WEBVTT - Wait, Did She Just Nibble On Her Toenails? 😬🦶

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex and Frooms catch

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<v Speaker 2>up podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Sweet guys, hope you feeling well and healed after Matilda

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<v Speaker 3>fan Fair. I don't know what's going to happen in

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<v Speaker 3>our lives will unite us in such a way, but

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<v Speaker 3>looking out for it coming up though, cutting your toenails

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<v Speaker 3>in part.

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<v Speaker 2>Of your friends and in the public.

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<v Speaker 4>I did say, I've seen this in real life, never

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<v Speaker 4>had it done in my exact presence, but definitely have

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<v Speaker 4>been an auxiliary member of the public witnessing this go down.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm telling you it's not pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that word auxiliary.

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<v Speaker 2>I means I've said it three times today. That's all right,

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<v Speaker 2>you're with FLEXI and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's go, ladies and gentlemen, it's time for flexies.

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<v Speaker 1>Big question of the week.

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<v Speaker 3>One thing you may or may not know about me

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<v Speaker 3>is my purpose for living is to have a bit

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<v Speaker 3>of a chat and a giggle. Yes, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm living in alignment every time I ask a

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<v Speaker 3>question that makes somebody think. Because what I really like

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<v Speaker 3>and what I've got to the nook and cranny of

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<v Speaker 3>is I like getting to know people behind the mask skin.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that people don't realize how much they tell

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<v Speaker 3>on themselves when they have to justify who they are,

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<v Speaker 3>what they like, and why they like them. Now do

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<v Speaker 3>I really care about the answer?

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<v Speaker 1>Nah?

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<v Speaker 3>I just like the sense of vulnerability when somebody says

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to answer it, because bear in mind, you

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<v Speaker 3>could say no, I don't want to answer that question,

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<v Speaker 3>probably not going to be friends. But you could definitely

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<v Speaker 3>say no, and that becomes the end of it. So

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<v Speaker 3>thank you in advance for participating as you do every week,

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<v Speaker 3>miss from Miana un Pleasure. The question of this week, though,

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<v Speaker 3>is why do your friends like you? Last week we

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<v Speaker 3>took a deep dive into insecurity to fortify a sense

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<v Speaker 3>of self by asking what's the worst way someone could

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<v Speaker 3>describe you? In this way, we go upstream into optimism

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<v Speaker 3>and positivity. We find outur qualities that we think are

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<v Speaker 3>attractive the people who care about us the most. I

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<v Speaker 3>really implore you not to ask your friends until you've

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<v Speaker 3>answered first.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool.

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<v Speaker 3>This is not an opportunity to go and data mine.

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<v Speaker 3>Just think about it, like, what is it? Is it

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<v Speaker 3>the fact that you are reliable? Are you just a

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<v Speaker 3>good time to be around? Are you consistent? Are you

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<v Speaker 3>open minded. Do they feel safe around you?

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<v Speaker 4>Who know?

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<v Speaker 3>Like they might not even tell you the truth if

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<v Speaker 3>you were if you were to ask. Maybe it's just

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<v Speaker 3>for clout and proximity. Maybe you just look good. Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>it's just aesthetics.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean sometimes it can. Sometimes it can usually the

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<v Speaker 2>teenage yet and that's what you do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And it's like I do sometimes just habitual. You've

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<v Speaker 3>been around, and it's weird to let you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we gonna answer it right now?

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<v Speaker 3>We're not gonna answer it right now, but what we

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<v Speaker 3>are gonna do is pop the question in our Instagram story.

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<v Speaker 3>It's flex and frums in there. You can answer the

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<v Speaker 3>question and then we'll go through your answers. It's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>We do love this process very much and it will

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<v Speaker 3>commend you if you choose to share your thoughts on

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<v Speaker 3>how brave, hot and sexy that is, because people don't.

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<v Speaker 3>They really don't howaven and I'm judging them, like, not

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<v Speaker 3>in a mean way, but it's definitely a making a

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<v Speaker 3>character assessment.

