1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and 8 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life past 16 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hi, everybody, 17 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:17,639 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the potty. We have a fun little 18 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: episode today. We are unpacking a comment that we seem 19 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: to do this a lot to your great content. It 20 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: is basically someone wrote in I love you, Georgie, but 21 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: you're so materialistic and I thought, what a great learning 22 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: moment to unpack this and really chat about our internal 23 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: belief systems and how when we internalize certain belief systems, 24 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: they can really block us from what we want and 25 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: really shape our whole perspective on the world, sometimes in 26 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: a negative way. So we are going to unpack that. 27 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: But before we get into the shower tier, how's your week. 28 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 2: Ben, It's been a pretty good week. I went golfing 29 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 2: on the weekend, which is a bit fun. It was 30 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: my first proper game. I love that for you. I 31 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 2: highly recommend it if anyone ever just wants like a 32 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 2: really chill afternoon activity. There was someone that got hid 33 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: in the head though. That was like a bit broke. 34 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,839 Speaker 2: He said, like started bleeding and he had to get 35 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: picked up by the stuff. Oh my god, it's like 36 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 2: actually danger was here. Okay, I think he ended up 37 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: all right, Oh my god. But it was a bit funny, 38 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 2: so rogue then. Yeah, just a pretty chill week. Like 39 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 2: I did sajoy more pilates, which has been fun. We 40 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: all turning into pilarates girlies. 41 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: Guys, I'm obsessed with pilates. I don't know if you've noticed, 42 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: but I'm in my pillarates era and I'm just gonna 43 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: take over here, get into my week. Yeah, because all 44 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: I do is fucking. 45 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: No. 46 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: I actually I've been thinking about how I want to 47 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: have a rant on the podcast about this. So I 48 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: did pilates. I started class like close to my home. 49 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: Maybe it was definitely before New Zealand, but basically I 50 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: was feeling quite burnt out and I was feeling myself 51 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: being really resistant to strength training, like I just I 52 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 1: didn't want to go, and I'd noticed I was like 53 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: quite grumpy after it, and so I was like, Okay, 54 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: I'm all about intuition, let's change things up. And I 55 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: think it was because when I was going to gym, 56 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: it's like hush lighting and I don't know, my body 57 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: was just like saying no. And I was feeling very 58 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: stressed at the time. So then I started going to 59 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: this Plati's class and it's like the lights are dimmed. 60 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: It's like this beautiful, like central feminine music. You're like 61 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: extending all your limbs and pointing your toes and like 62 00:03:55,520 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: moving your body and just obsessed, like I I feel 63 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: so feminine and like flowy, and I think it's quite 64 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: nice for me because I then go to work and 65 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm quite masculine for the whole day because I'm basically 66 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: just telling people what to do, yeah, ordering people around it. 67 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: And so it's really nice to me to like start 68 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: my day in like something I wouldn't usually do. Yeah, 69 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: and it's yeah, so I am in my pilarates error. 70 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: But in saying that, I am noticing, like, what are 71 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: you saying? Like, I'm noticing my bum not being as 72 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:37,919 Speaker 1: sperky in saying that I had no really from PILLARTI 73 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: I feel like I definitely feel really like long and lean, 74 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: but like I think I need to go back to 75 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: the hit thrust and the squats. So I think I'm 76 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: gonna do a bit of both. 77 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 78 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do some like maybe one or two 79 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: strength sessions and then the rest pilarates of that. So yeah, anyway, 80 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 1: that's my rant. It's your week both. Oh yeah, fine, 81 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: It's been really good because guys, we launched our Life 82 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: Happens for Me Manifesting journals and our Manifesting with Momentum 83 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: Masterclass on Tuesday. You guys have gone crazy. You have 84 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 1: You've gone absolutely wild, and we bloody love you for it. 85 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm so glad that people are excited as 86 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: like about manifesting as this, because we haven't done stuff 87 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: about manifesting in a hot minute. 