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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we need to move.

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Speaker 3: You don't really gave a quick yeah, yeah, yeah, you

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Speaker 3: want to get home? Yeah, because because it's your girlfriend's birthday, Mimi,

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Speaker 3: and she's turned twenty seven.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and it's been a comedy of eras today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a gay pirate.

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Speaker 5: No, I dressed up as the mad Hatter from you

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Speaker 5: look like a gay pirate. Well that's unintentionally if I

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Speaker 5: do look like a gay part, but.

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Speaker 2: That's nice.

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Speaker 6: Was there a pirate in the village people, because if

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Speaker 6: there was, it would looked like Woody.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: And it's the pink puffy shirt. I'm got a vest on.

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Speaker 3: The mad had his kids. So you wake her up

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Speaker 3: with this at five point thirty in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I got to By the way, on the socials

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Speaker 6: Will and Woody Socials. If you want to see what

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Speaker 6: Woody looks like as this, Oh yeah, get a gay

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Speaker 6: pirate slash mad hatter.

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Speaker 4: It's it's truly terrifying, shured.

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Speaker 3: So you rocked up as the gay parate terrified, get

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Speaker 3: the crap out of it and then go mate. Then

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Speaker 3: got some pancakes. But then since well it went well initially,

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Speaker 3: but we obviously, since you didn't check the packaging to see

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Speaker 3: whether it complied with your eye, because you've been farting

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Speaker 3: like a trooper since about two o'clock in the afternoon.

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Speaker 3: I got more of that, and got more later since

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Speaker 3: found out, since found out during the show that your

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Speaker 3: power is out. So when you get home and take

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Speaker 3: the steaming ship that's on its way, you're not going

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Speaker 3: to be able to find it out of the toilet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Two hundred and fifty dollars worth of very expensive Japanese

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Speaker 3: which during the show arrived an hour earlier. But to

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Speaker 3: say you ordered it for six pm when our show finishes, that.

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Speaker 4: Was the latest they could do.

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Speaker 2: Six restaurants.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's that's this is a very specific restaurant

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Speaker 5: because it was the restaurant that me and I went

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Speaker 5: to early on in a relationship, and I'm sort of

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Speaker 5: like rekindling. They do dinner, No, they do, but they

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Speaker 5: six pm was the latest they would deliver, and I

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Speaker 5: call them.

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Speaker 4: I used to believe that. Yeah, yeah, well they're not.

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Speaker 4: But six pm was late as they could do. So anyway,

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Speaker 4: they brought it an hour early.

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Speaker 5: It's getting so I'm going because I'm going to go

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Speaker 5: and get me fo It's gonna.

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Speaker 4: Be a great nun. Enjoy the party.

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Speaker 2: Try and get those farts out before you go there.

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Speaker 4: I think, did you get her a gift?

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Speaker 6: Well, the gift it hasn't arrived.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, how did that slip through the crash.

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Speaker 1: We haven't got.

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Speaker 4: Some golf clubs.

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Speaker 7: Waiting for.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, how the money have fallen? It's some great

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Speaker 2: chatting the podcast. Guys will say open right now. I've

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Speaker 2: got a very special guest on the show.

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Speaker 8: The last time we had.

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Speaker 6: Our next guest on the show, he was telling us

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Speaker 6: about his one new comedy show which was swiftly canceled

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Speaker 6: due to COVID, and then he were scheduled and then he.

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Speaker 1: Got canceled again about the stern up comedian ain't going

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Speaker 1: to be the end of him, but not this guy, Like,

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Speaker 1: here's what he's up to now.

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Speaker 9: A regular on The Jason Lawrence Show, a weekly spot

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Speaker 9: on The Project.

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Speaker 1: An Australian ambassador for avocados. Fair to say, it's actually

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Speaker 1: been a blessing.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. It's comedian busy.

