WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Why you SHOULDN'T wear pyjamas to bed

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<v Speaker 1>The Pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 2>Radio work, our windows, my world risen the dust, only

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<v Speaker 2>good babs all day.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't much, but yeah I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll biguet and what I want. It don't matter where

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<v Speaker 3>does This.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the Pickup? Happy Friday everyone, It's the Pickout with

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<v Speaker 2>Brett Harkley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 4>I am genuinely so excited about this weekend. So often

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<v Speaker 4>I have no plans and no friends, but this weekend,

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>You have me and we have plans.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Laura and.

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<v Speaker 4>I are going to the F one, the car racing,

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<v Speaker 4>which I'm so excited about.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you particularly into cars?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what?

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<v Speaker 4>I grew up watching the F one every weekend with

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<v Speaker 4>my dad because he would sit down for out.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be his whole day. And it's not to know. Yep.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a huge race car, like huge inter race cars.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was always on my screens. And I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>necessarily into it, but I was into it because it

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<v Speaker 4>was something I watched with my dad, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not like I frothed the F one, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's just what we did.

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<v Speaker 2>I had never paid a lot of attention to it

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<v Speaker 2>until obviously being in a relationship with my husband Matt,

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<v Speaker 2>who is obsessed, like he's always followed it, and then

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<v Speaker 2>when I found that out about him, I found it

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<v Speaker 2>really unusual. I was like, you, you're a closet redhead. So

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<v Speaker 2>and he really likes his cars too, which was also

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<v Speaker 2>a revelation when I discovered.

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<v Speaker 3>That a rev elation revs what.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even pick up on that.

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<v Speaker 4>If you haven't watched it yet, Laura or anyone, you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to be a car head to enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 4>But the f one documentary, I think it's Drive to Survive.

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<v Speaker 4>I really thoroughly enjoyed it, and.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so like bitchy and like what, yes, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>what you think.

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<v Speaker 4>It's about all of the race car drivers and being

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<v Speaker 4>swapped in between teams and taking people's jobs and.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's really not what you think it's going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that you'd be really into it.

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<v Speaker 1>The internal car scandal.

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<v Speaker 3>The politics of the car.

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<v Speaker 2>We also get to go and see Tones and Eye

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<v Speaker 2>this Saturday night too, so it's gonna be a big weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Lots of things to update you guys on when we

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<v Speaker 2>come back on Monday. Now, look, I question whether or

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<v Speaker 2>not we should talk about this, But.

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<v Speaker 3>I nah, I think we talk about it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know whether or not I should be thrilled

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<v Speaker 2>or offended.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm still sitting on the fence. I fluctuate between

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<v Speaker 1>the two.

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<v Speaker 2>Recently, Britain, I came into work and as a gift,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a gift.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a beautiful gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Sitting on taking a big box, not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I love a gift, love a surprise gift.

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<v Speaker 2>Like especially when that gift is skincare. You do too,

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<v Speaker 2>britt Like you love a bit of skincare, sick for it.

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<v Speaker 1>So here is this big old.

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<v Speaker 2>Box with skin care inside from a brand that I

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<v Speaker 2>had not heard of before, mind you, But I was

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<v Speaker 2>like cool, happy to try, very excited about this. And

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<v Speaker 2>I excitedly opened the box and there were many layers,

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<v Speaker 2>lots of packaging, and then I got it out and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's a serum.

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<v Speaker 1>Love serums, delightful.

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<v Speaker 2>I need a bit of serum on my face that's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna make me feel glowy and fresh.

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<v Speaker 3>Quite a niche serum.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I read the back of the box of

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<v Speaker 2>the serum that had been so generously sent to our work,

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<v Speaker 2>and it said this, it is a transformative serum designed

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<v Speaker 2>for women over forty navigating menopause. And I read that

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, well, I'm still technically under VADI

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<v Speaker 2>and I am.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as i'm aware, I'm not yet in menopause.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>I had to have a laugh because I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I also was like, this a backhanded compliment.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you, Laura, I'm gonna say, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got your kids.

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<v Speaker 1>What do I scream menopause?

