WEBVTT - ASHER KEDDIE & DAVID WENHAM - FAKE - PARAMOUNT +

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<v Speaker 1>It's in the news today, but it was actually on

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<v Speaker 1>TV Reload.

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<v Speaker 2>The podcast last week They're Life.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, welcome back to TV Reload. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for clicking and downloading on today's episode with

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<v Speaker 1>Asher Ketty and David Wenham, who are both featured in

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<v Speaker 1>the new Paramount Plus series Fake. The eight part limited

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<v Speaker 1>series is based on a true story when magazine feature

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<v Speaker 1>writer Bertie Bell meets success for grazier Joe Bert on

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<v Speaker 1>a dating app and believes that she has found her

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<v Speaker 1>perfect match. But as the relationship intensifies, Bertie begins to

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<v Speaker 1>feel her boyfriend isn't all that he has led her

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<v Speaker 1>to believe. The scary fact is that men in the

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<v Speaker 1>real world are doing this every day, and sadly, this

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<v Speaker 1>is becoming a common story. The series is based on

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<v Speaker 1>a book by the author Stephanie Wood, and the way

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<v Speaker 1>in which the show unpacks psychological fantastica is groundbreaking work

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<v Speaker 1>for the team of content creators that bring you this series.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole series is available to view on Paramount Plus

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and I don't say this lightly. Sign up

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<v Speaker 1>and stream this show right now. It is phenomenal. At

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<v Speaker 1>this point of the podcast, I usually intro my guests

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<v Speaker 1>and give you a bit of a summary. But my

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<v Speaker 1>guest today Asha Kenny and David Wenem need no introduction

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<v Speaker 1>because we have been in their audience for decades. I

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<v Speaker 1>will talk about how Asher and David created these characters from,

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<v Speaker 1>how much they borrowed from the book, what David thinks

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<v Speaker 1>about his characters lying, and if Asher was able to

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<v Speaker 1>watch back her most intense performance to date. We will

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<v Speaker 1>unpack the obsession of true crime, what this says about us,

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<v Speaker 1>and why audiences now demand smarter scripted dramas. There is

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to talk to Asher about her roles on

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<v Speaker 1>Offspring and Love My Way, which is very exciting for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And David will reveal a shocking truth about his on

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<v Speaker 1>screen roles, which is fascinating to hear considering his filmography.

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<v Speaker 1>You will find out if there is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a second series of Fake. We will talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>laws that need to be implemented on falsifying and manipulating

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<v Speaker 1>people in the dating world. Guys, there is so much

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<v Speaker 1>to unpack with Asher and David today, so sit back

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<v Speaker 1>and relax as we unpack the complicated world of Fake,

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<v Speaker 1>which is now on Paramount Plus thank you both for

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<v Speaker 1>doing this and for talking to me. I am such

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<v Speaker 1>a big fan of both of you and this series

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<v Speaker 1>is absolutely incredible.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a friend of mine who works in the

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<v Speaker 1>media and he rang me one afternoon and said that

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<v Speaker 1>he needed to write a feature the next day and

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<v Speaker 1>was looking for ideas. And I said to him, You've

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<v Speaker 1>got to write about Fake because I'd watched the screeners.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it all in one go, all eight episodes

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<v Speaker 1>in one sitting, and I said, you have to watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so compelling. Everyone in Australia is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be talking about it. Get on board, get ahead of

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<v Speaker 1>the story. And he said, could I say that it's

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<v Speaker 1>Australia's baby Reindeer. And I was like, yes, yes, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. It's Australia's baby Reindeer because everyone is going

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<v Speaker 1>to watch it all in one.

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<v Speaker 3>Go oh gosh, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>So people need to cancel all of their subscriptions. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get Paramour Plus.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, and put aside one night where they don't

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<v Speaker 2>sleep and just watch it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, how did you both find watching the show? You

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<v Speaker 1>guys were there creating these characters and reading these lines.

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<v Speaker 1>But then have you were you able to watch it

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<v Speaker 1>as a viewer? What was that like?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know if Day's watched it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. I hardly ever watch my own work.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't watch stuff. Unfortunately. I wish I could, because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hypercritical and so I can't be completely objective and

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<v Speaker 2>just watch something and enjoy it for what it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've always have my critical faculties on, so I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>a consumer. I don't watch anything. Really. I read. I

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<v Speaker 2>know that it's sort of bamboozles people, but yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>just me. I'm a book weirder.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I read mostly too, that's my entertainment.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we are actually very similar in our process

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<v Speaker 4>doing the actual work.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a bit that we like doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>It is the true thing, that's the process being enjoyed

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<v Speaker 4>the most, right, So, and this says was incredible together

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<v Speaker 4>was creatively it was just so so satisfying, wonderful. But

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<v Speaker 4>we are a little different in that spect in post production.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm quite okay to watch something I didn't used

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<v Speaker 4>to be. I used to be very much like David.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, no, I the thought of watching myself was mortifying.

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<v Speaker 4>I would just pull myself apart, and I want to

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<v Speaker 4>go back and do it again, and what would be

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<v Speaker 4>the point of watching something? For many years, I carried

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<v Speaker 4>on like that and thought, I'm just it's best not

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<v Speaker 4>to see, you know, because the process is what's that's

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<v Speaker 4>the fun part. But I've thought about this. I think

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<v Speaker 4>doing Offspring for all those years helped me to be

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<v Speaker 4>a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Bit more objective.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, frankly, I just got you know you're watching

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<v Speaker 4>if you're in every scene and you're sort of.

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<v Speaker 3>A part of well. I wasn't a producer on that show.

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<v Speaker 4>I was really involved in you know, early cuts, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was important to me to watch it. I think

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<v Speaker 4>I became a little more relaxed about it, which is

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<v Speaker 4>kind of good because I'm with the show like Fate

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<v Speaker 4>I was producing, and I really do need to watch it.

