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<v Speaker 1>Cata, Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Tuesday, Darlings.

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<v Speaker 3>Do your friends have to send you calendar invites to

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<v Speaker 3>hang out? It's an affirmative from making Do you think this.

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<v Speaker 4>Is similar to people who talk about scheduling intercourse? You know,

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<v Speaker 4>some people are in the camp but like, if you

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<v Speaker 4>have to schedule it, it's not sexy, but others are Like,

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<v Speaker 4>if I don't have a responsibility, if I'm not accountable

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<v Speaker 4>to it, I'm not going to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's very important and I stand by that

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<v Speaker 3>as well. Yeah, romance, romance after the six months, like

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<v Speaker 3>you need to work on that, say all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, let's go. You're listening to Flex and Frooms on KATA.

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<v Speaker 4>If we're best friends and I want to hang out,

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<v Speaker 4>do I need to send you a calendar invite?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, listen to this. If this is wrong, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be right.

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<v Speaker 5>But even if you're my best friend and we're just

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<v Speaker 5>gonna go grab a cup of coffee on a Saturday morning,

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<v Speaker 5>I want to send you a GCL invite for it.

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<v Speaker 5>I want your email and I want to send you

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<v Speaker 5>a calendar invite because otherwise, Like for me, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know if it will happen otherwise.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, that was a TikTok from just hopping along. You

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<v Speaker 4>vibe with that one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to give you any margin vera to

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<v Speaker 3>say oops, I forgot.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>My time is precious and I don't like being alone

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<v Speaker 3>when I have chosen to be with someone else because

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<v Speaker 3>I allot my personal time. So and when you're eating

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<v Speaker 3>into my social time and I could have been hanging

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<v Speaker 3>out with someone else, I getting very struppy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fair.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think I need to receive a calendar invite

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<v Speaker 4>from someone, but I need everyone to start using calendars

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<v Speaker 4>because the thing that I'm fine, like you want to

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<v Speaker 4>bail on a haying, do what you need to do.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't personally want to begrudgingly do anything, so I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to begrudgingly encourage anything. But it is annoying

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<v Speaker 4>if for the third week in a row, it's like, oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't put that in my calendar. That being said

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<v Speaker 4>as someone who religiously uses a calendar, I still get

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<v Speaker 4>it wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know does anybody over the like, does

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<v Speaker 3>anybody not use a calendar?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a calendar.

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<v Speaker 4>Miking calendar is so corporate vibes, like the more do

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<v Speaker 4>you know what it is? Because we're freelancers and business

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<v Speaker 4>owners will use calendars. I would not use a calendar

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<v Speaker 4>for my personal life if my professional life wasn't bleeding over. Really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>of course things are loose, be loose, have a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>The calendar is to ensure that I actually make time

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<v Speaker 4>for myself. But if I didn't have a job that

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<v Speaker 4>was demanding, then I would just like do whatever I

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<v Speaker 4>want for my time.

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<v Speaker 1>Miki.

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<v Speaker 6>I just keep everything in my head, which is actually

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<v Speaker 6>kind of psychotic, but like that's what I do and

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<v Speaker 6>that's how I've always done it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what people do before you work in a corporate.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't only ever miss an event.

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<v Speaker 1>I think once because you didn't want to go.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that was like truly the only time I've

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<v Speaker 6>ever like miss an event. I remember, I was flawed.

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<v Speaker 6>I was so confused. I was like, I've never missed anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It's uly my head.

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<v Speaker 6>But also, like events were stored on Facebook back in

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<v Speaker 6>the day. True, that's the other thing we're all running

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<v Speaker 6>around all in the different platforms is now harder I

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<v Speaker 6>think to keep it all in my head.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's not unusual to keep information in your head.

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<v Speaker 4>I know for a fact the reason why we know

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<v Speaker 4>our friends' birthdays, and we used to know their phone

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<v Speaker 4>numbers and their house addresses. Maybe you didn't because you're

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<v Speaker 4>a negligent friend, but for the rest of us we

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<v Speaker 4>knew because that's where you put the information in your head.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, oh, of course, I know my best friend's

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<v Speaker 4>number ends in these three digits, like it's in the head.

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't think it's a crazy thing to do.

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<v Speaker 4>But in this instance, I was writing the top comments

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<v Speaker 4>of that TikTok, and yeah, it's fifty to fifty people,

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<v Speaker 4>Like best I can do is a ten minute. Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>we're still on message, which is totally fine if you

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<v Speaker 4>live within a five k radius of each other. I

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<v Speaker 4>like the security of putting things in the calendar when

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<v Speaker 4>I know I want to do them.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel trapped.