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Speaker 3: You say, hey, when you put it like that, I've

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Speaker 3: been having a great time I was gonna say, like

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Speaker 3: cash during COVID is obviously notoriously really tough. First stuand

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Speaker 3: up comedians. It sounds like you're obviously having made gigs

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Speaker 3: at the moment.

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Speaker 9: A lot of gigs. I walk up and down my

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Speaker 9: street telling people jokes and then asking them for their money.

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Speaker 4: How's that going?

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Speaker 9: It's not going very well. My neighborhood is stressed. I

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Speaker 9: went for a walk recently and I was doing the

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Speaker 9: right thing, mask on headphones, on walking down the path.

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Speaker 9: This woman is walking towards me, and she said, you're

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Speaker 9: walking too slow, mate, and then she walked off and

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Speaker 9: I ran home. I googled walking speeds. I thought I

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Speaker 9: missed a press conference, like I didn't know what. I

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Speaker 9: thought the rules had changed. But no, it's just just

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Speaker 9: everyone's stressed, aggressive, aggressive, just having just I think I

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Speaker 9: was smiling when I was walking, so she was like

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Speaker 9: breaking rule. He's clearly having a good.

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Speaker 5: Time because you're not exercising but.

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Speaker 4: Not fast enough.

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Speaker 5: You know, there was an Adelaide medical person who said

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Speaker 5: they should check heart rates when they were walking because

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Speaker 5: to be classified as exercising.

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Speaker 9: That person deserves to be canceled.

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Speaker 10: The hell.

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Speaker 5: I think it was the same person who said, don't

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Speaker 5: touch the footy when they kick it out about.

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Speaker 2: I forgot about that.

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Speaker 11: You know what.

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Speaker 9: I used to compete with a friend on the Apple Watch,

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Speaker 9: you know, and you can you know, if you press

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Speaker 9: plane an activity, your heart rate gets registered. Meditation is

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Speaker 9: actually an exercise on the wall.

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Speaker 4: Yeah right.

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Speaker 9: And when I was down in calories, I used to

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Speaker 9: put on the meditation app activity and it would just

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Speaker 9: count as exercise. So you could just be sitting down

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Speaker 9: at the park and if someone said, you know, not exercising,

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Speaker 9: check it out, meditating mentally, exercise corrupted my calorie burning.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and how dare you you? Yeah, I'm start again.

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Speaker 2: I've got to find that then again.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all your fault. My hour is starting again.

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Speaker 9: At Nirvana back at Hunting dulstation. That's well outside my

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Speaker 9: five k.

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Speaker 10: Now.

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Speaker 3: Now, I know you're obviously struggling for commercial gigs at

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Speaker 3: the moment, But do you want to try this new coke

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Speaker 3: Colon new sugar.

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Speaker 2: Oh for sure, it is brand new, we reckon. It's

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Speaker 2: the best coke ever.

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Speaker 9: You know what, Actually the only coke I drink is

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Speaker 9: no sugar because oh yeah, yeah, because I'm trying yeah,

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Speaker 9: he trying to look trying to maintain this the Yeah,

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Speaker 9: you don't get to Nirvana with that.

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Speaker 2: That's good, pretty good, pretty good. I think it's the

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Speaker 2: best ever, best ever, is it?

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Speaker 9: I think it's the best ever, Like you could have

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Speaker 9: put it in the fridge a little longer.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, what are your job? Mate?

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Speaker 9: But you know it's even good, you know, And it's

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Speaker 9: it's timidness, you know, even at room temperature. This que

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Speaker 9: just the yeah and taking another Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We are in a viral pandemic.

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Speaker 9: So you that's so refreshing. Yeah, so good. I mean

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Speaker 9: it's got no sugar. But I mean I know if

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Speaker 9: you told me you had sugar, I'd believe you because

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Speaker 9: it's that sweet.

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Speaker 4: I know why avocadosassadors.

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Speaker 9: I'm now open, guys sliding to my d ms.

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Speaker 4: He'll do collabs.

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Speaker 3: He'll do collabs for the one and only who was

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Speaker 3: saying in the studio.

