WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! They dated their ex's sibling 🤐 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:20.079 Pick up Laura, come on, here we go Wednesday with 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:20.799 a girl. 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:24.079 With the girls and a boy. 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:25.720 Present. 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:29.160 Oh, Mitch cheery here, Hey, hello girl here Laura, Laura, 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:31.120 what do I say? The girls here? Then you guys 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:32.040 don't go yeah, and the boy. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:34.000 I just took my jumper off and I managed to 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.920 get my headphones. I didn't take the headphones off to 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:39.199 take the jumper off, and so then I inside. 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:40.919 Or is the kind of person that like, she's got 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:42.879 an hour to take her jacket off. And then the 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:44.960 moment that the show intro starts playing, we're on air, 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:47.559 and I go three seconds to Laura, tell you you 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.240 think I'm going to get completely changed and dye my hair? 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:50.880 Bitch. 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:53.400 I have been doing the podcast Life Uncut with Laura 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:55.680 for four years, every day without fail. 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:57.960 We sit down and we're about to record. She goes, oh, 0:00:58.000 --> 0:00:58.880 I've got to do a quick poo. 0:00:58.960 --> 0:00:59.760 Got to do it. Never's poop. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:01.960 It's not nervous, it's not nervous. I just know that 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.160 we record for so long, so I just know it'll 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:05.880 creep up on me. Better to do it before than me. 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:07.840 But you wait, You'll be sitting there for like an 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:08.280 hour and. 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.679 Then right before you know that the podcasts recorded. You 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.200 can just stop and yeah, but. 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:15.920 It ruins the flow if you got to go and 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.200 take a break, it ruins the momentum. Okay, do you 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:19.759 know what I see? 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.560 Dead people? That's what I saw. 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:23.000 A ghost. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:24.280 Everyone, it happened to me. 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:27.520 I think she's still caught up with the headphones cutting 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:28.440 off blood situation. 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:30.680 Okay, look, we joke, we joke, but actually I had 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:33.840 something really I don't even know how to describe it. 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:37.760 It's something very very supernatural. Happened to me the other night. 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:41.319 I've never had an experience like it, and I honestly think. 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:42.959 I saw a ghost, right, And you're going to share 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:44.560 it with us, Yeah, I can't wait for that. 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:45.880 I'm going to keep it to myself. 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:48.920 Mitchka, very funny. The mood is odd today in the show, 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:51.440 We've got to keep it afloat. Yeah, get the pickup 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:54.440 thanks to Chemist's Warehouse heading today great savings every day. Hey, 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:57.080 it's the pick up right around the country Wednesday with Britt, 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:59.920 Laura and Mitch. Listen, you need to rush into Chemists Warehouse. 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:02.720 They got half price off vitamins and cosmetics. Tell a friend, 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:07.040 teas and seas apply a chemist warehouse, great savings every day. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:11.919 This is very fitting music. You said you have a 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:12.440 ghost story. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:14.919 Laura has a ghost story. Everyone and Britt and I. 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:16.320 I kind of taken the mickey out of it, but 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:18.919 your breath was taken away when you told us this morning. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:21.000 Well, I mean I cried. 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:23.240 And now you're taking and making fun of me. 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.160 Because I believe in ghosts. I'm here for it. 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:28.240 I'm a skeptic, Okay, I'm a skeptic with anything that 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:30.560 you could think is kind of mildly woo woo, even 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.000 for me. I'm like, oh, meditation feels a bit much. 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:34.240 Even Byron bayfreaks. 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:35.680 Meditation is science. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.320 Like Laura walks past a tree of life and she shudders. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:41.440 Yeah, don't come to me with any sort of herbal medicine. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:45.760 I take it back. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:49.400 Look, I've always sort of said that I am far 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.880 more of a skeptic and it is very challenging to 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.880 make me believe any of this sort of stuff now 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.520 not Britt. I know that you have said many times 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.480 that you think that you have seen a ghost. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:02.400 I've dated one before. Yep, he just disappeared one day, 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.760 was just very very white. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.959 No, so the other night it was. It was the 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.800 night before Father's Day. And to give you some context, 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:14.120 So my grandfather, my papa, he passed away two years ago, 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.560 and he was someone who I was incredibly close with. 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:20.120 I lived with him growing up. He was my father 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:23.560 figure growing up, and we had an incredible relationship. So 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.680 when he passed away, it felt like losing my dad. 