Speaker 1: Unapologetically Black would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of
Speaker 1: the lands where this podcast is being hurt or watched
Speaker 1: across this great island continent now known as Australia and
Speaker 1: across the world. We would also like to pay our
Speaker 1: respects to elders past and present and acknowledged that this
Speaker 1: always was and always will be Aberaginal Lands.
Speaker 2: Welcome to Unapologetically Black with Ginny, Mara and Will.
Speaker 3: Welcome back to another episode of Unapologetically Black. My name's
Speaker 3: Ginny and I'm joined by my co hosts Mara and Will.
Speaker 3: What's up with you two?
Speaker 4: God?
Speaker 5: I just had like a let's say, shot of alcohol
Speaker 5: of aspirin, penicillin, parasita.
Speaker 1: Was there?
Speaker 5: Do you know the ones you drink though? Because I
Speaker 5: got a headache. I love them because I'm going.
Speaker 1: To have them when you have a heart attack?
Speaker 3: You do you think it kind of tastes like sperm.
Speaker 4: No, that tasted like mar She wouldn't know, apparently in
Speaker 4: fifteen I've never done it.
Speaker 3: Anyway, that's an episode after dark episode, so maybe after this.
Speaker 4: Back to the shot. I had the shot because I've
Speaker 4: got a head I've got a bit of a headache.
Speaker 5: Attention headache because I had I had a bit of
Speaker 5: a bit of a touch up this week, and my
Speaker 5: I'm feeling very tweet. Okay, let's let's touch up on
Speaker 5: what well, so me botox was feeling a little kind
Speaker 5: of drab?
Speaker 1: Okay, can we go back to the start? Is that right?
Speaker 1: It's a spermal. I don't want to talk about that.
Speaker 4: Do you want to talk about that?
Speaker 1: I want to talk about how did you actually get
Speaker 1: to a point where you was like, I need to
Speaker 1: get this done? Talk to us.
Speaker 5: I haven't even got to the fact, that fucking fact
Speaker 5: that I've got a headache from bowtox.
Speaker 4: I got this one. You want to get back to
Speaker 4: live to memorize.
Speaker 3: Raise your eyebrows.
Speaker 5: I can't ready watch like watching that's me moving my throat,
Speaker 5: I'm squinting. I'm like I might freeze my face. They
Speaker 5: call me frozen, show me.
Speaker 4: That's what he's like? Fucking what do you call it?
Speaker 4: When you get there? Yes, you got that frownd lines.
Speaker 4: I'm like that.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll never get rid of this, no amount of botox.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, No.
Speaker 5: You will, though, I've got like I look like I've
Speaker 5: got a vagina in my forehead.
Speaker 1: Have you seen a vagina.
Speaker 4: I'll share my I'll share, I'll.
Speaker 5: Share my first time with a woman and after dark.
Speaker 5: If you want to hear that story, come and fucking
Speaker 5: subscribe to it.
Speaker 6: But the forehead, that's the vagina's on my forehead, right
Speaker 6: is it's these big deep lines. The point is he's big,
Speaker 6: big depats, that big hole with wearing studs for people.
Speaker 1: They've just kind of joined us just down it.
Speaker 4: We haven't even got to the deeper it. I'm talking about.
Speaker 6: Ive got a headache because I've got botox, and now
Speaker 6: you want to talk about maybe Betty on my forehead
Speaker 6: or it's so confused anyway, I took.
Speaker 3: The I'm sorry, yes, so that should be never allowed.
Speaker 4: Add that to the list.
Speaker 3: Of things, not the fanny.
Speaker 4: Or the moist fanny. Now you're killing me anyway, So
Speaker 4: the boat.
Speaker 5: I've got a headache, and I've just taken some paracetamol
Speaker 5: because I've got a headache, because I feel like I've
Speaker 5: got I've had a lot put in this time around,
Speaker 5: because I'm like, I'm going away.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's talk about mills. What are we talking about?
Speaker 3: What are you putting you in? Know?
Speaker 5: I said to my lady and say, hey, dove makes me.
Speaker 5: I want to be like fucking Ana from Frozen. Let
Speaker 5: it go, like let the wrinkles go type mentality.
Speaker 4: Let it go.
