1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:16,468 Speaker 1: live on the Free I had. 3 00:00:21,948 --> 00:00:24,108 Speaker 2: The Will and Woody podcast. 4 00:00:25,428 --> 00:00:27,869 Speaker 3: It's Well and Woody Getting your Home Woods. I asked 5 00:00:27,869 --> 00:00:30,189 Speaker 3: you before what the most satisfying feeling in the world was. 6 00:00:31,109 --> 00:00:33,869 Speaker 3: Look for me, I think for a lot of people, 7 00:00:34,229 --> 00:00:38,589 Speaker 3: it's when you managed to find the person with loose lips, 8 00:00:39,069 --> 00:00:41,789 Speaker 3: when you find the rat, when you find the leaky boat, 9 00:00:42,468 --> 00:00:44,068 Speaker 3: the person who's billed a secret. 10 00:00:44,108 --> 00:00:46,549 Speaker 2: It's a great feel. Oh yeah, here the one. 11 00:00:46,828 --> 00:00:51,148 Speaker 3: Yes, Oh yeah, sure, the mast have grasped yes, and 12 00:00:51,989 --> 00:00:52,989 Speaker 3: I woke up awesome. 13 00:00:52,989 --> 00:00:54,909 Speaker 2: For detectives, we've been spending. 14 00:00:54,629 --> 00:00:57,069 Speaker 3: A week at our house trying to figure out because 15 00:00:57,109 --> 00:01:00,989 Speaker 3: there was some friends of ours got pregnant recently, huge news, 16 00:01:01,069 --> 00:01:03,109 Speaker 3: really good stuff, but got leaked. 17 00:01:03,469 --> 00:01:04,628 Speaker 2: Oh no, got leaked. 18 00:01:04,709 --> 00:01:07,069 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, And we were trying to figure out 19 00:01:07,149 --> 00:01:09,309 Speaker 3: how it got leaked. And these guys weren't they weren't. 20 00:01:09,469 --> 00:01:11,789 Speaker 3: They were unhappy about it. I just got out amongst 21 00:01:11,789 --> 00:01:16,268 Speaker 3: the friendship, the friendship early and you know, the friends 22 00:01:16,269 --> 00:01:17,629 Speaker 3: who were pregnant, it's the first one. 23 00:01:17,669 --> 00:01:19,229 Speaker 2: They were a bit they weren't. They were pretty upset 24 00:01:19,229 --> 00:01:19,589 Speaker 2: about it. 25 00:01:19,989 --> 00:01:21,829 Speaker 3: And I just had this moment in the kitchen the 26 00:01:21,909 --> 00:01:26,829 Speaker 3: other day where I found the rat in our house, 27 00:01:30,829 --> 00:01:33,989 Speaker 3: my daughter Max. It's two and a half years old, 28 00:01:35,429 --> 00:01:40,869 Speaker 3: she squealed. So it turned out, yeah, she's the rug rat. 29 00:01:40,949 --> 00:01:42,789 Speaker 3: Thanks jolly, that's. 30 00:01:42,629 --> 00:01:45,429 Speaker 2: What that is. I wasn't able to explain it, but 31 00:01:45,509 --> 00:01:47,829 Speaker 2: you know, those who got it got it amazingly, said, 32 00:01:47,869 --> 00:01:49,989 Speaker 2: I thought you were playing. It's amazing us a lot 33 00:01:50,029 --> 00:01:53,189 Speaker 2: of things. That's true. So when I get it. 34 00:01:53,229 --> 00:01:56,829 Speaker 3: What it happened was my very good friend had had 35 00:01:56,869 --> 00:01:59,509 Speaker 3: a few beers and they were looking after my daughter 36 00:01:59,549 --> 00:02:04,469 Speaker 3: for the afternoon, and he turned to my daughter and said. 37 00:02:05,629 --> 00:02:08,948 Speaker 2: Max, guess what a little bit of a joke here? Yeah. 38 00:02:09,309 --> 00:02:12,828 Speaker 3: Yeah, Sarah and he points to his belly has got 39 00:02:12,829 --> 00:02:16,228 Speaker 3: a baby in her belly. It's just like, you know what, 40 00:02:16,508 --> 00:02:19,829 Speaker 3: she's a kitchen Yeah, yeah, yeah. We had people around 41 00:02:19,829 --> 00:02:24,389 Speaker 3: for drinks the other night. Turns out every private conversation 42 00:02:24,469 --> 00:02:29,429 Speaker 3: Max's have been. Every first thing she said was guess 43 00:02:29,429 --> 00:02:35,629 Speaker 3: what Sarah told the whole party. I think, unfortunately, it's 44 00:02:35,709 --> 00:02:38,949 Speaker 3: your mate here to a child and say. 45 00:02:39,069 --> 00:02:41,788 Speaker 2: He gives he accepts full responsibility. 46 00:02:41,869 --> 00:02:43,829 Speaker 3: I think there's just a moment where you realize that 47 00:02:43,869 --> 00:02:45,629 Speaker 3: you've got a live one like you've got like she 48 00:02:45,629 --> 00:02:46,589 Speaker 3: can't trust with anything. 49 00:02:46,869 --> 00:02:48,788 Speaker 2: She went, she really blew it the other day. 50 00:02:48,909 --> 00:02:50,229 Speaker 3: And I want to know from you guys, by the way, 51 00:02:50,229 --> 00:02:52,429 Speaker 3: thirteen one and six five, if a toddler's ratted you out, 52 00:02:52,909 --> 00:02:56,749 Speaker 3: because I imagine it happens more often than you think. 53 00:02:56,789 --> 00:02:59,309 Speaker 1: They repeat things and when and it's funny when they 54 00:02:59,309 --> 00:03:01,749 Speaker 1: repeat something and they see that you don't like that. 55 00:03:01,749 --> 00:03:02,549 Speaker 2: They repeated it. 56 00:03:02,829 --> 00:03:05,589 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's h's that's a red rag 57 00:03:05,629 --> 00:03:07,029 Speaker 1: to a bull for end. And she's like, that made 58 00:03:07,029 --> 00:03:09,349 Speaker 1: you uncomfortable. I'm going to repeat that exactly. 59 00:03:09,869 --> 00:03:13,989 Speaker 3: So she she's learned to use the toilet at the moment, 60 00:03:14,709 --> 00:03:15,269 Speaker 3: big toilet. 61 00:03:15,349 --> 00:03:15,789 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 62 00:03:15,789 --> 00:03:19,229 Speaker 1: So she came out weirdly. Her mum also pooved with 63 00:03:19,269 --> 00:03:24,149 Speaker 1: her in this instance that age fine, strange, do as 64 00:03:24,189 --> 00:03:26,189 Speaker 1: I do, not as I say. Nice. 65 00:03:26,629 --> 00:03:27,429 Speaker 2: So they went together. 66 00:03:27,949 --> 00:03:30,469 Speaker 3: Anyway, she walked out and I noticed that she hadn't 67 00:03:30,509 --> 00:03:31,189 Speaker 3: washed her hands. 68 00:03:31,389 --> 00:03:32,869 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, sure yeah. 69 00:03:32,909 --> 00:03:35,469 Speaker 3: And I was like, get back in there, wash your hands. Yeah, 70 00:03:35,589 --> 00:03:37,829 Speaker 3: And she turned to me and she said, Mommy didn't 71 00:03:37,869 --> 00:03:39,269 Speaker 3: wash her hands perfect. 72 00:03:39,269 --> 00:03:40,709 Speaker 2: And I was like, all. 73 00:03:40,709 --> 00:03:44,509 Speaker 3: Right, both a bigger problem and two children, both of 74 00:03:44,549 --> 00:03:46,789 Speaker 3: you get back in there all right, thirty one O 75 00:03:46,909 --> 00:03:50,909 Speaker 3: six five. If a toddler has ratted you out, Samuro 76 00:03:51,029 --> 00:03:54,389 Speaker 3: Grub if you're listening, revealed she never washes her hands. 77 00:03:54,229 --> 00:03:57,229 Speaker 2: After Yeah too. Is that a Dutch? Is it a Dutch? 78 00:03:58,149 --> 00:04:00,989 Speaker 3: Could be traditions? Yeah, make it, let's make it. Rachel 79 00:04:04,229 --> 00:04:06,829 Speaker 3: thirteen one O six'. Five if a toddler's ratted you, 80 00:04:06,909 --> 00:04:08,189 Speaker 3: out we'd love to hear from. 81 00:04:08,189 --> 00:04:10,629 Speaker 1: You this one's an interesting, one will because TECHNICALLY i 82 00:04:10,709 --> 00:04:12,629 Speaker 1: didn't do the, crime but it made it seem LIKE 83 00:04:12,669 --> 00:04:16,349 Speaker 1: i did a heinous. Crime SO i was Walking remy into, 84 00:04:16,428 --> 00:04:18,308 Speaker 1: daycare and we always have a chat with the, Lady, 85 00:04:18,389 --> 00:04:20,629 Speaker 1: sally who makes the. Food if you're, Listening, sally big, 86 00:04:20,669 --> 00:04:23,708 Speaker 1: hello and they always have a little chat and like 87 00:04:23,748 --> 00:04:25,949 Speaker 1: what's for, lunch et. Cetera, Anyway remy just decided to, 88 00:04:25,988 --> 00:04:31,109 Speaker 1: say daddy poo poo in. Bath AND i did not 89 00:04:31,189 --> 00:04:34,429 Speaker 1: do it poopoo in, bath but she. Does IF i pass, 90 00:04:34,509 --> 00:04:37,389 Speaker 1: win she calls she goes poop. Pool but unfortunately a 91 00:04:37,469 --> 00:04:39,869 Speaker 1: fart is a. Poopool like she keeps saying That i'm 92 00:04:39,869 --> 00:04:41,669 Speaker 1: poopooing around the house And i'm puto pooing in the 93 00:04:41,669 --> 00:04:44,428 Speaker 1: bath and so they're really looking at me strangely at. 94 00:04:44,509 --> 00:04:46,948 Speaker 3: Daycare fair, enough IF i Was, sally, yeah i'd definitely 95 00:04:46,988 --> 00:04:49,109 Speaker 3: be telling the other people on call that day that 96 00:04:49,149 --> 00:04:49,789 Speaker 3: you did shit in the. 97 00:04:49,829 --> 00:04:52,709 Speaker 2: BATH i was remy. Down some sick stuff's going on 98 00:04:52,709 --> 00:04:53,309 Speaker 2: The White Little, House. 