WEBVTT - Botox, Tummy Tucks and a swollen dog 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.080 Unapologetically Black would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:07.600 the lands where this podcast is being hurt or watched 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:11.319 across this great island continent now known as Australia and 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:13.520 across the world. We would also like to pay our 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:16.360 respects to elders past and present and acknowledged that this 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:19.079 always was and always will be Aberaginal Lands. 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:26.000 Welcome to Unapologetically Black with Ginny, Mara and Will. 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:29.560 Welcome back to another episode of Unapologetically Black. My name's 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:32.960 Ginny and I'm joined by my co hosts Mara and Will. 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:34.479 What's up with you two? 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:35.080 God? 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:37.879 I just had like a let's say, shot of alcohol 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:43.360 of aspirin, penicillin, parasita. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:45.440 Was there? 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:47.640 Do you know the ones you drink though? Because I 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:49.920 got a headache. I love them because I'm going. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.200 To have them when you have a heart attack? 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.920 You do you think it kind of tastes like sperm. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:59.200 No, that tasted like mar She wouldn't know, apparently in 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:00.880 fifteen I've never done it. 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:05.560 Anyway, that's an episode after dark episode, so maybe after this. 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:07.560 Back to the shot. I had the shot because I've 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:08.759 got a head I've got a bit of a headache. 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:11.880 Attention headache because I had I had a bit of 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:14.600 a bit of a touch up this week, and my 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:17.880 I'm feeling very tweet. Okay, let's let's touch up on 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:21.560 what well, so me botox was feeling a little kind 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:22.319 of drab? 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.440 Okay, can we go back to the start? Is that right? 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:29.200 It's a spermal. I don't want to talk about that. 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:30.560 Do you want to talk about that? 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:33.399 I want to talk about how did you actually get 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:35.520 to a point where you was like, I need to 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:37.039 get this done? Talk to us. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.200 I haven't even got to the fact, that fucking fact 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:40.440 that I've got a headache from bowtox. 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:42.560 I got this one. You want to get back to 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:43.360 live to memorize. 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:44.759 Raise your eyebrows. 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:49.440 I can't ready watch like watching that's me moving my throat, 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:54.200 I'm squinting. I'm like I might freeze my face. They 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:55.760 call me frozen, show me. 0:01:58.080 --> 0:01:59.480 That's what he's like? Fucking what do you call it? 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:01.080 When you get there? Yes, you got that frownd lines. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:01.720 I'm like that. 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:03.880 Oh, I'll never get rid of this, no amount of botox. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:04.480 I'm sorry, No. 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.080 You will, though, I've got like I look like I've 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.160 got a vagina in my forehead. 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.560 Have you seen a vagina. 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:17.440 I'll share my I'll share, I'll. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.120 Share my first time with a woman and after dark. 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:20.520 If you want to hear that story, come and fucking 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:21.359 subscribe to it. 0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:24.720 But the forehead, that's the vagina's on my forehead, right 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:29.160 is it's these big deep lines. The point is he's big, 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:39.240 big depats, that big hole with wearing studs for people. 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.160 They've just kind of joined us just down it. 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:44.040 We haven't even got to the deeper it. I'm talking about. 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:45.760 Ive got a headache because I've got botox, and now 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:47.600 you want to talk about maybe Betty on my forehead 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:51.720 or it's so confused anyway, I took. 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:55.480 The I'm sorry, yes, so that should be never allowed. 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:56.640 Add that to the list. 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.040 Of things, not the fanny. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:03.560 Or the moist fanny. Now you're killing me anyway, So 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:04.240 the boat. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:07.320 I've got a headache, and I've just taken some paracetamol 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.200 because I've got a headache, because I feel like I've 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:12.400 got I've had a lot put in this time around, 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:13.640 because I'm like, I'm going away. 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:15.960 Okay, let's talk about mills. What are we talking about? 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:16.679 What are you putting you in? Know? 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.240 I said to my lady and say, hey, dove makes me. 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:22.480 I want to be like fucking Ana from Frozen. Let 0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:25.120 it go, like let the wrinkles go type mentality. 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:26.760 Let it go. 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:31.280 I want to feel like I think he's gonna say, 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.880 I want to look like a Kardashian. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:34.600 No, bitch, I want to be frozen. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.520 Hey Chloe, do you really want to be frozen? Look? 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:42.400 Am I moving? Like that's I'm literally tensing my forehead? 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:46.240 Use that? 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:47.280 Am I moving? 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:50.600 Because I'm actually trying to move? 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:54.040 If only you could see yourself right. 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:57.040 Now looking the look in the camera, does at once 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:57.480 be ready? 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.120 Why are you doing that face? That be moving my 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:03.400 foret like this. 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:07.560 Because that's the only thing that fucking moves my face. 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:08.720 You have my good friend. 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:12.080 My good friend recalls me, recalls me, recall she calls 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:16.800 me Ramona from fucking The Real Housewife because she's frozen 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:19.440 when she walks down that runway like this, that's what 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:25.840 I feel like. 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:24.320 She's going to look. 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:26.360 She blinks to make. 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:27.200 Up for the Yeah. 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:28.800 So I've got I've got I've got a lot. I've 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:30.600 got a botox on this week, and I had a 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:31.560 filler and stuff done. 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:32.440 Where's a filler? 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:33.760 Wherever? I had it done. 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:34.400 Where is the feller? 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:37.440 So I've had filler in my cheeks, so not my cheeks, 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:40.080 so I've had filler in my creases here, which is. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:41.840 Like the painful. No. 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:45.080 I find botox hurts more than filler. I've had feeler 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:45.760 in my jaw. 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:47.880 Just before. 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:52.400 For the listeners, I was a fucking swollen dog. I 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:53.520 was that big. 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:56.120 I was a hundred and he was. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.800 I can say I know he he was running me 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:05.720 down like I'm not in the room. 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:08.839 But I was a swell I was swollen. I was 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:09.560 very large. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.599 I'm six foot one. I was one hundred and sixty kiels. 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:13.039 I held it quite well, but I was a big 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:15.280 boy and I lost. I've lost like I lost sixty 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:16.560 eight kilos, And in. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.960 Doing so, I looked like I had fucking like cancer 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.359 or something. My face was all trawny. Well you know 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:24.200 when people get sick, I lose all of it. 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:26.840 So I've had quite puffy cheeks, but the rest of 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:29.200 my face went down. So I said, fuck this, fill 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.719 my face up. I want to look like I'm youthful. 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.039 I feel good about myself, and yeah, I look like 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:35.360 I'm fucking fifty years old. 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.440 No, thank you, so I went and did it, and 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:40.280 I don't even regret it. I love this, so I 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:40.640 did it. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.279 How does how do people the every day? Because not 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:48.600 only blackfellows listen to this podcast, right right, I would 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:51.800 hope that more people kind of feel like this is 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:54.039 for them, And I hope you know, if if this 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:56.880 is for you, thank you for listening and following us 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:57.880 and joining. 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:03.480 We decided here. 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.839 We're so thankful. We always don't even think they were 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:11.560 excluding you. If we refer to you all as our mob, 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:16.880 it just means family community. Well, for anyone that's listening, 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:19.160 how do you find the right person? 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:19.400 Like? 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:23.000 Is it referral? So I've been through anyone? 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.800 No I need or happy? 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.080 Yeah, I've been through maybe six or seven people in 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:29.320 my course of getting it done. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:30.919 This is exactly what I want to touch on. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:31.080 Now. 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:34.640 Okay, we're all and I'm talking about myself as well. 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:35.440 Have you had it done? 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:39.680 We're all getting old. Speak of yourself younger. 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:44.080 I'm frozen, bitch, I'm fucking twenty two at heart. 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:45.240 He's from the elixir. 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:50.000 I've had a couple of kids. All right, you can't 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.400 really well you can actually if you want to spend 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:55.239 more money, but I would not me, but my husband 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.600 doesn't want me to look like frozen. 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.640 Done, you say, because I look like I'm fucking bad. 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:03.920 I look for I don't look like I've had heats, 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:05.680 but I forgot. Oh, there's a fucking lot of okay. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:09.200 So my husband doesn't want me to start fucking with 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.200 my features, doesn't want me to do that, So I 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:14.840 respect him. He married me. He loves who I am, 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.120 and he wants me to kind of love who I 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:20.280 am as well. So I try my hardest to love 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.200 who I am. And it took me a long time 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:26.120 to get to that point. I went and had the 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:30.120 sleeve done right only because I had chronic diseases. I 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:34.920 had sleep apnea, and I had diabetes. So for me 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:40.560 to make that decision was really about living longer for 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:44.480 my kids. So I had the sleeve done three years ago. 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:48.760 I lost sporty kilos and all of my weight. Even 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:52.400 though I lost like thirty kilos in twelve weeks, I 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.480 came in and then all of my loose skin just 0:07:55.600 --> 0:08:00.400 dropped down. So for me, I started. I actually became more. 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:03.640 Depressed after surgery right, and I. 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:05.880 Did not love one bit of myself. I loved who 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.440 I was before most people would say that I was 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:13.760 voluptuous and voluptuous voluptuous? Is that he pronounced voluptuous? 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:15.800 Was everyone looking at me because you're the one who 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:19.240 fucking craft matale and all the rest of the stuff, right. 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:21.440 Pronunciation. 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:26.760 I just love the fact that I actually I wasn't 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:31.240 one hundred percent happy within my own skin after having babies, 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.079 but I got to a point where I didn't give 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:34.440 a fuck. 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:41.280 So the question I have, then, what if you had done. 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:41.720 Well, let me tell you I got no shame in 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:44.200 this ship. I've just spent about one hundred k. 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:49.119 Dollar figures. I don't want to okay. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.880 I don't want any of our listeners to go okay, 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:54.800 weight loss surgeries for me because I've got chronic diseases. 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:57.960 That's only one part of it. It's then after you 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:00.840 lose all of that weight in like, you know, twelve weeks, 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.080 what are you gonna do? You're gonna keep kind of 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:06.760 tucking that ship away and wearing these body suits and stuff, 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:12.880 which my husband calls the batman suit God, and that 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:20.040 made it worse trying to get and I would hide 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:26.559 so he didn't see me in my what's those suits called. 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:32.079 It's got a far I'm sorry, it's got a far right. 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:39.920 That's so that I guess the moral of that. 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:40.800 That's what I'm talking about. 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:48.960 Afar. Yeah, those suits are called flattened you. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:50.560 I never wore one, of. 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:52.960 Course it's not of course, of course that's only here. 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:56.199 Okay, but listen, what about all of the body. Technically 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:57.000 it's called afar ha. 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.760 Well, my sister girls don't even know that. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:01.720 Like they can start here and they go all the 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:03.280 way up and what they mean. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:12.400 After after so lost the weight and about a year 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:17.560 after I had literally three kilos of excess skin hanging 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:21.320 off my belly that covered my VIJJ. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:23.319 So that's what we call a food, pa. 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:25.440 Actual food. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.160 We call the Western Sydney a gun. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.240 Oh my dad used to call it that. There were 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:37.800 certain employees, Oh my. 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:40.320 God, do you know what a gun is? I guess 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:40.840 you know. 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.920 It's mixed up with the C and the G. 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:46.559 Here and the G is here and together. 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:49.280 So my I used to and a lot of my 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.600 staff would know this that when we travel, I'd be 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.640 in the hotel room and literally it was like my friend, 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.600 I would be entertained by this three kilos of excess 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.600 skin I was. I'd lay there and plating TV in 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:06.000 the land room and not even think what I was doing. 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:09.600 Was like, it wasn't to me. It wasn't like discussing 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:13.319 or wrong. I was kind of like, what is it? 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:17.840 I was not playing with that anything else. So listen, 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.600 I've got this three kilos of XRA skin hanging over 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:26.240 my lower abdomen and I was like, I need to 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:27.719 go and talk to someone to get rid of it. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:30.000 So I didn't know that that was actually called a 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:33.520 tummy tuck. I actually never googled it. So my first surgery, 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:40.400 I had a abdominoplastic and that was basically a tummy tuck. 