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<v Speaker 4>I need to sit in the carts and need to

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<v Speaker 4>do in the sound mixes. And I was able to

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<v Speaker 4>see this story in particular a lot more holistically than

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<v Speaker 4>you know, pull myself about.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, the reason why I don't watch myself is

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<v Speaker 2>Ash is a producer on this, which is fantastic, is

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<v Speaker 2>I have no control over what goes on the screen.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no control over the performance. So I have

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<v Speaker 2>control on the day, but in terms of the construction

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<v Speaker 2>of the piece, I have no controller. Obviously, very very

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<v Speaker 2>frustrating sometimes and annoying when you know that, well, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>if only they've done that, that would have belong. So

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<v Speaker 2>that's why I don't watch. It's better not to stay away.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say, is that a fear of

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<v Speaker 1>the lack of control because you're going to see something

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<v Speaker 1>and you're going to go I need that to be changed.

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<v Speaker 1>You do want to enter that space because I guess you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can consider the opportunity to make things better.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's a drive for perfection and I understand that,

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<v Speaker 4>and certainly for me with anything i'm not producing, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't really have the desire to watch it either, because

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<v Speaker 4>we've done it.

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<v Speaker 3>We've completed the world. Really, you know, that's the bit

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<v Speaker 3>for us. And it's just true.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to say that I just only was curious

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<v Speaker 1>about this, and I don't feel like I've ever asked that.

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<v Speaker 1>This is episode like four hundred and forty of this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't think I've ever asked one question to anyone,

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<v Speaker 1>because I can't imagine that it would be a comfortable experience.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think because the way in which this show

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<v Speaker 1>has been put together, it's so visceral, and it's so compelling,

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<v Speaker 1>and the way in which it flows just almost feels

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<v Speaker 1>like wanting to watch yourself back on a roller coaster.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only reason why I thought maybe you both

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<v Speaker 1>might have and David, maybe you should start watching some

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<v Speaker 1>of your work.

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<v Speaker 2>It's incredible, very but honestly, it's like, yeah, iys, I

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<v Speaker 2>always look forward, So yeah, the thing that I'm involved

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<v Speaker 2>in it, you know, at any point in time, that's

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<v Speaker 2>where I'm focusing. Yeah, But honestly, it's the action of

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<v Speaker 2>creating that's the thing that really fires me.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, you managed to work alongside some a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the people that created Safe Home SBS last year, which

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<v Speaker 1>was like another series that very similar to this, was

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<v Speaker 1>very it was psychological thriller in a way because of

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on. Did you watch Safe Home last year?

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<v Speaker 4>And I did? Yeah, I thought it was brilliant. It's

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<v Speaker 4>another image in banks produce that well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, of course, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I had her on the podcast to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember saying to her again, we're drinking, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>not boozounds. By the way, but I remember saying to Imagen,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I felt kind of bad that I

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<v Speaker 1>was drinking red wine while watching this show is entertainment

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<v Speaker 1>because the subject matter was so dark but yet so compelling.

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<v Speaker 1>And it feels kind of strange that these days, here

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<v Speaker 1>we are with our popcorn, you know, a glass of wine,

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<v Speaker 1>watching true crime like this, digesting true crime like this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's strange.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think people, I think people are leaning into

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<v Speaker 4>watching really smart drama. And I don't think that the content,

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<v Speaker 4>even if the content's brutal or it's uncomfortable or confronting

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<v Speaker 4>or however you want to describe it, if it's emotionally

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<v Speaker 4>pulsive thus compelling, then it's entertaining. So I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>it matters whether it's you know, a comedy or the

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<v Speaker 4>subject matter is light, or whether it's this where you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you're diving heavily into the psyche of a woman that

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<v Speaker 4>is is repressing her instinct and a man that is

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<v Speaker 4>a fantasist really that is, you know, who believes his

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<v Speaker 4>own narrative. I mean, there's so many layers to it

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<v Speaker 4>that as long as it's got that propulsion and it

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<v Speaker 4>helped makes you want to lean in I think that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it can still be really entertaining as opposed

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<v Speaker 4>to just feeling dark or heavy or I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think for some reason we sort of feel maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>just me, but I feel compelled to find out more

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<v Speaker 1>about people. I love people watching people, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that this particular series is almost like a character study

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<v Speaker 1>on the psychological fantastica, which you know, like gas lighting

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<v Speaker 1>and all of these new terms that are coming about

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<v Speaker 1>are all things we're kind of fascinated with because we

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<v Speaker 1>see them in our real world. We recognize them in people. David,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you go about creating this character? Because it's

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<v Speaker 1>so well paced throughout this show, and this man does

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<v Speaker 1>exist in the real world, there's people like this man.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you go about creating a character? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>make decisions about his lying? Did you go, oh, he

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<v Speaker 1>believes his own lies. I just felt curious about how

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<v Speaker 1>you did it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's an interesting question. Actually, did he believe his own lies? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>As ashually said, he he's a classic fantasist, and the

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<v Speaker 2>thing with him, I believe this is how I approach

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<v Speaker 2>the character. He literally believes everything that he said. There

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<v Speaker 2>is no distinction between reality and fantasy for him, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what makes it really interesting that even

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<v Speaker 2>within the most fantastical situations, there's enough of a kernel

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<v Speaker 2>of truth in there somewhere to keep Birdie still believing

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<v Speaker 2>that this is actually okay, quite real, even if it

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<v Speaker 2>was just you know, sometimes the situations are potentially quite

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<v Speaker 2>ridiculous that he creates, well, even so, he gives her

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<v Speaker 2>just enough to think that potentially, actually, no I can

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<v Speaker 2>trust him. So the approach was quite simply to play

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<v Speaker 2>every moment as truthfully as possible. There was never, from

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<v Speaker 2>his perspective, any time that he lied to anybody, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think in doing that, it makes it well, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not so interesting. Yeah, it makes it difficult for Birdie

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<v Speaker 2>and also the audience to distinguish what israel and what

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<v Speaker 2>is fake.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a girlfriend that went out with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>very similar to this, not as drawn out, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was sort of It's interesting because like this, this show

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<v Speaker 1>sort of has it beginning in the middle and an end,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's based on a true story. My girlfriend only

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<v Speaker 1>really had a small situation with this man, and she

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<v Speaker 1>quickly worked it out. And the interesting thing about this

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<v Speaker 1>man was that there was this presence about him that

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<v Speaker 1>was so it was sort of intoxicating and alluring, but

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<v Speaker 1>yet there was something kind of murky the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone that was ever.

