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Speaker 1: It's a big.

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Speaker 2: Dusy no dy no, twenty thousand dollars could be yours,

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Speaker 2: but you've got to get to our big can you

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Speaker 2: hear an event which has been put on all thanks

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Speaker 2: to Kirks. They love this game.

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Speaker 3: The beautiful people at Kirks.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So if you want to get to that event,

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Speaker 2: you can register online Willanwoody dot com.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 2: But let's be honest, thousands of people are going to

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Speaker 2: register there, so it's going to be kind of lucking

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Speaker 2: the drawer kind of thing on the lad Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, it's going to be like a cattle out

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Speaker 4: of trough.

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Speaker 3: You know, you want to get in there. You want

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Speaker 3: to get in there.

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Speaker 4: You'd like to think you're going to get a mouthful

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Speaker 4: of feed, but you know there's a lot of your.

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Speaker 2: Bloody I hate to put it, perfect reference, perfect reference

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Speaker 2: to it, just a bunch of cows in the trough.

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Speaker 2: But I mean you've got to be in it to

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Speaker 2: win it, so get online obviously Willanwoody dot com. But

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Speaker 2: if you want your fast pass, you've got to call

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Speaker 2: us thirteen one oh sixty five. When we do is

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Speaker 2: we do it every day until the event, and if

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Speaker 2: you get three cans. If you manage to tell the

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Speaker 2: difference between a can of soft drink opening and a

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Speaker 2: can of beer opening, yeah, three times in a row

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Speaker 2: you get a fast part.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 4: What better way to enjoy greater is your mealing with

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Speaker 4: the Kirks, to bring family and friends together. They're gonna

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Speaker 4: be putting on the barbecue, the twenty grand is put

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Speaker 4: up by the lovely people at Kirks, and of course

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Speaker 4: the soft drinks, beautiful soft drinks put up by the

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Speaker 4: people at Kirks. They will be the soft drinks we

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Speaker 4: will be opening on the day. Of course, obviously, I

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Speaker 4: think goes without saying.

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Speaker 2: Got Joel here, Jolie, you think you're good at telling

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Speaker 2: the differences been a can of soft drinking beer?

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Speaker 5: I think so? I do like a beer.

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Speaker 2: That's not super confident Joel at all?

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Speaker 4: Maybe, Joel, what are you listening for? Because there's a

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Speaker 4: lot of people who obviously call up.

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Speaker 3: And they want to play this game and they think

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Speaker 3: they can hear it. What do you think you're listening for? Here?

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Speaker 5: I'm going to say, I think a beer has a

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Speaker 5: little bit less fizz than actually a normal game.

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Speaker 2: I reckon, you're nowhere, Joel, but let's do it.

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Speaker 3: Mate, Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Here's can?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 5: Oh that sounds like a normal can? That doesn't sound like?

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Speaker 2: Why don't we put growl across?

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of people who actually want to play,

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Speaker 4: who are very good.

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Speaker 2: He was even honest. He's like, I don't know, I

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Speaker 2: like it.

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Speaker 3: Be you want to producer called me.

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Speaker 2: All right, we've got Rowena here, Rowena, you're you're a

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Speaker 2: genuine player. You think you're good at this? Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Look, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 8: I don't drink either, so really.

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Speaker 3: Cross guys.

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Speaker 4: There are people calling over themselves to get in this competition,

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Speaker 4: the biggest bankers.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to embarrass yourself here, Rowena?

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Speaker 9: No, I'm gonna I'm gonna give it a crack.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be a waste of cans.

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Speaker 3: You're worried about the cans environmentally or no?

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Speaker 2: We always we enjoy the beverages. All the cans that

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Speaker 2: are opened are enjoyed by the team. Are They been

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Speaker 2: pretty slippery the last couple of hours, and we'll continue

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Speaker 2: to get slippery as we keep playing this game. Sorry

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Speaker 2: for talking, Rowena.

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Speaker 8: Here as you can, I'm gonna say that, say normal can?

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Speaker 2: What's a normal cam.

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Speaker 3: She needs a soft drink. She needs a soft drink.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that was a soft drink.

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Speaker 3: Nice rope yep, ye shut off. So how many is

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Speaker 3: she got to get to get fast past the event?

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Speaker 10: Three?

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Speaker 3: Three?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, one down? Here we go, see if we can

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Speaker 2: get to in a row.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I want to say.

