WEBVTT - Sex Lists & Celibacy!

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<v Speaker 1>Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands

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<v Speaker 1>were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders

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<v Speaker 1>past and present.

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<v Speaker 2>Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was

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<v Speaker 2>recorded on gadigal Land.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life

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<v Speaker 3>on Cut.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Brittany and I'm Laura. How does it feel doing

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<v Speaker 2>that again for the first time? You didn't do that

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<v Speaker 2>last week?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I didn't do it feels good, But I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we said we weren't going to say this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back. That's not Remember we're going to cut down

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<v Speaker 1>on the first time. I'm back. I'm back from the jungle.

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<v Speaker 1>We've established that, and I love it. I know it.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to celebrate the winds every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I said that I was got one thing I

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<v Speaker 1>said I was going to take from the jungle is

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<v Speaker 1>like I felt so good in there on the diet

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<v Speaker 1>and the no caffeine, and I was like, I'm only

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<v Speaker 1>going to go back to maybe one coffee day.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm already back to almost three day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a problem. It's nine am and I'm on my

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<v Speaker 2>second extra large coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Fine, that's bad. I do need to go to the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 2>but like it's okay. I do need to talk you

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<v Speaker 2>through every step. Oh spoke about last week we were

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<v Speaker 2>talking about sleep. It seems to be a recurring theme

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<v Speaker 2>on this podcast, but we were talking about how Matt

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<v Speaker 2>has a garment and how he tracks his sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>He's into the sleep tracking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And this came because I said that one of

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<v Speaker 1>the amazing things about being in the jungle is you

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<v Speaker 1>have no concept of time. So you don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>time you go to bed, and you don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>time you wake up, and you don't know how many

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<v Speaker 1>hours sleep you get. All you can go off is

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<v Speaker 1>how you physically feel, which I think is amazing. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have.

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<v Speaker 2>A bone to pick with you with Garmon, can go

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<v Speaker 2>and eat my shit because garments, I'm made just angry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired, and I'm angry.

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<v Speaker 2>So I took your advice and I wore Matt's garment

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<v Speaker 2>to sleep the other night.

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<v Speaker 3>So we went out we Saturday afternoon. We went to

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<v Speaker 3>a friend's house.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd had quite a few margaritas in the afternoon and

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling a little bit spicy and dicey. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>we went to bed Matt that night. He was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>where my gum and see how your sleep is. Not

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<v Speaker 2>only do I know that I woke up so much

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<v Speaker 2>during the night, because when I'm a bit hungover, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't sleep, so I'm awake, like laying at the ceiling awake.

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<v Speaker 2>Not only that, did I get it? I got up

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<v Speaker 2>three times for Lola. Lola came into the bed, I

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<v Speaker 2>went up and I got a bottle of water. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up in the morning and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad. I am so glad I wore the

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<v Speaker 2>garment last night because he's gonna see just how bad

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<v Speaker 2>my sleep was.

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<v Speaker 3>Eight hours and twenty five minutes. Awake for two minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>But how is that.

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<v Speaker 3>Possible if you got up one hundred times?

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<v Speaker 1>You tell me sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still confused how the bone has been picked with.

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<v Speaker 2>Me because in this situation, we all agreed that I

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<v Speaker 2>needed to wear the garment him to prove to Matt

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<v Speaker 2>that I am not getting enough sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but then I got gas lit.

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<v Speaker 1>Look to be fair in my defense, brilliant idea like brilliant,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a garment issue, Like that's not a.

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<v Speaker 2>Me issue, because then Matt pulled out his phone. He

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<v Speaker 2>opened it up, and he was like, you never can

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<v Speaker 2>argue with me again. He's like, you got eight hours

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<v Speaker 2>and four few minutes sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think that maybe you are getting more sleep

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<v Speaker 3>than you think?

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<v Speaker 1>No, but the garment says you are. And I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I'm going to keep this up for

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<v Speaker 3>at least a week. I think you should wear it

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<v Speaker 3>and do an average.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or maybe if the average is high, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>need to take one for the team. Have a really

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<v Speaker 1>bad week, but maybe you just need to settle arms

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<v Speaker 1>to wake yourself up so you have really disturbed, disrupted.

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<v Speaker 2>Nights and then show him that data. I was also like,

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<v Speaker 2>how does Garman know like if I'm awake? But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I know? Like I'm awake, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>laying in bed and I'm peacefully laying in bed with

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<v Speaker 2>my eyes open. How does it know? Do I need

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<v Speaker 2>to shake my arm around vigorously? Like do I need

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<v Speaker 2>to do something that would indicate that I'm awake? It

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<v Speaker 2>goes of heart rate and stuff like that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just you can't just put your arm out

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<v Speaker 1>and wave it around, but it goes off a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things, like it's got like GPS trackers, it's got

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<v Speaker 1>your the room like because it's doing your poles and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. So you probably need to get up

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<v Speaker 1>and do like star jobs, a peloton, do a peloton workout.

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<v Speaker 1>But then met'll get data. He's like, Laura, you will

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<v Speaker 1>working out two am.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, I thought that this was going to help me,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's it's really set me back. Guys put it

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<v Speaker 2>that way. It's really set me back. And also it's

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<v Speaker 2>gas lipped me. It's made me feel like maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 2>getting more sleep than I think I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you are.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem is I woke up and I was so tired.

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<v Speaker 2>I was so tired. Still, did you know that there's

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<v Speaker 2>this research study that's come out. It's all over TikTok

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<v Speaker 2>at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Women need more sleep?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, apparently women need minimum nine hours sleep a night.

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<v Speaker 2>And whereas like the eight hours sleep was based on

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<v Speaker 2>research of men and up until twenty twenty four, they

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<v Speaker 2>had never ever done a study of sleep on women,

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<v Speaker 2>which shock Yeah, surprising, isn't it that women need nine

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<v Speaker 2>hours of sleep a night and an extra hour sleep

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<v Speaker 2>if they're on their mental cycle?

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>Use that for the next time you want a debate

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<v Speaker 3>about a sleep in.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, today is a very important day. Everyone know

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<v Speaker 1>your diaries. Today it's three weeks to the day until

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<v Speaker 1>Ben arrives. Everybody cares.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone is excited that no one is as excited as

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<v Speaker 3>you are. Well, you know, I didn't actually say this

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<v Speaker 3>on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I realized I spoke about it on my Instagram stories

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. But I was supposed to surprise Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>So I haven't seen Ben since January. You do the math.

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to surprise him after the Jungle long

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<v Speaker 1>story shot. A lot of things changed in the week

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<v Speaker 1>I had this week that I was supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>over there with my mum. My mom got really really unwell.

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<v Speaker 1>She couldn't get out of bed, so we were like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just send you home. So I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I have a couple of extra days. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to sacrifice my flight, book a new flight overnight

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<v Speaker 1>to surprise Ben in Scotland. Now this was It cost

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<v Speaker 1>me an arm and a leg. But I was like, love,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I haven't seen him in months. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the able to surprise thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So book is flight.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the only time ever I'd be able to

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<v Speaker 1>surprise him because we speak every day and we FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>every day, so he's going to There's never going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a time in my life where I can get

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<v Speaker 1>secretly on a plane for twenty four hours and him

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<v Speaker 1>not know where I am. So I had said I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to fly home to Australia tomorrow. That was my thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but really I was diverting to Scotland.

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<v Speaker 2>You could just tell him you're filming something for twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours, like I'm not gonna be on my phone.

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<v Speaker 3>My phone's been taken away. I'm doing Would I be

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<v Speaker 3>filming for twenty four hours?

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<v Speaker 2>As a way in which you could get around it

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<v Speaker 2>if you were, If anyone can come up with the

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<v Speaker 2>idea about how I can surprise him ever slide into

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<v Speaker 2>my DMS because he is and he always Even when

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<v Speaker 2>we got on the flight, I was like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>home to Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>Now He's like, send me your flight details. He loves

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<v Speaker 1>to track it. So I had to like send him

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<v Speaker 1>fake flight details. I had to screenshot Ellie from the jungle.

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<v Speaker 1>She had sent me a proper flight that she was

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<v Speaker 1>on that he could track anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'd organized everything.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. I had his keys left out because my

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<v Speaker 1>sister had said she was going to be at his

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<v Speaker 1>house staying. It was the whole big thing. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I get onto the plane and then he keeps messaging

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to FaceTime. And the flight was not the same

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<v Speaker 1>flight as I tracked, so I told him that my

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<v Speaker 1>phone died, so then I had to turn my phone

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<v Speaker 1>off so that he couldn't just sitting on It was

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<v Speaker 1>a nightmare, and I was like, this is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be worth a surprise. Also, just besides that, so horny,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been months, so the idea of me knowing it

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<v Speaker 1>was coming as well, like knowing it was coming, that

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to be coming, that he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be coming coming. Yeah, so like when you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening in twenty four hours, I was. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I sat on the plane and it was a bit delayed,

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<v Speaker 1>and we sat, We went and we waited and we waited.

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<v Speaker 1>The plane taxied off, went down the runway and then

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<v Speaker 1>was like not today, turned around, taxi back. Seven hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I sat there and then they canceled the flight. This

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<v Speaker 1>is now one thirty in the morning. I had nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>to go. And then I was so upset and so

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<v Speaker 1>emotional and so tired. So then I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do? Now do I try?

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<v Speaker 3>And wait?

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<v Speaker 1>So bad and so and nowhere to go to fix that?

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<v Speaker 1>That was a wady ago. I had no safe place,

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<v Speaker 1>just so the Jungle on TV A month, twenty four

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<v Speaker 1>hours a day, I was in the jungle. So I

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<v Speaker 1>had this moment. I was like, Okay, I'll see if

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<v Speaker 1>I can get another flight. But then already I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>now how do I extend the lie? He knows when

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<v Speaker 1>my flight's going to land. So everything was unraveling and

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up they couldn't fly me for two more

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<v Speaker 1>days and I only had two days to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I called him hysterical. I' He's like, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen you crying so much. He thought someone who passed away.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, what's wrong, babe? What's wrong? Because I was

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<v Speaker 1>so upset, And then I told him everything, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like I was supposed to be surprising and blah

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<v Speaker 1>bah blah. So now it means from January to June

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<v Speaker 1>is how when I haven't seen him? But the countdown

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<v Speaker 1>is on three weeks three weeks today.

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<v Speaker 2>You know in our calendar, and I'm excited for your

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<v Speaker 2>calebar let us know if you do, but we are

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<v Speaker 2>all very excited for you.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't wait to see him? Yeah, I'm very sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to have sex so bad. But one

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<v Speaker 3>thing I have noticed is we just want to have

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<v Speaker 3>sex so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>When you don't have sex, you don't want it as

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<v Speaker 1>much like you loose. I feel like, for that first

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks, when's that going to kick in for you? Britt, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it did kick in, but then when I knew it

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<v Speaker 1>was coming in twenty four hours, it got back. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I got back into my bloodstream, that porn dog vibe

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<v Speaker 1>in the bloodstream exactly. It's that's science. Lubricant. Yeah, that's science.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you don't have sex for a little while,

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<v Speaker 1>you forget and you don't need it as much.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's the thing about long term relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>You often feel as though you don't want it, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's only when you're in the middle of it that

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, oh, that's right, I quite enjoy this. I

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<v Speaker 2>should do this more often. And then the next week

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<v Speaker 2>it's the same situation. You're like yeah, and then all

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<v Speaker 2>of a sudden you're doing it again.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, ah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>So last night, okay, it's a groundhog day.

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<v Speaker 1>Full disclaimer. Last night I was for somehow I was

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<v Speaker 1>ready for bed at like eight o'clock at night. Never happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I never go to bed before midnight. And I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna go to bed really early, going to

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<v Speaker 1>watch something on TV.

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<v Speaker 3>And I went through this nesting phase.

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<v Speaker 1>I went through this nesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just adding some shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I went through this nesting phase yesterday where I cleaned

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<v Speaker 1>my entire house.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I don't know what's happening. I'm not pregnant. I

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<v Speaker 3>was then to come, you're preparing. I was nesting preparing

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<v Speaker 3>my llweens.

