1 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. I'm 2 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: your host, Georgie Stevenson. I am a lawyer and health coach, 3 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 1: social media influencer, wife and dog mum. On the Rise 4 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: and Conquer Podcast, we dive deep into all things mindset, habits, career, health, 5 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: relationships and more. This is a podcast for women who 6 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: want to rise up to be the best version of themselves, 7 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: who have big dreams in who are willing to put 8 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: in the work to get there. I want to bring 9 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: you the tools and actionable steps to feel confident in yourself, 10 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: inspired to take bold action, and motivated to conquer your goals. 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: Are you with me, girl friends, Let's Rise and conquer. Hi, guys, 12 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: and welcome to The and Conquer Podcasts. Today we have 13 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: a very special guest and we are chatting with Dara Hayes, 14 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: which you may better know her as DJ Tiger Lily. 15 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: Dara is not your usual DJ, even though she tours 16 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: around the world, she is still your everyday yoga doing, 17 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: ocean loving ossie girl who is passionate about helping the 18 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: animals and environment. I love this lighthearted but serious conversation 19 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: with Dara, who is so down to earth and so 20 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: easy to talk to. We chatted about the highs and 21 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: lows of her DJ lifestyle, her transition into veganism, her 22 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: morning and night routine that keeps her feeling her best, 23 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: and what it means to be a conscious influencer. I 24 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: just know you're all gonna love this episode, so let's 25 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: get into it. Welcome to the show, Dara, Hi. 26 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: How are you going? Thanks for having me on. 27 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: No, of course, guys, I was just telling Dara offline that, sorry, 28 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: should I call you Dara or DJ Tiger Lily. 29 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 2: Dara is great, Dara is really good. 30 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: I was just telling Dara offline that when me and 31 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: mel first started the podcast that I wanted to pitch 32 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: to her straight away because I've always been a really 33 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: big fan because I've always loved your music and then 34 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 1: also loved you on Instagram and love what you stand for. 35 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: But I like wanted to wait until we were a 36 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: bit bigger, and then we pitched and she said yes 37 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: that I was very excited. 38 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: That is too cute and too nice. I'm really appreciative. 39 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 2: It's just it's yeah, as I said before, guys, I 40 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 2: was chatting offline about this thing. It's really nice to 41 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 2: have a beautiful space to have open conversations. And we're 42 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 2: all so busy in our day to day lives that 43 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 2: we don't necessarily get time to have these epic conversations. 44 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 2: So it's really awesome to have a cool space to 45 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 2: do it in, for sure, one hundred percent amazing. 46 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: Well, as this is the Rise and Conquer podcast, something 47 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: I always ask my guests is what is one thing 48 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: it can be big or small, that you were rising 49 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: up and conquering this week. 50 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 2: This is going to go against what my people say 51 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 2: as answers, but for me, the one thing I am 52 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: trying to conquer this week is rest, and I think 53 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 2: it's something really difficult to do in the lives that 54 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 2: we live these days. We're all so busy. The past 55 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: two weeks, I've been just traveling overseas for work, playing 56 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: a whole heap of shows, which has been amazing. But 57 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: this week my priority is just resting and doing healthy 58 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 2: practices like sleeping and eating well and going to the gym. 59 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 2: Catching up on some work, of course, but I find 60 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: resting actually is kind of the most difficult thing to conquer. 61 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 2: It's really easy to write a long to do list 62 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: and to smash everything out and it's really easy to 63 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 2: fill your day with tasks and be busy and you know, 64 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: hashtag productive, but being RESTful and quiet is actually really hard. 65 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: So for me, that's what I'm trying to do this week. 66 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: So I completely agree. I feel like we're definitely in 67 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: this kind of time period where being busy and being 68 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: so overwhelmed and always having something on is kind of 69 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: like a badge of honor that people wear. So it's like, oh, 70 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: I'm just so busy, I'm doing this, I'm doing that. 71 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: So it's really nice that you're kind of explaining that 72 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 1: you actually are very intentional when you take time to 73 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: rest and conserve your energy. So I love that. 74 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 2: I always used to say when someone said how are you, 75 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: I would say, oh, I'm so busy, And I know 76 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: I do still sometimes say that, but I hate saying 77 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 2: that so much because it's just nothing like everyone's busy, 78 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 2: and it's actually for me, it's not cool to be busy, 79 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: Like I can't wait till the day when someone's like, 80 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 2: how are you and I'm like, I'm so relaxed and balanced. 81 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: Oh right now. 82 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 2: Lol. It's probably going to take a long time for 83 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 2: me to get there, but I think that we need 84 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 2: to really work on taking away the cool stigma off 85 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: busy because we're just, you know, we're so busy. I 86 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 2: actually saw someone's Instagram, I can't remember who it was 87 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 2: the other day, and they've posted like a diagram of 88 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 2: their heart rate when they were in Sydney and when 89 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: they were in it might have been Adelaide, and it 90 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 2: was like four beats permanent slower in Adelaide because they 91 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 2: were just like heaps more chill than they were in Sydney, 92 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 2: which is crazy to think, like the location of where 93 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 2: you are can change, like literally you're like heart rate. 94 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: But it's true, we're so busy, we're so stressed. Not cool. 95 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: No, yeah, well I actually completely agree with that because 96 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know Queensland that well. But 97 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: I used to live in Brisbane City and now I 98 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: live a whole coast amazing. I used to live right 99 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: close to the city because I used to work corporate 100 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: and now I obviously work from home and I'm about 101 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: six hundred meters from the beach and oh my gosh, 102 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: like my temperament and just like when people if they 103 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: haven't seen me since moving or anything like that, like 104 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: they'll visit me and be like, wow, you're like so 105 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 1: much more chill, and it's like the only thing that 106 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 1: has changed is my environment. So I totally agree with that. 107 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 2: I'm very jealous that you live there. I would lovely. Yeah, Like, 108 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, Sydney is a beautiful city, and 109 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: like my family's here as well as my partner's family. 110 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: But living somewhere like the Gold Coast or just not 111 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: like in the hub of a major city, I can 112 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 2: definitely see how it would be so relaxing for just everything, 113 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 2: and it would just completely change your lifestyle and your priorities. 114 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 2: But I think it's difficult. There's not many people that 115 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 2: can choose where they want to live. So like, you're 116 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 2: very lucky in that you can, and I'm very lucky 117 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,799 Speaker 2: in that I can. But I know that, say my partner, 118 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 2: he's stuck to a particular place in Sydney for his work, 119 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: so it's kind of like, ugh, well, fuck, just have 120 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: to take my holidays. I don't know. 121 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: Well, that's like, like I said, I used to work 122 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: corporate in the city and then I was working from home, 123 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: still living there for a round a year, and my 124 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: husband him, he can work either one so I kind 125 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: of thought, what am I doing if you have an option? Now, 126 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: looking back, I would never go back, but it is 127 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: definitely hard when you don't have the options. So I'm 128 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: definitely happy I kind of took advantage of that. 129 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 2: I'm very jealous. I want a ran that. Yeah, we did. 130 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 2: It's okay, It's what these podcasts are for, I know, 131 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: just a normal conversation. 132 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: Well, obviously I've done an intro and I guarantee everyone 133 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: knows who you are because you do have such a 134 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: big presence on social media and as a DJ. But 135 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: can you give us a little snapshot of who you are? 136 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: Who is Dara? Yeah? Cool? Hey guys, So I am Dara. 137 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: I am twenty seven. I live in Sydney with my 138 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: partner Scott and our dog Lenny. I'm into working out, 139 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: doing yoga, eating lots of amazing vegan food, spending time 140 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 2: with my family. I'm actually a bit of a like 141 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: low key dork or nerd. I'm not super into, like, 142 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: you know, wearing heaps of makeup or being fashionable. I 143 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: have to really use Instagram to try and keep up 144 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: appearances because I have no idea what's cool. But then 145 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 2: at the same time, I am a DJ by night, 146 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 2: and that is my main profession and I actually do 147 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: that full time, which is pretty cool. I've been doing 148 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 2: that ever since I left UNI. So when I finished 149 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 2: high school, I went and did a Bachelor of Media 150 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 2: and Communications with a double major in marketing and sociology. 151 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: And while I was studying, I realized that I wanted 152 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 2: to give DJing a go, and very quickly it became 153 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: something that I was incredibly passionate about and really enjoyed 154 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: and was actually quite good at. And things just kind 155 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 2: of fell into place. So I started to work a 156 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 2: lot like at DJing while I was studying, and then 157 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 2: when I finished UNI five years later, I was given 158 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 2: the opportunity to make a decision as to, you know, 159 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 2: would I go and work for a corporate company or 160 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 2: would I try and start my own business. And that 161 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 2: was the best thing I ever did, starting my own 162 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: business and working for myself, and I would really never 163 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 2: look back. It definitely hasn't been easy, but I have 164 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: had so much support from my family and my friends 165 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: and of course my partner. So yeah, I'm very lucky 166 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 2: and I feel like I've kind of grown to this 167 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 2: point now where there's Dara which is, you know, my 168 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 2: normal self, and then there's Tiger Lily, which is my performing, 169 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: crazy travel self. And I was only just thinking about 170 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 2: this yesterday in that it's so funny how I can 171 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 2: shift so easily between the two, Like the past two 172 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: weeks been overseas in Europe, traveling a whole heap, drinking 173 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 2: in nightclubs every night, like just craziness, and then I 174 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: just shift back into like crazy dog mum vegan peace 175 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 2: out Vibe Dara within like an hour of getting home. 176 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 2: It's mental how the shift can happen, but it's actually 177 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 2: really nice to have two different parts of my personality. 