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Speaker 9: That's soft drink as well.

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Speaker 3: Here it is, Rowena. Nice. That one was a bit.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that was quite a fuzzy can.

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Speaker 2: They might have been shaken.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what was that.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't handling the cans.

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Speaker 10: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't a joke.

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Speaker 9: I want to say, that's a soft drink as well.

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Speaker 2: You are coming to our.

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Speaker 3: Well absolute dark horse there, Rowena, you're coming. You gotta

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Speaker 3: fast pass to come and join us. At can you

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Speaker 3: hear it?

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Speaker 4: Live the can you heard extravaganza at twenty thousand dollars

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Speaker 4: on the line. We're going to keep opening cans until

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Speaker 4: there's light one person standing with That person goes home

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Speaker 4: with twenty thousand dollars or thanks to Kirks.

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Speaker 3: Congrats thro Awayena, but Ryan sounds like it sounds like it.

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Speaker 2: Chrissy Tagan, very famous supermodel, was very recently on Andy

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Speaker 2: Owen's talk show, and effectively they're playing that game where

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Speaker 2: it's like tell two truths and a lie, but she

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Speaker 2: didn't really understand the rules of the game and ended

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Speaker 2: up revealing something which well, well they oldest assumed it

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Speaker 2: was a lie, but it was true.

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Speaker 3: I've had my boobs done three times.

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Speaker 9: I hate you.

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Speaker 11: I feel like the boot job things like never going

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Speaker 11: to come back around.

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Speaker 3: And now no one's going to know boo boot job.

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Speaker 11: Fine, I just when I the oh no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 11: we know that that was a lie.

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Speaker 3: Yes, what's the truth? I have had three boot jobs.

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Speaker 3: I've had a left to put in and take them out.

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Speaker 3: I don't like them all.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, all right, okay, Oh is that supposed to

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Speaker 8: be a lie?

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Speaker 3: Now she was. There's a lot to say in there.

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Speaker 2: It seems like a wild show that show and hosts there.

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Speaker 2: But amazingly this perfectly links up with the conversation that

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Speaker 4: What actually happened there, because I'm pretty sure she had

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Speaker 2: No no, no, famously that was a big deal. Oh sorry, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I think she had a breast augmentation right right

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Speaker 2: where she had implants put in, and then she said

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Speaker 2: her breast implants removed. So she's fedally said that she's

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Speaker 2: had three breast surgeries over the journey, so with the

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Speaker 2: I think her most recent surgery was getting the breast

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Speaker 2: implants removed. Now, this amazingly links up perfectly with a

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Speaker 2: conversation I had with a psychologist friend of mine called

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Speaker 2: Tash Blacas, who was telling me about yeah full name,

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Speaker 2: who was telling me about this study that she recently read.

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Speaker 2: And Tash actually joins us on the phone right now, Hello.

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Speaker 3: Ta, Hello boys, how are you going good?

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Speaker 2: Thank you now, Taj. I found this fascinating because I

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Speaker 2: feel like I'm hearing so much more these days about

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Speaker 2: people getting plastic surgery done. I feel every second day

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Speaker 2: hear about someone who's nipped off to Turkey because apparently

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Speaker 2: that's the place where you go and get your bastic

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Speaker 2: surgery done.

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Speaker 8: Is the place?

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Speaker 2: Yes, But what's the study that you were telling me

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Speaker 2: about yesterday?

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Speaker 8: Well, it just came up on my articles that I

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Speaker 8: was going to, my general articles that I was going through,

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Speaker 8: and I think because like the accessibility of plastic surgery

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Speaker 8: recently has just become so much more available that more

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Speaker 8: than like most studies suggest that at least more than

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Speaker 8: sixty five percent of people experience some kind of surgery

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Speaker 8: regret or dissatisfaction.

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Speaker 4: Are we talking like for everything or are we just

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Speaker 4: talking for the chesticles.

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Speaker 8: No, we're talking for under the knife surgery.

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Speaker 3: So it could be could behouse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, could be an eye job if you can.

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Speaker 3: It's called that.

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Speaker 8: A lot of them have to do with, like, you know,

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Speaker 8: whether or not people are well educated in the area,

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Speaker 8: like whether or not you're educated enough to go under

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Speaker 8: the knife and what know what you're about to put yourself.

