1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Well and Woody podcast many this Sunday Daddy Day. Well, 2 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: it sounds a bit sick. It's Father's Day. Daddy Day. 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah for everyone out there who's Sunday diary, 4 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: I know your secret. I was cut off there and 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: what I meant to say, well, I was cut off 6 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: by the audio and rudely you thought I was that 7 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: I was short of a word, turnoat Tom, and I wasn't. 8 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: I was going to say, for whoever's to celebrate their father, 9 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: I just want to be a bit careful because sometimes, 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: you know, people don't want to celebrate their dads. That's 11 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: what I was a bit I was a bit sure about. 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 1: Wasn't short? So there. 13 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: Also, thank you for including my community with Daddy Day. 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: Do you call? Do you like being called daddy when 16 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: you're your message your favorite daddy on Daddy Day? Do 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 1: you really round? 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: Really? 19 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: Are you going to message you daddy on Sunday? 20 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: A plane? 21 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: You can do? You're on a plane on Sunday. You 22 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: could be Father's Days on Sunday. Are you going to 23 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: do a to be doing like an inter you know, 24 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: like the on air chat between seats on an airline. 25 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: Oh that's good. 26 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 1: Just find a hot guy on there and just write, 27 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: Hey daddy, happy dad, Happy, happy daddy day. Hey, do 28 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: you guys want to read from your diary? Yeah? Yeah, 29 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. 30 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: That was actually so. The prods had that idea. They 31 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 2: were like, you guys read from your personal journal slash diaries. 32 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 2: Why don't you do your first journal entry that you 33 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 2: made after the birth of your daughters. Now we'll usually 34 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 2: kick things off. 35 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: Do you want to shore? So this is on the 36 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: twenty ninth of the fifth. MAXI was born on the 37 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 1: twenty fourth of the fifth. Please don't play that because 38 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: it could go south very quickly. Here Okay, I haven't 39 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: actually read this since I wrote it down. I think 40 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: I just wanted to put something down because there was 41 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: obviously a lot going on. Okay, today I want to 42 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: write something because our daughter Max was born on the 43 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: twenty fourth. The circumstances were as traumatic and as hectic 44 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: as imaginable. But now she's perfect and the world's a 45 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: better place. Everything is softer, everything takes care of itself 46 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: because none of it matters actually anymore. My heart and 47 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: my mind are really strung, and now those strings brace 48 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: with newfound energy and newfound love. May they reverberate on 49 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: through space and time. The boundlessness with which I now 50 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: experience reality is through love, through her love, as if 51 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: it was to be any other way. I love you, Max, Dad, 52 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: your daddy will Wow. Yeah, very emotional. Obviously we're going 53 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: on there. 54 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 2: How about that line emotional time? Something had a star 55 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: trek there reverberating line. Yeah, I didn't really understand it, 56 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: but that was awesome. I was reverberating space, time, continuing. 57 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: Love or something. Oh yeah, I think there was space 58 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: and time in there somewhere. But yeah, I can find 59 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,119 Speaker 1: it for you to make you if you could talking 60 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: about yourselves. 61 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 2: To me. 62 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, my heart and mind are restrung, and now the 63 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: strings brace with newfound energy, newfound love, and made their 64 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: reverberate on through space and time, the boundlessness with which 65 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: I know. 66 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 2: So I actually I couldn't remember if I couldn't remember 67 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: if I journaled straight after Rehn was born, so I 68 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: actually had to flick through, and turns out I didn't 69 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: for a really really long time. So I try to 70 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: journal every day. It jumped from like early October Rehn 71 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: was born on the fourth of October until January five, No, 72 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 2: three months, about three months so this is why was 73 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 2: that noteworthy? Well it'll make sense in a second, beautiful. So, 74 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: as as you know, when I do and all I 75 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 2: talk to myself. So yeah, as you know, this is 76 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 2: my first journal entries since becoming a dad. My journal 77 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 2: entries became chats with m in the morning. Such a 78 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 2: special time, just the two of us chatting in the morning. 79 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 2: It did so much for me, brought me so much joy. 80 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 2: I can only hope she loved Slash loves that time 81 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 2: as well, but that is out of my control. Wow, 82 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: full circle, you beautiful bastard. This realization is an excused 83 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 2: to be selfish prick by the way, I genuinely like 84 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 2: making other people happy. But the point is that all 85 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: I can do is act in a manner that I 86 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: believe will bring that joy. Whether it does or not 87 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 2: is totally up to them, and don't force it. This 88 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 2: is a little wordy, but I know what I mean. 89 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: I'm I'm glad you do I'm glad you do that. 90 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:50,119 Speaker 1: The awareness, My god, I'm surprised you got any words 91 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: down to be honest at all, because at the time 92 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: when Remy was born, all you can do is cry, 93 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you were just holding me 94 00:04:56,240 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: in crying. I'm stop crying. You're just crying. He is 95 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: a dad, which is bloody huge. We're not going to 96 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: talk about it just yet, though I was crying. Are 97 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: you going to cry again? You are again? You can't 98 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: say baby because you're gonna start crying. It's happened again. Great, 99 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: all right, chee whiz mate. You got to get yourself 100 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: together here as the Tis shares they are Why would 101 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: you put baby sorry, it's a few weeks of that. 102 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: I think you could be the only person ever to 103 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: cry to Justin Bieber's baby. 104 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: Yes. 105 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: Will and Woody Podcast Mini