99 00:04:55,149 --> 00:04:58,029 Speaker 3: Kathy this is when you were a. Kid oh so 100 00:04:58,149 --> 00:04:59,709 Speaker 3: you ratted someone out as a two year? 101 00:04:59,709 --> 00:05:01,709 Speaker 2: Old, no, no, no, no this is my. 102 00:05:01,829 --> 00:05:05,429 Speaker 4: Daughter this one's going to get. You so my daughter's 103 00:05:05,429 --> 00:05:07,429 Speaker 4: thirty one, now so this is a long time, ago 104 00:05:07,988 --> 00:05:09,949 Speaker 4: AND i was happy to be training her at the. 105 00:05:09,949 --> 00:05:12,428 Speaker 4: Time so she wasn't even, two AND i was actually 106 00:05:12,429 --> 00:05:14,709 Speaker 4: pregnant with her. Sister and my mother law said to, 107 00:05:14,709 --> 00:05:16,109 Speaker 4: Me i'll sall, Right i'll take it to the, loo 108 00:05:16,189 --> 00:05:18,709 Speaker 4: AND i, said, okay. Thanks so she went off there 109 00:05:18,749 --> 00:05:20,549 Speaker 4: and they left the door open and they were having 110 00:05:20,549 --> 00:05:22,988 Speaker 4: a little. CONVERSATION i happened to be walking past the 111 00:05:23,029 --> 00:05:25,269 Speaker 4: loo at the, time AND i heard my nearly two 112 00:05:25,349 --> 00:05:28,509 Speaker 4: year old say to her, Grandmother, grandma did you know 113 00:05:28,589 --> 00:05:32,069 Speaker 4: that my mama doesn't really like you? Much AND i 114 00:05:32,189 --> 00:05:35,589 Speaker 4: REALLY i had no idea where she got that idea. 115 00:05:35,669 --> 00:05:39,669 Speaker 5: From so you do like Your, moly, gosh this is 116 00:05:39,669 --> 00:05:40,309 Speaker 5: my mother. 117 00:05:40,109 --> 00:05:48,109 Speaker 2: In law using it and checks. Out, Unfortunately, kathy that's 118 00:05:48,349 --> 00:05:49,589 Speaker 2: far too close to. Home all. 119 00:05:49,669 --> 00:05:53,669 Speaker 3: Right Rebecca's girl thirty one and six, Five, Rebecca, hi 120 00:05:53,749 --> 00:05:55,549 Speaker 3: how are? You Your your child routed you? 121 00:05:55,589 --> 00:05:58,509 Speaker 6: OUT i had three. CHILDREN i had a four year 122 00:05:58,549 --> 00:05:59,789 Speaker 6: old and twin two year. 123 00:05:59,789 --> 00:06:00,669 Speaker 2: Old oh that's. 124 00:06:00,749 --> 00:06:02,469 Speaker 7: True AND i. 125 00:06:02,229 --> 00:06:06,309 Speaker 6: Was speeding one day and the policeman pulled me. Over 126 00:06:06,509 --> 00:06:09,029 Speaker 6: but just before he pulled me, Over i'm, like oh, god, 127 00:06:09,189 --> 00:06:12,549 Speaker 6: Damn mommy was. Speeding and then when the policeman, said, 128 00:06:12,549 --> 00:06:15,189 Speaker 6: oh you, know you realize you're, Speeding i'm, like, no, no, no, 129 00:06:15,189 --> 00:06:18,029 Speaker 6: No i'm not. SPEEDING i wasn't. Speeding and they're, like, Yes, 130 00:06:18,109 --> 00:06:20,909 Speaker 6: mama you said bugger you were. Speeding And i'm. 131 00:06:20,749 --> 00:06:21,349 Speaker 8: Like oh my. 132 00:06:21,389 --> 00:06:24,508 Speaker 9: God and then then he. 133 00:06:24,389 --> 00:06:27,189 Speaker 6: Proceeded to say to, me is this your address on my? 134 00:06:27,269 --> 00:06:29,749 Speaker 6: License is this where you? Live And i'm, like, yeah, 135 00:06:29,869 --> 00:06:33,189 Speaker 6: yep that's my, address but we've actually moved house two weeks. 136 00:06:33,229 --> 00:06:37,549 Speaker 6: Before the hall chimed up and, Said, mama we don't live. 137 00:06:37,589 --> 00:06:44,069 Speaker 3: There, gosh oh, wow you cursed the day you're. 138 00:06:44,069 --> 00:06:45,469 Speaker 2: Born you gave birth to. 139 00:06:45,549 --> 00:06:49,188 Speaker 3: Them my imagine in that, Moment oh, wow you just 140 00:06:49,229 --> 00:06:54,829 Speaker 3: want them on your. Team read the. Room David hard to, Hear, 141 00:06:55,669 --> 00:06:58,309 Speaker 3: david this is when, yeah good is when your son 142 00:06:58,429 --> 00:06:59,428 Speaker 3: was three he rated you. 143 00:06:59,469 --> 00:07:03,149 Speaker 10: Out, yeah so the mother in the step mother in, 144 00:07:03,229 --> 00:07:07,549 Speaker 10: law she's the hairdresser and all of the work at the, 145 00:07:07,589 --> 00:07:10,269 Speaker 10: dom and he went over there and got a haircut 146 00:07:10,309 --> 00:07:12,069 Speaker 10: and he come home AND i said to my, wife 147 00:07:12,189 --> 00:07:14,829 Speaker 10: that is the most terrible Haircut i've ever. Seen she's 148 00:07:14,949 --> 00:07:15,629 Speaker 10: never doing that. 149 00:07:15,749 --> 00:07:19,829 Speaker 11: Again and he's obviously overheard. That and it was a 150 00:07:19,829 --> 00:07:22,789 Speaker 11: couple of years later we're sitting around eating dinner at 151 00:07:22,789 --> 00:07:25,109 Speaker 11: the dinner, table and you, know the Him mauls were 152 00:07:25,149 --> 00:07:29,149 Speaker 11: over and she, said, oh, NO i think it's storm 153 00:07:29,269 --> 00:07:32,469 Speaker 11: that we cut your hair. Again and he's, like, nah 154 00:07:32,629 --> 00:07:34,749 Speaker 11: you never cut my hair. Again my dad, says you 155 00:07:34,749 --> 00:07:35,909 Speaker 11: don't do a good job cutting. 156 00:07:35,949 --> 00:07:39,549 Speaker 10: THERE i. 157 00:07:39,629 --> 00:07:42,189 Speaker 1: Love it was years later it was, yeah, right he 158 00:07:42,269 --> 00:07:44,749 Speaker 1: was sitting. 159 00:07:43,069 --> 00:07:45,549 Speaker 2: For an elephant as. 160 00:07:45,589 --> 00:07:49,149 Speaker 3: Well, wow great, Stuff Dave, charlotte we're talking about When 161 00:07:50,029 --> 00:07:50,949 Speaker 3: toddler's ratted you. 162 00:07:50,989 --> 00:07:53,869 Speaker 2: Out is your friend's daughter my friend's. 163 00:07:53,909 --> 00:07:56,549 Speaker 12: Daughter, Yeah so my girlfriend was going through a trial 164 00:07:56,629 --> 00:07:59,589 Speaker 12: separation with her husband and she was at her. 165 00:07:59,669 --> 00:08:01,789 Speaker 2: Boyfriend what is a trial? 166 00:08:01,869 --> 00:08:05,268 Speaker 4: Separation they were like going to, divorce but they weren't, 167 00:08:05,269 --> 00:08:07,109 Speaker 4: short so they thought they'll trial. 168 00:08:06,789 --> 00:08:08,229 Speaker 12: It so she would they would live. 169 00:08:08,269 --> 00:08:12,589 Speaker 2: Separately, yeah it sounds. 170 00:08:12,589 --> 00:08:15,589 Speaker 12: Good, unfortunately she got herself a boyfriend at the very 171 00:08:15,629 --> 00:08:19,589 Speaker 12: start of. That so she's staying at the boyfriend's, house 172 00:08:19,669 --> 00:08:22,869 Speaker 12: her child with the, father and they do like a 173 00:08:22,909 --> 00:08:25,829 Speaker 12: FaceTime and her daughter wants to tell her that she's 174 00:08:25,869 --> 00:08:28,789 Speaker 12: finally done a pool on the, toilet and then she 175 00:08:28,909 --> 00:08:31,669 Speaker 12: starts asking for, oh where's so and? So where's so and? 176 00:08:31,709 --> 00:08:34,909 Speaker 12: So and the, husband the ex, husband who's so and? 177 00:08:34,949 --> 00:08:38,469 Speaker 12: So and it was, oh, nobody because the daughter recognized 178 00:08:38,468 --> 00:08:41,069 Speaker 12: her house and she wanted to talk to the, boyfriend 179 00:08:41,189 --> 00:08:43,909 Speaker 12: and so the whole thing came, OUT i, See and 180 00:08:44,108 --> 00:08:46,028 Speaker 12: it turned out she'd been cheating for a. While it was, 181 00:08:47,828 --> 00:08:52,029 Speaker 12: yeah two and a half year, old rather, out that's. 182 00:08:52,108 --> 00:08:54,468 Speaker 2: Her we did get a great call on this topic 183 00:08:54,508 --> 00:08:58,668 Speaker 2: the other. Day, SARAH i was. 184 00:08:58,669 --> 00:09:00,989 Speaker 9: New to the, industry only been in the industry for six. 185 00:09:01,029 --> 00:09:04,388 Speaker 9: Months just got all the qualifications supervising the bathroom of 186 00:09:04,429 --> 00:09:06,789 Speaker 9: the three to five year. Olds the little girls going 187 00:09:06,828 --> 00:09:09,268 Speaker 9: to the, toilet daughter a normal. Thing she looks over 188 00:09:09,309 --> 00:09:12,069 Speaker 9: to the, boy points to him and, goes my mom's 189 00:09:12,108 --> 00:09:13,789 Speaker 9: got one of. Them she straps it. 190 00:09:13,828 --> 00:09:21,708 Speaker 3: On can you? 191 00:09:21,828 --> 00:09:25,069 Speaker 2: Pause and chat during a movie OR tv. 192 00:09:25,268 --> 00:09:27,908 Speaker 1: Show we found out last week That Andy lee is 193 00:09:27,949 --> 00:09:31,189 Speaker 1: a pause and. Chatter he AND i think there's a 194 00:09:31,588 --> 00:09:34,028 Speaker 1: there's a show offness to. IT i THINK i think 195 00:09:34,029 --> 00:09:36,468 Speaker 1: when he's on the cotch With, beck he likes to 196 00:09:36,508 --> 00:09:39,269 Speaker 1: pause and, then you, know either explain what he is 197 00:09:39,309 --> 00:09:41,588 Speaker 1: going on or deliver a prediction as to what is 198 00:09:41,628 --> 00:09:41,909 Speaker 1: going to. 199 00:09:41,909 --> 00:09:43,628 Speaker 3: Happen so CAN i, say, LIKE i know that you're 200 00:09:43,628 --> 00:09:44,508 Speaker 3: trying to fish this out of. 201 00:09:44,588 --> 00:09:46,149 Speaker 2: ME i KNOW i know how you. ARE i know 202 00:09:46,189 --> 00:09:47,828 Speaker 2: you're a pause and. CHATTER i know you. 203 00:09:47,868 --> 00:09:49,789 Speaker 3: ARE i know how to say that you're gaslighting. 