1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: For July for the first time this year. I made 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: a money goal for like a month. Yeah, and I 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 1: wrote myself a check for it, yeah, and literally adding 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: everything up. 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 2: No, the exact number, an exact number. 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 7 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: I think it was maybe thousand dollars over or something 8 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: like the exact number. And I showed Cooper and he's like, fuck, 9 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: that's weird. Hello and welcome back to the Riseing Conker Podcast. 10 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: This is the podcast for ordinary people who want to 11 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the Rising 12 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: Conker Podcast. Today's episode is a G's Hotline ep. These 13 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 1: are a fun Friday episodes where you send in your 14 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: life dilemma and we provide you with our very unqualified 15 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 1: two cents on the situation. But they're super fun. So guys, 16 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: today we are chatting if you knew something amazing was 17 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: eventually going to end, would you still want that amazing 18 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: thing to happen. We're chatting about what you can do 19 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 1: when you have taken a big risk and you're kind 20 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: of not out the other end anymore, you're in limbo time. 21 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: And then we also chat about our relationship that has 22 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: finished but doesn't feel done. And then lastly we chat 23 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: can you manifest money? 24 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: I love it. 25 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: I tears like I that was my favorite one. Guys, 26 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: this episode is a super fun one, and I do 27 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: want to just say you may have noticed that our 28 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: usual traditional owner's acknowledgment has been moved. I do want 29 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: to stress it hasn't been taken out of the episode, 30 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: but just some feedback that we've got in the new 31 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: season is the RNC fam we're really loving when we're 32 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: putting a snippet at the start so they know what 33 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: happens in the episode. So we have put that back 34 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,839 Speaker 1: at the start now and we have just put our 35 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: acknowledgment at the end of the episode, but it is 36 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: still definitely there. So we just wanted to chat to 37 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: you about that. But at Tia your Friday recommendation. 38 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it's a bit left field, a new 39 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 2: I don't want to say mantra, but I think it's 40 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 2: I love it. I heard it yesterday, Hot but unbothered, 41 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:36,519 Speaker 2: and I think that's how I'm going to be going 42 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: through life now, you know. 43 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: Can you explain that? Yeah? 44 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: I just love it. 45 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 2: I was at gym in a class and the lady 46 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: was like, we're hot, but we're not bothered, because you 47 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: know when people are like you're hot and bothered, you're 48 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: all flustered. 49 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 3: And I'm like, I love that. 50 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 2: So I think I just want to use that whenever 51 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: I'm starting to feel a bit flustered or stressed. I'm like, no, 52 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 2: I'm hot, but I'm unbothered. 53 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: I love it so much. 54 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 4: It's like the most random thing you've ever said, but 55 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 4: it's just so good, Like how can you not feel 56 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 4: good after telling yourself that I love that? 57 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: I really love that? Thank you for sure? 58 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 3: What's one? I don't know? 59 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: I can follow that up? Now? 60 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: Just swap them Jamie. 61 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: My recommendation is a bit also a bit random, but 62 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: I want to recommend Tuesday's episode recommends own podcasts. 63 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: Taken that recommendation. 64 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: I cannot stress. If you guys haven't listened to Tuesday's 65 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: episode with Jason from LSKD, you are missing out. It 66 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're not a business person. 67 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 3: Just the vibe. 68 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 2: It's just so good. 69 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: It's so good. It has won the hard Subatia and 70 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: Jamie and a lot of the RNC. So if you 71 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: haven't listened, go give that episode a listen. Because I 72 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: got off that podcast and I was just so inspired, 73 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: and obviously I love the LSKD brand. You know, my 74 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: collection just went live with them, And a little PS 75 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: thank you for all the support on the collection. You 76 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: guys are so excited and it's just been surreal creating 77 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 1: it and then you know, seeing it, and I just 78 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: can't wait to see you guys in it. So do 79 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: appreciate it. I'm excited, but nervous and all the things. 80 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: But of course I like LSKD. But then just hearing 81 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: Jason and the story, it's just it's, yeah, it's surreal. 82 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: Cannot recommend that appe enough. 83 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, And just like how like you said, whether or 84 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: not you're interested in having your own business, it's just 85 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: a valuable episode. I think if you work in marketing 86 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: or PR or anything, or just want to know how 87 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 2: the business world works and what it's like to actually 88 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: build a brand from the ground up and deal with 89 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 2: changing climate, it's such a good listen. Or if you're 90 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 2: just a human yeah, it's just a human being, I 91 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: don't like it. 92 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, guys, let's get into the questions. 93 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 2: So this one isn't a hotline question. It's actually a 94 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 2: big question that we pulled the audience on Instagram on. 95 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: A while back. 96 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 2: But the question is, if you knew something amazing was 97 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: eventually going to end, would you still want the amazing 98 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: thing to happen? 