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<v Speaker 3>Otherwise, Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know you

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<v Speaker 3>don't getting a blowback from the two besties.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because there are some people I know I want

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<v Speaker 4>to hang out with desperately, but I also know that

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<v Speaker 4>some people live week to week paycheck and socially, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>living month to month each year. I know what's happening

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<v Speaker 4>in two months time. So if you don't put it

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<v Speaker 4>in the calendar, I don't ever make it out the

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<v Speaker 4>grip chat. And that's annoying for people who are kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like, I want to hang out today, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>really care what's happening in December, and that's unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's on busy lives.

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<v Speaker 4>We are still in the year of click bait headlines.

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<v Speaker 4>Saw one from Vice talking about how potentially dying could

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<v Speaker 4>help you reach new levels of living. I said, what

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<v Speaker 4>is this something that I was interested in skim reading?

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<v Speaker 4>And so I eventually did. What I came to find

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<v Speaker 4>out is that near death experiences, they're definitely trending again

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<v Speaker 4>the timing exchange, but basically, scientists have witnessed brain patterns

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<v Speaker 4>in dying patients that may correlate to what other people

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<v Speaker 4>have said before about having lucid visions or out of

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<v Speaker 4>body experiences as you near the end of your life,

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<v Speaker 4>memories flashing before your eyes, seeing a bright light coming

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<v Speaker 4>towards you. So they're all kind of validating the same

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<v Speaker 4>exact story.

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<v Speaker 1>Before.

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<v Speaker 4>It felt as though one person had experienced it, and

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<v Speaker 4>the rest were just talking about it like gossip. But

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<v Speaker 4>studies have shown it actually does happen. What also happens

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<v Speaker 4>with these people who've experienced near death experiences is that

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<v Speaker 4>they come back with a renewed sense of understanding, almost

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<v Speaker 4>like a wisdom that has somehow been injected into their

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<v Speaker 4>brain and their synapses.

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<v Speaker 1>And we've lost through me, or we even lost her.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, wait, wait, wait, it's NYU has been doing this

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<v Speaker 4>university sounds fake. NYU Landgun Health Research has observed five

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<v Speaker 4>hundred and sixty seven patients in twenty five hospitals. Most

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<v Speaker 4>of them underwent CPR after suffering cardiac arrestes. Like some

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<v Speaker 4>similarities and some links there with their experience, and so

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<v Speaker 4>what they found out was that the transition from life

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<v Speaker 4>to death can trigger a state of disinhibition in the

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<v Speaker 4>brain that appears to facilitate a lucid understanding of new

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<v Speaker 4>dimensions of reality, including people's deeper consciousnesses or memories, thoughts, intentions,

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<v Speaker 4>and actions towards others. From a moral and ethical perspective,

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<v Speaker 4>if you got someone crabby in your life, someone ungrateful,

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<v Speaker 4>somebod who just doesn't understand the gift that life is.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, not insinuating that you do anything with

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<v Speaker 4>that information. But people are saying, if you almost die,

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<v Speaker 4>you come back grateful.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess because unlocking what's underneath your consciousness could actually

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<v Speaker 3>be diabolical make you want to blow up your life anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's probably good to just know. Oh, at the end,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll figure it out like a little slide show. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>really into the slide show area like I would love actually,

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<v Speaker 3>as the excerpt from life, you get to go to

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<v Speaker 3>like a movie cinema, right, this is all imaginary exercise

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<v Speaker 3>and get your favorite food like death row meal macas.

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<v Speaker 3>You got the whole cinema to yourself. You got your besties,

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<v Speaker 3>but you're all in gold class, so like not touching

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<v Speaker 3>it stunning Unless you have a partner. Then you guys

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<v Speaker 3>can be on.

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<v Speaker 1>The same gold gold yes couch a couple.

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<v Speaker 3>See you get like the hot dog that comes into

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<v Speaker 3>the goal like love when they bring in the hot

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<v Speaker 3>dogs to the goal.

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<v Speaker 4>You hot dog juice in the afterlife Lil sold you

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<v Speaker 4>with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I get a slide show sensationalized best moments naturally.

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<v Speaker 1>How long do you want the movie to be? Two hours?

