1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda in the Morning. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 2: One point seven w s. 3 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: So Married at First Sight has been rocked by explosive 4 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: claims from a contestant that staff manipulated her into saying 5 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: things on camera by threatening her that she did not 6 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: she didn't say what they said, Australia would hate her. 7 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 2: This we're talking about Poppy I haven't seen the show, 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: but Poppies is saying that she on the show was 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: painted as someone who was a miserable winger, a bogan, 10 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 2: single mum. These are the words she'd used to fit 11 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: an agenda. She said she actually, in reality wasn't allowed 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: to say what she felt, which was she felt the 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: man she'd been paired with was a little bit creepy. 14 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 2: She didn't feel comfortable. There were times she felt scared 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: and she spoke to the staff about that and they said, 16 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: just say these words, you'll come out of it. Okay. Well, 17 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: she's not happy with how she's been depicted and not 18 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: happy that the reality of the situation wasn't shown. But 19 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 2: as you just said earlier, Brendan, these shows aren't about reality. 20 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: These shows are heavily scripted, they're heavily manipulated. I don't 21 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: think the audience cared. I think that is enjoying the drama, 22 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: but the people who go on them. We spoke to 23 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 2: Dean from Married at First Sight. He went on Dancing 24 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 2: with the Stars to try and say to people, Hey, 25 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: I'm not the horrible monster that I was painted on 26 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 2: that program. A lot of people have come out of 27 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 2: these shows saying they weren't happy with their portrayal. And 28 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: it's interesting last year because a lot of questions are 29 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 2: being asked about the duty of care of these production 30 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: companies and the networks. These people, they're not TV people. 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: They go into this stuff without any idea of what 32 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: they're in for, and they get a trolled, they get 33 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 2: edited very heavily. They have a lot of mental health 34 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: issues afterwards. So the network for nine, Channel nine is 35 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: offering past contestants free psychological support. This came after a 36 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: ruling where someone from House Rules Channel seven was ordered 37 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: to pay workers comp to this woman. She argued her 38 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: negative portrayal on House Rules triggered post traumatic stress anxiety 39 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: depression made her unemployable. 40 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Because Poppy on the show, it always seemed that she 41 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: was just complaining that she was missing her kids. 42 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 3: Obviously left on two little boys a home, so I 43 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,679 Speaker 3: left a lot behind to come here. Struggle with that 44 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 3: more than I could probably explain, being very upset over it. 45 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: I said my vows, he said his vows. But then 46 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 3: I guess or I could think of honestly my kids all. 47 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: Day and it would be hard. The honeymoon, for example, 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: goes for four days. You see it on the Telly. 49 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: It goes for about five minutes, not ever mat But she. 50 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: Says the reason she wasn't happy with that relationship is 51 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 2: she just didn't like him and actually felt very, very uncomfortable. 52 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: And it's like what you said, these people haven't worked 53 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: in media. We've been working in media for a long time. 54 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: We know all the tricks, all the tricks that produces. 55 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: TV producers will do to get you to say stuff. 56 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: I've been on two reality shows, and I used to 57 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: say to them, particularly on Dad's with the Stars, I said, 58 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: what storyline are we looking at? Fellas? What do you 59 00:02:58,200 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: want me to do so we can get out of 60 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: here quick? And they literally say, oh, can you just 61 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: go yep? Done. But these guys aren't definite enough because 62 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: they're selling cosmetics one week and now they're expected to 63 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: be a TV host and it's you know, as Bond 64 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: Scott said, I tell your folks, it's harder than a look. 65 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 2: You have to be a robust person to handle it. 66 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 2: And these people get a lot of trolling. There's a 67 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,679 Speaker 2: case recently, a very sad thing Caroline Flack. She's the 68 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 2: host of Love Island in England. She has taken her 69 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 2: own life. Two contestants from previous series have taken their 70 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 2: own lives. There's a big push now to stop the 71 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 2: press going for these people. Because she had a court 72 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 2: case that even she was alleged that she'd assaulted her boyfriend. 73 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: This was due in court. He said, it wasn't really, 74 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: it wasn't an assault. We're fine where a couple go away. 75 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: But the courts were pressing ahead and the media were 76 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: in her face. She became the butt of a thousand jokes. 77 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: And the way that you're portrayed on TV reflects therefore 78 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 2: in how you're portrayed in newspapers and magazines and the 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 2: way that the trolls attack you. This is terrible stuff. 80 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: You were saying before that you think it's fair enough 81 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: if you sign up for this stuff suck. 82 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: Oh it's true. You see, you're sold to the devil 83 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: to do. 84 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 85 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: But if you want fame, and this is what happened 86 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: to you, look at all the people in time, Heath Ledger, 87 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: Michael Hutchins, all these guys like I remember speaking to 88 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: Heath Ledger when he was first starting at and he 89 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,239 Speaker 1: wanted it so bad. He wanted it, And we spoke 90 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: to him before he died, you know, broke Back Mountain, 91 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: and he was over it. You know, you can't once 92 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: you release the fame, Genie, once you make that deal 93 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: with the devil, you can't put it back in. Michael 94 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: Hutchins gave his soul for that, and then at the 95 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: end he was hating it. He was hating being followed. 96 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: He didn't want that anymore. But you can't switch it off. 97 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: But what is it that these are people who want 98 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 2: this fame? But what is it about us that turns 99 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: it so negative? Why are we so hateful to these people? 100 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 2: I think we have to look at our own behavior. 101 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: That's sport now that we just knock them down. 102 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: He's a jealousy because you're thinking, well, hang on, why 103 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: is this person being escalated, why are they getting on? 104 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: I think we just think they're if they're fodder. It's 105 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 2: it's it's become a gladiators thing for us. We just 106 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: watch them literally die in front of us. I think 107 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: we have to look at our own behavior and we are. 108 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: We do need to be responsible into how we react 109 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 2: to these people. 110 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 3: Joines The and Amanda. 111 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: Good Morning at one point seven