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<v Speaker 4>Every now and then on the show, a demonic, vile,

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<v Speaker 4>rancid story comes across our desk, and we must share

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<v Speaker 4>it with the community at large. This is from a

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<v Speaker 4>listener and I'll read it out. Hey, flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a relatively new listener to the potty.

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<v Speaker 2>And I am obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome.

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<v Speaker 4>Must be nice. You get me through the job. I

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<v Speaker 4>wish I could leave, and I need your stage advice.

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<v Speaker 4>On a bit of a pickle sandwich I was forced

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<v Speaker 4>into without consent.

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<v Speaker 2>Mind you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was over to a girlfriend's house and we were watching Riverdale.

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<v Speaker 4>Normal twenty year old girl stuff. Great to know we've

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<v Speaker 4>got an audience in the gen Z community. But then

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<v Speaker 4>out of nowhere, she whips out nail clippers and starts

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<v Speaker 4>going at her toes. I'm thinking, okay, we're pretty comfortable

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<v Speaker 4>hanging out. Even though I hate feet, I'll ignore it.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell me why capitals? I hear crunching. We are not

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<v Speaker 4>eating anything. There were no snacks out, so I turned

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<v Speaker 4>to her. I said, what are you crunching? And she's

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<v Speaker 4>like my tongue? How when I go to leave no

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<v Speaker 4>toenails inside? What do I do? Can I move past this?

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<v Speaker 4>She's a really good friend. For the sake of my friendship,

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<v Speaker 4>can we keep this anonymous.

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<v Speaker 2>Out?

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<v Speaker 4>Just hearing the like little tiny minute crunches of a

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<v Speaker 4>little toenail.

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<v Speaker 3>That point she made about like them being friends so

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<v Speaker 3>they can be comfortable around each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's dead that before you get carried away.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like in your most sacred friendships, that's where

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<v Speaker 3>you need to be extra mindful of your behavior. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not about I get to be comfortable because I've earned proximity.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like I respect you so much, I'm gonna choose

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<v Speaker 3>to be vulnerable or to be open, or to let

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<v Speaker 3>a wall down. We didn't have shame. I guess it's

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<v Speaker 3>if you think about it, it might be like a replenishing angle,

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<v Speaker 3>like the it's made from me and therefore it feeds me.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like a toe nowl eater is the same. Uh, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not eater. Somebod who picks their nose and eats

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<v Speaker 3>the same community.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was a kid, used to sit and usually no,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like bite my toenails off.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever see kids do that? They're like, how

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<v Speaker 1>old were you? She's gonna say fourteen?

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<v Speaker 2>No, like grab the foot and then like chew it off.

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<v Speaker 4>Very very appealing, fantastic, No wonder I like yoga as

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<v Speaker 4>an older woman. Anyway, do we think this is acceptable behavior?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna say no. I think in that instance you

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<v Speaker 4>could have said something. I would have made a light

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<v Speaker 4>joke and say, hey, where are the toenails gone? Because

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<v Speaker 4>it could be it could be a misunderstanding. Maybe she

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<v Speaker 4>put them into a pocket. So you always have to

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<v Speaker 4>ask the question.

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<v Speaker 3>Is the issue the tonail eating or the tone oil cutting?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought the tonail cutting was like the peak of

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<v Speaker 3>the misdemeanor. The eating is incidental to me, serious absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like if right now you whipped out your

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<v Speaker 3>feet to cut your toneails, I think that's grossing me

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<v Speaker 3>out more than if you were then to just have

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<v Speaker 3>a little I.

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<v Speaker 2>Did say it once.

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<v Speaker 4>See someone on the on the Glo Waverley line, which

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<v Speaker 4>is the one I used to live on.

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<v Speaker 1>Cut their tone of what is that a train?

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<v Speaker 2>A train? A train line? Like put their feet up

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<v Speaker 2>on the seat and clip. That was a big moment

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<v Speaker 2>for me, shadowing moments.