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<v Speaker 1>I found like my bag of vibrators and I was like, fuck, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>How many vibrators do you have in that bag? So many?

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<v Speaker 1>How many? Oh? Ten? We had a sex sponsor last

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<v Speaker 1>year on the podcast. They sent me all of the

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<v Speaker 1>dildos to try.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I asked a question because if we had a

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<v Speaker 2>sex sponsor on the podcast, I didn't get sent a

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<v Speaker 2>single deal she did?

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<v Speaker 3>I left you left it here? Did you get this

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<v Speaker 3>sent them all?

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<v Speaker 1>You lose them? You lose them?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, sir I lost my deal and you put it

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<v Speaker 2>on the roof and drove away.

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<v Speaker 3>The dick flew on the back of the car. What

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<v Speaker 3>happened to my dildo?

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<v Speaker 1>Where did it go? Did you take my dildo? You did?

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't you? You genuinely think it flung off the back

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<v Speaker 1>of your car?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we were at the markets the other day

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<v Speaker 2>and for some reason we were talking about dildos.

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<v Speaker 3>A friend of mine came home and the cleaner was

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<v Speaker 3>in the house.

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<v Speaker 2>The cleaner was in their bedroom just holding the dildo,

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<v Speaker 2>and the dildo was on, and then they didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>what to do, what to say. The cleaner was just

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<v Speaker 2>holding the on dildo in the bedroom. So that's how

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<v Speaker 2>we got talking about dildos on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I am shooking.

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<v Speaker 3>What would you do? Would they close?

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<v Speaker 1>What would you do with their pants? Ye?

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<v Speaker 3>They were completely dressed, they were completely clothed.

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<v Speaker 1>They were cleaning.

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<v Speaker 2>The dildos were in a cupboard, though, and they had

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<v Speaker 2>to have opened the cupboard.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, the cleaners never actually they only clean

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<v Speaker 3>around things.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't organize, so the shit like, they're not in

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<v Speaker 2>their organizing the dildos. But they'd obviously opened the cupboard,

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<v Speaker 2>gotten a dildo, and we're just like quite far away

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<v Speaker 2>from where the cupboard is with the dildos, with the

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<v Speaker 2>dildo on.

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<v Speaker 1>What were they doing with the dildo? That?

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<v Speaker 3>He is the most unanswered question. I'm never going to

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<v Speaker 3>sleep again.

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<v Speaker 1>What was she doing meters away from the dildo cupboard

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<v Speaker 1>with a dildo?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so that's how we got speaking about dildos on

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<v Speaker 2>the weekend at the farmer's market.

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<v Speaker 3>But plans to use that I didn't. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>but no one does.

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<v Speaker 1>What did they do in that moment, because surely you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't just have a standoff and look at

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<v Speaker 1>each other and then just walk out the clean.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, oh my god, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>It just turned on. I was trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>how to turn it off. That was the conversation. Just

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<v Speaker 2>turned on.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't turn on meters away in your hand with

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<v Speaker 3>a bit of.

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<v Speaker 1>Bray and white. Just turned on. I don't know anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're talking about that and Matt turns around to

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<v Speaker 2>me in a group of people and he goes, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't even.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a dildo. How do I not know that I

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<v Speaker 3>have vibrators?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you not know do you never open the cupboard,

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<v Speaker 2>like four of them and he's just never noticed. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>they're sitting on the side bed, like I didn't even

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<v Speaker 2>put it away, and he's never realized it's a dialdo.

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<v Speaker 1>Has he never seen you use it? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I need to spice up our sex life

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit. He looked genuinely shocked, Like, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you mean you have a deal though, Yeah, well this

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<v Speaker 2>is why when I felt like I delighted him and

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<v Speaker 2>be like, don't worry, I never use them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, because you can't be not having sex and

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<v Speaker 3>using them.

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<v Speaker 1>We've spoken about it.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't. No, I mean, you can do what you want,

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<v Speaker 3>your body, your choice.

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<v Speaker 1>But like if you're if you're like saying to your

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<v Speaker 1>partner that you don't want it, but you're masturbating secretly

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<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like saying to your partner, honey, i'm really tired,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to bed, and then laying on your phone

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<v Speaker 2>for forty five minutes, which we all do. We all do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same thing. I'm not ready for sex and

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<v Speaker 2>then just going up to the bed.

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<v Speaker 3>But you watch pauls different sometimes No, no, not really

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<v Speaker 3>anymore can be bothered it's too much effort.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sidestep. Instagram's doing me dirty. You know when sidestep

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, Sometimes I don't know if this happens

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<v Speaker 1>to anyone else or not just Instagram, but your phones,

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<v Speaker 1>like old photos will pop up off your ex's or

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<v Speaker 1>photos will pop up from a friend group out and

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<v Speaker 1>someone that you used to date or something is in them,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, I wasn't ready for that, Like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that is happening to me so much right now with

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<v Speaker 1>two people from my past. Of Jordan obviously, but Jordan's

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<v Speaker 1>been playing amazing tennis lately, which is great for him.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's everywhere on my feed because I don't follow Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm seeing him all the time. Yeah, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was one thing I expected, right, I expected to see

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<v Speaker 1>him pop up. But there is someone that I was

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<v Speaker 1>seeing right before my ben right, he's probably the only

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<v Speaker 1>person I really dated in that when I was having

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<v Speaker 1>that time off, and it was very cash.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to preface it with this, it was very cash.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's very.

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<v Speaker 2>Secretive about the men that she's seeing when she's unless

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<v Speaker 2>it's a serious thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even know that this was happening. Until it

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<v Speaker 3>had happened, it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was over because I think, like, unless I think something's here,

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<v Speaker 1>hears me, I respect the people I date.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm going to tell you no, I call bullshit

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<v Speaker 3>on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what it is?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not about respecting the people you date, which obviously very.

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<v Speaker 2>Much I do respect. But what it's about is not

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<v Speaker 2>telling me for fear of me bringing it up on

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast. Probably it's content. You're like, I'm so worried

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<v Speaker 2>about sharing every aspect of my life, not knowing where

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<v Speaker 2>the privacy libit sun.

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<v Speaker 3>I was also enjoying it. I didn't want you to

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<v Speaker 3>ruin it for I was enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I met this guy very briefly with dating, but

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm seeing him everywhere because he is I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just he's a stunt double in what movie brit

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<v Speaker 1>for Ryan Gosling in The Fall Guy, So he is

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Gosling's stunt double. There it is there, you go off,

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<v Speaker 1>you go have a Google. I haven't heard from him

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<v Speaker 1>or seen him since he was here filming that. You

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<v Speaker 1>might not even know.

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<v Speaker 3>If you see him, you might just think it's Ryan Gosling.

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<v Speaker 1>You've probably see the top yeah, yeah, I basically okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there's the rumor I was Ryan Gosling. Sorry, But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>he is very quiet on social media because he's always

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<v Speaker 1>behind the scenes. He likes being a stunt man for

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he's not the main man. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>an actor as such, but he's just very good at stunts.

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<v Speaker 1>But the whole idea of The fall Guy is it's

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<v Speaker 1>about stunts. It's a stunt man. Ryan Gosling is a

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<v Speaker 1>stunt man. So the whole publicity it's like as big

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<v Speaker 1>as it feels like it's as big as Barbie Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Like they're everywhere and every publicity, everywhere, everything that they do,

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<v Speaker 1>every red carpet, all the social media they're doing, all

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<v Speaker 1>the talk shows. The stunt men are there and it's

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<v Speaker 1>about them because you know, credit where credits d you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is interesting because usually they're behind the scenes, but

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<v Speaker 2>in this movie, like the setup of it is that they're.

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<v Speaker 3>Very much front facing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so he's everywhere, so I'm seeing him every I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking things like like Puberty and lad Bible, like all

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<v Speaker 1>these big accounts. I think he did the carpool with

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, who's that, what's that TV show, you

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<v Speaker 1>know how they do carp whatever. He's doing everything. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm seeing him pop up everywhere and I for ardered it.

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<v Speaker 1>Takeisha the other day a story of him, and I said, man,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy is all over my feed right now. The

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<v Speaker 1>next day I get a DM and I have not

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<v Speaker 1>spoken to this guy since he was here fil minute,

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<v Speaker 1>which is before Ben, so over eighteen months. Heybrid have

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<v Speaker 1>you seen the Fall guy yet? Like? Nothing else? That's it?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, but thanks, how are you? I

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<v Speaker 1>said no, actually I haven't. Sorry, I've been busy. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you're busy in the jungle.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, yeah, I've been pretty busy.

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<v Speaker 1>But also even if I had seen it, probably would

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<v Speaker 1>have said no anyway, just like I'll probably be like, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Haven't seen it. I said, oh, I have seen you

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<v Speaker 3>popping up everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like out of out of eighteen months,

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<v Speaker 1>having not ever spoken to you, and like we were

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<v Speaker 1>not we were just like we just hung out.

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<v Speaker 3>We're just friends. That were you know, what kind of friends, Brute?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you doing making friendship bracelets and talking about

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift?

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine stunt Double Sex.

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<v Speaker 3>You're surprisingly flexible. I am ye. You're like, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>my leg around my head on the jungle.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like BRIT's like secret things that she's like actually

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<v Speaker 2>weirdly flexible, overly flexible. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, well I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure Stunt Double enjoyed that.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway. It was just funny. It was just a blast

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<v Speaker 1>from the past.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nothing worse than when they just pop up out

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<v Speaker 2>of't know whether it's usually hey, how you're doing. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not usually like hey, I'm famous, I am famous.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but I guess it's like I guess that was.

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<v Speaker 1>The shared connection, right Like when we were dating. He

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<v Speaker 1>was going to film that every day, so it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's the thing where it's come full circle.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's out, the promos are on, he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>have you seen it? Like have you seen because he

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<v Speaker 1>would show me snippets of what he was filming. He

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<v Speaker 1>would show me He's like, look, I got I exploded

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<v Speaker 1>on the continue to have a bridge in a car

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<v Speaker 1>today and I was like, wow, that's cool. So he

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<v Speaker 1>probably wants to see if it's translated, you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen what he's done. The hard work is done,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have not.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not seen it. I have not watched it.

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<v Speaker 3>I may not watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of you to reduce all that down from hey,

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<v Speaker 2>have you seen the four guy yet?

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<v Speaker 3>It's really nice of you to unpack it to that

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<v Speaker 3>sort of nuance. But it that's what I'm like. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel all of a sudden, I feel bad like I've

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<v Speaker 3>outed him. He was probably you did out him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm enjoying it anyway. He was lovely not a bad

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<v Speaker 3>word to day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk to you guys about something that

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<v Speaker 2>has been in the news just recently, and it's because

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<v Speaker 2>I think it is something that we can most of us.

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<v Speaker 3>I won't say all of us.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't relate to it because I don't do it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think some of you might relate to it now.

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<v Speaker 2>Drew Barrymore has come out and said that she left

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<v Speaker 2>her sex list at Danny DeVito's house, which is just

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<v Speaker 2>a funny sentence in itself. He said, no one ever

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<v Speaker 2>thought that was going to be a headline, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was a headline.

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<v Speaker 3>This was on her show. This is what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I made a list. It was back in the day.

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<v Speaker 4>I did it with paper and pen. I'm the most

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<v Speaker 4>disorganized person. I lose everything. Don't say yeah, I left

0:18:29.000 --> 0:18:32.399
<v Speaker 4>it at someone's house. Well, I was producing a film

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<v Speaker 4>that Danny DeVito was directing, so I wrote the list

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<v Speaker 4>on the back of a set of notes for the film.

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<v Speaker 1>Hm.

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<v Speaker 4>So I left it at Danny DeVito's.

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<v Speaker 1>House, Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And did he find it? I don't think he ever did.

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<v Speaker 4>But I did admit to him that he came on

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<v Speaker 4>the show and I was like, I left my sex

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<v Speaker 4>list at your house.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty anti climac d because he didn't find the list,

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<v Speaker 2>which would have been far juicy. And I was saying

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<v Speaker 2>to produce Kesh today that I kind of felt like

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<v Speaker 2>it was content for content's sake, Like I'm questioning whether

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<v Speaker 2>it even happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's just leaving their sex list around? Willy nilly?

