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Speaker 2: Guys, welcome to Life Uncut. We are your hosts Britt
Speaker 2: and Laura. Hey guys, and today we're going to be
Speaker 2: jumping straight back into some batch chat because is it
Speaker 2: just me? Or is this getting frisky?
Speaker 1: No, it is not just you. It's very sexy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually knew it wasn't it was a rhetorical question.
Speaker 2: But thanks.
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, sir, I thought I'm really tired.
Speaker 2: We're also going to be talking about something a little
Speaker 2: bit more serious, and that is dating multi people at once.
Speaker 2: Is it okay? When is it okay?
Speaker 3: For?
Speaker 2: How long is it okay?
Speaker 1: And are there any rules? Because I don't know. I
Speaker 1: also don't know. Was that also a rhetorical question or
Speaker 1: did you want me to give my opinion?
Speaker 2: Then I do want your opinion, but not quite yet.
Speaker 2: All right, high wait, calm your farm. But thank you
Speaker 2: for coming back. This is going to be an interesting
Speaker 2: one today. Before we do get into the Bachelora, I
Speaker 2: need to get something off my chest. What have you
Speaker 2: done or I haven't done anything? Thanks very much for the support.
Speaker 2: But I did read something this week that has left
Speaker 2: me a little on edge, a little unnerved. Maybe. Oh,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I've been living under a rock.
Speaker 1: Is that that Miley Cyrus and Linn Hemsworth has split up.
Speaker 1: Liam Hemsworth his name is really hard to say when
Speaker 1: you haven't slept for eight weeks.
Speaker 2: Look, that's not what it is. But while we're talking
Speaker 2: about that, I just want to note that if he
Speaker 2: is really single, well so mine. I'm just gonna throw
Speaker 2: that out to.
Speaker 1: The Oh wow, that was thirsty, but I like it.
Speaker 2: Well, you know, you've got to risk it for the biscuit.
Speaker 2: That's my saying. No, but back to what I.
Speaker 1: Pleased, don't risk our podcast for your biscuit.
Speaker 2: If it gets me Liam Hemsworth, then yeah. So look,
Speaker 2: I read this thing about Gwyneth Paltrow, and anytime I
Speaker 2: read something about Gwyneth Paltrow, it is always controversial.
Speaker 1: Yes, I agree. Okay, so what has she done? What
Speaker 1: crazy whack shit has she done?
Speaker 2: Do you or anyone you know steam your vagina? Please
Speaker 2: tell me?
Speaker 1: And this, well, it's actually a funny story. Just the
Speaker 1: other day, no, I don't. I did see that Chrissy
Speaker 1: Tagan was talking about that on her Instagram though recently
Speaker 1: as well.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I have since doled into this a little bit,
Speaker 2: and I have found out that Chrissy Tagan did it
Speaker 2: because of Gwyneth Paltrow. Right, But I don't get it,
Speaker 2: and I have never heard it before. But do you
Speaker 2: know what it is? Because I'm going to tell you.
Speaker 1: Look, I have too many things to think about it at
Speaker 1: the moment already. I have to think about my pelvic
Speaker 1: floor muscles. Why am I going to start thinking about
Speaker 1: steaming it.
Speaker 2: That's one of the reasons people think, oh this hell.
Speaker 1: It sounds very hot and probably not somewhere where I
Speaker 1: want to get very.
Speaker 2: Yes, don't picture yourself like relax with your feet up
Speaker 2: in an infrared sauna sort of thing, because it is
Speaker 2: not like that.
Speaker 1: So what is it? Describe this to me?
Speaker 2: Okay, so literally, it's like your potty training, That's what
Speaker 2: The image reminded me of they're squatting over some sort
Speaker 2: of bowl and it's filled with boiling water and they
Speaker 2: infuse it with all these herbs basil, rosemary, wormwood.
Speaker 1: You really did do your research into that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's this one called this is my favorite
Speaker 2: herb for vaginal steaming. It's called the mugwort. Oh, I'm
Speaker 2: not fortunate they infuse this water with these ridiculous herbs.
Speaker 2: They squat over it and they steam their vagina. Okay,
Speaker 2: but what is meant to be the purpose of steaming? Like,
Speaker 2: what benefits am I going to get from getting it
Speaker 2: all hot and heavy downe there? Okay? So yeah, they
Speaker 2: say that it cleanses, and they say it can help
Speaker 2: titan if you're if you've had children. They say it
Speaker 2: helps me the pro lapse as well. But I did
Speaker 2: look a little bit further into this, and the Guyan
Speaker 2: No Society has said that there is no benefit to this,
Speaker 2: and in fact, it actually comes with a risk.
Speaker 1: No, of course, and that's because it's come from ridiculous
Speaker 1: Goop was trying to tell us at one point to
Speaker 1: spend fifteen thousand dollars on a dildo. Do you not
Speaker 1: remember this. Oh my god, I don't remember. It's like
Speaker 1: an eighteen carrot gold. Oh I love that I remember
Speaker 1: this an eighteen carrot gold. I wish I had fifteen
Speaker 1: thousand dollars to blow on a dildo. That's why you
Speaker 1: postpone the way. I definitely didn't. But yeah, look, don't
Speaker 1: spend fifteen thousand dollars on dildo. Don't steam your vagina.
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming to Life Uncut for some very
Speaker 1: important life lessons.
Speaker 2: Well, the reason is made than using the first place
Speaker 2: is not because people are steaming. It is because one
Speaker 2: poor woman, and I'm sure there are more, she got
Speaker 2: second degree burn.
Speaker 1: Imagine going to the hospital and being like, hey, so.
Speaker 2: I was cleansing my vjjh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is too much. We really should get into
Speaker 1: the batch chat. I can't do this anymore. Well, I
Speaker 1: just wanted to.
Speaker 2: I just wanted to just see if anyone else knew this,
Speaker 2: anybody was the only person not doing it. I mean,
Speaker 2: do people.
Speaker 1: Literally write their list? I don't even wash my face
Speaker 1: properly any or let alone anything else. I'm so so lazy.
Speaker 2: You know what, You're right, It's definitely time to move on. Yeah,
Speaker 2: go batch chat, babe, did you watch it?