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<v Speaker 2>With this person, you felt it something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was bubbling away behind the surface. And no

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<v Speaker 1>one could say that to my friend and she knew

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<v Speaker 1>it as well. But it's you know, you felt like

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<v Speaker 1>it's rude to pull your friend aside and says, this

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<v Speaker 1>man you're in love with or spending time is he

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<v Speaker 1>a liar? And that's what's interesting about this as well,

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<v Speaker 1>is watching Birdie struggle with what she can probably sense

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time is happening, but she is pushing it

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<v Speaker 1>away as hard as she can. She doesn't want.

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<v Speaker 4>She's also questioning herself, you see, because you know her

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<v Speaker 4>self esteem is low, she's lacking in confidence.

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<v Speaker 3>That's this time in her life.

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<v Speaker 4>So not that that means that that That's why Joe

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<v Speaker 4>was able to get her to believe his narrative because I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think it can happen to anyone. I really do, and

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<v Speaker 3>I love when.

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<v Speaker 4>David talks about this. There's we we inherently trust people.

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<v Speaker 4>We want to believe what they say.

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<v Speaker 2>I met a gentleman who is an ex federal policeman

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<v Speaker 2>who now is a private investigator and he gets hired

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<v Speaker 2>by people to basically to investigate if people are having affairs.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one of the things he does. And the first

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<v Speaker 2>thing he'll do is ask the client, Okay, tell me

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<v Speaker 2>what you know about this gentleman. And the client will say, well,

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<v Speaker 2>he's told me he's a blah blah blah. Then he

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<v Speaker 2>told me he got that, and then he told me

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<v Speaker 2>what he would do. And the investigator always say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>stop there, that's what he's told you. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>know about him? And when that happens, he suddenly he goes, oh, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know anything because we're believed other than

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<v Speaker 2>what you've been told. Yeah, and it's a frightening thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're reliant on trust when you trust people.

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<v Speaker 4>That's human nature. We want to trust people and we

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<v Speaker 4>want to be we want to feel good and swept

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<v Speaker 4>up and connected to other people emotionally and physically.

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<v Speaker 3>And you can see how easily this can happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to think about it as in as we

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<v Speaker 1>as human loves to fill the dots. We can all

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<v Speaker 1>go into the room and see something. We can all

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<v Speaker 1>see the same thing and come out and interpret it. Differently,

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<v Speaker 1>and it usually is because of the way in which

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<v Speaker 1>we want to interpret that situation. The lens that we

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<v Speaker 1>put over the top of it, I find is really

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating and it's something that we all struggle to really

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<v Speaker 1>admit that we've done.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and we all do it, and we're.

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<v Speaker 1>All doing it all of the time, which is like,

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<v Speaker 1>is crazy? So fake is inspired by Stephanie Wood's memoir,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have to say, I am such a big

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<v Speaker 1>fan of Mom and Mere podcast Maya Freeman Friedman and

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<v Speaker 1>Asha obviously you are too, because you basically are her

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<v Speaker 1>and another series that you're filming at.

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<v Speaker 3>The moment, very inspired by her.

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<v Speaker 1>But had you listened to that episode of her podcast

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<v Speaker 1>when she had Stephanie on there, Because I listened to

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<v Speaker 1>it in twenty nineteen and I was completely riveted by

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<v Speaker 1>her bravery to share that story.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I know, right, listen to the podcast. I just

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<v Speaker 4>I read the book, and of course it is our

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<v Speaker 4>drama is inspired by her experience, but it is very

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<v Speaker 4>much also our own interpretation of it. I guess I

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<v Speaker 4>just wanted to stick with the I only read the

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<v Speaker 4>book once too. I didn't refer to it again. I

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<v Speaker 4>just I read it I felt very compelled by it.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to be involved in developing a TV show

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<v Speaker 4>with Imagen, and we were inspired by the themes that

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<v Speaker 4>Stephanie explores in her book as opposed to the specifics

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<v Speaker 4>as such. I mean, you know, you create drama based

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<v Speaker 4>on a book or inspired by a book, and you

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<v Speaker 4>take the things you're really compelled by and you develop them.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's what we did with this show.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's very much, you know, a fictional show about

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<v Speaker 4>these two people, but yet that many, many, many people

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<v Speaker 4>globally have experienced. So I guess that you know, what

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<v Speaker 4>we set out to do was to make it the

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<v Speaker 4>most experiential journey we could, mean inside the point of

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<v Speaker 4>view of Bertie and then of Joe as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was interesting. I went back and listened to

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast this morning, just coincidentally with having a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more time before chatting to you, and I shocked

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<v Speaker 1>at how much of her dialogue you say exactly the

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<v Speaker 1>same way.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>And it must be coincidental you're not mimicking her tones,

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<v Speaker 1>as in your not trying to well.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't speak to her before throughout the shoot. No,

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<v Speaker 4>I met her at the end. I think we met

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<v Speaker 4>her at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet that is so unbelievable to hear because like, oh, granted,

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to that podcast in twenty nineteen, so I'd

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<v Speaker 1>had a long disconnect from it and then watched the series,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was so interesting then to listen to that

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and hears Stephanie's words and for her to say

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<v Speaker 1>very clear piece of dialogue that you had in the series.

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<v Speaker 4>I think Annye did take from the book in some ways,

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<v Speaker 4>like actual instances, you know, the events that it had

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<v Speaker 4>occurred for her. We certainly did that. But I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's the point is that this can happen to anybody,

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<v Speaker 4>and has happened to many people. An involvement like this

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<v Speaker 4>that unfortunately can push you someone into kind of losing

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<v Speaker 4>their identity as they know it. It's very common, so

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<v Speaker 4>we all kind of speak about it similarly, do you know.