88 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 2: It's been a long time from like launching the project, 89 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 2: doing live rounds a couple of times a year to 90 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 2: like not having done it. 91 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: I know, in a while. So it's just completely lit 92 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 1: me up. You guys are feeling so excited. So, guys, 93 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm sure you all know the Life Happens for Me 94 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: journals now, but basically this is our journal that has 95 00:05:55,680 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: ten step manifesting formula, it has journal prompts, it has 96 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 1: the actual you know prompts on the pages if you 97 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: are new to journaling, and it's basically got all the 98 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: information you need to manifest your dream life. And it's 99 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: been restocked, so it's sold out. It's been restopped, but 100 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: of course it is a limited drop again, so if 101 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: you want to top up on your Life Happens for 102 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: Me journals, or you want to try out journaling, make 103 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: sure you grab a Life Happens for Me journal. But 104 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: also we launched out manifesting with Momentum master Class. She's 105 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 1: a mouthful that one. 106 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: I'm excited to do it. 107 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm so glad I'm excited to have you with do 108 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: And basically this master class is the way that I 109 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: would describe it is I started manifesting five years ago, 110 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: so I would say that was kind of like my 111 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: key point where I like knew everything and was like 112 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: fully manifesting. And since then, obviously the way that I 113 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: manifest has evolved and it's changed, and I've learnt a 114 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: lot of tools and tricks to really make sure I'm 115 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: manifesting even like subconsciously twenty four to seven. Because we're 116 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: all manifesting twenty four to seven, like we're about to 117 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: talk about in this episode. Our beliefs then tell us 118 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: what we can attract and what we can block and 119 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: all those different things. Yeah, but most of our beliefs 120 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: are subconscious. So something that I'm going to, you know, 121 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: teach you in this masterclass is about how to integrate 122 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: your manifesting practice so it can come like second nature 123 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: to you. You don't have to sit there and write 124 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: the ten step formula and it will just become a 125 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: process where it's basically like streamlining it where you can 126 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: really and this is the thing is You've still got 127 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: to put in the work because it's going to matter 128 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: how you manifest. So yeah, there's heats of info on 129 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: our website and on the Instagram. But it is going 130 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: live on the twenty ninth of August. 131 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: The live call. 132 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: It is a live call. Oh, this is what I 133 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: wanted to say. So it's a live call and you 134 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: can interact, and what I'm going to actually be doing 135 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: is kind of like some hot seat coaching. So I'm 136 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: actually going to get you guys when I'm talking to 137 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: be like hey, right in blah blah blah, and then 138 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to talk a little bit more and then 139 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to go in the chat box and I'm 140 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: actually going to help you guys and be like, hey, 141 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: for this, you need to do this, and like very 142 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 1: specific to what people are struggling in. So that's what 143 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm really excited about it being live because we're going 144 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: to actually interact. And that's why I'm like, if you 145 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: can make it live, please come live. 146 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 2: Because annually if you have to. 147 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: Fucking up. But if you can't make it live, it 148 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: is going to be fully recorded and sent to you, 149 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: and there is going to be something else sent to you, 150 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 1: but I can't really tell you what that is because 151 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: it's all just going to be together in a little package, 152 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: but is like, I don't even know if I've told 153 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: you it too. I want to tell you after so 154 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: excited that So if you want those details, those are 155 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: on the website. But we are so excited about that. 156 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: If you do like this episode and you're like having 157 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: those moments where you're like, oh, yeah, there's some stuff 158 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: I need to shift, the master class is going to 159 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: be amazing for. 160 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 2: You, and I think even for me. I'm excited to 161 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 2: do the master class because I've done the project so 162 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: many times, but every time I want something, I find 163 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: myself having to redo the project. 164 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: And I'd love to get to. 165 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: The point where project becomes my life and just how 166 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: I function as a human being, not something that I 167 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 2: have to do for six weeks. 168 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: Yes, and that's called like integration. Yeah, so fully integrating 169 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: your own manifesting process. So yeah, it just feels second nature. 170 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: And that's how you'll be able to basically collapse time 171 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: because then you have this process that you're constantly compounding. 172 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 173 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's gonna be so exciting. I'm so excited. 174 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:22,199 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the episode. A t R. 175 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: I have a question for you. Yeah, Do you think 176 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: I'm materialistic? Yes, but I don't think it's a bad thing. 177 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 2: It wasn't ready. 178 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: I just thought i'd catch off. God, but I have 179 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: a question. 