Speaker 1: Yes, of course I watched it. I actually, hi, No,
Speaker 1: I went back and saw it again a second time
Speaker 1: on ten play, so I am well caught up.
Speaker 2: So I did too, Actually, and I did it whilst
Speaker 2: I was on a treadmill, and I felt like I
Speaker 2: was just killing life. But straight up, what are your thoughts? Well,
Speaker 2: the Golden ticket, Oh yeah, Ellie cashed.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Did they go to Flemington or did they go to
Speaker 2: willy Wonka Land.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but Flemington Racecourse was not my idea
Speaker 1: of showing Melbourne on a date.
Speaker 2: Wasn't what I was expecting the date to be.
Speaker 1: What we expecting the date to be.
Speaker 2: When I think of Melbourne, I think, I mean I
Speaker 2: always think this, but I always think about food and wine.
Speaker 2: You think food and wine, you think the alleyways, you
Speaker 2: think the trams.
Speaker 1: I was going to say, I think everyone riding the
Speaker 1: tram for free for.
Speaker 2: Maybe late afternoon some Kilda, I think AFL.
Speaker 1: I just think it was such an ad channel ten
Speaker 1: put on an for a date. I don't know. It
Speaker 1: was like, why would you do the racing and the
Speaker 1: gaming and a gay waterhouse? It just made no sense
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: Well, Yeah. So when he said he had somebody special
Speaker 2: to introduce her to, you thought it was gonna be
Speaker 2: like a friend or a family member.
Speaker 1: Surely Channelton has some sponsorships or something through this this year.
Speaker 1: It's the only thing that makes sense, because to me,
Speaker 1: that was such a bizarre date in itself.
Speaker 2: I agree, But what got me through it was that
Speaker 2: I love Ellie. Yeah, she's beautiful. Like I smile when
Speaker 2: I see her smile. I know, I don't know, maybe
Speaker 2: I have a little soft spot for her because I
Speaker 2: work in the hospital and she's a nurse and she
Speaker 2: works in the hospital, and I just think you probably
Speaker 2: work like a boss and you're giving back and I
Speaker 2: know the nitty gritty she would be getting down to
Speaker 2: and she's such a caring person.
Speaker 1: Well that's exactly how she came across in the first
Speaker 1: few episodes when she was saying that she gets so
Speaker 1: much out of helping other people and that's why she
Speaker 1: does the job that she does. She is very, very
Speaker 1: lovable and she is the hero that we don't deserve.
Speaker 2: That is damn straight. And I just think it's not
Speaker 2: going to end well.
Speaker 1: I have this feeling I have to agree with you
Speaker 1: and the only reason why I think that is because
Speaker 1: she's getting so much awesome airtime and she's being held
Speaker 1: up to be so perfect. There's been no jeopardy in
Speaker 1: her storyline at all, and that's what makes me think
Speaker 1: maybe this is heading for disaster. But you know, yeah, also,
Speaker 1: who knows, maybe some jeopardy in her storyline is coming.
Speaker 2: Be on its way.
Speaker 1: What did you think of the.
Speaker 2: Group date on that episode the AFL. Yeah, they're all
Speaker 2: running around and dropping the ball. That was such a
Speaker 2: volcano if you don't know what a lolcano is like
Speaker 2: an eruption of laughter. And I was just erupting in
Speaker 2: laughter because of Mary, because of everyone, but Mary. Mary
Speaker 2: is all of us. I said this in the last episode.
Speaker 2: She is my favorite. Everything she says is funny, even
Speaker 2: oh god, I'm getting ahead of myself, but even her
Speaker 2: trying to flirt on the next group date photo shoot, ah,
Speaker 2: she just slays me, rip absolutely slays me.
Speaker 1: But Nicole got there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Nicole got the extra time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm not going crazy. Yeah, And so I
Speaker 1: talked about herself for the entire date, did she She
Speaker 1: was like, I can do skateboarding, I can do rollerblading,
Speaker 1: I can do AFL. I love surfing. She just rattled
Speaker 1: off every sport that there was because she can do
Speaker 1: it and she's amazing.
Speaker 2: I didn't I didn't notice that, to be honest, but
Speaker 2: I could have called this before the event happened. They
Speaker 2: didn't kiss. Now, our boy Matt has kissed everyone so far,
Speaker 2: but he didn't kiss Nicole.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's because Nicole didn't stop talking about herself long
Speaker 1: enough to actually give him a chance to get down
Speaker 1: her throat, because he's been getting down everyone else's throat.
Speaker 2: All right, So we get back to the mansion and
Speaker 2: then Izy gives the date card. But who is is
Speaker 2: he there?
Speaker 1: We're still so early in the season that every episode
Speaker 1: someone pops up and I'm like, who the frick is that?
Speaker 1: Where did she come from?
Speaker 2: I legitimately didn't know who she was. I thought she
Speaker 2: might've been the waitress that just came on screen.
Speaker 1: There's still too many girls, and unfortunately I cannot remember
Speaker 1: all of them. So I know who is he is
Speaker 1: now because she went home the next episode, But I
Speaker 1: had no idea who she was, So who went home
Speaker 1: on that episode? So that episode and I only know this,
Speaker 1: I actually didn't know who these girls were either, but
Speaker 1: it's Jesse Renee and Jesse cutt okay good at least
Speaker 1: reculling a few of them get out of here. And
Speaker 1: that was also the episode when Nicole seemed like she
Speaker 1: was super drunk at a cocktail party.
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I think she's going to be the drinker
Speaker 2: of the show.
Speaker 1: I mean, not that anyone really come like it is
Speaker 1: supposed to come across as that, but you can kind
Speaker 1: of tell when you're looking at them at the Rose
Speaker 1: ceremony and they look bleary eyed.
Speaker 2: Did you get drunk on the show? Oh?
Speaker 1: Once or twice?
Speaker 2: Did you only once? At the very end, when I
Speaker 2: was like, whooo, like I'm so over this and I'm
Speaker 2: ready to let it out.
Speaker 1: I had one. It was cut out, thank god.
Speaker 2: But I.