178 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 2: And I suppose I always joke with my friends. I 179 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 2: wouldn't get an opportunity to wear all the crazy outfits 180 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: that I do wear if I didn't DJ. So there 181 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 2: are definitely pros and cons, that's for sure. 182 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: But it was awesome. I've definitely seen on social media 183 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: like you have all like these cool weeks and everything happening, 184 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like that is so cool that, like, yeah, you, 185 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: that's your actual job is you get to wear those 186 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: cool things. 187 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: So funny, like what was I wearing? I was wearing 188 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 2: something really outrageous the other day and I was just like, 189 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: I'm almost thirty and I'm in a club wearing something 190 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 2: completely outrageous. I know what it was. It was these 191 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: lycra shorts that had like cutouts in them. I was like, God, 192 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: you wouldn't catch any of my friends dead in these. 193 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 2: But you know what, it's so cool that I can 194 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: be doing this. 195 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: No one can say anything, and can I just say, 196 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: I love the fact what you said about you have 197 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: these two sides of you, and you can you can 198 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: play into each of them and you don't kind of 199 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: let either one define you. 200 00:10:58,360 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 2: That's really cool. 201 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: I really appreciate that you share that. 202 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, I've it's only in recent years that 203 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: I've become comfortable with, I suppose being both of them. 204 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 2: I always thought I just had to be one thing 205 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 2: or one person. But it's been really nice to be 206 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 2: able to explore different sides of me and to be 207 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: able to accept that I do have, you know, a 208 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: really masculine side, which is what probably comes out when 209 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 2: I'm working. It's a strong independent businesswoman, travels all over 210 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 2: the world, blah blah blah. But then when I come home, 211 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: I'm like super in my feminine in that like, you know, 212 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 2: I'm really reliant on my part as masculine energy. I'm 213 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 2: all about looking after our house and washing and cooking 214 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: and you know, painting and resting and all those things 215 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 2: that are stereotypically feminine. And it's really nice to explore 216 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: all of those things. 217 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: And it's nice that you can kind of see that 218 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: you can have that masculine and fem energy and you 219 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: can kind of work between both but not feel like 220 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: you have to get, you know, stuck into one one 221 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: hundred percent. So I did want to do just a 222 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: quick couple of questions, like kind of like a quick 223 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: fire around and just ask you some questions that I'm 224 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: sure everyone is dying to know. So what is the 225 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: best and the worst thing about being a DJ? 226 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 2: So the best thing about being a DJ is the 227 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 2: feeling that I get when I'm on stage performing to 228 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: a crowd of people. I actually have difficulty putting it 229 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 2: into words. It's the most incredible feeling. I think it's 230 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 2: actually quite an addictive feeling as well, because from a 231 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 2: music lover's perspective, you're getting paid to do what you 232 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 2: love and share it with so many people. It's just 233 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 2: electric and oh, I can't even explain to you. It's 234 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:51,559 Speaker 2: like imagine doing the thing that you love the most 235 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: and having you know, five thousand people there to watch 236 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: you do it, and like scream, it's pretty cool. It's 237 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 2: so yeah, it is. It's just really electric and inspiring, 238 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 2: even for yourself, and it's just it makes your heart 239 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: race and you're just on a high. Like I had 240 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 2: a really good show the other day and I'm still 241 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 2: on a bit of a high from it. It was epic. 242 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 2: But the worst thing about being a DJ for me 243 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: is definitely the travel. It's really tough, and I don't 244 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 2: travel a huge amount compared to a lot of other DJs, 245 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 2: Like a lot of the guys that are doing big 246 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 2: world tours all the time, they'd be doing, you know, 247 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 2: five countries in one week, and like I sometimes do that, 248 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 2: like last week we did five countries in one week, 249 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 2: But I definitely don't do that all the time, just 250 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 2: because it's really detrimental to your health and being super 251 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 2: in touch with my body or trying to be super 252 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 2: in touch with my body. In the past, I've noticed 253 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 2: that it really can just like eat you alive. So 254 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 2: I've had to be really careful with balancing my schedule 255 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 2: and that can be difficult. I still definitely struggle with 256 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: that to like, you know, make sure I have enough 257 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 2: time for rest, as I mentioned at the start of 258 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 2: the chat. But yeah, the travel is definitely the h. 259 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: I could imagine that. And so do you travel alone 260 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: or with the manager or anything like that. 261 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I traveled generally with a tour manager and 262 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: a photographer or a photographer. So on the last trip 263 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 2: that I did, I traveled with my photographer, Jess, and 264 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: she's also we have a really good time together. You 265 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 2: really need someone to travel with you who is organized 266 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 2: and someone who can kind of have a laugh about 267 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 2: the situation with you. A prime example is on Saturday night, 268 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 2: last Saturday night, So what I know, ten days ago, 269 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: I was playing a show in Germany and we had 270 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: to go straight from the show to the airport, and 271 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: it took us like fourteen hours of travel to get 272 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: to Greece, and then when we got to Greece, I 273 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 2: pretty much had like an hour to get ready and 274 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 2: then we had to go on stage. So we barely slept, 275 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 2: like you know, like plain sleepers non existent, and we 276 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: were both just so worse for wear. But you just 277 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 2: have to laugh about it because there's nothing else you 278 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: can do. So yeah, it's definitely helped struggling with someone 279 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 2: who can bring your spirits up. Yeah, can bring up 280 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: morale when needed. Oh wow, that. 281 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: Is crazy, And so I want to ask you, what's 282 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: the coolest show you've ever performed? And what's the coose 283 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: person you know you've ever met? That I guess means 284 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: a lot to you. 285 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: Actually, my favorite all time show is when I played 286 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 2: last week. It was in Greece at a place called 287 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 2: far Out Beach Club. It's like this amazing open beach 288 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 2: club in the Greek Islands and I play there every year, 289 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 2: but there was something about this year that was just 290 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 2: so special. I never generally play over my set time. 291 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 2: Usually I play for ninety minutes and then that's it. 292 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 2: But I played for three hours on It was on 293 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: Monday night last Monday, and I just couldn't wipe the 294 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 2: smile off my face. I was having the best time, 295 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 2: So that for me was really special. And it's crazy that, 296 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 2: you know, almost ten years into my career, I'm still 297 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 2: having shows like that, which I really love, which is awesome. 298 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 2: But then I have played also like the stereotypical really 299 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 2: cool shows like Ultra Music Festival, Tomorrowland Music Festival, Electric Zoo, 300 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff. So there have been those 301 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 2: festivals as well, But I personally think I prefer the 302 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 2: club shows, which are going to be a little bit smaller, 303 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 2: but the people are generally there to see you, which 304 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 2: means that the vibe can be a bit more crazy. 305 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: It's probably like the different vibe of you could really 306 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: feel the people engaging. 307 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 2: With you, I think so, and like if they're there 308 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 2: to party and they know you're DJing, there's just going 309 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 2: to be like a little bit more of a connection, 310 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 2: I suppose, as opposed to I know, speaking for myself, 311 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 2: I kind of think that I get like slightly lost 312 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 2: on like the festival lineups, especially these days, as like 313 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 2: you know, two hundred DJs plus sometimes, Yeah, it can 314 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 2: be pretty crazy, especially when, yeah, when there's so many 315 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 2: people to choose from in between all the different acts. 316 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's nice having my own shows at clubs. 317 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: I definitely do prefer that. 318 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: Who's the Coors person you've ever met? 319 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. I have a funny story where I 320 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 2: so one of my like biggest teenage fans. I used 321 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 2: to be a massive fan of Katy Perry, and I 322 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 2: had an opportunity to meet her, and I chickened out 323 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 2: and I just walked away. And that's crazy because I 324 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 2: never get starstruck. Like I've met every DJ under the sun. 325 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 2: I met a heap of like big influencers and actors 326 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 2: and all that kind of stuff, and I do not 327 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 2: care at all. You know, met spice girls, blah blah blah, 328 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 2: all these people, and like I met Katie Pere who 329 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 2: tried went to meet Katy Perry, and I was just like, nah, 330 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 2: I'm too starstruck, and I walked away. So I definitely 331 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,640 Speaker 2: do regret doing that. But she just looked too perfect. 332 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 2: I couldn't deal with it. It's so fun. Oh I 333 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 2: should have got a selfie anyway, next time. Oh that's hilarious. 