, whatever it is, do it now. 778 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,759 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Naked Harvest Supplements. 779 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure most of you know who Naked Harvest is, 780 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 1: but if you are new here, Naked Harvest is the 781 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: all natural supplement company I co founded with my brother. 782 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 1: Naked Harvest started because I personally had a really bad 783 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: experience where I found out a supplement that I was 784 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: taking had ingredients that were not disclosed on the label, 785 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: and even though it said it was natural, it wasn't. 786 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 1: As someone who is so conscious about what I put 787 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: in my body because of previous health issues, this made 788 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 1: me so upset. 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Otherwise, head straight to Naked Harvest Supplements 805 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: dot com or follow us on Instagram at Naked Harvest Supplements. 806 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's get straight back into the episode. 807 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: Once you get rid of one story, it gives you 808 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,319 Speaker 1: the power and you can start look at the other 809 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 1: stories and really kind of go into it. But I 810 00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,240 Speaker 1: want to talk more about your new course, Enough, which 811 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: is I think by the time this is line, it 812 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,320 Speaker 1: will be our so we'll have all the links and 813 00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 1: all that sort of stuff, But tell us more about 814 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 1: what actually this is perfect. 815 00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 3: So Enough is my brand new baby, and it's really 816 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 3: sort of a course inspired by the I Am Not 817 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 3: good Enough story, which was my biggest self love limiting belief. 818 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 2: So a little bit of background story. 819 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 3: In twenty nineteen, in BALI at this thing called the 820 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 3: mindspur Mansion that we have. I basically ran all these 821 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 3: self love retreats. My self Love retreats are these deep 822 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 3: healing retreats. There may be still spots for this year. 823 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 3: I'm not sure by the time this podcast comes out, 824 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 3: but they're essentially these deep healing retreats where women come 825 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 3: from all over the world and they come to let 826 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 3: go and just work through their shit and just to 827 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 3: really focus on their self love and their personal development. 828 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 3: And I did these retreats and they're all about ceremonies 829 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 3: and a lot of workshops and learning meditation, which is 830 00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 3: a huge part of the week, and going on all 831 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 3: these different adventures and experiences. And I was doing these 832 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 3: retreats and I, you know, had over one hundred women 833 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 3: do these retreats. And at the end of each retreat, 834 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 3: I would have, you know, several of the women come 835 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,600 Speaker 3: up to me and crab me and say, Rachelle, you 836 00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 3: can't ever stop doing this. 837 00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 2: This is the best week of my life. 838 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,360 Speaker 3: And you know, it's humbling, so humbling to hear something 839 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 3: like that. And I just knew that I had to 840 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 3: make that retreat into a digital program. So Essentially it 841 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 3: is my self Love Retreat's gone digital, and it is 842 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 3: really sort of what I I'm always scratching my own 843 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 3: itch with what we've created with MINDSPO, and it's really 844 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 3: just like what I wish I had when I was 845 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 3: like at my lowest with like all my mindset stuff. 846 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 3: Even after I'd learned meditation, it had changed so much, 847 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,799 Speaker 3: but there were these belief systems that I hadn't sort 848 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 3: of learned about yet or hadn't recognized, and these core 849 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:33,839 Speaker 3: beliefs that I just didn't know that we're there. So 850 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 3: like I was feeling so much better because of you know, 851 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,359 Speaker 3: meditation and like the awareness of my thoughts, but then 852 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 3: I had all these belief systems and lack stories. So 853 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 3: it's really a very comprehensive program. It's a six week course, 854 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 3: but you can do it at your own pace. And 855 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 3: we go through self awareness, getting like super self aware 856 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,759 Speaker 3: about like who you are as a person, understanding just 857 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,359 Speaker 3: who you are, like literally like who are you? And 858 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,880 Speaker 3: getting clear on that you know your personality, you know, 859 00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 3: starting with some meditation stuff. Two, we go all into 860 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 3: all my empower stuff, so all my teachings, you know, 861 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 3: teaching you. 862 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 2: How to like let go of comparison. 863 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 3: You're comparing yourself to everyone else online and that mindset 864 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 3: learning how to be a cheerleader for other women and 865 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 3: you're realizing that their strength and sisterhood and celebration of 866 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 3: other people's success, you know, just going into like all 867 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 3: these beautiful teachings. That's the second part. Then we go 868 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 3: into detoxing, which isn't anything to do with. 869 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,920 Speaker 2: Diets, it's no. 870 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 3: The detoxing section is really exciting, and this is all 871 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,839 Speaker 3: journaling as well, So it's a video course as well 872 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 3: as audio. 873 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna give it to you're gonna adure it. 874 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 3: It's like it's all videos, really bite sized videos as 875 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 3: well as journaling and presentations and audios. 