Speaker 1: Had a boxy and I had a glass of wine
Speaker 1: in my hand, and I was crying and I was
Speaker 1: saying to my producer, I was like, I'm.
Speaker 2: An independent woman and I don't need to put out
Speaker 2: with this bullshit.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, thank god they cut the whole thing out.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm gonna say that that was partly because
Speaker 3: maybe I'd had a couple of lines that night.
Speaker 2: So you guys just know to what a voxy is.
Speaker 2: A voxy is just a little piece to camera that
Speaker 2: you go off. It's like an interview just between you
Speaker 2: and your producer, and then they'll they'll take parts of
Speaker 2: that in you show.
Speaker 1: Oh I'm an independent woman? What an absolute loser? I was?
Speaker 1: But all right, okay, going into the next episode.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Four the photo shoot. Now, they always do the
Speaker 2: photo shoot. It's a really big thing. They put in
Speaker 2: all the magazines. Did you do it? No?
Speaker 1: Specifically for Women's Day, isn't it? Or mine was? Anyway?
Speaker 3: Think?
Speaker 2: Oh who are Women's Day?
Speaker 1: Okay, right, so one of the magazines, just to explain
Speaker 1: this episode to you, and why they do the photo
Speaker 1: shoot every year is because one of the magazines buy
Speaker 1: the rights to that photo shoot. So that's why there's
Speaker 1: always this episode where they do a bizarre themed photo shoot.
Speaker 1: Ours was like eighties pop tarts or something. What was
Speaker 1: your pop tart?
Speaker 2: That's a breakfast food?
Speaker 1: Isn't it? Also a band?
Speaker 2: Pop stars? Oh shit, I love I used to love
Speaker 2: pop parts. Actually the chocolate ones perfect.
Speaker 1: Well. It was like we were all dressed in I
Speaker 1: was dressed as the breakfast cereal. H what was yours?
Speaker 2: Well? I wasn't invited on the photo shoot, so I
Speaker 2: didn't do it. But it was awkward for everybody. The
Speaker 2: girls hated every second of it. They peg these people
Speaker 2: together and then they make everyone else go watch the
Speaker 2: photo shoot and comment on it, and everyone gets nasty.
Speaker 2: And I saw that on this episode.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they do it for the drama. They create
Speaker 1: this friction and this tension.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was actually a really funny episode to watch.
Speaker 1: Well, speaking of friction and tension, what about Abby and
Speaker 1: Matt and Bakoop? Oh my god, how was that for
Speaker 1: a little I feel like.
Speaker 2: This is where we insert the rocky music like a fire,
Speaker 2: that would just look like it was going to be
Speaker 2: on Well.
Speaker 1: I just wasn't expecting that from Abby my whole, and
Speaker 1: I think most people who watch it, my whole perception
Speaker 1: of Abby's character in this season has just shifted.
Speaker 2: Is starting to turn She's a little vixen.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: People can get carried away with this turning into a
Speaker 2: competition that you just want to I mean, the whole
Speaker 2: Bachelor that you just want to win, regardless of what
Speaker 2: the ending is.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely. I think sometimes it's very easy to
Speaker 1: get caught up in the idea that you want to
Speaker 1: win the show. And what people forget is it's not Survivor.
Speaker 1: You don't win one hundred thousand dollars or.
Speaker 2: One sort of like Survivor. Sometimes yeah, you're like, I
Speaker 2: would have taken a hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: It's not you don't win a prize. You win a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: So if you don't really like the guy that much,
Speaker 1: he's not really much of a prize then is he.
Speaker 1: People just get really caught up in wanting the challenge
Speaker 1: of getting him to fall in love. So I haven't
Speaker 1: made up my mind on Abby yet, but I think
Speaker 1: it got crazy sexual really quickly. Probably not the foundation
Speaker 1: for a healthy relationship.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, she did make that throwaway comment too, which
Speaker 2: I'm gonna think she regrets. But she said I can
Speaker 2: give him a happy ending. Oh that's what she said.
Speaker 1: That's nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then I think later on she may have
Speaker 2: I mean, no, look, I think a lot can be
Speaker 2: misconstrued as well. She was just having a good time,
Speaker 2: stop being nice.
Speaker 1: Trits over here fenceitting. It was way way too over
Speaker 1: the top, launchy. I think I also kind of disagree
Speaker 1: with the actions of it because there's this this unwritten
Speaker 1: law that you do not make out with someone at
Speaker 1: a cocktail party, like maybe people don't know about unless
Speaker 1: they've been in the show. It's just super disrespectful to
Speaker 1: the other girls to make out with the bachelor while
Speaker 1: everyone else is there, well.
Speaker 2: Because everybody also thinks that you're a column away in
Speaker 2: this really romantic situation, but you're not. You've been pulled
Speaker 2: behind a tree with the bachelor. Everyone's a few meters away.
Speaker 1: And everyone else is waiting, and everyone else still is
Speaker 1: going to go and speak to him in the next
Speaker 1: sort of ten minutes, twenty minutes, half an hour after that.
Speaker 1: So it's really uncomfortable to think that you're going to
Speaker 1: sit there talk to a guy, knowing full well that
Speaker 1: he's just literally two seconds ago in the same room
Speaker 1: made out with your friend. It really makes you feel insecure.
Speaker 2: It never ever crossed my mind to kiss Nick at
Speaker 2: the party. At the cocktail party, I know what happens
Speaker 2: a lot in the American Anything goes in the American Bachelor.
Speaker 2: Someone in my season actually did kiss Nick at the party.
Speaker 1: Who was that.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say it because I'm not that person,
Speaker 2: and I do like this person and the difference is.
Speaker 1: Did it make it onto the show.
Speaker 2: No. Oh, I don't.
Speaker 1: Throw things out there, and they keep secrets from the public.
Speaker 2: Well, the difference is she didn't come back in and
Speaker 2: tell anyone or brag about it or throw it in
Speaker 2: anyone's face. It just sort of came out later between friends.
Speaker 2: And to be honest, I was I couldn't even care
Speaker 2: at that point, right, I think Abby just was shooting
Speaker 2: herself in the foot. She said, you know, I would
Speaker 2: never kiss him, would never kiss him.