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<v Speaker 2>My question is, why would you ever write it down

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<v Speaker 2>in hard copy in with a pen and paper. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>people just keep these things in the notes in their phone.

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<v Speaker 2>But the weirder part is that she wrote it on

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<v Speaker 2>the back of like a script.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, but why, That's my point. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>why in that moment when you're on a set. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're on a film set with Danny DeVito, did you

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<v Speaker 1>be like, what, I've got an idea, but first, let

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<v Speaker 1>me write my sex list out, flip the script over,

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<v Speaker 1>write it out. The whole thing is very, very funny.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can't relate because I don't have a sex list.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never written one. I'm not that person, that girl

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<v Speaker 1>that writes the notes.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand that there are list keepers.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people are just born list keepers, and that's probably

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<v Speaker 2>someone who's more inclined to keep a sex list.

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<v Speaker 3>I have tried.

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<v Speaker 2>I am chaotic and disorganized, which also translates back to

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<v Speaker 2>my sex life.

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<v Speaker 1>But I tried.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember because when we're in the Batch house, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I know this is so long ago, so now like

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<v Speaker 2>what seven eight years ago, And it was obviously before

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<v Speaker 2>Matt was committed to me, and he was dating a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of other women, and we had so much downtime,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm talking like there's hours where you're sitting around

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<v Speaker 2>that house just waiting. And so I remember I was

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<v Speaker 2>laying in bed this one night and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I'll just try and write them down. And

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<v Speaker 2>I did put them into a hard copy notebook because

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't have a phone on me all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, did all the other was this the thing that

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<v Speaker 1>all the girls were doing me? So you just thought me,

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<v Speaker 1>how could I possibly film my time? And that was

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<v Speaker 1>what popped into your mind. Yeah, I'm a good bake

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<v Speaker 1>banana bread. I could write down my sex list.

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<v Speaker 2>It was alarming to me, alarming how I could picture

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<v Speaker 2>someone's face but not their name, couldn't remember their name.

0:20:36.800 --> 0:20:40.760
<v Speaker 2>So I had things in my sex list like police officer, camperdown.

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<v Speaker 1>Like station camp down, station like I could not remember.

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<v Speaker 2>And I still, for the life of me, I cannot

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<v Speaker 2>remember the man's name.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't just have one night scent. I dated him.

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<v Speaker 3>We went on multiple dates.

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<v Speaker 2>I can picture his face, I can picture the things

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<v Speaker 2>we talked about on the date.

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<v Speaker 3>I know the movie we went to. We went So

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<v Speaker 3>La La Land. Also Ryan Gosling, but.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a real theme today.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot remember his name, and so I just wrote

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<v Speaker 2>down policemen.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the thing that was also even more surprising is.

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<v Speaker 2>That every couple of days after I started the list,

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<v Speaker 2>I would just be like in the middle of doing

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<v Speaker 2>something and then oh my goeh, that's another one. French

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<v Speaker 2>guy Tinder can't remember his name either.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean if I whilst I haven't written a list,

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<v Speaker 1>I still think about them. I don't think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I often go to sleep and think about them. That's false, ben, false.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think about them, but I have with when

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<v Speaker 1>I think about them, like right now, if you are like,

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<v Speaker 1>try and write a listing ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>I also probably know this makes it sounds terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten percent of names, but I choose to forget them,

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<v Speaker 1>like I haven't made that conscious choice. But mine's the same,

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<v Speaker 1>especially because so much of my twenties was a single

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<v Speaker 1>but b traveling around the world. So like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hookups where you're when you see him for a

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<v Speaker 1>week or a couple of days or two days, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they're gone. So mine's like location based, like hostel Germany,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's just a tally. Yeah, Bolivia, it's Roman numerals,

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<v Speaker 1>Bolivia salt flats.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you just said you forgot, I forget not

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<v Speaker 1>just the people that I have like hooked up with.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually forgot someone I completely dated, Like I had

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<v Speaker 1>said I loved this person, and I forgot them. My

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<v Speaker 1>sister Sherry was like one day, I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>like last year ago. She goes, did you ever speak

0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:31.440
<v Speaker 1>to Nick again? And I was like Nick, Nick. She's like, yeah, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, who's Nick.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't know who you talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, who you dated? Nick? And I was like

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<v Speaker 1>who I dated?

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<v Speaker 3>In my head, I was like, I said someone I

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<v Speaker 3>hooked up with somewhere for a little while. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I have no idea who's talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, Nick, you were with him for like seven months,

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:48.400
<v Speaker 1>you went on overseas holiday together. You broke up overseas

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh my god, oh that Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>I completely forgot that I had like this a year. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>I wiped it from because I was standable. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even mad about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like your brain only retains the important information.

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<v Speaker 1>We're too old.

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<v Speaker 3>But I loved him.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not really No.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't no thing. I know now I didn't, but

0:23:09.480 --> 0:23:12.080
<v Speaker 1>at the time I said I did, And so we

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<v Speaker 1>had to share a single Benny Farnet that was him,

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<v Speaker 1>a single bed guy.

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<v Speaker 3>You've actually spoken about him in the podcast for No.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm twenty.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, I'm not twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm twenty years on from when I first started having sex, right,

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<v Speaker 2>like more twenty two whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh please, I'm just older than that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, twenty two.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I was a late bloomer. I was like late,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like almost eighteen. So it's been so many years.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's I mean, we did a poll.

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<v Speaker 2>We pold you guys, seventy nine percent of you don't

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<v Speaker 2>keep list, twenty one percent of you do keep a list,

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it could be age related. I think

0:23:43.040 --> 0:23:45.200
<v Speaker 2>when you're younger, you're more inclined to keep a list.

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<v Speaker 2>You're keeping a mental tally, and then as time goes on,

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, oh, why would I subject myself to that information.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to let the list go.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked Ben last night if he had a list

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<v Speaker 1>out of curiosity, because I thought men, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think men or women are more.

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<v Speaker 2>Likely to have lists? Women way more likely keep a list.

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<v Speaker 2>If I was to gender it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like women are more likely to keep a

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<v Speaker 1>list physically, but I think men are more likely to

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<v Speaker 1>keep a tally because like it's like a flex, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you reckon? Yeah, but I think that's fucking gross. Yeah,

0:24:09.600 --> 0:24:11.880
<v Speaker 1>he didn't have a list. Or a tally because he's

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful gentleman.

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<v Speaker 2>I I've never asked, okay, this is and I know

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<v Speaker 2>this kind of like just leads into a whole different conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think when I was younger and I was

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<v Speaker 2>in more early relationships I'm talking like in my twenties

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff, I found it more common for people to

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<v Speaker 2>ask if you knew how many people you'd slept with? Right, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that was a more common thing that

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<v Speaker 2>was asked. And as you're older and like it was

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<v Speaker 2>weird then. But if you're in your thirties and people

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:38.800
<v Speaker 2>are asking, like, how many people have you slept with?

0:24:38.840 --> 0:24:40.640
<v Speaker 2>I think that's a weird question to ask when you're

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<v Speaker 2>an adult because the well, I mean, firstly, the answer

0:24:43.280 --> 0:24:44.480
<v Speaker 2>should not make a difference.

0:24:44.520 --> 0:24:46.760
<v Speaker 1>No, and it doesn't. But I think as.

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<v Speaker 2>You get older, most people stop keeping a track record.

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.760
<v Speaker 1>They just do. I don't know, we just moved. There

0:24:53.800 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 1>are heaps of women that still keep a track record,

0:24:55.880 --> 0:24:58.040
<v Speaker 1>and it's not I think it's more just out of curiosity.

0:24:58.080 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 3>It's like you like, I'm just gonna write it down

0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 3>one day. It's just a thought. I reckon it's more

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<v Speaker 3>common than not what did our pole.

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<v Speaker 2>Say twenty one percent seventy nine percent didn't. But then

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<v Speaker 2>we also asked the question do you use real names

0:25:09.720 --> 0:25:13.040
<v Speaker 2>in your list? Do you use nicknames? And I say nicknames,

0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:14.800
<v Speaker 2>but really that's just the name that you give someone

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:16.840
<v Speaker 2>because you can't remember their real name, or do you

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<v Speaker 2>use a mix of both, And it was thirty three

0:25:18.760 --> 0:25:22.000
<v Speaker 2>percent said they used real names, good for them, fourteen

0:25:22.040 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 2>percent used nicknames, and fifty three percent use a mix

0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:27.160
<v Speaker 2>of the two because they.

0:25:27.040 --> 0:25:28.920
<v Speaker 3>Probably can't remember all of the real names.

0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:31.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we got some funny ones. We asked, tell

0:25:31.720 --> 0:25:33.439
<v Speaker 1>us what's in your phone right now? Like who have

0:25:33.520 --> 0:25:36.479
<v Speaker 1>you written down in your sex list that you can't remember?

0:25:36.600 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 1>And like call me daddy? That's podcast, call me daddy.

0:25:40.400 --> 0:25:43.479
<v Speaker 1>Guy missing half his big toe lowel a cano. How

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:45.199
<v Speaker 1>do you notice that someone's missing half the big toe

0:25:45.200 --> 0:25:45.880
<v Speaker 1>when you're having sex?

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<v Speaker 3>Where's the foot? Where is the toe?

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<v Speaker 1>Had sixty nine? But you glance up, imagine a sixty

0:25:51.160 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>nine or and you glance up in this half a toe.

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<v Speaker 2>A tow pumper number four that's probably pre standard humper

0:25:58.760 --> 0:25:59.359
<v Speaker 2>number four.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he's a two pump up.

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<v Speaker 3>But I wonder where the number four comes in.

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, he's just explaining this one. She thinks it's

0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:10.159
<v Speaker 2>the second. No, it's the fourth guy who's only needed

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:10.800
<v Speaker 2>two pumps.

0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:14.199
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's probably that's probably the fourth guy, the fourth one.

0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Thick dick he send him that he deserves to know. Yeah,

0:26:20.200 --> 0:26:22.600
<v Speaker 1>a thick double ze faxy because he had a fax machine.

0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:24.639
<v Speaker 3>It was two thousand and three.

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<v Speaker 1>Palette cleanser or pirana. I would love to know the

0:26:29.080 --> 0:26:32.640
<v Speaker 1>background of these piranha. Obviously he's been eating her. Oh no,

0:26:33.000 --> 0:26:34.399
<v Speaker 1>is that right? Or is that a sex thing? I

0:26:34.440 --> 0:26:34.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know.

0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:37.840
<v Speaker 2>No, I think he's been eating her alive. I think

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:40.639
<v Speaker 2>he ate her alive with his teeth a bit. I

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 2>think his teethy in on the flaps. Yeah, or the glitterists.

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:47.040
<v Speaker 2>We could be really descriptive teeth.

0:26:47.040 --> 0:26:49.320
<v Speaker 1>You're biting off a glitteress. You can't see that through.

0:26:49.480 --> 0:26:50.720
<v Speaker 1>Might be why he's called parana.

0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:52.200
<v Speaker 3>People like a bit of biting.

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 1>If it's like on the neck and or the nipple.

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<v Speaker 1>Karana is like a positive term.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think people are like, ooh, that guy, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember his name, but pana.

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<v Speaker 1>What about pistel on my floor? Guy? I've had one

0:27:04.640 --> 0:27:04.920
<v Speaker 1>of those.

0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:07.360
<v Speaker 2>This one I think is great because it's really descriptive

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 2>without being descriptive at all. Drew Neil or Phil I

0:27:11.560 --> 0:27:15.120
<v Speaker 2>know his name was beige as fuck about one that's

0:27:15.160 --> 0:27:17.680
<v Speaker 2>four letters, but also going back to two pump and

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:21.120
<v Speaker 2>number four. Now we've got too pump chump. Unfortunately, there's

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<v Speaker 2>quite a few menu out there with a two pump.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this one concerns me. Gooder cheese. That's concerning because

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting cheese cheese. What about cheese, you know, like

0:27:34.080 --> 0:27:36.280
<v Speaker 1>hanging I'm back on the cheese, dick. Let's not blusterer, No,

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:37.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, it takes.