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<v Speaker 3>But I want people to be comfortable, But the more

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable you get, your level of awareness needs to increase

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<v Speaker 3>as well, like the same time, same time. Otherwise, if

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<v Speaker 3>you get more comfortable and your level of awareness doesn't increase,

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<v Speaker 3>you're now making everybody else uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>At what cost?

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<v Speaker 2>It's not looking good above.

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<v Speaker 1>Mummaye, can I listen to flex and Rooms? Flex and Rooms?

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<v Speaker 2>Okater we Mickey found this.

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<v Speaker 3>Articles is working over time for through me? Do you

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<v Speaker 3>ever hear me say Mickey found this article? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who love giving and you take yourself? That's a

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<v Speaker 1>real my additional research, I really do.

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<v Speaker 3>I read the articles Mickey fans through and then I

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<v Speaker 3>claim them as my own.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing a library act.

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<v Speaker 1>Train.

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<v Speaker 4>This founded article in a youth publication that shall not

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<v Speaker 4>be named for legal reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate yourself a youth publication.

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<v Speaker 4>And maybe it was like a compilation of people's pet

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<v Speaker 4>peeves at work. A little read through the article wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't some of the best work I've seen. The pet

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<v Speaker 4>peeves were like the very obvious ones like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>even know what they were. Didn't hit me, but got

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<v Speaker 4>me thinking about my own pet peeves. I had to

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<v Speaker 4>reflect and think about an office experience that I had

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<v Speaker 4>many years ago. Let me tell you the story. Everyone

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<v Speaker 4>picture this twenty eighteen. I'm in a tuna girl phase.

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<v Speaker 4>I tuna every single day for lunch, oftentimes for dinner

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<v Speaker 4>as well. Because you were on a scant budget.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your brand or was your brand?

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy? Think that was my whole part. Do you remember that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we totally John West right, No, that I just knew.

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<v Speaker 4>It were.

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<v Speaker 3>Beef with your to the point where I wasn't a

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<v Speaker 3>tuna eater, and when I decided that I would, I

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<v Speaker 3>would eat tuna for the first time as an adult

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<v Speaker 3>picky eater vibes. I was like, I have to get

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<v Speaker 3>both just so I can understand what the comparison is

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<v Speaker 3>and I get what you're saying, Like Serena is like

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<v Speaker 3>more mushy, has a lot of flavor.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's more more dense, it's more flaw.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, it's more dense and it has a lot of flavor.

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<v Speaker 3>I like the oil better. But I think John West

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<v Speaker 3>is it's easily incorporated into salads and what.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Eating with pumpkin, so I kind of like the textual

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<v Speaker 3>thing of like just the slot.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot with John West. That is why tuna has

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<v Speaker 2>a bad name. Anyway. Anyway, I say sort of say absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>Loved eating tuna every single day, and I went through

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<v Speaker 4>a phase where I would heat it up in the microwave.

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<v Speaker 2>I made a salad with rice and veggie stunning the

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<v Speaker 2>tuna on top. Why do we get quite a tense

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<v Speaker 2>email from Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone in the leadship position saying, hey, I I sit

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<v Speaker 4>right by the microwave. Can you please stop doing that?

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<v Speaker 4>At the time, I was sensed. I thought, how dare

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<v Speaker 4>you police my eating habits? It's quite sensitive about at

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<v Speaker 4>the time, and I made a clapback song which actually

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<v Speaker 4>we can play. Okay, here we go, shall I.

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<v Speaker 2>People told me I couldn't achieve my dream. They said,

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<v Speaker 2>listen that it's not possible.

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<v Speaker 3>To eat you every single day for lunch. You'll talk.

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<v Speaker 1>They told me. If stank out the office.

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<v Speaker 4>On one occasion, I was referred to as a fish bitch.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh to the haters, I have a message.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope your ears are open pretty good because here

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<v Speaker 2>it is, and it's really actually pretty rude.