204 00:09:49,789 --> 00:09:50,229 Speaker 2: ME i know you. 205 00:09:50,268 --> 00:09:52,868 Speaker 3: ARE i don't want to force the competition from it you, 206 00:09:52,868 --> 00:09:55,069 Speaker 3: DO i don't Know i'm going to. It, no you've 207 00:09:55,069 --> 00:09:57,909 Speaker 3: done a far more nefarious angle you tried. 208 00:09:57,949 --> 00:10:00,309 Speaker 1: To you tried to say that you only pause shows 209 00:10:00,309 --> 00:10:02,789 Speaker 1: because your partner Speaks. Dutch so you're, like, oh sometimes 210 00:10:02,828 --> 00:10:04,748 Speaker 1: you have to put the subtitles on, Whatever, mate you'd 211 00:10:04,748 --> 00:10:05,509 Speaker 1: slip in a prediction. 212 00:10:05,588 --> 00:10:09,548 Speaker 3: There i've got great, theories entertaining, theories and sometimes that. 213 00:10:09,549 --> 00:10:12,549 Speaker 2: Ruins the show or the. Movie to, yourself, MATE. 214 00:10:12,348 --> 00:10:15,348 Speaker 3: I picked my, audience But i've never met somebody with 215 00:10:15,388 --> 00:10:16,909 Speaker 3: a mid show pause and chat When i've. 216 00:10:16,748 --> 00:10:19,949 Speaker 2: Got a hot. Theory i'd have one hundred theories watching a. 217 00:10:19,988 --> 00:10:22,229 Speaker 3: Movie, sure, sure, right, yeah you only getting the top 218 00:10:22,228 --> 00:10:25,828 Speaker 3: shelf right right? Right you, know so you are you're 219 00:10:25,828 --> 00:10:28,909 Speaker 3: At europaus and. Chatter But i'm not, prolific SO i 220 00:10:28,909 --> 00:10:30,949 Speaker 3: think it needs to be like boundaries drawn on what 221 00:10:30,988 --> 00:10:34,229 Speaker 3: you can pause and chat. On, so for, example a 222 00:10:34,228 --> 00:10:37,228 Speaker 3: big pause in chat that kills me is twenty minutes 223 00:10:37,228 --> 00:10:42,708 Speaker 3: into a, movie pause and someone, someone And sam turns 224 00:10:42,708 --> 00:10:44,509 Speaker 3: to me and, goes do we know who that? 225 00:10:44,669 --> 00:10:47,029 Speaker 2: Is? OH i hate? That or DO i? Go is 226 00:10:47,029 --> 00:10:47,828 Speaker 2: that a good? Guy a bad? 227 00:10:47,828 --> 00:10:50,509 Speaker 3: Guy this is The we don't actually the. Movie you're 228 00:10:50,549 --> 00:10:52,669 Speaker 3: watching it at the same time as. Me, yeah that's 229 00:10:52,708 --> 00:10:55,909 Speaker 3: the first time they've been on the. SCREEN i have no. 230 00:10:55,949 --> 00:10:59,149 Speaker 1: Idea Sometimes nimmo will pause it and, say, oh what 231 00:10:59,189 --> 00:10:59,468 Speaker 1: are they? 232 00:10:59,508 --> 00:11:03,189 Speaker 2: From it's like your own time chat look on your own? 233 00:11:03,189 --> 00:11:03,908 Speaker 2: Time often ten. 234 00:11:03,949 --> 00:11:08,468 Speaker 1: Minutes oh, Yeah. 235 00:11:07,189 --> 00:11:08,508 Speaker 2: Rebecca what are your? 236 00:11:08,508 --> 00:11:11,828 Speaker 1: Thought what's on the pause and chat whilst WATCHING tv 237 00:11:11,949 --> 00:11:12,389 Speaker 1: shows or? 238 00:11:12,468 --> 00:11:15,428 Speaker 13: Movies, yeah so me and my partner we do this 239 00:11:15,549 --> 00:11:17,389 Speaker 13: all the, time so we're as bad as each. Other 240 00:11:17,669 --> 00:11:19,868 Speaker 13: so watching something and then we pause and chat about, 241 00:11:19,868 --> 00:11:23,069 Speaker 13: it and we'll analyze what's going on and Try. 242 00:11:23,388 --> 00:11:26,468 Speaker 2: Yeah, rebecca who has who has hand on? Remote between 243 00:11:26,508 --> 00:11:26,828 Speaker 2: the two of? 244 00:11:26,828 --> 00:11:28,909 Speaker 1: You BECAUSE i feel like in all relationships there is 245 00:11:28,949 --> 00:11:30,189 Speaker 1: one person who has hand on. 246 00:11:30,228 --> 00:11:32,509 Speaker 2: Remote will you are obviously the person with the hand on? 247 00:11:32,549 --> 00:11:36,069 Speaker 2: Remote are? You are you the one with the hands 248 00:11:36,268 --> 00:11:37,749 Speaker 2: on the, Remote? Rebecca or is your? 249 00:11:37,789 --> 00:11:40,189 Speaker 14: Partner it shits directly between? 250 00:11:40,268 --> 00:11:45,908 Speaker 1: Us all, Right, okay sounds like if you're both, pausing 251 00:11:46,069 --> 00:11:46,828 Speaker 1: then that's fair. 252 00:11:46,868 --> 00:11:48,228 Speaker 2: Game, Right i'm. 253 00:11:48,069 --> 00:11:50,269 Speaker 3: Pissed, off like all of a, Sudden rebecca's got a green. Light, 254 00:11:50,388 --> 00:11:52,268 Speaker 3: no, no she's on the couch with you. 255 00:11:52,149 --> 00:11:54,269 Speaker 2: Because she's the only. Pauser she's the ONLY i never. 256 00:11:54,588 --> 00:11:57,629 Speaker 3: Say anything, though to say anything to you during the 257 00:11:57,628 --> 00:11:59,749 Speaker 3: movie or THE tv show or is it just you Just? 258 00:11:59,789 --> 00:12:02,149 Speaker 2: BLACKROD i prefer to have. It let's have a post 259 00:12:02,549 --> 00:12:05,708 Speaker 2: chat wow do no chat at? 260 00:12:05,748 --> 00:12:05,989 Speaker 5: ALL i. 261 00:12:05,988 --> 00:12:10,629 Speaker 2: Don't we can, cuddle we can do cutesie. Things she was, 262 00:12:10,669 --> 00:12:11,549 Speaker 2: like do you want me to get your? 263 00:12:11,549 --> 00:12:14,908 Speaker 1: Blanket asked me during the end of the, year because 264 00:12:14,988 --> 00:12:17,069 Speaker 1: there's a five minute period. There we all know the 265 00:12:17,069 --> 00:12:19,069 Speaker 1: countdown twenty four seconds before the next step. 266 00:12:19,108 --> 00:12:21,628 Speaker 2: Starts that's your. Time let's go to. 267 00:12:21,789 --> 00:12:25,429 Speaker 1: Wow, lo do you pause and chat. 268 00:12:25,468 --> 00:12:28,588 Speaker 8: Mate you have to pause so the person that's chatting 269 00:12:28,628 --> 00:12:29,708 Speaker 8: gets the message to shut the. 270 00:12:29,748 --> 00:12:31,149 Speaker 2: Fruit take. Er oh that's. 271 00:12:31,189 --> 00:12:32,588 Speaker 8: It you're trying to get the movie. 272 00:12:32,628 --> 00:12:36,789 Speaker 1: Going, Yeah the defense off the chatter is to pause 273 00:12:36,828 --> 00:12:38,748 Speaker 1: it to let them know this isn't. 274 00:12:38,549 --> 00:12:42,108 Speaker 2: Appreciator and it's the. Look it's the look as. Well you. 275 00:12:42,309 --> 00:12:45,309 Speaker 2: Pause it's. Passive you, pause and then and then you turn. 276 00:12:46,628 --> 00:12:49,348 Speaker 2: Saying and the trick is to keep the remote pointing 277 00:12:49,429 --> 00:12:49,629 Speaker 2: at THE. 278 00:12:49,669 --> 00:12:52,909 Speaker 3: Tv you turn your head and the remote is still 279 00:12:53,069 --> 00:12:55,669 Speaker 3: gun barreling at the television to let them know you're 280 00:12:55,789 --> 00:12:58,069 Speaker 3: the ones stopping me from pressing play again on this. 281 00:12:58,189 --> 00:12:58,828 Speaker 2: Thing you're on the. 282 00:12:58,828 --> 00:13:01,468 Speaker 3: Clock what stupid thing would you like to ask? Me 283 00:13:01,748 --> 00:13:02,509 Speaker 3: and you've got ten? 284 00:13:02,588 --> 00:13:04,708 Speaker 1: Seconds and more often than that they was, like oh 285 00:13:04,789 --> 00:13:09,389 Speaker 1: Don't alie you and Chat? 286 00:13:09,429 --> 00:13:11,629 Speaker 10: ELISE i do pause in? 287 00:13:11,708 --> 00:13:13,108 Speaker 2: Chat what For? Elise? 