876 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 2: It's the whole get kaboodle and yoga flows as well. 877 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 3: And then yes, so then they go into detoxing and 878 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 3: that's just like environment like detoxing or social media like 879 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: on following every like all those people that like are 880 00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 3: not like actually inspiring you. Like I say, like when 881 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 3: you're on Instagram, it's kind of like your feed is 882 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,319 Speaker 3: actually feeding you. It's like you go on Instagram and 883 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 3: it's like an all you can eat buffet that you 884 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 3: consume and then you walk away. Sometimes you're like, oh 885 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 3: my god, I feel so shit, and it's like, well, yeah, 886 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 3: because you just went on this all you can eat 887 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 3: buffet scrolling on in infinity feeds, like just taking in 888 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,799 Speaker 3: everyone's shit, and you walk away feeling depleted and maybe 889 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 3: you don't actually have people that inspire you on there, 890 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 3: so just you know, detoxing your environment all this different stuff. 891 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:27,240 Speaker 2: That's the detoxing section. 892 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,880 Speaker 3: And then we have a letting Go module and Beliefs module, 893 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 3: which is all about like understanding this core belief like 894 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 3: you know, going into your story, rewriting a story, rewriting 895 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 3: all the things that I've been holding you back, you know, 896 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 3: doing major work on your belief systems and your values. 897 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,440 Speaker 3: And then yeah, letting it go with a letting go 898 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 3: ceremony and just like learning how to let go, learning 899 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 3: how to you know, let go of different things that 900 00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 3: are holding you back, and just a whole lot of 901 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 3: work around this. 902 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,040 Speaker 2: It's a huge course and amazing. 903 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 3: The last one's all about creation, so all about manifestation, 904 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 3: creating your own real you know, getting excited. There's lots 905 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 3: of different tools and techniques I teach on it. Meditations 906 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 3: and yeah, heaps of stuff. It's a just honestly, if 907 00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,719 Speaker 3: I'm really real, it was the biggest thing I've ever 908 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:14,880 Speaker 3: produced in my life, to the point where my fiance 909 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 3: and partner, so he's also the co founder of Minds, 910 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 3: but he walked away and he's like, Rachelle, you did 911 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 3: not tell me how big this thing is. I'm like, 912 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 3: I just want women to get this course and be 913 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,200 Speaker 3: like I've got everything I need. 914 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's so needed though, Yeah, it's so needed. 915 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 1: And so me and Rachelle have been talking for was 916 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 1: before this podcast. 917 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,239 Speaker 3: I know, George's like, oh, we should probably record the 918 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 3: podcast like stuff. 919 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,400 Speaker 1: But something we were talking about is like, my message 920 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 1: is very much about empowering women to believe they can 921 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 1: be enough and they can go after what they want. 922 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 1: And that can sound so simple, but that for me 923 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,720 Speaker 1: kept me small for so long. 924 00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 2: Deep work. 925 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:02,320 Speaker 1: It's yes, so deep, and it's so rooted. And me 926 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,680 Speaker 1: and Michell also talking about like some people are just 927 00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 1: not even aware that that's something they can change. It's 928 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,360 Speaker 1: almost like they just think that you know certain, and 929 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,719 Speaker 1: they can just never change that way. 930 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 3: There's people I meet, students I meet that start a 931 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 3: week retreat with me, and they're like, I was born 932 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 3: not enough, I'm never going to be enough. 933 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 2: And I'm like, girl, by the end of this week, 934 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 2: you are going to be enough and more and you're. 935 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,240 Speaker 3: Gonna have twelve soul sisters and you're going to rewrite 936 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,720 Speaker 3: your story and like it's crazy and it's so powerful 937 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 3: what the mind can do. 938 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,360 Speaker 1: Yes, I think that's it. It's like realizing how powerful 939 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: your mind can actually be. And so I wanted to 940 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: ask you, do you have some advice? It can be just, 941 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: you know, some quick advice of someone has a current 942 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 1: limiting belief. It could be anything like maybe they don't 943 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 1: think they're enough, or even a big thing I kind 944 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 1: of see is like people don't think they're deserving of 945 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,680 Speaker 1: having what they want, Like where is this person meant 946 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:00,880 Speaker 1: to see? Start? 947 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,400 Speaker 3: I honestly, one of the things I always start with 948 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,360 Speaker 3: everyone is asking why. So, like, if you have something 949 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,320 Speaker 3: like I don't deserve X, why answer why? 950 00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,360 Speaker 2: A answer why? Answer why? 951 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:17,239 Speaker 3: And generally, when you do that enough for yourself, you're 952 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,799 Speaker 3: going to find something that happened in your childhood. You're 953 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,960 Speaker 3: going to find something that you have heard somewhere, some 954 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:27,880 Speaker 3: conditioned perception that you've been holding onto some idea of reality, 955 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,839 Speaker 3: some sort of belief system that is just. 956 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:31,800 Speaker 2: Not really true. 957 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 3: It's not really valid, but it's something that you've been 958 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,880 Speaker 3: holding as truth. The thing about belief systems is like, 959 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 3: if you tell yourself something long enough, then you'll start 960 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 3: believing it. That's why, like I'm the crazy girl that 961 00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 3: thinks I, you know, I'm law of attraction to all 962 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:44,760 Speaker 3: this stuff. 