WEBVTT - We (Froomy) Loves Recipe Tin Eats 🌭🥘🍕 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.480 Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:06.520 and Frooms catch up podcast. 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:08.200 Happy thirteenth of November. 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:11.799 Guys, today we're chatting about Nagi of Recueten Eats. Don't 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:14.040 make me continue to talk about her because I will 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:18.200 at length and also is saying my boyfriend he We 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.200 got a bit of blowback a few months ago when 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.200 I talked about how I want to see the term 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:22.880 partner use. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:26.480 Less liberally is sure to continue to ruffle some feathers. 0:00:26.600 --> 0:00:27.000 Let's go. 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:28.400 I love the way you phrased that. 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.839 You're listening to Flex and Frooms on Kita. 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:36.040 Question for the audience, should gen Z be going to 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:38.760 the office. I'm not trying to do that thing where 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:41.720 to avoid millennials going to the office, we do a 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:43.360 little bait and switch and say what about gen Z? 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:44.440 What about them? 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:47.720 But I've been thinking a lot about this loneliness epidemic 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:51.239 because it's haunting all of my social medias and it's 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.279 getting to the point where I can't tell is if 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:58.120 this is like individually constructed or the nature of just 0:00:58.160 --> 0:00:59.880 being alive and everyone's that kind of lonely, but you 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.880 deal with them. And so I was thinking about how 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:07.280 it's definitely impacting each generation differently. Like the loneliness the 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:10.920 elderly community experiences is similar to the loneliness of toddler experiences, 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:14.880 but different age groups and different reasons. Right, So, like 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:18.360 a toddler experiences loneliness because they don't have their parents 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.200 on their back twenty four to seven that they did 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:23.120 when they're an infant, and an elderly person experiences loneliness 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:25.600 because they can compare what life was to what life is. 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:29.479 Da da da da. Then I was thinking, what's gen 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:30.960 Z's reason for being lonely? 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.560 You know, if we look at social media and what 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.160 it's made to do connect people through and through, they 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:38.560 don't really have context for life before then, So what's 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:40.360 your big excuse for being lonely? 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:41.000 Okay? 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:45.200 And then I was thinking it's because the different life 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:49.600 stages that are meant to encourage connection are now virtual. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:51.480 So like, oh, don't worry. 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.520 Remember when those Australian Unich students were campaigning to get 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:58.920 their tuition refunded because a lot of their coursework was online, 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.680 and they were like, no, this is weird, Like we're 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:05.560 paying for face to face, we're paying for the unique experience, 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:06.960 we're paying for connection and community. 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.160 This can't happen online. 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:11.480 Similarly, this push to work from home mustn't be doing 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:14.040 any good for people who have been isolated up until 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:14.440 that point. 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:14.960 A lot. 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:16.960 I don't know about you, but say what you want 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:20.920 about office culture. It amounts for a lot of interpersonal relationship, 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:25.359 relationship building, building connections, making friends, making acquaintances, sharing gossip, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:26.120 sharing stories. 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:27.440 Whether or not you want to do. 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:29.480 The commute, that's separate to the fact that the office 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:31.960 does do a lot for you socially, and you cannot 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:35.240 replicate it with no office experience. If I was going 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.600 straight from high school every day, like you know, chit 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:41.920 chatting with the girl is at recess, at lunch and 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.280 in classes, and then went to work in the real 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:47.359 world and then it was all online, I would feel lonely. 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:50.400 Too insane, insane, It's adding up. 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.960 So I got my redundant during COVID where we all 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.560 couldn't be in the office, so it was kind of 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:57.320 like a nice It was kind of the perfect experience 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:58.920 because no one is in the office anyway, so I 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:00.440 was like, oh my god, I'm missing everyone. 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:03.200 So it was like a forced removal in quite a 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:05.760 beautiful way. It also meant so guys. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:06.639 The beauty of hindsight. 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:09.880 If you have never been made redundant and shout out 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:12.239 to the baddies who have, do you realize that a 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:13.600 lot of people get walked. 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:15.560 I didn't know a thing called walking. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:17.839 You know what that is, Mickey, And it would happen 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.480 a lot in publishers where someone come over, you go 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.480 to a meeting, you've been made redundant or you've been fired. 