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Speaker 9: Sorry, I've just taken another sip of my coconot sugar.

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Speaker 3: Could be could be the best yet, could be the

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Speaker 3: best co it? Now, mate, let's talk at you. You're

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Speaker 3: on the project a lot at the moment, and you're

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Speaker 3: also on Australia Talks.

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Speaker 2: But you continue to be referenced as Walid Ali in

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Speaker 2: the paper.

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Speaker 9: Which is I don't mind that because he's one the

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Speaker 9: smartest people in the Country's yeah, he's hot. Apparently some

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Speaker 9: people calling the thinking woman's sex symbol, whereas people people

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Speaker 9: don't never call me anything, people call me nothing. Called

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Speaker 9: people literally stopped me on the street like off an

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Speaker 9: older people of an older woman and hey, I really,

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Speaker 9: I really love you, and then I think they're talking

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Speaker 9: about me, and then the conversation will continue to you know,

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Speaker 9: that article you wrote last week, and then I'm like, okay, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Do you play one lead from that going on?

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Speaker 9: Because to them, they're having a celebrity experience. But then

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Speaker 9: I'm like, I've now got to carry the burden of

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Speaker 9: representing him well, and they how do you write so well?

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Speaker 9: And I'll say things, you know, so I just got

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Speaker 9: to I just write from the heart, you know, which

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Speaker 9: is something he never says, the brain experience.

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Speaker 3: Immediately, he would never say that he's a political animos.

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Speaker 9: I'm a politican analysts.

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Speaker 4: Your stands on the lockdown, give us give us a stand.

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Speaker 9: I mean my stand really, I mean there's a lot

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Speaker 9: of there's a lot of things to consider and you know,

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Speaker 9: are you you know I would talk about it.

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Speaker 3: So many years.

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Speaker 4: It's a classical comment, you know what. I'll tell you.

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Speaker 10: The issue.

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Speaker 4: You guys are really similar.

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Speaker 9: You do your own research as well, I'd say, firstally.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well you should speak to your sister actually, because

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Speaker 5: she's I'm sorry to bring it up, man, she's an

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Speaker 5: she's an overachiever.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because she's a lawyer.

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Speaker 2: She's a lawyer.

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Speaker 4: She's got an Order of Australia.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, she got one. Recently she met the Governor of Australia.

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Speaker 9: Of Victoria's the governor of her name is Majestic Governor.

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Speaker 9: What's it?

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Speaker 12: You know?

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 3: Is No, that's fresh on the top of my head,

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Speaker 3: as I.

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Speaker 2: Honorable, the honorable. I don't know if she's the arch

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Speaker 2: but she's definitely the honorable.

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Speaker 9: Certainly she's Archie.

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Speaker 2: She's no doubt.

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Speaker 4: She had a huge house, yeah, nicknamed.

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Speaker 9: I went with there with my mum and I was like,

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Speaker 9: can we take if we take the cutlery, the would

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Speaker 9: notice because to take something from the course. Yeah, but

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Speaker 9: we didn't. But story.

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Speaker 2: We get back to his mom's starving women.

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Speaker 9: I don't know if there's a doorbell there. But if

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Speaker 9: you want to go there, you've you've got to do

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Speaker 9: something really great.

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Speaker 2: Actually got to be into the house.

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Speaker 4: Rock hard.

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Speaker 9: We can just go.

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Speaker 2: That would be. I don't mind that Uber eats some

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Speaker 2: food there or something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we get to meet it to get in goodness,

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Speaker 4: meet it without the hard work.

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Speaker 9: I often I recognized for lee, but I genuinely people

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Speaker 9: hand me bags of food when a woman. It's happened

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Speaker 9: to be. It happened once. I mean once commercial I

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Speaker 9: walked in someone handed me in an uber each bag.