963 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 2: Is like, that's my belief system. 964 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,840 Speaker 3: Like I live and breathe that, like I have taught myself, 965 00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,480 Speaker 3: and yeah, like I have challenges with that sometimes and 966 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 3: it's not I don't have a magic wand but it's 967 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 3: you know, and there is action, you know. It's it's 968 00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 3: obviously I'm not you know, saying that, like, oh just 969 00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:01,919 Speaker 3: think it. It's not the secret. You know. It goes 970 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,040 Speaker 3: deeper than that, Like there is action and you know, 971 00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,360 Speaker 3: taking you know, steps towards what you want and being directional. 972 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:10,359 Speaker 3: But I think the main thing I would always say 973 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 3: to anyone that's like, you know, starting off with the 974 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 3: belief systems and stuff, is just start asking yourself questions, 975 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 3: like start questioning your own mind, like have a healthy 976 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 3: mistrust for the mind. And that's one of the things 977 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 3: I love about meditation because it taught me. When I 978 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 3: started doing it, I was like. 979 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,640 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I can observe the thoughts and I'm 980 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 2: not actually them. Oh wow. 981 00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:31,800 Speaker 3: So I would sit there and I would listen, and 982 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,600 Speaker 3: meditation isn't about stopping your thoughts. Everyone always thinks this. 983 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,800 Speaker 3: It's about observing. And I would be like listening and observing, 984 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 3: and I'd be like, oh wow, interesting, Wow, I can 985 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 3: like I can listen to all this stuff, and I'd realize, like, 986 00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:44,640 Speaker 3: hang on a second, that's just a voice. 987 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 2: That's not me. 988 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:49,840 Speaker 3: Because if I'm here listening to the voice, watching the voice, 989 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:50,720 Speaker 3: then what's the voice? 990 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 2: Yeah boom? You know, you go like. 991 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's the thing, and you realize that, hang 992 00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 3: on a second, like that actually isn't me. 993 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 2: That belief system, that thought, like, that's just something that 994 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 2: I'm entertaining. 995 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 3: And sometimes when you repeat something enough, you know, you 996 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 3: start to believe it. 997 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:10,359 Speaker 1: And so for example, let's say these people they have 998 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 1: found the limitedly if they've done the question, they've done 999 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: their journally and like something I'm pulling out of thin ears, 1000 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: like maybe the belief is I'm not smart enough. I 1001 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 1: don't deserve it. Because I'm not smart enough and they 1002 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 1: get down to something like that. So once I've kind 1003 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,560 Speaker 1: of figured out, oh, this is the belief, it's not 1004 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,759 Speaker 1: actually true that become aware, how do you sort of 1005 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:28,399 Speaker 1: go from there? 1006 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,359 Speaker 3: So start actioning it. So start saying something, what would 1007 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 3: make me smart enough? Like you know, like that's why 1008 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 3: I said, like what would make me good enough? Like 1009 00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,360 Speaker 3: start finding out like what is your perception of smart enough? 1010 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 3: Like start understanding what's smart enough is? 1011 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1012 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like start getting like deep on that because 1013 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 3: I think at the end of the day, it's like, well, 1014 00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,280 Speaker 3: what is smart what's your definition? 1015 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:49,040 Speaker 1: Gets to define that? 1016 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:49,160 Speaker 3: Ye? 1017 00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 2: Who gets to define? 1018 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:50,719 Speaker 1: Getting this from? 1019 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, where are you exactly? So I think that's the 1020 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,800 Speaker 3: first thing I would always say, like questioning and also 1021 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,040 Speaker 3: then like for me, a huge part of it is 1022 00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 3: just like giving it less energy, yeah, like not feeding it, 1023 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 3: and like changing your influences and your environment around you, 1024 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,600 Speaker 3: so that like that self limiting belief isn't perpetuating. 1025 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 1: I love that, and thank you so much for sharing 1026 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 1: insight on that. So something I really wanted to sort 1027 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 1: of chat about. And I'm going to throw a curve 1028 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 1: ball at you so I can't remember the exact date 1029 00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 1: or anything like that. Bit. So, me and Michelle both 1030 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 1: have short hair, and you cut your hair ages before me. 1031 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: And I remember seeing a post. So I was thinking 1032 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,680 Speaker 1: about cutting my hair, and for a long time, I 1033 00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 1: was like, oh, should I cut it? And I had 1034 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,280 Speaker 1: like hair down below my nipples sort of thing, like long, 1035 00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 1: luscious blonde hair, and that had been my hair for 1036 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,919 Speaker 1: so long, and I kind of had an identity around it. Yeah, 1037 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 1: for sure. And then I started this new phase of 1038 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 1: my life. We moved to the coast, I started all 1039 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 1: these new things and lots was happening, and I had 1040 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,880 Speaker 1: this like deep route. I was like, I want to 1041 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 1: cut my hair, like I just want to get rid 1042 00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 1: of it. And then I remember seeing a post from 1043 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,359 Speaker 1: Rachelle and she kind of explained this post I'm going 1044 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 1: to butcher so long ago. 1045 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 3: Okay, No, I I love where this is going because 1046 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 3: this was a huge part of my nun Nu story, 1047 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,080 Speaker 3: my hair attachment. 