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:23.800 They say, okay, and you got to pack up your 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:25.720 stuff now and leave. You can't log out of your 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:26.680 computer out, you can't do. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:28.040 Anything sensitive information. 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:30.800 Whereas me being in COVID and whatnot, and I come 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:32.440 to my house, so tell me what I for the 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:35.280 next week, Tell me why I get to use the 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:38.480 computer for one more week, play on Facebook and whatnot, 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:40.280 and then give it back. I had time to go 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:41.880 to that apple Ston and get myself a macbill Pro. 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:44.160 With the redundancy payout. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:45.560 Was the real handover. 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.440 Flex and I and Mickey, I would also say, have 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:51.520 been on the internet for a very long time, and 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:53.600 when you're on the Internet, you realize that there are 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:56.960 things that you come to think of as second nature, 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.440 when we really should be questioning them. One of them 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:02.080 is what the hell is capture? I recently went to 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:03.560 it down a deep dive. I'll share that with you 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:07.240 guys next week. Something else that I wondered is what 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.440 happens when you unsubscribe to an email. Now we all 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:12.120 know what happens in terms of like you're not gonna 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:15.520 get emails anymore, that's number one. But I always wondered 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:19.320 after you click unsubscribe and ask you to, like, say why, 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.120 and you get all the different boxes, it'd be like, 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:23.880 I never signed up to this. They're too many emails. 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:25.960 These are not interesting to me anymore. I'm changing my 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:29.440 email blah blah blah. I personally always click, I didn't 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:33.280 sign up for this newsletter even though you did. Nah, 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:36.760 only the ones that I didn't, because nothing brings my 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:39.960 current to the forefront like getting unsolicited emails and texts. Yes, 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:43.960 I was post aka scammer, I'm looking at you, So 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:47.640 in my current behavior, I click. I never signed up 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:49.880 for these, and I always wondered what actually happens, Like 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:51.159 do they get fined? 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:52.160 Who's finding them? 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.640 High hold on? 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.839 Say people get fined with putting letters in your letter box? 0:04:57.839 --> 0:04:58.800 It's what it's there for. 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:02.080 Well, I'm pretty sure you can if it's like fully, 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:03.560 if you're doing a mail out and you just drop 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:05.120 and crap into people's litterboxes. 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:07.800 Well, if people are saying that they don't want to 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:09.920 be subscribed to your email list and you keep them 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:13.360 on their regardless, then that's you know, a breach of 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:17.560 the contract. You've opted out and they're keeping you in there. 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:20.760 That's not good. But usually all of this is automated anyway, 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:23.120 so you get put into a separate list and then 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:25.640 you can select all and then delete. 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:30.400 Right, okay, I understand. Well, apparently what happens when you 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:32.279 see when you click I never signed up for these, 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.719 is that the mass mailing service that they've used to 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:38.480 monitor whether the customers are adding people unwittingly to their 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.600 mail list too many of those reports and the customer 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:41.200 gets dropped. 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:42.800 I didn't realize this. 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:46.880 What do you mean the customer in this context. 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:49.599 The customer is the like brand that is using the 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:54.400 mail service. They're using mail Chimp. Mailchimp is allegedly, like 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:59.080 you know, taking notice of the data. Yeah, and now 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:00.680 so it's LEXI and I newsletters. 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:01.880 Mine is called frooms Old. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.440 I haven't posted a newsletter for about four months because 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.719 I've been busy writing my book. But you're a new newsletter, baddie. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.080 I love seeing the insights. 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:12.920 Oh, I love the insights. 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:15.040 Like, guys, just know if you started to a newsletter, 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:18.200 the kind of information that you can see, what I 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:19.039 can see, what you're doing. 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:23.200 Like when I was dating that guy. Okay, maybe I 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:23.800 won't say it. 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:25.640 Oh no, I gotta say it. 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:27.159 Okay, whatever, I don't care. 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:31.240 I was saying, this guy and his sister subscribed to 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:34.080 my newsletter, and I like looked at her email and 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:35.760 I could see how many times she'd like opened it 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:39.800 and read it and stuff good stuff like the insights. 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:43.560 Just Instagram is quaking thinking about how much that. 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.800 Imagine if you could see on Instagram, how how many 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:49.480 times one person looked at a singular post of your 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.600 Oh my goodness, I would. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:52.880 Be I think I would just I don't know what 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.240 I have to I think I deleted my account before 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:59.840 that cash information came to light. Yeah, your inflexing frooms, Okay, 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:05.000 FLEXI I have a new obsession. And by a new obsession, 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:08.240 I mean it's probably been about two years. A recipe 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.560 tin eats done by none other than Nagi. 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:12.200 What is your recipe two eats? 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:14.600 You ask, it's only the best blog in the whole 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:20.640 of Australia food or otherwise. Nagi is a cook. I 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:23.920 love Nagi because her recipes are easy. She doesn't use 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:26.440 stuff from organic supermarkets. And as you know, I am 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:30.320 a skint tight US tight US Tuesday. 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.120 Bobs, So I love that about her. 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:36.360 She's really like a democratic queen for that and her recipes. 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:38.960 I have never made a Nagi recipe that I didn't like. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:43.720 It tastes like a restaurant, but you also know that 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:47.000 it's made with love through her making the recipe and 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:48.040 then you redoing it. 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:51.679 What kind of recipes like? What's her cuisine? Her stick? 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:56.600 Her cuisine spans the whole globe right, Middle Eastern, Yeap, 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.960 Japanese Yep, she's she was born in Japan. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:01.280 British. 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:02.880 I'm gonna say a little bit of fish, fish and 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:04.880 chip with a mushy pea moment. I'm sure I've seen 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:07.600 that on the page. Let me give a bit more intel. Yeah, 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:09.160 so what do you what is so good about her? 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.760 Because I know Mickey also is a huge fan. Is 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:13.960 it because it's down to earth? Are the recipes easy 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:14.480 to follow. 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:18.400 There are literally a million cooks in the world, So 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.880 why do you like her so much? I did a 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.520 quick google my first google of hers one point one 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:25.680 million followers. Are you late to the trend? 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:27.560 One point one on Insta? 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:28.040 Insta? 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.720 Oh wow, so you late to it? Are you early 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:31.000 to it? 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:33.320 My mum introduced me about two years ago, okay, which 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:34.679 was a big deal. I'm like, mother, how the hell 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:39.240 did you get here? Offence Heather. What I love about 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:42.439 it is I just Nagi radiates good vibes. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:44.240 I don't know how to put my finger on it. 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:47.360 But she's one of those special people that when she 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.800 talks in videos, like sometimes she'll talk to the camera, 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.440 it sounds exactly like what her recipes sound like. And 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.200 she does the like pre thing and she's talking about 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:59.240 Doze or her labrador, and the pre thing like the 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:01.400 you know, before every recipe, they like go on a 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:03.080 tangent like have you seen those means? 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.240 Which is like before the recipe. It's like when I 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:08.400 was seven years old, Why do I do that? 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:08.880 You know what they do? 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:10.680 Seo babes right to me? 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:15.080 You so, yeah, Nagi when she makes salad there with 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:18.800 umph as she says she has tried and tasted recipes. 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:21.040 You know this woman really cares and she used to 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:21.680 work in corporate. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:23.120 Where's this information coming back. 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:26.560 From her origin story. I'm all across her the. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:28.760 Way I asked you why you like her, and you've 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:31.800 plubbed her origin story on her website. 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:34.199 I want to ensure I'm sharing the correct information with 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:39.120 the family and friends. Anyway, Just honestly, tonight, if you 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:40.760 want to cook and you don't know what to cook, 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:45.800 Nagi recipe too eats. My personal favorites, the lasagna, the spaghetti, bolonnaise, 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:50.760 best bolono sauce you'll ever get across, and the list 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:51.120 goes on. 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:56.640 You're listening to Flex and Rooms on Kaita. 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:59.319 Kim and Kanye's ten year old daughter, potentially the most 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.839 talked about ten year old ever, has just gotten her 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:05.839 first ever solo magazine cover, and I've done us all 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:08.400 the service of reading through it and pulling out some highlights. 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.760 Strangely enough, I mean a couple of months ago through me, 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:16.800 you said something to the effect of Northwest being something favorable, 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.760 like someone we should be looking out for, And I 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:22.239 was like, I don't really like kids being celebrities. 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:25.439 No, I didn't say that, but we were talking about Northwest, 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:28.960 and I think I didn't realize that she was nine 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.320 because I think of her as like fifteen. Oh yeah, 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:34.560 but I know that we maybe not fifteen. That's an exaggeration. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.400 But we had the discussion, and I had never thought 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:39.079 you brought this point up. I never had realized that 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:43.480 the idea that Kim was like or her parents were 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.880 kind of thrusting her into this place where she can't consent. 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:49.160 That was what I Yeah, so I was of the 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:51.560 point of, like, I love a content creator like the 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:53.760 next person. But I do think it's so strange that 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.640 a child so young, or just a child period, can 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:01.199 be this intertwined and a mesh in culture in a 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:04.320 way that they probably should be probably should be protected from, 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.719 especially considering that Kim does go out of her way 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:08.839 to protect north like she will do these lives she 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.040 will send to them. But still I don't know if 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.800 we should be having access to your ten year old 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:15.800 like this. But nonetheless, the interview is done. I read 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:19.480 through it, you'd be surprised. Number One, she's obsessed with 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:24.560 Kanye West, which is classic divorce children loving dad vibes. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:31.000 She says here that her style icon is herself. She 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.320 says that her favorite thing from the photo shoot is 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.240 that she got to do her own edges, which, let 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:38.360 me tell you, having the wrong hairdresser for the people 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:40.400 of color on the shute starts young, because why is 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:42.360 a ten year old doing her own hair and edges 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:47.640 when she is the children of multimillionaires and juants billionaires. 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:48.640 It doesn't add up. 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:53.760 She also talks about wanting to be a mosquito because 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:56.080 she's allergic to them and she can tell them all 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:59.000 to leave her alone. It's fascinating hearing her kids process 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:00.880 their lives like this thing that you hate so much 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:01.559 you want to be. 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:02.679 For what reason? 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:05.360 I'm not sure three words that she would use to 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:08.440 describe herself the best ever, This is a lot of 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.440 confidence coming from a child, and even if it's who 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:12.600 knows if it's real or fake. 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.880 I'm just fascinated by the fact that some. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:18.920 Adult here would have to written all these questions to 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:21.440 position an interview for a ten year old. What would 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:24.080 have been the best case scenario for this? Not quite sure. 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.199 I'm also really intrigued that they didn't make it a feature. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:30.320 They didn't spend you know, thirty minutes with her and 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:33.200 ask her a few questions and weave that into a story. 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:37.320 They let her express herself. It's literally just Q and a, 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:39.400 A Q and A. Do you like singing? Do you 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:40.040 like performing? 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:43.240 Yeah? I like singing. Performing is my favorite. That is 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.360 how simple the INTWO is, which I kind of want. 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.160 Yeah, I think that's better rather. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.600 Than like positioning her as like this really profound kid 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:51.199 or whatever. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:56.160 It's it's simple. It's here. It's fine because. 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:58.200 That would feel more probing and that would feel more inappropriate. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:12:59.600 But yeah, she's literally a child. 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:05.120 I also love so like when I say Northwest, I 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:08.559 like that she loves like Halloween and stuff. She's always 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:12.080 doing prosthetics that stuff. That's what I got excited about 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:13.920 when I first saw her. I'm like, she's doing these little, 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:16.720 like creative things, and I loved that about her. But 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:18.840 she's always going to be compared to both her parents 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:21.239 and the way that both her parents are so divisive. 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:25.319 Like, yeah, I'm very intrigued to see how this works out. 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.680 And especially because unlike somebody like Blue Ivy, which is 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.760 Beyonce and jay Z's child, your access to Blue Ivy 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:34.840 is very limited by what Beyonce will allow in a 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:39.480 very contrived circumstance like performing on tour. You can't touch her, 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.520 you can look at her, don't talk about her, don't 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.720 comment about her. And she'd been very, very particular to 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:47.760 ensure that Blue is not really interwoven in any way 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:51.680 but being a representative of the Carter family, she's not 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:55.040 really her own entity realistically, She's just one kind of 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:57.959 like piece of the bigger picture. And for that reason, 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:00.200 if you never saw Blue Ivy again, you wouldn't really 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:03.400 be surprised. The moment that Northwest decides to take even 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.080 a brief hiatus from the media, the amount of rumors 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:07.840 are going to be made up about her, the amount 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:12.760 of speculations about her mental health, her relationship to fame, 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:14.520 and all of this stuff. It's going to be a 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:16.200 whiral wind for sure. 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:20.200 Oh my word, My favorite part about doing this show 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:25.280 is getting listener submissions. Mickey is always in the DMS talking. 