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Speaker 11: Through educated in the area, well, just in terms of

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Speaker 11: whether or not someone is well aware of the risks

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Speaker 11: associated with going through such enormous surgery.

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Speaker 8: I think there can be a lot of like idealization

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Speaker 8: about the subject. But the end of the day, a

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Speaker 8: lot of people are appointing dissatisfaction and regret because of

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Speaker 8: most of the time unrealistic expectations that probably wasn't discussed

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Speaker 8: openly enough with them. And I don't know, I'm not

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Speaker 8: in the room for all of these experiences, but that's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And so she went on yesterday as well, Tach

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Speaker 2: to say that even if so say, if you do

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Speaker 2: want to go and get a nose job, Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: were saying yesday that the study kind of also suggests

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Speaker 2: So you think, like, as soon as I get my

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Speaker 4: Are you more?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I see what you mean.

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Speaker 2: And that's not necessarily the case, Tash.

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Speaker 8: No, And like that's what a lot of the thuies

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Speaker 8: we're saying as well, Like often cosmetic procedures are linked

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Speaker 8: with pretty low self esteem, and more often than not,

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Speaker 8: the body part that someone wants to change is very

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Speaker 8: and that's a really good example. You know, she's had

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Speaker 8: a lift, then implants out, and then sorry, then implants

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Speaker 8: a victim of like pretty intense body screw to that

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Speaker 8: what's going to make me better, people will stop talking

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Speaker 8: about me. And now there's three surgeries later and she's

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Speaker 8: still not satisfied.

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Speaker 3: I suppose.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like, I mean what you've been talking before

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Speaker 4: about getting the patio, taking off the back for you

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Speaker 4: off the nose.

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Speaker 2: There no none of nose job, but quite you were

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Speaker 3: Vision was a warehouse for a little while.

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Speaker 2: But no word of a lie. I genuinely had an

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Speaker 2: initial consultation. And this is true story about getting a

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Speaker 2: beard transplant.

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Speaker 3: Oh yes, I remember that.

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Speaker 2: I'm quite embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: But I cheeks for a long time.

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Speaker 2: I went row gain for six months and then I

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Speaker 2: had this. It was during COVID, so I had this

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Speaker 2: zoom meeting with this surgeon. Were going to have to

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Speaker 2: of here and put him in your head and they

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Speaker 2: put them in your face and you'll have a perfect beard.

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Speaker 2: But thankfully, like based only study that because it wouldn't

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Speaker 2: have made me. I mean, I'm been embarrassed about the

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Speaker 2: fact that I can't grow a beard, but I think

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Speaker 3: Hey? Thanks to call.

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Speaker 4: You want to get around Toash toash palak is dot

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Speaker 3: Tosh, thanks to the chat. That was very interesting.

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Speaker 8: You're welcome. Thanks boys, don'd you soon?

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Speaker 3: It's a pleasure there you go inter she stuff fascinating? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think it might be.

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Speaker 2: Pretty wild.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because you did this thing absolutely well.

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Speaker 3: I was in London. I might have been Egypt.

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Speaker 4: Lots of them, Yeah, lots of them, Yeah in Egypt.

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Speaker 3: Gone over, gone over to Europe. Gone, wow, here we go.

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Speaker 2: You probably think you're about to die, like you're about

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Speaker 2: It's like a party or not. My great grandfather he

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Speaker 2: The real kicker was that as we went further through

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Speaker 3: In the well that was the treatment in the hospital.

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Speaker 3: Assume, yeah, out that his nurse's name was a guy

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, all right, let's do that old story family tree.

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Speaker 2: You could be a photo album. What did the family

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Speaker 2: I found out my great grandfather through a search of

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Speaker 3: Sex workers?

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Speaker 2: Good sex worker, and he had a venereal disease and

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Speaker 2: here on thirteen one oh sixty five. Maddie. What did

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Speaker 5: Well, what he just wanted to let us know. I'm

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what we were just talking about him?

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Speaker 5: You were, and that's what got my years pricked. It

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Speaker 3: I think it's mcconiughey. But yeah, no, that's amazing.

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Speaker 5: McConaughey on his side that started off as McConaughey and.

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Speaker 4: They changed it right, changed reaching out to Matt.

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Speaker 5: Why has he did an answer on fourtoined.

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Speaker 2: That's a shame.

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Speaker 5: We did find out something good about my wife's side too.

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Speaker 5: She came over as a convict for her relatives stealing

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Speaker 5: four pounds of bacon.