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, I mean the kid's part, not the age. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like cool for me, I'm publicly, like, have fertility issues.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing IVF.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's IVYERI menopause.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, maybe I am. Maybe that's not why it's not

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<v Speaker 3>happening for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I am in medialul True. I joke, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>not a funny thing to.

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<v Speaker 3>Joke about it. It's not at all. Take that back. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I actually said to myself, maybe I am in perimenopause

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<v Speaker 3>and that's why they've sent it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was like, I'm publicly trying to do IVF

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<v Speaker 4>and someone sent me in menopause cream.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, have I missed the boat?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I got this, and my instant reaction

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<v Speaker 2>was to feel offended. And then I kind of checked

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<v Speaker 2>myself and I was like, why is it that, at

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<v Speaker 2>thirty eight years old, I find the idea of menopause

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<v Speaker 2>so offensive because the reality is so many women do

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<v Speaker 2>go through early menopause or they go through perimenopause can take.

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<v Speaker 1>Up many years, and like, forty is not far off.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I turned thirty nine in a couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>so like, to be fair, the brand is not far

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<v Speaker 2>off being you know, aligned with the age that I'm at.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still thirty seven.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that there were.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to say the reference, there was something

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<v Speaker 2>about receiving it that maybe it wasn't so much even

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<v Speaker 2>the menopause reference. I think there was something about it

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<v Speaker 2>that made me really realize my age. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>I was like processing that in real time because I

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<v Speaker 2>also kind of I read it and then I felt offended,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I was like, Oh, it looks good, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>probably use it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, it looks like a brilliant cream. It's got

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<v Speaker 3>some really good things, and I think it's got some

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<v Speaker 3>good peptides in it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm one hundred percent going to use it as much

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<v Speaker 4>as we loll and say we're not in menopause.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it would be really good for us kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here's my question. I mean, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>call up, you can if you want to. But would

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<v Speaker 2>you be offended?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this a normal thing? Be offended byra We're just

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<v Speaker 1>taking this too personal.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, now that you.

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<v Speaker 4>Said out loud that you're about to turn thirty nine

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<v Speaker 4>and it's for forty year old people, I grow up, Laura, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>for you, I think that's a stretch for me at

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<v Speaker 4>thirty seven.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's I've got a couple of years left.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe it's because, like, no female wants to be

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<v Speaker 2>aged up, Like we've been so conditioned to think that

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<v Speaker 2>being younger is better, younger skin is hotter, all this

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<v Speaker 2>sort of you know crap. But reality is is, like

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<v Speaker 2>no one wants to be thought of as being older

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<v Speaker 2>than what they are. And I guess like receiving something

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<v Speaker 2>that's specifically targeted for women who are in a different

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<v Speaker 2>stage of life, a stage that we're all told we

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<v Speaker 2>should be frightened about, there's something that feels quite obvious

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No, we are grateful, thank you for the cream. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm processing anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>If Cedar Phil wants to send some stuff my way,

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<v Speaker 2>I suse that's fourteen year olds, right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you use when you're like young and.

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<v Speaker 3>Well was heading to Keem's warehouse. There's loads of stuff

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<v Speaker 3>in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Now there is I guess the kind of assumption that

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<v Speaker 2>as the longer in a relationship, the more that you're

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<v Speaker 2>your love life kind of winds and dies off.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's an assumption. I think it's pre standard.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's absolutely what happens, like you stay in love,

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<v Speaker 4>but maybe the chemistry and the want to trip each

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<v Speaker 4>other's clothes off and all of the above sort of

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<v Speaker 4>like plateaus a little bit over time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And we talk about this quite a bit on

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<v Speaker 2>our podcast that we have Life on Cut Podcasts. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's because I mean, it started off as a sex

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<v Speaker 2>and relationships podcast. So one of the big questions is like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you keep desire alive and a long term relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you keep the spark alive?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it normal?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it even possible to do so?

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<v Speaker 2>And many of the experts that we've spoken to over

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<v Speaker 2>the years have said yes, it is possible, but like

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<v Speaker 2>it requires burk blah blah blah, all that sort of.