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<v Speaker 3>What I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, it was interesting. I'll just say, like tonally,

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't sounding like her, but the emotion of what

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<v Speaker 1>she was saying was what you captured and what was

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<v Speaker 1>there Again, of course that's how you're going to sort

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<v Speaker 1>of use the nuances to say those words, Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Because it's so emotional. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a podcast who the Hell is Hamish or Who

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<v Speaker 1>the Fuck is Hamish that's out at the moment, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's all the same sort of thing. It's about a

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<v Speaker 1>man who did this multiple times, and then you get

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<v Speaker 1>to hear the voices of all of these women that

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<v Speaker 1>he has manipulated over the years. I just assumed that

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<v Speaker 1>it was the same guy and then was disturbed to

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<v Speaker 1>find out that there was all of these podcasts of

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<v Speaker 1>these men doing this, so sort of circling back what

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<v Speaker 1>was saying before. Do you think that these men are

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<v Speaker 1>doing it for attention? Like what would make somebody in

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<v Speaker 1>your minds want to do that to someone?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think there's a few different categories here.

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<v Speaker 2>There's you know, there was a show on Netflix, Tinderswindler

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<v Speaker 2>that was a specific example of a guy who obviously

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<v Speaker 2>was motivated by you know, he wanted, he wanted He

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<v Speaker 2>screwed women for sex and money and what There was

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<v Speaker 2>a very clear motivation. This guy in Fake Joe Burt

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<v Speaker 2>is not that person. He for me, for my mind,

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<v Speaker 2>there was no malevolent we can argue about this. There

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<v Speaker 2>was no malevolence in his intent, which makes it interesting

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<v Speaker 2>because you're working out why on earth is he doing this?

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<v Speaker 2>There's no you know, there's no monetary gain, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 2>without giving it away. We know that, you know, Joe

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't really have very much. I spoke to a psychiatrist

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<v Speaker 2>about it, and he said that there's a particular syndrome

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<v Speaker 2>psychological syndrome I can't remember the name for it now,

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<v Speaker 2>where by people do things that objectively we think they're strange,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't quite understand them, and this particular group of

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<v Speaker 2>people it goes under a little term whereby we're never

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<v Speaker 2>going to understand their motivation. They just do things that

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<v Speaker 2>are confounding and we don't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>That's urinating but confounding.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, obviously her psychological condition without a doubt, and

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<v Speaker 2>he's not. I would contend that he's not really aware

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<v Speaker 2>of the extent of damage, psychological damage that he is

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<v Speaker 2>actually causing on women.

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<v Speaker 1>Agree my family, I reckon have this in our DNA. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a big thing to sort of say, because

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<v Speaker 1>I really, yeah, it's in our DNA, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to try really hard not to do it. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>people listening to my podcast over the four years probably

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<v Speaker 1>find it quite disturbing that I'm even admitting to this,

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<v Speaker 1>But I was brought up around fantastic storytellers people men

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<v Speaker 1>that were in our family, women that were in our

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<v Speaker 1>family that were very good at telling story. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pressure around. We had a Sunday lunch

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<v Speaker 1>every Sunday, our whole family would get together, from the

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<v Speaker 1>top of our grandparents down and they all had these

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<v Speaker 1>amazing stories. And it was kind of said to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you want to hold the fort, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to hold the table and get people's attention

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<v Speaker 1>to your story has to be very good. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I got very good at being able to tell stories.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it wasn't until years later that I found

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<v Speaker 1>out that half of those stories that were being told

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<v Speaker 1>to me by my grandfather were He knew that they

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<v Speaker 1>were crap, like do you know what I mean, and

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<v Speaker 1>he'd hold it with no malice. There was no malice

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<v Speaker 1>in telling these stories, like.

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<v Speaker 3>In complete conviction, with complete.

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<v Speaker 1>And utter conviction. And that was all my mom's side

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<v Speaker 1>of the family, but my dad had it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Dad would just be there freely telling people stories that

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<v Speaker 1>I would as a child would be sitting there.

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<v Speaker 3>Going on everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also would be thinking I was there for that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how it happened. Yes, right, Dad worked at

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<v Speaker 1>three W and I remember he picked me up from

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<v Speaker 1>school and they're at the Botanical which was like a

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<v Speaker 1>water hole for people in the media, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>have been like twelve at the box, I would have

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<v Speaker 1>been like twelve, and he was holding court with these

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<v Speaker 1>people telling these stories, and I remember thinking none of

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<v Speaker 1>them were I mean, they were based on truth. There

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<v Speaker 1>was elements that definitely happened, but most of what he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying was garbage.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do you think he did it and your grandfather?

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<v Speaker 1>I think they wanted to be compelling.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, when it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not malicious and you're not trying to steal money from someone,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not trying to hurt someone. Where is the responsibility

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<v Speaker 1>or the integrity that's being lost in a story by

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<v Speaker 1>a person doing that? Is it bad?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a very interesting sort of conversation you've taken out there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking about it, think, yeah, I think maybe just

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<v Speaker 2>at the roots of it, there's a need to be loved,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's doing it a need to be loved. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>at its simplest essence.

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<v Speaker 1>I found that within myself. I found like, I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>what he is now and I don't do it. But

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<v Speaker 1>it had to be a really conscious decision. When I

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<v Speaker 1>thought about having this conversation with you two today and

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<v Speaker 1>being so vulnerable with just revealing all of this, I

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<v Speaker 1>just got to a point where I didn't want someone

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<v Speaker 1>to say I was a liar. I felt disgusted by that,

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<v Speaker 1>and amazing things had happened in my life that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't need to lie as well, which you know.

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<v Speaker 2>That is interesting point. We spoke about this every now

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<v Speaker 2>and again. Actually, Joe, if he's like he's obviously, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a very smart individual. You know, he has energy whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>and you just thought if he put all of those

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<v Speaker 2>talents and energies into just one person or to one

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<v Speaker 2>job and we're it'd be an extremely successful person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, Why isn't he doing that? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like in this scenario with him

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<v Speaker 1>with Joe, you know, look, he's wanting to do this

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<v Speaker 1>on me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't think he can be satiated.