1048 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:09,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1049 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 1: So she was just explaining that she had this attachment 1050 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,759 Speaker 1: to her hair in regards to your story of and 1051 00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: your identity beautiful. Yeah, and you had attached that to it, 1052 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,799 Speaker 1: and then you cut your hair and you realize how 1053 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 1: much power that sort of had over you and you 1054 00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,359 Speaker 1: went through this whole journey. And I remember literally after 1055 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: seeing that post, I like went and cut my hair. 1056 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I was like, oh my god, Like 1057 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: I knew like I was meant to see this, and 1058 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 1: it was like we were on the same level. So 1059 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: can you explain a little bit about that and how 1060 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,000 Speaker 1: you had attached your physical appearance to your selfware. 1061 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,040 Speaker 2: So little backstory, there's a beautiful story with this. 1062 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 3: Actually I actually cut my hair before my first ever 1063 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 3: All Girl's Female Self Love Retreat, so the retreat that's 1064 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 3: now the Digital program Enough. It was essentially I realized 1065 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,879 Speaker 3: that I had this huge attachment to my hair and 1066 00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 3: this sort of identity around mermaid, golden blonde, perfectly curled 1067 00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 3: Kardashian luscious locks. Like I was just so into this 1068 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 3: idea of beauty being like long hair, and I hated 1069 00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 3: my hair as always been thin and fine and naturally 1070 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 3: blonde and short. It just never grown and I just 1071 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 3: sort of had this like I had to have the hair, 1072 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,920 Speaker 3: like I had had extensions my whole entire life, and 1073 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 3: I could not imagine myself without extensions, to the point 1074 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 3: where I would take my extensions out like old Rosh 1075 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 3: would take her extensions out if they could not put 1076 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 3: them in on the day because they were so wrecked 1077 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 3: for some reason with the glue. 1078 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 2: I would cancel my plans. 1079 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 3: To stay home like that were going out to stay 1080 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 3: home because I actually could not even bear to go 1081 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 3: out without my hair extensions. 1082 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:45,279 Speaker 2: It was a full blown, like psychopathic attachment. 1083 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 3: And it was so deep rooted in just my concept 1084 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 3: of beauty and also just not even my concept of 1085 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 3: beauty of other people, but my concept of beauty of myself, 1086 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,239 Speaker 3: of what I thought I had to be. 1087 00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 2: I used to be a model and stuff. 1088 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 3: And I remember my back in the I had an 1089 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,719 Speaker 3: agent tell me that like, oh, you'll get so much 1090 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 3: better work if your hair was thicker and longer, and 1091 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,560 Speaker 3: because it's just really like they want you to be 1092 00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 3: that beach girl, so you really need to have that's 1093 00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 3: the beauty standard, that beach girl look. So I cut 1094 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 3: my hair and it was a Actually I do this 1095 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 3: thing in my life. I've done it before every single 1096 00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,800 Speaker 3: self love retreat I've ever done. It's called a massive 1097 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,320 Speaker 3: act of self love. It's also my course, and it's 1098 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 3: essentially what I do is I constantly challenge myself to 1099 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 3: do massive acts of self love where I go and 1100 00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 3: prove to myself by taking action that I'm changing at something. 1101 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,680 Speaker 3: So another example of a massive act of self love, 1102 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 3: the first one ever was cutting my hair and I 1103 00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:38,680 Speaker 3: did it two days before my self love retreat, when 1104 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,760 Speaker 3: I had sixteen women and I cried. 1105 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,400 Speaker 2: I went home, was in Bali. 1106 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,600 Speaker 3: I went home to my house and I was with 1107 00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,480 Speaker 3: my best friend Beth, and I remember I walked in 1108 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,520 Speaker 3: and I just bawled my eyes out, and I was 1109 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,080 Speaker 3: just like, this is pathetic, but I'm so like, I 1110 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,919 Speaker 3: feel like I've just lost part of myself. I was God, 1111 00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,279 Speaker 3: it was such a it was It was so much 1112 00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,879 Speaker 3: more than my hair though. It was just I think 1113 00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,320 Speaker 3: for me years of you know, being in an industry 1114 00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 3: where people tell you what you should look like, or 1115 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,280 Speaker 3: you know, people telling you, you know, how you look better, 1116 00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,360 Speaker 3: or people just sort of putting pressure on how you look, 1117 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,200 Speaker 3: you know. I went through a massive thing with that 1118 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 3: because I used to just do djaying and modeling and presenting. 1119 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 3: Everything was it was basically paid for what I look like. 1120 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,960 Speaker 3: And then I went to be a meditation teacher and 1121 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,880 Speaker 3: all I wanted I didn't get aishit about what I look. 1122 00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,160 Speaker 2: Like, and like, just like, listen to me, I want 1123 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 2: it to be about my mind. 1124 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,800 Speaker 3: I have so many things to say, and I guess 1125 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,600 Speaker 3: in some ways it was just like this rebellion, but 1126 00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,880 Speaker 3: it felt really heavy. Other things I've done, which are 1127 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 3: massive acts of self love is actually after my first 1128 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,600 Speaker 3: ever self love retreatment, before my second one, I went 1129 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,320 Speaker 3: through two years where I basically didn't talk to my 1130 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,279 Speaker 3: dad and my stepmom. I had a really bad relationship 1131 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 3: with my parents, like super heavy, you know, basically disowned 1132 