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Speaker 9: What and and then he looked confused, and then I

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Speaker 9: took the bag. But I read, it's a great way,

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Speaker 9: by the way, just round out there, give it a go,

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Speaker 9: a great money saving tip. Just hold my phone just

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Speaker 9: looking for Yeah, do it three times a day. You

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Speaker 9: never pay for a meal in your life, but try

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Speaker 9: that a governor's house.

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Speaker 2: Would you actually do that for us?

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Speaker 4: That's why your sister's the lawyer.

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Speaker 3: To get out of here, he's been hearing thanks to

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Speaker 2: Try it now.

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Speaker 3: We will be speaking to him soon as the best

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Speaker 3: But I think we know the answer. I think it's

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Speaker 4: And you and I we've talked about.

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Speaker 2: I think I think it's a great idea. They never

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Speaker 3: I mean, what could be more romantic, yes, and more

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Speaker 5: Yes, every every woman is out there with a very

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Speaker 4: How special are you if you're.

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Speaker 2: Out there with a you know, a bit of twine?

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Speaker 2: You know you're out there. You know what you don't

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Speaker 3: You're out there with some some bunches of sticks which

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Speaker 3: So you're you're totally caught off guard because all of

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Speaker 4: Of course you are. Look at my man, Look at

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Speaker 3: He cuts the twine that told him the sticks together yep,

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Speaker 2: Around your finger and says, do you want to marry me?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean play the romantic music helped him.

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Speaker 4: There we go look because and listen.

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Speaker 5: I know we're being It might stand like we're being

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Speaker 5: I just want my partner says, I would love something

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Speaker 5: on my ring though that signifies we're going to be

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Speaker 5: I prefer to spend it on when we can, a

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Speaker 4: I just think she's She might be saying.

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Speaker 2: Mate, what about the twine.

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Speaker 4: You know I love the twine.

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Speaker 2: Mate.

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Speaker 5: You don't need to convince me of the twine. If

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Speaker 5: I could, if I could use twine, I would, but

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Speaker 5: his thing. If I'm worried, if I give her the twine.

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Speaker 5: She'll get the twine, and then she'll be disappointed because

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Speaker 5: let them know how much I love them. The reason

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Speaker 2: Just before you go, good question.

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Speaker 4: Though, Yes, you're pointing at me.

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Speaker 2: Are you about to propose?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: No, And even if I was, I wouldn't say yes.

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Speaker 5: They're because they'd give the whole thing away.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like you're talking about that's outrageous.

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Speaker 5: That's completely outrageous, that's completely.

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Speaker 2: That's completely tell you what's completely outrageous?

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Speaker 3: Are you coming on here Austin Powers pink fluffy shirt

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Speaker 2: To propose to it.

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Speaker 4: I'm not talking about it.

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Speaker 4: I'm not talking about proposing, I just.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of traps.

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Speaker 3: I just cajoled you into into what you thought was

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Speaker 2: Then all of the second, all of a sudden, we

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Speaker 5: You conjroled nobody. The reason I'm talking I'm the anti control.

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Speaker 5: The reason we're talking about it is because a guy

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Speaker 5: of those plastic rings from an arcade place, from like

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Speaker 5: a you know arcade, I.

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Speaker 2: Know an arcade.

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Speaker 3: When he's asking those do you know what an arcade.

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Speaker 4: Comes with a plastic ring from the arcade machine.

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Speaker 5: He's won the plastic ring, goes home, proposes to his girlfriend,

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Speaker 5: puts it online. Women are absolutely hammering this bug. And

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Speaker 5: the girl who he proposed to is furious at him.

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Speaker 5: She was devastated, she got emotional. So that would make

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Speaker 5: you think that the cheap engagement ring is always going

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Speaker 3: Say, just in that instance, though he hasn't actually, you know,

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Speaker 3: he's driven home with that thing. He's had time to

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Speaker 3: think about it proposing to her. For me, that's not

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Speaker 5: So if you think that, as long as it's in

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Speaker 5: the moment, your cheap engagement ring is still romance, I.

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Speaker 3: Reckon it's better than a planned one. You find a

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Speaker 3: shell on the beach. You know, you're walking on the beach, like, god,

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Speaker 3: there's a seagull.