99 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: Of course, But don't you think like everything ends? Yeah? 100 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: Eighty three percent of the audience said yes, and seventeen 101 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: percent said no. 102 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: I just think if you're going around life never wanting 103 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: things to end, never wanting to feel hurt, never wanting 104 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: to feel negative feelings, yeah, it's really not a way 105 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: to go about life because those feelings are normal and 106 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: it's all a part of our journey, and the polarity 107 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: of knowing those feelings is how we know the opposite 108 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: is good. Yes, does that make sense? 109 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: Yes, I totally agree. I personally would say yes as well, 110 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 2: but just to play Devil's advocate, because I think seventeen 111 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 2: percent is actually quite high. Do you reckon that Some 112 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 2: people look at it in the sense that maybe I 113 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 2: don't want something amazing to end, so I'd just rather 114 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: it not happen at all, in the sense that everything 115 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 2: else will still feel pretty good, Like if you've never 116 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 2: felt really really good, you don't know that exists. 117 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: I'm like destiny, Yeah, but what sort of life is that? 118 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 3: But they don't know that. Yeah, but what sort of 119 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 3: life that? 120 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but this is what I'm talking about, that is 121 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: fear talking. 122 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. 123 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:58,359 Speaker 1: For example, if I knew me and Tim's relationship was 124 00:06:58,400 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: going to end. 125 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 3: That's exactly what I Okay, Yeah, if I. 126 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: Knew it was going to end, I would still want 127 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: that relationship for the time whenever. It was interesting because 128 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: first of all, it's taught me, like Tim and our 129 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: relationship has taught me so much about myself, so much 130 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: about what I like and what I don't like about myself, 131 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: and just in a relationship, it's obviously given me a daughter. Yeah, 132 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, I just think 133 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: that's such a like I get it, Like, I get 134 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: what you're saying, But that's such a weird way to 135 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: think of life because everything is going to end. And 136 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: even if again, for example, means Tim's relationship was going 137 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: to end in two years, I would still want to 138 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: have it. I just like, I don't know, and then 139 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: something better might happen again. Yeah, I just think that's see. 140 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: I feel like with. 141 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: Some things I'm with the people who said no, tell me, 142 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 2: why explain it. I think in like a relationship or 143 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: friendship sense if you invest so much time and energy 144 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: into a person for it to all mean nothing when 145 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: that time and energy could have been going into other people. Like, 146 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: I don't think that specific relationships are the only reason 147 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 2: you learn something, So that say, if you didn't date Tim, 148 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: you probably still would have learnt the same lessons in 149 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: other ways. 150 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: I just don't think I agree, just too silly Galley disagree. 151 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: But I think a tear is like but if you 152 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: don't learn it in that way, me learning it through 153 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: someone else, that might also end. 154 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I mean, like, it doesn't necessarily have to 155 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: be a relationship that you learn it from. 156 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's it could be something else, but that 157 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: thing would probably end too, Yes, So I think I 158 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: get what you're saying that. I think the people that 159 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: say no are scared of being. 160 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 2: Hurt, yeah, which absolutely, which everyone is. 161 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is a defense mechanism. But I think that 162 00:08:55,280 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: mechanism also would then stop you from experiencing amazing things. Absolutely, 163 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: And I think, like life, it's not meant to be 164 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: all good. Yeah, and it's sort of just I guess 165 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: becoming at peace with the fact that you'll feel pain 166 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 1: and a lot of things that end really help you. 167 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: For example, I had a high school relationship for four 168 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: years since I was fourteen, and this was the relationship, 169 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: you know, first love, you know, thought I was going 170 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: to marry him, lost my virginity, sort of vibes, you know, 171 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: and very toxic. Just what, it's just really young. And 172 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 1: then I remember towards the end like it was very 173 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: toxic and it was very He would do something to 174 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 1: me and then I would do something to him and 175 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: it was just gross. But he ended up dumping me 176 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: literally like a week before formal and a week before 177 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: my what's the big exam we do in year twelve QCs? 178 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 2: Yeah they don't do that anymore, but yeah. 179 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: Don't they what? Why not when you change the system? 180 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: Oh thank god? It was stupid test ever, because some 181 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: of the questions I was like, what the They're just 182 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 1: so random? 183 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 3: Oh they were the worst. 184 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: I feel like you could just like page through a 185 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: book and just laugh. But also, anyway, we're not going 186 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: there here, so really hurt me. And it's crazy because 187 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: I very much believe to my soliga, I felt like 188 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: I was going to die from this person because before 189 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: we broke up too, there was no signs he was 190 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: going to break up with No. There was just nothing 191 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: and he just didn't wait like two weeks no, And 192 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: I thought everything was really good because we had been 193 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: like good for a good six months. Anyway, long story show, 194 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: he broke up with me so much hurt, But I 195 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: truly believe that ending was then the catalyst. I remember 196 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: sitting in my room and saying, I will never let 197 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: I will never ever let a man treat me like 198 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: that again. I said, oh, that's good, yeah, and I 199 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: like just had so much And I very much believe 200 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: that's how I then manifested Tim, because I had to 201 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: experience that deep hurt and going to the point of like, 202 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: I will never let that happen to me again, and 203 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 1: then to manifest a man like Tim who is just 204 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: like so opposite in all lands, so many ways and 205 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: so you know, perfect for me at the time, do 206 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? 