180 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: Do you think I'm materialistic? 181 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: Yes, but I don't think it's a bad thing. Yeah. 182 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: So that's what we're chatting about today. Well, I like, 183 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: I generally wanted to know your thoughts before we really 184 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: unpack this episode. 185 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: I think you like nice things, but I feel like 186 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: that's fine. 187 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: It is fine, O T. And that's what we're getting into. 188 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: I'm working on the wound. Can you tell? 189 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 1: I know I could tell when I pitched you this 190 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: it was like going through your head and I was like, yep, 191 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: we're unpacking this, so guys, let's chat about the story 192 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: behind this. I got a well, I put up a 193 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: question box a couple of weeks ago, just asking if 194 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: anyone had any questions about New Zealand trip. And it's 195 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: so funny because I was scrolling through them and one 196 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: of them said, Georgie, I love you so much, but 197 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 1: you were so materialistic. Honestly, my first reaction was like, 198 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: oh my god, it's so rude. But then I had 199 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: this really great moment because I was like, Oh, what's 200 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: my first reaction here? What's my thoughts and feelings? So 201 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: I had my own little session with myself. 202 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: What were your first thoughts and feelings? 203 00:11:56,400 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 1: Initially I was like, oh, this person is is like 204 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: I know that this person is trying to have a 205 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 1: dig at me. Yeah, So my initial thoughts was am 206 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: I offended? Because I was like, you know, are they 207 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: I'm trying to have a dig? Am I offended? And 208 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: I just thought, no, I'm not offended because and then 209 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: I had to unpack it. I don't think being materialistic 210 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: is a bad thing. Yeah, And I had to unpack 211 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: my beliefs of for example, I absolutely do love nice things. 212 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: I have loved as I have entered certain new levels 213 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: of abundance, being able to spend my money on certain 214 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: luxury things that I had never experienced before or never 215 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 1: had and wanted to experience in this lifetime. And I 216 00:12:56,720 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: have never had anything negative happened for being materialistic. Well, 217 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: growing up, my parents like definitely weren't materialistic. But for example, 218 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 1: in my belief system, like no one has ever gone 219 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: into credit card debt and lost a house or you know, 220 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: being materialistic just doesn't mean anything negative to me. Because 221 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: there's no stories associated with that, even though there's like 222 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: so much on TV shows and movies and that sort 223 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: of thing. And I thought about it, and I think 224 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: I did previously think being materialistic was bad, but because 225 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: I've done a lot of you know, brain reprogramming on it, 226 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: I yeah, my initial thoughts were, I just I don't 227 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: see how it's a bad thing. 228 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: Why did you used to think being materialistic was bad? 229 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: Well, I was a Jehovah's witness. Yeah, so I grew 230 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: up religious, where it's very I even remember certain stories 231 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: in the Bible where it's like, you know, basically if 232 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: you're greedy, something bad happens to you, or you know, 233 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: the general consensus of religion is like, you know, don't 234 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 1: let material things rule your life. Yeah, which I one 235 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: hundred percent agree. Yes, And I don't think I thought 236 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: it was a quote unquote bad thing, but it was 237 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: more of a it's just something I never experienced. 238 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:30,359 Speaker 2: I find that interesting because I think my negative relationship 239 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 2: was being materialistic comes from like and it's so odd, 240 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 2: but like there's almost something better you could do with 241 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: the money, yes, not necessarily like, oh my gosh, if 242 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: I buy this thousand dollars thing. I'm gonna be broke 243 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: for the rest of my life and I can't eat dinner. 244 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 2: I'm on two minute noodles for the next three weeks. 245 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 2: It's like I could give this to someone or like 246 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 2: help someone with it, or and am I being selfish 247 00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: for spending it on a nice thing for myself? 248 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: It's the selfish wound. Yeah, you know what's funny. This 249 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: is so left film. I was we are so programmed 250 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: to this because I was reading a book to Ivy 251 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: and did you ever read The Rainbow Fish? 252 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 2: Yes? 253 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: Yes, so very well known. I feel like we've all 254 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: read it when we're growing up. I was reading it 255 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: to Ivy and I was like, I didn't really remember it, 256 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: but I remembered the book. So the whole story is basically, 257 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: he has these sparkling scales that are like beautiful, and 258 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: like other fishes want the scales and he's like, no, 259 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: they're mine, and then he basically they're not friends with him, 260 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: and they fully shun him, and then he goes visits 261 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: an octopus and the octopus is like, give up your 262 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: scales and you'll have friends, and then so he does. 263 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: And I was reading it to Ivy and thinking. This 264 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: book is basically telling her if she is shiny and 265 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: glowy and and then people don't like her for it 266 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: or want some of her, she should give up more 267 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: of herself in order to make them feel better. 