Speaker 1: I want to feel like I think he's gonna say,
Speaker 1: I want to look like a Kardashian.
Speaker 4: No, bitch, I want to be frozen.
Speaker 1: Hey Chloe, do you really want to be frozen? Look?
Speaker 4: Am I moving? Like that's I'm literally tensing my forehead?
Speaker 1: Use that?
Speaker 3: Am I moving?
Speaker 4: Because I'm actually trying to move?
Speaker 1: If only you could see yourself right.
Speaker 4: Now looking the look in the camera, does at once
Speaker 4: be ready?
Speaker 3: Why are you doing that face? That be moving my
Speaker 3: foret like this.
Speaker 4: Because that's the only thing that fucking moves my face.
Speaker 4: You have my good friend.
Speaker 5: My good friend recalls me, recalls me, recall she calls
Speaker 5: me Ramona from fucking The Real Housewife because she's frozen
Speaker 5: when she walks down that runway like this, that's what
Speaker 5: I feel like.
Speaker 4: She's going to look.
Speaker 3: She blinks to make.
Speaker 4: Up for the Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I've got I've got I've got a lot. I've
Speaker 5: got a botox on this week, and I had a
Speaker 5: filler and stuff done.
Speaker 1: Where's a filler?
Speaker 4: Wherever? I had it done.
Speaker 1: Where is the feller?
Speaker 5: So I've had filler in my cheeks, so not my cheeks,
Speaker 5: so I've had filler in my creases here, which is.
Speaker 4: Like the painful. No.
Speaker 5: I find botox hurts more than filler. I've had feeler
Speaker 5: in my jaw.
Speaker 1: Just before.
Speaker 4: For the listeners, I was a fucking swollen dog. I
Speaker 4: was that big.
Speaker 1: I was a hundred and he was.
Speaker 7: I can say I know he he was running me
Speaker 7: down like I'm not in the room.
Speaker 4: But I was a swell I was swollen. I was
Speaker 4: very large.
Speaker 5: I'm six foot one. I was one hundred and sixty kiels.
Speaker 5: I held it quite well, but I was a big
Speaker 5: boy and I lost. I've lost like I lost sixty
Speaker 5: eight kilos, And in.
Speaker 4: Doing so, I looked like I had fucking like cancer
Speaker 4: or something. My face was all trawny. Well you know
Speaker 4: when people get sick, I lose all of it.
Speaker 5: So I've had quite puffy cheeks, but the rest of
Speaker 5: my face went down. So I said, fuck this, fill
Speaker 5: my face up. I want to look like I'm youthful.
Speaker 5: I feel good about myself, and yeah, I look like
Speaker 5: I'm fucking fifty years old.
Speaker 4: No, thank you, so I went and did it, and
Speaker 4: I don't even regret it. I love this, so I
Speaker 4: did it.
Speaker 1: How does how do people the every day? Because not
Speaker 1: only blackfellows listen to this podcast, right right, I would
Speaker 1: hope that more people kind of feel like this is
Speaker 1: for them, And I hope you know, if if this
Speaker 1: is for you, thank you for listening and following us
Speaker 1: and joining.
Speaker 4: We decided here.
Speaker 1: We're so thankful. We always don't even think they were
Speaker 1: excluding you. If we refer to you all as our mob,
Speaker 1: it just means family community. Well, for anyone that's listening,
Speaker 1: how do you find the right person?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 4: Is it referral? So I've been through anyone?
Speaker 1: No I need or happy?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've been through maybe six or seven people in
Speaker 5: my course of getting it done.
Speaker 1: This is exactly what I want to touch on.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're all and I'm talking about myself as well.
Speaker 4: Have you had it done?
Speaker 1: We're all getting old. Speak of yourself younger.
Speaker 4: I'm frozen, bitch, I'm fucking twenty two at heart.
Speaker 3: He's from the elixir.
Speaker 1: I've had a couple of kids. All right, you can't
Speaker 1: really well you can actually if you want to spend
Speaker 1: more money, but I would not me, but my husband
Speaker 1: doesn't want me to look like frozen.
Speaker 4: Done, you say, because I look like I'm fucking bad.
Speaker 4: I look for I don't look like I've had heats,
Speaker 4: but I forgot. Oh, there's a fucking lot of okay.