207 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 3: That had to end. 208 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: I would never not have to relate to that anger, yes, 209 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: and deceit, and like I had to feel those feelings 210 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: to know what was like because I was thinking about 211 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: it and I was like, if that didn't happen, I 212 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: think my early twenties I would have gone and just 213 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: let anyone walk walk over me because I just was 214 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: that sort of person. 215 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 2: Oh so that's crazy. 216 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so like a very strong thing happened. But then 217 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: now looking back, that was such a catalyst for me, 218 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: like knowing my worth. I love that we really we 219 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: really went on a rant then we did. 220 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: But I think that's important and it's a great point 221 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: that even if you're uncomfortable with the fact that you're 222 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 2: going to feel pain or anger or with things ending, 223 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 2: just enjoy it while it's good, and then when it ends, 224 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: sit in the feelings for like the day, and then 225 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 2: a specific day twenty four hours, set a timer. 226 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: That's all a tear is allowing us. H noybe, That's 227 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 1: what I mean. 228 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 3: It's like, I. 229 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: Don't I think if you can get comfortable with being uncomfortable, 230 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: that is like a superpower. 231 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what you mean. 232 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: And I just never would want fear or worry of 233 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: being uncomfortable stop me from experiencing amazing things. 234 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 235 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 2: Do you feel like though that then that sort of 236 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 2: pushes you into that life is a consistent rollercoaster rather 237 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: than just an easy ride, you know what I mean? 238 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 2: Because sometimes I will be in like a friendship or something, 239 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 2: and when that person's so much fun. It's so much fun, 240 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: and then they also treat you like complete shit, and 241 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: then you know that it's not balancing. But it's like this, 242 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 2: So it's hard because as soon as you're like ready 243 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 2: to walk away from that person, they're just the best 244 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 2: person ever to be around. Again, it's addictive, and wouldn't 245 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 2: you rather just have someone who maybe you don't have 246 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 2: a peak that's way up the top, but it's just 247 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 2: like a bit more consistent and it's comfortable and the 248 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 2: lows aren't so low so low. 249 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: I agree with you, But in that scenario, it's up 250 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: to you to walk away from that friendship, to go 251 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: through the roller coaster and go, oh, this isn't really 252 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 1: serving me, and being strong enough not to go back 253 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: on the high. 254 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, which is hard. 255 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. I went through something similar with a friend a 256 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: while back, and I realize I was addicted to the drama. 257 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 3: It's so addictive. 258 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: I was so and it was really because my life 259 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: is so bland. That's what it was for me. I 260 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: was addicted to the drama. Like and also I loved 261 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: this person and I wanted to help them. But also 262 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: I think the fact that I had no drama in 263 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: my life, and then this person would come to me 264 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: and I'd have to help them and it would be 265 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: a big thing, but then it would leave me feeling 266 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: so drained and like shit, yes, and then I'd be like, 267 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: I need to stop interacting with this person. 268 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: And then it's hard because they got like a good heart. 269 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: I know, like they're a good person. So this is 270 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: a huge thing I've realized. And what I had to 271 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: go through is that addiction. It's like our addiction to 272 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: our phone. We know scrolling on TikTok at ten pm 273 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: is not good for us because we end up in 274 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: a well hole, like a tea did yesterday. And that's 275 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: why she made a random reel this morning. 276 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 3: I was like, this is the best real ever. 277 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: She literally thought it was so funny and she showed 278 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: me and I had no idea what was but yeah, 279 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: it's like a and you've got to know when to 280 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: tap out, and you've got to know when to put 281 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: yourself first. I love that. 282 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 2: Our first question g sos. I've resigned from a job 283 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 2: that was high paying but made me feel so stressed 284 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 2: and wasn't aligned with my values. I've been unemployed for 285 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 2: over a month now. I've applied for many jobs that 286 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 2: I think won't make me feel that way, and it's 287 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 2: taking me so long to get something. I had one 288 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: interview and it didn't. 289 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 3: Go so well. 290 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 2: What do I do? 291 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, great, great hotline question. 292 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 2: And I think very relatable. 