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<v Speaker 1>Essentially, this could even have a series too. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you could do a series too, whether that's

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<v Speaker 1>even a conversation or whether you're allowed to talk about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but the after effects of how this story ends. There's

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<v Speaker 1>still so much more that we could talk about, because

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<v Speaker 1>I know when I was reading some of Stephanie's work

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<v Speaker 1>that you know he continued to contact her after she

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<v Speaker 1>outed him. She changed his name and protected him that way,

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<v Speaker 1>but his friends and family knew it was him, and

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<v Speaker 1>he knew it was him. I'm fascinated about whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not you two are already starting to talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>aftermath of this.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not really. We were kind of very much in

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<v Speaker 3>the NO.

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<v Speaker 2>I joked about it that, you know, the next series

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<v Speaker 2>should be called Real through Joe's perspective, an experiential trip

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<v Speaker 2>through Joe. I don't think we're going to I don't think.

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<v Speaker 4>We're I think episode six is enough, utterly how over

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<v Speaker 4>when I saw it, I think episode six in series

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<v Speaker 4>ones enough. When it ships me OV two, Joe, he's

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<v Speaker 4>very busy. He's so busy. It was exhausting.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I turned to my partner and said, I

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<v Speaker 1>was hoping that they were going to do this, but

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like this would be the final episode, do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Like, when we got to

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<v Speaker 1>see the switch of POV, I was like isn't that

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating kind of like skin crawling in a way, we think, so,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that there should be This is where

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<v Speaker 1>my friends who have watched this are starting to talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think we need to create laws around social media?

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<v Speaker 1>And because there is so much catfishing, and because there

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<v Speaker 1>is so much mistrust, all of this sort of murky

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<v Speaker 1>side that seems to be coming out of online dating,

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<v Speaker 1>should there be something that stops someone from doing that? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Should we because at the moment, you know, there's none

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<v Speaker 1>of these case studies of you know, you could go

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<v Speaker 1>to jail if you've misrepresented yourself, Like, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that there needs to be something put in place? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I wonder whether it actually just will start to evolve

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<v Speaker 4>in that way and go down that path of things

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<v Speaker 4>being legalized.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just don't know how on earth because of

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<v Speaker 2>so much how would you please that this is the thing?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's the same thing with social media, radio

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<v Speaker 4>age restriction as well. I'm thinking about that a lot

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<v Speaker 4>at the moment. Of course, I've got a fourteen year

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<v Speaker 4>old and a nine year old, and the parent in

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:13.600
<v Speaker 4>me instinctively goes, oh my gosh, yes, absolutely not to sixteen.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, every part of me screams that because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>really worried about it. But then then you think further

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<v Speaker 4>about it, though, and you think, how on earth are

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<v Speaker 4>they going to police that?

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<v Speaker 3>How is that going to work? It raises so many questions.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I guess things will be put to the

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<v Speaker 4>public eventually, but I can't work out in my mind

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<v Speaker 4>how that will work. So I wonder about is this

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<v Speaker 4>the same a similar thing?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, child like to find it? So that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I found with my girlfriends that have got children now

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<v Speaker 1>that they swore, you know, my children will not be

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook until they're sixteen. They found that these are That's.

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<v Speaker 4>What I'm saying, like, how are they going to police it?

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<v Speaker 4>How are they going to enforce this?

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<v Speaker 1>But then when do you actually, like, when do you

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<v Speaker 1>start having that conversation with your children because you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of need to start arming them with that information before

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<v Speaker 1>they're tempted to get into that space. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I'm always having that conversation with the big boy

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<v Speaker 4>that started a few years ago, you know, when he

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to jump on TikTok and all the things that

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<v Speaker 4>his friends were looking at and yeah, the little one

0:25:14.680 --> 0:25:17.720
<v Speaker 4>is not there yet, but he's already aware of the conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's a tricky one. But I think it's similar.

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<v Speaker 4>Though, perhaps to how on earth will that be policed

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<v Speaker 4>if there were restrictions online dating apps and on behavior.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure because like, the interesting thing about getting yourself involved

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<v Speaker 1>in these spaces I always think is that no one

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<v Speaker 1>thinks it all happened to them. And I remember years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in a relationship now for fifteen years, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was with a man beforehand, and I'd stopped talking

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<v Speaker 1>to my friends and my family. It was really weird,

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<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't until someone said to me that I

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<v Speaker 1>was in a almost like a domestic violent scenario. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just always grew up thinking that would never be me,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? I always thought, how

0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:01.480
<v Speaker 1>do people find themselves in these situations? But for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people, I don't think that they know that

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 1>they're there until it's happened to them.

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<v Speaker 3>And then they visit, oh that's me, I'm in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Red flags. I feel like it's a good time to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you about this. You've both been in the dating

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<v Speaker 1>world at some points of your life. Did you both

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<v Speaker 1>have red flags that you would look out for when

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<v Speaker 1>it came to the type of people you chose to

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<v Speaker 1>be in relationships with.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, thankfully David and I skipped we by past the

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<v Speaker 4>whole old life digital dating world, which were very grateful for,

0:26:33.240 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 4>I have to say so. Yeah, I mean, of course,

0:26:36.359 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 4>you know, everyone sees red Everyone's encountered red flags meeting

0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:44.120
<v Speaker 4>new people, and whether they're friendships or you know, more

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:47.880
<v Speaker 4>intimate relationships whatever. Yeah, of course along the way, I've

0:26:47.880 --> 0:26:50.359
<v Speaker 4>seen red flags. I mean, I don't know specifically what

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:52.960
<v Speaker 4>my red got so long ago that I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never really dated. I don't know that my.

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<v Speaker 2>Only equivalent one was. And it's not a dating situation.