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<v Speaker 3>Stuff bla blah blah blah. We don't need to tell

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<v Speaker 3>you about that.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want you to keep you here to fix

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<v Speaker 1>your love life.

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<v Speaker 2>But I did come across an interesting study and it

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<v Speaker 2>turns out maybe your pajamas have something to do with

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that your sex life is dwindling.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh we're gonna blame our pajamas now, Wow, no one

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<v Speaker 3>is safe.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question, how do you sleep at night?

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<v Speaker 3>Bret? What with my morals or my life choices? Well,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you sleep at that?

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<v Speaker 2>No, if you're because you obviously do long distance with

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<v Speaker 2>your partner Ben, he lives overseas. But when you're together,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you sleep? Do you wear pajamas? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>wear a pair of.

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<v Speaker 3>Undies a trap in?

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<v Speaker 4>When I'm at home alone, I sleep in underpants and

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<v Speaker 4>like a pajama top. Something that's comfortable, like a really

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<v Speaker 4>nice soft cotton is my choice.

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<v Speaker 2>Love the airy breezy Yeah, I love that, but I

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<v Speaker 2>do like the legs to be free same because I

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<v Speaker 2>want to kick around.

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<v Speaker 3>I sleep in running.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, not no g strings. To bear, but you cannot

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<v Speaker 4>sleep in a g banger. That's like defying the rules

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<v Speaker 4>of physics. So when when I'm with my fiance Ben,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm either nude or just in undies, but I never

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<v Speaker 4>have a top half on ever, So sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>The undies are like a bit of a sexy I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have to say safety net. I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 3>it's more of a comfort.

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<v Speaker 2>So sorry, am I giving I met my girl friends here.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is is that there's a study that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in a long term relationship with my loving husband

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<v Speaker 2>who I am very comfortable with, and I sleep in

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<v Speaker 2>underwear and a T shirt pretty much every night.

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<v Speaker 3>You sleep gesturing, don't you no? Never, my body would

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<v Speaker 3>not allow it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy suck after two kids far out, I'm never

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<v Speaker 2>getting asleep. Lose it anyway, that's too much information for everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>But I sleep in like an ugly T shirt, and

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<v Speaker 2>I do I know that this is like I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>say it's a protection mechanism, but it's like, if I

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<v Speaker 2>need to go to sleep, I'm going to sleep. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not there for fun times at night time. I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to get into bed, I want to roll over.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm tired, and I know that if I was to

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<v Speaker 2>fall asleep completely nude, it would be misunderstood as giving

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<v Speaker 2>a signal that maybe I'd be more into other things

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<v Speaker 2>than what I am into my sleeping.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's given a signal. Hang on, what's

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<v Speaker 3>the point of this chat.

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<v Speaker 2>The point of this chat is this study that's come

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<v Speaker 2>out has said that wearing sleepwear like fleece onesies, flannel pjs, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that it might make you feel relaxed, but it is

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely killing your sex life. It is sending a message

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<v Speaker 2>that attraction is not a priority. There's a relationship coach,

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<v Speaker 2>her name is Channa Bromley, and she's said that when

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<v Speaker 2>you choose comfort over seduction, it can impact the chemistry

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<v Speaker 2>between you and your partner. And I would agree, but

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<v Speaker 2>I argue it's not always about being To be fair,

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<v Speaker 2>I did exaggerate a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually have this really old grungy T shirt. I

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<v Speaker 4>whear it's not really nice soft cotton pajamas. It's an

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<v Speaker 4>old ac DC shirt. But when I'm with Ben walking

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<v Speaker 4>around the house to go to Ben, I will just

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<v Speaker 4>put his clothes on. So I think that that's probably

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<v Speaker 4>pretty repulsive to him to look at me in his

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<v Speaker 4>own clothes.

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<v Speaker 5>Nah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think guys like that their own clothes. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think that that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that hot? Maybe? I don't know. I wear Matt's clothes?

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<v Speaker 1>Does he find out? Who knows? Let's ask him.

