Speaker 1: Laura, come on, here.
Speaker 2: We go highlight.
Speaker 3: How are we?
Speaker 1: We are good? How are we all?
Speaker 2: We're real good?
Speaker 4: We're all reeling after the news today brand new word
Speaker 4: of the year has been unveiled.
Speaker 1: No, I read this and I don't even know what
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 3: Well, tell us the word.
Speaker 4: The word of the year, as per Oxford Dictionary is riz.
Speaker 1: Okay, what this is meant to be? A gen Z word?
Speaker 1: And now you like to call yourself a little gen
Speaker 1: Z gen Z, I know you're not. But what he's
Speaker 1: actually me.
Speaker 3: He calls himself whatever suits? I know you actually have
Speaker 3: no loyalty to a generation.
Speaker 2: I identify as gen Z and I have.
Speaker 4: Rizz Is what a word you'd use to describe someone confident, charming, sexy,
Speaker 4: someone you want to date like that.
Speaker 3: Like Lauren myself?
Speaker 1: Would you say say that they are riz or they're riz?
Speaker 2: The fact that you've got to ask means you've got
Speaker 2: no ris. I've got no ris.
Speaker 1: I'm not riz.
Speaker 3: So would you say, yo, like I enjoyed tonight, you've
Speaker 3: got real riz.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't start with you?
Speaker 1: Absolutely, would you call me rizzless?
Speaker 4: You guys are aging. Actually the way that you are
Speaker 4: speaking now is aging.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're both.
Speaker 3: No one listening to this in a car right now knows.
Speaker 4: What someone's said that I had Riz on a date. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but I didn't get a second date, so maybe it's
Speaker 4: a bad thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, No, maybe he called you something else and you thought.
Speaker 2: He said maybe maybe. Yeah, he said this is this
Speaker 2: is I'm not around, I'm not four rees.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: Anyway, look coming up. We do this every week on
Speaker 5: a Thursday, gets Out, Asked and Cut. It's where one
Speaker 5: of you call in with your biggest, darkest, deepest problems
Speaker 5: that we do our best to answer it. And this
Speaker 5: week we are dealing with a bride zilla really doozy.
Speaker 4: Everybody that's on the way to pick up listen, it's Thursday, girls,
Speaker 4: Shall we do this?
Speaker 3: Ask cut?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 5: So ask going to cut is something that we do
Speaker 5: every It is where one if you call up with
Speaker 5: your big, dark, scary dilemma and we do our best
Speaker 5: to answer it. And this week we have Justin on
Speaker 5: the phone and he's dealing with a brideziller.
Speaker 3: We have a guy, Hi, Justin, Hi.
Speaker 2: Just Hi, guys, We're good.
Speaker 5: What is happening? And who is the bride dealer? Is
Speaker 5: it your Bridezilla.
Speaker 6: It is my Bridezilla. We're engaged. You know, I obviously
Speaker 6: love her, but she's starting to show me a bit
Speaker 6: of a sight that I didn't see before. And I'm
Speaker 6: just wanting your advice. Is it just because of the
Speaker 6: wedding that she's turning into a bit of a bride dealer?
Speaker 6: Or is this the real her? You know, we sort
Speaker 6: of have a nice, easy going kind of relationship. Did
Speaker 6: you starting to turn into a bit of a crazy
Speaker 6: person around the whole winning? And I'm just not sure
Speaker 6: if I'm up for a life.
Speaker 3: Of this, justin what is she doing? Like, what is
Speaker 3: so drastically scaring you off?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 6: I mean there's always a bit prickly with my family,
Speaker 6: and so she's sort of said that my family are
Speaker 6: only allowed to give money as a president as her father,
Speaker 6: the family can do gifts, and so that's sort of
Speaker 6: really awkward. No kids are allowed. You know, I've got
Speaker 6: nieces and nephews that I would have loved to have
Speaker 6: involved that she's sort of come in pretty hard with, like, no,
Speaker 6: I don't want kids at the wedding. You know, we
Speaker 6: will have kids of our own, hopefully one day. But
Speaker 6: she's sort of ruling the matter of the wedding. So
Speaker 6: I'm wondering if if there is something more than worrying
Speaker 6: about costing a lot of money as well, Like it's
Speaker 6: blowing out. I didn't know what was going to be
Speaker 6: this fast.