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Speaker 2: Oh there's the water.

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Speaker 4: Yep, you know, we get a beach mate.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you're on the beach and then you find

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Speaker 3: and that's better than a paid engagem ring.

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Speaker 5: I would have thought thirteen one six five at the

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Speaker 5: end of the day, where there's two men need to

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Speaker 5: hear from some women here, Would you be impressed if

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Speaker 5: there was like a spontaneous proposal, yes, that utilized your

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Speaker 3: Yep, grass, burger ring, shell twine, take your pick. Maybe

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Speaker 3: it's happened to you.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that'd be wild, that'd be weld.

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Speaker 3: Did you like it is a spontaneous, on the spot,

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Speaker 3: resourceful using your surrounding style burger ring, engagement ring?

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Speaker 2: Actually romantic?

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Speaker 4: Would you be happy with that situation?

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Speaker 2: Would would you be more happy? That's what I'm proposing.

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Speaker 2: I don't mind the puncause.

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Speaker 5: Because the creativity as well to the ingenuity find a

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's any creativity in finding it fair

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay, But I think the creativity and also

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Speaker 5: life with I think is better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah than the plan. And then and the dollars. I mean, God,

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Speaker 2: at the end of the day, money can't buy me love,

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Speaker 2: am I Right?

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Speaker 5: Girls preach sisters, So we have Sarah here on thirteen

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Speaker 5: our sisters are preaching with us. Sarah, what do you

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Speaker 5: think about this? Would you be happy with that situation?

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Speaker 8: I think it depends on their personality. So if they

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Speaker 8: would be better than a proper engagement ring.

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Speaker 2: So Sarah, would you would you accept a spontaneous engagement

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Speaker 8: I would like if it was a ring pop or

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Speaker 8: burgering and like like what you said, or a bit

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Speaker 5: Yeah I knew there was about there's always about.

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Speaker 8: Definitely need a proper ring after all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: See that sort of defeats the service for me.

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Speaker 5: Maybe that's just my tit as is coming out, But

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Speaker 5: I think the point we're trying to make is you

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Are we both arguing.

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Speaker 3: That I expecting them to keep the ring made of

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Speaker 3: daffodils for the rest of Let's go to Jesse.

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Speaker 4: Jess, what do you what do you think when we're

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Speaker 5: If there's a spontaneous moment and you you find a

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Speaker 5: cheap ring, is that romantic?

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Speaker 13: Absolutely? That's what my partner did with me, and I'm

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Speaker 13: quite happy. We're still engaged and I have the ring.

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Speaker 4: Specifically, What do you do, Jess.

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Speaker 13: So we were in bed and it was after some intimacy,

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Speaker 13: I guess, and he rolled over and said that he

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Speaker 2: But we want to know, we want to know what

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Speaker 2: what the ring was. And no, woods it was. It

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Speaker 2: was not the tail end of the condom. It's given

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Speaker 2: what your.

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Speaker 13: Haha, No it was, but no, it was just a

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Speaker 2: You just had one of mine? All right, Thanks for

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Speaker 2: the cool Yes, there we go. You're a sick man, No,

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 5: You've read and you've experienced as well, someone a man

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Speaker 5: proposed to your man or woman proposed to you spontaneously

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Speaker 5: with something cheap.

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Speaker 14: Yes.

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Speaker 11: So I was in Grace at the time. I was

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Speaker 11: was due to come back to say. So, one day

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Speaker 11: long grass stands, the grass sat around my finger and

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Speaker 11: proposed to me. Oh wow, that's the most romantic proposal

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Speaker 11: that anyone's done.

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Speaker 2: Did you say, Did you say yes?

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Speaker 9: Anna?

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Speaker 11: Well, yes, if he was going to come to Grace

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Speaker 7: But we didn't win, and you rejected him.

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Speaker 2: You rejected grass boy. So it wasn't successful.