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<v Speaker 2>But apparently sixty two percent of people who continue to

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<v Speaker 2>sleep nude with their partners say that they have more

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<v Speaker 2>satisfying intimacy than those who wear I don't know, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>like your cozy Peter Alexander pajamas have a bear on

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<v Speaker 2>the front.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not convinced we needed to study to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>that sleeping naked like you're more inclined to get it

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<v Speaker 4>on than sleeping in like old discussing clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just kind of think like there's so many things

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<v Speaker 2>that we can feel guilty about. Surely, after ten years

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<v Speaker 2>of being with your partner, your arms, you're allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>wear pajamas that are just for comfort and aren't for

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<v Speaker 2>sex appeal? Like not everything that you need to do

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<v Speaker 2>should be about seduction.

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<v Speaker 4>Why don't you go and try it out tonight, Laura,

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<v Speaker 4>see what happens, Go to bed, no shirt on, little

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<v Speaker 4>g banger, and report back, because that's the only way

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<v Speaker 4>to really solidify this study.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem that I have is that my husband comes

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<v Speaker 2>to bed too late. So I go to bed at

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<v Speaker 2>nine thirty at the moment, do you yeah, nine thirty,

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<v Speaker 2>ten o'clock, But he comes to bed at eleven thirty

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<v Speaker 2>at night, and so like for me, my argument is like,

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<v Speaker 2>that is an unrealistic expectation. If you come to bed

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<v Speaker 2>at eleven thirty at night, ain't nothing happening except sleeping.

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<v Speaker 3>So if he comes to bed at nine thirty, it's

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<v Speaker 3>on the yeah, then until nine thirty three.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got until nine thirty until nine forty five. With

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<v Speaker 1>that window is not happened, and it's not happened.

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<v Speaker 3>In power, the shirt's gone back on.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally.

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<v Speaker 2>We are playing this the Pickups Quest for the Best.

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<v Speaker 2>All week we have been teasing our competition for the

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<v Speaker 2>Quest of the Best, which is so many of you

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<v Speaker 2>have written in you have entered this and it is

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<v Speaker 2>us trying to find the unsung heroes of Australia. And

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<v Speaker 2>there have been some truly incredible people who have been nominated.

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<v Speaker 2>But the other day we had a guy named Adam

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<v Speaker 2>call up to nominate a woman named Fiona who works

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<v Speaker 2>at his local pizza shop. Who has just been the

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<v Speaker 2>most incredibly generous, kind a wonderful listener. But she's made

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<v Speaker 2>such an impact on him that that was the reason

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<v Speaker 2>why he wanted to nominate her. And it is our

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<v Speaker 2>time to give her a call and to let Fiona

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<v Speaker 2>know that she has won a competition that she never

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<v Speaker 2>even knew that she was entered in, and she's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>win five thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope she's not listening to the radio right now

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<v Speaker 4>when you speak, gonna be awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>She's at work and she's got a plane, but we're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna call.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm gonna just try and like order a pizza,

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<v Speaker 4>couple of pizzas from us and see what she does,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I will surprise it with my let's give

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<v Speaker 4>her a buzz.

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<v Speaker 5>Gonzos. How can I up here?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, I just wanted to order a couple of pizzas

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<v Speaker 4>for pick up later.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you're not quite open yet. Is that all

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<v Speaker 3>right if I order for like seven pm?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yeah, it is? He no problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh thanks?

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<v Speaker 5>What can I do for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, what's like your most popular pizza?

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<v Speaker 5>So we've got like a gourmet sort of vegetarian pizza.

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<v Speaker 5>It's got like roasted egg plant, roasted fire capskins, fett cheese,

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<v Speaker 5>bit of pesto on it as well.

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<v Speaker 4>To throw that one in ye, and then that you

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<v Speaker 4>had like a Caesar pizza.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, sure that's pretty popular as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it weird to put pineapple on a Caesar pizza?