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because we're getting of

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<v Speaker 1>your life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, I'm gonna want at least a five season

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<v Speaker 4>you know, award winning production.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, I've already lived it. Yeah, but you haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>You only loved it from your perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to see the other uncut? But what's

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<v Speaker 3>really lovely because there'll be little testimonials cut with you

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<v Speaker 3>like carve Ashan sul and then she said this and

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<v Speaker 3>that made me feel this way, like and that one. Guys,

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<v Speaker 3>I think because this might not happen. You know, we

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<v Speaker 3>all believe there's different things when we die. I reckon

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<v Speaker 3>you should go home and look through a photo box

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<v Speaker 3>and think about your life a photo box. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>got a box of photos at your parents house. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>unique experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Potentially. I go back and watch it, and I say,

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<v Speaker 1>have you.

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<v Speaker 4>Updated the photo box since nineteen eighty nine?

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<v Speaker 1>Memories in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Ladies and gentlemen, It's time for Flexi's Big Question of

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<v Speaker 2>the Week.

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<v Speaker 4>This is one of my favorite activities because it means

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<v Speaker 4>I get to ask you a question and you get

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<v Speaker 4>to answer it.

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<v Speaker 1>And why do I do that?

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<v Speaker 4>Because it is my sole purpose, my life's purpose, to

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<v Speaker 4>have a little chitty chat to have a little conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, I'm sick of having conversations with people

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<v Speaker 4>who are doing performance art. If you ask them a question,

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<v Speaker 4>they derail it, or they find any way to not

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<v Speaker 4>answer it, or they bring in a hypothetical scenario that

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<v Speaker 4>does not even compute in order to confuse you so

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<v Speaker 4>you get over the topic. I don't like that, So

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<v Speaker 4>now I'm making you all responsible for answering this question.

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<v Speaker 4>All right? What is an incorrect assumption that people make

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<v Speaker 4>about you that you're using to your advantage? She writes

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<v Speaker 4>questions for a living everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Reflex.

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<v Speaker 4>You can get it from shop flexmimi dot com more

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<v Speaker 4>of the good stuff. Because when I wrote that question,

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<v Speaker 4>I said, you were saying because it's one thing for

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<v Speaker 4>you to get stuck on the stereotype or the incorrect

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<v Speaker 4>assumption and be mad.

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<v Speaker 1>At the world.

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<v Speaker 4>But there are a few in there where you're kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like in the second you might just work in

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<v Speaker 4>my favor and I'm happy if you're happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Should I listen someone? No, I think, I mean, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to or do you want to save it?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll save it? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>We can give some examples for people because I think

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<v Speaker 4>part of what I realize when I write questions is

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<v Speaker 4>I know exactly what I mean, but I can reinterpret

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<v Speaker 4>it differently for someone else. So for an example, let's

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<v Speaker 4>say you have a colleague at work, right, and because

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<v Speaker 4>she's very mild mannered, everybody thinks that she's really nice

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<v Speaker 4>and she's really sweet, and she's like really gentle and

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<v Speaker 4>kind to be around. She's just not really great at

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<v Speaker 4>articulating herself. So when you're in a private she's the

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<v Speaker 4>snarkiest person secret service that you would ever meet. But

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't benefit her to let anyone know that, so

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<v Speaker 4>she maintains being quiet. Like I, I have friends of

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<v Speaker 4>mine who pretend that they are daft, so people don't

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<v Speaker 4>hold them to any account. Like they don't mind being

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<v Speaker 4>the butt of the joke because they don't like the

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<v Speaker 4>pressure of being like the person who like does better.

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<v Speaker 4>I know some people who know how to like arc

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<v Speaker 4>up and come across as really like mean and aggressive,

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<v Speaker 4>so nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>Like comes for them. Yep, important, these are all great

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<v Speaker 1>skills to have.

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<v Speaker 4>But yes, so what we're gonna do is on our Instagram,

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<v Speaker 4>Flex and Rooms will put up a question box. You

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<v Speaker 4>can put your question in this box and then coming

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<v Speaker 4>up later in the week, bull unpack them all and

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<v Speaker 4>maybe you share our own.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I had one real quick. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this one. Don't make me bring it up again.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, we put it on the socials when a straight

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<v Speaker 3>individual comes through with the partner chat.

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<v Speaker 4>Mick and I are looking at which is so dead

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<v Speaker 4>pair right now? And like I'm trying to understand, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>looking at.