334 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: So I've always known about you, I during my ageen 335 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 1: stage and all that sort of stuff, Like I was 336 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: very much into going out and all that sort of stuff. 337 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,719 Speaker 1: So I've always been a huge fan of your music. 338 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: But I actually really got into your Instagram when my 339 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: PT actually recommended I follow you because you had started 340 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: to get into health and fitness, and especially I think 341 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,439 Speaker 1: you're doing strength training at that point, and I was 342 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: doing it and I was like, oh cool. 343 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 2: Your pt that's awesome. 344 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you got to follow it. 345 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 2: She's like really interesting. 346 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: I guess because I definitely I love following people who 347 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: like health and fitness isn't their whole life. I a 348 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 1: lot of influence fitness influencers online. You know, it's kind 349 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: of their whole life. They have the whole day to 350 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: go to gym and all that sort of stuff. So 351 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,479 Speaker 1: I really enjoy following people who it's involved in their 352 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,199 Speaker 1: life and they incorporate it and they practice it, but 353 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: it is just that like something they practice in their life, 354 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: if not necessarily something that consumes them. So I did 355 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 1: really love that about seeing that on your account. 356 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: Thank you. That's really nice to hear. And I totally 357 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 2: agree with you in that I find it really hard 358 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 2: to relate to like fitness and health influences when that's 359 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 2: all they do. I'm like, hang on, but yeah, you 360 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:21,439 Speaker 2: have all the day to go to the gym, but 361 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: like most people work a nine to five jobs, so like, 362 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:26,359 Speaker 2: how are they going to fit it in? Make it realistic? 363 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 2: And I think that that's something that I pride myself 364 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 2: in is that I try to show people that you 365 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 2: can be like a DJ traveling the world. You can 366 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 2: be up all night drinking champagne, but you can also 367 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 2: be healthy and you can also take pride in you know, 368 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 2: looking after yourself inside and out, and you can go 369 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 2: to the gym or go and you know, surf or 370 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 2: whatever it might be. Because people often think getting that 371 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: balance is pretty difficult, and it definitely can be, but 372 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 2: it is possible as well. 373 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: I definitely feel like we you went for. 374 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 2: Kind of like a bit a bit of. 375 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: A crazy time that in social media when health and 376 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: fitness was very consuming and it felt like you either 377 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: had to be you know, zero to one hundred or 378 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: you weren't hashtag fits bo. And so it's really nice 379 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: to have people who are interested in fitness and health 380 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: bit don't take it to that extreme, If that makes 381 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: sense totally. 382 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,680 Speaker 2: I agree. I'm all about like following people as well 383 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 2: who are happy to have more of a balanced life. 384 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: I actually saw a post the other day. Once again, 385 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: I can't remember where it was, but it was something 386 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 2: about like you know those extra two point five kilos 387 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 2: that you have on like your love handles and like 388 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 2: the softness of your belly. Like that was the late 389 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 2: night pizza, that was the glass of champagne, that was 390 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 2: the ice cream that you shared with your bestie. Like 391 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: these are all like your memories and all the fun 392 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 2: things that you're doing, so you should be loving them 393 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: and remembering, like seeing them as like mementos of all 394 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 2: the fun and stuff you've done, not like trying to 395 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 2: be this like unrealistic. I suppose in quotation marks like 396 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,719 Speaker 2: body or having like an unrealistic expectation of your body. 397 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 2: And I do definitely agree. We went through like a 398 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 2: crazy time where if you didn't have like a six 399 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 2: pack or a crazy transformational photo, you weren't relevant. And 400 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 2: it's awesome to see like this movement changing of people 401 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 2: just accepting their bodies and loving their bodies in whatever 402 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 2: shape and size they come in. And it's exciting to 403 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 2: see that people are hopefully having a little bit more 404 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 2: of a balanced attitude around the whole thing. 405 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 1: I resonated with what you said about that post. I 406 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: come from a background where I wasn't necessarily diagnosed, but 407 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: I definitely had body and food issues where I was 408 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 1: so restrictive. I had the six pack. That's where my 409 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: following came from. And you know, I was so health 410 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: and fitness orientated, because it's kind of like I was 411 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: stuck in this tunnel and then now I'm probably like 412 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: ten kilos heavier than my leaner self, which was definitely underweight, 413 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: And like I get questions about people from people saying, oh, 414 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 1: you know, do you wish you were as lean as 415 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: you were back in the day, And I'm like, no way, 416 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:15,919 Speaker 1: because if I think back to my mental state, to 417 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 1: my lifestyle, to the stress and anxiety I used to 418 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: used to feel every single day around food, about how 419 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: I looked around exercise, like I was not living my 420 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 1: life and I was so stuck in this like tunnel 421 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: where I thought that was right, and I look back 422 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, nowhere in hell I would want 423 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: to be back there in that body if it meant 424 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 1: I had to live that life. 425 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: I had a very similar experience to you, but I 426 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 2: was a lot younger. I was like sixteen, so I 427 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 2: was in high school. So Instagram didn't exist back then, 428 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 2: thank god. But like something I'd like to add is that, 429 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 2: like I think that would be so hard for you 430 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 2: building a following off that and then being like, oh shit, 431 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 2: this is actually really unhealthy with what I'm doing I 432 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 2: need to make a change, but then having the guts 433 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 2: to like, you know, have your body change and have 434 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 2: yourself put on weight, but be comfortable with that and 435 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 2: also share that. I think that's such a positive experience 436 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 2: and it makes me sad to see so many girls 437 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 2: on Instagram who are definitely really underweight or what's there's 438 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 2: a term for. I think it's like anorexia athletica or 439 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 2: something like that, where they're like, it's like being anorexic, 440 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 2: but I don't know that it's there's like a it's 441 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 2: something like that, but where they're just so obsessed with sport, 442 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: it's so obsessed with getting athletic. I think it might 443 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 2: be called an anorexia athletica. I don't know, but like 444 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 2: there's so many different. 445 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like I definitely like, like I said, I wasn't diagnosed, 446 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: but I don't think I was anorexic, but I think 447 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: I was orthorexic. And of that is where you have 448 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: this intention that everything that you do and eat must 449 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: be healthy, so you do like orthorexic is kind of 450 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: like and I used to do this myself, Like you know, 451 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: you're looking at recipes and it has to be gluten free, refined, 452 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: sugar free, green free, all the Yeah, but you'd do food, 453 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: but you'd make sure it's like the healthiest possible. It's 454 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 1: definitely like I was in that bubble. 455 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah nah, but thank you. 456 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 1: I appreciate that. And then yeah, just touching on what 457 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: you said, I feel for other influencers who have created, 458 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 1: you know, that platform off fitness and health and it 459 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: is now changing and it would be extremely hard because 460 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: I went for a time and I want to ask 461 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,679 Speaker 1: a shoe about this after, but I went through a 462 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: time where my body was finding back against being so 463 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: restrictive and having to look a certain way, and I 464 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 1: felt very stuck in having to be a certain person 465 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: and look a certain way for you know, my Instagram. 466 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 1: Did you ever go through a time in your life, 467 00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 1: whether it being for djaying or you know, the where 468 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:01,919 Speaker 1: you look where you felt like you had to be 469 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 1: someone you weren't. 470 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: Massively, so it didn't so much happen about body image 471 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,680 Speaker 2: because by the time I was DJing, I was lucky 472 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,879 Speaker 2: enough to have worked through with like a psychologist and 473 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 2: a hypnotherapist and all these people to sort out my 474 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: body issues. But it was actually to do with like 475 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: identity and in particular to do with my hair color. 