Speaker 5: That's why she wants your family to pay someone's favor.
Speaker 5: How long have you guys been together for? Because I
Speaker 5: feel like when you've been with someone for a long time,
Speaker 5: they kind of show you all their sides. But if
Speaker 5: you've only been together for a little while, this could
Speaker 5: be more read from.
Speaker 6: Being together for like a couple of years, you know,
Speaker 6: and engaged for the nine months. It'll end up being
Speaker 6: we've been engaged for a year when we get married,
Speaker 6: so you know it's been a while or not. You know,
Speaker 6: it's not heaps of time. But I would have thought
Speaker 6: long enough to have seen everything. But I'm seeing some
Speaker 6: new things now.
Speaker 2: How is she in the sack? Justice's working in that regard?
Speaker 6: Everything everything fine in that regard. Yeah, it is a
Speaker 6: little less frequent now though, as we're sort of.
Speaker 2: If everything else is good.
Speaker 4: Weddings are social, okay, Laura, you've been married, was your
Speaker 4: Mattie Ja?
Speaker 2: Your husband is gorgeous. You love him. A different side
Speaker 2: of Matt appear when you got married.
Speaker 5: And you know what, if anything, because usually it turns
Speaker 5: out to be, especially in hetersexual relationships, it's usually the
Speaker 5: woman who ends up organizing everything because we're the ones
Speaker 5: who often have had an idea of how we want
Speaker 5: our wedding to be, whereas like my husband, Matt, he
Speaker 5: organized everything because I didn't have any idea or any
Speaker 5: clue about what sort of wedding.
Speaker 1: And that's what I think could be happening here.
Speaker 5: Justin like, maybe your partner has this really specific idea
Speaker 5: around what she wanted for her wedding, and so it's
Speaker 5: getting really out of hand because in her mind she
Speaker 5: wanted to be this big, amazing thing that she was
Speaker 5: only going to do once.
Speaker 1: I think you just got to talk to us.
Speaker 3: Do you think it is getting cold feet justin Oh.
Speaker 6: Yeah, look, there could be a bit of that. I mean,
Speaker 6: I've enjoyed the single off and certainly have a TV
Speaker 6: schrattle there and looking forward to it. But yeah, I
Speaker 6: mean she is to be fair organizing pretty much all
Speaker 6: that I'm not doing much other than what I'm asked.
Speaker 3: To stressful, I think it's not in all honesty. I
Speaker 3: have not been married. No one has ever even asked me.
Speaker 3: But I don't think this is abnormal. I think from
Speaker 3: all accounts, from what I hear about my friends and stuff,
Speaker 3: it's a really stressful time. Most people hope that they
Speaker 3: only get this one wedding, like they hope that they're
Speaker 3: not having more than one. They think they're marrying for life,
Speaker 3: so they want it to be perfect. It gets stressful.
Speaker 3: I think give her a little bit of grace. But
Speaker 3: having said that, it's your wedding too, so you still
Speaker 3: do need to meet halfway. Like, if you feel really
Speaker 3: strongly about something, then I think you need to talk.
Speaker 2: To about that.
Speaker 5: But give her a bit of grace and but also
Speaker 5: I think the other thing that I would add to
Speaker 5: that is that if she's doing everything and this is
Speaker 5: not because I think some of the things she's saying
Speaker 5: are a bit crazy, like trying to have rules around
Speaker 5: what one family can do not the other. They're not
Speaker 5: having kids if you want kids, they're like. I think
Speaker 5: that there are some things you can definitely talk to
Speaker 5: her about. But I think ultimately, if you haven't really
Speaker 5: showed an interest in the organizing, you don't really have
Speaker 5: an understanding of how stressful it can be, so I
Speaker 5: think also try and be involved in it, and then
Speaker 5: it's not just you being told how it's gonna play.