268 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: That is not a good book. 269 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: It's crazy because we've all read it. And this is 270 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: what I mean is subconsciously we are all wired. No 271 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: wonder why we think it's selfish. 272 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 2: I and like when you said, do I remember the 273 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 2: Rainbow Fish? The first thing that came to my head was, Yeah, 274 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 2: it's the book about sharing. When you have nice things, 275 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 2: you're supposed to share. 276 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: Do you see what I mean? 277 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 278 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: Do you see what like imprint that left? Yeah? Do 279 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: you see all like the subconscious worrying that we have 280 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: literally Ivy's eighteen months old? 281 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow? 282 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyway, getting back to it, it's so interesting 283 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: now that I'm reading all the childhood books, I'm like 284 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: getting mind blown because so many of them are cooked. 285 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 2: Do you need to write some conscious childhood children's books? 286 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: Yes, put it on the list. You've heard it here, 287 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: no joke. I literally thought that. So let's put that 288 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: on our vision bond. Yeah. So and okay, getting back 289 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 1: to it, what I did think is, Oh, this person has, yeah, 290 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 1: beliefs that being materialistic is bad for whatever reason. Maybe 291 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 1: it's just sheer the rainbow Fish book, or something has 292 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 1: happened to someone they know in their life. And I 293 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: then started to think about how this person, because they 294 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: have beliefs that material things are bad, how they would 295 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: then block themselves from attracting material things. So if you 296 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: think about it, if you're subconscious thinks something is bad, 297 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: it is going to protect you. And basically how law 298 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: of attraction works is if you're not able to be 299 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: on the vibe of the thing you want, or you 300 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 1: block it, you're not able to attract that thing. 301 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 302 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: So I literally thought, oh my god, Like this person 303 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 1: just thinks, oh, I'm just a good person. I'm not materialistic. 304 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: I'm a good little girl who doesn't want material things. 305 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 1: But material things are groceries. They're putting clothes on our 306 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: children's back, They're making us, you know, feel a certain way. 307 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 1: And I just think we need to be really fucking 308 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: careful about what we're normalizing and what we're having beliefs about. 309 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: Because you it's funny because this person is maybe manifesting 310 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: a deposit for a family home or like they could be. 311 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: Maybe they're not consciously manifesting, but they want certain things 312 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 1: that are quote unquote materialistic. But they would one hundred 313 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: percent be blocking themselves from being able to attract that 314 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: thing easily because of their beliefs. 315 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 2: And do you think that almost comes from the association 316 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 2: with material items being luxury items? 317 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: Well, I guess, like the definition of material things just 318 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: gets like a bad rap. Yeah, but that's yeah probably. 319 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 2: So do you think even though their association of material 320 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 2: or being materialistic is like very lux like maybe like 321 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 2: really fancy car, designer clothes, that sort of stuff, will 322 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 2: they still repel like the house deposit? 323 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 1: Yes, it is the same thing. Abundance is abundance. 324 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting. 325 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 1: I one hundred percent. It's really interesting. I was thinking 326 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: about this concept. I'm going to go to another story, Okay, 327 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: I was thinking about this concept of See, it is 328 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: one hundred percent what you expect to attract and what 329 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: you normalize in what you're wanting to attract in your world. 330 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: So it's really funny because me and my dad were 331 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: having this chat about how when he started his plumbing business, 332 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: he would absolutely bend over backwards for all of his clients, 333 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 1: so he would, you know, work late. He'd be like, 334 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: on the way home, he'd get a call someone's got 335 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: a block train, and he'd like work till seven pm. Yeah, 336 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: if there was a job that needed to be done, 337 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 1: he would do it. Like he was also very late. 338 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: He didn't want to upset anyone. 