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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This podcast is

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Speaker 1: for women who want to take ownership of their lives,

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Speaker 1: live unapologetically, and are ready to turn their biggest dreams

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Speaker 1: into their reality. If you're ready to be armed with

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Speaker 1: the tools that will inspire you to take bold action,

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Speaker 1: feel confident within yourself, and conquer your goals, then you've

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Speaker 1: come to the right place. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson.

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Speaker 1: I'm a lawyer turned entrepreneur, co founder of Naked Harvest Supplements,

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Speaker 1: and social media personality with a community of over three

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Speaker 1: hundred thousand. I grew up believing I had to pursue

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Speaker 1: the safe option and fit into a mold others had

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Speaker 1: created for me. But then I entered my corporate law

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Speaker 1: job and I realized that settling for a reality that

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Speaker 1: not prepared to do. I wanted more, and I have

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Speaker 1: a feeling you do too. Join me and special guests

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Speaker 1: weekly as we get down to the NIW be gretty

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Speaker 1: on all things health, mastering your mindset, creating lasting habits,

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Speaker 1: thriving in your career and relationships, plus so much more,

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Speaker 1: and together we'll gain the knowledge and perspective to pursue

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Speaker 1: our wildest dreams and kick fear to the curb. Well

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Speaker 1: what are you waiting for? Let's Rise and Conquer. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: and welcome to another episode of the Rise and Conquer podcasts.

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Speaker 1: So I have another solo at fore today. This is

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Speaker 1: going to be a powerful one. Like I've even got

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Speaker 1: kind of jitters before recording this just because yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It's something I'm super passionate about and it's

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Speaker 1: something that I have seen a lot. So I've noticed

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Speaker 1: a lot in the Rise and Conquer podcast community Facebook

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Speaker 1: group there has been posts just about careers and making

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Speaker 1: changes and feeling unsettled in their current position. And I

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Speaker 1: know a few of you have been asking like how

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Speaker 1: do you actually.

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Speaker 2: Know what to do? How do you know if you

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Speaker 2: if you should.

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Speaker 1: Stay in the job or try something else? Like basically me,

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking they're asking about intuition, like how do you

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Speaker 1: know what to do? And so I'll read a couple

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Speaker 1: of posts, two of the posts out for you just

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Speaker 1: And also, guys, if you aren't in our private Facebook

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Speaker 1: girl gang, come and join us. Literally just search our

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Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer podcast community, or there should be a

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Speaker 1: link in the show notes like get Grace to check

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Speaker 1: one in. So, Rachel asks, does anyone have this persistent

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Speaker 1: feeling that they're supposed to be doing something bigger in

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Speaker 1: to be successful and different way, but I just haven't

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Speaker 2: Can anyone relate?

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling a little bit crazy. Don't feel crazy, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: I totally feel you. And then just another one from Tay.

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Speaker 1: She said, Hey, I'm currently an event manager and I

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Speaker 1: slash my calling. I listened to the Rise and Conger

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Speaker 1: feel guided to find my passion. I have always been

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Speaker 1: I also sometimes feel like I'm gifted with spiritual things

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Speaker 1: through my intuition. Does anyone else go through this where

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Speaker 1: the way, girls, thanks so much for posting that in

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Speaker 1: and then I've seen so many people have commented, and

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Speaker 1: it's just makes my heart happy that we have a

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Speaker 1: And so as you guys know, or if you don't know,

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Speaker 1: And I've also seen this quote going around and it says,

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Speaker 1: So and I know this one can be a tricky

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Speaker 1: down in regards to what you're good at and what

436
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Speaker 1: you love and just see some different jobs that you

437
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Speaker 1: like doing or you know how you can kind of

438
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Speaker 1: make that into something of yourself. And then after that,

439
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Speaker 1: after that whole process, I want you to do a

440
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Speaker 1: bit of a cross check, and I want you to

441
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Speaker 1: kind of think about, like what am I doing now

442
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Speaker 1: that really aligns with these things and kind of seem

443
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Speaker 1: like they're maybe on the way there, or what am

444
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: I doing that it's like completely I'm just ignoring my intuition.

445
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Speaker 2: I'm just like doing these things.

446
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Speaker 1: Because that's what I thought I had to do rather

447
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Speaker 1: than that's what I wanted to do. And a big

448
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: thing I want you guys to think about I would

449
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Speaker 1: actually write another page, get out, yeah, journals, write another page.