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:26.080 To our dear listeners. 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.840 So I pop in when when the notifications on Froom's 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.360 account isn't quite popping, I need little serotonin. I do 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.840 go to our messages and have a little really not 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:35.880 community management, but community check in. 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.160 So guys don't worry. I'm thinking about you. 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:42.200 We have a okay, So this is actually a TikTok 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.560 that Jasmine saw and she thought of us, so she 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.280 sent it in for us to discuss. 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:48.360 We couldn't find the sauce, but here we go. 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:51.440 Why is there nothing bitchier than seeing the freeze? My boyfriend, 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:53.600 my woyfriend? Would you this weekend? 0:14:53.640 --> 0:14:55.160 I'm like, oh, I went to the museum with my 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:59.280 airprim They're like, what with me? 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:00.880 If you're to do a single person? 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:02.080 It sounds like you're bragging. 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:03.560 You're like, oh, I can't. 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:06.480 Hang out later, I'm getting dinner with my woifriend. 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:08.000 Like what. 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:13.640 This is so like internalized? Being single is embarrassing? 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:13.880 Core? 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.520 Do you not think I get I get that thing 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.840 of like if you're with your friends and I feel 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.720 like I've experienced it before when you've had a partner. 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:30.080 Wow wow, oh wow through me, don't use partner. 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:32.360 You don't understand. I pause because I was going to 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:35.360 say boyfriend. The thing that I was gonna not say 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:38.560 came out. You know, you know, I had a full 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:40.280 not beef. But my best friend and I were in 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:42.480 the car that I driven through King's Cross and she 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:44.360 was like, you know what the one thing that I disagree, Well, 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:46.360 there's plenty of things which, like I really disagree when 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.960 you said that partner thing, she was mad to clarify. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:51.200 What did you say about? Okay? 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:53.680 For a few months ago, folks, I talked about how 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:58.960 I think it's hilarious how people laugh as having a 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:01.880 partner quote unquote, because potentially it comes across as if 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:02.600 they could be queer? 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:04.720 Is that use another word that's not lap? 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:07.040 Okay? Live action role play? 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:11.360 This really like this did ruffle some feathers, but in 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:14.240 quite a lovely community. Esquay Like there was discussion in 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:18.440 the comments as a video on my Instagram, but essentially 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:23.000 saying and I've seen this since discuss more in meme format, 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:25.120 so I know I'm not the only one about how 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:28.080 certain people live action role play as like, oh are 0:16:28.080 --> 0:16:29.120 they like queer? 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:32.280 Are they straight? By saying partner? And I was just 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.720 saying I find it funny. 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:35.880 Absolutely, And it's not isolated. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:39.160 I mean, people use ambiguous language all the time to 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:44.320 protect themselves from looking dumb, looking silly, or to position 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:46.440 themselves closer to something else, so they want to be 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:51.040 like but can't. Interesting. So when your friend was saying. 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:52.760 They really disagreed with that. What was the point that 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:53.360 they were making. 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.560 Their point was they have a boyfriend, Sorry, they've got 0:16:56.560 --> 0:17:00.120 a partner. Okay, she had a few points. Number one, 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:04.080 boyfriend feels very juvenile, which I understand, but I also 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:07.120 like I person think girl, we use that every day, 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:09.880 speak on it. The other thing, the point that she made, 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:12.960 which I also saw on the comments, was that saying 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:16.200 partner protects queer people because if we all say partner, 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:17.000 then we don't know who. 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:18.040 Is that why people say partner. 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:22.400 Allegedly, you're telling me hand on heart, person who says partner, 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.560 you do it because you're protecting the queer community. 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:28.400 Ali, Ali, nickie, do you want to do you want 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:29.639 to sign in? I'm sorry, do you want to? 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:33.040 But I think a lot of people also like saying 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:36.000 that if they've been in a long term relationship for 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:37.760 like ten years, that's why they're using partner. 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:38.439 Okay, that's it? 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:39.280 Yeah, I don't think. 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:43.160 Sorry, I forgot that. Do you call justly your partner never? 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:45.400 You're calling your boyfriend always? 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:49.920 Jusie, Do you think it's because the icky bit about it, 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:53.879 saying my boyfriend my girlfriend is not the title but 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:57.520 the ownership of it all. Oh, because outside of being 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:00.360 your boyfriend, they're just a person. You could say that name. 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:02.720