476 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 2: So I used to have my hair would be like 477 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:29,919 Speaker 2: actually blue, like dyed blue. It would be yeah, naturally blue. 478 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 2: And I remember I was I was on like a 479 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 2: massive tool, like three months away from home, and my 480 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 2: hair all the blue had pretty much watched out and 481 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 2: it was like this really cool, like gray color, and 482 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 2: I was so happy with that. I was like, Wow, 483 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 2: I finally kind of can see like myself again. It 484 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 2: was like I'd been like hiding for years. And then 485 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: my manager at the time was like, all right, I 486 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 2: found you a hair salon. You're gonna go here and 487 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 2: get your hair dyed, blah blah blah. So I was like, oh, okay, fine, 488 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 2: and I went and got my hair dyed back to blue. 489 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,439 Speaker 2: And I remember coming home and just went back to 490 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 2: my apartment in New York and like calling my mum balling, 491 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: being like this isn't me. I don't want this. I 492 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 2: hate this, it's ugly, it's not who I am. I 493 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 2: feel trapped. Like literally, I was so upset, and it's 494 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 2: crazy to think I was so upset about just having 495 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 2: my hair dyed, but that was definitely a massive way 496 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 2: for me. Yeah, because I just thought that, like, people 497 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 2: wouldn't care if I didn't have crazy colorful hair, and 498 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 2: I thought that I felt actually really trapped, And I 499 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 2: think it was a combination of probably being in a 500 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 2: bad management deal and being away from home for so 501 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 2: long and being incredibly tired and probably quite physically unwell, 502 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 2: and then on top of that, not feeling like I 503 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 2: had the power to make the decisions about how I looked, 504 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 2: and that was really Yeah, it was an awful experience 505 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: to have, I suppose, And so that's kind of why 506 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 2: I went back to natural hair color and started to 507 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 2: wear wigs, was because it meant that I would have 508 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 2: like my own life during the week or during when 509 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 2: I chose to. And it also meant that I could 510 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 2: step into my DJ self, which kind of relates back 511 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,199 Speaker 2: to the kind of two sides of my personality thing 512 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 2: that we were speaking about earlier. And that was really 513 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 2: empowering for me, because now I have a choice, and 514 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 2: I feel empowered by my wigs and my show persona 515 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 2: that personality, but I also know that I can be myself, 516 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 2: and being yourself is so empowering, and it's crazy to 517 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 2: think that for such a long time, I didn't let 518 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 2: that shine through. So I think so many young women 519 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 2: and men as well struggle with these issues. Especially now 520 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 2: that we have social media. There's definitely a huge expectation to, 521 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 2: you know, keep up appearances, and I hate to think 522 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 2: what that has driven people to do. You know, when 523 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 2: you think about things, it blows my mind. 524 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: I know, it's funny. Me and my husband actually watched 525 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: an episode of you know, the TV series Black Mirror. 526 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,719 Speaker 1: Oh yes, and I'm like, I'm a person who hates 527 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: creepy scary movies, like I refuse to watch them. But 528 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,680 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I'll watch it. I didn't 529 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,959 Speaker 1: think it's that scary, and it wasn't that scary, but 530 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: it was so disturbing all about just like disturbing things 531 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: to do with technology. And then me and Tim were 532 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: talking in bed and he was saying, He's like, don't 533 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: you think it's so crazy how much our lives have 534 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 1: changed because of technology. If you think about, you know, 535 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 1: your parents' life at your age, obviously it would be 536 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,479 Speaker 1: very different for you because you're a DTA, but you know, 537 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: just in general, how much our lives have changed. And 538 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 1: it's even you were saying you didn't have social media 539 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: when you were sixteen. Like, imagine now being a young 540 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:51,959 Speaker 1: girl and having social media, having all these feelings of 541 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,959 Speaker 1: having to fit in and the pressures. And it's so 542 00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: crazy to think how much life has changed because you know, 543 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: social media and technology. I don't know, it's. 544 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,719 Speaker 2: Really scary to think what's going to happen when I 545 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 2: have kids. I don't know how I'm going to deal 546 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 2: with it, like move to a different planet. I don't know. 547 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: So like it is huge, Like to think of the 548 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 2: issues that me and all my friends went through when 549 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 2: we were in high school. And look, don't get me wrong, 550 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 2: we had MySpace, but like that was about it. You 551 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 2: had like twenty friends, and you know, you didn't follow 552 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 2: anyone famous really maybe a few bands that you liked, 553 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 2: but that would be about it. And I think that 554 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: it's really we're going to see some massive scary stats 555 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 2: in the next five to ten years about what these 556 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 2: platforms like Facebook and Instagram and snapchat are doing two 557 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 2: young people's mental health. Actually, I was only in the 558 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 2: club on Saturday night. I was doing I Agree with 559 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 2: some people and all these girls were like taking snapchat 560 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,239 Speaker 2: like photos. I don't have snapchare anymore. I got rid 561 00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 2: of Ages Ago just because I know it choos Internet. Yeah, 562 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: one hundred percent, that's why I got rid of it. 563 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh god, I can't. 564 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 2: Deal with this platforms. It's just too much. Yeah, right, 565 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 2: so just kind of consolidated. But these filters, we're taking 566 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 2: these photos and it didn't even look like us. It 567 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 2: was a craziest thing, and like they were obsessed with 568 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 2: this one one in particular that it had their little 569 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 2: stars above your head. And I was like, oh my god, 570 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 2: It's made my eyes look bigger, my nose look smaller, 571 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 2: my face looks skinnier, my lips look bigger, like I 572 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 2: look like a Barbie, but like creepy contort your face. Yeah, 573 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 2: it's messed up. Oh my god. And like just to 574 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: think that that's what these apps are telling them is cute, 575 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 2: and like they all look like like Kim Kardashian, really 576 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 2: like clones. It was crazy, and like, don't get me wrong, 577 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 2: I love Kimmy Kay, but we don't all need to 578 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 2: look like her. We can all look different. 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I was actually reading 608 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: an article and they were saying, don't you think it's 609 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: funny how a lot of the famous people we look 610 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: up to, like Kim Kardashim, like Gigi Hadid and like 611 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: her sister and Kylie Jenner, that all their faces, if 612 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: you actually put them together, they all look so similar 613 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: in regards to the like the portions of like their 614 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: nose and cheeks and all that sort of thing. And 615 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,479 Speaker 1: I thought, it's so true. It's like we're trying to 616 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: conform and this is the exact same thing with the filters. 617 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,959 Speaker 1: It's like we're trying to conform to one look and 618 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: I just do not get it. And it's like it's 619 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 1: a little bit scary because it's almost in a sneaky way, 620 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: like you almost don't really fully see it until you 621 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: start talking about these sorts of things. But I just 622 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 1: wanted to go back to when you were chatting about 623 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: when you went through your kind of identity crisis with 624 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: your hair and back to feeling empowered. Do you have 625 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: anything that you personally do when you want to get back, 626 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: I guess back with your intuition in to feel empowered 627 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 1: and to feel yourself. Is there any practices you do 628 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 1: or anything like that. 629 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's so many different things that I do. And 630 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 2: I think now is a really beautiful time for me 631 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 2: to share with you because I've just come back from 632 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 2: being away overseas and I feel frazzled and all over 633 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 2: the place, and you know, you're a bit jet lagged. 634 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 2: You've been working constantly for twos so this is kind 635 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 2: of what I've been doing the past couple of days, 636 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 2: and like things like this really help. So for me, 637 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 2: the first thing is like spending time with my family 638 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,240 Speaker 2: and my partner and my dog. Of course my friends 639 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 2: as well, but I suppose my family and my partner 640 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 2: are the main ones in that they like really bring 641 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 2: me back down to earth and they just remind you 642 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 2: of who you are and where you belong and the 643 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 2: fact that I do belong, and they for me are 644 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,800 Speaker 2: what's really important. They're the reason that I go overseas 645 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 2: and I work and you know, I do all these 646 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 2: crazy late nights. It's, you know, to provide for myself 647 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 2: or my partner and obviously like our future children and stuff. 648 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 2: So that's the first thing. The second thing is making 649 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 2: sure my physical body is in line, because when it's not, 650 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 2: my mental state isn't so sleeping. I work out. I 651 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 2: do CrossFit at the moment, which I'm loving. I eat 652 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 2: a vegan diet, which is also I've been eating amazing 653 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 2: beautiful home cooked food the last couple of days. I 654 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:07,439 Speaker 2: do infrared saunas, which I really love. I also use 655 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: essential oils, so I use them in a whole heap 656 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:13,280 Speaker 2: of different ways to assist my emotions and my sleep 657 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 2: routine or my energy if I'm feeling a little bit 658 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 2: of a lull in the afternoon. And then something that 659 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 2: I also love to do is I have a reiki practitioner. 660 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 2: Her name is Katrina, and she works in Sydney and 661 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 2: she's amazing. So if ever i'm feeling and I often 662 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 2: feel like this when I get off a plane, if 663 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 2: ever I'm feeling like frazzled, I'll go and have a 664 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 2: session with her because I know people like lull about 665 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,799 Speaker 2: like having your chakras aligned and your energy cleared out 666 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 2: and stuff. But like she actually works, Like I don't 667 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 2: know what she does, but whatever she does, it feels 668 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 2: like someone has got a non toxic of course health 669 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,840 Speaker 2: ord cleaner and just like cleaned through my entire body 670 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: and soul. And it's really awesome to have her as 671 00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 2: well as all these other techniques and things that I 672 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 2: just mention and at my disposal because I kind of 673 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 2: have like a go to DIY kit of how to 674 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 2: kind of hone in on my true self again when 675 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 2: I am feeling frazzled. And I think that's something that 676 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 2: I would really suggest that people do, is find people 677 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 2: and routines and practices and exercise and food and even 678 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,879 Speaker 2: practitioners that you really resonate with and that work for you, 679 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 2: because it's important to know what to do when you're 680 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 2: not feeling yourself. 681 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: I personally haven't had Breaki, but I get acupunctial. 682 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 2: Oh. I love acupuncture to so good. 683 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, I don't know how it works, but 684 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:39,760 Speaker 1: it works. 685 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 2: It does. If ever you're in Sydney, hit me up 686 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 2: and I'll get you in touch with my girl because 687 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,360 Speaker 2: she is. Yeah, she's amazing, so cool. 688 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 1: I would love that. I definitely love very much into 689 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: alternative medicine, and I have a natural path and an 690 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 1: acupuncturist and all that good stuff. But you spoke a 691 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 1: lot so much any good tools in there. By the way, 692 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 1: thank you so much for sharing that with the Riz 693 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 1: and Coner audience. And I want to chat more about 694 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 1: those specifically. So you have obviously mentioned that you are vegan. 