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Speaker 2: Four pounds.

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Speaker 3: Rough, wasn't it. You did nothing and you'd be putting

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Speaker 2: I made of ours had a tough moment when he

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Speaker 2: That's my that's my grandfather.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 2: And they found out they were cousins.

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Speaker 4: The reason we're talking about this is because we're readdressing this.

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Speaker 4: get your podcasts? But we got a bit caught up.

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Speaker 2: I can't listen to this.

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Speaker 4: Matthew McConaughey and his wife. We're on a podcast called

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Speaker 4: Your Mama's Kitchen. On Wednesday. They're on a podcast called

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Speaker 4: They don't haven't narted, but that's that's what that's what

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Speaker 3: And he's talking about the way that they end their disagreements.

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Speaker 4: Now, I don't absolutely if anyone understands what he's trying

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Speaker 4: I think I've got an idea.

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Speaker 4: But in the means I'm just wrap your ears around

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Speaker 2: Fact that you make my tea and serve me my

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Speaker 3: It's just tastes better.

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Speaker 4: It's even if you and I are in a disagreement,

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Speaker 3: It's the difference between being married and Dayton.

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Speaker 4: And then then just to just to put the cherry

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Speaker 4: with Yeah, she just resolves the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: She clears the fog. Trust me, ladies, some mornings, I

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Speaker 2: So they they've said served three times in something something

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Speaker 12: And again, the fact that you make my tea and

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Speaker 12: So that I think what he's trying to get at,

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Speaker 12: And it's the doing of the nice things for someone

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Speaker 12: when you're in a disagreement that effectively ends the disagreement. Yeah,

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Speaker 12: it's often the hardest thing in the world to do,

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Speaker 2: Respectfully to the great Matthew mcconna, I completely disagree. I

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't be angry about that thing that I'm angry at,

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Speaker 2: meaning we don't resolve the disagreement, and she goes back

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you're right.

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Speaker 4: I think what you don't want to do is schmooze

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Speaker 4: I'm just going to jump back right on mister Dallas

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00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 4: buyer's glove here and say that I don't think you

450
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:26,920
Speaker 4: can ever actually accept a favor from your partner.

451
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 3: Until you have resolved the disagreement.

452
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Speaker 2: Right, you're resolving the fight while while being served tea,

453
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:40,200
Speaker 2: then then champagne. But he hasn't said that, says, serve

454
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Speaker 2: me some tea.

455
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Speaker 4: But what I think is interesting is that I think

456
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,640
Speaker 4: that if you're having a genuine disagreement with your partner

457
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 4: and then this is again this is just my experience,

458
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 4: and one of you goes to do a nice thing

459
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 4: for the other person and it's not resolved, you will

460
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 4: know that very quickly because one of the ways that,

461
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,000
Speaker 4: like in my relationship, I know, one of the ways

462
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 4: that we try and resolve things is by eventually someone

463
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 4: has to say sorry, sure, yeah, And at the same

464
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,360
Speaker 4: time that that person says sorry, the other person has

465
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,239
Speaker 4: to say thank you. Now, you are not giving up

466
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 4: that thank you unless you are genuinely accepting that sorry, does.

467
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Speaker 3: That make sense? Right?

468
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 4: So someone comes here and goes, I'm sorry. If you're

469
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 4: still angry at them, you go, oh, yeah, whatever.

470
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Speaker 13: Yeah.

471
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Speaker 3: The same thing is the say the serving of the tea.

472
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Speaker 2: So to receive the serve T. In order to receive

473
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Speaker 2: the T you're saying you've got, you have to have

474
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Speaker 2: resolved the server has said sorry, yeah, the receiver has

475
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,679
Speaker 2: said thank you. Yes, you know a lot of like potentially,

476
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 2: let's go to I want to hear your theories. By

477
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Speaker 2: the way, thirty six five? How do you end arguments?

478
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:47,600
Speaker 3: I want to broaden this out as well.

479
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 2: I have another theory as well.

480
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,199
Speaker 3: Okay, great involves is it involved?

481
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 2: No, it involves a book?

482
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Speaker 4: Okay, great? Thirty one A six y five? How do

483
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,719
Speaker 4: you resolve arguments in your relationship? And please share their

484
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: because there's obviously something that everyone has to go through.