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<v Speaker 1>You trying to say, is when you're like queer baiting?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, yes, So when a straight person uses the

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<v Speaker 4>word partner, we make the incorrect assumption that they are

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<v Speaker 4>in fact queer and they use it to their advantage.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, oh yeah, you ate I ate you ate you

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<v Speaker 1>so much? Yes, she did, so we're gonna aswer it

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<v Speaker 1>later in the week. Absolutely you are. With flexing frames

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<v Speaker 1>on Kita.

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<v Speaker 4>We are giving away cold hard cash to the tune

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<v Speaker 4>of five hundred Australian dollars because right now Fanta is

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<v Speaker 4>running a fabulous flavor hunt. They've made a limited edition

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<v Speaker 4>mystery flavor and want you to share your guesses on

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<v Speaker 4>social media with the hashtag what the Fanta Now. To celebrate,

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<v Speaker 4>we've asked you to share with us the most silly, wild,

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<v Speaker 4>or confronting all innovative ways you add flavor to your life.

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<v Speaker 4>During a very average week, we had a ton of

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<v Speaker 4>listeners DM us and go to the website and enter,

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<v Speaker 4>but we picked a fair few who made an impression

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<v Speaker 4>on us and might have the chance to win the

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<v Speaker 4>five hundred dollars on the phone. Right now we have Tilly.

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<v Speaker 4>The crowd goes, wow, Now, Tilly, do you remember what

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<v Speaker 4>you wrote about how you add flavor?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I essentially like to kind of conflate worlds of fact

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<v Speaker 7>and fiction. So thank you. I like you a lot too.

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<v Speaker 7>And I also like to mess around with what people

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<v Speaker 7>might think of me by telling embarrassing stories of undisclosed

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<v Speaker 7>identified people like pretty gruesome, horrific, embarrassing habits or stories stunning.

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<v Speaker 7>And then when I'm tested to reveal who this person is,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm uncomfortable doing that for this person's own privacy, and

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<v Speaker 7>so I just falsely admit that it is mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're good.

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<v Speaker 4>We've got a method actor. And I used to be

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<v Speaker 4>a chronic storyteller when I was in high school. One

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<v Speaker 4>might say it, but I didn't lie about anything real.

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<v Speaker 4>I would just say things like, did you hear about

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<v Speaker 4>justin bieberating, and then I would just like keep sharing

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<v Speaker 4>things that were potentially convincing, and then we're self convinced.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, oh, I was just joking, but my

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<v Speaker 4>friend pulled me aside and said, one day you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to tell the truth and no one's going to believe you,

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<v Speaker 4>And then I stopped. What's the best reaction you've had

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<v Speaker 4>to one of these stories?

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<v Speaker 7>Best reaction was actually, you know, it's a bit silly,

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<v Speaker 7>but it's actually from you girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, okay, so.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, okay, this is kind of unrelated but also very related.

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<v Speaker 7>See distracted fiction mingling all very messy. I have I

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<v Speaker 7>like to think of myself as a team player, and

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<v Speaker 7>I have contributed to the podcast. Before my supplying material

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<v Speaker 7>I inspired. I like to think I inspired an episode

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<v Speaker 7>that was titled something like the worst DM We've ever received,

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<v Speaker 7>and I falsely consessed to making someone I knew their

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<v Speaker 7>partner's first whole VI dog bite.

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<v Speaker 4>One.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a real one.

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<v Speaker 4>You are incredible, and this is the ingenuity that I

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<v Speaker 4>want for everybody else in the world. While you're sitting

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<v Speaker 4>around trying to find a story that's you know, equally

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<v Speaker 4>parts entertaining and real. We have Tilly's in the building.

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<v Speaker 4>You craft award winning stories just for our entertainment. And

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<v Speaker 4>for that reason, Tilly, you are winning five hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 7>No no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we'll take it back.

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<v Speaker 7>I'll take it, so please please, It's.

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<v Speaker 4>All you and that should be a reason to keep lying.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone have some fun with life because you just might

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<v Speaker 4>not know when you'll be rewarded for your.

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<v Speaker 1>Wrongdoings or right tests.

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<v Speaker 4>If you missed out today, we are calling people back

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<v Speaker 4>all week, so jump online to cater dot com today

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<v Speaker 4>you for your chance to win, and everybody, infuse playfulness

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<v Speaker 4>into everyday life and join the fabulous flavor Hunt from

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<v Speaker 4>Fanta hashtag what the Fanta? Tilly, thank you so much

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<v Speaker 4>and congratulations.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you so much.

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