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Speaker 1: A big thing I want you to think about is

451
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Speaker 1: like really listen to your heart about what you're doing

452
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Speaker 1: now and just be like, and what I'm doing now,

453
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Speaker 1: Like is this for someone else? Or is this because

454
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Speaker 1: I thought I had to do this to get somewhere

455
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Speaker 1: or my parents wanted me to do this, or am

456
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Speaker 1: I actually doing this because I'm interested in that. It

457
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Speaker 1: can be hard because like, for example, if I wasn't

458
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Speaker 1: doing what I'm doing now, one hundred percent would be

459
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Speaker 1: a lawyer or a psychologist, so like I'm interested in

460
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Speaker 1: those things. But the reason why I did law was

461
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Speaker 1: because I thought you had to get a secure job

462
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Speaker 1: that made money and provided for your family. And I

463
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Speaker 1: got a good enough op to get into law, So

464
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Speaker 1: I kind of did it, not really because like it

465
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Speaker 1: really like set my heart on fire and like all

466
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Speaker 1: that sort of thing. And then another thing I want

467
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Speaker 1: you to do is like realize that you shouldn't place

468
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Speaker 1: limits on what you can achieve. So I know, like

469
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Speaker 1: I said, I know a lot of you are saying

470
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Speaker 1: I feel like there's something bigger out there, and it's like,

471
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Speaker 1: don't place limitations on just because what you're doing now

472
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Speaker 1: you can't see it getting bigger, or it doesn't seem

473
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Speaker 1: right that you shouldn't do that, or you shouldn't even start.

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Speaker 2: I know.

475
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Speaker 1: A big thing for me was when I was in

476
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Speaker 1: that transition of staying at my corporate job or going

477
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Speaker 1: off like I was only I think I was maybe

478
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Speaker 1: twenty three or twenty four, and I had this impression

479
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Speaker 1: that not my life was already over, but I was

480
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Speaker 1: like I've already spent you know, six years, I'm already

481
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Speaker 1: you know, getting on my twenties, I need to just

482
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Speaker 1: like stick with this and climb the corporate ladder. And

483
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Speaker 1: it felt like very like rushed and like I had

484
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Speaker 1: to just stick with it because of time. And it's

485
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Speaker 1: like what we don't realize is especially I know a

486
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Speaker 1: lot of like young women listen to this pot and

487
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: it's like you're in your twenties or thirties, like there

488
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Speaker 1: is so much time. And a big thing I did

489
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Speaker 1: is like I thought about because I had worked in

490
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Speaker 1: my law firm even before I got a placement in there,

491
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Speaker 1: for a couple of years as a clerk, and I

492
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Speaker 1: was like, you know, you know the drill, like can

493
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Speaker 1: you imagine yourself doing this for the next thirty years?

494
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Speaker 2: And literally the thought.

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Speaker 1: Of that like I died inside a little bit. I

496
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Speaker 1: just thought, oh God, Like it literally felt like, oh no,

497
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Speaker 1: I couldn't do that. That just like that just seems

498
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Speaker 1: so draining. And it's like that was my answer pretty much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm kind of going to wrap up those journaling points,

501
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Speaker 1: and I think, just like before I go, a couple

502
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Speaker 1: more things to think about is that even though in

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Speaker 1: this episode I am talking more about job and career,

504
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: just because in the Facebook group that's what the girls

505
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Speaker 1: were talking about.

506
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Speaker 2: Realize that we don't.

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Speaker 1: All have to make a career and job with the

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Speaker 1: things that we love. So I know that's like kind

509
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Speaker 1: of contrary, but like your hobbies can just stay your hobbies.

510
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Speaker 1: You know. Maybe it's like you're you're in this job,

511
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Speaker 1: but you're not really feeling fulfilled. But it's maybe you

512
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Speaker 1: need to pick up a hobby that you really enjoy

513
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Speaker 1: and like keep that job. And a great example of

514
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Speaker 1: this is Tim. So, for example, me and Tim are

515
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: so different.

516
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Speaker 2: Like I am someone.

517
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Speaker 1: Who like I live and breathe my career, Like I

518
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: work ridiculous hours. I'm just so invested, and it's like

519
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: I think, being like this, I'm like I need to

520
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: really love what I'm doing because I basically work myself

521
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Speaker 1: to the bone and I love that because it's like,

522
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Speaker 1: you know, my own thing. Whereas Tim, he's like he's

523
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Speaker 1: not that interested in like climbing the corporate letter or

524
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Speaker 1: even when he was a carpenter and he worked for

525
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: a big business and he was just like yeah, like sure,

526
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Speaker 1: and so now he works in naked harvest and even

527
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Speaker 1: like we're chatting about it the other day and he's like, oh, yeah, like,

528
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Speaker 1: you know, if there's different jobs in Naked Harvests, Like

529
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Speaker 1: at the moment he packs boxes, he packs all your

530
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Speaker 1: orders and hahe gang and he's like, oh, yeah, you know,

531
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Speaker 1: if there's another job, I will go do that. But

532
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Speaker 1: he's like he's not too bothered because his work is

533
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Speaker 1: work and he's so happy to do that. And then