Speaker 1: So my husband doesn't want me to start fucking with
Speaker 1: my features, doesn't want me to do that, So I
Speaker 1: respect him. He married me. He loves who I am,
Speaker 1: and he wants me to kind of love who I
Speaker 1: am as well. So I try my hardest to love
Speaker 1: who I am. And it took me a long time
Speaker 1: to get to that point. I went and had the
Speaker 1: sleeve done right only because I had chronic diseases. I
Speaker 1: had sleep apnea, and I had diabetes. So for me
Speaker 1: to make that decision was really about living longer for
Speaker 1: my kids. So I had the sleeve done three years ago.
Speaker 1: I lost sporty kilos and all of my weight. Even
Speaker 1: though I lost like thirty kilos in twelve weeks, I
Speaker 1: came in and then all of my loose skin just
Speaker 1: dropped down. So for me, I started. I actually became more.
Speaker 4: Depressed after surgery right, and I.
Speaker 1: Did not love one bit of myself. I loved who
Speaker 1: I was before most people would say that I was
Speaker 1: voluptuous and voluptuous voluptuous? Is that he pronounced voluptuous?
Speaker 5: Was everyone looking at me because you're the one who
Speaker 5: fucking craft matale and all the rest of the stuff, right.
Speaker 4: Pronunciation.
Speaker 1: I just love the fact that I actually I wasn't
Speaker 1: one hundred percent happy within my own skin after having babies,
Speaker 1: but I got to a point where I didn't give
Speaker 1: a fuck.
Speaker 5: So the question I have, then, what if you had done.
Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you I got no shame in
Speaker 1: this ship. I've just spent about one hundred k.
Speaker 4: Dollar figures. I don't want to okay.
Speaker 1: I don't want any of our listeners to go okay,
Speaker 1: weight loss surgeries for me because I've got chronic diseases.
Speaker 1: That's only one part of it. It's then after you
Speaker 1: lose all of that weight in like, you know, twelve weeks,
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? You're gonna keep kind of
Speaker 1: tucking that ship away and wearing these body suits and stuff,
Speaker 1: which my husband calls the batman suit God, and that
Speaker 1: made it worse trying to get and I would hide
Speaker 1: so he didn't see me in my what's those suits called.
Speaker 4: It's got a far I'm sorry, it's got a far right.
Speaker 4: That's so that I guess the moral of that.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: Afar. Yeah, those suits are called flattened you.
Speaker 4: I never wore one, of.
Speaker 1: Course it's not of course, of course that's only here.
Speaker 3: Okay, but listen, what about all of the body. Technically
Speaker 3: it's called afar ha.
Speaker 1: Well, my sister girls don't even know that.
Speaker 3: Like they can start here and they go all the
Speaker 3: way up and what they mean.
Speaker 2: After after so lost the weight and about a year
Speaker 2: after I had literally three kilos of excess skin hanging
Speaker 2: off my belly that covered my VIJJ.
Speaker 4: So that's what we call a food, pa.
Speaker 1: Actual food.
Speaker 4: We call the Western Sydney a gun.
Speaker 1: Oh my dad used to call it that. There were
Speaker 1: certain employees, Oh my.
Speaker 4: God, do you know what a gun is? I guess
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 1: It's mixed up with the C and the G.
Speaker 3: Here and the G is here and together.
Speaker 1: So my I used to and a lot of my
Speaker 1: staff would know this that when we travel, I'd be
Speaker 1: in the hotel room and literally it was like my friend,
Speaker 1: I would be entertained by this three kilos of excess
Speaker 1: skin I was. I'd lay there and plating TV in
Speaker 1: the land room and not even think what I was doing.
Speaker 1: Was like, it wasn't to me. It wasn't like discussing
Speaker 1: or wrong. I was kind of like, what is it?
Speaker 1: I was not playing with that anything else. So listen,
Speaker 1: I've got this three kilos of XRA skin hanging over
Speaker 1: my lower abdomen and I was like, I need to
Speaker 1: go and talk to someone to get rid of it.
Speaker 1: So I didn't know that that was actually called a
Speaker 1: tummy tuck. I actually never googled it. So my first surgery,
Speaker 1: I had a abdominoplastic and that was basically a tummy tuck.
