1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: Our next guest has been on our TV screens for 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 2: over four decades, easily becoming one of Australia's most trusted journalists. 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 2: She's reported on leaders, on politicians, on heroes and villains 5 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: across the globe. But today she's uncovering what she says 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 2: is the hardest story to tell, and that is her 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: own story. 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: Liz Hayes, Hi, Hello there, Hello, are you look at you? 9 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 3: You didn't want to be a part of the story, 10 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 3: but here. 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: Oh I'm all nervy now. Oh terrible. 12 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 2: How did you find it? Because there's so many amazing 13 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 2: stories in your book about your adventures with sixty minutes 14 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: when you're on the Today Show, that people you've met, 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: but also you have to tell your own story about 16 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: your relationships and your family. 17 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:46,919 Speaker 3: How did you find all of that? 18 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: It was tough because my family have been my backbone. 19 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: But also everybody knows, you know, I've tried love a 20 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: few times and I know it just kind of cut 21 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: across my work and it just had to be included. 22 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: I guess it's not a tell all, but it is. 23 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: I think it helps complete who I am. 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 3: It is you have been very frank about it as 25 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 3: part of you. It's part of your life. 26 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: You know. 27 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 3: There's a bit in the book where you say three 28 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 3: marriages in a decade. That's like, I know, it's quite extraordinary. 29 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: Does that you've said, Liz that you said it can 30 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: cost you when you choose a life of adventure. What 31 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 2: do you mean by that? 32 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: I think you have great ideas and thoughts and perceptions 33 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 1: of yourself and then you find yourself knee deep in 34 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: it and think, what the hell is this adventure? I mean, 35 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: this is just it can be really confronting to realize 36 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: you're actually a coward, to find out that you're you know, 37 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: you're not as brave as you hoped you would be. 38 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: You're more emotional than you thought you would be. But slowly, 39 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: but surely, I guess you learned to man up, if 40 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: I can use that term in this day and age. 41 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: But you just just have to find it, I think, 42 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: and that's probably what I did do. Mysel went on. 43 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 4: One thing I found curious in the book that Bob 44 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: Hawk asked you for a weekend up on the Gold Coast. 45 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: M Well, that is curious and curious to me too, 46 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 1: And of course it comes off off the end of 47 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: my marriage to John Singleton. So of course that for 48 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:32,079 Speaker 1: me was most peculiar because that were great mates. And 49 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: in my time with John Singleton, I interacted with Bob Hawk, 50 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: but I had no idea and you know, I couldn't 51 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: quite fathm it where this invitation would come from. So 52 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: it was it was really a bit unsettling. 53 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 3: Really, Yeah, well it would be because he was married 54 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 3: at the time. 55 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: Wasn't he? Well was he? 56 00:02:59,600 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 3: Maybe? 57 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 4: But maybe Liza was totally just innocent. Maybe it was 58 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 4: just to go up and see movie world. 59 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 3: And you know, you're right, You're right. 60 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: I got it wrong, you know, I just went to 61 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: the dark side. 62 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: You that's all. That's such a Liz, That's a Liz 63 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 3: Hayes move, right, Liz. 64 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: You've met so many incredible people, from Afghani warlords to 65 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: famous movie stars. Who was the most charismatic that you 66 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: ever met, even if they were baddie Who had the 67 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: most charisma oozing out of them? 68 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: I must say Dustin Hoffman. He had this extraordinary manner 69 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: about him, which was, you know, he was quite a flirt, 70 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: but very funny, you know, and I was surprised by that. 71 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: But he loved you. 72 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: He didn't. He wouldn't go home, and his minder had 73 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: to sort of try and cries him from the room. 74 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: But you know he said, no, you go, I'll hang 75 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: around to take you to the Gold Coast. Actually I 76 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: hadn't even thought of that, but yes, you know, he 77 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: managed to surprise. 78 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 4: Me on nothing because you had Russell Brand and recently 79 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 4: he's been in. When you say you had Russell Brand, 80 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:18,559 Speaker 4: you interviewed Russell Brand. But as you said in the book, 81 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 4: you were fifty six at the time, and that was 82 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 4: part of his stick undoing your brass trap, which which 83 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 4: sounds terrible when you say it just like that, but 84 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 4: it was part of his of a time. 85 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: Yes, look, that was a real conundrum for me facing 86 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: that story in the light of today. What we all 87 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 1: thought we saw and what I did feel at the 88 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: time was that this was the guy being him outrageous 89 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: and behaved so in front of the cameras. But you know, 90 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: when the cameras were off, he was a complete gentleman. 91 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: In the light of allegations. What can I say exactly, Well. 92 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 2: Do you remember the first story you ever did for 93 00:04:58,440 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: the Manning River Times. 94 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,359 Speaker 1: I can't remember exactly the first one, but there's some 95 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: that oh well, I was sent to court. Actually I 96 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 1: was sent I've never been at a courthouse in my life. 97 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: And Kenny Maxie at It too sent me off to 98 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: the court to cover the court of petty sessions. And 99 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: the only thing, only advice he really gave me was, 100 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 1: you know, I don't forget to bow. I had no 101 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: idea what he meant. 102 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 3: What did mean? 103 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: Well, you know when you go in and the magistrate 104 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: comes out, everybody rather than bow. Yeah, and I just 105 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: walked and started bowing to everybody. 106 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 3: And I like Amanda's being all coy about it, as 107 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 3: if you don't know what it's like the face of 108 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 3: judge my breaking enters. 109 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 4: Liz, this is a great book. And I just love 110 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 4: seeing you on Telly. I love I love what you 111 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 4: Want to Under Investigation, the TV show that is not 112 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 4: Liz Under Investigation. 113 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 3: And the New Men, and the new book is out. 114 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 3: I'm Liz Hayes. It's out now, Liz. 115 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, Oh look, I thank you both so much. 116 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,799 Speaker 1: It's you know, it's really one of those difficult things. 117 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: And I'm you know, selling yourself is really tough going, 118 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: I got to say, so. I appreciate it greatly. 119 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: Liz, you are so interesting and so lovable. It's the 120 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 2: easiest thing in the world for us to do. 121 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: And thank you, thank you,