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<v Speaker 2>It was I became sort of sort of friendly with

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<v Speaker 2>the man who was a poet and he was trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get me involved in a film that he had

0:27:08.119 --> 0:27:10.439
<v Speaker 2>a script that was being written and whatever, and I

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:13.119
<v Speaker 2>bumped him. Strangely happened to bump into this guy in

0:27:13.200 --> 0:27:16.399
<v Speaker 2>really odd situations over a period of years, and to

0:27:16.440 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 2>cover a very long story short, this poet slash scriptwriter

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:24.919
<v Speaker 2>ended up being a rather sophistic cave a drug smuggler

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:28.159
<v Speaker 2>and ended up in prison, and his brother contacted me

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:31.520
<v Speaker 2>and asked if I would appear in court as a

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:35.240
<v Speaker 2>character witness for him. It was only retrospectively I went

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:39.160
<v Speaker 2>through all those times that I had encountered this particular guy,

0:27:39.359 --> 0:27:41.680
<v Speaker 2>and it was only then when I went back through

0:27:41.720 --> 0:27:45.960
<v Speaker 2>and went, oh my god, that at the time, if

0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 2>they were the red flags, they were very, very very small,

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:49.120
<v Speaker 2>and I just let them go by.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you pick them up along the way and

0:27:51.440 --> 0:27:53.520
<v Speaker 1>there I think anybody we now have all of that

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 1>red flags are something we didn't have before. Like when

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<v Speaker 1>I was started out dating, no one talked about red

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<v Speaker 1>flags be a different term for them. No one talked

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<v Speaker 1>about gasoline.

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<v Speaker 3>Great flags are instinct, don't they. I mean, that's what

0:28:04.840 --> 0:28:05.159
<v Speaker 3>it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's your instinct and whether you acknowledge it or not

0:28:10.080 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 4>is a choice, I guess, isn't it. And it's easy

0:28:14.280 --> 0:28:17.960
<v Speaker 4>to not acknowledge your instinct that's telling you that there's

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:22.119
<v Speaker 4>something wrong and that you don't feel comfortable with somebody.

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.639
<v Speaker 4>It's easy to push that. It can be easy to

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<v Speaker 4>push that down when the person that you're involved with

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<v Speaker 4>has a certain amount of control. And I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>true of the relationship between John Birdie too.

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<v Speaker 2>Society is reliant on trust, the fact that we trust

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<v Speaker 2>each other. The moment that all that trust goes out

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<v Speaker 2>and we turn into a bunch of paralleled people going

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<v Speaker 2>around the place, I think society would absolutely crumble. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're hardwired to trust out the better aspects

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<v Speaker 2>of people.

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<v Speaker 1>I have these other questions for you both about it

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<v Speaker 1>and Asha, you mentioned that you didn't you only saw

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie after you'd finished the show. Is that right, so

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<v Speaker 1>you'd shot it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we were about three quarters of the way

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:09.040
<v Speaker 4>through and she came to visit day said visit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we said hello at lunchtime. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was curious about what her thoughts are on your performance,

0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Like did she call you after? I haven't spoken to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to know what I don't know what

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 4>anyone thinks of my performance, of my business performance.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever feel insecure about yourself, feel free to

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:32.800
<v Speaker 1>give me a call. I could probably be one of

0:29:32.840 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 1>your biggest fans all of your shows, like Love My Way.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone gave that to me. I was working in radio

0:29:39.560 --> 0:29:41.520
<v Speaker 1>at the time and it hadn't come out, and I

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:43.840
<v Speaker 1>watched the first season of Love My Way and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like someone. Yeah, it was. It was like someone

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:50.040
<v Speaker 1>had lifted my my skull.

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 3>I was like, it was a special show, wasn't it.

0:29:53.080 --> 0:29:56.200
<v Speaker 1>Nothing had ever been made that felt as close to

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<v Speaker 1>being real as that.

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<v Speaker 3>It was special. The great group of people.

0:30:00.960 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 1>And all the characters were incredibly flawed, and we hadn't

0:30:05.080 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 1>seen that, you know, and we always had to have

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 1>like a story, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Not a no ensemble as a whole like that. I guess. Yeah.

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 3>It was fairly daring, wasn't it in that way?

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:17.800
<v Speaker 1>And you were incredible as Julia. And I still mimic

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:20.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of your lines from that show to my partner.

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 1>And I told Claudia Carvn this story and she was disturbed.

0:30:25.360 --> 0:30:29.400
<v Speaker 1>But whenever I put myself into a situation where I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>feel a bit uncomfortable and I need a little bit

0:30:31.400 --> 0:30:35.680
<v Speaker 1>bit of extra confidence, I would pretend to be you.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be like if I was at the doctors

0:30:38.600 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'd just sort of be worried about, you know,

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:43.000
<v Speaker 1>what I have to tell because I'd be scared of

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>what they'd say back. I just become this version that

0:30:46.240 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I'd created in my head of like Nina Pratman, Like

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I just would just really come on, come on, give

0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>give I honestly, could I know, David, David. I thought

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 1>about this so hard, but it's so bizarre, Like I

0:31:02.720 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>would just go in there and you know that, ask

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 1>a question and I just give all the answers, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think it's a true comparison. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that the doctor would be sitting there going is

0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Benjamin Norris being Nina proud? Men?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your favorit line?

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<v Speaker 1>At Nash I can't even take my kids to the park,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:29.880
<v Speaker 1>which is tom but we've got to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>cross and get some pills. I kind of I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of take my kids to.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk about love my way because I recognize the lines

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:37.560
<v Speaker 4>from twenty years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, we've got to.

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 4>That is just too.

0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:47.040
<v Speaker 3>Much that you remember that. I love it just so.

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:49.720
<v Speaker 1>But I say that all the time because my partner

0:31:49.760 --> 0:31:51.640
<v Speaker 1>will come home it's my job to take the dog,

0:31:51.800 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 1>our dog to the park at the end of the day,

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:56.520
<v Speaker 1>and he'll be like, what have you done all day? Like,

0:31:56.760 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, because I've obviously been podcasting and googling myself,

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, And he'd be like, why haven't you

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:04.280
<v Speaker 1>taken the dog to the park And I'd be like,

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:06.840
<v Speaker 1>I can't even take my dog to the park. I'm

0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>just so busy, and it's just very, very bad.