Speaker 1: Well, now that I'm thinking about it, I actually kiss
Speaker 1: Mad at a cocktail party. I'll shut up.
Speaker 2: Oh my, oh my god, I'm a hussy. You just
Speaker 2: broke your own unwritten rule.
Speaker 1: I did. I did. However, I'm gonna put down a
Speaker 1: very important however, at our cocktail parties, we had a
Speaker 1: thing called the Secret Garden, and Matt could take someone
Speaker 1: away there, so it was like a single date, which
Speaker 1: I guess what is what Abby had as well. But
Speaker 1: that's however, she told everyone she wasn't going to make
Speaker 1: out with him. I didn't do that, So I did
Speaker 1: make out with him. Oh god, I love what you're
Speaker 1: doing right now. Digging myself into a massive hole and drowning.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go throw myself in the ocean after this.
Speaker 1: I won't it's too cold. No, So she's told everyone
Speaker 1: she wasn't going to make out with him, and then
Speaker 1: she came back and bragged about it, and that was
Speaker 1: pretty gross. Form.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she was a little bit excited, lipstick
Speaker 2: not on her face anymore, and it just it just
Speaker 2: makes the other girls feel shitty.
Speaker 1: But I don't like it when people come back from
Speaker 1: dates and the first thing they do is really go
Speaker 1: over the top telling the other girls what happened and
Speaker 1: how amazing it was and what the kiss was like,
Speaker 1: because I do feel like it's pissing on your territory
Speaker 1: a little bit if cocking your leg and going, Okay,
Speaker 1: this guy's mine, and then you instill fear in the
Speaker 1: other girls, and you instill this insecurity that they're not
Speaker 1: gonna have a chance because your connection is so amazing.
Speaker 2: Also, though, on the other hand, I feel like you
Speaker 2: can't win, So I think I was one of the
Speaker 2: only people that just kept that to myself. I remember
Speaker 2: I was the first kiss of the season and I
Speaker 2: came back in and all the girls were dying to know.
Speaker 2: First thing they asked, and I had decided I didn't.
Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna do that for respect for them as well,
Speaker 2: whether they could see that. But they couldn't. I said, Oh,
Speaker 2: I've just decided I'm gonna keep my date to myself.
Speaker 2: And I didn't say it in like a smug way.
Speaker 2: I was just trying to protect everyone involved. And they
Speaker 2: still hate it on me for that. You know, like
Speaker 2: she thinks she's better, she doesn't have to tell anyone.
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what you do.
Speaker 1: Well, no matter what you do, you're gonna have a
Speaker 1: target on your back if someone thinks that you are
Speaker 1: a front runner exactly. But there is ways to go
Speaker 1: about it that makes you sort of less just pretentious
Speaker 1: and less of course cocky.
Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, be humble, Yeah, humble. I think that's
Speaker 2: a song.
Speaker 1: Okay, I haven't heard it. Do you want to sing
Speaker 1: it for me?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I think that's that's all I know. But we did
Speaker 2: skip something that I wanted to talk about, and that
Speaker 2: was the g Foce sexual in Nuino Monique and Matt
Speaker 2: fly through the air doing acrobatics. Date.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I forgot about their date.
Speaker 2: I like their day was that memorable?
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, not really. It wasn't, but I mean I
Speaker 1: liked the date. I thought the date seemed really fun.
Speaker 1: It wasn't very romantic, but I think it was pretty
Speaker 1: cool what they got to do.
Speaker 2: Oh, I was super jelly of what they were doing,
Speaker 2: the actual activity, but not really a bonding experience as such,
Speaker 2: because you're not even in the same air zone.
Speaker 1: Well, Madam and I actually had a date where we
Speaker 1: were paragliding, so we were on separate we were strapped
Speaker 1: to separate people, and so we weren't together but you together. No,
Speaker 1: we were talking through walkie talkies and we were kind
Speaker 1: of in different spaces doing different things. It was still
Speaker 1: a really fun shared experience. So I'm guessing in like
Speaker 1: jet planes would be a really unshared experience as well,
Speaker 1: but it doesn't have that romance to it. However, they
Speaker 1: did mac on at the end, so romance was found.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the sexual chemistry between him and Monique and him
Speaker 2: and Abbey, it's pretty off the chart, if the chart
Speaker 2: it really is. But I just wonder if it's that's it,
Speaker 2: if that's the level it's at.
Speaker 1: I think so far that's all we've seen, to be honest, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have. There's been a lot of macking on. I
Speaker 1: need to see more from Abby, just to know that
Speaker 1: she has that next bit of a deeper connection, more depth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I think for me, the highlight at the Rose
Speaker 1: ceremony was a vacuu godlover crying, that real raw emotion.
Speaker 1: But why was she crying?
Speaker 2: Well, probably because she had sore feet, to be honest,
Speaker 2: but also I think it was relief. She just looked
Speaker 2: so stressed out that she was going to go home,
Speaker 2: and I broke my heart.
Speaker 1: But I guess at that point in time, you're not
Speaker 1: really crying because your heart's broken. You're crying because you
Speaker 1: just want to stay longer for the possibility of what
Speaker 1: it could be, because she has not really spending time
Speaker 1: with him yet. So I felt like the tears might
Speaker 1: have been a little bit too much. Am I being
Speaker 1: really harsh?
Speaker 2: Maybe? But no, No, I think the tears were too much.
Speaker 2: But everything is heightened in that environment. Your emotions are
Speaker 2: so heightened, so people are crying and upset over things
Speaker 2: they wouldn't be on the outside.
Speaker 1: I agree, And also getting to that point of being
Speaker 1: the last person standing, no matter whether you have feelings
Speaker 1: or not for the bachelor. At that point, in time,
Speaker 1: there's a real sense of rejection and no one wants
Speaker 1: to be rejected, so it is a hard pill to
Speaker 1: swallow no matter what point in the journey that happens. Today,
Speaker 1: we are going to be talking a little bit about
Speaker 1: multiple dating. Is that okay, Brittany, what do you think?
Speaker 2: Oh, this is a tough year because I have so
Speaker 2: many feelings on it and I feel like it's a
Speaker 2: bit of an onion, you know, like peel back the layers.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, you're the one in this little duo who's
Speaker 1: actually dating. So are you multiple dating? I'm barely. I
Speaker 1: hope that no one who's dating Britain is listening to this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because if.