293 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: Very relatable. There's a lot happening in the world right now. 294 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: I was actually going to say this off Airitia, but 295 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: I really want to do an episode about just the 296 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: fear that I'm feeling with the collective right now. Do 297 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: you agree? Yeah, Okay, I do. 298 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. 299 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: This is a tough one because I think a lot 300 00:15:56,760 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: of people may be experiencing this. This is almost kind 301 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: of what we were saying previously about feeling highs and lows. 302 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: And you guys know, my core belief is life happens 303 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: for me. I'm supported, I'm guided. And the big thing 304 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: with manifesting and law of attraction and these things that 305 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: you know I believe in and the community believes in 306 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: and that you know we're you know, feeling into, is 307 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: you can't just believe them when things are good. So 308 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: when you're manifesting things and life is happening for you 309 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: and it feels very serendipity, and you're like yeah, fuck 310 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: your manifesting. 311 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 3: I love this. 312 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: Me and a te are reading all the manifesting stories. Whoa, 313 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: but do you know what I mean? You can't just 314 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: go oh, manifesting is awesome when life is great, or 315 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: law of attraction, all these, you know, core beliefs. I 316 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: trust and believe in work when life is happening for you. 317 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: You also need to lock in and trust them when 318 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: life is not quote unquote happening for you. So what 319 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: I would do in this situation is every single day, 320 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: especially you know this person, they haven't got a job 321 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: right now, so this is a great time to go inwards. 322 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: This is a great time to work on your habits 323 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: and I don't want to say be disciplined, but almost. Actually, 324 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 1: this is a great thing that popped in my head. 325 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 1: I would love this person to act out their day if. 326 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 2: They had their dream job, yes, and be clear on 327 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 2: what that is. 328 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: I don't think you need to be clear on what 329 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: that is. I think you need to be clear on 330 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 1: how you would feel. 331 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,159 Speaker 2: So like, if you don't know what your dream job is, 332 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 2: do you mean just like get up in the morning 333 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 2: and get ready for where? 334 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 1: So okay, So for example, yeah, this is what I 335 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 1: would do and I've actually done this. When I quit 336 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 1: my corporate job and I knew I wanted to have 337 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 1: a business, or I knew I wanted to do more, 338 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 1: and I was kind of just at home doing random things, 339 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: doing nothing. What I would do is I would pretend. Okay, 340 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 1: so for example, and I'd either like actually physically do 341 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: these things or I would journal about them. 342 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 3: Okay, it just depends. 343 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: Let's see, it depends what feels good to you. But like, 344 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: for example, let's say I'm journaling, you know, I and 345 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: this was literally what I wrote back then. So I 346 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: would get up, I you know, would go to gym, 347 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: I would do some movement. I would still do it 348 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: at a time where I can then get into work, 349 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: if that makes sense. Like I put a routine in place, 350 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: even though I didn't actually have to go to my 351 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 1: corporate law job anymore at seven point thirty, but I 352 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: put in a routine. And then the key here is 353 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: the times that felt good to me. So back then, 354 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 1: I would start work around nine am, because it was 355 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: like that's when I would finish up my morning routine. 356 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: So I would get up, I would you know, work out. 357 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: I would I was really into that I'd make a 358 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: nourishing breakfast, and then i'd grab my journal and my coffee, 359 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 1: and I'd sit with my dogs and I journal and things, 360 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: and I would just feel into the feelings that I 361 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 1: was feeling into was having somethink of my own that I, 362 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: you know, was my own boss, that I had a 363 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 1: team that I could work with on the same dream, 364 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: and so I'd feel into those feelings of just what 365 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: I wanted. I had no idea what that actually looked like. 366 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 1: So I had no idea that, you know, it was 367 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 1: going to be Naked Harvest or a podcast or anything 368 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: like that. It's the feelings. But then I would just 369 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: kind of schedule my day like I was running a 370 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: business even though I wasn't. And so this is obviously 371 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: going to be different for this person, but I would 372 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: very much encourage this person to still have routines like 373 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: they were doing a job that made them feel good. Yeah, 374 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: so it's like a little bit hard, and you've got 375 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: to be creative, but then also it's locking into that 376 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,919 Speaker 1: feeling that the perfect job is coming for you. 377 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, And I feel like just reading the question 378 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 2: where it's I've applied for many jobs that I think 379 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 2: won't make me feel that way. Yeah, so you're almost 380 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 2: not sure that these jobs will fulfill you and are 381 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 2: aligned with your values. So it's quite possible that even 382 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 2: though you've been you've had the interview and it didn't 383 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 2: end up going well, that it just wasn't the right job, 384 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 2: and none of these jobs have been the right job. 385 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: And you also, I don't know even the wording of 386 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 1: I think won't make me feel that way. 387 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 2: I just it's like you need to know. 388 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, And she could be like repelling. 