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<v Speaker 5>In you? I don't think that's weird at all. I

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<v Speaker 5>think that's pretty cool. So bafet salty combo with the

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<v Speaker 5>creamy so yeah, yeah, could work.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's it for me, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>No problem though. Also, can I just if it's okay

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<v Speaker 5>with you? We've changed the recipe for our canole's just

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<v Speaker 5>we've had like supply issues what have you? Alright, if

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<v Speaker 5>I like bring you a pack of canolis and then

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<v Speaker 5>you just let us know, like if they tastes nice

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<v Speaker 5>or if they sort of taste a bit funny.

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<v Speaker 4>I would love nothing more than to try that. Thanks

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<v Speaker 4>so much, and so sorry? How much was that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm just working it out now. Sorry. We've just

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<v Speaker 5>got this new p COOS system, so I'm just a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit slow.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh we've got a deal going Oh oh easy easy, okay, No,

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<v Speaker 5>that's free, don't worry. Just take it out of my

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<v Speaker 5>pay don't worry.

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<v Speaker 3>I heard that you're not taking it out of you if.

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<v Speaker 5>They even pay me anyway, So just take it out

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<v Speaker 5>of my love. No, I'm just chatting to my brother.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just I don't usually work here often. I come

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<v Speaker 5>here when he's a bit short. So all together that

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<v Speaker 5>comes to forty three.

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<v Speaker 3>Ninety okay, perfect. Does anyone ever give you a tip?

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<v Speaker 1>Fion?

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<v Speaker 3>Because that was so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>What you just said.

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<v Speaker 5>A lot of old people say I'm nice. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I just think it's just nice to be a good person.

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<v Speaker 5>I suppose.

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<v Speaker 4>How does a five thousand dollar tip sound to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I've just won five thousand dollars. It's written Laura from

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<v Speaker 1>the pickup?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 2>And you you don't even know this, but you were

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<v Speaker 2>nominated by one of your amazing customers, Adam, who honestly

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<v Speaker 2>has just said that you are the most generous and

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<v Speaker 2>kind and wonderful human that he has such a joy

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<v Speaker 2>and pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>Of coming in and seeing you every week when a

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<v Speaker 1>customer money, I actually have.

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<v Speaker 5>I brought this in when my brother called me. He

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<v Speaker 5>said his wife went home because the kids got sick

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<v Speaker 5>from school, and so he's like, come in and help.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, yeah, yeah, I'll just quickly, like I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>have lunch at work to go, so I just quickly

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<v Speaker 5>came home and then just got changed and then came

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<v Speaker 5>here and then I was like, oh, I'll get these

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<v Speaker 5>cards because maybe Adam might show up. I haven't seen

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<v Speaker 5>has he been in number?

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<v Speaker 1>You said, can you.

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<v Speaker 5>Give you a free piece, giving a lifetime a free peep?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, congratulations.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, thousand bucks, five thousand dollars are you like, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>shaking look at that.

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<v Speaker 3>You did just try and give me for free.

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<v Speaker 4>Teller Connoli for free out of your pay so I

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<v Speaker 4>think you deserve it.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know where to look, and I'm sweating, and

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<v Speaker 5>oh my god, we'll take you sweaty for your own.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, we had so many people enter this competition, and

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it was the purpose of it was to

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<v Speaker 2>try and find people in the community who were just

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<v Speaker 2>spreading joy and making people feel amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And it really is the biggest compliments you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, crazy and yeah, I just don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>to say, thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also a very big.

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<v Speaker 5>Minecraft for you and three pieces and Harry Potters I've

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<v Speaker 5>got for you as well, the best.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very big thank you to Disney as well.

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<v Speaker 2>So Disney snow Whites only in cinemas on March twenty.

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<v Speaker 3>And they are people who this week Laura. So you're crazy,

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<v Speaker 3>You're welcome, You're so weak.

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<v Speaker 2>Al Right, back to work, I reckon, you get to

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<v Speaker 2>go home today, Fionna.

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<v Speaker 3>Take it break.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just now. There's all confite. I've got to sleep.

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<v Speaker 5>If we've gone back to work, reading more work from

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<v Speaker 5>Oh thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 1>What an angel? Well, look, guys, if you missed any

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<v Speaker 1>of the show, you want to catch up at