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Speaker 1: Jewell and Woody podcast many is it okay to hit

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Speaker 1: on someone at the gym?

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Speaker 2: The reason we're talking about a TikTok.

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Speaker 1: There's a trend going calling out Jim harassment against women,

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Speaker 1: the hashtag Jim creep Jim weirdo.

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Speaker 2: It's got more than one hundred.

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Speaker 1: Million views with wow male gym goers either approaching or

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Speaker 1: staring at women while they're working out.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, totally wild.

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Speaker 3: I just thought like it was such an obvious no, no,

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Speaker 3: right yes to walk up to someone at the gym.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't, like, I'm often so gassed that like

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Speaker 1: I haven't got you know, is my own thing, you know?

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Speaker 3: And so are they like what you tap them on

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Speaker 3: the shoulder? They probably got headphones in most likely and

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Speaker 3: it's like, oh excuse me. Yeah, I just wanted to say, yeah,

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Speaker 3: what if that tag say made in Heaven?

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Speaker 2: Like, what in what world?

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Speaker 3: I was an attended pick up one?

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Speaker 2: Good to roll that out? In what world?

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 2: As the guy? There is there a place?

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Speaker 1: There is there is like is there a time though?

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Speaker 1: Like has that ever? Surely someone has successfully?

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Speaker 2: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like with all these things is obviously

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Speaker 1: you know you've got harassment and at the level of

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Speaker 1: staring and annoying someone, which is totally inappropriate. Not to

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Speaker 1: mention touching them, but that's obviously totally inappropriate. But is

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Speaker 1: there a place there where you can go to the

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Speaker 1: gym and pick.

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Speaker 3: Up maybe at the Pigeonholes six five.

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Speaker 2: Claudia is called Claudia. Hey, what are your thoughts?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Guys, Look, I just want to explain the reasons why

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Speaker 5: I don't think is the place to pick up my opinion,

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Speaker 5: the workout sessions, not the pigeon hole.

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Speaker 6: It's a vibe and to.

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Speaker 5: Actively avoid this, I joined a female.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I reckon. For me, I reckon.

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Speaker 1: There's lots of people that might have done that. How

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Speaker 1: we're going to hear from Steph Clissmith a little bit later,

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Speaker 1: a little bit later on in this spot, which I'm

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Speaker 1: excited about.

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Speaker 3: So, Claudia, you're employing that this would happen a lot,

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Speaker 3: like a lot of guys would try and flirt with

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Speaker 3: you or be a bit creepy in the gym for

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Speaker 3: you to then move to an all female gym.

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Speaker 5: No, it wasn't even so much that it was a

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Speaker 5: perspect that could happen. And I'd heard yeah, yeah, look

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Speaker 5: too much, not a glance, not comfortable.

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Speaker 1: So even if a guy walked up to you and said, hey,

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Speaker 1: what does this tag say made in Heaven, You'd be like, no, thanks,

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Speaker 1: you don't need to answer that questions. Lizzy is called Liz,

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Speaker 1: as I said, Steph Kleis Smith's up next, which is

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Speaker 1: She's She's been more gyms than I've had hot dinners,

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Speaker 1: so I'm sure I have been around this a lot.

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Speaker 1: So we're here from Steph and his Sex.

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Speaker 2: Lizzie. You actually get hit on at Jim's frequently?

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Speaker 6: Yes, I do. I actually love the attention. So I

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Speaker 6: actually just an old thing. I have my little bow,

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Speaker 6: and that aim is to get the attention. The aim

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Speaker 6: is to get off like that.

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Speaker 3: So so can I ask you what sort of approaches

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Speaker 3: have you had in the past? Then, like what sort

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Speaker 3: of approaches worked?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 6: So, like I'll be working out and then guys would

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Speaker 6: just come and they would just stare, and then they'll

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Speaker 6: and I've had like and then sometimes to get their attention,

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Speaker 6: I would like go to whoever's on the desk and

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Speaker 6: to turn I need help so I can get that

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Speaker 6: attention and then we just start talking from there.