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.720 And I mean, I have my dad and we have 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.760 a great relationship, but he was like my second dad. 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:35.840 And I find it really hard to remember exactly what 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:37.760 he looks like unless I'm looking at a photo or 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.600 unless I'm watching a video. I find it really hard 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:43.360 to recall his face. I can recall features, but I 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:48.400 can't really recall him perfectly. And usually it's when I 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.880 am recalling it, I'm recalling a picture of him that 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.960 I have saved as my screensaver on my thumb. 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.440 You're not recalling the actual moment, but the picture of 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:58.160 the moment. Yeah. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.840 Yeah, And anyways, so I went to bed, I shut 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:04.080 my eyes and I was in that sort of you know, 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.960 that little bit of twilight sleep where you're not quite asleep, 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:09.640 but you're still very much awakening in your mind. 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:10.520 Off. 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:16.000 Yeah, and I had this I had this profound image 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:19.320 of him that it sounds so weird to say, but 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:21.840 I had my eyes closed and I had this real 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:23.520 sense that he was in the room. I had my 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:25.920 eyes shut, but I could see him sitting there and 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:29.120 he was holding my hand, and he just and he 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:31.880 just looked so happy. And I had this real moment 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:34.080 where I was like, and I said to Matt, I 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:36.599 was like, Matt, my husband. I was like, Papa's here. 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:40.720 I was like what, And I was like, he's in 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:41.719 the room. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:44.960 And Matt was like what. It's it's eleven o'clock at night, 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.600 and he passed away two years ago, so I'm going 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:50.440 to guess he's not. But I really felt like for 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.200 that moment that he was in the room with me 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:55.760 and that he was holding my hand. And it's the 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:59.880 only time I've ever experienced anything like that, and it 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:03.719 I was sorry. I didn't expect that i'd cry, but 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:08.120 it was so very real and I've never ever felt 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:10.239 that close to him since he'd passed away. 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:14.279 That's really beautiful, and I mean, someone that believes in it. 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.200 For me, without doubt, he was in the room with you. 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:17.200 He was really there. 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:18.839 He for some. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:21.760 Reason might have known that you needed him at that time. 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:24.040 It was just before Father's Day. Maybe he thought, now 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.960 it's the time I'm going to show myself to her 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:28.440 and let her know that it's okay. But I truly 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:31.320 believe he was one hundred percent there and that you, 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:33.320 whether you knew it or not, you needed to have 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:34.440 that experience. 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.360 Well out of interest laws, what did did when you 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:38.640 saw him? Because you said that you can't really picture 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:39.960 his face other than the photo. 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.440 Where was he like? Was he old papa? Was he 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:43.320 like a younger papa? 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:45.280 No, so he was my memory of him from when 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.080 I was in my sort of twenties, and he was, 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.240 so he was younger, but he just it was It 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.200 was bright and it was light, which is what was 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:53.840 so weird, because when you're in the dark and you 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:55.920 got your eyes closed, even your memories are dark. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.440 But I was awake and it was light. 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:01.360 And and he was just sitting there and he was 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.679 holding my hand, but I felt like he was holding 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:04.040 my hand. 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:05.440 I honestly can't describe. 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:10.039 It was the weirdest experience I've ever had. And for 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:13.440 someone who is truly the most skeptical person when it 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:17.960 comes to anything that's otherworldly, it was really really beautiful 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:19.560 and I just felt so close to him. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:23.120 Again, that's so nice. So can we officially say you're 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:24.440 on team ghost now? 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:28.920 I see dead people off if I play is that off? 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:30.920 If I play that? I love you and I think 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:31.800 it's a beautiful story. 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:35.480 But background, we needed something to live that. 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:36.280 Up a little bit. 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:36.520 Yeah. 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:37.599 Wow. 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.919 I would love to know, though, if you ever felt 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.000 like you've seen a ghost or you've had an experience 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.240 like that, just contact us at the pickup because we 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:46.560 would love to hear your story. 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:48.920 And if you are listening and you are a ghost 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:52.160 six five, i'd love to hear. I'm still a skeptic guy, 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:55.159 so I need to be converted. Never seen a ghost. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:57.040 One day I'll tell you some of my ghost stories. 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:58.920 I have some crazy, crazy guys. 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:00.600 Well, I'm the next one to be converted here on 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:02.600 the pickup, so I'll have an experience and then i'll 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:03.279 let you guys know. 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.560 I'll send Papa your way. I actually have a Papa, 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:07.600 and yeah, he's with us. 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:09.320 I know. I saw him. 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:11.440 I saw him for Father's Day in real life on 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.480 my bed. He held my hand, bit on the nose. 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:20.160 I love you. Sorry, As I was saying this, I 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:23.120 thought that was on the nose. I'm apologizing to you, 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:23.720 Laura girl. 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:26.200 I have a papa too, but he's real. 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.640 All right, you're on the pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch. Hello, 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:33.520 Welcome right around the country or thanks to Chemist Warehouse 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:35.360 heading today Great Savings every Day. 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.640 Yesterday I was telling you about my sister living over 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:42.120 in Scotland. She moved over there with her husband Jay 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:46.080 because he's Scottish. Now my boyfriend Ben also lives over 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:50.680 in Scotland, yes, and I feel like she stepped into 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:53.400 my life. She's doing everything that I do over there 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.080 with Ben. They're all staying together at their house. They're 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.080 going out and playing golf, They're going to my favorite restaurants. 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.120 They're going to watch him play football. But I was like, 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.880 oh my god, she's living a life I want to 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:03.480 live with the person I want to live it with. 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:06.560 And it got us into this interesting conversation. I wonder 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:08.680 how many people have not that this is a thing 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:11.119 with us, But I wonder how many people have ended 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:14.840 up dating someone and then splitting with them to date 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:15.400 their sibling. 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:17.880 I was like, surely that's not a thing. 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:19.440 I don't think that can be a thing, because does 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:22.200 that that would insinuate that while you were dating your partner, 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:25.360 you were kind of having eyes on the sibling. 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.120 You Okay, I feel like this would tear a family apart, 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:30.560 and I like that You're very clear in saying, now, 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:31.680 this is not happening to me. 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:33.480 No, I'm just curious. 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:35.400 Well, because Jay and Sherry. 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:37.600 Are over there together with Ben Or they're all having 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:40.400 this amazing like connection. They're getting to know each other 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.280 without me, and that's what started the conversation. 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:45.760 Well, we spoke about this on the show yesterday and 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.840 then we went on to sleep, woke up DM's galore. Yeah, 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:51.160 this is an actual thing that has happened to a 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.920 couple people. So we thought, let's chat to them and 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:56.000 see if it has destroyed their families. Tell a novella style. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:59.320 Well, coincidentally, what a great name we've had, Rose. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:02.240 Oh that is so bold in the beautiful Rose. What happened? 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:04.120 What's what's the drama? Tell us everything? 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:06.720 Okay, so many years ago when I was like, you 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:08.000 know much younger. 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:09.240 Pretty are That's not the thing. 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:11.480 I'm very beautiful. 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:16.800 One of my first ever boyfriends, I was eighteen, and 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:20.080 you know, when guys just get a little bit too clinging. 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:22.920 They get a bit too annoying. They're messaging you all 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.200 the time, and it's like suffocating you. So that was 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:25.559 sort of. 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:26.240 Starting to happen. 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:30.520 Can you blame them? 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:32.400 Rose? What happened? 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:36.120 And then like I had met his brother a couple 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:38.560 of times when I was at his house, and his 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:40.520 brother was sort of like the better version of him, 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:47.840 so like less annoying, better looking, smarter, like the Oranges 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:50.839 own business, et cetera. Anyway, I saw the brother out 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.719 one night. I was a bit drunk. We were got it, 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:56.480 getting shots together, ended up kissing, and then I was like, Okay, 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:57.920 now I'm gonna have to break up with. 0:09:58.080 --> 0:09:59.160 The annoying younger brother. 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.440 So I did it. The older brother and I kept 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:05.360 on talking, uh and then yeah, a few months later, 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.760 I was back at the house and then everything came 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:09.079 out in the open, and then I had to sit 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:11.240 up family dinners with like everyone there, and we just 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:11.920 made jumps. 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:15.880 About how long did you date the older brother? 