Speaker 3: So you're saying, Laura be better, Well, I mean it
Speaker 3: could be I've just been throwing your relationship away because
Speaker 3: your partner's gotten stressed out over the wedding and is
Speaker 3: being a bit crazy.
Speaker 2: Research prenups justin.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're a great alternative and a good option, and
Speaker 4: I reckon you can get involved.
Speaker 2: Hope that helps God stressful.
Speaker 7: Times things can be stressful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Still, you know what else is stressful? Well, I'm
Speaker 3: going to tell you after the break I'm being proper
Speaker 3: triggered by something at the moment. My stress levels through
Speaker 3: the roof.
Speaker 1: It's got nothing to do with weddings, does it?
Speaker 3: Yeah? And almost wedding. Yeah, you've the closest I've been
Speaker 3: to a wedding.
Speaker 2: Wow. Wow, all right, that's next here at the pickup.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm in a bit of a conundrum, you two,
Speaker 3: Maybe you can help me out. My partner Ben, obsessed
Speaker 3: with him, love him, he is the best boyfriend. I
Speaker 3: can't fault him, except the fact that he lives overseas.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's a minor problem, isn't it.
Speaker 4: So you can't fault him for the fact that he
Speaker 4: leaves anywhere near here to be faulted.
Speaker 3: No, I can't fault him. But part of him living
Speaker 3: overseas means bless his soul. He constantly sends me little
Speaker 3: gifts to my house, like they'll just turn up surprises
Speaker 3: to be like I'm thinking of you, like I love you.
Speaker 1: He's very sweet.
Speaker 3: He's very sweet. Anyway, I'm just gonna call spades, babe,
Speaker 3: I'm proper triggered. Yesterday the Bachelor ad was playing, and
Speaker 3: for those plane at home, like I got horrifically dumped
Speaker 3: on the end of The Bachelor. It didn't work out
Speaker 3: well for me. Not everyone is Laura Burne who got
Speaker 3: the happy ending, No.
Speaker 5: Okay, And Brittany was on the honey Badger's seat many
Speaker 5: moons ago and she got to the very very end
Speaker 5: and the Honey Badger we.
Speaker 1: Know what he did.
Speaker 3: Look, I was the only person doing the Bachelor and
Speaker 3: not actually win anything.
Speaker 2: You got it.
Speaker 3: So anyway, the Bachelor ad is playing, and then there's
Speaker 3: a knock on my door and I opened it and
Speaker 3: there's a dozen beautiful roses. You could not have got
Speaker 3: the timing more impeccable as the Bachelor, And I was like,
Speaker 3: I was proper triggered from Ben. He sent me something
Speaker 3: being like thinking of you as the Bachelor's playing, It
Speaker 3: was all a bit of sense. You're overload. Ben seems
Speaker 3: to be adverse to sending any other flower other than
Speaker 3: a rose, and I don't know do I say something.
Speaker 3: I should just be appreciative, right.
Speaker 5: I Mean everyone says it's the thought that counts, but
Speaker 5: I do think that if you're going to send a
Speaker 5: girl who's been on The Bachelor, who had dunes on
Speaker 5: there some red roses, it's kind of a thoughtless gift.
Speaker 1: But I would also say, like, it's been a long time.
Speaker 5: I don't know why you were as triggered as you are.
Speaker 1: You didn't get dyed Dora, you got two kids in
Speaker 1: a marriage.
Speaker 5: I think about it sometimes and I'm like, maybe it's
Speaker 5: because of moments like this.
Speaker 3: Right now, I can't give one hundred percent of me
Speaker 3: to you. I'm a little bit lost, and because of that,
Speaker 3: I have to say, this time has come to an
Speaker 3: end and let you go.
Speaker 2: As triggering as that, maybe.
Speaker 3: I have not listened to that since the night that
Speaker 3: I got dumped. I've never listened to that back until
Speaker 3: this moment. I don't understan and why guys just did
Speaker 3: that to me. I also, I don't understand why he's
Speaker 3: treat me like I'm a fish. I gotta let you go.