Speaker 1: I waited another year and I had a breast reconstruction,
Speaker 1: so I had three kilos removed off my breast. So
Speaker 1: that was pretty full on. I came home and Peace
Speaker 1: was like, wow, there there's not much left. So I
Speaker 1: was like, well, give me a year to recover and
Speaker 1: I'm going to go get the loose off my back.
Speaker 1: So the third surgery was nine hours and four kilos
Speaker 1: removed off my back. Wow. That was an upper and
Speaker 1: lower body lifting. Which one was the most painful, I
Speaker 1: would say the tummy tuck because they sow the insights
Speaker 1: in your muscles and the external as well. So when
Speaker 1: you wake up, you're severely hunched over and you've got
Speaker 1: to learn to walk again. It's like you're learning to
Speaker 1: stretch your spine.
Speaker 5: You've had you've had a tummy tuck, so bastrix lee
Speaker 5: first and tummy tuck.
Speaker 4: Tummy tuck and breast reconstruction and then the back surgery.
Speaker 1: Then when I had the back surgery to bring my
Speaker 1: lower and upper back in and pull myself up, they
Speaker 1: then took the fat from my back and put it
Speaker 1: back into my breast, so I don't have implants there natural,
Speaker 1: but it gave me a little bit more kind of volume,
Speaker 1: a bit more umph volume. Jesus, Well, that's full surgeries.
Speaker 1: If one is in the pipeline, the fifth one back
Speaker 1: to we have vagina answered the fucking question though, have
Speaker 1: you had botox?
Speaker 6: And we've gone straight to talk about next meeting it.
Speaker 4: The fucking life story with all of them k later.
Speaker 5: So back to botox and filler because we're talking about
Speaker 5: my frozen face and the fact that I've got a
Speaker 5: fucking ache.
Speaker 4: Have you had it done? I tried it, and what
Speaker 4: do you think about it?
Speaker 1: My dentist, who I never thought. Just sorry. My dentist
Speaker 1: actually said let me do this. I didn't ask, I
Speaker 1: didn't go there for it. She just did it.
Speaker 6: We'll be back right after this break.
Speaker 5: So we were talking about botox, and Mars just went
Speaker 5: and and sheared, like literally her whole plastic surgery journey. Jin,
Speaker 5: have you had botox or filler or anything?
Speaker 1: Yes? I have.
Speaker 3: Would I have had botox, and I've had I did
Speaker 3: some filler in my lips, probably a good like I
Speaker 3: want to say, close to ten years ago. It was
Speaker 3: a really long time ago, but I like botox. I
Speaker 3: liked the filler, but it also scared the fuck out
Speaker 3: of me. So it was the one time and you know,
Speaker 3: when you first I don't know, have you had your
Speaker 3: lips done?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had my lips.
Speaker 3: Have you had your lips done?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Okay. So the first time I ever got my lips done,
Speaker 3: you literally look like a baboons asked for a fucking
Speaker 3: three days, and I I have paranoia, and I thought,
Speaker 3: I'm that one percent of people that don't come back
Speaker 3: from this, you know what I mean. I literally was
Speaker 3: like calling the nurse and I was like, it's not
Speaker 3: going down. She's like, it's only been seven hours. No, wait,
Speaker 3: a few days. I literally was crying to everyone who
Speaker 3: would listen to me.
Speaker 1: I've made a misstad.
Speaker 5: I've never had the problem. So I've had probably four.
Speaker 4: Meals in my lips.
Speaker 1: Right is that a lot? That's a lot.
Speaker 5: You go back to old photos I had like I think,
Speaker 5: like I think I was gummy Kathy, Like I was
Speaker 5: literally I was given gobbies with.
Speaker 4: No gums, right, Like, that's how bad it was. Gummy Kathy.
Speaker 1: And my mother was Kathy.
Speaker 4: Kathy Riley Kathy from the neighborhood. I had no apple lip.
Speaker 3: Just in like comparison, I put point two in my lily.
Speaker 5: Maybe not four there, no, maybe, And I've had I've
Speaker 5: probably had four, yeah, maybe four overtime right over time,
Speaker 5: but as I mean like four build it up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never bruised like that.