Speaker 2: I am multible dating no. Look, Actually, funny story I'm
Speaker 2: when I say how busy I am at the moment,
Speaker 2: I am so busy. I haven't had one night off
Speaker 2: in weeks. And there has actually been this one particular
Speaker 2: guy that has asked me out. If he's listening, Hi,
Speaker 2: there's been this one guy that there's been trying to
Speaker 2: take me out for a few weeks and I didn't
Speaker 2: want him to think it was an excuse. I literally said,
Speaker 2: I have I don't have a free night and not
Speaker 2: a lie, and he's and he's like, oh, well, you know,
Speaker 2: let me know when you can. And a few weeks
Speaker 2: went past, and then he responded to one of my
Speaker 2: Instagram stories saying, you know, I'm still waiting. So I thought, look,
Speaker 2: let's try again for the next few weeks. In a
Speaker 2: few weeks time, So then on Friday night, last minute,
Speaker 2: my plans were canceled. I had a girlfriend coming to
Speaker 2: stay and she couldn't stay anymore. So classic Brittany, I
Speaker 2: messaged this guy and I'm like, hey, so I'm free
Speaker 2: to go on a date, like in ten minutes if
Speaker 2: you want on a Friday night.
Speaker 1: You booty called him. It was not a booty you
Speaker 1: fall on booty called.
Speaker 2: That's just how this is why I am single, Because
Speaker 2: I ask you. It was like six pm, but I
Speaker 2: gave him my point is the poor guy and he said, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I've already got plans. Of course it's
Speaker 2: Friday night with ten minutes to notice. But I'm like, oh, well,
Speaker 2: don't say I didn't try. No, So no, I'm not
Speaker 2: dating one person, let alone multiple.
Speaker 1: In any case. What is your what is your thoughts
Speaker 1: on dating multiple people at one time?
Speaker 2: Okay, So I think that if you are single and
Speaker 2: you've just started seeing somebody, I think it's okay to
Speaker 2: be seen a few people at the same time, because
Speaker 2: that is, in my opinion, what dating is. You're trying
Speaker 2: to find the person you want to spend your whole
Speaker 2: life with. In that first few weeks, you could be
Speaker 2: going on a date with John on Monday, and then
Speaker 2: on Thursday you might go for a drink with Billy,
Speaker 2: and then on Saturday you might go for a drink
Speaker 2: with Frank. I think that's fine to have gone and
Speaker 2: met three different people in one week.
Speaker 1: But for how long do you have these three people
Speaker 1: on rotation for before you make some decison?
Speaker 2: That's an interesting question. I don't. I mean, I'm not
Speaker 2: a dating expert, whilst I claim to sometimes be.
Speaker 1: Well you are here giving relationship advice, No, but.
Speaker 2: I I have strong opinions. I think there are some
Speaker 2: rules that you probably need to follow, and things like
Speaker 2: if you start sleeping with one, Once you start sleeping
Speaker 2: with them, I think that that's it. I don't think
Speaker 2: you can be sleeping with three different people a week. Yeah, well,
Speaker 2: I mean you could a lot to take on. I
Speaker 2: feel exhausted thinking about this, thinking about the concept of
Speaker 2: dating multiple people, And for me, I'm such a fence
Speaker 2: sitter with this whole concept because I really think that
Speaker 2: if you've gone on a couple of dates with someone,
Speaker 2: then you should know whether or not there is something
Speaker 2: about that person that you want to pursue, and whether
Speaker 2: or not you want to continue to get to know
Speaker 2: them and explore who they are as a person. But
Speaker 2: if you're spreading yourself so thin over dating so many
Speaker 2: different people, how do you actually really connect with someone
Speaker 2: on a bit of a deeper level to figure out, yes, okay,
Speaker 2: I want to invest in this relationship more. And I'm
Speaker 2: not talking about like running to the altar and saying
Speaker 2: absolutely from day dot you can't date anyone else. But
Speaker 2: I mean, where, at what point are you being transparent
Speaker 2: and being kind to that other person's feelings. What if
Speaker 2: you're doing four people at once and then two of
Speaker 2: them you just culled because you're like, oh, you're fun,
Speaker 2: but there's nothing there cull them. But there's two people
Speaker 2: now that you have this strong, serious connection with, how
Speaker 2: do you go about just picking one? What if you're
Speaker 2: still trying to get deeper? Because I think it takes
Speaker 2: a little while to get to know somebody properly. So
Speaker 2: what if you're still trying to get deeper with both
Speaker 2: of them, would you just cull one and focus on one?
Speaker 1: So have you had an open conversation with them about
Speaker 1: the fact that you're dating someone else and the fact
Speaker 1: that you are right now weighing up to different people.
Speaker 2: One of my little rules in this would be that
Speaker 2: you have to be open. So if you're if the
Speaker 2: guy you're seeing says you're seeing somebody else, you say yes,
Speaker 2: and then you have that conversation and you go from there.
Speaker 2: If they're okay with it, great, If they're not, well,
Speaker 2: you need to figure out what you want. Is that
Speaker 2: person important enough to you to cull the other person.
Speaker 2: It's a pretty tricky situation. But I'm talking early days.
Speaker 2: I'm not talking dating six months in. I'm talking they
Speaker 2: get to know you stage.
Speaker 1: But I think that for me, the concept of dating
Speaker 1: multiple people, there's sort of three reasons why you would
Speaker 1: do that if your true intention is that you want
Speaker 1: to be in a long term, committed relationship. I think
Speaker 1: one of the reasons why you would date multiple people
Speaker 1: is because you're trying to keep your options open, so
Speaker 1: you're still trying to figure out whether that person's right
Speaker 1: or not, which is completely fine. Number two would be
Speaker 1: that you're a bit afraid of commitment because you don't
Speaker 1: want to get hurt, and so it's easier to not
Speaker 1: be committed to one person and to spread yourself a
Speaker 1: bit then and then number three would be that you
Speaker 1: like the attention, which I think is a big call.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying this not because I'm trying to make
Speaker 1: anyone feel bad for doing it, but because I myself
Speaker 1: have been in the past someone who dates multiple people
Speaker 1: at the one time, and for me, it was like
Speaker 1: an attention meter thing. I got more satisfaction from having
Speaker 1: this drip fed attention. I wasn't really interested very much
Speaker 1: in any of them, because if somebody rose above who
Speaker 1: I was interested in, I would cull all the people
Speaker 1: that I'd been dating.