339 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and but. 340 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: Also he's like, if there's money to be made, I'm 341 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 1: going to make it. Yeah, Like that sort of vibe. 342 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: Worked very very hard, was very successful, and his plumbing 343 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: business did very well. It's funny because my oldest brother, 344 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: he has a bit of a different attitude and business 345 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 1: and he's very much of the view like if he's 346 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: on his way home and someone calls, he's like out 347 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 1: of hours, yeah, popped up, Yeah, I'm topped off. I'm yeah, 348 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: like I'm not coming basically. And it's so funny because 349 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:57,159 Speaker 1: my dad and my brother had these conversations and Josh 350 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: still makes amazing money, like the same not better, but 351 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: he's like, no, my boundary is going to be strong, 352 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 1: but I get to still have the same amount of money. 353 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you mean. 354 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: Like funny how that works for me? Like his belief 355 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: system is no, I get to be compensated very well. 356 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: But I also get to have work life balance. Yeah, 357 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 1: and he earns this amount. My dad's belief system is, yes, 358 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 1: I get to earn a lot of money, but I 359 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 1: will bend over backward for my clients. 360 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 2: Yeah. And he like, you have to go above and 361 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 2: beyond any business, yes, in. 362 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 1: Order to achieve this amount of money. And he's earning 363 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 1: the same amount. Oh so do you kind of see 364 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: the basis here of That's why I said to you, No, 365 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. 366 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that does make sense anyway. 367 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,159 Speaker 1: So I wanted to take this episode and check in 368 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: with you guys, and I want you to start thinking about, 369 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: like what triggers the fuck out at you? Does it? 370 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: Because I guarantee you this was a trigger for this 371 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 1: person because the day before it was or like the 372 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: week before it was my birthday and I posted that 373 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 1: I got myself some Cardia Bengals and you know she 374 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 1: loves her luxury things. Yeah, she loves her material things. 375 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: They make me very happy. And also that's even something 376 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: to think about, Like, I think you can be a 377 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:26,719 Speaker 1: non materialistic person but a really shitty person. And I 378 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 1: think you could be a non materialistic person and a 379 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 1: really good person. Yeah, And I think you could be 380 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,199 Speaker 1: a materialistic person and be a really good person and 381 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: a materialistic person and a really shitty person. 382 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 2: I agree. 383 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 1: So that's just something to think about. 384 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 2: That's like not the defining factor. 385 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: No, yeah, and so that's like your triggers of certain 386 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: people acting certain way or having certain things. This is 387 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: such a great like bread crumb for you to start 388 00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: unpacking where maybe you have beliefs that aren't serving you well. 389 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 2: I have a bit of a rogue question, Uh huh, 390 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 2: what do you think about when people are materialistic to 391 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 2: prove something like they're being materialistic and sitting and very 392 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 2: proving energy with the material items, so they need them 393 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 2: to prove that they're successful. 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Yeah, in order to 409 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 1: validate them, not just to create whatever feeling they're trying 410 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: to attract. 411 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like personally, when I buy Designer, it makes me 412 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 2: feel so nice and fancy, and like it means when 413 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 2: I want fancy, it means when I wear it, it's 414 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: like an occasion. 415 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: You treat it nicer I treat it when you keep 416 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 1: it for so much longer and you style outfits around. 417 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 2: It exactly like it's the outfit everything else and accessory. 418 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: But does that do for your energy? Like if you're 419 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 2: buying it to prove a point or like prove that 420 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 2: you're successful, it's not coming from an internal This makes 421 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 2: me feel nice, it's coming from it. I need to 422 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 2: show the world that I'm successful, and I'm going to 423 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 2: do it by buying this car and buying this bag 424 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 2: and wearing these shoes. 425 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: I love this, So I think you're going to find 426 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: out pretty quick that material things don't actually make you happy. 427 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: That's what you'll probably find out, and you'll under like 428 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: you'll be able to I don't know if you'll be 429 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 1: able to do it enough times, but that person will 430 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 1: just get to the point where they're like, the whole 431 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: reason why you buy something is because you're trying to 432 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: fulfill a need. Yeah, And they will get to the 433 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 1: point where their needs not being fulfilled. Whereas, for example, 434 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: when we buy things, the needs being fulfilled because that's 435 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: our intension, yeah, Whereas they will buy it and they 436 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 1: will be like, this isn't actually filling the need, right, 437 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: and like hopefully they will just like learn and be 438 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: able to have awareness that that's not actually what they 439 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 1: need in that much mo. 440 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 2: Right, So it's more about doing the internal around it. 441 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:11,679 Speaker 1: Yeah. And also like something to note then is remembering 442 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 1: that everyone's on their own evolution. 