288 00:13:14,029 --> 00:13:17,468 Speaker 14: Oh, well SOMETIMES i just need to let out a 289 00:13:17,468 --> 00:13:21,748 Speaker 14: bit of frustration OR i need to like, clarify like 290 00:13:21,789 --> 00:13:24,309 Speaker 14: my partner might not pick up on a little like 291 00:13:25,069 --> 00:13:28,468 Speaker 14: nuance in the, show And i'll, like do you? Know 292 00:13:28,708 --> 00:13:30,148 Speaker 14: AND i just think he's missing the. 293 00:13:30,108 --> 00:13:32,868 Speaker 2: Experience AND i have to be, like did you is that? 294 00:13:32,988 --> 00:13:35,708 Speaker 3: Patronizing for, Him, elise are you like? Pausing, No, NO 295 00:13:36,149 --> 00:13:36,748 Speaker 3: i don't get. 296 00:13:36,789 --> 00:13:36,949 Speaker 2: It. 297 00:13:37,549 --> 00:13:39,828 Speaker 14: NO i think sometimes Like i'll be, Like i'll look 298 00:13:39,868 --> 00:13:42,229 Speaker 14: at him and he'll, like he'll he'll have no. Reaction 299 00:13:42,309 --> 00:13:44,468 Speaker 14: i'll be, like, no this is a big, moment like 300 00:13:45,268 --> 00:13:45,588 Speaker 14: behind the? 301 00:13:45,628 --> 00:13:48,668 Speaker 3: Eyes what sort of big moment? Here what's the moment 302 00:13:48,669 --> 00:13:52,508 Speaker 3: that he's missed in a movie you had to, actually. 303 00:13:52,828 --> 00:13:57,389 Speaker 14: Like, say if someone's walking through somewhere and they've just 304 00:13:57,429 --> 00:14:00,108 Speaker 14: given a bit of a, look like a evil, look 305 00:14:00,189 --> 00:14:03,509 Speaker 14: or like a like you and you know something's about to, 306 00:14:03,549 --> 00:14:06,189 Speaker 14: happen but, like he'll have no. Reaction he'll just think 307 00:14:06,228 --> 00:14:06,628 Speaker 14: it's another. 308 00:14:06,669 --> 00:14:08,069 Speaker 2: Scene maybe he's just enjoying. 309 00:14:08,108 --> 00:14:12,388 Speaker 14: It, yeah maybe, maybe but bless, him he will literally 310 00:14:12,429 --> 00:14:14,348 Speaker 14: just let me pause and chat and just be, like, 311 00:14:14,669 --> 00:14:15,749 Speaker 14: yeah that's. 312 00:14:15,748 --> 00:14:18,749 Speaker 2: Fine is he enjoying himself at? All in his? Experience 313 00:14:18,789 --> 00:14:20,469 Speaker 2: it just sounds like he's not liking THE tv. 314 00:14:20,589 --> 00:14:24,509 Speaker 14: SHOW i think he, is because sometimes he has paused 315 00:14:24,508 --> 00:14:27,508 Speaker 14: and chat probably three times. BEFORE i Think i'm turning 316 00:14:27,549 --> 00:14:28,268 Speaker 14: him into a pause and. 317 00:14:28,349 --> 00:14:31,149 Speaker 2: Chatter you've kept your, eyes but what's his paus and? Chat? 318 00:14:31,268 --> 00:14:33,229 Speaker 3: Like is he trying to figure out you, know what 319 00:14:33,349 --> 00:14:35,268 Speaker 3: room you're, in what year you're in like it sounds like. 320 00:14:35,229 --> 00:14:40,629 Speaker 14: He's, no, no not at. All he'll be Like he'll 321 00:14:40,669 --> 00:14:43,589 Speaker 14: just be, like hang on a, second Like. 322 00:14:44,189 --> 00:14:44,869 Speaker 2: Harry potter's a. 323 00:14:44,869 --> 00:14:54,469 Speaker 1: Wizard soap opera moments in real, Life we've Got kylie. Here, Hi, Kylie, 324 00:14:55,069 --> 00:14:59,669 Speaker 1: hey you had a moment in your life which kind 325 00:14:59,669 --> 00:15:00,469 Speaker 1: of belonged to a soap. 326 00:15:00,508 --> 00:15:00,829 Speaker 2: Opera. 327 00:15:02,069 --> 00:15:05,709 Speaker 7: YEAH i was sleeping with my cousin's. Boyfriend they were 328 00:15:05,749 --> 00:15:09,629 Speaker 7: together for About. Yeah not, great one of the greatest 329 00:15:09,669 --> 00:15:11,829 Speaker 7: moments of my, life but LOOK i enjoyed it will at, 330 00:15:11,869 --> 00:15:13,669 Speaker 7: last as bad as that is to. 331 00:15:13,709 --> 00:15:17,749 Speaker 1: Say did the cousin find out about, This? 332 00:15:18,109 --> 00:15:18,508 Speaker 2: Kylie? 333 00:15:18,789 --> 00:15:22,069 Speaker 7: YEAH, i well so it. Was it was about a year. 334 00:15:22,149 --> 00:15:25,429 Speaker 7: LATER i actually it started on her birthday. 335 00:15:26,589 --> 00:15:27,349 Speaker 5: A year. 336 00:15:27,709 --> 00:15:29,229 Speaker 13: Later a year. 337 00:15:29,309 --> 00:15:31,469 Speaker 15: Later we were going out for her birthday that night 338 00:15:31,549 --> 00:15:34,229 Speaker 15: AND i went home to have a, nap and THEN 339 00:15:34,349 --> 00:15:36,309 Speaker 15: i sent him a text message WHEN i was at, 340 00:15:36,309 --> 00:15:37,149 Speaker 15: home and she saw the. 341 00:15:37,189 --> 00:15:38,189 Speaker 7: Message what was the? 342 00:15:38,189 --> 00:15:40,029 Speaker 2: Message? 343 00:15:40,749 --> 00:15:43,309 Speaker 7: OH i didn't live with, her but it was my early. 344 00:15:43,388 --> 00:15:46,189 Speaker 7: Teens we were very, close AND i was just. 345 00:15:47,789 --> 00:15:48,829 Speaker 2: What was what was the? 346 00:15:48,869 --> 00:15:54,149 Speaker 15: Message, well, well he kissed me BEFORE i, left AND 347 00:15:54,229 --> 00:15:57,309 Speaker 15: i just said something about the kiss in the, message 348 00:15:57,429 --> 00:15:58,589 Speaker 15: and my cousin saw. 349 00:15:58,388 --> 00:16:00,349 Speaker 2: It and How's? 350 00:16:00,429 --> 00:16:04,469 Speaker 7: Christmas, WELL i haven't seen or spoken to her. 351 00:16:04,549 --> 00:16:08,629 Speaker 2: Since did you hook up with the guy again after? 352 00:16:08,789 --> 00:16:08,909 Speaker 6: That? 353 00:16:09,029 --> 00:16:13,029 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no no. 354 00:16:11,749 --> 00:16:14,829 Speaker 15: No communication at. ALL i spoke with her mother back 355 00:16:14,869 --> 00:16:16,869 Speaker 15: and forth here and. There she didn't want anything to 356 00:16:16,869 --> 00:16:19,388 Speaker 15: do with, me which is. Fair AND i think he 357 00:16:19,508 --> 00:16:20,429 Speaker 15: just runs through the hills. 358 00:16:20,829 --> 00:16:26,229 Speaker 2: Himself yeah, Right, look. 359 00:16:26,149 --> 00:16:27,668 Speaker 7: Would have made a good, water made a good. 360 00:16:27,709 --> 00:16:29,349 Speaker 15: Soapi you know that kind of all. 361 00:16:29,388 --> 00:16:31,189 Speaker 14: About but, look. 362 00:16:33,189 --> 00:16:33,869 Speaker 5: Oh, yeah. 363 00:16:35,069 --> 00:16:40,069 Speaker 3: Radiopology actually that's exhaustly the apology means she's telling us 364 00:16:40,309 --> 00:16:41,309 Speaker 3: she enjoyed it for a whole. 365 00:16:41,349 --> 00:16:44,069 Speaker 1: Year it was punctuated from birthday to birthday from her cousin, 366 00:16:44,149 --> 00:16:47,749 Speaker 1: birthday and then got found out on the. Birthday that 367 00:16:47,789 --> 00:16:50,309 Speaker 1: poor woman hates her. Birthday, like what's going to happen next? 368 00:16:50,388 --> 00:16:55,069 Speaker 1: Year let's go To lisa. Here, lisa you at a 369 00:16:55,069 --> 00:16:57,269 Speaker 1: moment in your life which belongs in a soap. 370 00:16:57,309 --> 00:16:58,949 Speaker 2: Opera what? HAPPENED i? 371 00:16:59,029 --> 00:17:03,709 Speaker 16: Did, YES i am about two years. AGO i found a. 372 00:17:03,789 --> 00:17:05,469 Speaker 16: Father she's sisters and a. 373 00:17:05,509 --> 00:17:09,349 Speaker 2: Brother you found a father like your. FATHER i found my. 374 00:17:09,469 --> 00:17:11,148 Speaker 16: Father, yeah two sisters and a. 375 00:17:11,189 --> 00:17:14,629 Speaker 12: Brother whoaw, yeah, yeah so that. 376 00:17:14,629 --> 00:17:17,309 Speaker 16: Was pretty full. ON i was searching for about thirty 377 00:17:17,389 --> 00:17:21,429 Speaker 16: years for my. Father and then one day On, ancestry 378 00:17:21,469 --> 00:17:24,549 Speaker 16: this girl popped up and it said she was my half, 379 00:17:24,629 --> 00:17:27,629 Speaker 16: sister and from THERE i talk to, her and all 380 00:17:27,669 --> 00:17:30,229 Speaker 16: of a, SUDDEN i had another sister and a. Brother 381 00:17:30,349 --> 00:17:32,789 Speaker 16: so Now i've got two sisters and a brother and 382 00:17:32,829 --> 00:17:33,989 Speaker 16: a father Who i'd never met. 383 00:17:33,989 --> 00:17:36,269 Speaker 3: Before, well why did You what was the reason for 384 00:17:36,549 --> 00:17:37,069 Speaker 3: your dad? 385 00:17:37,429 --> 00:17:37,749 Speaker 2: Leaving? 386 00:17:37,869 --> 00:17:41,589 Speaker 16: Lisa, oh there's a bit of debate around, that whether 387 00:17:41,629 --> 00:17:43,109 Speaker 16: he actually KNEW i existed or. 388 00:17:43,149 --> 00:17:47,709 Speaker 1: Not oh is The so you've got a half. 389 00:17:47,789 --> 00:17:50,709 Speaker 16: Sister i've got two half sisters and a half. 390 00:17:50,749 --> 00:17:54,829 Speaker 1: Brother, right so they're all from different different. 391 00:17:54,909 --> 00:17:57,469 Speaker 16: Moms, yes so different, mum but saying. 392 00:17:57,549 --> 00:18:01,429 Speaker 3: Dad so, yeah So dad's were, okay he's done The grand. 393 00:18:01,429 --> 00:18:04,029 Speaker 2: Tour so and you think you found them? 394 00:18:04,029 --> 00:18:07,709 Speaker 16: ALL, I, well we're wondering that at the moment whether 395 00:18:07,749 --> 00:18:11,149 Speaker 16: they're so we're watching ancestry dot com post. 396 00:18:12,269 --> 00:18:14,309 Speaker 3: Updated do you have any comms with your, Dad lisa 397 00:18:14,589 --> 00:18:16,389 Speaker 3: in the, End, yeah. 398 00:18:16,229 --> 00:18:19,149 Speaker 16: So i've met him a few. Times, now that's what's you? 399 00:18:19,309 --> 00:18:21,829 Speaker 12: Like oh he's, Lovely he's really. 