Speaker 2: So it's more about just feeling wanton.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess so, But I think from the minute
Speaker 1: that somebody did rise above the other people that I
Speaker 1: was dating, I would stop dating those people. So in essence,
Speaker 1: I wasn't really dating with this intention of any one
Speaker 1: person that I had in the boil at the time.
Speaker 1: To then have a long term relationship with I was
Speaker 1: just kind of dating an essence so that I wasn't
Speaker 1: alone and didn't have anyone on the burn. If that
Speaker 1: makes sense.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. So whilst I say that I
Speaker 2: think you should be feeling things out and dating a
Speaker 2: few different people, I've never actually been that person to
Speaker 2: do that because I have for myself. I've always looked
Speaker 2: at it in a way of well A, I'm pretty
Speaker 2: short on time and energy. Like you said, who could
Speaker 2: I actually be bothered? But I just think when I
Speaker 2: date somebody is because I have a really strong interest
Speaker 2: in them, and if I have a really strong interest
Speaker 2: in them, I obviously don't have one in somebody yet.
Speaker 1: Well that's my exact point about this whole multiple dating thing.
Speaker 2: But not everybody's like that. There are plenty of people
Speaker 2: that just want to go out and have dinner and
Speaker 2: drinks and go to smooth City and just just chill
Speaker 2: and have fun.
Speaker 1: So I think that there just comes a point where
Speaker 1: if you're going to be dating multiple people, then you
Speaker 1: have to put that conversation on the table, and you
Speaker 1: have to be open, and you have to be honest.
Speaker 2: The bottom line is honesty. Absolutely the only issue that
Speaker 2: I have with that, But there's always a butt.
Speaker 1: There's always a butt is that innately, we don't want
Speaker 1: to hurt people's feelings, so it's very easy to sugarcoat
Speaker 1: the truth because it's not nice to tell someone else, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm seeing X, Y and Z whilst i'm seeing you,
Speaker 1: and I think I like him better and I don't
Speaker 1: know who I like yet, so you just have to
Speaker 1: kind of wait and see.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure are we talking about the Bachelor?
Speaker 1: I know, right? Why does it have different rules? But
Speaker 1: I guess like the rules that are in the Bachelor
Speaker 1: don't really apply to normal day dating because you never
Speaker 1: have a situation where you have one person who's it's
Speaker 1: okay for them to date so many other people and
Speaker 1: then the other person's just sitting there waiting and pining.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we definitely cannot compare them, but look, go nuts,
Speaker 2: do whatever you want with respect for everybody involved.
Speaker 1: So if you can date multiple people and be completely
Speaker 1: transparent and honest from pretty much day dot, then there's
Speaker 1: not really anything too wrong with it. Is that what
Speaker 1: we're saying?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just use contraception for.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the health tips from Brita and Laura, honestly
Speaker 1: too much.
Speaker 2: You know what time it is. Now we're going to
Speaker 2: shuffle right along to my new favorite segment.
Speaker 1: Oh what is that?
Speaker 2: Ah?
Speaker 1: I left that for you to do again by yourself.
Speaker 2: You really just left me hanging there. I was just
Speaker 2: looking straight at you then like come with me, girl,
Speaker 2: and you didn't come with me.
Speaker 1: Do you want to try it again?
Speaker 2: Okay, welcome to ask Uncut.
Speaker 1: That was beautiful mail there. So what is our question
Speaker 1: for today? Britt?
Speaker 2: Okay, So we had a lovely lady write in and
Speaker 2: she was actually having a discussion with her friends at
Speaker 2: work and they all wroteing.
Speaker 1: Together, which is cute.
Speaker 2: So they were talking about their partners looking at women
Speaker 2: on Instagram, and she didn't say women, She actually used
Speaker 2: the term hot chicks. She said, is it okay for
Speaker 2: your partner to look at hot chicks on Instagram? General
Speaker 2: hot chicks or ex girlfriends? And if so, are they're
Speaker 2: sort of rules to doing that and guidelines. So he
Speaker 2: has apparently been doing it in the morning sometimes and
Speaker 2: before bed, and she feels like maybe he should be
Speaker 2: giving her that attention. Oh and I could not agree more.
Speaker 1: Okay, So there's two different things here that I think
Speaker 1: they're both debatable. One is I don't have an issue
Speaker 1: with Matt, for example, looking at hot chicks on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Would I have an issue with him checking out his
Speaker 1: ex girlfriends on Instagram?
Speaker 2: Yes, damn straight.
Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? Why do you need to
Speaker 1: look at your ex girlfriends? Yeah, that's weird. The emphasis
Speaker 1: is on X. I do also think it comes down
Speaker 1: to everything in moderation. How often are they doing this.
Speaker 1: If they're doing it so frequently that it's causing insecurities
Speaker 1: and concern, then then it's clearly a problem.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Look, I'm not a jealous person, and I think
Speaker 2: it's human nature to appreciate hotties.
Speaker 1: I was going to say.
Speaker 2: Beauty, but hotties. I think it's normal to appreciate when
Speaker 2: you walk down the street. Like my mom and dad
Speaker 2: have been married for forty years, and both of them
Speaker 2: will individually happily comment on someone that they think is
Speaker 2: a drunk. Oh my god, did you see that person?
Speaker 2: I'm beautiful? But doesn't mean anything, It's just they're appreciating
Speaker 2: a beautiful human form.
Speaker 1: And that's also a testament to how comfortable they are
Speaker 1: in their relationship that they feel so secure with the
Speaker 1: other person that they can point that out and both
Speaker 1: appreciate it and it's not in any way threatening to
Speaker 1: their relationship.