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:46,239 Speaker 3: them for a year, wouldn't speak to them, cause my 1133 00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:46,920 Speaker 3: father a lot of pain. 1134 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 2: Dad, if you're watching this, I love you so much. 1135 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 3: And I just stopped speaking to them, and I did 1136 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 3: the self love retreat and I had two women on 1137 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 3: there that were a daughter and mother combination, and you know, 1138 00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,399 Speaker 3: I was going through all this stuff, you know, with 1139 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,000 Speaker 3: these daughters and mothers and my retreats, and I realized 1140 00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:06,520 Speaker 3: that I can't teach about that stuff unless I've healed 1141 00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,880 Speaker 3: my stuff with my own parents. So massive acts of 1142 00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 3: self love for me was, you know, healing my relationship 1143 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 3: with my parents, writing them a note, having a very 1144 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 3: very conscious, very very clear, very vulnerable conversation with them 1145 00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,759 Speaker 3: and making that change in that move because I realized 1146 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:26,400 Speaker 3: that there was so much love that I wasn't experiencing 1147 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 3: for myself because I had so much pain with my family. 1148 00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,040 Speaker 3: So for me, I had this challenge of always doing 1149 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,160 Speaker 3: these massive acts of self love and proving to myself 1150 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 3: that I can continue to show up and love myself 1151 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 3: and continue to unblock myself I love. And when if 1152 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 3: you do that, you unblock your energy like you cutting 1153 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 3: your hair. How liberating it? 1154 00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was like a new post. 1155 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,600 Speaker 3: We're going to get all these girls cutting these their 1156 00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 3: hair out of this podcast tag us let's make a. 1157 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,359 Speaker 1: Hashtag no a bit for me. So it was such 1158 00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,759 Speaker 1: an empowering thing because I had grown up where I 1159 00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:59,320 Speaker 1: even remember little comments. 1160 00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,520 Speaker 2: I remember you with your long you were you and 1161 00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,399 Speaker 2: I had the same long hair energy, the. 1162 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,719 Speaker 1: Same look too, and but I had this such a stick. 1163 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,680 Speaker 1: I even remember growing up like little comments from either 1164 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 1: my brothers or like my dad saying about saying like 1165 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: you know, short hair wasn't girly, and like yeah, those 1166 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:19,000 Speaker 1: sorts of things. This is yeah, this is how a 1167 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 1: girl should look, and this is how a girl should 1168 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:25,200 Speaker 1: be and very much creating this mold of what I 1169 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: should be and I fed into that and I did 1170 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 1: that for years and then slowly, like one by one, 1171 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:34,520 Speaker 1: I started recreating a life that was like so authentically me. 1172 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 1: And my hair was just another thing where I was like, 1173 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,560 Speaker 1: and it's not to say that long hair isn't for me, 1174 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,560 Speaker 1: and I will never have long hair or anything like that, 1175 00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:46,520 Speaker 1: but it was such an act in that moment because 1176 00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:49,880 Speaker 1: I had attached so much of my identity and so 1177 00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 1: much of my self worth around my looks, and so 1178 00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:57,399 Speaker 1: to do something was like, yeah, a liberation, so empowering. 1179 00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,520 Speaker 1: And I just remember seeing your post and then just 1180 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,280 Speaker 1: being like like, oh my god, I'm. 1181 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 2: Give me this. 1182 00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:02,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1183 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,920 Speaker 3: But when you do stuff like that, when you let go, 1184 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:06,920 Speaker 3: it's like what I call is like I always talk 1185 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 3: about like blocks, beliefs, breakthroughs, you know, and behaviors. This 1186 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 3: is the whole system I have about like how to 1187 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 3: let gold beliefs, and that's like a block. The hair 1188 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,160 Speaker 3: is a block, yeah for me, not saying hey if 1189 00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:18,879 Speaker 3: you have long hair, not saying you cut your hair, 1190 00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,359 Speaker 3: like I say, no pair pressure, but for me, I 1191 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 3: had this like it was such a block, you know, 1192 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:25,160 Speaker 3: and it was such a trigger for me. 1193 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:28,320 Speaker 2: It was such a I would actually change. 1194 00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:31,280 Speaker 3: My mood depending on my hair, and I was like, girl, 1195 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,759 Speaker 3: oh my god, there are so many more things that 1196 00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:35,200 Speaker 3: are way more important than that. 1197 00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,760 Speaker 2: You know, water, first world problem. 1198 00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:39,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly true. Like you said, when you know 1199 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,920 Speaker 1: it's starting to change your mood, like that's an indicator. 1200 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:46,200 Speaker 1: And to be completely transparent, I'm thinking my eyelash extensions 1201 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,399 Speaker 1: are like the next thing because I have attachment to them. 1202 00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,319 Speaker 1: Like when I don't have eyelash extensions, I'm like, oh 1203 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,319 Speaker 1: my god, I look like a thumb. I'm not going 1204 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 1: on storege. 1205 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 2: Like I do. 1206 00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 3: I did that one for three months last Yeah, I 1207 00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,759 Speaker 3: look feral and sorry, but I have such a attachments. 1208 00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:02,440 Speaker 1: I think that's probably gonna be the next thing. 