443 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 444 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,439 Speaker 1: So it's like if someone wants to buy something to 445 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 1: prove something or whatever, like let them Yeah, like all good, 446 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 1: who cares? Yeah, as we know what we're doing it for, 447 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: we know why we like buying certain things, So it's 448 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: kind of like who cares? And even even having that 449 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: of just like because for example, we're almost doing like 450 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: a coaching session here, for example, you being like that 451 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,120 Speaker 1: person's buying it for the wrong intention that you very 452 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 1: much being in your ego or trying to make them wrong. 453 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 1: But it's like, why is that your business? 454 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just not my problem. 455 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,640 Speaker 1: No, as long as of course, though, it's like it's 456 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: great awareness for you to be like, oh, that's interesting 457 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: that person just keeps buying shit and you can tell 458 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 1: they're not happy or I don't know whatever. Yeah, yeah, 459 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 1: that is but bringing it back to I've seen this 460 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: in another episode of just like bringing it back to you, 461 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,159 Speaker 1: And I truly believe when you're not worried about like 462 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: what other people are doing and you just get to 463 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: bring it back to you and your intention, like you, 464 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,959 Speaker 1: you're going to be so much more happier. Yeah, because 465 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: one hundred percent I reckon. I remember it was like 466 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: in my home and park house and I really wanted 467 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: a Gucci bag, but I was like kind of couldn't 468 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 1: afford it, yeah, or it's like it was going to 469 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 1: be a big expense, and I remember other people Gucci 470 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: bags used to really fuck me off because it is 471 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: triggering to me because I'm like, can they even afford 472 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: it or did they just spend their whole pay or 473 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 1: like did they just put it on a credit card? Yes? 474 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: And I could like I was triggered by it because 475 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,919 Speaker 1: I in myself was having like the conflict. 476 00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 2: Yes, and it. 477 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 1: Was such a reflection of like what was happening in 478 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 1: my internal realm. Yeah, wasn't actually about that person? No, Yeah, 479 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: so that's another thing. 480 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: You know what else comes to mind when we talk 481 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 2: about materialistic being materialistic? 482 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 483 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 2: Have you did you ever see those like memes growing 484 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 2: up of like this is what a millionaire looks like, 485 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,919 Speaker 2: and this is what a billionaire looks like, and the 486 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 2: millionaires like covered head to toe and like labeled designer things, 487 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,880 Speaker 2: and the billionaires just like T shirt shorts and Steve Jobs. 488 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do, I recall. 489 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 2: Do you feel like that also has a massive play 490 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 2: on what people associate with being materialistic or not? Really? 491 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 1: Like I guess so I again, it's like it's coming 492 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: down to the thing of if stuff like that is 493 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: not triggering you, because I know it's not triggering you. Yeah, 494 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: Like if that's even in someone's belief system, you're still 495 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: having an outside belief system put on you. Yes, no 496 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: matter the pace content, no matter the movie, the meme 497 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: or anything. And more. What I'm trying to get at 498 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: is like you get to decide, so you can think 499 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: material things are bad, Go ahead and think like that's 500 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: it's so fine. I really don't care either way. But 501 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm trying to bring awareness to are you actually aware 502 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: what your belief system is or have you subconsciously got 503 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: it from a meme from your dad from Robbo down 504 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 1: Street and you're not actually being aware? And then you're 505 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: getting fucking angry at everyone. I love you, but me 506 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: clearly triggered. 507 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 2: I'm not even triggered. 508 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: Does an episode about trigging, But I'm going to do 509 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 1: a whole episode on this, you guys. I do love 510 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: I do love creating Gondent people talk to me about. 511 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: I love that she said I love you first, though, 512 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 1: I know, very nice of her. No, I just thought 513 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: it was a great teaching episode because it was a 514 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: really great awareness. 515 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 2: For me to be like, oh, I had a wound. 