Speaker 3: I caught you being people. I gotta throw you back in.
Speaker 4: Was was that moment triggering to listen back? Or was
Speaker 4: maybe is this moment more triggering?
Speaker 2: He didn't receive a race, so sorry, I just had
Speaker 2: to I just found it.
Speaker 3: Okay, you guys finding humor at my expense.
Speaker 1: I also have this bunch of red roses here.
Speaker 3: No guys, come on, my best friends not making me.
Speaker 2: Really, we've gotta laugh you because you found love. You
Speaker 2: know you're not in a moment, for example, like this again,
Speaker 2: I have something.
Speaker 3: I need to tell you that's almost laughable. He didn't
Speaker 3: think I can think nobody I'm laughing?
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4: Sorry, it's not funny, But it's been long enough we
Speaker 4: can laugh.
Speaker 7: I think we finally hit the point six years on
Speaker 7: where we can laugh about it.
Speaker 3: It's so funny. It is.
Speaker 7: That is definitely something someone would say that got married
Speaker 7: from the bachelor.
Speaker 3: You cooked. I'm going back to Ben.
Speaker 2: All right, up next, other pickup?
Speaker 3: He didn't receive it.
Speaker 1: Sorry, no, really, up next. You'll never believe we got
Speaker 1: stuck in this man's collar.
Speaker 2: Alright, that's next on the show.
Speaker 4: This next story that I'm about to bring to the
Speaker 4: table ladies in Australia serves as a great reminder to
Speaker 4: get a colonoscopy now, Laura, you yourself have received a
Speaker 4: colon recently.
Speaker 5: I had some things going on downstairs and had to
Speaker 5: get a little check up.
Speaker 2: Yep, britt if you received a colon in there.
Speaker 3: I have had a yeah, and a gastroscopy I've had,
Speaker 3: but it's not something you just walk in and get
Speaker 3: like it's a surgery.
Speaker 1: You get good under They go in.
Speaker 2: And have a look and they look for things. They
Speaker 2: look for polyps and things that might cause concern.
Speaker 4: They look for stones, They can look for bacteria, but
Speaker 4: you wouldn't think they'd look for I don't know an
Speaker 4: animal so much. Three year old man who booked in
Speaker 4: for a regular colonosciby. He went to his GP and went,
Speaker 4: I've got a bit of the runs. I want to
Speaker 4: get a camera up my bum which is a normal
Speaker 4: conversation people had. They went, no worries, will book you in.
Speaker 4: They booked him in. He goes to get his colonoscoby
Speaker 4: in one of those modern hospitals. Great little probe with
Speaker 4: a GoPro at the end of it's got.
Speaker 2: A camera on.
Speaker 4: See straight up there, the doctor's a probe in his butt,
Speaker 4: looking up inside the colon. They're actually in the traverse colon,
Speaker 4: which is the portion located under the liver, transverse colon.
Speaker 3: One of the medical He was traversing the colon.
Speaker 2: They were playing twister in his colon.
Speaker 4: Anyway, what they found on this camera was a wiggling, live,
Speaker 4: buzzing fly, just living.
Speaker 3: That is just I'm looking at a photo that's in
Speaker 3: his colune.
Speaker 2: Look at the photo. They found a live fly inside
Speaker 2: his colon that they removed, pulled out and showed him
Speaker 2: after they found a real life fly.
Speaker 3: I mean to be clear, He like, for those plant
Speaker 3: at home, I think it has entered via the mouth.
Speaker 1: I didn't think this. I was like, how does it
Speaker 1: get in there?
Speaker 7: Like, what's one's activity for a fly to end up
Speaker 7: in your color?
Speaker 3: I'm more surprised that it's alive. So much acid and
Speaker 3: stuff in the colon that you'd think that it would
Speaker 3: have killed a fly even if it made it in
Speaker 3: alive and made it down you throw it and esophagus
Speaker 3: and all the way down to the what is it.