695 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,839 Speaker 1: Go into a little bit why you became vegan and 696 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: was that something like a conscious effort or something that 697 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: happened organically for you. 698 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 2: I want to start talking about this topic by taking 699 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 2: it back like twenty plus years when I was like 700 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 2: five or four years old. I remember sitting at the 701 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 2: dining table at Christmas and Mum put like the meat 702 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 2: on our plate. I don't remember what it was. Let's 703 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 2: just say it was turkey, and for some reason whatsoever, 704 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 2: I really didn't want to eat it. And so what 705 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 2: I did I like chewed put it in my mouth 706 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 2: and like would pretend to chew it, and then I 707 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 2: would spit it out under my chair. Anyway, at the 708 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 2: end of the meal, obviously everyone got up from the 709 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 2: family and there was a big pile of like meat 710 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 2: under my table, and I remember I got in so 711 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 2: much trouble and was also embarrassed that I'd done that. 712 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 2: But for whatever reason, I don't know, because I was 713 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 2: so young, I just didn't want to eat it. And 714 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 2: it's crazy. I remember my mom saying I remember saying 715 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 2: I want to be vegetarian. My mom saying, no, when 716 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,840 Speaker 2: you're older and you're cooking for yourself, you can do 717 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 2: whatever you want. And so it's really interesting how like 718 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,280 Speaker 2: in tune, I think I was when I was younger, 719 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 2: and then through cultural and social practices and stuff, I 720 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 2: just kind of lost that, which is really sad. And 721 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,760 Speaker 2: it wasn't until I was like in my early twenties 722 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 2: that I started to come to again and really put 723 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 2: the pieces of the puzzle together and really become conscious 724 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 2: and awake as to the whole food chain thing, if 725 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 2: you will. So when I was probably maybe twenty two, 726 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 2: I started to think about being vegetarian. I had a 727 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 2: couple of my cousins. They'd been vegio their whole lives, 728 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 2: and they'd started to explore veganism and I really looked 729 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 2: up to them and they were a really nice source 730 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 2: of positive energy and information, which was really cool. To 731 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 2: have people like that that I could look up to. 732 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,879 Speaker 2: And I remember having a conversation in particular with one 733 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 2: of my cousins. She's amazing. I adore her so much, 734 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 2: and I always talk about her when people ask me 735 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 2: this question. She has been like vegan for ages. She's 736 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,439 Speaker 2: really into her yoga. She's crazy, and that she loves 737 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 2: to explore crazy elements of things. I e. I remember 738 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 2: at one point in time she was giving a go monofruitarian, 739 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 2: which is where you just eat one fruit for like 740 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 2: a week, and then the next week you eat another fruit. Anyway, 741 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 2: she didn't do it for a long period of time, 742 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,919 Speaker 2: but she enjoyed it and thought it was a great 743 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 2: study to see how her body would react eating the 744 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,879 Speaker 2: same food for a period of time. It's so cool, 745 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,240 Speaker 2: she said. It was amazing, and she said her digestion 746 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,280 Speaker 2: and energy and sleep and everything was wonderful. But obviously 747 00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 2: it's not particularly sustainable for long term thing anyway. So 748 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 2: I remember having a really beautiful conversation with her on 749 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,799 Speaker 2: New Year's Eve one night before I was going to 750 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 2: a show. And this was at a time where I 751 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 2: was like overworked, I was drinking too much, was partying 752 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,400 Speaker 2: too much. I was traveling too much. I definitely was 753 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 2: eating a whole lot of shit. And I just remember 754 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 2: sitting across the table from her and she was just glowing, 755 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god, I want to 756 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 2: be like that. Why am I like this? And why 757 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 2: is she like that? And we're talking about her vegan diet, 758 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,320 Speaker 2: and I just was like picking a brain and asking 759 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 2: her questions. And I decided from then on, I was 760 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,479 Speaker 2: going to cut meat out of my diet. So first 761 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 2: of all, I went pescatarian, so I was still consuming 762 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:47,240 Speaker 2: fish and seafood product, and a little after that, I 763 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 2: cut that out of my diet, and so I was 764 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:53,359 Speaker 2: just having dairy and eggs. And then one day I 765 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,839 Speaker 2: was just like, all right, I'm ready, it's time, and 766 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 2: I moved to a strictly plant based diet and I have, like, 767 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 2: honestly never looked back. It's been the number one best 768 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,359 Speaker 2: thing that I've ever done for myself and probably ever 769 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 2: will do for myself, because it changed so much for me. 770 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 2: It changed my relationship with my body, changed my relationship 771 00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 2: with food, It changed my relationship with people, with the world, 772 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 2: with animals, with how I think about consuming, with how 773 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 2: I think of everything. Really, it's pretty crazy because I 774 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 2: just started to explore this avenue of lifestyle and living 775 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,399 Speaker 2: because of health. You know, I was sitting across from 776 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,399 Speaker 2: my cousin looking at her glowing and feeling so full 777 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 2: of health, and I was on the other side of 778 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 2: the table feeling worse for wear. It's interesting that I 779 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 2: think this happens to a lot of vegans or people 780 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 2: who have a plant based diet, is that they go 781 00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 2: in thinking that they're just going to do it for 782 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 2: health reasons, and then, however it happens, they end up 783 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 2: becoming invested in the other reasons as well. So before 784 00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,880 Speaker 2: you ask me any other questions, I quickly explained that 785 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 2: there's three main tiers of veganism for people out there 786 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,479 Speaker 2: who don't know that much about it. So the first tier, 787 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:11,320 Speaker 2: I suppose, is health, the second tier is the environment, 788 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 2: and the third tier is the animal rights. And so 789 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 2: for me, I kind of went in at tier one 790 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 2: thinking just about the health thing, and for now me, 791 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 2: at this point in time, the main reason why I 792 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 2: do it is for the animal rights. Definitely still care 793 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 2: about health and the environment, but if I had to 794 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 2: order them, the animal rights would definitely be the first one. 795 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,279 Speaker 2: So it's a really cool community to be a part of. 796 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,280 Speaker 2: And as I said before, like it has literally changed 797 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 2: my life, turned it on its head for the better, 798 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,040 Speaker 2: and like, yeah, I'd give up anything for that now. 799 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 2: Because when you see something I suppose have such a 800 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,040 Speaker 2: positive impact on not only your life but everything around you, 801 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 2: you can't help but just be like so grateful for it. 802 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,960 Speaker 1: That's so beautiful, it's so lovely. What you said about 803 00:42:56,080 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 1: it kind of was intuitive for you to come out 804 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,759 Speaker 1: to these decisions. It's actually funny. I wasn't going to 805 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 1: say this, but I was thinking that. Yes on podcast, 806 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,360 Speaker 1: they like the Rise and Conker audience, no stuff before tim. 807 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,280 Speaker 2: Ah, that's amazing. I love that so much. 808 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 1: I just get into the conversation. But it's funny you 809 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,359 Speaker 1: say that because I've grown up in a family where 810 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,719 Speaker 1: it was very much, you know, meat and vegetables. I 811 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: have three older brothers and a dad, and they are 812 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:35,040 Speaker 1: all big meat eaters, and I definitely didn't really think 813 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 1: anything of it. So that's how I've grown up, and 814 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 1: it's really funny. But recently, like literally just maybe in 815 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,240 Speaker 1: the last couple of months, I found this really cool 816 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:47,400 Speaker 1: vegetarian cafe where I live, and I've just been like 817 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,800 Speaker 1: loving having vegetarian meals and being like, oh, like it's 818 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 1: actually fine when I don't have meat for me. I'm 819 00:43:56,040 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 1: realizing that it's just more habit like because I've just 820 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,080 Speaker 1: been in habit my whole entire life rather than for 821 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,319 Speaker 1: whatever reason. And I've really been like interested in kind 822 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: of exploring the space more and like following more vegetarian 823 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,480 Speaker 1: vegan people and just kind of like, I don't want 824 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 1: to say anything because I'm a person like if I 825 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 1: was to ever say, oh, you know, I'm growing a 826 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,239 Speaker 1: vegetarian or vegan, like I had to do it, I 827 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 1: don't want to say anything like that. But I do 828 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 1: enjoy listening to other people talk about the intuitive side 829 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: because at the moment, I don't feel pushed or anything. 830 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 1: But it's kind of just like this weird thing happening 831 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,919 Speaker 1: in my body where I'm like drawn to it more. 832 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain it. 833 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 2: That's you literally explained it to a tea, like you 834 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 2: don't need to say anything else. And I think it's 835 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 2: actually a really beautiful exciting stage to be in because 836 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 2: there's so much incredible information out there and there's so 837 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 2: much amazing food for you to try. Wow, I'm excited 838 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 2: for you. And I think it's something that happens as 839 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 2: we get older, like we start to question what we've 840 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 2: been taught, and we really start to listen into our 841 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 2: bodies and what our bodies tell us, because ultimately, our 842 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 2: bodies know what's best for us. And it kind of 843 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 2: becomes quite hard to ignore it, especially when the information 844 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 2: is becoming more and more readily available about how bad 845 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,760 Speaker 2: animal product is for your health and how great plant 846 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,880 Speaker 2: based living is, and you know, all the stuff to 847 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,800 Speaker 2: do with the climate change and of course most importantly 848 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,760 Speaker 2: the animal rights. Like it's it does get quite difficult 849 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,839 Speaker 2: not to listen, especially with social media these days. And 850 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,919 Speaker 2: I think once again, as we get older, we start 851 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 2: to become more in tune with what's important to us. 852 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,480 Speaker 2: And I think naturally, being women, we are generally drawn 853 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 2: to being compassionate toward other people and of course other 854 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:50,520 Speaker 2: animals and our bodies as well. So there's so many 855 00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:54,880 Speaker 2: different elements which kind of are just drawn from intuition. 