1209 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 3: I did that for three months last year because I 1210 00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,359 Speaker 3: was so attached. Then I got them back on because 1211 00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,760 Speaker 3: I was like, I live in Bali Mascaris smudges. Yeah, 1212 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,319 Speaker 3: like I'm not dealing with this humidity. But I think 1213 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,279 Speaker 3: this is such a beautiful thing for your listeners, Like, 1214 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:15,480 Speaker 3: ask yourself, you know, what are you attached to? 1215 00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:15,959 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1216 00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:17,879 Speaker 3: What is what can you do as a massive act 1217 00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:20,160 Speaker 3: of self love? After this podcast, because it's honestly one 1218 00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,239 Speaker 3: of the it's one of my favorite practices I teach it. 1219 00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:25,320 Speaker 3: It is so empowering and girls just do it and 1220 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 3: they're like, oh my god, I feel so free, and 1221 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:29,920 Speaker 3: it's just like it's just kind of like a little 1222 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,440 Speaker 3: challenge to yourself. And it's even like I do it sometimes, 1223 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,200 Speaker 3: like sometimes when I'm on an Instagram, Like I love 1224 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 3: Instagram filters. Yeah, I think they're so much fun, right, 1225 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 3: I think they're really fun. But sometimes I'm just like 1226 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:43,360 Speaker 3: these days, like this morning, I did it. Think I 1227 00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 3: was like, you know what, I'm not gonna put a 1228 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 3: filter on, just out of purpose to not attach myself 1229 00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 3: to that, to make sure that I'm constantly pushing it, 1230 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:54,000 Speaker 3: you know, deleted face tune like years ago off my phone, 1231 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,239 Speaker 3: you know, just little things like that. Like I think 1232 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:58,880 Speaker 3: it's so important to just constantly ask yourself, you know, 1233 00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 3: what are you attached to? What are you sort of 1234 00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 3: relying on for self love? And because at the end 1235 00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 3: of the day, like you're in a world creates your 1236 00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:08,440 Speaker 3: outer world, so it's really about the inside work and 1237 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,160 Speaker 3: the outside stuff is all just like smoke and mirrors. 1238 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,279 Speaker 1: And I think another thing is like realizing, like what 1239 00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,480 Speaker 1: are you doing for other people and because you think 1240 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,239 Speaker 1: you have to do it to like fit in or 1241 00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,439 Speaker 1: be a certain way, or what do you actually enjoy 1242 00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,279 Speaker 1: doing and what do you actually like of yourself? Like 1243 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,960 Speaker 1: now they have short hair. I'm like, it's really funny 1244 00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 1: because I feel so much more myself and like authentically 1245 00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,279 Speaker 1: like this is me. It's really weird. And that's I 1246 00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,319 Speaker 1: love what you said about the filters because like a 1247 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,359 Speaker 1: big thing for me on social media is I would 1248 00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:41,640 Speaker 1: jump on my story with Colsars. I would jump on 1249 00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:44,080 Speaker 1: with no makeup and no filters and show up and 1250 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:48,480 Speaker 1: be like, look like, sometimes we get like trapped in 1251 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 1: this like warp where everything looks perfect and everybody looks perfect, 1252 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,200 Speaker 1: and we have such a pressure to look and be 1253 00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:01,799 Speaker 1: a certain way. And when when you realize that that 1254 00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 1: pressure is actually like that's you on. 1255 00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:08,560 Speaker 2: Yourself, it's self generated, which is nuts. Yeah. 1256 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:11,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like when you realize that that's actually your own pressure, 1257 00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,759 Speaker 1: Like I know, society like kind of starts it, but 1258 00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,360 Speaker 1: when you realize you have control of that, it is 1259 00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 1: so liberating to actually take control and get to choose. 1260 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:21,919 Speaker 3: People always talk about change when it comes to self 1261 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:23,680 Speaker 3: love and mental health and all this stuff. I'm like, 1262 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 3: change starts with you at the end of the day, 1263 00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,280 Speaker 3: Like you want to change the world, like start with yourself, 1264 00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,840 Speaker 3: like stop focusing on complaining about what everyone else is doing, 1265 00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:33,880 Speaker 3: Like make the change with you first, and then you'll 1266 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:35,280 Speaker 3: have a ripple effect. 1267 00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 1: Amazing. Okay, so we have gone over time and as 1268 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,680 Speaker 1: I can, so I want to do some really last questions, 1269 00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,760 Speaker 1: just have some good stuff. So what I want to 1270 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,560 Speaker 1: ask you is, firstly, you say that you create your 1271 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:53,440 Speaker 1: own reality, and you definitely do and it's so inspiring 1272 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 1: to watch. And so what is like your biggest tip 1273 00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 1: for someone who wants to start creating their own reality? 1274 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:01,760 Speaker 2: I would ask them how do you want to feel? 1275 00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,800 Speaker 3: And ask yourself how you really want to feel, not 1276 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 3: just like I want to feel successful, Like what is 1277 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 3: success to you? 1278 00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,120 Speaker 2: How does success feel? 1279 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 3: Unpacking that because I think, look, it's a huge thing. 1280 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:17,680 Speaker 2: We're going into kra memory. How do you do that? 1281 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 2: Like it's a it's not a quick question. It's not 1282 00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 2: a quick question. 1283 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 3: But I think the one thing that I would always 1284 00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 3: ask people is just like asking yourself, like how you really, 1285 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:27,919 Speaker 3: really really want to feel at the end of the day, 1286 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 3: and like what does that look like? And focus on 1287 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,520 Speaker 3: the feeling and like focus on like how you can 1288 00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:36,960 Speaker 3: get to that feeling, and like like what practices, what routines, 1289 00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 3: you know, what steps in your life can you do 1290 00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,600 Speaker 3: every single day to create that feeling, to create that 1291 00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:43,720 Speaker 3: energy that you want to feel if you want to 1292 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,560 Speaker 3: feel successful. It's not just about being the most successful 1293 00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:50,360 Speaker 3: person like out there. It's about like actually having habits 1294 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 3: and tools and stuff that get you closer to that 1295 00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,800 Speaker 3: success that make you feel successful within your own day. 1296 00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 3: It's not about the big wins, like it's about the 1297 00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,440 Speaker 3: small stuff too. It's about like I think so many 1298 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 3: peopleocus on like the huge steps, and it's like success 1299 00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 3: at the end of the day is like I always 1300 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,200 Speaker 3: have this quote that's on I made my partner, which 1301 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:12,200 Speaker 3: is consistent action with conscious intention is a secret to success. 