389 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 2: Yes, the jobs. 390 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I know exactly what you like. 391 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 2: It's just it's a law of attraction, but the opposite way, 392 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: in the sense that your ViBe's a bit lower. Yeah, understandably, 393 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 2: and you're attracting the negative, which is actually getting rid 394 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 2: of your opportunity to get those jobs kind of thing. 395 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 396 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:52,640 Speaker 2: And also congratulations for resigning from a job that paid 397 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 2: you a lot but didn't align with you. 398 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: Oh in credit, Yeah and credit. Well, I think that's 399 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: a bold move. Like, that's bold move in itself, and 400 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,719 Speaker 1: I really feel like she's on the right track. And 401 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: it's like, don't give up now, because I guarantee you 402 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: something amazing. It's just around the corner. 403 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 2: The universe is just testing you exactly the trust you 404 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 2: had when you made the decision to quit that job. 405 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 1: Get that again, Get that again. And I think also 406 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: if you can't get clear on what the job is, 407 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: get clear on what you want your days to feel like, 408 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: like I was saying, with the morning routine and the 409 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 1: things that like you up, and I'd be doing like 410 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 1: high vibe things when I can. For me to just 411 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: have a month of just nothing, go to like go 412 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 1: to the beach, go do things like Obviously, financially if 413 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 1: you don't have a job, it would be concerning do 414 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,959 Speaker 1: things that don't cost anything. But I still think you 415 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: could be doing really high vibe things. 416 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 2: And don't underestimate if you start to get stressed financially, 417 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 2: don't lose the faith that the right job's coming. Maybe 418 00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 2: just get like an in between something, little casual job. Yes, 419 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 2: coming up to Christmas, maybe you just need. 420 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: I honestly thought you were gonna say, don't underestimate marketplace. 421 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 3: Don't underestimate you can make a lot of marketplace. 422 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: Let me tell you about marketplace. 423 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 3: No, it's coming up to Christmas. 424 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 2: Maybe just find a store you really like shopping at 425 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 2: and see if they're looking for Christmas casuals. Sit there 426 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 2: for a month or two, still keep your routines, and 427 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 2: then who knows what to pop up in the new 428 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 2: year kind of thing. 429 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: Also, be I love that a tia and also be 430 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: really open minded. Yeah love hey. Our second question. 431 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: Me and my ex of two years broke up seven 432 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 2: months ago, and it was the hardest thing I've ever 433 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:52,199 Speaker 2: had to overcome. Our relationship wasn't perfect, of course, but 434 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: it was so good, and the breakup came pretty unexpectedly, 435 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 2: and basically he was scared off of being in such 436 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 2: a committed, loving relationships so young. My issue is I 437 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: just cannot escape the gut feeling that he may still 438 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 2: be the one and that our pods will cross again 439 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: when the time is right. It felt like such a 440 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 2: right person, wrong time moment. I don't believe I'm in denial, 441 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 2: as I was the one who got dumped and I 442 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 2: am in no way waiting around or saving myself for him, 443 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: But this gut feeling just feels so strong I cannot 444 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 2: make sense of it whatsoever. My mum also says the 445 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 2: same thing, that she can't help but feel our story 446 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 2: isn't over there isn't any sort of question here, but 447 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 2: just some thoughts on it from someone who is super spiritual, 448 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 2: like you always. 449 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 1: Help kind of off the mom for saying that. I 450 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 1: feel like we've had a similar question before, and it's 451 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: this feeling that like the story isn't finished. 452 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, but it is, but it is. 453 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 1: It's so brutal. No, I agree with you a tr 454 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: I'm big believer of if you're meant to be with 455 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: this person, it may be that later down the track 456 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: something happens. But I would just hate for you to 457 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 1: waste any time or wait for this person. Yeah, even 458 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 1: though you say I'm not waiting for this person, you're waiting. 459 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: The fact that you sent in this message, you're it's 460 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 1: obviously such a big thing in your head. 461 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 2: Yes, and like you don't let it take up the 462 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:28,159 Speaker 2: mental space. 463 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 3: He's not worth it. 464 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,439 Speaker 1: It's taking up the mental space. And also like he 465 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,199 Speaker 1: could be a really lovely person, absolutely, and I get that. 466 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: I just think, again, life happens for you, and this 467 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:45,360 Speaker 1: has happened, and even if it's not the right time 468 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: and something happens in the future, I really don't think 469 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: that's something you should even think about. No, because I 470 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 1: think it's going to then stop you from making certain 471 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: decisions exactly. 472 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 2: I totally agree, and I'm very against reading this. I 473 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 2: wonder if it's your gut feeling that way, or if 474 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 2: it's your heart feeling that way. Yeah, oh yeah, I 475 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 2: think it's so hard. Yeah, because your gut to your christ. 