485
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 4: We all deal with this. Have you got some words

486
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 4: of wisdom we'd love to hear from out next? A

487
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,239
Speaker 4: big question here, like I feel like everyone out there

488
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 4: listening right now is thinking of themselves. Gee whiz, I

489
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 4: hope you boys come up with the with the golden

490
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 4: bullet because it sucks. We were just saying in the song,

491
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: then in the studio having an argument. I mean, you're

492
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 4: fighting your relationship is the worst part about being in

493
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,439
Speaker 4: a relationship. We all hate it, and it's this, you know,

494
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 4: founded in this fear because we don't want to lose

495
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 4: the person that we're with. There's security, there's stability, there's love,

496
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 4: there's sex, there's everything that comes with being with someone

497
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 4: that's awesome.

498
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Speaker 3: And so when you're.

499
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Speaker 4: Fighting, you get irrational and everyone starts acting out and

500
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,439
Speaker 4: you're not thinking rationally. So look thirteen one six five,

501
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 4: how do you win arguments in your relationship?

502
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Speaker 3: We just heard.

503
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Speaker 4: I'm not going to play the audio game because I

504
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 4: get a bit bogged down in it. But Matthew McConney

505
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 4: gets his partner to serve him tea. Now, look, you

506
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 4: get them the podcast. Apparently it works a treat for them.

507
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Speaker 3: Woods. You said, you said you had something that you thought,

508
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Speaker 3: you know, something that was working for you right now.

509
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Speaker 2: Not necessarily, I said, So it's a work in progress.

510
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 2: I'm of the view that if mem and I can

511
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: start nailing this, it will really help. So I called

512
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: the Book of Peeve. Oh yeah, basically, there will be

513
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 2: a book in our house called the Book of Peeve

514
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: where if the smallest little thing has annoyed you, Yeah,

515
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 2: on your partner stant So it might be as simple

516
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 2: as you didn't put your dinner mat away, you didn't

517
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: push your chair in. Yes, you're just you write it

518
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,439
Speaker 2: in the Book of Peeve, right, because I find that

519
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 2: the worst fight is.

520
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Speaker 4: The other person read Is it like a guest book? Look,

521
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Speaker 4: do you then go and read it at the end

522
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Speaker 4: of the day or something.

523
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Speaker 2: I would have it would have a Peeve night or

524
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Speaker 2: like we have a Book of Peeve night and when

525
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Speaker 2: we're both ready to receive some potential criticism.

526
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,879
Speaker 3: Okay, and is better about it?

527
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 2: Because I think the word the worst fights that we

528
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: have are when she doesn't realize what mood I'm I'm in,

529
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 2: or I don't know what mood she's in, and I'll

530
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Speaker 2: bring up something small and that might be met with

531
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 2: a defensive attack back, and then we're in an awful fight.

532
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Speaker 4: Do you think the Book of Peeve will be like

533
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 4: a like will it be open to the public, like

534
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 4: can when we walk over to the.

535
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Speaker 3: Can you have it open at the door? Like I'm

536
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: back on the guest book thing? You know? Can I

537
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 3: chime in there as well? I hate when he talks

538
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 3: over me. We've got Alex get i, Alex, Hi, guys,

539
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: how have you interpreted this? Yeah, we're good, mate, we're good.

540
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 10: As he's saying that the tea tastes better because she's

541
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 10: given in to the argument, and so that's why it's

542
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 10: tasting so good. It's the taste of victory. And she's

543
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 10: saying sometimes she doesn't want to serve it because she

544
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 10: knows that she's given into the fight.

545
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Speaker 8: She's she's agreeing.

546
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 4: Yes, and she's still doing the nice thing for him

547
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 4: because she's never going to make the tea for him

548
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 4: while they're having an argument. Yeah, and that's and that's

549
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 4: kind of where we ended up before, Alex. I think

550
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 4: that's where we rounding things out. As I was talking

551
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: at the end of the resolute, at the end of

552
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 4: the argument. So Sem and I often have and this

553
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 4: is going to sound very stupid, but Sem and I

554
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 4: have what we have like we call it like a piece,

555
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 4: like a peace token, a token of peace. Right, so

556
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,159
Speaker 4: one of us will go to the shop or something,

557
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 4: and you know the lovely feeling you have in your

558
00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 4: gut when the tension in a dispute dissolves the best,

559
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 4: like it's a lovely feeling, right, And often you don't

560
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 4: need the other person to have resolved yet. It's just

561
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 4: you have a moment where you go, I'm holding onto this,

562
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 4: I can let go. You get there, sem And I

563
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 4: have this thing where when whoever, whichever person reaches that

564
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 4: point in the disagreement, they buy the other person a

565
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 4: peace offering. So often I'll go on, but it's like

566
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 4: something from the servo. Sometimes I'll just like, go and

567
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 4: buy a flower, go and pick a flower from outside

568
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 4: or something, and I'll go, this is the peace, just

569
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 4: to show her like, hey, I'm over this.