Speaker 2: Well, and that is the thing. Is he la in
Speaker 2: bed secretly looking at it while he thinks you're asleep,
Speaker 2: or are you laying next to each other having a chat,
Speaker 2: laughing and looking at the pitches together, Because obviously then
Speaker 2: there's no threat.
Speaker 1: Even if he's doing it just in bed next to
Speaker 1: his partner and being really open about it, he obviously
Speaker 1: isn't doing it with intent, Like maybe he doesn't realize
Speaker 1: how like unthoughtful and insensitive it is to be doing that,
Speaker 1: and maybe that just needs to be a conversation that
Speaker 1: comes to the table. It's kind of like back in
Speaker 1: the day when guys would have Penthouse or Playboy or
Speaker 1: whatever else. The issue is, though, with Instagram, is that
Speaker 1: your partner can look at Playboy, he has no way
Speaker 1: that he's going to be able to then contact the
Speaker 1: girls that are on Playboy. The issue with Instagram is
Speaker 1: that it's almost as though Playboy has just put the
Speaker 1: phone number of the girl that's there, you know, like
Speaker 1: tattooed it on your hair. You can contact them. So
Speaker 1: Instagram has totally bridged that gap. Also, Instagram isn't just
Speaker 1: girls who are professional models, It's not just professional photo shoots.
Speaker 1: It's Sarah down the Roadde who lives in Bondai, who
Speaker 1: you might see at the beach one day. So there
Speaker 1: is this level of accessibility I think with Instagram as well,
Speaker 1: which can be even more threatening. Yeah, one dred.
Speaker 2: Percent and it's I actually was having coffee the other
Speaker 2: day with my friends and somebody will pass in Bondai
Speaker 2: and they literally said, oh, I see him everywhere. Let
Speaker 2: me just find out his name. How are you going
Speaker 2: to find out his name? Like the internet, babe? And
Speaker 2: they just jumped on and looked for a friend of
Speaker 2: a friend and through and in ten minutes they had
Speaker 2: his name.
Speaker 1: Isn't that crazy? How connected people are now?
Speaker 2: So crazy?
Speaker 1: And so I think that that's where that insecurity comes.
Speaker 1: If your partner is looking at chicks on Instagram, it's
Speaker 1: the fact that they're so accessible.
Speaker 2: No it to answer this, there's definitely a line you
Speaker 2: need to tell him that you're not cool with it
Speaker 2: and how it makes you feel, which is obviously uncomfortable,
Speaker 2: and that he should not be waking up, rolling over
Speaker 2: and scrolling his phone looking at other women. He should
Speaker 2: be giving you that attention first thing in the morning.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, there comes a point morning and nighttime where phones
Speaker 1: are off.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she asked, is she overreacting? Bottom line for
Speaker 2: me is no, you are not agree.
Speaker 1: No, Oh great. I love it when we agree on things.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it happens.
Speaker 1: Do we have another question?
Speaker 2: We do have one more question that I thought we
Speaker 2: could jump on in I cheated on my partner, but
Speaker 2: we have only been together for three weeks. It was
Speaker 2: definitely a mistake. Do I tell him or not? I
Speaker 2: don't know how I feel about this. I'm super against cheating,
Speaker 2: but three weeks is like, oh so early, and I
Speaker 2: don't know how serious they were. But she says we've
Speaker 2: been together, so I guess in her mind that's boyfriend
Speaker 2: girl friend.
Speaker 1: Oh god, okay. And when you say it's a mistake,
Speaker 1: is it like she went out and she cheated on
Speaker 1: him because she was drunk. I don't know, not that
Speaker 1: there's any excuse for this stuff, but there are definitely
Speaker 1: layers to what's worse, you know, Like there's there's cheating
Speaker 1: that's real, real bad, and then there's cheating that's just bad.
Speaker 2: I'm going to say because I did. We did talk
Speaker 2: about this in the last podcast where we said you
Speaker 2: can come back from cheating if you talk to each
Speaker 2: other and you get the right help and support. At
Speaker 2: this point, I am going to say to this person
Speaker 2: that I think you should just be honest with him
Speaker 2: and tell him if it is well, if it is
Speaker 2: only three weeks in, he'll probably be cool with it too.
Speaker 1: You reckon, well, not cool with it.
Speaker 2: But I feel like you're still at It's better than
Speaker 2: six months or a year. You're still at that early
Speaker 2: stage where she could just sort of say I just
Speaker 2: didn't really realize how serious we were yet and I
Speaker 2: made a mistake and all I could think about is
Speaker 2: you And she can definitely come back for that. But
Speaker 2: that's going to weigh on her for a long time,
Speaker 2: which she has a conscience anyway.
Speaker 1: See, I think the opposite. I think if I was
Speaker 1: dating someone for three weeks and they told me that
Speaker 1: they cheated on me, I'd be like, I don't need
Speaker 1: this drama in my life. Get the road, Jack, assuming
Speaker 1: his name was Jack, but I don't need that.
Speaker 2: What would you do? Then? Are you saying for her
Speaker 2: to tell him or not?
Speaker 1: I'm going to sound like an absolute dickhead. But I'm
Speaker 1: saying I think you should tell him. However, practically your
Speaker 1: relationship will probably be over. Would I tell him? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I know Okay, I probably wouldn't tell him,
Speaker 1: but I know that I should and I would never
Speaker 1: do it again. Don't follow my advice because I'm being
Speaker 1: a bad person right now.
Speaker 2: I totally get that too. I have one hundred pc
Speaker 2: understand that you say. It's been three weeks. I really
Speaker 2: want to keep this guy. I'm too scared to lose him.
Speaker 2: I know I'll never do it again, so I'm going
Speaker 2: to stick with it. Yeah, I just feel like it'd
Speaker 2: end up weighing me down and one day after two years.
Speaker 1: Are like, I can't take it anymore. You're a good person, Brittany,
Speaker 1: You're a good, good person. You need to stop trying
Speaker 1: to booty call people. Ten minutes before, I'm.
Speaker 2: Rolling my eyes at a disclaimer calling someone at six
Speaker 2: pm for tie takeaway. I don't feel like his booty.