Speaker 2: Mitch transverse colon.
Speaker 3: You would think that the acid would have killed it.
Speaker 4: Well, apparently he recorded eating a salad two days before,
Speaker 4: which was unusual for him, And they believe that there
Speaker 4: were eggs in the salad which then obviously made it
Speaker 4: through his digestive tract. They didn't get burnt, and because
Speaker 4: they were little baby eggs, and then they developed and
Speaker 4: the lava grew into a fly in his colon.
Speaker 5: Okay, but Britt, if for anyone who's done I had
Speaker 5: a colonoscopy, you know, like you do this thing called
Speaker 5: pico prep, right, so you you drink so much liquid beforehand.
Speaker 1: It's like litters and liters of liquid.
Speaker 7: I am amazed that this fly hung on for dear life,
Speaker 7: Like there's a real flush that happens when you get
Speaker 7: a colonoscopy.
Speaker 2: Oh, brit you've also worked in like radiography rooms. You're
Speaker 2: a nurse for years. How would they get the fly out?
Speaker 2: Is there like a little tongue?
Speaker 3: Firstly, it is not rare for people to have things
Speaker 3: in their column. This is not I have never seen
Speaker 3: a live animal in a column, but I have seen
Speaker 3: all the wonders of the world in somebody's column.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Absolutely like looking into it on Oxford Street.
Speaker 2: Are you talking about it at work?
Speaker 3: At What I will say is I can only imagine
Speaker 3: the capturing of this fly because I was a theater radiographer,
Speaker 3: so I was doing the operations with the surgeons, right so,
Speaker 3: because they can't see what they're doing without you. But
Speaker 3: what I would say they're doing is going to put
Speaker 3: a camera in. Now, when you go and collect gallstones,
Speaker 3: I say collect them or things like that, stones, kidney stones.
Speaker 3: They have these tiny little baskets. You know when you
Speaker 3: go to an arcade and you put the money in
Speaker 3: and you get to go up and pick that toy
Speaker 3: with the claw and you have to go over and
Speaker 3: pick the teddy up and capture it. They have baskets
Speaker 3: like that that they go in and it's like the
Speaker 3: surgeon's playing a video game, right They're looking in the
Speaker 3: camera and they're opening it up and they go and
Speaker 3: try and collect the stone and pull it out. It's
Speaker 3: actually incredible, But I can only imagine I am no
Speaker 3: fly surgeon, but I can only imagine that they're using
Speaker 3: this kind of a basket to try and capture the fly.
Speaker 5: But this one would have been a particularly tricky one
Speaker 5: because still, this is a.
Speaker 7: Fly that's buzzing around, and then you're there, like golstone,
Speaker 7: gallstones move around, they're not necessarily stationary.
Speaker 3: It's a rock of source. This is like tumbling around,
Speaker 3: but it's not flying around.
Speaker 2: It's not like do you reckon? He could hear it.
Speaker 2: That's why he knew there was something.
Speaker 1: It would be tickling. Imagine a little like his stomach
Speaker 1: was buzzing.
Speaker 4: They're like, yeah, your tummy, it sounds like there's a
Speaker 4: motorola razor in your tummy.
Speaker 2: An actual fly.
Speaker 4: He's fine, and he's made a full recovery, and he's
Speaker 4: sworn off salads for life, by the way, and I
Speaker 4: can get up board that.
Speaker 2: I can join that train. All right, Shall we all
Speaker 2: go and book in a coop? Alright?
Speaker 1: Off we go, Yeah, eat your salads.
Speaker 2: We'll see you guys tomorrow for Friday, last show of
Speaker 2: the week.
Speaker 4: If you missed any of our show podcasted on the
Speaker 4: iHeartRadio aut we took Britt down memory Lane and you know,
Speaker 4: reminiced on her time on the bat Shop.
Speaker 3: I really thought you guys were my friends, but you
Speaker 3: love to trigger me.
Speaker 1: Beautiful memories, beautiful time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anyway, that's it from us.
Speaker 2: We will see you all tomorrow, say guys,