516 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's changed and it's changed. And I think 517 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: that's why, because a Tia, there was a time when 518 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 1: you knew me where I couldn't spend money on luxury 519 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: things I know recently literally like I'd be. 520 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 2: Like, you'd have to hit some ridiculous goal I have milestone. 521 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have to be deserved or it have 522 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: to be you know this or that, And to get 523 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,719 Speaker 1: to a place where I'm like, I just want I 524 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 1: want this and I can afford to have it, So 525 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to have it and it doesn't have to 526 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:40,120 Speaker 1: mean anything. And that's even like, oh, let's even bring in. 527 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: I was telling I can't remember if I told you 528 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: this saw Elliot, I don't know, or you guys meant 529 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: I think I did. So I So for my birthday, 530 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: I got some Cardia bankals. We love it. So the 531 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: love Bengal is from Timothy obviously, and then the name 532 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: Bengal is from me to me and I because I 533 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,719 Speaker 1: have a mini love bracelet that actually is just like 534 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: too tight doesn't anymore since I got pregnant. I'm not 535 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: even joking, guys. It's if you guys are gonna invest 536 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: in like a beautiful expensive piece of jewry, Like just 537 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 1: please think about when you get pregnant. Just everything grows, 538 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: everything grows, and sometimes it doesn't go back to me. 539 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 1: My fee noted Honestly, my shoe size has gone up 540 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: since I had Ivy and it just hasn't gone down. 541 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, I think I think that's the thing. 542 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 1: Yeah it is. Yeah anyway, So just noted to you guys, 543 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:48,719 Speaker 1: So updated love Bengal from Tim, the big one because 544 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: I deserve it, and the nail from myself. So the 545 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 1: nail really much represents the last twelve months, oh guys, 546 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: the transformation I've been through, the shit I've been dealing 547 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: with internally, I'm going through my sad in return, so 548 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: a lot of like internal changes, a lot of shifts, 549 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: and it's been a big year of me having to 550 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 1: be like very solid in who I am while fucking 551 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: who I am is changing because I've become a mum 552 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,880 Speaker 1: and it's been a big transformation for me. So this 553 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: mangles really like me being like, you nailed it. 554 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 2: Not really not. 555 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 1: Really, but someone else said that and I thought it 556 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: was really funny. It is really good, but just yeah, anyway. 557 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:44,479 Speaker 1: So when I like opened up my presence on my birthday, 558 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 1: though I knew what I was getting, Like, I post 559 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 1: on Instagram and was like the love bracelets from Tim. 560 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: This bracelet's from me, and I fully did a post 561 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: explaining like what the two bracelets meant. And it's really 562 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: funny because it was up for maybe half an hour 563 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: and then I saw that post. Yes, so this is 564 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. So then I thought about it 565 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: and I was like, why do I feel the need 566 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: to explain to you know, like four hundred thousand people 567 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 1: whatever people want to have an Instagram the reason why I, 568 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:22,479 Speaker 1: you know, deserve these bengals And it was it was 569 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 1: from the energy of these are really expensive things, so 570 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: I need to deserve them. I can't just have them. 571 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: I noticed myself almost playing into that wound of yes, 572 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 1: I can have nice things, but they have to mean 573 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 1: something to me, because that you can't just buy it 574 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 1: because it's pretty. Yeah, And that is definitely that's a 575 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: wound I have, and that's actually something I'm still obviously 576 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: working towards. So I actually deleted that story. So I 577 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: don't know, proud of you, yeah, because I just thought, no, 578 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: I don't have to fucking explain myself. Yeah, And I 579 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 1: noticed I was like in explaining energy, and then I 580 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 1: was just like, no, Georgia, you get to have these things, 581 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 1: and yes, they can mean something to you, and you 582 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 1: can tell that to your closest friends, but you don't 583 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 1: have to go and explain yourself. Wow. So I deleted 584 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: it because I just thought, I'm not doing that. 585 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:11,840 Speaker 2: That's awesome. 586 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's what I mean, Like, there's lots of 587 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:18,400 Speaker 1: layers to everything, and everyone's going through their own process 588 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: of how they do things. But that's even something that 589 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 1: I was really proud of myself because I even did 590 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: the act and then caught myself and was like, oh, no, 591 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,799 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that anymore. So, for example, if you 592 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: catch yourself thinking, oh, that person's so materialistic, that's fine. Yeah, 593 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 1: but then have the awareness and be like, do I 594 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 1: want to believe having material things as bad? Or can 595 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 1: I actually feel really neutral about it? All right, guys, 596 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 1: we will leave it there. 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