534
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Speaker 1: outside of work, he has his hobby. So he loves golf,

535
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Speaker 1: he loves surfing, and he does those things. And my

536
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: dad was even saying to him the other day it

537
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: was funny, We're on the boat, and my dad was like,

538
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: and this is funny. This is so typical because like

539
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 1: my family, it's so like career and money and do

540
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Speaker 1: things that way, which I've had to work through. But

541
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Speaker 1: my dad was like, oh, Tim, because he's he is

542
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Speaker 1: quite good at golf, so he loves golf. He's quite

543
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Speaker 1: good at golf's And Dad was like, oh, Tim, like

544
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Speaker 1: you should just become a professional golfer. Like, you know,

545
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: I'm financially capable to look after our finances. That's why

546
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Speaker 1: Tim quit his job and now works in Naked Harvest,

547
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: and so financially we would be okay if he didn't

548
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: work I'm the breadwinner, if that makes sense. And so

549
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Speaker 1: my dad was like, Tim, you literally could just like

550
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Speaker 1: not work, practice golf, get really good at it, and

551
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Speaker 1: then become a professional golf if you wanted, like, and

552
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: he was explaining to him, He's like, you know, like

553
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: not many people are in that position.

554
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 2: You could do that, And Tim said, Tod.

555
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Speaker 1: Like, he's like, oh, like to be completely honest, like

556
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,199
Speaker 1: I love golf because it's my hobby because it's not

557
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: my job, because it's something that I do to get

558
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,719
Speaker 1: away like, and he's like, I wouldn't want to do

559
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 1: it as my job.

560
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to.

561
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,919
Speaker 1: Put pressure and stress in myself to succeed and do

562
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 1: well because it would take the fun out of it.

563
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: And I like, I really loved that and it's so true.

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00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: So even if you are feeling super unsettled and unfulfilled,

565
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: but you still like your job, and like, maybe it's

566
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: just you need to find a hobby that makes you

567
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: feel really fulfilled and settled. And I just I really

568
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 1: wanted to chat about that because I think sometimes I

569
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: don't like, I don't want to sit here and say,

570
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: you know, use your hobby and make it a creer

571
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: if it's something that just doesn't feel right to you.

572
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: Everything's gonna look so different for everyone, so you'll just

573
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Speaker 1: sort of know by your kind of feelings and intuition.

574
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Speaker 1: And also one last point that I did kind of

575
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Speaker 1: chat about just before, like, even if you have, you know,

576
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,239
Speaker 1: these desires and things on your heart and you do

577
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: want to go off and do something different, A big

578
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 1: sort of piece of advice is even though it might

579
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: look like I had quick success or I don't even

580
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: know if it looks like that or not, but you know,

581
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: while I was doing my law degree, I was doing

582
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Speaker 1: the social media side and building my personal brand.

583
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Speaker 2: For literally like six years.

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Speaker 1: So it's not like I just quit my job and

585
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: went off and started this thing and it went off

586
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: in a year. Is I was building basically my side

587
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: hustle for six or seven years before I went full

588
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: time in it. So I wouldn't just like quit your

589
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: job and not have an income and be a bit crazy.

590
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: Even though look that does work for some people, I'm

591
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: just more of like I'm more of like a secure person,

592
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: and so maybe it just looks like starting something on

593
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: the side and just seeing if you like it and

594
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: building it slowly and just like seeing how it goes.

595
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: And that's a big thing is don't feel rushed by

596
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: everyone around you just because you see people quitting their

597
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: job and like doing something crazy or not even that bit,

598
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, just like killing it a life or something

599
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: like that. Just know, I guarantee you, like, no one

600
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: really has overnight success. Everyone has like usually put in

601
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: a lot of work and then it's like built up

602
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: that way and it looks like quick success. But don't

603
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: feel rushed by other people. Go at your own pace,

604
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: try things out, see if you like them, see if

605
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: you don't, and go from there. Don't feel rushed. Don't

606
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: feel like you have to do anything because other people

607
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: are doing it at all as well. So I will

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Speaker 1: wrap up this episode. I hope it was helpful. I

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Speaker 1: love to chat in our R and C Facebook community

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Speaker 1: about whether you're journaling about this or what your thoughts

611
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Speaker 1: are surrounding this topic. So if you want to jump

612
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: in there, we can chat about that, or even if

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00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: you have any questions or anything like that, definitely jump

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Speaker 1: in their Facebook group. But I hope this was helpful.

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Speaker 1: I really enjoy talking about this episode because, like I said,

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Speaker 1: I'm super passionate about it. But if you have a

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Speaker 1: catch you in my next episode, which is a really

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Speaker 1: exciting interview. Bye. And that's a wrap on another episode

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Speaker 1: Something valuable from it, and I want to say a

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