1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: It's well Suicide Prevention day and of course are you 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: okay day here in Australia. 3 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 2: Yes. 4 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: I think it's probably important that you know, we say 5 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: to people who are listening to if any if anyone's 6 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: feeling down, right down, you know there are people there 7 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: for you. You are loved. I mean I you know, every 8 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: time this day comes around to remind Look, I say 9 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: hello to a friend of mine who who committed suicide 10 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: years ago now, Charlotte. I've got a photo of her 11 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: on my fridge. I talk to her every day. It's 12 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: just burn it in my mind. 13 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 2: You know, it's beautiful that you do that. 14 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: That's really good. 15 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: And I've lost friends along the way as well. I'm like, 16 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 2: and it hurts it says apart families. 17 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: I've seen it. 18 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: I've never forget driving past some old school friends. I 19 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 2: don't say this to many people, but I was in 20 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: a rush, so I didn't stop. Two days later his 21 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: brother called me and told me that he died man, 22 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: And that's rattled me ever since. So you always wonder 23 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 2: what if I had a stopped. And the message days 24 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: not only about asking someone if they're okay, but listen, 25 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 2: encourage action and check in a few days later. And 26 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: I know for guys like us, a lot of blokes, 27 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: it's hard to talk about feelings, emotions. They're kept inside 28 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: a vault, banked in our minds. But it's brave to 29 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: let others know how you're feeling. Speaking up makes you 30 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 2: feel good too. I just want to say I love today. 31 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: You might be on the worksite right now, we're in 32 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: the car, maybe you're working, but you are loved and 33 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: you are needed, So reach out.