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:44.000 I waited another year and I had a breast reconstruction, 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:47.679 so I had three kilos removed off my breast. So 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.560 that was pretty full on. I came home and Peace 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:56.320 was like, wow, there there's not much left. So I 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:58.480 was like, well, give me a year to recover and 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:01.120 I'm going to go get the loose off my back. 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:05.560 So the third surgery was nine hours and four kilos 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:08.440 removed off my back. Wow. That was an upper and 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:11.400 lower body lifting. Which one was the most painful, I 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:15.319 would say the tummy tuck because they sow the insights 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:19.120 in your muscles and the external as well. So when 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:22.600 you wake up, you're severely hunched over and you've got 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.920 to learn to walk again. It's like you're learning to 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:26.199 stretch your spine. 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:30.440 You've had you've had a tummy tuck, so bastrix lee 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.000 first and tummy tuck. 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:36.040 Tummy tuck and breast reconstruction and then the back surgery. 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.640 Then when I had the back surgery to bring my 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:43.200 lower and upper back in and pull myself up, they 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.440 then took the fat from my back and put it 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:49.520 back into my breast, so I don't have implants there natural, 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:52.600 but it gave me a little bit more kind of volume, 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:57.800 a bit more umph volume. Jesus, Well, that's full surgeries. 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:03.640 If one is in the pipeline, the fifth one back 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:07.240 to we have vagina answered the fucking question though, have 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:08.079 you had botox? 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:12.960 And we've gone straight to talk about next meeting it. 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:15.320 The fucking life story with all of them k later. 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.080 So back to botox and filler because we're talking about 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:19.640 my frozen face and the fact that I've got a 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:20.480 fucking ache. 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:23.480 Have you had it done? I tried it, and what 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:24.240 do you think about it? 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:29.840 My dentist, who I never thought. Just sorry. My dentist 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.600 actually said let me do this. I didn't ask, I 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:35.200 didn't go there for it. She just did it. 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:43.319 We'll be back right after this break. 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:47.480 So we were talking about botox, and Mars just went 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:52.080 and and sheared, like literally her whole plastic surgery journey. Jin, 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.959 have you had botox or filler or anything? 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:56.880 Yes? I have. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:00.480 Would I have had botox, and I've had I did 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:05.200 some filler in my lips, probably a good like I 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:06.800 want to say, close to ten years ago. It was 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:12.360 a really long time ago, but I like botox. I 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.480 liked the filler, but it also scared the fuck out 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.080 of me. So it was the one time and you know, 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:18.840 when you first I don't know, have you had your 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:19.200 lips done? 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:19.960 Yeah, I've had my lips. 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:20.920 Have you had your lips done? 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:21.040 No? 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:23.920 Okay. So the first time I ever got my lips done, 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:27.000 you literally look like a baboons asked for a fucking 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:31.200 three days, and I I have paranoia, and I thought, 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:34.560 I'm that one percent of people that don't come back 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.200 from this, you know what I mean. I literally was 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:41.720 like calling the nurse and I was like, it's not 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:45.800 going down. She's like, it's only been seven hours. No, wait, 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:49.160 a few days. I literally was crying to everyone who 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:49.760 would listen to me. 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:50.840 I've made a misstad. 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.440 I've never had the problem. So I've had probably four. 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:54.080 Meals in my lips. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.440 Right is that a lot? That's a lot. 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.880 You go back to old photos I had like I think, 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.640 like I think I was gummy Kathy, Like I was 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:04.440 literally I was given gobbies with. 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:08.040 No gums, right, Like, that's how bad it was. Gummy Kathy. 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:12.640 And my mother was Kathy. 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:19.400 Kathy Riley Kathy from the neighborhood. I had no apple lip. 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:24.440 Just in like comparison, I put point two in my lily. 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:28.240 Maybe not four there, no, maybe, And I've had I've 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:30.920 probably had four, yeah, maybe four overtime right over time, 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.520 but as I mean like four build it up. 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:35.920 Yeah, I've never bruised like that. 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:37.880 So I get it done, I'd probably be swollen for 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:39.240 maybe six hours and then I'm not. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.320 I love the swelling look. 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:43.320 So a good friend of mine, who we know, which 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.360 I won't name, but she'll know who I'm talking about, 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.160 when she got the marl na. 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:52.040 Honestly, she had it done. She looked like do you 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:54.560 know how like a prolapse butthole. That's what her lips 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:56.920 looked like. They were so big, and it was like 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:58.760 it was fair. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:00.840 Some people like that, look, I. 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:02.480 Quite like it. I want to look swollen. 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.400 Then my lip goes down like, oh, I could probably 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:07.040 do more more and I think because I've got a 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:08.960 beard also, it kind of covers it a little bit. 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:10.480 But if you look back at old. 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:13.680 Photos, I went from Kathy no upper lip to all 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:15.200 of a sudden having like a bit of shape. 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:16.720 Would you do your lips? 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:18.800 No, you wouldn't do it. Now I think you're a 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:19.600 good lip, so you don't. 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:20.800 You've got beautiful lips. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.760 Thank you. 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:26.080 Well, these lips you're not made for. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:29.280 They're not made for all things and other things other 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:33.280 people think they are used for. But these lips make money, 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.600 but not in that way. So let me just say this, 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:41.720 how much does it cost? Never say never? I like 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:45.560 Botoks once and I was like, oh this is interesting. 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:48.160 But it lifted my eyebrows. 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:49.880 Yes, it does change. 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:53.600 It lifted my eyebrows. And my husband literally said to 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:54.560 me like. 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:55.760 Stop, well. 0:16:58.320 --> 0:16:58.880 Are you okay? 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:02.560 So the more I said that that he noticed, and 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.800 then my niece, my beautiful niece. Lily says to me, Ah, 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:07.760 you had botox. And I looked at him and go, 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:09.119 how do you know? 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:12.920 Because you look surprised. Motherfucker. 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:17.320 She said, because your eyebaar eyebrows are on point, and 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.880 I said, I've always wanted on point eyebrows. I had 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:24.680 no idea that it changed my eyebrows. So I did 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:26.199 it once and then I was kind of like, did 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:31.320 you do it again? I hate pain. That's why I've 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:35.440 never had a tattoo, so I don't like you just talk. 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:39.280 Whole coffee body out but you're asleep. 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:41.280 But the after pain though. 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:42.960 Oh the art pain is full on. You've got a 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:46.320 lot of more feet to help you recover. But with botox, 0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:46.840 you're awake. 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:50.560 I'll be honest. Botox like that, it's stingy. The filler. 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:52.280 I can deal with the filler the botox. 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:55.880 What's the difference for our listeners that are listening, what's 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:58.159 the difference between filler and botox? 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:01.320 Look, I'm no nurse. By n don't take anything. 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.639 But what I do know when when you get filler, 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:07.600 it's really interesting because you're not numbs, but they use 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:09.719 like a little thing to prick your skin. And then 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:12.920 they put the canular in and they literally can they 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:17.120 put a Look again, I'm not a professional. I don't 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:19.560 know what the thing's called. There's a needle in my 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:20.639 face and she's. 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:23.880 Sculpting like when she does my jaw, sculpting my jaw 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.439 with this needle and like laying the way are away 0:18:26.960 --> 0:18:29.879 away like I've gotta do that ship. 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.000 You've gone way too far from me. Now what do 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:33.040 you mean, I'm out. 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:37.280 I'm out. I've got to go. 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.760 It's a plastics. No, they can't. They put it pricking 0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:45.680 your face. They put the needle in, and then they 0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:49.040 kind of build it. It's like it's like build a bed. 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:52.320 They stuffed the builder band, they funnel the builder beand 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:53.440 through the legs of the build a bed. 0:18:53.800 --> 0:18:55.000 I just did one last week. 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:58.320 It's the same thing, right to building exactly. So they're 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:00.800 building my jaw or they building my lips or whatever. 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:01.399 They're doing that. 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:03.920 And so how often are you doing. 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:05.680 Every six eight months? Depending on. 0:19:07.560 --> 0:19:08.639 Is one visit? 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:10.320 Let's not talk about price. 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:11.119 No, we need to know. 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:12.280 Is it like one thousand? 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:13.520