570
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 2: What a nice ritual. And then there's a fight over

571
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 2: getting the wrong thing from the server market. I don't know,

572
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 2: bad chocolate bar. It could happen. It could happen.

573
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 3: Let's go to Ebbie. How do you how do you

574
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 3: end disagreements in your relationship.

575
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Speaker 7: Well, currently as someone that's not in the relationship, because

576
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 7: they're so hard to resolve when you know, I get

577
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 7: the whole MASSI mcconna hating. You know, I'm going to

578
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 7: do something nice and you're going to accept that. We're

579
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 7: going to move on, but it's to never get resolved.

580
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 7: And so you just keep.

581
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 9: Going around around the circles, and the next time something

582
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 9: totally unrelated happens, saying you're fighting again, you.

583
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,239
Speaker 7: Know it's you're fighting them.

584
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 9: You're not for a bit, and then you are. And

585
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 9: I just think, you know, I just if you're always fighting,

586
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 9: there's something seated there.

587
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 5: Result.

588
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 4: I read something really interesting about this over the holiday

589
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 4: is actually one of my favorite thinkers is a guy

590
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 4: called a Landa Boton, and he said that one of

591
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 4: the reasons that a good indicator for people potentially, he said,

592
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 4: one of the reasons that people don't have sex is

593
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 4: because they're angry with each other. So the last thing

594
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,120
Speaker 4: you want to do is have sex with the person

595
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 4: that you're angry with, right So you so if you

596
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 4: if you're not having sex with your partner, that's a

597
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 4: really good indicator that there's something subliminal that you're really

598
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 4: angry at them about. So I don't know if that's

599
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 4: a yeah, just a good good indicator that maybe you

600
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 4: should sit down and go geez, I think one of

601
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 4: us is angry at some at the other one about something,

602
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 4: and maybe we should try and figure out what that is.

603
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: It could be a nice motivation for people as you said,

604
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: sex could be the result. Like seriously, I have to

605
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: make a crass or whatever, but like nobody to hear that, you.

606
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 3: Know carried and the stick in more ways. So, Producer J.

607
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 4: You want to page in. You're waving your hand up.

608
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 4: What are you waving your hand for? What are you

609
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 4: talking about?

610
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: I'm giving your thumbs up because you're doing really well,

611
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 2: good boy, we've never had that's just into the gen

612
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: z z. How are you, judy analys not now?

613
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 3: Finally some gen z energy in this place.

614
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 4: Plenty of gen z energy in the hood right now,

615
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 4: to use a gen y reference.

616
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 3: Re established the way that I am of the older generation.

617
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 3: What would you say we would say in the hood?

618
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: What would you say? Just not that?

619
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 6: Yeah in here in this room, chilling.

620
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 3: Chilling vibes, vibes ribes.

621
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I don't think we'd say hood.

622
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 3: No, I probably say hood. To be honest, we've been

623
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 3: We've been totally honest.

624
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 2: Neither and I'm older than you answer you think you

625
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 2: throw that around a bit says we're in the easy Hey, analyst.

626
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 3: Let's get let's get into some of these ocon people.

627
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: Do you know them? First? One for me, I feel

628
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 3: this is very gettable. Yes, to be honest, Oh god,

629
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 3: just sending me up. No, I'm not. Who's County Reeves.

630
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 3: Oh he's an actor? Yeah?

631
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 13: Oh my god, yeah yeah actor, he's not. He reminds

632
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 13: me of Adam Driver. They're different people, though, yeah, not bad, Yeah,

633
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 13: very similar. Just name one movie that some car movie.

634
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, like he's more of a bus. But yeah,

635
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 3: I know what you're going from is in speed? Yeah

636
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 3: that's yeah. Yeah, I don't know. I know, I know

637
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 3: his name.