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:17.719 For like a year? 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:18.640 Yeah? 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.920 And then obviously it wasn't our separate ways after that? 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.160 Did he know that you guys cheated or does he 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:25.400 think you just got together after? 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:29.480 I think she has an idea what happened between the 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.079 two brothers, like did they have a fight? 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.160 Was their words like high five? Surely it wasn't. 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:37.599 Just there was a bit of tension. There was a 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:38.160 bit of beef. 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:39.880 But I don't know. 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:41.679 I guess ro let's just get out of that sort 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:41.960 of stuff. 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:46.960 Yeah, bro, famously not. That's not how brothers work. Hold on, 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:49.040 We've got stuff as well. On thirteen one of sixty five, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:50.040 this happened more than we thought. 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:53.480 Hi, So I was dating this guy for about a year, 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:57.199 like things were like pretty serious. I was a bit younger, 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:01.040 I was in my sort of mid twenty and he 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:04.600 broke up with me for my sister. Now, my sister 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:08.960 and I didn't really there were some issues with us anyway, 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.760 but we haven't spoken since and that was like five 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:12.360 years ago. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:14.120 Wow are they still together? 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:15.040 No, they're not. 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:18.000 So you have no relationship at all with your sister 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:19.760 now because of this betrayal. 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:24.240 Yes they did they cheat or did this happen after 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:24.640 the fact? 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:29.560 Oh, they denied it, but I wouldn't put it past them. 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:31.000 It's just I don't know why. 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.360 It HiT's different for sisters. 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:34.480 It hits different, Like I feel like the brother thing. 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:36.880 It is bad. No, it's bad. 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:38.960 But for some reason, maybe because I'm so close with 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:40.880 my sister, I just not would never happen, but it 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.760 just HiT's different when the sister betrays your I think, yeah, well. 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:45.160 With the boys were like did you high five and 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:46.560 go get a steak to celebrate? 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:49.880 And now we're like disgusting. Yeah, feminism an awful disgusting. 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:54.120 I can't believe it. What did your parents think of this? 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:59.880 They weren't obviously condoning it, but again, what do you do? 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:00.760 Like? 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:04.200 They have to be parents, so they can't really take sight. 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:05.960 He's not coming over for Christmas dinner. 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:10.280 Nanny, these stories we should take them and just write 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:15.240 like a stand original scene lead all right, next on 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:17.439 the pickup? How long do you guys think? Don't answer? 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:17.679 Now? 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.440 Is the longest you could stay awake? And I'm talking days, 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:25.199 not hours, because I think a new record has been set. 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:27.640 But somehow, with your schedule and your children, Laura, I 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:29.280 think you can give him a run for his money. 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.120 I don't want to try it. Yeah, I'm really enjoying it. 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:35.040 I don't want to try it. I think if we 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:36.880 wanted to, you could. I'll see your next here on 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.200 the pick up. It's the Pickup with Britt, Laura and 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:42.040 Mitch right around Australia Wednesday. We are here thanks to 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:45.920 chemist Warehouse, a rush in for half priced vitamins and cosmetics, 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:49.320 teas and sees. Apply chemist Warehouse great savings. Every day 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.320 we've all had one of those days where we've just 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:54.400 overworked ourselves. We've woken up early, we've gone to bed late, 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:56.319 maybe we've gone to a dinner, maybe we've even gone 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:58.839 out on a little bender, little party, and we've stayed 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:01.319 up longer than we should and it like throws you, right. 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.199 Britt Laura. I mean you're a mum, Laura, you've been 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:03.480 through this. 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:05.520 I'm sure you just like every none in my life. 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:07.120 No, my kids are good now, I've put a four 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:08.760 year old and a two year old and they both 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:11.760 are really good sleepers. But when my youngest Lola was born, 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:15.960 she went through about four weeks of her the start 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:17.960 of her life, where she wouldn't sleep in anything longer 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:21.040 than forty five minute blocks. So and she wouldn't sleep 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.880 unless she was asleep on me and I was sitting up, 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:25.800 so I had to sleep in a chair or sit 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:28.200 up with pillows prop behind me and actually a nightmare 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:29.440 like half an hour blocks. 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.800 It was like torture and how is your brain? You 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:33.840 were fried? Right? Yeah? It ruins everything. 