476 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,400 Speaker 2: I don't think your intuition would naturally be so attached 477 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 2: to someone who's broken up with you or no. 478 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,399 Speaker 1: Maybe, but I this is actually a great thing. Like 479 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: remember a tear when I spoke about at the house, 480 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: when I was like, yeah, it's our house. I love 481 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: this house, like all the weird things that happen, and 482 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: then for it to just break up, and then I 483 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,119 Speaker 1: still said to you, I still feel like this is 484 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 1: our house. But you know, maybe this happened because another 485 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 1: house is coming or this and that. And you even 486 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: said what you didn't cry when they called up and 487 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: like that, and I was like no, even though intuitively 488 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: it felt like it was meant to be, I very 489 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 1: much was like, well, if it's meant to be, it 490 00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: will be. 491 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, let go of it. 492 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 2: Complain. 493 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 1: I completely let go. Yeah came back a couple months later. 494 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it did. 495 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: But this is the same situation. I think you can 496 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 1: still have those feelings and be like I really do 497 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 1: think he's we're meant to be, but I'm going to 498 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: let go of him. Yeah, And you know what would 499 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: be beautiful in this situation is doing like a beautiful 500 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 1: like letting go ceremony. 501 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, write a letter to him, and like write a. 502 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: Letter to him or to the universe, like about your relationship. 503 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: And these even could be these feelings of like, intuitively, 504 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: I just feel like so connected to you, I feel 505 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 1: like you know you're my person. Blah blah blah blah blah. 506 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,199 Speaker 1: Write everything, and then I would go and burn it. 507 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:44,919 Speaker 2: I was gonna say that too, but I was like, 508 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 2: is that too much? 509 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: No, No, burn it because it's like and also like 510 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 1: write the words if it's meant to be, like you'll 511 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 1: come back to me, yeah, and then go and burn 512 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 1: it and just be like it's done, yeah, and let 513 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 1: it go and just have that strong feeling of if 514 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 1: it's meant to be, it will, but I'm not going 515 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 1: to live mine because honestly, if it is meant to be, 516 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: you letting. 517 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 2: Go now will make it come back faster. 518 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 3: Correct. 519 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: So I think you need to do a letting go ceremony. 520 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: I think you actually need to then let go and 521 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 1: then and you'll find I guarantee you it will feel easier. 522 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: It will just energetically feel easier once you do a 523 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 1: little ceremony like that. I try and find like either 524 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: a new moon or full moon to do it onto, 525 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: because that would be really strong. 526 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 2: That Just like, I just thought of another question in 527 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 2: my head, what is your feelings towards burning stuff people 528 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,640 Speaker 2: have given you? 529 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: Fuck? 530 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: Like what I've seen it in movies where they'll have 531 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 2: like a letting go ceremony but when they're angry. 532 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 3: But they did it. 533 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 2: In Friends where they chucked stuff from ex boyfriends into 534 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 2: a bin and did a bonfire. But it's like, could 535 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 2: you do like a little beautiful ceremony where you write 536 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 2: a letter to him and maybe you have something he 537 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 2: gave you, like a small little teddy bear or something. 538 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. Just be very careful, be fire safe. 539 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,359 Speaker 1: Yeah I've never personally done that, but I think like 540 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: whatever helps, Yeah, whatever helps, Maybe do some research about it, 541 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: just a little Google, But I like that idea if 542 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: there is something, And that's also if you guys live together, 543 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 1: I would be setting up your life that you're now single. Yes, 544 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 1: does that make sense? 545 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 546 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 2: And buy yourself some new items for around your room. 547 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, like refresh a little bit and be like 548 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: new chapter vibes. Yes, new chapter. I just think, if 549 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 1: it is truly meant to be amazing, you've got nothing 550 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: to worry about and you've got to live your life 551 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: because this has happened for a reason. 552 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 3: Yes, I love it. 553 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: Every as to every question, the universe. 554 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 2: Our lucky last question, I have a manifesting question and 555 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 2: just don't know if it might be impossible or something 556 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 2: I'm not supposed to get by manifesting. I would like 557 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 2: to find a way to earn an additional four thousand 558 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: dollars a month to create financial freedom. 559 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 3: Don't we all. 560 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: Let us go and find out. 561 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 3: You wouldn't want that. 562 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 2: I still want to do my current job, but in 563 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 2: case I decide to do something else in the future, 564 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 2: I want to know I have a secure four thousand 565 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 2: dollars coming into my bank account. I have no idea 566 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 2: if this can be manifested, as I have no idea 567 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 2: of how I can make it a reality. I know 568 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 2: you say to remain clear, but I can't be clear 569 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 2: on how or. 570 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: What Oh my god, I love this question. 571 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 2: I love this question too. 572 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 1: Of course you can manifest it. 573 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 3: Yes, I don't want to. 574 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want to seem like a douchebag, 575 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: but I'm kind of the queen of manifesting money. Let's 576 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 1: talk about manifesting money, because this is my jam. I 577 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 1: think obviously even reading this question, and you have a 578 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,959 Speaker 1: lot of limiting beliefs. 579 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 2: Around money and manifesting. 