638
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 2: If I said take the blue pill or the Red

639
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: pill and any anything coming.

640
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 3: To you, Jesus, don't I don't know's that.

641
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: Matrix matrix? Yes, I know the matrix. I just don't actually, Okay,

642
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 2: next one, next one? Who is vow kill Mark?

643
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 6: Oh, vowel kill Mark is like Scooby Doo kind of

644
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 6: It's not scoob Doo. Oh no, no, here that is

645
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 6: Scooby Doo.

646
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 3: The girl with the it's a guy, it's a guy.

647
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 2: Perfect.

648
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 13: I was gonna say the girl with the red the

649
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 13: red top on Scooby Doo. Remember her, like not the

650
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 13: not the uh the Princess Staries girl, but the other one,

651
00:29:58,800 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 13: the vampire girl.

652
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 3: Away.

653
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: No, vampire, the vampire slayer with the glasses. Actually have

654
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 2: no idea.

655
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 3: The vampire slayer girl, but the other one.

656
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: Let's he's in top gun.

657
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 3: He was thinking of Velma.

658
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 4: Nice, nice good. Say let's say we no big, this

659
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 4: is big, this is big game here big names. Susan surrounded.

660
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 3: Oh, I know the name, and now I go, would

661
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 3: you like the blue pill of the.

662
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 13: I go to say, either common occurrences, either acting or singing.

663
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 13: I think she's a singer.

664
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 3: Okay, what's she done?

665
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 13: It's giving opera, But I don't think that's opera.

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Speaker 6: That's Susan Boyle.

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Speaker 4: We talk about vaping because I saw today that vaping

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Speaker 4: between kids sixteen and twenty four years old has gone

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Speaker 4: from nearly five percent to nearly twenty percent.

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Speaker 2: Wow, in a year.

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Speaker 3: Study that New South Wales brought out recently.

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Speaker 2: And I would have thought it would have been higher

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Speaker 2: than that. Everywhere.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it is.

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Speaker 2: I'm constantly walking through plumes of.

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Speaker 3: A few plumes in your time. Have you sorry, you've

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Speaker 3: walked through a few plumes in your time?

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Speaker 2: Constantly?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right, because there's so much plume off those goddamn things. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: if you've got it like a honestly, I've got to

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Speaker 2: walk to the supermarket and there's like a bus stop

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Speaker 2: there's whole bunch of man school kids and that they're

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Speaker 2: pluming a way. Yeah that's under eighteen.

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Speaker 3: Oh they're under uman. Yeah, school kids and they.

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Speaker 2: Are vaping the house down.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's scary.

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Speaker 3: It is scary.

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Speaker 4: And I was pretty addicted to vaping for a while

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Speaker 4: there as well, like it really does like arrest you.

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Speaker 4: And I was reading this thing because there's this there's

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Speaker 4: this kid who was talking about the fact that he

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Speaker 4: went from vaping accasionally to vaping all the time, because

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Speaker 4: if you get how addictive it is, like and I

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Speaker 4: successfully sort of shook it for a few months last year,

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Speaker 4: and then I went to Amsterdam over the holiday and

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Speaker 4: I was like I was on holiday and you know,

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Speaker 4: like you know, some people smoke or vape on holiday

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Speaker 4: or day. They haven't let their guard down over holiday.

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Speaker 4: They go I'll drink for the holiday whatever is. And

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, vape, Like I'm okay, I can

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Speaker 4: buy a vape one on holiday.

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Speaker 3: I bought a vape I reckon. I had it for

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Speaker 3: a day, maybe two days, and on the second.

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Speaker 4: Day I noticed that like it was the first thing

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Speaker 4: I was always checking my pocket for it's so addictive.

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Speaker 4: So that for me, I was like, Okay, this is

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Speaker 4: an issue like this is that addictive. I just need

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Speaker 4: to cut this out because I can't. I cannot control myself.

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Speaker 4: And I've never had a substance in my life that

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Speaker 4: I can't control myself around. I haven't You've had that

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Speaker 4: with peanut butter and nuts.

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Speaker 2: In a sushi for a while. Honestly, very very addictive personality. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So I almost any more.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I've got a good question.

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Speaker 4: I've got a good question for you, then woulds and

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Speaker 4: maybe everybody else listening, because if I know that something

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Speaker 4: is addictive for me, I went away and did a

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Speaker 4: whole bunch of research in how do I stop addiction?