1302 00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,240 Speaker 3: And it's something that we painted and we wrote on 1303 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:15,840 Speaker 3: our wall in Balley and we came up with that 1304 00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 3: after reading consistent action with conscious intention is a secret 1305 00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 3: to success. So it's like having consistent action with conscious 1306 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,920 Speaker 3: intention to get to success. But success like creating your 1307 00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,560 Speaker 3: reality that's like whatever you want it to be, and 1308 00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 3: like it's going to be a feeling. 1309 00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:33,640 Speaker 1: I love what you said then, And also something I 1310 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 1: think not many people did, and this was exactly me too, 1311 00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:41,400 Speaker 1: is define what success means for you, literally, not what 1312 00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,040 Speaker 1: society says sex. 1313 00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 2: Wow, success means success. 1314 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:50,440 Speaker 1: Sex, So sex means wow, success means and so for instance, 1315 00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:53,320 Speaker 1: so example of me, For a long time, I thought 1316 00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:56,200 Speaker 1: success was finishing my law degree, getting that job that 1317 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,800 Speaker 1: the society puts on a platform and it says is 1318 00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:02,040 Speaker 1: a good job, cups for me and making money providing 1319 01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 1: for my family. Like to me, that was success. And 1320 01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,680 Speaker 1: then going through it, I started questioning that belief and 1321 01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't feel very good every single day. 1322 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:14,280 Speaker 1: I actually feel like crap or I don't feel very 1323 01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,840 Speaker 1: like passion or anything like that. And I started asking 1324 01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:21,160 Speaker 1: myself and redefining what does actually success means me? And 1325 01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,800 Speaker 1: what came up was this whole thing about living close 1326 01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 1: to the ocean because the ocean makes me calm and 1327 01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,520 Speaker 1: I'm a naturally like quite anxious person and doing something 1328 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,240 Speaker 1: I believed in that didn't feel hard. So like, yeah, 1329 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 1: all these attentions and these feelings exactly what you said 1330 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 1: and redefining it. And it's so funny how much my 1331 01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 1: life literally warped and changed into this new thing that 1332 01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:43,400 Speaker 1: completely reflects that. 1333 01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:46,560 Speaker 2: Hope that makes sense, Yeah, I know it does. I 1334 01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 2: love what you've done. Amazing. 1335 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,840 Speaker 1: Okay, And so last question, and something I asked all 1336 01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:56,760 Speaker 1: my guests is what is your main source of motivation 1337 01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 1: and inspiration when you. 1338 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,560 Speaker 3: Were lacking, when I was lacking, when you are lacking, 1339 01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 3: oh oh, when I'm lacking. 1340 01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so okay, we're feeling yourself. 1341 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 2: What do you do? This is going to sound so corny. 1342 01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 3: I honestly, for me, my main inspiration is has been 1343 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,960 Speaker 3: myself so much in the sense that, like, I think 1344 01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 3: something that I've done a lot recently is I really 1345 01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:23,400 Speaker 3: really focus on how far like I've come in the 1346 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:26,160 Speaker 3: sense of for me personally. But it sounds so corny 1347 01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:28,959 Speaker 3: because for me, it's like, honestly, when I'm down and out, 1348 01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:30,960 Speaker 3: I always just go back to myself and like. 1349 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,320 Speaker 2: A journey myself, like how far I've come. 1350 01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,520 Speaker 3: I think maybe because I've been in I've been in 1351 01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 3: such a dark place before, like I've been you know, 1352 01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 3: super suicidal and stuff, and I always just really use 1353 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:44,920 Speaker 3: my own like journey as my own inspiration because at 1354 01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:46,320 Speaker 3: the end of the day, I'm only ever running a 1355 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 3: race against myself. 1356 01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,960 Speaker 2: I don't really compare myself or put perceptions out on 1357 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:50,560 Speaker 2: other people. 1358 01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:53,240 Speaker 3: But the other motivation that I have, that's just my 1359 01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:58,280 Speaker 3: biggest one, is having so much transformation in myself right. 1360 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,440 Speaker 3: It has just shown me that this is possible for 1361 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,480 Speaker 3: other people, and that inspires me beyond belief because mind 1362 01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 3: spol is all about getting meditation out there to as 1363 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:08,880 Speaker 3: many people as possible and making it cool and relatable 1364 01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,120 Speaker 3: and fun. And when I realize like what I've been 1365 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,360 Speaker 3: able to do for myself, realizing that, like if I 1366 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 3: stay motivated, if I stay focused, if I stay in 1367 01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,440 Speaker 3: alignment to like what my mission is, that I'm actually 1368 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 3: going to be impacting like millions of people's lives, you know, potentially, 1369 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,240 Speaker 3: that for me gets me so freaking fired up because 1370 01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 3: like damn, like if you saw who I was like 1371 01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,760 Speaker 3: like at the beginning of like last decade, you just 1372 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,480 Speaker 3: wouldn't believe who I am now. And I'm a completely 1373 01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,000 Speaker 3: different person and I just want to be able to 1374 01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:42,400 Speaker 3: facilitate that and other people. And that just gets me 1375 01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,439 Speaker 3: so riled up because I'm no different to anyone else 1376 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,040 Speaker 3: out there, Like, you know, I'm not like. 1377 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,920 Speaker 2: Some super special super saying human. 