0:27:37.440 --> 0:27:40.160
<v Speaker 2>Me back to being eighteen and it's really long cheeses

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:41.040
<v Speaker 2>that you peel down.

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to put the vision on your head. Sorry, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I see.

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<v Speaker 2>It when I I can't. Let's not unpack that blue cheese. Yeah,

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking, I'm thinking smelly cheese. I'm thinking like Camember

0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:56.280
<v Speaker 2>that's got a bit of mold on the outside, it's

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<v Speaker 2>creamy on the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>Blue cheese is the mold.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but no Camember has it's got white moles. What

0:28:01.160 --> 0:28:01.640
<v Speaker 3>keeps the hole?

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 1>White's lash?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what about parsnip? Do we think parsnip is a

0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:09.320
<v Speaker 2>description of the shape. It could be thick on the

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:11.920
<v Speaker 2>basin at the top, like a parrot.

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:12.919
<v Speaker 1>I think passnip.

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:14.679
<v Speaker 3>That might be going back to maybe he made her

0:28:14.680 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 3>a passnip soup.

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so. I think it's to do with

0:28:17.359 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 2>the shape of his very very elongated willy. What does a.

0:28:20.080 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Parsnip look like? I'm googling it.

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:24.920
<v Speaker 2>I like kaspar because obviously he just disappeared. And mattress

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.520
<v Speaker 2>car guy is also a top face. Oh my god,

0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:28.760
<v Speaker 2>don't have sorry.

0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:30.200
<v Speaker 3>Boys who have mattresses in the back of their car.

0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I just google passnip.

0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:33.439
<v Speaker 3>There's no way his penis looks like that.

0:28:33.720 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why I think it's passnip like that, No way,

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:40.680
<v Speaker 2>Sorry to anyone who has a passnip penis.

0:28:40.760 --> 0:28:43.880
<v Speaker 1>If you guys have a list but nicknames only, no

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:47.040
<v Speaker 1>name first names, Yeah, but as long as it's not

0:28:47.080 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>first names, and then their job and then their home address,

0:28:49.400 --> 0:28:51.560
<v Speaker 1>like we don't want to be able to identify that.

0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:52.560
<v Speaker 1>We don't want to dox people.

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:53.560
<v Speaker 3>But go and share your.

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Lists like they're always so funny, So share him in

0:28:56.000 --> 0:28:56.520
<v Speaker 1>the Facebook.

0:28:56.560 --> 0:28:58.520
<v Speaker 3>But maybe some of you have both had gooda cheeks.

0:28:58.520 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Who knows if.

0:28:59.400 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 2>You okay, if if you have a hilarious list that

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 2>you've kept and it's majority of the nicknames, screenshot it

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:06.560
<v Speaker 2>from your notes and put it in the Facebook group

0:29:06.600 --> 0:29:07.400
<v Speaker 2>because we need a.

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Laugh and we enjoyed that. I also wonder how in

0:29:09.640 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 1>depth some people go. Are they like categorized by years?

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Are they you know? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it depends on the personality type. If you're

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 2>an a personality type and you are a list keeper,

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 2>that list is thorough. If you were me and you

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:22.800
<v Speaker 2>forget things like dildos on top of your car, you're

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 2>probably gonna forget the names of most.

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 3>People and you're gonna fill in the blank.

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:27.160
<v Speaker 1>I probably got your dealdo off top of the cars

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>where I have ten. Yes, it probably told you. It

0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:32.000
<v Speaker 1>probably flew off your car into my car. And I

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, fine, kid, you stole my dildo.

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:37.240
<v Speaker 3>Steal your dildo, take better care of your sex toys.

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:38.680
<v Speaker 3>You stole my dildo, take better care.

0:29:38.720 --> 0:29:40.440
<v Speaker 2>Just because I leave a dildo at the office doesn't

0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 2>mean it's free game for anyone to take home.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro, it wasn't.

0:29:43.240 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 3>You didn't leave it at the office. It flew off

0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 3>your car.

0:29:46.320 --> 0:29:48.240
<v Speaker 2>This is an exaggeration. Why are you picking my dildo

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 2>up out of the car. It was because it was

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 2>still in the box.

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you think you were walking around work with a

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:56.000
<v Speaker 1>dildo like flapping around that you'd used, like hey, just

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>ducking into the wellness room and then you off. It

0:29:58.280 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 1>was not on the roof of my car.

0:29:59.640 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 2>All right, Look, I mean this is a very sex

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 2>field episode today.

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't supposed to be.

0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 3>Actually it really wasn't.

0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:07.840
<v Speaker 2>But we tossed up a few things and we realize

0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:10.080
<v Speaker 2>everyone's going to be talking about Peter Stefanovic.

0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 3>So we were like, let's talk about Craig David.

0:30:11.960 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk dad. Yeah, let's talk about Craig David. Craig David.

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:17.320
<v Speaker 3>He's come out, and I think this is interesting. We

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 3>hasn't come.

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 2>No, he might have come, though he's sell a bit.

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 2>He's not not coming. No, I think he's not coming. Oh,

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know about that.

0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 3>He's forty two.

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<v Speaker 2>Since he was forty years old, so for the past

0:30:27.440 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 2>two years he has been completely celibate. He has decided

0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 2>that he doesn't want any intimacy, like romantic intimacy in

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 2>his life because he wants to work on healing. His

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 2>own issues with himself, but also prioritizing other things that

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 2>are more important.

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 1>Craig David wrote a song about meeting the girl on

0:30:41.360 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Monday and having her in the bed on Wednesday, and

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 1>then like meeting someone else on Friday or some other

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:46.840
<v Speaker 1>there were a lot of days and sex in and

0:30:46.880 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 1>on Thursday and Friday and Saturday, on Sunday, then we

0:30:50.920 --> 0:30:52.000
<v Speaker 1>fuck on Monday.

0:30:52.160 --> 0:30:54.600
<v Speaker 3>Not the words, No, that would have been a great song.

0:30:54.960 --> 0:30:57.200
<v Speaker 1>So he has sung a song about how he gets late,

0:30:57.280 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 1>and now he's come out saying that he's celibate, which

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I think is great. But I think the funny thing

0:31:02.240 --> 0:31:06.040
<v Speaker 1>about it is the way he talks about it. He's like, literally,

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:10.280
<v Speaker 1>no drama, vibes only I'm so creative, like I'm banging

0:31:10.320 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 1>out songs, I'm not banging chicks, and life is great

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:18.520
<v Speaker 1>from it. But there actually is so much scientific research

0:31:18.640 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 1>to say that we are better people, we are more productive,

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>we're more creative when we are not ejaculated.

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 3>Well this is his this is his quote.

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:30.560
<v Speaker 2>It has been really good for me because man, the studio, music,

0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:34.120
<v Speaker 2>the creativity, it's like no drama, just vibes. I know,

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 2>to the date, it's been two years now for me

0:31:36.400 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 2>without sex. But in a funny way, much as I

0:31:39.160 --> 0:31:42.040
<v Speaker 2>was like wow to myself for the moment, my creativity

0:31:42.040 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 2>has been one hundred percent on max for those two years,

0:31:45.320 --> 0:31:48.680
<v Speaker 2>which I agree with, because when you're in the throes

0:31:48.760 --> 0:31:52.959
<v Speaker 2>of like toxic dating, toxic relationships, like the effort that

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:55.560
<v Speaker 2>goes into trying to find new people to date, to

0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:58.480
<v Speaker 2>manage their emotions, blah blah blah ah, that shit. It

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:01.720
<v Speaker 2>really it's like having another It takes up so much

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 2>time and so much mental energy that he's like, holy shit,

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 2>how much work I can get done when I'm not

0:32:06.280 --> 0:32:08.360
<v Speaker 2>out trying to like bone chicks every single day.

0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:12.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And as somebody who is unintentionally celibate that is myself,

0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I can agree to this.

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 3>I think you're so much more productive.

0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:16.760
<v Speaker 1>And I have always said this when I have gone

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:19.200
<v Speaker 1>through these dry spells of like not dating, not even

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 1>just the sex, but not dating. And it goes back

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:23.720
<v Speaker 1>to what you said, Laura, it's like the no drama.

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to use your brain to think of

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>anyone else, like you can prioritize yourself. You can be

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:30.960
<v Speaker 1>selfish and every decision you make can be about you.

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 1>It means you are going to be better at everything

0:32:33.320 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>that you do because you've got more energy to put

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 1>on yourself. That's exactly the excuse I use for Matt.

0:32:38.240 --> 0:32:39.480
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, I just like, we.

0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Can't have sex because I want to focus on creativity,

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:43.480
<v Speaker 2>focus on my creative outlets.

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean. Craig David has come out and said that

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:49.880
<v Speaker 1>he believes that the repeated one night stands that he

0:32:50.000 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 1>had at the height of his fame in his twenties

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 1>and thirties led to many different traumas and that is

0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:58.960
<v Speaker 1>why so he's Craig David is blaming his one night stands,

0:32:59.400 --> 0:33:01.400
<v Speaker 1>which probably came off the back of his song.

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:03.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you can't really blame you one night So

0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:05.840
<v Speaker 2>I think you've got to blame yourself in that moment.

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 3>You can't blame blame bad decision making is what it is.

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:11.560
<v Speaker 2>The Only part of this I think is like, I

0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:12.960
<v Speaker 2>don't know how I feel about it.

0:33:13.120 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I do know how I feel, but I

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 3>hate the way I feel.

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 2>So he has said that when he was sixteen years old,

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:21.480
<v Speaker 2>he went through a really bad breakup and that he

0:33:21.560 --> 0:33:23.720
<v Speaker 2>was completely in love with her. She broke his heart

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:27.400
<v Speaker 2>and then that was what set him off for like

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:31.080
<v Speaker 2>being terrible in relationships, basically his inability to commit, his

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:34.400
<v Speaker 2>inability to have healthy relationships. Now I know, and I'm

0:33:34.440 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 2>fully aware after doing this podcast for how long we've

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:38.040
<v Speaker 2>done it, how toxic this is.

0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:40.320
<v Speaker 3>But part of me hears him say that and go, oh,

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:42.760
<v Speaker 3>the poor thing. He's like a broken man.

0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 1>That needs love.

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:45.760
<v Speaker 2>And then the other part of me is like, oh

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:48.760
<v Speaker 2>my god, you are deflecting. You know, you're not taking

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:50.960
<v Speaker 2>any responsibility for the way you've treated people for the

0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 2>past like two decades. You're placing that blame on something

0:33:54.080 --> 0:33:55.800
<v Speaker 2>that happened to you when you're sixteen, which is crazy.

0:33:55.880 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>Well, he's yeah, he said that, the one night stands

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 1>and then not wanting to and like just have sex

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>like that. He blames that on the trauma of when

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 1>he was sixteen, the trauma of when he was sixteen.

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:09.240
<v Speaker 1>I just want to really get you guys to understand.

0:34:09.320 --> 0:34:13.279
<v Speaker 1>It was a two week whirlwind romance. It was two

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:16.479
<v Speaker 1>weeks when he was six No, you can't make that up. Okay,

0:34:16.480 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 1>it was two week world wind romance. He said he

0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:22.560
<v Speaker 1>never felt anything like that before, and my heart closed down.

0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Of course, you haven't felt anything like that before you're sixteen.

0:34:25.680 --> 0:34:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I love to be you know, a bit on both sides,

0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:30.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, like the what's the angel on one side

0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:32.080
<v Speaker 1>and the devil on the other of your shoulder? Like

0:34:32.120 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I like to look at Devil's Okay, fucking couldn't think

0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:38.680
<v Speaker 1>of that. Thank you, You're welcome, But there is. There's

0:34:39.000 --> 0:34:40.960
<v Speaker 1>most of me, eighty percent of meters laughing at this

0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:42.480
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, there's more at play here.

0:34:42.480 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 3>It's your whole life.

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.840
<v Speaker 1>Hasn't come down to a two week wall with romance

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:49.040
<v Speaker 1>when you were sixteen. But when I think back to

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:51.759
<v Speaker 1>when I was sixteen, I was dating this guy called Mitch.