400 00:18:21,869 --> 00:18:24,949 Speaker 16: Lovely, yeah BUT i have this amazing relationship now with the. 401 00:18:24,989 --> 00:18:27,309 Speaker 12: Siblings it's nice you've got your. 402 00:18:27,309 --> 00:18:30,749 Speaker 3: Siblings so for anyone else that you know feels like their, 403 00:18:30,829 --> 00:18:33,589 Speaker 3: dad jump on ancestry dot com join the. 404 00:18:33,629 --> 00:18:35,949 Speaker 2: Pool just Call. LISA i Reckon lisa's hear. 405 00:18:35,989 --> 00:18:41,509 Speaker 3: From, Look i've long suspected that my two year old 406 00:18:41,549 --> 00:18:42,629 Speaker 3: daughter hates. 407 00:18:42,709 --> 00:18:43,349 Speaker 2: You can we? 408 00:18:44,109 --> 00:18:44,309 Speaker 17: Come? 409 00:18:44,429 --> 00:18:47,669 Speaker 2: Yeah? Appropriate can we just unpack that a little? 410 00:18:47,669 --> 00:18:50,789 Speaker 3: Bit if you want, to you want to, GO i 411 00:18:50,869 --> 00:18:51,269 Speaker 3: just need. 412 00:18:51,189 --> 00:18:53,269 Speaker 1: A little bit of evidence as to why you thought 413 00:18:53,589 --> 00:18:55,309 Speaker 1: or WHAT i did to make your daughter not like, 414 00:18:55,389 --> 00:18:57,709 Speaker 1: me Because i've only ever been, kind sometimes too. 415 00:18:57,709 --> 00:19:00,789 Speaker 2: Intense i'll give you. THAT i come in. Hot yeah you. 416 00:19:00,829 --> 00:19:03,549 Speaker 3: Do, LOOK i just think that you would know, that 417 00:19:03,669 --> 00:19:08,989 Speaker 3: like toddlers are amazing at picking someone who's maybe trying 418 00:19:09,029 --> 00:19:09,269 Speaker 3: a bit. 419 00:19:09,349 --> 00:19:12,949 Speaker 2: Hard that does sound like they get the. Egg they really. 420 00:19:12,989 --> 00:19:14,029 Speaker 2: Do it's funny how. 421 00:19:14,069 --> 00:19:15,989 Speaker 3: That don't you think that's amazing how they can tell 422 00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,549 Speaker 3: whether someone's trying to convince them to like them versus 423 00:19:18,549 --> 00:19:20,589 Speaker 3: when someone's actually you know WHAT i? 424 00:19:20,589 --> 00:19:22,589 Speaker 1: Mean my own daughter does it to me, sometimes like 425 00:19:22,629 --> 00:19:24,869 Speaker 1: If i'm, like let's, play let's, play let's, play let's 426 00:19:24,869 --> 00:19:27,589 Speaker 1: play a, game like she's, like dad out it breaks, 427 00:19:27,629 --> 00:19:30,069 Speaker 1: MAN i don't want to play right, now and that 428 00:19:30,229 --> 00:19:31,549 Speaker 1: it hurts and. 429 00:19:31,469 --> 00:19:32,709 Speaker 2: She has to love. You at the end of the, 430 00:19:32,789 --> 00:19:33,749 Speaker 2: day she has your, daughter. 431 00:19:33,789 --> 00:19:35,148 Speaker 1: AND i just hang around her long enough for her 432 00:19:35,189 --> 00:19:37,389 Speaker 1: to eventually fall in love with me your, daughter though 433 00:19:37,469 --> 00:19:39,949 Speaker 1: she's got a. Choice this is a Nut i'm struggling to. Crack, 434 00:19:41,589 --> 00:19:43,309 Speaker 1: okay so we've suspected it for a. 435 00:19:43,349 --> 00:19:46,069 Speaker 3: While yesterday we tried to Get max on the show 436 00:19:46,109 --> 00:19:49,629 Speaker 3: to do, something and it looked like she was going 437 00:19:49,669 --> 00:19:50,789 Speaker 3: to but then she heard you were. 438 00:19:50,829 --> 00:19:52,909 Speaker 2: Here, Hi, maxy. 439 00:19:52,709 --> 00:19:56,429 Speaker 3: How are, YOU i, asked a sure, Work. 440 00:19:56,629 --> 00:20:05,389 Speaker 2: Yeah i'm here With. Woody Hello, Max, Max, Hi, Hi Hi. 441 00:20:05,549 --> 00:20:15,149 Speaker 2: Max it's the Second max for me that really breaks 442 00:20:15,189 --> 00:20:16,869 Speaker 2: my own. Heart max. 443 00:20:18,709 --> 00:20:22,709 Speaker 3: And then her her audible ick as she hands the 444 00:20:22,709 --> 00:20:26,749 Speaker 3: phone over to, her almost like it's curdled milk and 445 00:20:26,789 --> 00:20:28,069 Speaker 3: she's got a sour taste in her. 446 00:20:28,109 --> 00:20:31,549 Speaker 2: Mouth and she was so excited when she was talking 447 00:20:31,549 --> 00:20:35,029 Speaker 2: to you as, WELL i can't believe you work with that. 448 00:20:35,069 --> 00:20:40,229 Speaker 1: Guy YEAH i, Know, Yeah, yeah that's that's exactly describes 449 00:20:40,309 --> 00:20:40,989 Speaker 1: the sound that she. 450 00:20:41,109 --> 00:20:44,309 Speaker 3: Made so, look it's it's been tough for, YOU i, Think, 451 00:20:44,949 --> 00:20:46,669 Speaker 3: WELL i, Mean i'm just going on with my life 452 00:20:46,709 --> 00:20:48,909 Speaker 3: like It's i'm. NOT i don't need, THIS. 453 00:20:50,309 --> 00:20:52,148 Speaker 2: I don't need the love of EVERYONE i come into contact. 454 00:20:52,149 --> 00:20:54,149 Speaker 2: With what are you talking? About i'm? 455 00:20:54,149 --> 00:20:57,349 Speaker 3: Fine so LOOK i thought last NIGHT i just clear 456 00:20:57,389 --> 00:20:59,749 Speaker 3: it all. Up, GREAT i was, like, GREAT i just 457 00:20:59,749 --> 00:21:01,429 Speaker 3: need to ask her point. Blank she's talking in full. 458 00:21:01,429 --> 00:21:03,229 Speaker 3: Sentences now she's gonna. Understand And i'm. 459 00:21:03,069 --> 00:21:05,029 Speaker 2: Sure that you, said like he's actually a really nice. 460 00:21:05,029 --> 00:21:07,908 Speaker 3: Guy well, no, no, no, no not imposing a decision on my. 461 00:21:07,949 --> 00:21:10,949 Speaker 2: Daughter she makes that he's just getting the facts of 462 00:21:10,989 --> 00:21:12,909 Speaker 2: like he's actually a really nice. GUY i. 463 00:21:12,949 --> 00:21:15,069 Speaker 3: DIDN'T i didn't try and changer judgment at. ALL i 464 00:21:15,109 --> 00:21:16,869 Speaker 3: just sat her down AND i, said do you Like? 465 00:21:16,909 --> 00:21:20,109 Speaker 2: Woody she's a hostage video and made her read a. 466 00:21:20,189 --> 00:21:25,629 Speaker 2: STATEMENT i really Like. Woody do you want to hear? It? 467 00:21:26,469 --> 00:21:30,109 Speaker 1: No not now the way you're trying To, okay, okay. 468 00:21:30,909 --> 00:21:31,269 Speaker 9: What are your? 469 00:21:31,309 --> 00:21:36,989 Speaker 2: Friend do you Like? Woody queer? LOVING i locked on. Him, 470 00:21:37,389 --> 00:21:40,789 Speaker 2: yeah he was laughing at. You he would love like. 471 00:21:40,989 --> 00:21:45,229 Speaker 3: You oh that's why you don't like, him because you're protecting. 472 00:21:45,309 --> 00:21:51,309 Speaker 2: Me that's. Nice But i'm in the, indeed not in the. 473 00:21:51,429 --> 00:21:56,709 Speaker 2: Class you're in the. Classroom, yeah AND i studio. 474 00:21:58,149 --> 00:22:02,908 Speaker 3: The Nice, OKAY i go, AGAIN i. 475 00:22:02,949 --> 00:22:11,749 Speaker 5: Don't like no c done like, WOW i don't bring your, 476 00:22:11,789 --> 00:22:16,309 Speaker 5: sister she, implicated my, sister and that being clear a 477 00:22:16,309 --> 00:22:17,668 Speaker 5: great relations that's a whole McMahon. 478 00:22:17,709 --> 00:22:21,229 Speaker 2: Thing, mate you're. Out when WAS i laughing at? 479 00:22:21,229 --> 00:22:24,229 Speaker 1: You not videos of you showing her Where i'm laughing 480 00:22:24,269 --> 00:22:27,349 Speaker 1: At she just obviously heard the show and thinks listen 481 00:22:27,429 --> 00:22:27,629 Speaker 1: to the. 482 00:22:27,669 --> 00:22:31,069 Speaker 3: Show yeah so she but she obviously thinks that you 483 00:22:31,189 --> 00:22:32,069 Speaker 3: laughing with? 484 00:22:32,149 --> 00:22:35,029 Speaker 2: Me is you laughing at? Me SOMETIMES i am laughing 485 00:22:35,069 --> 00:22:37,388 Speaker 2: at of, Course BUT i laugh at. You that's just 486 00:22:37,429 --> 00:22:40,589 Speaker 2: what adults. Do and maybe my daughter doesn't like, you you, 487 00:22:40,629 --> 00:22:42,589 Speaker 2: know do you ever think about? That did you ever 488 00:22:42,629 --> 00:22:45,149 Speaker 2: think about? That? Wow, okay how does that make you? 489 00:22:45,229 --> 00:22:48,109 Speaker 3: FEEL i don't play that noise. Again it's actually, HARMFUL 490 00:22:48,269 --> 00:22:51,109 Speaker 3: i ask her. Tonight, sure, okay if you can handle? 491 00:22:51,149 --> 00:22:54,429 Speaker 2: It, YEAH i THINK i imagine my daughter absolutely hates. 492 00:22:54,429 --> 00:23:02,789 Speaker 1: YOU a bit of a dilemma in The white law 493 00:23:02,869 --> 00:23:04,389 Speaker 1: household at the, moment. 