856 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,359 Speaker 2: And it's nice to hear you say that. I think 857 00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 2: you should just really enjoy this time. Like there's so 858 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:03,279 Speaker 2: many fun podcasts out there and so many great recipes 859 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:06,360 Speaker 2: and cool cafes and bits and pieces. I was the 860 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 2: same as you came from, like a meat and veg family, 861 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 2: and it can be kind of confronting at some points, 862 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:15,960 Speaker 2: like you know, working your way through the relationships and 863 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:20,720 Speaker 2: the cultural expectations and our cultural relationship with meat and 864 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 2: the consumption of animal product. But I think that it's 865 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 2: super exciting that you're even having these thoughts because you know, 866 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,640 Speaker 2: you've got such a huge audience and so many young 867 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 2: men and women like tuned into what you're doing. It's 868 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,279 Speaker 2: really cool to be able to just share such good 869 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,960 Speaker 2: information with them, because which is something that we may 870 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 2: talk about at some point as well, Like there's so 871 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:46,640 Speaker 2: many influencers out there who are not thinking about these 872 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,920 Speaker 2: things and are just thinking about their bank accounts. And 873 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 2: I think it's really beautiful and really valuable to have 874 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 2: people like you out there who are even just thinking 875 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 2: about these topics or having experiences where you do go 876 00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 2: to a vegger or a vegan restaurant and you really 877 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,160 Speaker 2: enjoy it. It's awesome, so so cool. 878 00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 1: It's funny because I definitely and I'm just gonna be 879 00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 1: very frank and honest, I personally haven't watched any of 880 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: the animal rights videos or anything like that, because I 881 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,880 Speaker 1: know the person I am. If I were to, I 882 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 1: would have to like literally straight away go vegan, because 883 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 1: I just I know, and I am saying that, like 884 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 1: I feel really bad because it's almost like in my head, 885 00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm just I'm not at the point yet, 886 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 1: Like I'm just like I'm not strong enough. Things are 887 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,319 Speaker 1: so hectic in my life, like I don't need one 888 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: more fee to dress and deal with, which I know 889 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,439 Speaker 1: is like so selfish, But I do enjoy the fact 890 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,960 Speaker 1: that I intuitively just like, oh, like you know, I'm hungry, 891 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 1: instead of going to my usual place, like I just 892 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 1: want to check out this like vegetarian or vegan place. 893 00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,800 Speaker 1: And I think also for me, it has to feel 894 00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 1: like my choice rather than a choice getting pushed on me, 895 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 1: if that makes sense. 896 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,759 Speaker 2: It's very important that the decision comes from within you, 897 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 2: because it is. It can be challenging for many reasons, 898 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 2: and there are lots of changes to make and to 899 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:20,239 Speaker 2: think about, so you have to definitely want to do 900 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 2: it yourself. You can't be pushed into it. I think 901 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,879 Speaker 2: that's really great that you've been able to recognize that too. 902 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,800 Speaker 1: I just know from all past habits that's that's something 903 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:30,719 Speaker 1: very big to me. If I do want to make 904 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,240 Speaker 1: some sort of big change, it definitely has to come 905 00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 1: from within rather than having me feeling like. 906 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:37,239 Speaker 2: I have to. 907 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: That's interesting that you said about, you know, I do 908 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 1: have this space in this platform, and so do you 909 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 1: as an influencer, and I absolutely love that. And I 910 00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,840 Speaker 1: guess what came to mind first of all is what 911 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 1: I spoke to you about priestly of you know, I 912 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:57,760 Speaker 1: had this platform where I said a lot of things 913 00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:04,319 Speaker 1: about restricting food and doing these crazy cardio exercises, and 914 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 1: it was funny. Maybe six months ago I actually put 915 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:12,320 Speaker 1: a post up and I said, I'm actually really sorry 916 00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 1: for some of my past my posts and what I 917 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 1: put out there telling you guys and influencing you guys 918 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 1: as an influencer, because now looking back, I realized how 919 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:27,200 Speaker 1: detrimental that could have been to someone not in a 920 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,320 Speaker 1: good place. And I mentally was not in a good place, 921 00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,320 Speaker 1: but I just like I couldn't see what was happening. 922 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 1: But now looking back, I realized and I wanted to 923 00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,680 Speaker 1: like say it to be like, I realized that what 924 00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: I said previously, you know, was not in line and 925 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: could have been detrimental. But like, now knowing what I 926 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: know now, like I promised to keep pushing and keep 927 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:54,760 Speaker 1: questioning everything and just being very conscious because I feel 928 00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 1: like a lot of influencers out there, they talk about things, 929 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,640 Speaker 1: and you know, it is kind of it's this weird 930 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 1: space because you know, we are this is our personal lives. 931 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 1: We should be able to express ourselves. But I feel 932 00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: like if you do have an influence where you have 933 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:16,360 Speaker 1: all these eyes on you, especially young girls who are 934 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 1: very impressionable or young males like you do have a 935 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:24,520 Speaker 1: responsibility to really filter what you put out there. Do 936 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 1: you sort of agree what your opinion? 937 00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 2: Oh, oh my god, one hundred percent? Like I know that 938 00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 2: these accounts are our lives, Yes, they definitely are, but 939 00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:37,080 Speaker 2: like there's such filtered versions of our lives. And I 940 00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,319 Speaker 2: think as soon as you start to have even just 941 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,440 Speaker 2: a small following, you have a massive social responsibility to 942 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 2: do the right thing by yourself and by followers and 943 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 2: by the world at large. And it's crazy to see 944 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 2: so many, even Australian influencers just like mindlessly engaging with 945 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,839 Speaker 2: companies that like, oh, something that's irked me lately is 946 00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:06,000 Speaker 2: a lot of girls working with like companies that still 947 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,880 Speaker 2: test on animals, and it's something that I think we 948 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,880 Speaker 2: can all agree on is not okay whether you're vegan 949 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:16,239 Speaker 2: or not. And these companies have big, big checkbooks, you know, 950 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 2: and so it's obviously very tempting for these young women. 951 00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 2: They get paid a lot of money to do this stuff. 952 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,520 Speaker 2: But realistically, I think what's way more important than having 953 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,319 Speaker 2: a large number in your bank account is to have 954 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,759 Speaker 2: a social responsibility to teach the young women following you, 955 00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:34,040 Speaker 2: like what is important and what's actually happening, because they're 956 00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,120 Speaker 2: not going to think about these things. You know. When 957 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 2: I was sixteen, I didn't even know animal testing was 958 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,319 Speaker 2: really a thing. I didn't even know it existed. So 959 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 2: I'm excited for the future in that I hope that 960 00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:49,360 Speaker 2: conscious influencing is going to become a lot more prevalent. 961 00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:51,759 Speaker 2: But I do think it's going to take quite a 962 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 2: long time, even for myself, Like it's taken a lot 963 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:59,360 Speaker 2: of back and forth conversations with my different agents explaining 964 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,520 Speaker 2: to them what brands I'm willing to engage with and 965 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 2: what brands I'm not willing to engage with. And why 966 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,239 Speaker 2: that is. And I think it's quite difficult for them 967 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 2: to understand when they just see a dollar sign. But 968 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 2: for me, obviously it's more important to be sharing true 969 00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:20,400 Speaker 2: positive information with my audience that they can really relate to, 970 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,880 Speaker 2: and also to be like a reliable source of information 971 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 2: for my audience. So if they, you know, want to 972 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,319 Speaker 2: find out a beauty product that they can use, they 973 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 2: could go to my account and be like, Okay, she 974 00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:35,280 Speaker 2: uses that, that's safe to use. Awesome. So I definitely 975 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,440 Speaker 2: think we also have a responsibility as well on the 976 00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 2: mental health side of things, which kind of links into 977 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,640 Speaker 2: all of that, and we could talk about you know, 978 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,200 Speaker 2: like face tune apps and all that stuff for days. 979 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 2: But yes, we definitely do have responsibility, a big one. 980 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,880 Speaker 1: I love how you're coming from this and such like 981 00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 1: an all side thing. And I also think like, sometimes 982 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,200 Speaker 1: there's stuff in my life that I don't want to say. 983 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: It's not like anything that bad or anything, but I 984 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 1: maybe haven't stopped doing something, but I am very conscious 985 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,400 Speaker 1: of I just won't put that on my account because 986 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,280 Speaker 1: I think about you, like I don't just think about 987 00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,799 Speaker 1: another girl my age. It's like you've got to think 988 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 1: about the girls who are literally like, you know, twelve thirteen, 989 00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 1: even younger or you know, like older women or anything 990 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 1: like that. Like it's it's just such a thing as 991 00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:36,200 Speaker 1: having responsibility to not just think that what you promote 992 00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:37,400 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. 993 00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 2: One hundred percent, because even if you have a thousand followers, 994 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:45,360 Speaker 2: that's still like a thousand people that you are sharing 995 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,840 Speaker 2: a message with. A thousand people in real life is 996 00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 2: a lot of people. If you gather a thousand people together, 997 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,480 Speaker 2: that's pretty massive. And I think when you think about 998 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 2: like the number of people that we both have following us, 999 00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 2: it's like if you added it up, it's like a 1000 00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 2: million people. It's a lot of people to be talking to, 1001 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,799 Speaker 2: you know. And I think it's really important that you're 1002 00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 2: thinking about these things. It's awesome because I don't think 1003 00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:08,480 Speaker 2: many people do. 1004 00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 1: One hundred percent. And just something that kind of popped 1005 00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:16,239 Speaker 1: into my brain there. I own a natural like supplement 1006 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 1: company with my brother, and it is fully vegan, and 1007 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,360 Speaker 1: even though we're not vegan, we just like our packaging 1008 00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 1: is sustainable and it's vegan and all that sort of thing. 