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:38.360 It ruins your relationships, it ruins your happiness, it ruins everything. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.440 It's awful. Well, here's the thing. 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:44.000 This man in the UK has officially broken Guinness World 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:48.120 records eleven days straight. He has stayed awake for and 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:52.160 he has documented the debilitating effects that it has had 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:54.559 on his body. It's actually not an official Guinness World 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.839 Record attempt because they did it in nineteen ninety seven 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:01.040 and since science has come out backing how dangerous and 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.240 unhealthy the lack of sleep is, Guinness World Records have 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:04.800 said we actually not going to let anyone do that 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:05.880 again because you don't. 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:07.240 Want people to try and break that record. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.800 Well, because it has long term health implications, Like you, 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:12.280 nobody should style themselves of sleep for that. 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:16.439 Long Sleep deprivation is literally one of the oldest techniques 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:19.480 in oldest forms of torture. Yeah, because it attacks like 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:22.520 your core biological functions in your body. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:25.440 It is so physiologically bad for you. 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:27.680 And britt I would say anyone who's ever had a 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:30.440 newborn child would absolutely agree. 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.040 Oh, totally or been on a bendal I have, I 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:32.720 go out. 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:34.160 Very diffrue. 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.960 A bend. We're in different life stages, Laura, but we 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:41.440 can we can connect on that. So this guy right 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:46.200 which his name is hidden for obvious reasons, but he 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:51.600 truly has documented these symptoms ready. Obviously trouble sleeping obviously 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.960 couldn't couldn't fall sop because once you know, because once. 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:55.880 You break through, we've all been tired. 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.360 You're overtired, and you push through that wall and it's like, oh, 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:04.520 I actually can't sleep, speech problems, hallucinations, dementia, eventually obviously 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:06.680 death and it will kill you if you actually don't 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:09.080 get sleep, but total insomnia as well. 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:12.240 Like you faller and sleep before you died. Yeah, but 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:14.400 you're not going to be I'm so diet. I'm going 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:17.200 to die. 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.760 Prolonged lack like if you're getting a nap in between 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:22.240 over time, it can actually really really hurt you. I've 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:24.120 done a lot of research on this. I have sleep 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:26.600 ap now, so sleep to me is really important. I 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:29.880 read this great book, Actually and Why We Sleep by 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:30.440 Matthew Walky. 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:32.000 You should have read it. I'm like a sleep google. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:33.840 Oh I think we're trying to get him on the podcast. 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.120 Oh really, Oh yeah, it's brilliant. It's a great book. 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:38.800 Like when you sleep, your body restores all its organs 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.160 right and it resets everything. It's like a nice reset 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:44.680 on your iPhone. But when you stay awake, your cells 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:46.960 in your body start to die. They start to die 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:48.400 off because they're not being regenerated. 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:50.800 Well, I did read, and I mean, dementia is something 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.680 that it's very prolific in my family, and so because 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:55.560 of that, I've always been really interested in what you 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:56.960 can do to try and stop it. And I know 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.840 that sleep there's been such a huge correlation that's been 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.720 between people who suffered from dementia and people who just 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:04.320 were not getting enough sleep in their life. 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:04.760 Crazy. 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:06.760 And also you think there's some people who say, oh, 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:09.520 I can work on five hours or four hours a day, 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:11.280 and think about how much more productive you are when 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:13.920 you're getting such little sleep and you're maximizing those work hours. 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:15.960 But it does make you wonder what sort of long 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.960 term health implications you're causing for yourself by doing that. 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:20.600 Yeah, and I hate when people say that it's like 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.360 it works for you, but you're a bastard. 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:26.000 To work with. You were so awful. No, people are. 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:28.720 Doing need different amounts for sure, But sleep is the 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:32.520 number one form of recovery, like for athletes, for health problems, 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:33.080 for anything. 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:33.800 Sleep. 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:37.520 Your body repairs so much in sleep, which that book 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:38.800 that you were talking about must have done. 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:40.480 You wonders because you came over to my house after 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:42.040 lunch the other day. You're only in my house for 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.920 about thirty seconds and you're asleep on the lounge. I 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:45.880 found you asleep in the middle of the day on 0:16:45.920 --> 0:16:46.360