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Use the term dating loosely because you're sixteen, Like you're

0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 1>at school. You write letters to each other and you

0:34:55.480 --> 0:34:58.279
<v Speaker 1>pass them over at lunchtime. Anyway, we were together for

0:34:58.320 --> 0:34:59.360
<v Speaker 1>an entire year.

0:35:01.120 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 3>Fifteen. I was fourteen to fifteen. I remember this shit.

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:07.120
<v Speaker 2>You can't remember a guy you dated in your twenties,

0:35:07.160 --> 0:35:09.080
<v Speaker 2>but you remember some dude you dated when you're fourteen.

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 1>This is my point, This is why I understand Craig David.

0:35:11.680 --> 0:35:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Everyone remembers that first love and the first heartbreak.

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 3>So I get what he's saying.

0:35:15.719 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>In that because when Mitch he broke up with me, Oh,

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Betty regrets that now, I'm joking.

0:35:20.680 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 3>He broke up with me and I thought I was

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 3>going to marry him.

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.919
<v Speaker 1>I remember being fifteen thinking like there were no love

0:35:27.120 --> 0:35:29.160
<v Speaker 1>like this, like this is my person because you know,

0:35:29.360 --> 0:35:31.000
<v Speaker 1>you used to talk to each other like that, like

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 1>he'd say the same thing to me, and you'd write

0:35:32.640 --> 0:35:36.520
<v Speaker 1>these gushy letters because you're just feeling these feelings for

0:35:36.560 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 1>the first time in your life. That's the age where

0:35:38.680 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you've never felt a love, like a romantic love, and

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you know you have your family love and all this

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 1>different stuff.

0:35:44.080 --> 0:35:47.799
<v Speaker 3>And when he broke up with me, I remember I.

0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Thought my life was over. And I remember saying to

0:35:49.600 --> 0:35:51.520
<v Speaker 1>my mom, I was balling my room and she came

0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:53.920
<v Speaker 1>in and she must have been trying not to laugh

0:35:53.960 --> 0:35:54.760
<v Speaker 1>as a mother.

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.400
<v Speaker 3>Like I know, I remember having exact same situations with

0:35:57.400 --> 0:35:59.319
<v Speaker 3>my mom, like not laugh at me because I'm upset.

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.200
<v Speaker 1>She was obviously there for me, but part of her

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 1>must have been like, wow, one day you'll laugh at yourself.

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:05.680
<v Speaker 1>Because I was like, I will never date again.

0:36:07.800 --> 0:36:07.920
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.319
<v Speaker 3>Wait, so Craig David actually did that.

0:36:10.560 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 2>He's not breaking at sixteen and then turned into a

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:15.240
<v Speaker 2>forty year old man who has never dated again.

0:36:15.400 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for fear of those feelings, which is wild. But

0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I remember saying I'll never find it. I said to mom,

0:36:19.960 --> 0:36:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I'll never find a love like Maddiganbatt and Mum was

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:23.600
<v Speaker 1>like you, I promise you.

0:36:23.640 --> 0:36:25.960
<v Speaker 3>I know you feel like that, but you will.

0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:28.480
<v Speaker 2>Well imagine if you were Craig David and your mum

0:36:28.520 --> 0:36:31.000
<v Speaker 2>had had that conversation with him, because he could turn

0:36:31.000 --> 0:36:33.479
<v Speaker 2>around as a forty two year old man and say, well, no, Mum,

0:36:33.680 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I did it.

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I told you I'm right and you're wrong. Yeah. But

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:39.800
<v Speaker 1>he also made millions of dollars from a song about

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 1>sex about hockey up.

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean not that we need to get into the

0:36:42.120 --> 0:36:44.239
<v Speaker 2>psychic of Craig David. No one really cares, but I

0:36:44.239 --> 0:36:46.719
<v Speaker 2>think we do care. I don't think that it has

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 2>anything to do with being a sixteen year old and

0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:50.239
<v Speaker 2>having his heart broken. I think it has to do

0:36:50.320 --> 0:36:54.319
<v Speaker 2>with becoming monumentally famous and being in a position of

0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:56.680
<v Speaker 2>power and having so much choice when it comes to

0:36:56.719 --> 0:36:59.319
<v Speaker 2>women and never having to settle because there's always going

0:36:59.360 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 2>to be this routesque they of women. And then he's

0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:03.480
<v Speaker 2>gotten to the ripe old age of forty and not

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:05.360
<v Speaker 2>that that's you know, not as all. But he's realized,

0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:08.000
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, my life is so vacuous. There's nothing

0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:10.840
<v Speaker 2>here that has meaning, there's nothing here that has purpose,

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:15.440
<v Speaker 2>and so much of my feelings of inadequacy or validation

0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:18.960
<v Speaker 2>all comes from this like rotating door of like very

0:37:18.960 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 2>temporary validation. All of my relationships are so superficial. I

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:24.760
<v Speaker 2>think like he's just had a literal midlife crisis around

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 2>the way he's behaved in the past twenty years.

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree, but I mean, like he said, I'm

0:37:29.080 --> 0:37:31.000
<v Speaker 1>just reading some more things, he said, But he said, like,

0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:33.319
<v Speaker 1>and it does that up. He said, Look, I've always

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:35.920
<v Speaker 1>kept women's at arm's length, and I do feel like

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 1>it's the rejection from years ago has become a defense

0:37:38.920 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 1>mechanism get over, which no, but there is something in that.

0:37:43.000 --> 0:37:44.799
<v Speaker 1>But I think the fact that he's sad on that

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:47.640
<v Speaker 1>for twenty five years is where the problem is. Like

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 1>we all have those feelings of when you're rejected, Sometimes

0:37:51.080 --> 0:37:53.880
<v Speaker 1>you decide you don't or a trauma happens to you

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:55.919
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship you're like, Okay, you know what I'm

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:57.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna because I did that for a long time, and

0:37:57.400 --> 0:37:59.360
<v Speaker 1>I think it was after my dating my ex with

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:01.799
<v Speaker 1>a double life. I was like, without knowing it, I

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm never gonna let anyone get close to

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:04.759
<v Speaker 1>me again because I don't want to go through that.

0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>But I didn't know that.

0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but also I get over that. I worked through that.

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:09.839
<v Speaker 2>This is what I say by I hate myself because

0:38:09.880 --> 0:38:11.120
<v Speaker 2>one part of me is like, oh my god, the

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:13.360
<v Speaker 2>brooken bird, fix them, And then the other part of me,

0:38:13.400 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 2>the more rational part, is like, you are a grown

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 2>man and you are blaming the way that you have

0:38:18.560 --> 0:38:21.880
<v Speaker 2>treated women for the past twenty years on one female

0:38:21.880 --> 0:38:22.360
<v Speaker 2>from when.

0:38:22.200 --> 0:38:22.880
<v Speaker 3>You were sixteen.

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:25.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you have categorized an entire gender and your

0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:28.759
<v Speaker 2>behavior towards that gender because of the way you got

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:29.439
<v Speaker 2>treated once.

0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 3>Like it's so I mean, it's so deeply wrong.

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:34.959
<v Speaker 2>But the real question here is do you think Craig

0:38:35.040 --> 0:38:36.200
<v Speaker 2>David keeps a list?

0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:39.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'd love to see the notes of his face.

0:38:39.680 --> 0:38:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I would love to hear the song on two Years

0:38:41.160 --> 0:38:43.600
<v Speaker 1>of No Sex, when he made his millions on a

0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 1>song about sex every day.

0:38:45.200 --> 0:38:46.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not sure it'll be as much of a

0:38:46.840 --> 0:38:47.640
<v Speaker 3>blockbuster though.

0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:53.359
<v Speaker 1>On Monday, we held hands hung Tuesday. But a fleck

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 1>is there is time for our acts.

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:03.120
<v Speaker 2>Cidentally unfiltered your most embarrassing stories.

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:04.360
<v Speaker 3>This is goody.

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:07.000
<v Speaker 2>I recently decided to treat myself and booked in for

0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:10.000
<v Speaker 2>a facial at a pretty well known place. Upon entering

0:39:10.000 --> 0:39:13.000
<v Speaker 2>the treatment room, I was instructed to remove any clothing

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:16.160
<v Speaker 2>above my waist and put this cape on a piece

0:39:16.160 --> 0:39:18.880
<v Speaker 2>of fabric that was folded neatly on the chair. Before

0:39:18.880 --> 0:39:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I had a chance to ask, the aesthetician had left

0:39:21.040 --> 0:39:23.160
<v Speaker 2>the room, so I stripped off my top and my

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 2>bra and I put the cape around my neck, did

0:39:25.320 --> 0:39:25.840
<v Speaker 2>up the ties.

0:39:26.320 --> 0:39:28.800
<v Speaker 3>I wore it just like a Superman cape over my back.

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 1>Ah ah why.

0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:34.960
<v Speaker 2>I held the two edges together at the front to

0:39:35.000 --> 0:39:37.239
<v Speaker 2>try and cover my chest a little bit. When the

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 2>asthetician returned, she muffled giggle and gently told me that

0:39:41.120 --> 0:39:43.760
<v Speaker 2>the cape needed to go around my arms and around

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:46.200
<v Speaker 2>my chest so they could massage my neck and shoulders.

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Standing there topless.

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:50.360
<v Speaker 2>I had to remove my cape and put it on

0:39:50.520 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 2>while she was still standing there watching. I have never

0:39:52.560 --> 0:39:55.400
<v Speaker 2>gone back, just imagining her there with her boobies out

0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:55.960
<v Speaker 2>in a capeon.

0:39:56.239 --> 0:39:57.959
<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I find weird.

0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:01.960
<v Speaker 1>This has made me think. I spoke to you guys

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 1>a couple weeks ag about how I started getting laser

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:06.760
<v Speaker 1>hair removal, so you need to get like six six times.

0:40:06.760 --> 0:40:10.960
<v Speaker 1>But I had my first one however, long ago.

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:13.160
<v Speaker 3>And I got full of the whole kickkerboodle, full legs.

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:16.879
<v Speaker 1>Ass crack, Brazilian under arms. Yeah. I just find it's

0:40:16.920 --> 0:40:18.480
<v Speaker 1>so weird because you know, when you go and get

0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:20.719
<v Speaker 1>a perhaps mere or you know, everything that I did

0:40:20.760 --> 0:40:23.279
<v Speaker 1>for fertility there, so it's very internal, like you're getting

0:40:23.280 --> 0:40:25.840
<v Speaker 1>so many internal ultrasounds, so many like poking and prodding.

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:28.600
<v Speaker 3>But every time you go in and you strip.

0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:31.279
<v Speaker 1>Off, you lay there, you always get something just to

0:40:31.360 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 1>lay over you for a bit of modesty, modesty, just

0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:34.960
<v Speaker 1>for that feeling.

0:40:35.440 --> 0:40:37.680
<v Speaker 3>They don't give you that at laser. She's like, take

0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 3>it off and lay down.

0:40:38.600 --> 0:40:41.200
<v Speaker 2>It's fake modesty though, like they're still looking at your

0:40:41.239 --> 0:40:43.000
<v Speaker 2>bum hole and you're just there with a towel over

0:40:43.040 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 2>your over the when.

0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:47.360
<v Speaker 3>You're laying there right, and then you're getting your legs lasered.

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Imagine if you could just have a little towel over

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:53.359
<v Speaker 1>your fanny, but you can't. I just laid there and

0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:55.520
<v Speaker 1>my whole vagina is out, and then she's like, legs

0:40:55.560 --> 0:40:58.239
<v Speaker 1>to the side. I'm just opening my legs up with

0:40:58.280 --> 0:41:00.800
<v Speaker 1>my vagina there. She's a realist. Then she like a

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:02.600
<v Speaker 1>towels just getting in the way. Got a job to do,

0:41:02.840 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 1>get it done. So then she's doing the back of

0:41:04.520 --> 0:41:06.640
<v Speaker 1>my legs and she's like, oh, so are you getting

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:08.839
<v Speaker 1>the Hollywood? And I was like, well, the Hollywood. She goes,

0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:09.680
<v Speaker 1>do you get the Hollywood?

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:11.719
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I don't understand what the Hollywood is.

0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:13.399
<v Speaker 1>She goes the Hollywood and I was like, do.

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:14.320
<v Speaker 3>You mean my butthole?

