1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: Now, we just love your questions. The emails that come 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: through are so important about helping you to raise a 5 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 2: happier family. Podcasts that's podcasts with an SS at Happy 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 2: families dot com dot au Kylie, we've received an anonymous 7 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 2: email somebody who well, we know who they are, but 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: they don't want to be known because sometimes the things 9 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: that we deal with in our families can be challenging 10 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: and we just rather keeping to ourselves. But we need 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 2: some advice. 12 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: Can I be anonymous? 13 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 2: Not now everyone knows you're you because I just said kite. 14 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry missus. Happy Families the Surprise voice. Could 15 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 2: you please tell us? What is it that this wonderful 16 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 2: mum who's trying to get this right wants to know? 17 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: My eleven year old daughter loves makeup and loves doing 18 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: crazy colorful eyeshadow looks. She's pretty good at it. She 19 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: loves making videos on our iPad, and she's brought up 20 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: recently about wanting to make YouTube videos. But I don't 21 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: know if I want her all over social media like that, 22 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: and she's not even a teenager. Yet the Internet can 23 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: be a dark place and people can be nasty in 24 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: their comments. Am I being reasonable? Or should I let 25 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: her upload videos? 26 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: I love this email. You can see a mom who 27 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 2: really wants her daughter to embrace what she's enjoying. She 28 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 2: wants to give her the platform and the opportunity to explore. 29 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 2: And you can just see that eleven year old sitting 30 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: in front of the camera saying, and now I'm doing this, 31 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: and now I'm doing that, and she's getting so much 32 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 2: mileage out of it. I mean, we can relate right. 33 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: As you said that. I had a visual when my 34 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: mom and dad got their first video recorder and I 35 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: was in the lounge room with my cousins and we 36 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: had turned the bin upside down and he had his 37 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: drumsticks and he was doing dancing on the ceiling by lunch. 38 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: What a feeling, And she. 39 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: Caught on cameras I did a swirl, I threw my 40 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: skirt up in the air and you could see my undies. 41 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: I still remember it to this day. 42 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 2: And your mum got stuck into you for that. 43 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: No, no, she didn't get stuck to me. I just 44 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: remember that that visual, and I'm so glad it's not 45 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: on the internet. 46 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so glad it's not on the Internet. Okay, 47 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 2: So let's have a look at a snapshot of the 48 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 2: real influence of social media creators on Z. Gen Z 49 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 2: are the ones that were born in the late nineties 50 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: three to the early twenty ten. So the oldest of 51 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 2: them are in their mid twenties now, the youngest and 52 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 2: they're around about twelve to fourteen. Just at the this 53 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 2: young girl eleven, she's right on the very tail end 54 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 2: of gen Z, maybe even stepping into what's known as 55 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 2: Generation Alpha. Here's what we know. Eighty percent about gen 56 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 2: z's are using social media more than once a day. 57 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: Females and gen Z are higher social media users than 58 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: males and the millennials respectively. We've got ninety two percent 59 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 2: of gen Z females compared to eighty two percent of 60 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: gen Z males and eighty eight percent of millennial females 61 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 2: versus eighty percent of millennial males who are using social media. 62 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: So this is this is where they live. Ninety plus 63 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: percent of them are all hanging out right there. Tent 64 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 2: three percent of our gen Z kids are following at 65 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 2: least one influencer most of following many more, with sixty 66 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: three percent following more than five and eighty seven percent 67 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: of the influencer content every time or most of the 68 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: time they're on social media. Now I get this because 69 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 2: when I'm in schools talking to students, I will often 70 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 2: be approached. They know that I was on TV. They 71 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 2: know that I know a bunch of influencers. They know 72 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 2: that I've had contact with them, although I'm absolutely not 73 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: one myself. And the kids, especially the girls, go crazy, Kylie. 