494 00:23:04,109 --> 00:23:04,789 Speaker 2: Will talk to. 495 00:23:04,829 --> 00:23:06,908 Speaker 1: Me there's this option That i've got to make my 496 00:23:06,989 --> 00:23:09,908 Speaker 1: life just a whole lot, easier actually the life of 497 00:23:09,949 --> 00:23:12,789 Speaker 1: me and my wife a whole lot. Easier But i'm 498 00:23:12,789 --> 00:23:16,309 Speaker 1: worried if we go down this, path our, Daughter remy 499 00:23:16,389 --> 00:23:18,949 Speaker 1: might be. Traumatized so let me give you the. Specs 500 00:23:19,749 --> 00:23:27,549 Speaker 1: rem is currently obsessed with Her elsa. Dress else's the 501 00:23:27,629 --> 00:23:28,389 Speaker 1: main character From. 502 00:23:28,389 --> 00:23:29,388 Speaker 2: Frozen we know how? 503 00:23:29,469 --> 00:23:29,589 Speaker 13: Else? 504 00:23:29,629 --> 00:23:33,469 Speaker 2: Serious? Man sure some people without kids while we're playing 505 00:23:33,629 --> 00:23:36,229 Speaker 2: let go AND i think everyone's. 506 00:23:35,749 --> 00:23:38,909 Speaker 1: Shot put the dots together. Shot so she's got This elsea. 507 00:23:38,989 --> 00:23:42,388 Speaker 1: Dress she's had it For i'm going to say a, 508 00:23:42,509 --> 00:23:45,709 Speaker 1: year so quite a. While so this thing is, shabby, 509 00:23:46,109 --> 00:23:50,509 Speaker 1: Right it's got, holes it's got stains, it it's got 510 00:23:50,509 --> 00:23:52,869 Speaker 1: a bit of a pong yep, like it doesn't matter 511 00:23:52,869 --> 00:23:54,669 Speaker 1: how many TIMES i put this thing for the washing. 512 00:23:54,709 --> 00:23:55,789 Speaker 2: Machine there is a pong. 513 00:23:56,029 --> 00:24:01,029 Speaker 1: Now but she refuses to wear anything else except This elsea. 514 00:24:01,109 --> 00:24:04,469 Speaker 1: Dress so it's also getting colder, now so it's freezing 515 00:24:04,509 --> 00:24:04,908 Speaker 1: cold in the. 516 00:24:04,909 --> 00:24:07,589 Speaker 2: Morning all she wants to wear is there elsea. Dress 517 00:24:07,629 --> 00:24:10,309 Speaker 2: then you can't put a jacket over then because else 518 00:24:10,309 --> 00:24:10,869 Speaker 2: it doesn't wear a. 519 00:24:10,949 --> 00:24:14,029 Speaker 3: Jackets she's the ice. Cream cold doesn't bother her. 520 00:24:14,149 --> 00:24:17,869 Speaker 2: Exactly gold never bothered me. Anyway and she recites that. 521 00:24:17,909 --> 00:24:19,949 Speaker 2: Line she recites that line to. 522 00:24:20,029 --> 00:24:24,269 Speaker 1: Me so What mim AND i are currently thinking is 523 00:24:24,309 --> 00:24:25,229 Speaker 1: that under the cloak of. 524 00:24:25,309 --> 00:24:28,269 Speaker 2: Darkness so After rim goes. 525 00:24:28,069 --> 00:24:30,349 Speaker 1: To, sleep and by the, way she does sleep in the. 526 00:24:30,429 --> 00:24:31,509 Speaker 1: Dress so we'll probably have. 527 00:24:31,629 --> 00:24:33,029 Speaker 2: To AND i don't know How i'm going to get 528 00:24:33,069 --> 00:24:36,509 Speaker 2: it off, it but like maybe just like the t cave. Divers, 529 00:24:37,029 --> 00:24:37,549 Speaker 2: Well i'm. 530 00:24:37,429 --> 00:24:39,349 Speaker 1: Not going to drug my, daughter but What i'm thinking 531 00:24:39,389 --> 00:24:42,309 Speaker 1: of doing is like cutting off the else a dress 532 00:24:43,309 --> 00:24:44,069 Speaker 1: and throwing it. 533 00:24:44,069 --> 00:24:46,629 Speaker 2: Out yeah, Okay AND i, think, LIKE i, think. 534 00:24:46,509 --> 00:24:48,029 Speaker 3: Why DO i do, that by the, way to cut 535 00:24:48,029 --> 00:24:50,149 Speaker 3: their kid's hair just so you know at? 536 00:24:50,269 --> 00:24:53,509 Speaker 2: Night, yeah they do. It oh, Genius, okay quite. Clever 537 00:24:54,469 --> 00:24:54,749 Speaker 2: you're a. 538 00:24:54,829 --> 00:24:58,989 Speaker 1: Parent how bad do you think it is or how 539 00:24:59,109 --> 00:25:02,189 Speaker 1: damaging do you think it will be IF i secretly 540 00:25:02,309 --> 00:25:06,949 Speaker 1: Behind remy's back throw out her favorite? Dress like is 541 00:25:06,949 --> 00:25:08,148 Speaker 1: this going to be the kind of thing that she 542 00:25:08,229 --> 00:25:10,589 Speaker 1: just forgets about it in a day and then happy? 543 00:25:10,709 --> 00:25:12,629 Speaker 2: Days or is this the kind of thing that might 544 00:25:12,749 --> 00:25:15,709 Speaker 2: leave her slightly? Traumatized have you thought about a plausible? 545 00:25:15,749 --> 00:25:19,069 Speaker 3: Excuse BECAUSE i don't know Where remy's at in terms of, 546 00:25:20,349 --> 00:25:23,269 Speaker 3: Development But i'm at the point WHERE i can't, say 547 00:25:23,629 --> 00:25:25,029 Speaker 3: BECAUSE i used to just be able to say it 548 00:25:25,069 --> 00:25:27,789 Speaker 3: was gone, right you, know just like you, know we're 549 00:25:27,829 --> 00:25:28,869 Speaker 3: out of, chips we're out of weet. 550 00:25:28,909 --> 00:25:31,629 Speaker 2: Bis, YEAH i can't do anything about, that, yeah yah, Yah, Yeah, 551 00:25:32,029 --> 00:25:33,429 Speaker 2: no she, is BUT i, reckon there's. 552 00:25:33,469 --> 00:25:33,549 Speaker 18: It. 553 00:25:33,749 --> 00:25:36,029 Speaker 3: NOW i have to, go, yeah this is why it's. 554 00:25:36,069 --> 00:25:38,509 Speaker 3: Gone because he's just get the why straight. AWAY i 555 00:25:38,549 --> 00:25:38,869 Speaker 3: get some. 556 00:25:38,909 --> 00:25:41,189 Speaker 2: More we're just starting to advance into the. 557 00:25:41,229 --> 00:25:44,229 Speaker 1: Why and then she, investigates, like for, example for a 558 00:25:44,269 --> 00:25:45,709 Speaker 1: long time the car radio was just. 559 00:25:45,749 --> 00:25:47,629 Speaker 2: Broken, yeah and that's why we couldn't play. 560 00:25:47,629 --> 00:25:49,589 Speaker 3: IT i told you The wiggles had a mass death 561 00:25:49,869 --> 00:25:51,589 Speaker 3: like a bus accident or something in our. 562 00:25:51,589 --> 00:25:52,189 Speaker 2: Family they just. 563 00:25:52,269 --> 00:25:54,469 Speaker 3: Left BUT i had to go into that. DETAIL i 564 00:25:54,469 --> 00:25:55,709 Speaker 3: Know i've got a bit more, bid BUT i was, 565 00:25:55,749 --> 00:25:57,189 Speaker 3: LIKE i couldn't just say to her they were, gone 566 00:25:57,509 --> 00:25:57,669 Speaker 3: like what? 567 00:25:57,749 --> 00:25:59,269 Speaker 2: HAPPENED i was, like car. 568 00:25:59,309 --> 00:26:02,669 Speaker 1: Crash sure to answer your. Question though, crash very good 569 00:26:02,909 --> 00:26:05,909 Speaker 1: to answer your. QUESTION i think she'll figure it out 570 00:26:06,469 --> 00:26:07,229 Speaker 1: well that you took. 571 00:26:07,269 --> 00:26:08,069 Speaker 2: It, NO i. 572 00:26:08,109 --> 00:26:12,069 Speaker 3: Disagree you just need to act equally as, devastated. 573 00:26:11,469 --> 00:26:12,269 Speaker 2: So you're okay with. 574 00:26:12,349 --> 00:26:14,469 Speaker 1: It do you think it's okay as a parental move 575 00:26:14,549 --> 00:26:17,709 Speaker 1: that tonight she goes to, bed, well cracked the. 576 00:26:17,829 --> 00:26:19,349 Speaker 2: DRESS i think it's, okay throw it. 577 00:26:19,389 --> 00:26:23,309 Speaker 3: OUT i think it's okay if you can justify it 578 00:26:23,349 --> 00:26:25,429 Speaker 3: against how much pain it's causing. You is, so for, 579 00:26:25,469 --> 00:26:30,148 Speaker 3: example for The, wiggles big Red carter roll over like 580 00:26:30,189 --> 00:26:31,749 Speaker 3: that was the end of car trips for, Me so, 581 00:26:32,029 --> 00:26:32,589 Speaker 3: that for me is. 582 00:26:32,669 --> 00:26:34,669 Speaker 2: Justifiable but it's a justifiable. 583 00:26:34,709 --> 00:26:36,989 Speaker 3: Death like how much anguish is her wearing the frozen 584 00:26:37,069 --> 00:26:38,709 Speaker 3: dress causing you is probably what you need to think. 