580 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you can basically manifest anything that is in 581 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,959 Speaker 1: your energy. You can't manifest for other people, but anything 582 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: for you you can manifest. Again, whether it manifests is 583 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: always it's that or something better. So if it doesn't, 584 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: it means it's something better. But here really good example. 585 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: I the other week I used to play with manifesting 586 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: money and when you can get to the point of 587 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: having the big thing limiting beliefs, If you've got any 588 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 1: limiting beliefs around money, you're not going to manifest it. 589 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: So a big thing. And that's like why I go 590 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 1: so deep in limiting beliefs in my Rise and Conker project, 591 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: because they will always stop you. So I would be 592 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: looking into why you think you can't manifest An additional 593 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: four thousand. So I used to love playing with manifesting money. 594 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: For example, a training video in the project. This training 595 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: video about how I randomly intuitively felt to make a 596 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 1: certain amount of money in Naked Harvest when we first started, 597 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: and it was amount that was a lot more than 598 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: we ever had made, and I was just like, I 599 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: want to make this amount in Naked Harvest, and I 600 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: remember it got like, I think it was five days 601 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: to the end of the month, and it was the 602 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 1: whole thing, I want to make this amount by the 603 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: end of the month, and the whole thing was there 604 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 1: was five days ago. It looked like we weren't going 605 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: to make it. And then I just like still held 606 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: the feeling and I was like, no, it gets to happen. 607 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 1: It's just money, it's just energy. And I had to 608 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 1: go through my limiting beliefs work through it. Long story short, 609 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,239 Speaker 1: I had this idea to do a certain sale and 610 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: we like just made that amount of money, and it 611 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: was weird because it was three oh one. So I 612 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: used to play with money and energy and time limits too, 613 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: which I don't do anymore because it's just time consuming. 614 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: But I've got no time because I'm actually running the 615 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 1: but It's funny because if you want to make a 616 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: certain amount of money but you don't feel deserving, you 617 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 1: won't be able to make it. And I've done this 618 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: with Naked Harvest, where I'm like, oh, well, I made 619 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: that amount, I want to make this the next month, 620 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: and then I've gone back and seen it in my 621 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: journey journal. Sorry, but realized deep down I felt like 622 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: that was too crazy, it was too much. So it 623 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: be and I actually I haven't told you a Tia, 624 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: but for July, for the first time this year, I 625 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 1: made a money goal for like a month, yeah, and 626 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: I wrote myself. 627 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 3: A check for it. Yeah. 628 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: So at the start of the month, I was like, 629 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: it was actually mid month. But anyway, long story shop, 630 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: I wrote myself a check and I was like, you know, 631 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: to Georgie Stephenson wrote out the amount, but I left 632 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: the reason you know how checks say the reason for 633 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I left that empty because I was like, 634 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to be too closed off of how 635 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 1: it's going to come in. So it's not like I 636 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: wrote Naked Harvest or Rise and Conquer or anything. I've 637 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 1: just left it really open because that's again is I 638 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 1: can see in her question She's like, I don't know 639 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: how it's going to come in, so she feels very 640 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: closed off about how this extra money could come in. Yeah, 641 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 1: and that's a big thing. So I left that and 642 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: I wrote the amount. The amount was something that I 643 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: had not achieved before, and so I really felt into it. 644 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: I really had to go through limiting beliefs. And I'm 645 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: someone who's done so much work on limiting beliefs and 646 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 1: money and you have to keep going through it. Felt 647 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: into it. I would see it. It was on my phone, 648 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: so an alarm would come up and I would look 649 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: at this check so funny. I forgot about it, and 650 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: then I saw it in like my screenshots or saying 651 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: when I was like sending Ellie some content, and I 652 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: went back. It was already halfway through the next month. 653 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 1: So had to like go back and like find out 654 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,959 Speaker 1: how the Yeah, look at the full month, and I 655 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: like realized Naked Harvest plus like R and C plus 656 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: this random amount that got put back into my account 657 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 1: because the bank fucked up or I don't know something. 658 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 3: From the scam. 659 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, not from the scam, guys. I got so 660 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 1: scamed the other day to your sluff and it got 661 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,919 Speaker 1: put back in my account. No, but I didn't pay it. 662 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 1: It was from two years ago or somewhere. Okay, okay, yeah, 663 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: so it wasn't like my own money and literally adding 664 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 1: everything up. 665 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 2: No, the exact number, an exact number. 666 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it was maybe a thousand dollars over 667 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,720 Speaker 1: or something like the exact number. And I showed Cooper 668 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: and he's like, fuck, that's weird, and he's like, can 669 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 1: you start doing this every month? But you do, like 670 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: it's this process and you really have to like work 671 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: your limiting beliefs because if you feel like you're deserving 672 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 1: of a certain amount of money, you will be able 673 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: to attract it. You just have to like understand if 674 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: there's any blocks. So this is anything. 