1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:01,560 Speaker 1: It's will and Woody. 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 2: It is Willan. What do you hope you having a 3 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 2: great drive home? Hey, look, we had a call from 4 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 2: a woman yesterday called Diane, who admits to the fact 5 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: that she exclusively sleeps with married men. 6 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 3: I vowed at myself that all men are the same, because, 7 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 3: like they're all still out here doing it, all the 8 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,159 Speaker 3: men that I've done it with, they are actually the 9 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 3: sort of people that I would genuinely be in a 10 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 3: relationship with, and like they appear to be great, down 11 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 3: up guys. And then so when I see them doing this, 12 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: it just confirms in my head that my type of 13 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 3: guy is a pissed shit. 14 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 2: So the context is that she was cheated on, she 15 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: was married, she was cheated on, and then the idea 16 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: is from there that she protects herself by not being 17 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 2: cheated on by cooking up with guys who are in relationships, 18 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 2: and so she's the cheating and not the cheatea. And 19 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 2: the more I think about it, the more I think 20 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: she's awful. But let's hear your thoughts. I don't want 21 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 2: to six points. 22 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 4: It's got an amber here amber, But what are your thoughts? 23 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 4: What are your feelings when when you hear from Diane, I. 24 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 5: Think this woman is revolting. If you need to make 25 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 5: yourself feel better by intentionally ruining and ruining another woman's relationship, 26 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 5: I mean, like, I'm so happy to tell them that 27 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 5: I had sex with their husband. Now you're the problem. Yeah, 28 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 5: I think like you can't seek validation out of intentionally 29 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 5: harming somebody. 30 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 4: To see it any other way? Yeah, thanks Amber, Yeah, 31 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 4: there are other things to do. 32 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 2: I mean, as the guy who played the quiz Olie 33 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: said earlier, she might need another hobby. 34 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 4: Let's go to Natasha here, Natasha, what do you think 35 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 4: about this? 36 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 6: Hi? 37 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 3: Boys? 38 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 6: Look, I think that if this gentleman or a husband 39 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 6: is reaching out to this woman by whatever method he's 40 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 6: chasing her, she's not actually looking for it. So if 41 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 6: they're being unstaithful to their wives from the word go, 42 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 6: that's the promise that the husband's breaking. She's just taking 43 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 6: advantage of the opportunity and having an overnight, unmeaningful relationship. 44 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: I do think she's the other side. 45 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 4: I think the line though for mine hearing all of it, 46 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 4: because I agree the husband is in the wrong here. 47 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 4: If you look at it, your husband is the one 48 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 4: who is doing a very bad thing. Now Diane is 49 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 4: enabling that bad behavior. At the end of the day, yeah, 50 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: do not take away from the husband doing a bad thing. 51 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 2: We know that, but we know that, like surely. I 52 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 2: think the conversation you and I had off here was that, 53 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: like often when there is a guy that cheats, yeah, 54 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: there is, it's very easy to villainize. And I think 55 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 2: this is what you're getting at, Natasha, is that, like 56 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: how easy it is to villainize the woman who slept 57 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 2: with him. 58 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 6: He's making a decision and it's his responsibility to make 59 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 6: sure that he's faithful to his wife. If every husband 60 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 6: was faithful to their wives, well there won't be wives 61 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 6: out there complaining that their husbands are actually cheating on them. 62 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 6: So I don't really think that what she's doing is 63 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 6: the right thing to do. She's engaging in poor behavior 64 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 6: because hey, he's committed, and essentially she could be breaking 65 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 6: up someone's family. But at the end of the day, 66 00:02:56,360 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 6: I still feel that if it's agreed upon mutually and 67 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 6: that this is what they want to do, that's a 68 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 6: risk that the husband's taking. I don't think that she's 69 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 6: going out and deliberately sabotaging marriages and really the wife 70 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 6: in question that is being cheated on needs to really 71 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 6: ask a husband to step up and go, mate, what's 72 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 6: going on? 73 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, good point. 74 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 4: And the other thing is, if it's not Diane, it'll 75 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,679 Speaker 4: probably be someone else, won't it if he's reaching out 76 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 4: to her on And the other point is I feel 77 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 4: like Diane at some point needs to reach out to 78 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 4: the wife as well. I think I think she reached. 79 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: I don't think she owes that she doesn't know that too. 80 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 4: But if she's going to claim that she's doing it to, 81 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 4: you know, extract these awful men from these relationships, then 82 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 4: you know, finish the job. 83 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: But I don't think. I don't necessarily think she's doing 84 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: it to extract them from their relationships. And I think 85 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: this is the selfish part about it. She's doing it 86 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: to prove to herself that men suck and that she's 87 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: not alone. There are other women that get cheated on. 88 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: She's not doing that. That's why I said antihro before, 89 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 2: like a hero would do it, Well, the hero wouldn't 90 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 2: do it. I mean, I'm sure Batman slept with a 91 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: few people Bruce Wayne, my god, but I'm sure. 92 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 4: They wenamously took the whole ballet. He who Russian ballet. 93 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 4: That's a deep cut of Batman, And I'm sure a 94 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 4: few people are still following. 95 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 2: So so I think that the the other things we've 96 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 2: brought up a couple of times here, which I think 97 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 2: is interesting and probably needs to be discussed, is like, 98 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: cheating is going to happen. People are going to sleep 99 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: with other people. That's already a phenomenon that happens. But like, 100 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: and I can accept Natasha's point there, like if you 101 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: hook up with someone who is married for all the 102 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 2: reasons that we originally started talking about this, there was 103 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 2: a Reddit thread about these women called side chicks who 104 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 2: are in a relationship with the marriag gap man. They 105 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 2: like it because it's noncommittal and it's not their it's 106 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 2: not their baggage basically, which is Natasha's point. This is 107 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 2: the guy, he's got the family that you know, he's 108 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: the one who's breaking all the trust here. But at 109 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 2: the same time, you use the word a nable before. 110 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 2: I feel like there's a point where you know, you've 111 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: got to look at yourself a bit as a person 112 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: and be like, eh, you know, if I slept with 113 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: a married dude once off, and it was like, well 114 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: that was really Yakey's yuck. Whatever I cooked it, I 115 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: get it. But like, if you're like seeking out guys 116 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 2: and you're exclusively sleeping with married man, I don't really 117 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: know how you'd get up in the morning. Yeah. Yeah, 118 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: we got kids. You know, we're in relationships, long term, 119 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 2: committed relationships. Like just knowing that somebody's deliberately letting me 120 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 2: hurt them makes me feel a bit. 121 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's go to Jamie here, Jamie, Hey, Jamie, what 122 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 4: are your thoughts. 123 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: I think she's gone through a lot in her life 124 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: and there's some of this underlying issue with her, and 125 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: I think she needs to seek professional help. I think 126 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 1: there's something there, and I think if it goes unresolved, 127 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: but she could actually pass it on to her without. 128 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 2: Realizing she's got kids as well. This is this is 129 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 2: the other thing that we very wise coming from Jamie 130 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: that that got brought up, is that she's got children. 131 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: Blows my mind. 132 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 4: What she's doing to mask is hurting people and does 133 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 4: not have longevity. 134 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 2: So I've been doing it for four years. 135 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think as the kids get older and 136 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 4: there's no. 137 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 2: You know, that's what your mum was doing mm top. 138 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, definitely all right. 139 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: Well, hot chat, well done, the current affair over guys 140 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: well sorted. 141 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 4: Hear more of the boys on the full podcast just 142 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 4: scroll up.