1378 01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:52,240 Speaker 3: Or anything like I'm just a girl that discovered some tools, 1379 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:55,240 Speaker 3: that learned meditation, that then became a teacher that then 1380 01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 3: got it out like I you can create a similar 1381 01:02:57,680 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 3: transformation within yourself. You've just got to apply yourself and 1382 01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:03,760 Speaker 3: you know, get on the right path and journey. And 1383 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:06,720 Speaker 3: I think that's something I'm so inspired by and it's 1384 01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,440 Speaker 3: what's fueled so many of our like coming projects that 1385 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:10,800 Speaker 3: we want to do, like are saying to you before, 1386 01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 3: like we're now doing a meditation teacher certification and stuff, 1387 01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:15,720 Speaker 3: and like I just want to be able to get 1388 01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 3: more people being able to get this message out there 1389 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 3: and to be able to facilitate that. So it sounds 1390 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 3: corny that it starts with me in the sense that 1391 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,760 Speaker 3: what I've been able to do for myself, but then 1392 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,440 Speaker 3: beyond that, knowing that I was being able to do 1393 01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:31,320 Speaker 3: that for myself, I'm like, wow, I'm so motivated because 1394 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:32,840 Speaker 3: if I did this for me, then I could do 1395 01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:36,240 Speaker 3: help other people create this, Like I can help other people, 1396 01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,440 Speaker 3: you know, not be so anxious to depress and like 1397 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:41,520 Speaker 3: not hate themselves. Like I can like literally pass this 1398 01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,000 Speaker 3: on and that like because I see that in my 1399 01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:46,120 Speaker 3: students and it blows my mind like some of the 1400 01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:48,320 Speaker 3: girls that have come on my retreats or like our 1401 01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,920 Speaker 3: past meditation students that the stuff I get, I just 1402 01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 3: like it gives me goosebumps and it makes me so 1403 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 3: excited that, to be honest with you, when I first started, 1404 01:03:57,280 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, wow, it works, you know enough story. 1405 01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,880 Speaker 3: Literally I was like I can't believe that. I don't 1406 01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:06,200 Speaker 3: know because it was my own transformation. But then teaching 1407 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:08,600 Speaker 3: other people meditation and stuff, I was like, wow, like 1408 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,800 Speaker 3: other people are having such a similar journey and transformation 1409 01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:15,240 Speaker 3: and that's just incredible and gets me out of bed 1410 01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:16,880 Speaker 3: every single day and excited. 1411 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 1: Amazing, that's so beautiful. 1412 01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:22,120 Speaker 2: Oh well, thank you so much being on the show. 1413 01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, let the audience know where they can find you, 1414 01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:26,440 Speaker 1: and of course I'll leave it in the show notes. 1415 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 3: Guys. 1416 01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:27,440 Speaker 2: Amazing. 1417 01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:31,240 Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm Rachelle Underscore Fox on Instagram. You can 1418 01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:34,800 Speaker 3: also find me at mindspow. It was our other instagram, 1419 01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:37,800 Speaker 3: So just at mindspo. But for any freebes and stuff 1420 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:41,160 Speaker 3: from today, just wwww dot mindspo dot com. And I've 1421 01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:43,720 Speaker 3: also got my own personal website, Rachelle Fox dot com Todau. 1422 01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:45,960 Speaker 3: But we've got lots of freebes on the mindspow website 1423 01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:49,520 Speaker 3: with that meditation and masterclass I was talking about, as 1424 01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:52,000 Speaker 3: well as like a self love digital challenge and stuff, 1425 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:52,880 Speaker 3: So yeah. 1426 01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:53,640 Speaker 2: Go check those out. 1427 01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:56,080 Speaker 3: Lots of freebies and fun links, and yeah, thank you 1428 01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:58,840 Speaker 3: so much for having me. I'm like, it's so nice 1429 01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,600 Speaker 3: to like sit down and have a check. We followed 1430 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:04,520 Speaker 3: each other for quite yeah, so long, and yeah, I'm 1431 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 3: just like, it's so cool to also see you create 1432 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 3: your own reality and just go for it. And I'm 1433 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,240 Speaker 3: honestly like, I just want to say, like on a 1434 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,080 Speaker 3: serious girl, not it's really really cool to see you 1435 01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 3: just being like so excited to like just go and 1436 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 3: empower other women out there to go create their dreams 1437 01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 3: and do their own thing. 1438 01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,960 Speaker 2: Such a oh thank you, such a sick mission. 1439 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 3: We literally talk about missions before and like you're just yeah, 1440 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:25,479 Speaker 3: it's really really cool to see. 1441 01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,360 Speaker 2: I should be very proud of yourself. 1442 01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:30,200 Speaker 1: I really appreciate that, Rasha. I've always been so inspired 1443 01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 1: and look up to you, so this has been awesome 1444 01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:33,160 Speaker 1: to connect and real person. 1445 01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:34,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited. 1446 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:37,720 Speaker 1: Amazing, Thank you so much, thanks for having me, Guys 1447 01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:42,479 Speaker 1: and that's a wrap on another episode of the Rise 1448 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 1: and Conquer Podcast. I hope you got something valuable from it, 1449 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:47,680 Speaker 1: and I want to say a big thank you for 1450 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 1: tuning in. I really really do appreciate it. If you're 1451 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:54,120 Speaker 1: craving more than don't worry, I've got you sorted. 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