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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation Ossie mum was left horrified after

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Speaker 1: a son revealed his tattoo at the departure gates at

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Speaker 1: an international airport. So the son's leaving, he's going to

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Speaker 1: go overseas and so he's wild oats and as he's

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Speaker 1: leaving to the departure gate, he rolls up his sleeve

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Speaker 1: and goes have a look at his mum.

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Speaker 2: I've got me a tattoo.

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Speaker 3: And why was she upset?

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Speaker 1: Well, because you're a mother of children.

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Speaker 2: Would you be happy if they came home with tattoos?

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Speaker 4: Well, interestingly, I know what you're referring to is that

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Speaker 4: the night before my son went overseas last year, I

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Speaker 4: gave him the usual lecture about don't experiment with drugs,

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Speaker 4: don't do things that can affect you for your whole life,

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Speaker 4: et cetera, et cetera, and he said it's something I

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Speaker 4: need to tell you.

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Speaker 3: I thought, oh, no, he had a drug episode.

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Speaker 2: He's already done it.

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Speaker 4: Well, he showed me a very small tattoo on his hip,

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Speaker 4: and I thought, oh, thank goodness, that's all it is,

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Speaker 4: because really it's no big deal. It's not a big

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Speaker 4: thing that takes up his whole face or any of

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Speaker 4: that stuff. A very small tattoo on his hip that

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Speaker 4: had some meaning to him, and I said, look, that's I.

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Speaker 3: Don't care, and I don't.

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Speaker 4: I actually was quite delighted because I knew very well

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Speaker 4: he'd set the story up, because I was anxious that

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Speaker 4: he was going to tell me a drug story.

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Speaker 3: And he said, it was an easy tat.

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Speaker 2: You were delighted. I have a delighted.

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Speaker 3: It was only a tat.

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Speaker 1: I have a confession to make. Jack revealed me to

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Speaker 1: me that tattoo some time ago before you before he

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Speaker 1: told me before he told you at my own son's.

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Speaker 3: What were the circumstances?

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Speaker 2: It was at my son's twentieth birthday party? Do you

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Speaker 2: remember that? You couldn't make it? Jack came round.

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Speaker 1: So we're having a few drinks and I said, how

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Speaker 1: you being when? And he goes, have a look at this.

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Speaker 1: He revealed to me his tattoo on his head.

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Speaker 3: Why did he show you?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I said, oh great. And then

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Speaker 1: I agonized about telling you or not before I did.

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Speaker 1: I knew before you didn't, but I had to keep

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Speaker 1: his secret. He said, I don't tell mom, and I said, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell your mum I liked it.

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Speaker 3: You didn't tell me.

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Speaker 4: Actually, if he'd murdered someone, I would expected you to

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Speaker 4: tell me, well I got married, if he got married, like.

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Speaker 2: Should men murdered? Marriage?

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Speaker 1: But tattoo? But the kids these days everyone's got a tattoo.

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Speaker 1: Back in my day, no one had tattoos. Only bikes

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Speaker 1: and sailors had tattoos. Now everyone's got tattoos. They're going

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Speaker 1: to make That used to be in the Hell's Angels

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Speaker 1: motorcycle club and he's got a big the Hell's Angels

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Speaker 1: insignia on his neck. And he was saying to me,

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Speaker 1: you know, and he's had that into his nineteen And

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Speaker 1: he said to me, he said, you know, I was

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Speaker 1: at the Brioster and there's a kid he's got a

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Speaker 1: big skull tattooed on his neck. He goes, how do

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Speaker 1: you look tough anymore? If the kid, the pencil neck

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Speaker 1: kid at the Brewster, he's got the tattoo on his neck.

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Speaker 3: Well, what is the new image of looking tough? What

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Speaker 3: is it?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: How do you look tough? How do you look tough?

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Speaker 1: If you everyone's got tattoos, who's the tough guy, hard.