675 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and I think as well, don't focus where it's 676 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 2: coming from. Just focus on the money. And I know 677 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 2: that sounds so weird to say, but. 678 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: Correct, but also and taking it back a notch. Theretia 679 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 1: is she's got this number of four thousand, which is amazing. 680 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 1: I feel like she's done some sort of calculation here. Yeah, 681 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 1: but also focus on she's clearly said for financial freedom. Yeah, 682 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: so she knows the feeling absolutely, So it's like keep 683 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: focusing on what it would feel like at the end 684 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 1: of the month to look at your bank account, have 685 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:35,439 Speaker 1: all your bills paid, have I don't know what she does, 686 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,359 Speaker 1: have all your bills paid, have enough money in savings 687 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if you're saving for a house, a holiday, 688 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: what not. And then have money left over for fun 689 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: and play. Have a like focus on that feeling because 690 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:53,359 Speaker 1: for example, sometimes numbers can stump me and the actual specifics. 691 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 1: But if she focuses on the feeling. And again, how 692 00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 1: it happens is not your business, like it could be marketplace. 693 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:05,320 Speaker 1: It could be marketplace, and I like, if it helps, 694 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 1: you can do random ways that it could happen. I 695 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: would to this person to go back to our manifesting 696 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 1: episode because we spoke about that that person who was 697 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: like they did rn C and they wanted to manifest 698 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: more money, but they didn't want to get a side 699 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 1: hustle and they liked their job. And it was something ridiculous, like. 700 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 2: She like doubled her income. 701 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: No, it's like tripled, remember, because she like got that 702 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 1: pay rise and then she got like a rareness she 703 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 1: made like eighty more grands something crazy, and it's like 704 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: she kept her corporate job or whatever, and the money 705 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 1: came in a different way, So it's not up to 706 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: you how the money comes in. Don't worry about that part. 707 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: You don't actually have to be clear on the how 708 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 1: you Well you shouldn't. You should like not be focusing 709 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: on that and the what too Again if that is 710 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,840 Speaker 1: too stressful, focus on the feeling, yes, love any other thoughts. 711 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 2: I think that pretty much sums that one up. 712 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think i'd be looking into your money beliefs, 713 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,279 Speaker 1: your money beliefs, And I think in general, like when 714 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 1: you manifest something, you don't need to worry about the 715 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: how or what ever, like whether it's money, whether it's 716 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,399 Speaker 1: a house, whatever you're trying to get, you just need 717 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: to focus on how you're going to feel when it's 718 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: there and then trust that it will come to you. 719 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. 720 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,239 Speaker 1: And also a big thing if you're not like a 721 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 1: manifestor who has like constantly manifested, you will need to 722 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 1: do consistent work around it. Yeah, you can't just go 723 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 1: I want to manifest four K and then forget about 724 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,760 Speaker 1: it like I did with the you know my money 725 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 1: thing is I had a timer, I had to look, 726 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 1: I had to journal out my limiting beliefs. And I've 727 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 1: been manifesting for fucking god knows how long here I would, 728 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: you know, consider myself an advanced manifestor, and I still 729 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,919 Speaker 1: had to do the work. So it's kind of like, yeah, 730 00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: you can't just like set and forget. Yes, it does 731 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:55,880 Speaker 1: get easier. 732 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, A question around that actually, tell us yesterday you 733 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 2: shared to your stories and I think we've reshared the 734 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 2: eighth of the eighth because the gateway was open, the 735 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 2: Lions Gate portal. Yes, So for people who potentially journaled 736 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,800 Speaker 2: or manifested or wrote themselves a letter on that day, 737 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 2: what do you suggest, like because I did a letter 738 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 2: and then I sealed the letter and I will open 739 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 2: it on the eighth of the eighth next year, Luve, Yeah, 740 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 2: is what I've done for myself. I wrote a letter 741 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 2: to myself. Do you think that that is like a 742 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 2: set and forget thing or do you think that that 743 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,239 Speaker 2: is like you've written them down. You don't need to 744 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 2: remember exactly what you wrote down on that day, or 745 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 2: if you want to, that's fine, but what how do 746 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 2: you follow that up? 747 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: So it's all about, for example, the things that you 748 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:48,399 Speaker 1: wrote in that letter, do you truly believe. 749 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 2: That they get to happen for you most Yeah. 750 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: Well yeah, so all that's kind of your answer is 751 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 1: the ones that you truly believe are meant to happen 752 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,760 Speaker 1: for you, you don't have to do the work around 753 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: them because you have that true belief. Yeah, the ones 754 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 1: that you don't, that's where the work would come in. 755 00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 1: But I think there's also something really powerful about writing 756 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,439 Speaker 1: yourself a letter and having those intentions and then just yeah, 757 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 1: putting it away and then looking at it at another time. 758 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,279 Speaker 1: That's what I'll often do, is like send myself an 759 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,880 Speaker 1: email and then snooze it. And it's a good reflective 760 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,399 Speaker 1: exerose because it will be interesting to see what has 761 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:28,640 Speaker 1: actually manifested and your beliefs about those things, and it's 762 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:37,719 Speaker 1: like good, yeah, reflective exercise. 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