1009 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,279 Speaker 1: And I actually had a girl dmme and she kind 1010 00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,800 Speaker 1: of had a dig and she was like saying something 1011 00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 1: about the price, and it's very like it is in 1012 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:38,279 Speaker 1: the right target price for our first product was a 1013 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:41,080 Speaker 1: pre workout, and I explained to her, I was like, 1014 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 1: this is an all natural pre workout, Like we went 1015 00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: through so many like testing in stages that there's no fellers, 1016 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 1: there's no like crap we paid extra money for, like 1017 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:55,799 Speaker 1: you know, the sustainable packaging, and like we like, it's 1018 00:54:55,840 --> 00:55:02,080 Speaker 1: really hard because it is so much easier to go cheaper, 1019 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,239 Speaker 1: to go non sustainable, to go non vegan and all 1020 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:09,239 Speaker 1: that sort of things. So it's really hard because we're 1021 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:14,240 Speaker 1: kind of in this time where people want quick, fast, cheap, 1022 00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 1: and so it's kind of finding this balance and kind 1023 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 1: of being like, okay, so what do you care about 1024 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 1: in the long. 1025 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:25,360 Speaker 2: Scheme of things. 1026 00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,680 Speaker 1: So it is really it's really hard to sort of 1027 00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:31,760 Speaker 1: be conscious and think about these things altogether. 1028 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,400 Speaker 2: Honestly, hats off to you guys for doing that, because 1029 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 2: you could have gone and the other route. And like, 1030 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:40,960 Speaker 2: there have been so many influences these days that have 1031 00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,600 Speaker 2: been releasing products that like aren't sustainable and or vegan, 1032 00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:48,560 Speaker 2: and I know they've copped so much shit online because 1033 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:52,120 Speaker 2: of that, especially when you're trying to promote like a healthy, sustainable, 1034 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 2: happy lifestyle and next minute you've got like, I don't know, 1035 00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,239 Speaker 2: plastic and also like way product or whatever, and it's like, 1036 00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 2: what are you doing? Oh my god. 1037 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like because I confounded it with my brother when 1038 00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,239 Speaker 1: we were talking about this, like we both agreed straight 1039 00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,160 Speaker 1: off the bat, like even though we're both not vegan, 1040 00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,359 Speaker 1: we're like, this is the way of the future, like 1041 00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:16,000 Speaker 1: we just know, and it is so much about being 1042 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,400 Speaker 1: conscious and I think I think that's so true, Like 1043 00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm a person who does promote this like healthy and 1044 00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,399 Speaker 1: happier life, and it would just be such it would 1045 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,879 Speaker 1: just be funny if I tried to bring out something that. Yeah, 1046 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,440 Speaker 1: I didn't have those sort of backgrounds or. 1047 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,319 Speaker 2: Points totally, But I love that you're thinking about that 1048 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,560 Speaker 2: and talking about that as well, because it totally is 1049 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 2: the way of the future in my opinion anyway, and 1050 00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 2: I think it's going to take a while for a 1051 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 2: lot of brands to catch up. So it's super amazing 1052 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 2: that you guys have just done that from the get go. 1053 00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 2: So awesome. 1054 00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I totally agree with that too, and I'm 1055 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,840 Speaker 1: glad that is happening. Like I actually saw something the 1056 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,080 Speaker 1: other day, I'm going to total, I'm going to butcher 1057 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,920 Speaker 1: the saying, but it's kind of like the saying of 1058 00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,360 Speaker 1: if you can't do everything, it is just good to 1059 00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,400 Speaker 1: be conscious and do things where you can. So just 1060 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:09,399 Speaker 1: because I'm not vegan, I very much in my supplements 1061 00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:13,960 Speaker 1: that I consume, I very much try and choose, uh, 1062 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 1: you know, vegan options. And I'm actually someone who I 1063 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 1: try and have one meat dish a day and then 1064 00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:23,960 Speaker 1: the rest I'll do like a vegan and vegetarian. So 1065 00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 1: if I have the option of a protein powder between 1066 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,480 Speaker 1: you know, vegan of way, like, it's just very obvious me. 1067 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 1: Obvious to me because there is not much tastes difference 1068 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:36,080 Speaker 1: that I would just choose the vegan option of that. 1069 00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 2: Totally. You reminded me of another post, which I of 1070 00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:41,680 Speaker 2: course can't remember where I was from. It's like one 1071 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:45,320 Speaker 2: of those like Twitter memes, and it's like, hats off 1072 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,920 Speaker 2: to the person that's vegan, Hats off to the person 1073 00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,440 Speaker 2: that isn't but is trying to cut down on meat, 1074 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 2: Hats off to the person that you know takes their 1075 00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 2: recycle bag to the shop, Hats off to the person 1076 00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,440 Speaker 2: that forgot their recycle bag to the shop today, but 1077 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 2: you know, has invested in fricking recycled toilet paper or whatever. 1078 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,320 Speaker 2: And it was saying that, like, you don't need to 1079 00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 2: be perfect, but it was saying that, like, you know 1080 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 2: how talk to everyone who's trying, you know. And I 1081 00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:14,000 Speaker 2: think that's really important, especially when we're talking on a 1082 00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 2: platform like this as well, because it can be pretty 1083 00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:20,160 Speaker 2: overwhelming to say, change your whole life, do everything differently. 1084 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,600 Speaker 2: It's not about that. It's about, you know, making small, 1085 00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:26,439 Speaker 2: sustainable changes that will eventually over time add up. 1086 00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 1: Now I've realized I've taken up so much your time 1087 00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,960 Speaker 1: because we just went off some more. 1088 00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:33,680 Speaker 2: It's so fine, it's so fine. It's been awesome. 1089 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 1: You guys asked nothing. We were just like that would 1090 00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:44,280 Speaker 1: just so to wrap up this interview, I do have 1091 00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,640 Speaker 1: to ask you. I know you did chat about your 1092 00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 1: tools that you used and your essential oils and all 1093 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,720 Speaker 1: that good stuff. Can you really quickly go through your 1094 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 1: morning and night time routine because I'm very interested? 1095 00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:59,960 Speaker 2: Oh yes, okay, amazing. So this changes a lot depends 1096 00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,480 Speaker 2: on where I am, but I'm going to tell you 1097 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,919 Speaker 2: guys my morning routine if I'm at home, because that's 1098 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 2: when I like to when it's as perfect as I 1099 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,439 Speaker 2: could get it, I suppose, if that makes sense. So 1100 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:13,760 Speaker 2: when I wake up straight away, I have a bottle 1101 00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,840 Speaker 2: of water next to my bed, and while I'm having 1102 00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:18,840 Speaker 2: a bit of a snuggle with Scott, I try and, like, 1103 00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,600 Speaker 2: you know, drink the water bottle because I'm obviously super 1104 00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:25,200 Speaker 2: dehydrated after the night. Usually in my water bottle I 1105 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 2: have a drop of tangerine oil or lemon oil, and 1106 00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 2: that's really great because it kind of adds helps your 1107 00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,040 Speaker 2: body like detoxify all the crap that it's kind of 1108 00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:39,120 Speaker 2: been building up overnight. I suppose the oils that I 1109 00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,520 Speaker 2: use are a company called Young Living. I chat about 1110 00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,360 Speaker 2: it on my househole purpose page on Instagram if anyone 1111 00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,200 Speaker 2: is interested. So after I've had my bottle of water, 1112 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,040 Speaker 2: Scott's generally getting ready to go to work, I go 1113 00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 2: into the bathroom and I have a tongue scraper, so 1114 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 2: I scrape my tongue, which is very rewarding and disgusting 1115 00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:59,400 Speaker 2: at the same time, and I brush my teeth and 1116 00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,840 Speaker 2: take a shower. In summer, I actually have a cold shower. 1117 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 2: And I know it sounds a bit crazy, but it's 1118 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 2: really addictive and feels good. In winter, I don't I 1119 01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 2: have a hot shower just because it is too good 1120 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 2: not too I then generally take my dog for a walk. 1121 01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,840 Speaker 2: When I come back, I do put actually on my 1122 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 2: essential oils. I usually put something on in the morning 1123 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:27,480 Speaker 2: that's really grounding, like cedarwood or copa eba. And while 1124 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:31,040 Speaker 2: I'm doing that, I make myself a celery juice. And 1125 01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,240 Speaker 2: then kind of once I've had my celery juice, I 1126 01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:37,080 Speaker 2: start to go about planning my day. So whether it's 1127 01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,800 Speaker 2: like a rest day or I've got a big work 1128 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:42,600 Speaker 2: day full of meetings or whatever it looks like, but 1129 01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,320 Speaker 2: just spending like that hour in the morning, getting ready, 1130 01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,920 Speaker 2: walking my dog, getting out in nature, having my celery juice, 1131 01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,760 Speaker 2: rehydrating my body. That for me is like so good 1132 01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:54,000 Speaker 2: and sets me up to have a really really good day, 1133 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:58,800 Speaker 2: which is awesome. And then in the evenings, my night 1134 01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,520 Speaker 2: routine isn't really cold implicated at all. It used to 1135 01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 2: be a lot more complicated, but these days I just 1136 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:07,640 Speaker 2: focus on I suppose, spending nice time with Scott and Lennie. 1137 01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:11,160 Speaker 2: I also try and get off my phone a couple 1138 01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:15,360 Speaker 2: hours before bed. We've started putting our phones in a 1139 01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,320 Speaker 2: different room that is not our bedroom, which is awesome, 1140 01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 2: and I think that that definitely helps for me because 1141 01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 2: if I wake up in the middle of the night, 1142 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 2: I can't just like reach at it and have the 1143 01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:28,400 Speaker 2: blue light hit my eyes. About two hours before I 1144 01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,640 Speaker 2: go to sleep, I go into my bedroom and we 1145 01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,320 Speaker 2: have a diffuser on my bedside table, and I put 1146 01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:38,000 Speaker 2: a little concoction into that diffuser of lavender, Rudo Valla, 1147 01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 2: and cedarwood, and they're all really beautiful oils for calming 1148 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:45,960 Speaker 2: and promoting melatonin production, which is a chemical in your 1149 01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 2: brain which helps you go to sleep. So by the 1150 01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 2: time we're snuggling into bed, the room smells amazing, and 1151 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:55,280 Speaker 2: I suppose now that I've been using them for so long, 1152 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:59,320 Speaker 2: it kind of makes my body just instantly slow down. 1153 01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:02,080 Speaker 2: And I generally take a hot shower before bed as well, 1154 01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:05,320 Speaker 2: because for me, that kind of helps me relax. The 1155 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,440 Speaker 2: only other things that I might do of an evening 1156 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,680 Speaker 2: is have a sleepy tea, you know, like a herbal tea. 1157 01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,160 Speaker 2: We just get a brown from Woolies. It's you know, 1158 01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:17,880 Speaker 2: super chill, nothing crazy or hectic, and then generally I'll 1159 01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 2: just moisturize and I will either use an oil on 1160 01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:26,560 Speaker 2: my skin if it's really dry, with something like Frank Consense, 1161 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:30,360 Speaker 2: or I'll just go for like a plain moisturizer, like 1162 01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:34,240 Speaker 2: a you know, a non essential oil moisturizer. But once again, 1163 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,400 Speaker 2: it kind of just depends on how I'm feeling and 1164 01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:40,120 Speaker 2: if I need extra hydration because I've been flying or whatnot. 