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Speaker 2: To pick when you think about Yeah, the tuffs.

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Speaker 3: Were the ones who still sit up the back of

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Speaker 3: the bus smoking.

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Speaker 2: They're the tufts because.

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Speaker 1: More my kids, except for Dominic, have got tattoos. And

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Speaker 1: I didn't think my daughter had a tattoo till one

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Speaker 1: day I caught her in the laundry are getting changed

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Speaker 1: and I noticed that she had a tattoo on a hip.

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Speaker 3: Have you said anything to it?

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Speaker 2: Well, I said, I said, hang on. He says, get out,

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Speaker 2: I'm going what's this? And it's a sweet pea on

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Speaker 2: her on a hip?

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Speaker 3: Because that's what you called me.

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Speaker 2: He said, but that's what you called me. And I said, well,

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Speaker 2: and you've got no comeback from that. No, that's right.

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Speaker 1: And then my son Morgan, because he said to me

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Speaker 1: when I was about sixteen, can I get a tattoo?

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Speaker 1: And I said, mate, when you're eighteen, you can get

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Speaker 1: a tattoo. Okay, you're not getting one before you're eighteen.

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Speaker 1: That's what he went.

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Speaker 2: Right here, I.

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Speaker 1: Got to twenty one and Noah's no tattoo, and I thought, oh,

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Speaker 1: we've dropped, you know, we've dodged the tattoo bought. Then

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Speaker 1: one day he comes home and he's got this giant

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Speaker 1: tattoo on his leg of a bear.

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Speaker 2: And I went, hang on, I thought we missed the tattoo,

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Speaker 2: but he said, no, used to call him bear. No, No,

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Speaker 2: I didn't. I don't know where a big grizzly bear.

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Speaker 1: And I said, well, I said, hang on a minute,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't think you were getting a tattoo, and

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Speaker 1: he said no, I was just saying I was waiting

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Speaker 1: to save up for the right amount of money for

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Speaker 1: it so i'd get a good one. And then he

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Speaker 1: rang me from a building side he was working at

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Speaker 1: and a tile had fallen off the wall and pierced

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Speaker 1: his tattoo into the He had to go to the hospital,

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Speaker 1: and he said, and it's ruined when new tattoo. And

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Speaker 1: I went, oh, what a what a shame, What a

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Speaker 1: shame that is.

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Speaker 4: Do you remember what the Obamas did, Barrick and Michelle

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Speaker 4: Obama when their daughter was younger and she wanted to

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Speaker 4: get a tattoo.

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Speaker 3: They said, all right, well how about we'll get the.

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Speaker 4: Same tattoo as you, So we'll come along with you

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Speaker 4: and get exactly the same tattoo.

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Speaker 3: And she never mentioned it again.

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Speaker 2: That's a great idea.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because, as a friend of mine says, when you're young,

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Speaker 4: it's like drawing on a pencil case. The stuff you'd

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Speaker 4: have put on your body is the stuff you'd have

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Speaker 4: put on your pencil case when you were fifteen. When

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Speaker 4: you're twenty twenty five, does it still define you. It's

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Speaker 4: hard to think of one image when you're younger that

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Speaker 4: you will love forever.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand the neck tattoo, you know, the full

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Speaker 1: neck tattoo.

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Speaker 3: Because there's no hiding that, and it looks like.

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Speaker 2: A neck brace. It actually looks like they've got they're

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Speaker 2: wearing one of those neck braces. I don't get that well.

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Speaker 4: As they get older, it's going to have to be

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Speaker 4: cravat season all year round. And we were scared our

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Speaker 4: parents would see love bites.

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Speaker 1: Ye maybe, matt Krab Preston, it's got a giant necktap.

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Speaker 2: It's not a cravat at all.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't want his mom to know.

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Speaker 2: That's what he's always warning Missiness Preston.

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Speaker 1: Matthew, what was done anyway,