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<v Speaker 5>Stuck my.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm making new song, so maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>Send me more for lunch for me. You were such

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<v Speaker 1>a tastemaker. This is what year was that?

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<v Speaker 2>Tenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 3>They're not ready for this. They're really not ready for this.

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram was not yet Yeah tailored for video. When I

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<v Speaker 3>was asking questions on Instagram, they weren't ready. When you're

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<v Speaker 3>doing this self producing, mixing, mastering, and making video clips

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<v Speaker 3>on the company.

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<v Speaker 1>The company.

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<v Speaker 4>Also imagine like that was so unprofessional, insane for that

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<v Speaker 4>how with that?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a bully, Like I bullied that woman.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm glad you said it that well, but now we're friends.

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<v Speaker 1>It runs deep.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is the energy you want. It's Hubrius, the

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<v Speaker 3>Hubris young adult Hubris is really amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, thanks guys. Didn't really go anywhere, but very very

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<v Speaker 4>important stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Question.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it weird to go on a first date on

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<v Speaker 3>your birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Rooms? Yeah, it is. I don't really care how you

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<v Speaker 1>spin it. You could try.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm open to having my mind changed all the time,

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<v Speaker 3>every single day. If you can tell me an occasion

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<v Speaker 3>where it is not weird. It is the opposite of weird.

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<v Speaker 3>It is socially acceptable and socially praised to go on

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<v Speaker 3>a date a first date on your birthday. Dm us

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<v Speaker 3>flexen Frooms on Instagram. I'm happy to hear it anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>The original story came from a TikTok user Chelliste c

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<v Speaker 3>h E l E.

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<v Speaker 1>S t E, who.

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<v Speaker 3>Said that she was asked by a man to go

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<v Speaker 3>on a first day on his birthday, and she was

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<v Speaker 3>you know, going to the brain to trust to figure

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<v Speaker 3>out if it was weird or she's just reading it wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>She has an update for us.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen, you guys got in my head about flipping birthday boy,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was literally thinking, maybe the student's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>It turns out he is weird.

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<v Speaker 5>We rescheduled because I was like, look, I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to really meet you on your birthday for the very

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<v Speaker 5>first time.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm chatting with him before the date, right, and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, Oh, what did you get.

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<v Speaker 1>Up to here over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen to this?

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<v Speaker 5>He goes, I've been busy for the last two months,

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<v Speaker 5>super busy. And I was like, oh, cool, what have

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<v Speaker 5>you been getting up to? Thought i'd find out a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit about how he spends his time. Man's goes,

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<v Speaker 5>I've been going on so many dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you not imagine?

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you say that?

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<v Speaker 1>Understand?

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<v Speaker 3>And this is another thing I recently came to the

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<v Speaker 3>conclusion that all forms of conversation is trying to like

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<v Speaker 3>get people to understand what your agenda is. All right,

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<v Speaker 3>we are very picky with what we choose to share

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<v Speaker 3>and not share or for our own personal agenda.

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<v Speaker 1>Why in this instance, like, was he trying to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I go on so many dates and you know

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<v Speaker 3>you're special because I'm gonna go on this date with

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<v Speaker 3>you on my birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the.

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<v Speaker 3>Angle I can't I want to understand, I really do.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to get it. Or perhaps he thinks a

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<v Speaker 3>birthday is just another date, it's incidental, and I want

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<v Speaker 3>to go on a date. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>at home doing nothing. I want to have a loose time.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be celebrated.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't even find I can't even find the mind space.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, the mind frame even.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find this man.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I will say I do think someone almost asked

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<v Speaker 4>me out on a second hand on the birthday a

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<v Speaker 4>few months.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, and then because they were like, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing on Friday night? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, oh, I'm like doing this thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like okay, and then I messaged them on

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<v Speaker 4>Thursday being like when's your birthday and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>it's tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>It's in Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, why were you asking what I was doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Never got to the bottom of it.

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<v Speaker 1>There's still time.

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<v Speaker 2>I could definitely inquire further. But cause ship has sailed,

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