Speaker 5: So I get it done, I'd probably be swollen for
Speaker 5: maybe six hours and then I'm not.
Speaker 4: I love the swelling look.
Speaker 6: So a good friend of mine, who we know, which
Speaker 6: I won't name, but she'll know who I'm talking about,
Speaker 6: when she got the marl na.
Speaker 5: Honestly, she had it done. She looked like do you
Speaker 5: know how like a prolapse butthole. That's what her lips
Speaker 5: looked like. They were so big, and it was like
Speaker 5: it was fair.
Speaker 3: Some people like that, look, I.
Speaker 4: Quite like it. I want to look swollen.
Speaker 5: Then my lip goes down like, oh, I could probably
Speaker 5: do more more and I think because I've got a
Speaker 5: beard also, it kind of covers it a little bit.
Speaker 4: But if you look back at old.
Speaker 5: Photos, I went from Kathy no upper lip to all
Speaker 5: of a sudden having like a bit of shape.
Speaker 3: Would you do your lips?
Speaker 4: No, you wouldn't do it. Now I think you're a
Speaker 4: good lip, so you don't.
Speaker 3: You've got beautiful lips.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Well, these lips you're not made for.
Speaker 1: They're not made for all things and other things other
Speaker 1: people think they are used for. But these lips make money,
Speaker 1: but not in that way. So let me just say this,
Speaker 1: how much does it cost? Never say never? I like
Speaker 1: Botoks once and I was like, oh this is interesting.
Speaker 1: But it lifted my eyebrows.
Speaker 3: Yes, it does change.
Speaker 1: It lifted my eyebrows. And my husband literally said to
Speaker 1: me like.
Speaker 4: Stop, well.
Speaker 3: Are you okay?
Speaker 1: So the more I said that that he noticed, and
Speaker 1: then my niece, my beautiful niece. Lily says to me, Ah,
Speaker 1: you had botox. And I looked at him and go,
Speaker 1: how do you know?
Speaker 4: Because you look surprised. Motherfucker.
Speaker 1: She said, because your eyebaar eyebrows are on point, and
Speaker 1: I said, I've always wanted on point eyebrows. I had
Speaker 1: no idea that it changed my eyebrows. So I did
Speaker 1: it once and then I was kind of like, did
Speaker 1: you do it again? I hate pain. That's why I've
Speaker 1: never had a tattoo, so I don't like you just talk.
Speaker 3: Whole coffee body out but you're asleep.
Speaker 4: But the after pain though.
Speaker 1: Oh the art pain is full on. You've got a
Speaker 1: lot of more feet to help you recover. But with botox,
Speaker 1: you're awake.
Speaker 4: I'll be honest. Botox like that, it's stingy. The filler.
Speaker 4: I can deal with the filler the botox.
Speaker 1: What's the difference for our listeners that are listening, what's
Speaker 1: the difference between filler and botox?
Speaker 4: Look, I'm no nurse. By n don't take anything.
Speaker 5: But what I do know when when you get filler,
Speaker 5: it's really interesting because you're not numbs, but they use
Speaker 5: like a little thing to prick your skin. And then
Speaker 5: they put the canular in and they literally can they
Speaker 5: put a Look again, I'm not a professional. I don't
Speaker 5: know what the thing's called. There's a needle in my
Speaker 5: face and she's.
Speaker 6: Sculpting like when she does my jaw, sculpting my jaw
Speaker 6: with this needle and like laying the way are away
Speaker 6: away like I've gotta do that ship.
Speaker 3: You've gone way too far from me. Now what do
Speaker 3: you mean, I'm out.
Speaker 4: I'm out. I've got to go.
Speaker 5: It's a plastics. No, they can't. They put it pricking
Speaker 5: your face. They put the needle in, and then they
Speaker 5: kind of build it. It's like it's like build a bed.
Speaker 5: They stuffed the builder band, they funnel the builder beand
Speaker 5: through the legs of the build a bed.
Speaker 3: I just did one last week.
Speaker 6: It's the same thing, right to building exactly. So they're
Speaker 6: building my jaw or they building my lips or whatever.
Speaker 1: They're doing that.
Speaker 3: And so how often are you doing.