1165 01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:44,560 Speaker 1: That all sounded so good. I absolutely love essential oils too. 1166 01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm such a big believer in it to completely shift 1167 01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,520 Speaker 1: you into a certain mindset that you need to be, 1168 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:52,840 Speaker 1: or you know, into a certain mood, like if you 1169 01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:55,320 Speaker 1: need to be more relaxed or more grounded. 1170 01:02:54,920 --> 01:02:55,800 Speaker 2: Or more focused. 1171 01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:57,240 Speaker 1: So I love that you touch on that. 1172 01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,760 Speaker 2: You know, it's actually crazy, like I love them and 1173 01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,120 Speaker 2: I use them, but they actually legitimately do work. Like 1174 01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,840 Speaker 2: the other day, I was in Italy and I you know, 1175 01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,800 Speaker 2: sometimes when you're tired, you're hungry, you can become maybe 1176 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,160 Speaker 2: a bit anxious. Well I know, I do. I was 1177 01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:15,439 Speaker 2: just overexhausted and I was anxious in my hotel room 1178 01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:17,040 Speaker 2: and I felt like I had like, you know, a 1179 01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:19,320 Speaker 2: bit of a panic attack coming on, where you feel 1180 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,880 Speaker 2: a bit short of breath and sweaty, and I just 1181 01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 2: like ran for my essential oils and grab my lavender 1182 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 2: and my cedar wood and like pop them on my 1183 01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 2: feet and my wrists and like inhaled them. And it's 1184 01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 2: crazy like how much they helped me settle down naturally. 1185 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,720 Speaker 2: And it's really it's mental to think how many people 1186 01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:38,920 Speaker 2: would be going for like some sort of prescription medication 1187 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:41,000 Speaker 2: if they started to feel like they had a panic attack. 1188 01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 2: But you can just get like, you know, some good 1189 01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:45,640 Speaker 2: old lavender oil and it will help you so much. 1190 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 1: Like before I put my podcast, I have a diffuse 1191 01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,800 Speaker 1: from my office and I just grabbed my essential oil 1192 01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:59,400 Speaker 1: and it's got in it organic lemon, rosemary, peppermint and 1193 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:02,400 Speaker 1: say and it's like a focus one And so I 1194 01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,120 Speaker 1: find my body because I'm used to it now. Like 1195 01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: when I smell this, it's like it's work time, it's 1196 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,400 Speaker 1: focused time, and it does it completely shifts your mood 1197 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,160 Speaker 1: and your senses for sure. 1198 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:13,760 Speaker 2: I'm so glad that you love them. I feel like 1199 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:15,360 Speaker 2: we need to hang out. I feel like we like 1200 01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:22,120 Speaker 2: the same shit this friend. Please we definitely. 1201 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:29,880 Speaker 1: Just did you are amazing. I am so happy I 1202 01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:33,400 Speaker 1: got you on the phone phone the show. I'm so 1203 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:36,320 Speaker 1: happy I got you on the show and built out 1204 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:39,080 Speaker 1: the courage to ask you so thank you so much 1205 01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:42,840 Speaker 1: before you go, though, I do want to quickly ask you, 1206 01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:46,720 Speaker 1: do you have a recommendation for the audience, you know, 1207 01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:51,320 Speaker 1: just something you're reading, watching, listening to. I personally love recommendations. 1208 01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 2: I just finished a book by Moby. Moby is like 1209 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,680 Speaker 2: he's like a nineties DJ rock star. It's called Then 1210 01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:06,080 Speaker 2: It Fell Apart. It's about his journey through mental health 1211 01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:10,200 Speaker 2: and self awareness and how I suppose the perils of 1212 01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:13,040 Speaker 2: the music industry affected him and his mental health. So 1213 01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:15,240 Speaker 2: if you're ever wondering what the life of a DJ 1214 01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:19,040 Speaker 2: looks like behind the scenes, especially of a very successful DJ, 1215 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,960 Speaker 2: then I would highly recommend it. It's called Then It 1216 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,840 Speaker 2: Fell Apart by Moby. Maybe they're really really good. And 1217 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:29,560 Speaker 2: then what am I watching? I'm actually not watching anything 1218 01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,840 Speaker 2: at the moment. I just finished Game of Thrones. I 1219 01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:34,760 Speaker 2: only started watching it a few months ago, so I 1220 01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 2: was very late to the party. But I thoroughly enjoyed it. 1221 01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:40,360 Speaker 2: So I'm actually going to go back and read all 1222 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 2: the books now. That's my plan for what I'm going 1223 01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:43,000 Speaker 2: to read next. 1224 01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,360 Speaker 1: I definitely saw some Instagram stories. I think that your 1225 01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,040 Speaker 1: manager are something posted and you're like watching it and 1226 01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:51,720 Speaker 1: so much a Marria. 1227 01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,040 Speaker 2: God. Yes, I was like crying one minute, then laughing 1228 01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,640 Speaker 2: the next minute, then like so scared the next minute. 1229 01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:59,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's crazy. Have you watched it? 1230 01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 1: I haven't. I personally like I'm not really into like 1231 01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:08,400 Speaker 1: medieval times, so I'm really resistant. 1232 01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 2: Do your hundred you know what. I was so not 1233 01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 2: into it either, Like I was like, fuck Game of Thrones, 1234 01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,000 Speaker 2: not into it and not about any of it. Like 1235 01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 2: I enjoyed Harry Potter as a child like reading that stuff, 1236 01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 2: but I never like super got into Star Wars or 1237 01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 2: Lord of the Rings or anything. So I was like, 1238 01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like it. I just don't get it anyway. 1239 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 2: One of like my friends just said, you know what, 1240 01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,439 Speaker 2: you've got nothing to lose. You've got like so much 1241 01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,720 Speaker 2: traveling this year. Why don't you just like watch a 1242 01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,320 Speaker 2: season and see if you like it? And I was like, 1243 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,640 Speaker 2: you know what I do? So I watched the first 1244 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:47,600 Speaker 2: season and I became so hooked. It's just you don't 1245 01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:50,640 Speaker 2: necessarily need to like medieval stuff. It's just got really 1246 01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 2: great character developments and interesting storylines. The costume design is great. 1247 01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:00,280 Speaker 2: The set is great, the filming is great. I I'm 1248 01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:03,320 Speaker 2: a massive fan now and I would have never been 1249 01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 2: to the point where I literally started watching in April 1250 01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:08,000 Speaker 2: this year, so I was like eight years late to 1251 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:11,160 Speaker 2: the party and now I'm like Game of Thrones for life. 1252 01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 2: You are so funny. I'm by it. 1253 01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:16,120 Speaker 1: You're like kind of pursue. 1254 01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:19,400 Speaker 2: Maybe just like watch half the first season and if 1255 01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,240 Speaker 2: you like it, then keep going. But if you don't 1256 01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,080 Speaker 2: like it, you'll probably have a good indication that you're 1257 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 2: not going to get into it. 1258 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:31,680 Speaker 1: Finally, I have to that's gonna make it's so funny. 1259 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,840 Speaker 1: Is funny? Thank you so much for your time today. 1260 01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:39,440 Speaker 1: Can you let the audience know where they can find you. 1261 01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,320 Speaker 2: Yes. First of all, thank you so much for having me. 1262 01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:46,240 Speaker 2: It's been such a beautiful conversation. You guys can find me, 1263 01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:49,640 Speaker 2: of course on Instagram. I am just DJ Tiger Lily. 1264 01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:53,000 Speaker 2: I also have a website, it's once again djtiger Lily 1265 01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:56,760 Speaker 2: dot com. You can find my music on Spotify. I 1266 01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 2: also have a podcast that comes out weekly. It's a 1267 01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,320 Speaker 2: music podcast, so great. If you guys like to work 1268 01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:04,040 Speaker 2: out at the gym, you can listen to that or 1269 01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:06,200 Speaker 2: listen to it when you go for a run. I'm 1270 01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:10,840 Speaker 2: also on Twitter and YouTube and Facebook, but slightly less 1271 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:15,280 Speaker 2: inactive on this platforms, so yeah, Instagram and Spotify and 1272 01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:17,599 Speaker 2: iTunes would be the main ones that I would suggest. 1273 01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:22,080 Speaker 1: Amazing, and guys, I can totally vouch for that podcast. 1274 01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:22,720 Speaker 2: It's really good. 1275 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:28,240 Speaker 1: So good on you, of course, and I'll make sure 1276 01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 1: I put all the links in the show notes. Guys, 1277 01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,920 Speaker 1: so check that out and I'll see you next time. 1278 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,280 Speaker 1: Thanks so much for listening in to this week's episode. 1279 01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,000 Speaker 1: If you love to Rise and Conquer and you're craving 1280 01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:42,479 Speaker 1: more community, I have. 1281 01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:43,280 Speaker 2: Got your girl, friend. 1282 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 1: I was feeling the exact same, so I'm very excited 1283 01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:49,439 Speaker 1: to announce that we have made a close Rise and 1284 01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:53,160 Speaker 1: Conquer Facebook community group. To join our girl gang, head 1285 01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:56,920 Speaker 1: to Facebook and search Rise and Conquer podcast community, or 1286 01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:59,360 Speaker 1: head to the show notes for the link. I decided 1287 01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:02,040 Speaker 1: to create this community for like minded women who are 1288 01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 1: searching for a safe and positive space for us to 1289 01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:09,519 Speaker 1: share our stories, to ask for advice, and interact together. Lastly, 1290 01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:12,360 Speaker 1: if you know someone who would benefit from this episode, 1291 01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:15,120 Speaker 1: please make sure you share it with them, or even 1292 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:18,000 Speaker 1: take a screenshot and share it on your Instagram. Stories. 1293 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:22,000 Speaker 1: I really really appreciate all the support, and this is 1294 01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:26,360 Speaker 1: a total independent podcast, so any sort of sharing involved 1295 01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:29,640 Speaker 1: I really really appreciate. Also, if you want to go 1296 01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:33,599 Speaker 1: beyond this episode, check out our official Instagram at Rise 1297 01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:38,280 Speaker 1: and Conquer dot podcast or my personal Instagram at Georgie Stevenson. 1298 01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:40,880 Speaker 1: I hope you have an amazing day or night. Whenever 1299 01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:43,240 Speaker 1: you're listening, by for now and talk to you soon. 1300 01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:07,120 Speaker 2: Stop speak Spot