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Speaker 1: So you walked out as out of a gym session

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Speaker 1: with like somebody's number or like it actually gone on

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Speaker 1: and hooked up with this person.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I actually had to think about three guys numbers

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Speaker 6: and then mars ex partner he was from.

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Speaker 2: The gym, So gee, oh there you go. What clearly

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Speaker 2: for Lizzie?

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, okay, yeah, great, Steph clest let's let's

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Speaker 1: hear from Steff from can.

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Speaker 2: I step Hi wiz.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, I think that's just look, at the

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Speaker 4: end of the day, we're all very different from what

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Speaker 4: I know from our community to kick. For the most part,

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Speaker 4: women are going to the gym for me time and

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Speaker 4: to work on themselves and more often than not as

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Speaker 4: for their mental health. They're not going there to be

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Speaker 4: picked up. And then I suppose to those like Lizzie,

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Speaker 4: I'm sure as she as she pointed out, she puts

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's also a part like read the

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Speaker 4: room if you're thinking someone else out, if you're checking

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Speaker 4: do not approach them. So yeah, I just think it's

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Speaker 4: it's it's just not a space. I don't get it.

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Speaker 4: It's not the space that I go but I'm hoping

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Speaker 4: to get checked out or anything. It is my time

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Speaker 4: where I'm setting up my corner, I'm putting my headphones

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Speaker 3: So Step, has it ever happened to you in the past?

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Speaker 3: Have you been approached in the gym or have your

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Speaker 3: had a go trying to flirt with you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no I have. I don't go to the gym

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Speaker 4: much in more, but it's less to do with gym

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Speaker 4: in timidation and more so just to do with my time,

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Speaker 5: It's easier for me to work out from home.

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Speaker 4: However, I've actually got a funny story. This was actually

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Speaker 4: not outside of a gym, but I was working out.

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Speaker 4: I was on a run outside and this is when

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Speaker 4: I was being in New York, and this guy was

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Speaker 4: on roller blades and corn up to me. I was

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Speaker 4: literally brinking on my last bit, so my last straight

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Speaker 4: and the last bit of the run where you've got

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Speaker 4: the most energy, and he taps me on the shoulder

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Speaker 4: and I'm thinking, Okay, something something big must have happened here.

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Speaker 4: So I stopped and I puff, and he says some

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Speaker 4: corny pickup line like what you were saying earlier.

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Speaker 2: Let's say it.

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Speaker 3: Let's say it, as well as the line he checked

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Speaker 3: your tag and said made in Heaven.

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Speaker 2: So he says that a line like that.

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Speaker 4: It was honestly something like that, and I actually said

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Speaker 4: to him, are you joking? And I pull my headphones

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Speaker 4: back in and keept running back.

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Speaker 2: Wow, good call. Wow, I love it.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you it's a bit of an insight in though,

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Speaker 1: like if you're going to try and pick up steph

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Speaker 1: close me, if you're you're approaching the wrong woman, Like

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Speaker 1: he's absolutely gassed's on rollerblades, she's running, Yeah, and she's

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Speaker 1: still flawed him, and then she's got enough poise to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I look.

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Speaker 4: I think like obviously the bigger issue is hopefully that

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Speaker 4: you know people who are being intimidating in the gym,

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Speaker 4: that they change their tune. However, from our point of view,

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Speaker 4: we don't want people to be fearful of going to

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Speaker 4: the gym, So, I mean we recently literally talked to

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Speaker 4: our community about this, and our tips are basically, put

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Speaker 4: your headphones in, put your confidence booster tunes on plan

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Speaker 4: your work out, get your space done, and just put

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Speaker 4: your head down and know that everyone else is just

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Speaker 4: there doing there as well, and there's probably a lot

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Speaker 4: of other people in there thinking the same sort of

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Speaker 4: thing you are, and so just get in and get out.

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Speaker 1: Love that if you want to hear more from Steph

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Speaker 1: their wizards, those two women, they're amazing.

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Speaker 2: Stefph, thanks so much for joining us.

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