585 00:26:38,709 --> 00:26:39,789 Speaker 2: About to be, fair. 586 00:26:39,589 --> 00:26:42,789 Speaker 1: My wife cares about it more than me Because MIM's 587 00:26:42,789 --> 00:26:43,428 Speaker 1: not happy with her. 588 00:26:43,429 --> 00:26:45,829 Speaker 3: Goal THEN i would be Sending mim in to do 589 00:26:45,949 --> 00:26:48,629 Speaker 3: the the. Explaining but you're. Worried But mim is going 590 00:26:48,669 --> 00:26:49,589 Speaker 3: to be too, brutal aren't. 591 00:26:49,589 --> 00:26:52,269 Speaker 1: You, WELL i just think we're a. Team we're a, 592 00:26:52,309 --> 00:26:54,229 Speaker 1: team and now we're a team at our house will 593 00:26:54,389 --> 00:26:56,349 Speaker 1: and we do things. Together SO i want to ask 594 00:26:56,349 --> 00:26:58,749 Speaker 1: the parents out there were anyone really thirteen ONE i just. 595 00:26:58,909 --> 00:27:00,349 Speaker 2: Want to Do by the, way she wants to throw it, 596 00:27:00,349 --> 00:27:02,829 Speaker 2: out but she and she doesn't Because sam would be the. 597 00:27:02,829 --> 00:27:04,989 Speaker 3: Same she just turned the max and go it's gone over, 598 00:27:05,069 --> 00:27:05,949 Speaker 3: It i'm sure. 599 00:27:07,309 --> 00:27:09,709 Speaker 1: One and here's the THING i. Remember as a, CHILD 600 00:27:09,749 --> 00:27:12,829 Speaker 1: i had a, thing a blanket Called. BLANKIE i vomited 601 00:27:12,909 --> 00:27:15,389 Speaker 1: On blankie one night WHEN i was SEEING i woke 602 00:27:15,429 --> 00:27:17,549 Speaker 1: up in the morning And blankie was. GONE i have never, 603 00:27:17,589 --> 00:27:22,349 Speaker 1: forgotten really, remember and of Years i've, realized obviously my 604 00:27:22,389 --> 00:27:22,989 Speaker 1: parents threw that. 605 00:27:23,029 --> 00:27:27,509 Speaker 2: Out well done. HER i was also very advanced as a. 606 00:27:27,589 --> 00:27:29,589 Speaker 2: Child thirteen one oh sixty. 607 00:27:29,629 --> 00:27:33,029 Speaker 1: Five is it a good idea to throw out something 608 00:27:33,069 --> 00:27:34,909 Speaker 1: your kid loves behind their? 609 00:27:34,949 --> 00:27:38,309 Speaker 2: Back it's effectively What i'm. Doing is it a good? 610 00:27:38,349 --> 00:27:41,069 Speaker 1: Idea or SHOULD i just stick with The elsa dress 611 00:27:41,149 --> 00:27:41,629 Speaker 1: every single? 612 00:27:41,709 --> 00:27:49,469 Speaker 2: Day and right Now I'm. 613 00:27:50,789 --> 00:27:56,429 Speaker 1: I'm considering throwing out my daughter's Favorite Elsa frozen. Dress 614 00:27:57,949 --> 00:28:01,309 Speaker 1: she she loves this, dress i'd say arguably more than, 615 00:28:01,309 --> 00:28:04,989 Speaker 1: me and she refuses to wear anything else apart from 616 00:28:04,989 --> 00:28:07,469 Speaker 1: This elsa. Dress and this thing is, stained it's got a, 617 00:28:07,509 --> 00:28:10,789 Speaker 1: pong it's so small and tight now that it's. 618 00:28:10,669 --> 00:28:12,509 Speaker 2: Got like stretchy rip. 619 00:28:12,669 --> 00:28:16,629 Speaker 1: Marks so my wife AND i are thinking about throwing 620 00:28:16,629 --> 00:28:19,388 Speaker 1: it out behind her. Back my concern is that if 621 00:28:19,429 --> 00:28:21,389 Speaker 1: we do, this are we going to lose the trust 622 00:28:21,389 --> 00:28:21,549 Speaker 1: of my? 623 00:28:21,669 --> 00:28:22,509 Speaker 2: Daughter and is she going to be? 624 00:28:22,549 --> 00:28:25,908 Speaker 3: Traumatized that's only if she finds out that you threw it. 625 00:28:25,949 --> 00:28:27,229 Speaker 2: OUT i think she'll figure it. 626 00:28:27,269 --> 00:28:29,429 Speaker 1: OUT i don't Think i'm very good at committing crimes 627 00:28:30,309 --> 00:28:33,189 Speaker 1: like throwing out something that someone. Loves so, look, thirteen, 628 00:28:34,509 --> 00:28:35,789 Speaker 1: well it is a bit of a. Crime it's theft 629 00:28:35,829 --> 00:28:38,989 Speaker 1: at the end of the, day it's for IT'S i 630 00:28:39,029 --> 00:28:39,589 Speaker 1: think you've got to. 631 00:28:39,589 --> 00:28:41,549 Speaker 3: Do sometimes you have to do things to your kids 632 00:28:41,589 --> 00:28:43,629 Speaker 3: that you don't want to, do but that's actually good for. 633 00:28:43,669 --> 00:28:45,669 Speaker 1: Them, oh don't give me. THAT i know that's the, 634 00:28:45,669 --> 00:28:47,629 Speaker 1: truth but it's a hard. Truth that's a hard. TRUTH 635 00:28:47,909 --> 00:28:49,589 Speaker 1: a few people have caught up, saying just get a 636 00:28:49,629 --> 00:28:53,949 Speaker 1: New elsa. Dress tried, it tried, it she wants this 637 00:28:53,989 --> 00:28:57,629 Speaker 1: specific that's actually it's An elsa dress that my wife 638 00:28:57,669 --> 00:29:01,549 Speaker 1: made for, her a very Specific elsa. Dress, right let's 639 00:29:01,549 --> 00:29:03,829 Speaker 1: go To kelly, Here, kelly here we. Go you've done this. 640 00:29:03,869 --> 00:29:06,069 Speaker 1: Before you threw out something your kid loves behind their. 641 00:29:06,109 --> 00:29:08,829 Speaker 18: Back, yes AND i feel this in my. 642 00:29:08,949 --> 00:29:12,669 Speaker 12: Soul i've got four. Boys my twelve. 643 00:29:12,509 --> 00:29:15,349 Speaker 18: Year old, now when he was, young was obsessed with 644 00:29:15,389 --> 00:29:17,189 Speaker 18: The avengers and he had a whole suit that he 645 00:29:17,269 --> 00:29:19,229 Speaker 18: used to wear to. DAYCARE i think we went to 646 00:29:19,269 --> 00:29:21,549 Speaker 18: all wedding once and he insisted on wearing it there. 647 00:29:21,589 --> 00:29:23,589 Speaker 18: Too it got to the point where we were, like 648 00:29:23,669 --> 00:29:25,789 Speaker 18: we have to do, something so we took it and 649 00:29:25,829 --> 00:29:26,789 Speaker 18: we said that we lost. 650 00:29:26,829 --> 00:29:29,869 Speaker 7: It my now two year old is at the. 651 00:29:29,869 --> 00:29:31,949 Speaker 18: Age where he is, obsessed so we got to have 652 00:29:32,149 --> 00:29:35,269 Speaker 18: storage not remembering ten years ago that the story we 653 00:29:35,389 --> 00:29:38,829 Speaker 18: told our twelve year old that we lost, it and 654 00:29:39,029 --> 00:29:41,949 Speaker 18: the look that he gave me as a now twelve 655 00:29:42,029 --> 00:29:44,509 Speaker 18: year old was Like i'd stabbed him in the heart and. 656 00:29:46,029 --> 00:29:46,669 Speaker 2: You kind of. 657 00:29:49,589 --> 00:29:52,749 Speaker 18: He was gutted and for like months after and he 658 00:29:52,829 --> 00:29:54,669 Speaker 18: was like remember that time he lied to? 659 00:29:54,749 --> 00:30:01,669 Speaker 1: Me, Wow, yeah it's on you a little bit that 660 00:30:01,709 --> 00:30:03,469 Speaker 1: you put it in. Store it's like bury, it do 661 00:30:03,509 --> 00:30:04,589 Speaker 1: you know WHAT i? Mean like We're i'm going to 662 00:30:04,629 --> 00:30:06,789 Speaker 1: be stuve And i've put it in. Storage i'm thinking 663 00:30:06,829 --> 00:30:09,269 Speaker 1: a bonfire at the back kind of, area do you. 664 00:30:09,149 --> 00:30:15,109 Speaker 2: Know WHAT i? Mean let's let's go To. 665 00:30:15,189 --> 00:30:18,669 Speaker 1: Jasmine, jasmine you've got an idea as to WHAT i 666 00:30:18,709 --> 00:30:20,989 Speaker 1: should say to my, daughter maybe. 667 00:30:22,309 --> 00:30:22,389 Speaker 3: Go. 668 00:30:22,469 --> 00:30:23,989 Speaker 2: On my idea was. 669 00:30:23,989 --> 00:30:26,029 Speaker 12: That you should tell her That elsa needs to wear 670 00:30:26,069 --> 00:30:28,069 Speaker 12: it during the week days so that you're only at 671 00:30:28,109 --> 00:30:30,029 Speaker 12: LEAST i could deal with it twice a week instead 672 00:30:30,029 --> 00:30:30,309 Speaker 12: of every. 673 00:30:30,389 --> 00:30:34,589 Speaker 1: Day, Okay SO i go home tonight AND i go 674 00:30:35,669 --> 00:30:42,749 Speaker 1: got a call From. Elsa call from Els you've got, 675 00:30:42,789 --> 00:30:45,549 Speaker 1: this got a call From. Elsa she's she said that 676 00:30:45,629 --> 00:30:48,989 Speaker 1: she's lost her. Dress she's going to need to borrow 677 00:30:49,069 --> 00:30:50,229 Speaker 1: yours for the week. 678 00:30:50,349 --> 00:30:56,429 Speaker 3: Days, yeah, Understand remy is not going to get like 679 00:30:56,509 --> 00:30:57,389 Speaker 3: IF i there's no. 680 00:30:57,349 --> 00:31:01,069 Speaker 2: Way she'd get. That she definitely. Understand i've Called elsa 681 00:31:01,149 --> 00:31:03,589 Speaker 2: on the. Phone, NO i know, That but Then. 682 00:31:05,749 --> 00:31:08,229 Speaker 3: Max and said to, Her, hey look your favorite thing 683 00:31:08,229 --> 00:31:10,629 Speaker 3: in the whole someone else is. Called AND i don't 684 00:31:10,629 --> 00:31:12,829 Speaker 3: know if it Was elsa not just someone. ELSE i don't. 685 00:31:12,869 --> 00:31:14,389 Speaker 2: CARE i don't. THINK i don't think she's going to. 686 00:31:14,469 --> 00:31:14,989 Speaker 2: CARE i can. 687 00:31:15,029 --> 00:31:18,709 Speaker 1: Try i'll definitely, Try, blaky what are your thoughts? Made 688 00:31:18,749 --> 00:31:20,989 Speaker 1: can you throw out something your kid loves behind. 