74 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 2: They go crazy because I happen to know some of 75 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: Australia's best known influencers. It's such a big deal for them. 76 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: And this is the critical thing. In relation to our 77 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: anonymous emailers' letter, more than half of gen zed Australians 78 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 2: fifty five percent said that they would leave their job 79 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 2: to become an influencer if they had the chance. That's 80 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: according to data from the Behavioral Architects, which was commissioned 81 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: exclusively for The Australian this time last year, around about 82 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: nine or twelve months ago. So here's the thing. The 83 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 2: Internet is like the wild West. It's essentially unregulated. Congress 84 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: in the US is not doing anything to protect our kids. 85 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: The Australian government is doing very little as well, although 86 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: the Safety Commissioner is doing her best. And here's what 87 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: I would say to this mum. Your daughter, at age 88 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: eleven is simply too young to navigate what I'm going 89 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 2: to call absolutely, unquestionably treacherous terrain. Social media platforms are 90 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 2: notorious breeding grounds for toxicity and bullying, and this is 91 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: especially the case for young and vulnerable individuals like this 92 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 2: eleven year old. But it's not just toxicity. I think 93 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 2: this is a dangerous, a dangerous move. 94 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: Last week on This Week in Parenting. 95 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,799 Speaker 2: I love that episode about this week in Parenting. 96 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: This Week in Parenting, all right, very on we shared 97 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 1: the finding in a recent New York Times investigations which 98 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: looked into young girl influencer accounts, which are usually run 99 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 1: by their mums, right, And they found overwhelming evidence that 100 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: those girls were receiving attention from pedophiles and they're often 101 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:19,359 Speaker 1: being encouraged by their mums. 102 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: Get like the men with bad ideas are being encouraged, 103 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,239 Speaker 2: not the girls, although the girls being encouraged as well. 104 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: And the challenge you have is that to be TikTok 105 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: or insta famous, right, it requires the need for likes 106 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: and engagement and comments, right, and with that it means 107 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: that parents and kids will do whatever is necessary to 108 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: boost those followers in order to score brand names and to. 109 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 2: Earn the money. Yeah, and you know the scary thing 110 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 2: about this, Kylie. The New York Times investigation showed that 111 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: when parents who are trying to look after their kids 112 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 2: and do the right thing while building this brand, when 113 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 2: they would block or delete or report people who are absolutely, 114 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 2: absolutely just dirty and dangerous, the social media platforms stop boosting, 115 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 2: stop elevating, stop putting the influencer in front of people. 116 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: In other words, the account essentially withers on the vine. 117 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: Well, the evidence is there that if your daughter is 118 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:29,679 Speaker 1: in those situations, those risks are definite. Yeah, they're guarantee, 119 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: They're absolutely guaranteed they're going to find themselves in those positions. 120 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: I know, saying no sounds really easy, but if you're 121 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: chasing numbers, it's not so. 122 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: Especially once it starts to build. You get that momentum 123 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 2: and you think, oh no, we've got to maintain and 124 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 2: otherwise we're going to drop and we're going to lose 125 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 2: the sponsorships and the opportunities. As a parent, you've got 126 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: one job. Now, I know that not everybody successful in 127 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: what I'm about to say, in spite of their very 128 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: best efforts, and so this is not a shaming comment, 129 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 2: but I really want to be clear about this. As 130 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: a parent, your job is to god your kids to 131 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 2: make decisions that are safe and healthy, particularly particularly while 132 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 2: they are neurologically immature. That prefrontal cortex is not sufficiently developed. 133 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: They can't plan and strategize. They're not looking to the future. 134 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 2: They just see the thing in front of them. And 135 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: when it comes to being an influencer, it's all about 136 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: rainbows and balloons and confetti and fireworks. It looks so exciting. 137 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,239 Speaker 2: And our job, therefore is to work through these hard 138 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: questions with kids in ways that make sense to them. 139 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 2: And that means not being afraid to be the authority 140 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 2: figure in your child's life when you need to, when 141 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: it's necessary. 142 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: She's eleven, This is absolutely. 143 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 2: This is necessary. Now. If you proceed, If you proceed 144 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 2: and say, hey, sweetheart, you're eleven, let's chase influencer status. 145 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 2: Let's go there, you place your daughter in the firing 146 00:07:56,760 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 2: line of unsavory comments that could impact herself esteem. 147 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: And I don't think you can say could they will 148 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,239 Speaker 1: absolutely once you put yourself in that position. 