Speaker 1: Okay, OKAYK, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, so no bringing it up.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Guys. If you have any questions that you
Speaker 1: want to send to us so that we can answer
Speaker 1: them and fence it and not give you a proper
Speaker 1: straightforward answer. Please message us slide it into our DMS
Speaker 1: at Life Uncut podcast. We will discuss them on the
Speaker 1: next episode.
Speaker 2: So my second favorite part of the episode is suck
Speaker 2: and sweet, and this is how we finish every episode. So, Laura, baby,
Speaker 2: hit me.
Speaker 1: Really you want me to hit you?
Speaker 2: Well, not literally, you take everything, so seriously literally throw
Speaker 2: those words down.
Speaker 1: You want my suck and my sweet? Okay, So my
Speaker 1: sweet for this week was that go first, you know, oh,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so sorry. My suck, my suck.
Speaker 1: My suck for this week was that I had to
Speaker 1: take Marley into Medicare so that I could finally get
Speaker 1: off my mum's Medicare card and get a new Medicare
Speaker 1: card that had Marley on it. However, halfway through waiting
Speaker 1: at Centerlink, Marley crapped herself and then I went to
Speaker 1: go and change her and realized I forgot to bring
Speaker 1: any baby wipes, so I had to use her own
Speaker 1: singlet to wipe her.
Speaker 3: Butt because I am the most un organized mother in
Speaker 3: the world.
Speaker 1: This is I am a child. So that was my
Speaker 1: suck the end. My sweet is much better than that.
Speaker 1: Matt's mum came and stayed with us this weekend and
Speaker 1: on Saturday night, Matt book tickets to go and see
Speaker 1: Harley Breen, who is a comedian, and he was brilliant.
Speaker 1: He has the TV show called Taboo, which is on
Speaker 1: in Channel ten.
Speaker 2: And I haven't seen that.
Speaker 1: It's really really funny. He like takes the piss out
Speaker 1: of things you should not take the piss out of.
Speaker 1: The show is about people with disabilities or people who
Speaker 1: have terminal illness, and I don't know if I could
Speaker 1: do that. It's done in a really clever way, so
Speaker 1: he gets to know them. Yeah, it actually is, and
Speaker 1: it's very thoughtful, and what it's sort of aimed at
Speaker 1: is trying to normalize the fact that people do have
Speaker 1: disabilities and people do stuffer from terminal illness. And it's
Speaker 1: just got a really black humor comedy about it.
Speaker 2: So the people that he's paying out, he gets to
Speaker 2: stay on board with it.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, he gets to know them, He spends time with them,
Speaker 1: and they absolutely loving sick this comedy. But one of
Speaker 1: my favorite bits was that he was talking about how
Speaker 1: babies when it's windy far more because they don't have
Speaker 1: the ability to stop the air from going into their mouth,
Speaker 1: and so they fill up with air and they fart
Speaker 1: more when it's windy, which is true. So I learned
Speaker 1: some really really important facts. If it's windy, your baby
Speaker 1: will far more hang on.
Speaker 2: Is that actually true?
Speaker 3: True?
Speaker 1: It's true?
Speaker 2: Did you look it up? Because I don't feel like
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: I just put Molley out the window and let us.
Speaker 2: Guys, everyone docs, she's joking.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, what's your sucker?
Speaker 2: Baby? Why suck?
Speaker 1: God?
Speaker 2: I just you know, I kicked my toe last night
Speaker 2: so badly. And I know this is ridiculous, but you
Speaker 2: know when you kick your little toe on the corner
Speaker 2: of the bed and you feel like your leg has
Speaker 2: been chopped off. There was blood.
Speaker 1: There was blood.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the nail ripped. Oh dude, it was intense. It
Speaker 2: was super nialy there, it was touch and go.
Speaker 1: It had to be pretty severe for it to be
Speaker 1: the suck of the week.
Speaker 2: Bad All My week's just been pretty good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a toaster. Do you know what?
Speaker 2: I broke my toe running through the Amazon jungle chasing
Speaker 2: wild pigs, and it was that foot. So I feel
Speaker 2: like I feel.
Speaker 1: Like there was so much about that sentence that was weird.
Speaker 2: Well, I think that's why it hurts so bad, because
Speaker 2: the tone never properly healed, so it's sensitive subject for
Speaker 2: multiple reasons.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm sorry. I'm so sorry that we had to
Speaker 1: chalk about your toe on multiple levels. Okay, what is
Speaker 1: your sweet?
Speaker 2: And if that is not the sweet of everyone else's
Speaker 2: week listening, I don't know what is my sweet? Well,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can actually use this because
Speaker 2: it hasn't happened, but it has half happened. So I
Speaker 2: just booked flights yesterday spontaneously to go up to the
Speaker 2: Gold Coast on the weekend. Oh yeah, my mom and
Speaker 2: dad are up there. I've got them a little beach house.
Speaker 2: I'm going to visit them.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's so nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my brothers, my nephew. So we're gonna have a
Speaker 2: little family time on this really nice little beach house
Speaker 2: and just chill. I've booked a winery. I love me,
Speaker 2: no one else, just me. Can I come as you can?
Speaker 2: Perfect booked you a flight to this. This is my
Speaker 2: sweet as well. I'm going to change it. Screw Harley Breen.
Speaker 2: You just don't get any of the rules. Laura. You
Speaker 2: can't change but guys, that is it for us for
Speaker 2: this week. We hope you enjoyed.
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Speaker 1: we sign off, we just wanted to say a huge
Speaker 1: thank you to everybody that wrote in with support and
Speaker 1: love and sharing their stories from last week's episode on
Speaker 1: dating a sociopath. We just are overwhelmed with how many
Speaker 1: of you have actually taken the times right to us
Speaker 1: but have actually also gone through something like this as well.
Speaker 1: So it was really amazing actually the amount of responses
Speaker 1: that we received. So Britt, thank you so much for
Speaker 1: sharing your story as well, because I know that that
Speaker 1: was huge for you.
Speaker 2: It was huge, but you're very welcome and it looks
Speaker 2: like it has helped a lot of people, so if
Speaker 2: they're happy, I'm happy.
Speaker 1: Well. Guys, thank you for listening and we can't wait
Speaker 1: to see you all again and answer not answer your questions. Yeah,
Speaker 1: shower guys. See you guys,