Speaker 4: Every six eight months? Depending on.
Speaker 1: Is one visit?
Speaker 4: Let's not talk about price.
Speaker 3: No, we need to know.
Speaker 1: Is it like one thousand?
Speaker 4: Not a lot more?
Speaker 3: A lot more?
Speaker 4: Oh mind you, I got a really nice place. And
Speaker 4: this is why.
Speaker 5: So when you talk about how when you find I've
Speaker 5: gone through six people and this one woman I've met
Speaker 5: now who I trust.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't get anyone else to
Speaker 4: do certain things well.
Speaker 3: And that's the thing, right, because a nerve and you're.
Speaker 4: Out no like face just dress.
Speaker 1: I couldn't. That's why I'm scared of that ship.
Speaker 4: So the place I go is very repetible, repeatable. We
Speaker 4: are reputable, reputable.
Speaker 6: Fucking hell, it's got a very good reputation and it's
Speaker 6: it's run by plastic surgeon. And the nurse that I
Speaker 6: go to she's got like a master's in nursing and whatever.
Speaker 5: So like I trust her and I've never had any problems.
Speaker 5: So I feel like when you find someone you then
Speaker 5: kind of push the boundaries of what you would normally.
Speaker 5: Like I want to go, Joe, I would say, I
Speaker 5: was going to this like backyard bend at once.
Speaker 4: You should, my god, I rock up to this fucking place.
Speaker 4: You get like we works? Yeah, we were like the
Speaker 4: office space. Yeah, they've got we works for medical professionals.
Speaker 4: They do. I went to Edgecliffe in Sydney find them
Speaker 4: on like an app.
Speaker 5: I got referred from a friending book the appointment, get
Speaker 5: there and this lady greets me and as she she
Speaker 5: has to let me into this building. So she comes
Speaker 5: down and gets me and as I'm walking to Jelevad
Speaker 5: and she walks in front. No, she's got an ankle
Speaker 5: bracelet on. So I was like, oh, Auntie's obviously on paroles.
Speaker 4: Good for usis no?
Speaker 5: I thought, good for you having a job, right, So
Speaker 5: that was my first red flag because like, oh fuck,
Speaker 5: this looks a bit dodgy. Second, I went to this
Speaker 5: like this we work space for medical professions and there
Speaker 5: were just a bunch of women standing around doing this botox.
Speaker 4: I was like, well, I'm not getting fucking filler at.
Speaker 3: This like open space.
Speaker 4: Like now they had like medical rooms if you were
Speaker 4: going and be this way.
Speaker 5: That proper, but well it was yeah, look it was proper,
Speaker 5: but it was weird because they're like, oh, we're gonna
Speaker 5: do feel I was like, no, no, we're not, because like,
Speaker 5: if you hit a nerve, I'm fucked, and I don't
Speaker 5: trust that anybody hit it. Yeah, So because one of
Speaker 5: the ladies looks like also she had too much done,
Speaker 5: so that's also a red flag. Anyway, the new place
Speaker 5: I'm seeing is amazing. It's got another referral from a friend.
Speaker 5: And I think when you find someone that's good that
Speaker 5: wants to make you frosten like I am, you stick
Speaker 5: with frost and frozen friendy like frozen friend, No friend,
Speaker 5: not Fenny.
Speaker 4: Fuck you, Fanny and the forests frozen now. But I
Speaker 4: think referrals are always good.
Speaker 5: So if you are gonna like consider getting surgery, though,
Speaker 5: get referrals, because Mari, you referred me to my doctor.
Speaker 5: Because like you, I've had weight loss surgery. I've also
Speaker 5: had a tummy tuck and you are one thousand percent
Speaker 5: right that the fucking after pain is like it's it's
Speaker 5: full on. It's nothing short of like the twelve weeks
Speaker 5: it took me to recover and even.
Speaker 1: Now two weeks. I told you, No, I.
Speaker 4: Didn't take your fucking two weeks. Don't lie.
Speaker 5: You were out. You were out on two weeks and
Speaker 5: then you had fucking septic semi or whatever it was.