0:41:14.400 --> 0:41:15.960
<v Speaker 1>And she goes yeah, and I was like, yeah, do

0:41:16.000 --> 0:41:18.200
<v Speaker 1>my butthole. I was like, why I just call a butthole.

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what, it's a Hollywood. I don't know

0:41:20.040 --> 0:41:23.720
<v Speaker 1>what Hollywood is anyway, the whole Hollywood. It's the whole

0:41:23.840 --> 0:41:24.320
<v Speaker 1>e Wood.

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:26.839
<v Speaker 3>But I'm like, just give me a little modesty towel

0:41:26.840 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 3>because I felt very exposed. I think that it's depended

0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:29.799
<v Speaker 3>on the place that you go to.

0:41:29.840 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 2>I think that some places would give you a little

0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:34.960
<v Speaker 2>modesty handtowl unnecessary because they're literally going to look from

0:41:35.000 --> 0:41:36.799
<v Speaker 2>the front to the back and all through the crack.

0:41:37.160 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 1>But it's nice to have. I feel like there's a

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 1>song in that.

0:41:39.560 --> 0:41:43.400
<v Speaker 3>It's the back and all the way through your crack.

0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we lost it.

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I haven't been and I need to go back

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:51.960
<v Speaker 2>because I would like to get all of that sorted.

0:41:52.239 --> 0:41:53.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe you can get it at the same time

0:41:53.920 --> 0:41:55.720
<v Speaker 3>as your laby plasty. Great.

0:41:56.360 --> 0:41:57.960
<v Speaker 2>I'll be out for that, so then I won't know.

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Like a shaven snip and you wake up and you're

0:42:00.520 --> 0:42:03.640
<v Speaker 2>totally bored. You literally wake up, you look sixteen again.

0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 2>That's my plan, so.

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Tight and come back and hairless. I like the hairless cat.

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:10.560
<v Speaker 1>What is this my prey vest vagina?

0:42:10.600 --> 0:42:13.640
<v Speaker 3>Actually back the sphinx, my little sphinx can't know because

0:42:13.640 --> 0:42:17.840
<v Speaker 3>they're ring someone's sexlessest the sphinx.

0:42:20.960 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Someone somewhere when you was that.

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:24.919
<v Speaker 2>No, they certainly haven't any time soon, that's for sure.

0:42:24.920 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 2>What would Matt write me as it's the celiban lop sided?

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:34.959
<v Speaker 1>Probably at the moment, side one side heavy, elongated too much?

0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:38.239
<v Speaker 1>Can you actually, boppy? Can we do this? Can we?

0:42:38.400 --> 0:42:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I would like the three of us to go home,

0:42:40.600 --> 0:42:44.280
<v Speaker 1>Keisha produced you're included. Ask our respective partners what offensive

0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:46.160
<v Speaker 1>thing they would put us in there? Not offensive. But

0:42:46.280 --> 0:42:47.960
<v Speaker 1>how would you if you had ever hooked up with

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:50.040
<v Speaker 1>us on the first night or whatever? What would we

0:42:50.160 --> 0:42:51.200
<v Speaker 1>be in the sexless as?

0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 2>So Ben actually asked me last night that would be

0:42:53.719 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 2>six pack that put him in He's just got the

0:42:57.600 --> 0:43:01.560
<v Speaker 2>It's like it is obs how good his six pack is.

0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:04.040
<v Speaker 1>It's like it's drawn on. It's obscene.

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:06.520
<v Speaker 3>I feel like there's no comment I can make here

0:43:06.560 --> 0:43:10.719
<v Speaker 3>that won't get me in trouble. I have not seen

0:43:10.760 --> 0:43:12.840
<v Speaker 3>his six pack is what I will go. It's absolutely

0:43:12.840 --> 0:43:14.840
<v Speaker 3>it's stupid. It's beyond stupid.

0:43:14.920 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 1>I would put Ben as off the top of my head.

0:43:16.640 --> 0:43:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I would say movie movie, well, the guy from the

0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:22.799
<v Speaker 1>Full Guy or You're my band. Because the sex on

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:24.840
<v Speaker 1>the first night was like something out of a movie.

0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was leaving out my movie dreams.

0:43:27.080 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 1>You know, sex in movies isn't real sex. You know

0:43:29.320 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 1>that they pick you up around there you're against the

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:33.200
<v Speaker 1>wall and it's passionate, and then they flip you around

0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:37.120
<v Speaker 1>and it's like what happened after that? He hollywooded men.

0:43:38.360 --> 0:43:40.160
<v Speaker 1>It was just amazing. It was just amazing sex. But

0:43:40.200 --> 0:43:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I always think of that first night and I remember

0:43:42.120 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>telling you guys, saying like I think I told you, Laura.

0:43:44.560 --> 0:43:45.840
<v Speaker 1>I think I said I was like the sex was

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:47.359
<v Speaker 1>like a movie because I thought I was never gonna

0:43:47.360 --> 0:43:48.200
<v Speaker 1>see this guy again.

0:43:48.600 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 3>All right, we need to stop complimenting our partners.

0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:53.480
<v Speaker 1>No, I want you to ask your partners what they'd

0:43:53.520 --> 0:43:54.080
<v Speaker 1>put you as.

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:57.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be insulted. Doon't be insulted. Do

0:43:57.640 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 2>you also be smoke show hot case? Do you think

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:03.080
<v Speaker 2>yours would be insulted? I think I know what mine

0:44:03.080 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 2>would be.

0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:05.919
<v Speaker 5>I think it would be so on our first day,

0:44:07.320 --> 0:44:09.960
<v Speaker 5>we were at this really nice restaurant and my boyfriend

0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:12.359
<v Speaker 5>really likes wine. He's like a full wine person and

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 5>you know, enjoys that I don't. I don't even drink wine.

0:44:15.719 --> 0:44:17.920
<v Speaker 5>So he was ordering this really fancy wine, and I

0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:20.400
<v Speaker 5>the girl from Newcastle who you can take out of

0:44:20.480 --> 0:44:22.319
<v Speaker 5>NEWI but you cannot take the desires.

0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I was ordering absence spritzers.

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:26.360
<v Speaker 3>What the fuck is an absence?

0:44:26.400 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay though an as absinthe the like, why were you

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:32.759
<v Speaker 2>drinking absinth on a first day?

0:44:32.840 --> 0:44:35.800
<v Speaker 1>And what restaurant still serves as sheu bet in Sydney.

0:44:35.920 --> 0:44:38.640
<v Speaker 3>Really nice restaurant, quite fancy because cabsinth.

0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I love it. I love the taste of absinthe. I

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:42.359
<v Speaker 1>think it's so good.

0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:44.839
<v Speaker 5>Anyway, they make these spritzers, they still do, had one

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:45.839
<v Speaker 5>like last week there.

0:44:45.960 --> 0:44:47.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like having a meth spritzer.

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:50.440
<v Speaker 5>I don't know if it's as strong in Australia. I

0:44:50.520 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 5>think it must not be. I don't think you could

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:55.080
<v Speaker 5>get an alcoholage seventy percent. But anyway, that's what he

0:44:55.120 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 5>would have put me in his phone as if we

0:44:57.120 --> 0:44:58.839
<v Speaker 5>had have only had a one night step I think

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:02.320
<v Speaker 5>absent girl, do you reckon?

0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:03.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:05.400
<v Speaker 5>Okay, we brought it up heap since and I'm like,

0:45:05.400 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 5>I'm actually surprised you took me on a second date

0:45:07.320 --> 0:45:09.800
<v Speaker 5>because it's so bogan about you.

0:45:10.719 --> 0:45:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't bad, I didn't have too many. I had

0:45:13.040 --> 0:45:15.759
<v Speaker 1>a couple, but like you know, chirpy, I thought you

0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:17.160
<v Speaker 1>were going to say he was going to call you spritzer,

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, that could be pretty good.

0:45:18.520 --> 0:45:19.319
<v Speaker 3>That could go either way.

0:45:19.440 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 2>The spritzer either that is such an aggressive drink for

0:45:22.000 --> 0:45:24.239
<v Speaker 2>a first date. I am impressed and scared of you.

0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:25.840
<v Speaker 2>If I went on a date with a guy and

0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:29.960
<v Speaker 2>he started drinking absent, I'd be like I'm calling a taxi.

0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:32.760
<v Speaker 2>I's like this guy needs therapy, she's had some trauma.

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:34.759
<v Speaker 2>Probably no, but this is good. I think it was

0:45:34.800 --> 0:45:37.080
<v Speaker 2>good for you, Laura, broken bird. You would have assumed

0:45:37.080 --> 0:45:37.960
<v Speaker 2>that I had problems.

0:45:37.960 --> 0:45:40.799
<v Speaker 3>I was like, Oh, I'll date, I'll marry her. I

0:45:40.800 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 3>can fix her.

0:45:41.880 --> 0:45:44.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that this is good and I genuinely want

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 1>you to do this. I want you to think about

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:48.360
<v Speaker 1>now what you think they we know your skisha. You

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:51.799
<v Speaker 1>think he'd say, yeah, absentthe girl. But now go and

0:45:51.880 --> 0:45:53.799
<v Speaker 1>ask what he would and tell us on Thursday, because

0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I genuinely want to know if what you think they

0:45:55.719 --> 0:45:56.640
<v Speaker 1>think of you is what.

0:45:56.560 --> 0:45:58.840
<v Speaker 2>They would have a right I'll ask Matt Yeah, what

0:45:58.920 --> 0:46:00.399
<v Speaker 2>I would be in his sex list when he.

0:46:00.360 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 3>First after it?

0:46:01.040 --> 0:46:03.080
<v Speaker 1>No, after just meeting, not now, because you don't even

0:46:03.120 --> 0:46:06.720
<v Speaker 1>make the sex list. Now you're not on the list

0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 1>and he doesn't have a list. He doesn't have a list.

0:46:09.280 --> 0:46:12.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, it was virgin when we met.

0:46:11.520 --> 0:46:15.680
<v Speaker 1>You want to share it? Okay, my accent unfiltered.

0:46:16.080 --> 0:46:18.040
<v Speaker 3>Now this has come off the back of producer.

0:46:18.080 --> 0:46:20.480
<v Speaker 1>Keisha was telling her an accientally unfiltered about her friend

0:46:20.520 --> 0:46:23.080
<v Speaker 1>who mistook lube a couple of weeks ago. So this

0:46:23.120 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 1>has come off the back of that, my husband and

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I were in Vegas. We decided to go to a

0:46:27.040 --> 0:46:30.240
<v Speaker 1>sex club. We walked around, went into all the different rooms,

0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:33.000
<v Speaker 1>spoke to some different people, and started getting hot and

0:46:33.080 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 1>heavy in the main room.

0:46:34.880 --> 0:46:37.600
<v Speaker 3>I love this. There were people all around us also

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:38.160
<v Speaker 3>having sex.

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:40.880
<v Speaker 1>It was a vibe. I asked my husband to go

0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:43.239
<v Speaker 1>and get some lube, which was conveniently in the same

0:46:43.320 --> 0:46:45.720
<v Speaker 1>room I guess it was the main room. He brought

0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:48.360
<v Speaker 1>it over to me, squirted two pumps into my hand,

0:46:48.440 --> 0:46:51.880
<v Speaker 1>which I directly placed onto my vagina, only to realize

0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:53.800
<v Speaker 1>that this was in fact not lube, but it was

0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:57.080
<v Speaker 1>hand sanitizer. The pain and the burning in the middle

0:46:57.120 --> 0:46:59.280
<v Speaker 1>of his sex room. We both ran to the bathroom,

0:46:59.280 --> 0:47:01.439
<v Speaker 1>where I attempted to wipe it off with paper and water.

0:47:02.320 --> 0:47:02.919
<v Speaker 3>Sex was over.

0:47:03.880 --> 0:47:06.799
<v Speaker 2>It really does scream You've not done this before, doesn't it.

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:09.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, tell me you've never been to a sex club

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:11.600
<v Speaker 3>without telling me you've never been to a sex club anyways.

0:47:11.600 --> 0:47:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Look, guys, if you've got an accident, un filtered slide

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:16.160
<v Speaker 2>in suckond sweets for the week, Brittany, what is your suck?