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Speaker 4: Because I was like, I need to get out of this.

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Speaker 4: And I think that where maybe the New South Wales

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Speaker 4: government are falling down and people who are advertising around

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Speaker 4: nicotine and cigarettes and vaping or falling down, is that

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Speaker 4: all they're doing is talking about the damage. So this

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Speaker 4: is like a recent ad from the New South Wales

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Speaker 4: government about vaping.

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Speaker 13: Even I was vaping almost every couple of minutes of

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Speaker 13: the day.

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Speaker 6: First thing in the morning, hit my babe in during

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Speaker 6: classes at school.

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Speaker 13: I think I was having a hit of it every

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Speaker 13: ten seconds.

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Speaker 3: It's insidious. You won't realize that you get hooked on it,

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Speaker 3: and you think you're not going to get addicted, but

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Speaker 3: you will.

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Speaker 4: So they're all talking about the consequences and how quickly

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Speaker 4: you get addicted. Okay, we know that it's scary, yes,

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Speaker 4: but when you are addicted that like it's you know,

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Speaker 4: if anyone's been addicted to anything, whether it's homeless, suner,

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Speaker 4: sushi or vaping, alcohol, whatever it is, you don't think

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Speaker 4: about the consequences of your addiction, and that's not the

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Speaker 4: thing that makes you stop, right, So you have to

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Speaker 4: start looking at how you're going to break the habit.

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Speaker 4: And I think that's the thing that I don't think

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Speaker 4: they're talking about enough. They're not giving kids a practical

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Speaker 4: solution as to how they can avoid continually vaping all

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Speaker 4: the time.

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Speaker 2: So to dissect that more, are you saying, like, okay,

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Speaker 2: so if the habit is every time I have a drink,

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Speaker 2: I attach the vape to that, that's like a habit

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Speaker 2: You've got, yes, So you've got to every time you

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Speaker 2: have a drink you need to do something else with

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Speaker 2: your hand, or like, how do you break the habit

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Speaker 2: of vaping all the time?

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Speaker 3: Great question.

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Speaker 4: So the advice that I read and the study that

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Speaker 4: I read was that people that break habit or people

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Speaker 4: that make habits and people that break addiction basically admit

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Speaker 4: that they're not stronger than it. So rather than trying

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Speaker 4: that combat it with willpower. Oh yeah, right yeah, they

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Speaker 4: just make it so they don't come into contact with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, get it at the surce.

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Speaker 4: So if you don't try, and if you if you

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Speaker 4: know that you've got to personality, or even if you don't,

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Speaker 4: if you've been addicted to anything in your life and

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Speaker 4: you want to break that habit, it's like a breakup.

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Speaker 4: It's like going if you if you want to mend

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Speaker 4: a broken heart, don't see the person, cut them out

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Speaker 4: in your life. The way that I stopped continually vabing,

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Speaker 4: I just stopped going past the shop.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't buy the vape. Don't don't say to yourself,

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Speaker 2: oh I'll just have the vape.

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Speaker 3: No no no, no no no, don't go near the shop.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like if you if you buy a vape next

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Speaker 4: to a supermarket, right, and your habit is, Hey, I

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Speaker 4: go to the supermarket, then I get a vape afterwards.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, change supermarkets for a month. Yeah, I know it's

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Speaker 3: a pain in the ass, but I used to. There

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Speaker 3: was a shop that I used to go to on

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Speaker 3: the way to work. I just stopped coming that way

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Speaker 3: to work, Yeah, because I was just.

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Speaker 4: Like, I just need to I need to avoid doing

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Speaker 4: this and that, and that was the only way that

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Speaker 4: I could get out of it.

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Speaker 3: And I don't think they're saying it.

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Speaker 4: They're saying to them when you said before, don't drink, No,

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Speaker 4: don't don't go out, like if you need to, if

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Speaker 4: you really want to break that thing, avoid the people

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Speaker 4: you smoke with, avoid the people you vape with, Avoid

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Speaker 4: the thing that makes you want to do it, because

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Speaker 4: you're going to lose.

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Speaker 3: And I think that's what we keep learning with is

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Speaker 3: as well.

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Speaker 2: So it really is like fighting Medusa, the multi.

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Speaker 3: Headed demagrgan from Greek mythology

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Speaker 2: Exactly right, right, you gotta you gotta chop off the

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Speaker 2: main head, not Yeah,