Speaker 5: What'd you happen? She got sick from it because the
Speaker 5: doctors like you got to stay home. She thought no
Speaker 5: good Monday our bales bean Monda O Boughs thought she
Speaker 5: could defeat the world a silly country and then she
Speaker 5: gets fucking sick from it.
Speaker 1: That was the second third surgery, by the way. Well,
Speaker 1: so the second surgery, which was my tummy, that was
Speaker 1: my first actually two weeks recovery. The breast was two
Speaker 1: weeks recovery. The third surgery.
Speaker 5: You did two weeks recovery because it took me four
Speaker 5: weeks just to be able to have fucking stand up
Speaker 5: straight after it.
Speaker 1: I went back to work two weeks later. It was
Speaker 1: the back surgery where I fell off the bed.
Speaker 4: Ah, and then you got the yeah idea, fell flat.
Speaker 1: On my fucking ass. And it wasn't until I was
Speaker 1: in Melbourne that the blood clot actually presented.
Speaker 3: What can I say, I've been laid up on my
Speaker 3: back for a lot less for a lot longer, So.
Speaker 4: That's crazy.
Speaker 1: So tell us you've got your you got your tummy
Speaker 1: tax I had the tummy tak done, I've had botox
Speaker 1: and look, I probably just disclaimer.
Speaker 5: I feel like if anyone is considering doing any type
Speaker 5: of surgery, go get medical advice.
Speaker 4: Don't trust us, fucking bunch of buffeads.
Speaker 7: I think they know not to trust us to go
Speaker 7: and seek medical advice, but I do encourage people if
Speaker 7: you are going to do it, asks for advice, speak
Speaker 7: to your friends and your family and arks to get arks.
Speaker 5: To get you get a referral, because that's where I find.
Speaker 5: They're the people who I trust and the people are
Speaker 5: now kind of work with as well. So yeah, to
Speaker 5: be an adult mob, just be safe about today.
Speaker 1: That's exactly, hey, and have a budget.
Speaker 4: Like a hundred kov.
Speaker 1: You have a budget, listen, be realistic. Now, plastic surgery
Speaker 1: is not cheap.
Speaker 4: It's not.
Speaker 1: So don't think, oh, you're going to go and talk
Speaker 1: to your doctor and get a referral and all of
Speaker 1: a sudden you can charge it back to Medicare and
Speaker 1: bold bill. That's not going to happen. So if you've
Speaker 1: got private health, you've got a lot, you know, a
Speaker 1: lot of obviously more chances of saving money if you've
Speaker 1: got private health. But it comes back to chronic diseases,
Speaker 1: on why you've got the weight loss surgery, on how
Speaker 1: they actually assess whether or not you're suitable.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you meet the crisis disclaimer.
Speaker 5: Also not providing financial advice, yes, please professionals exactly.
Speaker 3: Well, I think we're interrupt this up. Hey, it's been
Speaker 3: an interesting chat.
Speaker 4: Again.
Speaker 5: So if you fucking see me in the street, you
Speaker 5: see me frozen, I'm not surprised.
Speaker 4: Looking at your sideways. I've just got too much botox.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, please reach out to us.
Speaker 1: We would love to know if you've been thinking about
Speaker 1: botox or any feelers, or even if you're thinking of
Speaker 1: weight loss surgery. We would love to share some of
Speaker 1: our experiences with you.
Speaker 4: It's not always you know, as not glamorous.
Speaker 1: It's not glamorous, So we're not sitting here to make
Speaker 1: out that hey, it was amazing where real people that
Speaker 1: have had these experiences, and a lot of our are
Speaker 1: probably thinking about is this for me? A lot of
Speaker 1: them are a Jammy, right, they don't want to be Jammy.
Speaker 3: That's a queen, is it?
Speaker 1: Queens? D you? Jammy of the night? Ghosts and stuff
Speaker 1: like a jammy about everything?
Speaker 4: Yes, so jam means I'm going to jam that for
Speaker 4: like give a good driver.
Speaker 1: No, I don't want to jam jam that's a wrap.
Speaker 4: We're done.
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Speaker 6: Don't fucking take advice or nothing but seek professional.
Speaker 4: Yeah, see it.
Speaker 3: Therapists, do what you gotta do this. I don't come
Speaker 3: to us with your swim and let him be angry.
Speaker 1: Okay,