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:13.960
<v Speaker 3>They were great characters, aren't they.

0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:17.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, cross to get my pills.

0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I just so bizarre that so relatable content. I

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:24.760
<v Speaker 1>think when I watch some of the things that has

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>been said on TV that have come out of your mouth, Fasher,

0:32:27.640 --> 0:32:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I just think I just feel it's so relatable, like

0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:32.400
<v Speaker 1>what about him?

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 4>My gosh, Yeah, they come on, come on, we're all

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 4>looking forward to seeing a.

0:32:39.080 --> 0:32:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Bit though, David. I mean, there's so many of your movies.

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 1>The Boys is one of them that I remember being

0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 1>in the cinema being that little bit too young, and

0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I was frightened by that performance. Same that movie was frightening.

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I was. I was probably old enough,

0:32:54.120 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 1>but I wasn't mentally old enough to watch. I think

0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 1>it came out in ninety seven or anyway, I would

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:05.360
<v Speaker 1>have been like seventeen or eighteen. Just but even in Australia,

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 1>there was like this sound that you had with your performance, David,

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:10.680
<v Speaker 1>in that where you'd sort of finish your dialogue and

0:33:10.720 --> 0:33:13.360
<v Speaker 1>walk away and it sort of had the sneer like

0:33:13.880 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 1>just It's blown my mind to sit here and talk

0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 1>to the two of you today about these performances, and

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:21.520
<v Speaker 1>then for you, David, to say that you haven't watched

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:24.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot of it back, because yeah, I've been reveling

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:29.640
<v Speaker 1>in your work for three decades of amazing work.

0:33:29.960 --> 0:33:32.600
<v Speaker 3>I sho watch the Boys and scare himself. That's what

0:33:32.640 --> 0:33:33.080
<v Speaker 3>I reckon.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Yeah, go back and watch that. Actually,

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd love this. That's a separate podcast, just just you

0:33:40.040 --> 0:33:42.720
<v Speaker 1>being forced to go back and unpack all of your

0:33:42.880 --> 0:33:43.480
<v Speaker 1>all of your.

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Work that'd been interesting, like woulds it show Google books

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 2>or whatever? Got Of course we have watched the reactions

0:33:52.400 --> 0:33:55.080
<v Speaker 2>of us watching our own work and then having to

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 2>talk about it. Yes, idiots, Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Shocking, David. I was going to say that my dad

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted me to be an actor for a while

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:07.080
<v Speaker 1>and I was terrible, Like he took me to audition

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<v Speaker 1>for a country practice, couldn't remember the lines.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you couldn't country breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm forty four. I just looked good for my age.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow wow, And did what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? I went in and read for the show, read

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<v Speaker 1>for a country practice. I was to play a small

0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:31.480
<v Speaker 1>kid who got sick from drinking contaminated water. Anyway, I

0:34:31.520 --> 0:34:33.360
<v Speaker 1>definitely didn't get a call back, didn't get asked to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, and through the idea of being an actor

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<v Speaker 1>out the window for many years until I saw you

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<v Speaker 1>in the movie Cozy, which was a film of yours

0:34:43.160 --> 0:34:46.279
<v Speaker 1>at the cinemas in nineteen ninety six. After watching that film,

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I want to be an actor. It

0:34:48.520 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't well spoiler alert, that was great.

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<v Speaker 2>Love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, I am running out of time very quickly. And

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<v Speaker 1>I have one question that I finished all of my

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts with also was curious to know, Asha, what are

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<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on Nicole Kidman doing the next season of

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<v Speaker 1>Nine Perfect Strangers. I'm surprised there's a second series of that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if you're involved in it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, I'm not. No, it's a whole new set

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<v Speaker 4>of guests. Well, I mean, I don't think it's surprising.

0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 4>I think it's it lends itself that the set, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the environment of the show. What am I trying to say?

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<v Speaker 4>It lends itself to a second series, absolutely, because you

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<v Speaker 4>get a whole new raft of characters to explore.

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<v Speaker 3>As the guests of Marsha Nicole's character.

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<v Speaker 2>Could I be a guest? You could?

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:45.640
<v Speaker 1>You should be. They've already finished filming, David still.

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<v Speaker 3>Have to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>You'd be a great guest. Yeah, I'm excited to see it. No,

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<v Speaker 4>I have nothing to do with it. It's all new

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<v Speaker 4>folks except for Nicole of course.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was Marshall. I found her so repulsive the

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:01.480
<v Speaker 1>whole way through people.

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<v Speaker 4>In the best possible way, she's like the least. Yeah,

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:09.640
<v Speaker 4>she's the opposite of that. She's gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. Well, Before you go, I'll ask you both a

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 1>question that I ask everyone who joins the podcast. What's

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<v Speaker 1>something from behind the scenes, something that the audience who

0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>have watched fake wouldn't get to know, kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a funny anecdote that might have happened along the way into.

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<v Speaker 2>While in making it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, this is one of the trickiest questions to answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you put this to all your kids?

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<v Speaker 2>And is you're a longboard after you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll tell you. I'll tell you a funny thing.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason why it's there is because the very first

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<v Speaker 1>guest I had was an executive producer from a television show,

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<v Speaker 1>and I asked him that question just because I put

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<v Speaker 1>it in the rundown and it was interesting. He answered

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<v Speaker 1>the question and it got repeated all around the world.

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<v Speaker 1>It literally was in I think it was something like

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and eighty articles were created. Did answer? Well.