689 00:31:20,789 --> 00:31:23,069 Speaker 2: Their, Back, no you. 690 00:31:23,189 --> 00:31:26,589 Speaker 8: Can't they're only like this. Once just let them have. 691 00:31:26,669 --> 00:31:28,789 Speaker 8: It my son's now three and a half and he 692 00:31:28,909 --> 00:31:31,069 Speaker 8: Loves andy's. Adventures so we got. 693 00:31:31,149 --> 00:31:35,309 Speaker 2: Him, yeah, yeah we. 694 00:31:35,349 --> 00:31:37,989 Speaker 8: Got him a toy. Watch we got him A safari 695 00:31:38,589 --> 00:31:41,389 Speaker 8: like vest and a bucket. Hat and you know, what 696 00:31:41,429 --> 00:31:44,749 Speaker 8: we we stopped fighting. Fight just let him at that 697 00:31:44,829 --> 00:31:49,389 Speaker 8: age just go just be. Happy and, then you, know, slow, yeah, 698 00:31:49,509 --> 00:31:51,429 Speaker 8: slowly he was just, like, NO i don't want to 699 00:31:51,469 --> 00:31:53,909 Speaker 8: wear The andy. BIT i want to wear my big boy. 700 00:31:53,909 --> 00:31:57,189 Speaker 2: Clothes between you and, argument this is on your. 701 00:31:57,269 --> 00:31:59,789 Speaker 1: Team my wife doesn't see it the same way because 702 00:31:59,829 --> 00:32:01,149 Speaker 1: there is a bit of a POMP i think we're 703 00:32:01,149 --> 00:32:02,549 Speaker 1: going to spray down with some tea tree. 704 00:32:02,549 --> 00:32:05,829 Speaker 2: Oil but let's go To zoe here, Now, zoe. 705 00:32:06,229 --> 00:32:10,189 Speaker 1: Okay two days strategy as to HOW i can solve this. 706 00:32:10,309 --> 00:32:12,029 Speaker 2: Problem, go, yes. 707 00:32:12,269 --> 00:32:14,869 Speaker 17: Definitely it works with my daughter all the. Time day, 708 00:32:14,909 --> 00:32:19,549 Speaker 17: one teach her about, Recycling so get her to throw 709 00:32:19,589 --> 00:32:22,829 Speaker 17: a piece of paper or magazine or whatever in the 710 00:32:22,869 --> 00:32:28,149 Speaker 17: recycling ben and that they'll turn it into new. Paper day, 711 00:32:28,189 --> 00:32:32,229 Speaker 17: Two rip, it cut it, up put it in the washing, 712 00:32:32,229 --> 00:32:35,309 Speaker 17: machine get it, out and be, like oh, no the 713 00:32:35,469 --> 00:32:36,469 Speaker 17: washing machine broke. 714 00:32:36,549 --> 00:32:44,589 Speaker 2: It machine Machine. MAINE i THOUGHT i was worried. 715 00:32:44,589 --> 00:32:45,989 Speaker 3: THERE i thought you'd about to dry and read it 716 00:32:46,069 --> 00:32:47,189 Speaker 3: The greens environmental. 717 00:32:47,189 --> 00:32:53,869 Speaker 2: Policy so it's going to. Work will, Yeah Will. 718 00:32:54,029 --> 00:32:58,349 Speaker 1: Yeah huge moment for, me big, moment one of the great. Moments, 719 00:32:58,589 --> 00:33:01,749 Speaker 1: yeah this is a Classic jordian of. MOMENT i got 720 00:33:01,829 --> 00:33:02,869 Speaker 1: hit on at a gig my. 721 00:33:02,949 --> 00:33:05,829 Speaker 2: Friend, wow, Joking, wow. 722 00:33:07,949 --> 00:33:12,589 Speaker 3: How do you know THAT i did with your? CHILD i, mean, 723 00:33:12,589 --> 00:33:16,069 Speaker 3: Like i've got a, Child i've still got amy. 724 00:33:16,109 --> 00:33:17,429 Speaker 2: Standards he's getting it. 725 00:33:17,469 --> 00:33:20,189 Speaker 3: On, No, no it wasn't that etic you say with 726 00:33:20,429 --> 00:33:21,909 Speaker 3: child when you're. 727 00:33:21,949 --> 00:33:25,509 Speaker 2: Pregnant by the, way you're, right, Yeah so if you're actually. 728 00:33:25,509 --> 00:33:27,669 Speaker 3: Pregnant you say you're with, child but is that right 729 00:33:27,669 --> 00:33:29,509 Speaker 3: if you if you're just a parent you have a. 730 00:33:29,589 --> 00:33:33,029 Speaker 1: Child, Well I've i've misused that in this scenario actually 731 00:33:33,069 --> 00:33:36,309 Speaker 1: WHEN i was hit on as. Well but let's get into. 732 00:33:36,309 --> 00:33:38,269 Speaker 1: It SO i was at a music gig a couple 733 00:33:38,349 --> 00:33:45,709 Speaker 1: of weeks. Ago The Pretty, Littles australian band they're unreal, legends. 734 00:33:45,469 --> 00:33:47,349 Speaker 2: Put on a great. SHOW i was having a lovely. 735 00:33:47,389 --> 00:33:50,949 Speaker 3: Time will great, band got a new record actually Called force. 736 00:33:50,909 --> 00:33:54,789 Speaker 1: So, beautiful go and, listen go and by do what 737 00:33:54,789 --> 00:33:57,189 Speaker 1: you got to. Do, ANYWAY i met that, gig what. 738 00:33:57,309 --> 00:33:59,309 Speaker 2: Great song taking On. WATER i think this song's gold 739 00:33:59,549 --> 00:34:01,229 Speaker 2: WHEN i will when. 740 00:34:01,269 --> 00:34:04,909 Speaker 1: Off So i'm having a great, time obviously not thinking 741 00:34:04,909 --> 00:34:06,349 Speaker 1: about women at this. 742 00:34:06,429 --> 00:34:08,189 Speaker 2: Point you, Know i've got a, wife happily married. 743 00:34:08,189 --> 00:34:11,309 Speaker 1: Man after the gigs, Finished i'm sitting at the table 744 00:34:12,429 --> 00:34:14,629 Speaker 1: and this woman kind of saddles over a bit of 745 00:34:14,629 --> 00:34:16,029 Speaker 1: a strange cat and she. 746 00:34:16,109 --> 00:34:20,468 Speaker 3: Just starts talking about just to find strange. Cat, well 747 00:34:20,549 --> 00:34:20,908 Speaker 3: she was just. 748 00:34:20,908 --> 00:34:24,109 Speaker 1: Talking about how much she loves heavy metal and SHE i, 749 00:34:24,109 --> 00:34:27,669 Speaker 1: mean she's carved in, tattoos and it was just just 750 00:34:27,709 --> 00:34:29,709 Speaker 1: a bit of an interesting, cat a lovely, CAT a 751 00:34:29,788 --> 00:34:32,508 Speaker 1: bit an interesting, cat and she MENTIONED i. 752 00:34:32,388 --> 00:34:35,709 Speaker 2: Was with your. Brother oh, yeah, nice, yeah, yeah you 753 00:34:35,948 --> 00:34:37,908 Speaker 2: see next to your. Brother she had a late night 754 00:34:37,908 --> 00:34:40,229 Speaker 2: photo that. NIGHT i knew. Something we had a, Couple 755 00:34:40,229 --> 00:34:40,908 Speaker 2: we had a couple of. 756 00:34:40,948 --> 00:34:43,828 Speaker 1: Drinks so this interesting, cat this, woman she walks over 757 00:34:44,388 --> 00:34:47,189 Speaker 1: and she starts talking about death metal and stuff that 758 00:34:47,229 --> 00:34:47,668 Speaker 1: she's into. 759 00:34:48,229 --> 00:34:52,949 Speaker 2: Anyway she then segueys into saying to. Me she, says, hey. 760 00:34:54,469 --> 00:34:57,229 Speaker 1: My friend over there and points at her, friend who 761 00:34:57,268 --> 00:35:01,668 Speaker 1: was also a pretty interesting and the friend was kind 762 00:35:01,669 --> 00:35:04,629 Speaker 1: of hunched over the, bar and she gave her a 763 00:35:04,669 --> 00:35:08,868 Speaker 1: little twinkling with the fingers and she, said She's i'm 764 00:35:08,908 --> 00:35:09,348 Speaker 1: interested in. 765 00:35:09,388 --> 00:35:13,109 Speaker 2: You oh, wow if you're interested. 766 00:35:12,669 --> 00:35:17,468 Speaker 1: Out, yeah, Absolutely and at that POINT i did the 767 00:35:17,629 --> 00:35:20,868 Speaker 1: for the first time ever the ring. Flash oh did 768 00:35:21,109 --> 00:35:23,988 Speaker 1: because RECENTLY i flashed the ring and said, Sorry i'm 769 00:35:23,989 --> 00:35:28,829 Speaker 1: married and with, child married and with, child which obviously 770 00:35:28,828 --> 00:35:31,109 Speaker 1: all the boys found quite funny at that, point But 771 00:35:31,149 --> 00:35:32,709 Speaker 1: i'm feeling good Because i've been hit. On at the 772 00:35:32,788 --> 00:35:35,948 Speaker 1: end of the, day it has proven to me THAT 773 00:35:36,029 --> 00:35:39,629 Speaker 1: i absolutely still have. It five minutes. Passes i'm bringing 774 00:35:39,709 --> 00:35:41,868 Speaker 1: up numerous times with the. Boys it's just it's just 775 00:35:41,868 --> 00:35:44,069 Speaker 1: great to be wanted at the end of the. Day you, 776 00:35:44,149 --> 00:35:45,468 Speaker 1: Know i'm a man in. 777 00:35:45,509 --> 00:35:49,788 Speaker 2: Demand and she then the woman who was keen on. 778 00:35:49,868 --> 00:35:53,068 Speaker 1: ME i see that she's moving towards, me AND i was, like, oh, 779 00:35:53,189 --> 00:35:56,868 Speaker 1: Jeez i'm, sorry, Boys i'm really sorry to interrupt, him 780 00:35:56,908 --> 00:35:58,868 Speaker 1: but it seems that she hasn't taken the hint and 781 00:35:58,908 --> 00:36:01,549 Speaker 1: she's back for. More so she kind of slowly walks, 782 00:36:01,589 --> 00:36:03,828 Speaker 1: over and As i'm about to say to, her LIKE 783 00:36:04,109 --> 00:36:06,508 Speaker 1: i am being, Serious i'm, Married i'm with, CHILD i 784 00:36:06,629 --> 00:36:09,628 Speaker 1: noticed that she actually stare ends next to your Brother, 785 00:36:09,709 --> 00:36:11,949 Speaker 1: george and she starts rubbing his lumber. 786 00:36:12,029 --> 00:36:15,348 Speaker 2: Back And i've had a couple of drinks at this, 787 00:36:15,388 --> 00:36:17,629 Speaker 2: POINT i was, Like, hi hang, ON i thought you 788 00:36:17,629 --> 00:36:22,189 Speaker 2: were keen on. Me this meant something to. Me she 789 00:36:22,308 --> 00:36:24,308 Speaker 2: was anyone at that. Point imagine