149 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: Guaranteed. 150 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: It's absolutely a guarantee because the only reason that post 151 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: exists is because you want to be accepted, you want 152 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,559 Speaker 1: to be liked, and you want to be seen. 153 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 2: So the impact on self esteem, the impact on mental 154 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 2: health and well being, and then there's the pedos from 155 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 2: cyberbullying through the potential exploitation by strangers. These risks are real, 156 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 2: they're significant. As a responsible parent, so your duty to 157 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 2: shielded from these dangers until she is mature enough and 158 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 2: equipped enough to be able to handle them. 159 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: I'm just going to put it out there. Who is 160 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: mature and equipped enough to deal with and handle all 161 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: of those unsavory comments exploitation? Who who are they? 162 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 2: Okay, fair point, you win on that one. I don't 163 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 2: even think many adults deal without adults. 164 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: I don't deal with that. 165 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, fair core. 166 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: Additionally, once something's out there in cyberspace, it's out there. 167 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,599 Speaker 1: You can't erase it. And like I said at the 168 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: very beginning, I'm so glad that mean whip took my 169 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: skirt up while I was dancing as a six year 170 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: old is not plastered all. 171 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 2: Over the internet. Yeah, So there's that permanence thing, right, 172 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,719 Speaker 2: There's that permanence where if it's out there, it's out there, 173 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 2: it doesn't come down. 174 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: Sadly, it could actually affect future prospects. It's out there, 175 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: and once it's out there, it doesn't disappear. 176 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 2: Just because of some ill conceived YouTube videos that she 177 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: made as a child. Okay, one more really important thing. 178 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 2: If your daughter dives head first into this world of 179 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: social media and TikTok and Instagram influencing and YouTube and 180 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 2: so on, what ends up happening is she just marinates 181 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: in this message that her worth becomes tied to the 182 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 2: likes and the views and the comments, and that becomes 183 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: a recipe for major challenges. 184 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: As a mum or one of my main emphasis with 185 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: my children is helping them to listen to their own voice. 186 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: When we start seeking validation from strangers, this becomes really 187 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:04,559 Speaker 1: unhealthy for our kids and they actually dilute their own. 188 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 2: Voice, right, And this is particularly the case with the 189 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 2: power of YouTube. It's one of the world's biggest search engines. 190 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: It is the world's biggest streamer, it's a biggest stream 191 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 2: of the Netflix. YouTube has more streams than any other 192 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 2: platform on the planet, leveraging that to amplify her taking 193 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 2: this path. Really, it's threading the finest of needles. Now, 194 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 2: I know that some people have done it successfully. I 195 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: actually know some of the people who have done it. 196 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 2: And I also know that every girl wishes that she 197 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: could have the fame and the instant success and the 198 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: hashedags that are path like this promises. But for me, 199 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: as a dad to six daughters, I just don't think 200 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 2: the risks are worth it. So my advice is stay 201 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 2: away taking this pathway. It's going to teach girls that 202 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 2: the value lies in physical beauty and the approval of others. 203 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 2: Not healthy. We need to talk about what to do instead. 204 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: When I look at this situation and I see this 205 00:10:56,440 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: young girl who has this creative flare for all all 206 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:04,199 Speaker 1: things make up and bright colors, my role as a 207 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: mum is to help develop and grow that creativity, to 208 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: encourage it, and to create opportunities for her to be 209 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: able to do that in a safe environment. So if 210 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: it was me, I'd be bringing around a couple of friends. 211 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: Maybe it's your girlfriends and she takes you through some 212 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: makeup tutorials herself. Maybe she does make some videos and 213 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: you have cousins and nannties and uncles come over, and 214 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: you have a movie night, and you get to see 215 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: all of the different tutorials that she's created. Maybe you 216 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 1: enroll her in makeup classes so that she can actually 217 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: further the talents and the creative flair that she's developing. 218 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: Find avenues so that you can scaffold the love that 219 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: she has in a way that keeps her safe and 220 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: help her develop characteristic traits and qualities that are in 221 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: line with an eleven year old. 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