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 1>He was the executive producer of I'm a Celebrity, Get

0:37:05.560 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Me out of Here. And I asked him for what's

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:10.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, a story from behind the scenes, and he

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>told this story about how he had this celebrity in

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<v Speaker 1>the jungle who sat there one day and told this

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<v Speaker 1>long story about how he met and had sex with

0:37:20.360 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>someone very, very famous. However, he ran out of the

0:37:24.080 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 1>jungle up to the studio camera like to and said,

0:37:29.280 --> 0:37:33.359
<v Speaker 1>I just realized that I've told that story in with

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<v Speaker 1>time and dates and everything, and I was married at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>So he'd run out of the set of the show

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<v Speaker 1>like just like a madman, like you know'd been in

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 1>that jungle, and that confines with that jungle really just

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:49.680
<v Speaker 1>talking about all this stuff, and then he thought, hang

0:37:49.719 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>on a zank, No, I was married when.

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<v Speaker 3>That had running out to tell them that he could

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<v Speaker 3>don't play it.

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<v Speaker 2>And what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Did?

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't?

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<v Speaker 1>They they did. They changed it. And the interesting thing

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<v Speaker 1>about that, producer Alex Madverttichers, was that he he didn't

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>say in the podcast who it was. But what was

0:38:09.480 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 1>really interesting about it was that it spawned the listeners

0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:16.040
<v Speaker 1>to try and work out who they thought it was.

0:38:16.400 --> 0:38:18.840
<v Speaker 1>So people thought it was Shane Warn, people thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was all of these different people. In England, it got

0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:24.279
<v Speaker 1>picked up and it was in the press over there.

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<v Speaker 1>I launched this TV podcast episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, I don't think anywhere. No, nothing juicy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Do we have a shared anecdote? What anecdotes are not

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<v Speaker 4>my strong point.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to say no, not when you're just yeah,

0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 2>they come into spontaneously memories very difficult.

0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:53.000
<v Speaker 3>I think that happened. Did anything happen? That was kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>What I would like to know is clearly the two

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<v Speaker 1>of you don't audition for these things and actually are

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<v Speaker 1>a producer of But did you both get together to

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<v Speaker 1>see what the chemistry was like between the two of you,

0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:08.240
<v Speaker 1>because these two, these two characters, like from the moment

0:39:08.440 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 1>you two meet in that very first scene, you then

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:14.880
<v Speaker 1>build and build and build with the relationship between the

0:39:14.920 --> 0:39:19.520
<v Speaker 1>two of you. How did you create that the tension

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<v Speaker 1>and the spark between the two of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I guess that's what actors do, you know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>this sort of strange thing about chemistry were actors.

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:29.120
<v Speaker 3>This is what actors do.

0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:32.680
<v Speaker 4>And luckily, you know, it's great when you work with

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:36.400
<v Speaker 4>someone and you share a similar process and you have

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<v Speaker 4>perhaps a similar sense of humor and you there is

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<v Speaker 4>an ease and a relaxation between you, And certainly that's

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:44.960
<v Speaker 4>true of David to Night. You know that that's kind

0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:47.439
<v Speaker 4>of wonderful when that happens. But if it's not there

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:51.200
<v Speaker 4>in any given partnership on screen, you create it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting, do you remember that quote from I think

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.600
<v Speaker 1>it's Jodie Foster and Anthony Hopkins and they both filmed

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<v Speaker 1>The Science of the Lamps and they both there together,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the whole way through the film. And to

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:06.919
<v Speaker 1>create that they you know, just their actors. They both

0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:08.799
<v Speaker 1>tell the story. They just that was the role they

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<v Speaker 1>had to play. But they bore best to each other

0:40:11.200 --> 0:40:14.560
<v Speaker 1>later on that they were scared of each other. Anthony

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<v Speaker 1>was scared of her as Clarice and she was scared

0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:19.920
<v Speaker 1>of him as as Hannibal. Like they were sort of

0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:22.319
<v Speaker 1>frightened Ashra I wondered whether or not, you know, at

0:40:22.360 --> 0:40:24.360
<v Speaker 1>certain times, did you look at Joe and were you

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:28.279
<v Speaker 1>kind of like, oh, David's Joe is so frightening right now.

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:28.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>There were plenty of times where I felt very affected

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<v Speaker 4>by it, and a lot of the time I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>entire Even though we are very much like to interrogate

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<v Speaker 4>the words on the page, I suppose and make sure

0:40:42.200 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 4>that the scene we're going to deliver is what we

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:49.239
<v Speaker 4>wanted to be, there's also plenty of surprise in performance,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and with David there was all the time

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't quite sure what I was going to get,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was, you know, did feel like on a

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<v Speaker 4>as relaxed and comfortable as we felt together, characters also

0:41:01.160 --> 0:41:05.959
<v Speaker 4>were being propelled by a great deal of emotion both

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:09.719
<v Speaker 4>of them, and a need to be understood and a

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<v Speaker 4>need to be heard.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think there were plenty of surprises along the way.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean there were for me as we were performing together,

0:41:18.400 --> 0:41:20.760
<v Speaker 4>wasn't always sure what was going to come next.

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<v Speaker 3>But I love that. That's the fun.

0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:24.879
<v Speaker 1>That's why you do it, hey, That's why we do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the story that you know there's many different ways

0:41:27.680 --> 0:41:29.520
<v Speaker 4>to tell a story, and it's fun.

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<v Speaker 3>To do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so in awe of you both as actors people,

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<v Speaker 1>and what a joy to be able to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you to both today, particularly about this show, which I

0:41:39.040 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 1>think is just got legs. I think it's going to

0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 1>get up and run away because very much like Baby Reindeer,

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:47.600
<v Speaker 1>everything about this is compelling. You could come at this

0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:50.680
<v Speaker 1>story from so many different angles. So for anyone listening

0:41:50.680 --> 0:41:54.560
<v Speaker 1>to us talking about this today, subscribe to Paramount Plus

0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:58.919
<v Speaker 1>and disappear into this world. It's compelling and brilliant work

0:41:58.920 --> 0:42:00.360
<v Speaker 1>from both of you. Amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks, thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, good chalk, thank you, really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you anyway, enjoy chatting. I'll let you both go, but.

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<v Speaker 3>You liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>What's love to you both.

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<v Speaker 3>Sayd bye