0:47:16.360 --> 0:47:18.960
<v Speaker 1>My suck this week is if you guys follow me

0:47:18.960 --> 0:47:21.040
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram you would have seen. But Delilah, love of

0:47:21.040 --> 0:47:23.080
<v Speaker 1>my life, the best dog in the whole universe. She

0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:27.120
<v Speaker 1>was unwell this weekend, like really unwell, to the point

0:47:27.160 --> 0:47:28.640
<v Speaker 1>that I took her to the vet, which I never do,

0:47:28.760 --> 0:47:31.360
<v Speaker 1>like usually if a dog is sick, Like if a

0:47:31.400 --> 0:47:33.279
<v Speaker 1>dog does one vomit, it's not the end of the world.

0:47:33.280 --> 0:47:35.240
<v Speaker 3>You're like, oh, I must have an upset tummy.

0:47:35.280 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Whatever. Anyway, she vomited so much over a fifteen hour period,

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:44.640
<v Speaker 1>like probably five big vomits and yeah, and she was

0:47:44.680 --> 0:47:46.520
<v Speaker 1>like really moping around. I was like, something's not right.

0:47:46.560 --> 0:47:48.239
<v Speaker 3>So I took it to the bet just to check

0:47:48.280 --> 0:47:49.040
<v Speaker 3>her out and make sure.

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:53.480
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, cost me a bomb, which is fine because that's

0:47:53.480 --> 0:47:55.040
<v Speaker 1>what to do it, but that's what they do, right.

0:47:55.040 --> 0:47:57.640
<v Speaker 1>They checked her, They did it, but she did not

0:47:57.760 --> 0:47:59.319
<v Speaker 1>like that. Put the temperare in a button man. She

0:47:59.360 --> 0:48:00.480
<v Speaker 1>did not like. I was.

0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:02.000
<v Speaker 3>I felt horrible. I was trying to pin it down

0:48:02.000 --> 0:48:03.200
<v Speaker 3>and she was trying to get away.

0:48:03.400 --> 0:48:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Anyway. They gave anti nouseer injections and all this stuff,

0:48:06.080 --> 0:48:08.680
<v Speaker 1>but it was about four four fifty, which is nothing

0:48:08.760 --> 0:48:11.160
<v Speaker 1>for her health. Anyway. The second we walked out the door,

0:48:11.280 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 1>the second we walked out the door of the event.

0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:17.440
<v Speaker 3>It was like it was New Year's Eve. She was like, whoa.

0:48:17.520 --> 0:48:20.280
<v Speaker 2>She was absolutely fine, not one other bit of sickness.

0:48:20.440 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 2>She probably needed the anti nausea injections though, but it wouldn't have.

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 1>Kicked in yet.

0:48:23.880 --> 0:48:25.839
<v Speaker 3>They literally gave it to her. She walked out the door,

0:48:25.920 --> 0:48:26.319
<v Speaker 3>and I was.

0:48:26.280 --> 0:48:28.759
<v Speaker 1>Like, what what's happening? I was like, why are you?

0:48:28.800 --> 0:48:29.680
<v Speaker 3>Why are you fine?

0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Now? After Mum's just paid?

0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:34.520
<v Speaker 3>Just needed something stuck around, she just needed something. Well,

0:48:34.600 --> 0:48:35.279
<v Speaker 3>she's only human.

0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:36.000
<v Speaker 1>She's not human.

0:48:36.000 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 3>She's a dog, all right, And what is your sweet?

0:48:39.160 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 3>My sweet for the weekend is?

0:48:40.960 --> 0:48:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I had one of the best meals of my life

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 1>at this new restaurant that I went to with some friends.

0:48:46.640 --> 0:48:50.680
<v Speaker 1>The meal in question was a mushroom dish. Literally, it

0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:52.880
<v Speaker 1>was a vegetable mushroom is not my I wouldn't have

0:48:53.000 --> 0:48:55.160
<v Speaker 1>ordered it, but it was a share plate. It was

0:48:55.200 --> 0:48:57.279
<v Speaker 1>the best thing I have ever eaten. Again. I don't

0:48:57.320 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 1>know if this goes back to post jungle where I'm

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:00.680
<v Speaker 1>like appreciating food.

0:49:00.440 --> 0:49:02.439
<v Speaker 3>Like the taste buds are all highened now. I don't

0:49:02.480 --> 0:49:04.839
<v Speaker 3>know what it is, but it was the most I

0:49:04.880 --> 0:49:07.359
<v Speaker 3>was like, how is a mushroom dish the most that's

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 3>hats off to the chef.

0:49:08.280 --> 0:49:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Right. It's a new Mary Veil if anyone wants to know.

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 1>It's a Merry Vale restaurant in Sydney that's just opened

0:49:12.640 --> 0:49:15.279
<v Speaker 1>up called good Luck in credible of it. I had

0:49:15.320 --> 0:49:17.400
<v Speaker 1>not heard of it either until it was booked. But anyway,

0:49:17.440 --> 0:49:20.480
<v Speaker 1>that was my recommendation. So my suck for the week

0:49:20.680 --> 0:49:23.680
<v Speaker 1>is actually also very animal and dog related. So Buster

0:49:24.280 --> 0:49:26.360
<v Speaker 1>had this little cyst on his back. It's been so

0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:27.920
<v Speaker 1>it's been there for like a month. Anyway, took him

0:49:27.920 --> 0:49:30.480
<v Speaker 1>to a month ago. They were like, m fine, it'll

0:49:30.480 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>probably just go away.

0:49:32.040 --> 0:49:34.840
<v Speaker 2>And then it was getting progressively worse but quite fast,

0:49:34.960 --> 0:49:36.799
<v Speaker 2>and we took him back and he needed to have

0:49:36.840 --> 0:49:39.440
<v Speaker 2>it operated on. And I'm talking like a little cys

0:49:39.440 --> 0:49:42.640
<v Speaker 2>like I'm talking like think like a fingernail, like a

0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:44.279
<v Speaker 2>little pinky fingernail.

0:49:43.800 --> 0:49:46.359
<v Speaker 1>Like those little lumps you can sometimes feel under dog skin. Yeah,

0:49:46.360 --> 0:49:46.600
<v Speaker 1>it was.

0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:48.560
<v Speaker 2>It was obvious though, like you could see it. It

0:49:48.640 --> 0:49:50.319
<v Speaker 2>was coming up to the surface of the skin, so

0:49:50.320 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 2>it looked like a big pimple. But it was like

0:49:52.160 --> 0:49:54.360
<v Speaker 2>like the size of like a little fingernail. Anyway, we

0:49:54.400 --> 0:49:55.840
<v Speaker 2>took him in and we left him there in the

0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:57.600
<v Speaker 2>morning and they were like, yeah, he'll probably come out

0:49:57.600 --> 0:49:59.640
<v Speaker 2>with like a four centimeter cut because we have to

0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:02.759
<v Speaker 2>cut extract it. And I missed because we were at

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:04.279
<v Speaker 2>work and I missed the phone call from the vet.

0:50:04.320 --> 0:50:06.360
<v Speaker 2>They obviously went in to extract it and realized it

0:50:06.360 --> 0:50:07.719
<v Speaker 2>was bigger than what they thought it was going to be,

0:50:08.160 --> 0:50:09.920
<v Speaker 2>and when I went to go and pick him up,

0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:12.000
<v Speaker 2>they were like, look, we're just warning you. The cut

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:14.239
<v Speaker 2>is a lot bigger than what we expected that it

0:50:14.280 --> 0:50:16.800
<v Speaker 2>was going to be. He came out and I burst

0:50:16.800 --> 0:50:19.600
<v Speaker 2>out crying. He had like a twenty five centimeter cut,

0:50:20.080 --> 0:50:21.120
<v Speaker 2>which I mean, he.

0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Already looks like he's beating the walls. Poor guy's got

0:50:23.239 --> 0:50:23.719
<v Speaker 1>three legs.

0:50:23.719 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 2>And then he came out with this massive cut on

0:50:25.200 --> 0:50:27.520
<v Speaker 2>the other side of his shoulder, and basically it was like,

0:50:27.600 --> 0:50:29.040
<v Speaker 2>this is not cancer, as they went and tested and

0:50:29.080 --> 0:50:31.400
<v Speaker 2>everything else, but it was this big like growth that

0:50:31.440 --> 0:50:34.040
<v Speaker 2>had happened, and all the growth was underneath the skin,

0:50:34.200 --> 0:50:35.880
<v Speaker 2>so there was a little tiny bit on top of

0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:37.759
<v Speaker 2>a Yeah, so they've taken it all out.

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:40.120
<v Speaker 3>So like he's doing heaps well. He's doing heaps well.

0:50:43.680 --> 0:50:44.880
<v Speaker 1>He's doing really.

0:50:44.640 --> 0:50:47.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, but he's been super MOPy this week as well,

0:50:47.280 --> 0:50:50.560
<v Speaker 2>because obviously it's painful. It's really tricky because because Buster

0:50:50.640 --> 0:50:52.600
<v Speaker 2>only has three legs, they won't put a cone on

0:50:52.680 --> 0:50:55.319
<v Speaker 2>him because it really impedes their mobility, makes them fall

0:50:55.360 --> 0:50:58.799
<v Speaker 2>over and stuff and their balance. And so now it's

0:50:58.840 --> 0:51:01.160
<v Speaker 2>this struggling act because he keeps trying to scratch it

0:51:01.200 --> 0:51:03.719
<v Speaker 2>and so he's like really doing damage to his skin.

0:51:03.880 --> 0:51:06.799
<v Speaker 2>It's just it sucks. It's so it's so sad having

0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:08.719
<v Speaker 2>an animal that you can tell is like uncomfortable and

0:51:08.760 --> 0:51:11.040
<v Speaker 2>in pain. But it was good news. They got it

0:51:11.080 --> 0:51:13.239
<v Speaker 2>out and we're are like five days out from the

0:51:13.280 --> 0:51:17.000
<v Speaker 2>operation now, so he's getting better. A little baby sweet

0:51:17.280 --> 0:51:19.600
<v Speaker 2>and my sweet for the week is one of those

0:51:20.360 --> 0:51:24.520
<v Speaker 2>saraendipitous unplanned afternoons that just turn into like such a

0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:28.680
<v Speaker 2>fun and beautiful evenings, spicy margarina evening. Yeah, so on Saturday,

0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:31.000
<v Speaker 2>we have we have some good friends. You guys might

0:51:31.000 --> 0:51:33.000
<v Speaker 2>remember from million years ago how I talked about like

0:51:33.040 --> 0:51:34.960
<v Speaker 2>the friends that we made from the park and how

0:51:34.960 --> 0:51:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like, when you're an adult, it's so hard

0:51:36.600 --> 0:51:39.319
<v Speaker 2>to make new friends are park friends, and then Matt

0:51:39.480 --> 0:51:41.720
<v Speaker 2>stalk them on LinkedIn and we became friends with his family.

0:51:41.960 --> 0:51:42.880
<v Speaker 1>So weird.

0:51:42.960 --> 0:51:43.759
<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's so weird.

0:51:43.760 --> 0:51:45.360
<v Speaker 1>We know, we know it's weird because normally if you

0:51:45.400 --> 0:51:46.560
<v Speaker 1>meet someone at the park and then you go and

0:51:46.600 --> 0:51:48.520
<v Speaker 1>stalk them on LinkedIn, it's an issue. It doesn't turn

0:51:48.520 --> 0:51:48.799
<v Speaker 1>out well.

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:50.959
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, we found them on LinkedIn, we then became

0:51:50.960 --> 0:51:52.960
<v Speaker 2>friends with them. They have kids the same age as

0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:55.440
<v Speaker 2>our kids. We now had like a little posse of

0:51:55.520 --> 0:51:58.279
<v Speaker 2>random friends. So like two of their friends who like

0:51:58.320 --> 0:52:00.360
<v Speaker 2>mutually knew Matt from Brisbane. It turned out that we

0:52:00.400 --> 0:52:02.759
<v Speaker 2>had some mutual friends. The six of us now hang

0:52:02.800 --> 0:52:04.440
<v Speaker 2>out with our kids because we've all got kids the

0:52:04.440 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 2>same age. And we went over to the house on

0:52:06.640 --> 0:52:08.319
<v Speaker 2>Saturday and it was meant to just be like a

0:52:08.360 --> 0:52:12.320
<v Speaker 2>little afternoon have a wine drive home. We are nitty

0:52:12.719 --> 0:52:15.400
<v Speaker 2>fucking lidty and blitzed on Margarita's ordered pizzas.

0:52:15.400 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 1>It was like eight o'clock. The kids are like mom moa.

0:52:18.520 --> 0:52:20.920
<v Speaker 3>We got blitzed. It was huge eight pm. We were

0:52:20.960 --> 0:52:22.759
<v Speaker 3>selling pizza.

0:52:23.080 --> 0:52:25.440
<v Speaker 2>You know, it's a bit that eight pm home time

0:52:25.480 --> 0:52:27.839
<v Speaker 2>when you've got a three year old, that is like insanity.

0:52:27.880 --> 0:52:29.759
<v Speaker 2>So anyway, we had a really nice night just It

0:52:29.760 --> 0:52:33.200
<v Speaker 2>was one of those evenings where it was completely unplanned.

0:52:33.200 --> 0:52:34.800
<v Speaker 2>We thought it was going to be a Helen Earth days.

0:52:34.840 --> 0:52:37.200
<v Speaker 2>I'd been raining kids inside, but it actually was just great.

0:52:37.239 --> 0:52:38.880
<v Speaker 2>And it's so nice when you're an adult and you're like, oh,

0:52:38.920 --> 0:52:40.719
<v Speaker 2>I found a little We've got a little group of

0:52:40.719 --> 0:52:43.040
<v Speaker 2>friends now whose kids are the same age, and like

0:52:43.080 --> 0:52:44.640
<v Speaker 2>we all like the same things, and.

0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was it was really nice. Oh I love

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:49.239
<v Speaker 1>that I haven't really made adult friends. I mean, I

0:52:49.320 --> 0:52:51.239
<v Speaker 1>made adult friends in the jungle, but you guys are

0:52:51.280 --> 0:52:52.560
<v Speaker 1>the only adult friends I've made.

0:52:52.400 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 3>I know, well, apart from them.

0:52:54.880 --> 0:52:57.640
<v Speaker 1>Tisha, why are you rolling your eyes? No one makes

0:52:57.640 --> 0:52:59.399
<v Speaker 1>adult friends like Keisha makes adult friends.

0:52:59.440 --> 0:53:01.839
<v Speaker 3>I've never experienced it. Keisha is a friend queen.

0:53:02.000 --> 0:53:03.480
<v Speaker 1>She'll go for a walk to come back, she goes, oh,

0:53:03.480 --> 0:53:04.759
<v Speaker 1>I met some people to name's going to go on

0:53:04.760 --> 0:53:05.520
<v Speaker 1>a holiday with them.

0:53:08.120 --> 0:53:11.200
<v Speaker 2>This is a testament of like, not it's just how

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:13.239
<v Speaker 2>friendly you are, Kisha, but also how do you have

0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 2>time for all the friends.

0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:18.520
<v Speaker 5>I'm realizing that the key to my success is to

0:53:18.520 --> 0:53:21.480
<v Speaker 5>do group hangouts, because then it's like it ticks off

0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:23.120
<v Speaker 5>the box of catching up with everyone.

0:53:23.200 --> 0:53:24.759
<v Speaker 1>But you don't have to do like individual things.

0:53:24.800 --> 0:53:27.000
<v Speaker 5>I think as I'm getting older, I'm becoming more introverted,

0:53:27.040 --> 0:53:28.840
<v Speaker 5>maybe since it's because I'm medicated.

0:53:28.440 --> 0:53:30.200
<v Speaker 1>But how does that happen? Though?

0:53:30.200 --> 0:53:32.480
<v Speaker 3>When all your friends are from like different groups.

0:53:32.719 --> 0:53:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I think it's more.

0:53:33.320 --> 0:53:35.960
<v Speaker 5>So that if I find someone that like I have

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:39.279
<v Speaker 5>a common interest with, I know that my existing group

0:53:39.360 --> 0:53:41.920
<v Speaker 5>of friends are going to have things in common with

0:53:41.960 --> 0:53:44.640
<v Speaker 5>them too. And also, I've moved to so many different

0:53:44.680 --> 0:53:47.359
<v Speaker 5>cities that I've been the friend who hasn't got any

0:53:47.360 --> 0:53:47.920
<v Speaker 5>friends in that.

0:53:47.920 --> 0:53:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Place a lot. So I really like I like to

0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:51.320
<v Speaker 1>be now.

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:54.360
<v Speaker 5>That kind of connection point for other people, because you know,

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<v Speaker 5>when you move around and you've got to re establish

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<v Speaker 5>yourself and you don't know anyone, and it's really fucking

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<v Speaker 5>hard as an ad to make friends and you don't

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<v Speaker 5>have those people. And often because I was single when

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<v Speaker 5>I moved to those places, I was not in relationships

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<v Speaker 5>for almost all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I had to kind of start from zeros.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's also so hard because most people who have

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<v Speaker 2>been in a place for a really long time, like

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<v Speaker 2>you and I, brew like we've got our group of friends,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and that's what people are so close to

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<v Speaker 2>making new friends, which is what makes it so hard

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<v Speaker 2>for other people to kind of be like, hey, can

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<v Speaker 2>we be mates.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll find you on LinkedIn. I do think I do

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<v Speaker 1>think it is a personality type though, because I have

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<v Speaker 1>been the person has moved to many cities around the

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<v Speaker 1>world and knows no one. And I'm okay with it

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<v Speaker 1>because my personality type doesn't need it. I only need

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<v Speaker 1>one or two. Genuinely, I only need a few people

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<v Speaker 1>to fill my cup. I'm that person that would have

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<v Speaker 1>five really good friends and I don't need acquaintances. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want people to take that the wrong way

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not because I have a lot of acquaintances

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<v Speaker 1>that I love, but I don't. Some people need to

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<v Speaker 1>seek those friendships because it's what they need in their life,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't. I just don't find I need that.

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<v Speaker 1>Call me crazy dog lady. I can go hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with Delilah on a weekend, me and my dog walking around,

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<v Speaker 1>going to a cafe, going to copies, and I'm fine

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<v Speaker 1>with that. Like I'm genuinely I don't get to the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the weekend. Sometimes I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't speak to another human. That's probably bad. I should,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think I need the same thing as

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<v Speaker 1>other super social people need. I remember when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed doctor Ali Walker.

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<v Speaker 5>She wrote the book on what's it called click or Clash,

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<v Speaker 5>and she wrote about frequency and intensity of connection.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think I learned so much from that book.

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely love it. And I think I've got a

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<v Speaker 1>higher frequency than what you do, yeah, one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Whereas laws, I think you have quite a high frequency.

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<v Speaker 5>But you're constantly surrounded by people because you've got kids

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<v Speaker 5>and you've got a husband, do you know what I mean. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're in Tony May, you're around people the whole day.

0:55:43.360 --> 0:55:46.280
<v Speaker 5>If you're here, you're around us. Then you got to radio.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you know, you're around people a lot, so you

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<v Speaker 5>probably don't feel the need to have it in your

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<v Speaker 5>actual like time off as much. Yeah, so I think

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<v Speaker 5>that maybe you kind of fill that cup in other ways.

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<v Speaker 5>But I do think if you're the type of person

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<v Speaker 5>who has the ability and like I don't have kids,

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<v Speaker 5>I work from.

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<v Speaker 1>Home, I think five you know, I'm only in the

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<v Speaker 1>office two days a week.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you're a type of person who is like

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<v Speaker 5>that and has friends and you know, people who have

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<v Speaker 5>moved to where you are.

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<v Speaker 3>Bring them into the fold.

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<v Speaker 1>They probably need it.

0:56:14.239 --> 0:56:16.040
<v Speaker 3>Laura's like, wow, guys, my sweet ones that I hung

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<v Speaker 3>out with some people.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we're unpacking the psychology my friendships.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we do. Hear a Life on cut anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>That is it from us, guys. Please send you accidently

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<v Speaker 1>on filters into lifeun Cup podcast on Instagram, or you

0:56:27.040 --> 0:56:29.799
<v Speaker 1>ask on cards any juicy details that you want and

0:56:29.880 --> 0:56:33.080
<v Speaker 1>don't forget if you are somebody that has been following

0:56:33.120 --> 0:56:35.000
<v Speaker 1>along the podcast for a while but you might not

0:56:35.080 --> 0:56:37.839
<v Speaker 1>yet be in our Facebook discussion group that is Life

0:56:37.880 --> 0:56:41.160
<v Speaker 1>on Discussion group on Facebook. Pretty self explanatory, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's so good. It is so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>You can jump in there and post your sex list. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>we have a great interview coming out tomorrow with Lauren Wassa.

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<v Speaker 2>Now Lauren, we interviewed her just before Britt went away

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<v Speaker 2>into the Jungle, and it's an interview we've been sitting

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<v Speaker 2>on for a little while, but it is fucking amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>She suffered from toxic shock syndrome, which I know most

0:56:58.840 --> 0:57:01.640
<v Speaker 2>women have heard of but probably have never spoken to

0:57:01.840 --> 0:57:04.080
<v Speaker 2>or heard from somebody who's actually lived through it, and

0:57:04.120 --> 0:57:06.759
<v Speaker 2>that's because the rate of survival is so low. It

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<v Speaker 2>is this illness that we've all been told about that

0:57:09.600 --> 0:57:12.960
<v Speaker 2>pertains to periods and the use of tampons, but most

0:57:12.960 --> 0:57:14.800
<v Speaker 2>of us as women know so little about.

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<v Speaker 1>And I realized I knew it a little about it.

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<v Speaker 1>When Lauren was explaining some of the misconceptions around toxic

0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:24.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm guilty of that misconception.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think it's truly an episode that every

0:57:26.280 --> 0:57:28.640
<v Speaker 2>single woman should be listening to. If you get a period,

0:57:28.720 --> 0:57:31.680
<v Speaker 2>you should absolutely be listening to this episode tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't even think it's just misconceptions. I actually think

0:57:35.000 --> 0:57:38.120
<v Speaker 5>that we've been educated with misinformation. I think we've all

0:57:38.200 --> 0:57:40.080
<v Speaker 5>had this idea of eight hours. You can only have

0:57:40.120 --> 0:57:42.640
<v Speaker 5>a tampon in for eight hours and after that you're

0:57:42.680 --> 0:57:45.080
<v Speaker 5>at risk of toxic shock. That's not the case, and

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<v Speaker 5>that was the thing that I was like, Oh shit,

0:57:46.920 --> 0:57:49.280
<v Speaker 5>I didn't know that. You know, Lauren told her story

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<v Speaker 5>and she went by the rules of what's on the.

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<v Speaker 3>Back of the packet.

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<v Speaker 5>So this episode really has changed my reach for feminine

0:57:57.800 --> 0:58:00.360
<v Speaker 5>hygiene products, and I think I've been making some really

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<v Speaker 5>big changes because of it.

0:58:01.520 --> 0:58:02.800
<v Speaker 3>So I think everyone would be.

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<v Speaker 5>Really really interested if you, like Laura said, if you mentionuate,

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<v Speaker 5>or even if you have a daughter who is about

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<v Speaker 5>to be in that phase of her life.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's really important And just a reminder, we

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<v Speaker 1>have a YouTube channel now so you can actually watch

0:58:16.600 --> 0:58:19.120
<v Speaker 1>these interviews, which is amazing. It was a long time coming,

0:58:19.440 --> 0:58:21.800
<v Speaker 1>but it's again. Just go on to YouTube Life Punk

0:58:21.800 --> 0:58:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Cup Podcast. We put the links in the show notes.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's really cool and just gives it different Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it brings a different energy when you get

0:58:27.920 --> 0:58:29.480
<v Speaker 1>to sit down and watch it as well, and like

0:58:29.520 --> 0:58:31.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe you guys just want to see how crazy you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but go subscribe, have a watch. There's

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<v Speaker 1>so many different episodes on there. It's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>fun and you know the drift. So Mum to you,

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