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Speaker 11: Astray, But yeah, did he slay? I think of it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there you're going. It doesn't always she didn't, but

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Speaker 2: she didn't follow. It didn't succeed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't have to for it to be romantic,

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Speaker 4: especially if they say no.

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Speaker 2: We might need to realign one definition of successes here

455
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Speaker 2: when you proposed to someone. At the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: she didn't en umb with him, but.

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Speaker 4: She said she remembers it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to be it was memorable. You

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Speaker 2: want to stay with her, right? Yeah, no, particularly if

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Speaker 2: you're going to have proposed him me in the next

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Speaker 2: couple of months.

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Speaker 5: So let's let's not say that I put that out there,

463
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Speaker 5: because you know I would ruin the surprise. Let's go

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Speaker 5: to Rebecca here on thirty one surprise. If I was

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Speaker 5: going to it was going, yeah, okay, I wouldn't wt

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Speaker 5: to ruin the surprise.

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Speaker 3: You are, you are, you're sweating, look at your shining.

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Speaker 5: Let's got to Rebecca, Rebecca, what are your thoughts? We're

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Speaker 5: talking about guys or women. I guess who will spontaneously

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Speaker 5: in the moment us a cheap bring to propose?

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Speaker 4: What do you think?

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Speaker 7: Well, it's circumstantial, right, So if they're a multi millionaire,

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Speaker 7: I'm going to expect more than a piece of graph

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Speaker 7: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 15: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Wow, okay, yeah, but I'm single, so I don't know

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Speaker 7: why I'm putting my two cents in here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, fair enough, But.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like if they're rich, and if they're

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Speaker 7: just a regular Joe and he's got a good sense

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Speaker 7: of humor, like the other girl said, yeah, that's fine,

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Speaker 7: we laugh it off. But if he's like Jeff Bezos rich,

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Speaker 7: I'm expecting.

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Speaker 3: Well, of course, I mean Bezels can't get down on

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Speaker 3: one knee and find your piece of grass and fold

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Speaker 3: it over that shame.

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Speaker 2: That wouldn't be.

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Speaker 3: Acceptable and Rebecca as a result, what sort of money

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Speaker 3: would you expect would you just spend on a ring?

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Speaker 2: If he was going to propose to his girlfriend Mimi?

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Speaker 7: Well, Will, would he like to share his income with Australia?

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Speaker 2: Would you like to?

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Speaker 5: It's been actually a pretty tough quarter, if I'm being honest.

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Speaker 5: His few stocks took a dove and I'm really struggling.

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Speaker 4: They're still going.

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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody Podcast.

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Speaker 3: The events of nine to eleven September the eleventh, two

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Speaker 3: thousand and one were easily some of the most visceral

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Speaker 3: that anyone who was living at that time has extraordinary

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Speaker 3: day in all sorts of ways, had far reaching consequences politically, militarily, psychologically.

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Speaker 3: But that was just for the people that watched it.

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Speaker 3: For the people that lived it, I actually have no

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Speaker 3: words for what.

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Speaker 4: That could be like.

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Speaker 3: We actually have a guy who does, though, Hans Kontain.

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Speaker 3: Right now, here's a survivor of what happened on September

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Speaker 3: eleven in New York. We want to go live right

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Speaker 3: now and show you a picture of the World Trade Center.

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Speaker 10: As of yet unconfirmed that a plane has hit of

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Speaker 10: the World Trade Center.

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Speaker 16: There was a loud sound that.

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Speaker 2: Remember, Oh my god.

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Speaker 15: That.

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Speaker 10: Looks like a second plane.

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Speaker 2: And I saw the plane. It's a building.

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Speaker 14: Have another one?

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Speaker 7: Another plane just hit right?

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Speaker 14: Oh my god, another.

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Speaker 7: Plane has just hit another building.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for joining us.

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Speaker 5: Good I guys, and I do want to tell everyone

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Speaker 5: where exactly were you or what was your experience with

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Speaker 5: what happened in.

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Speaker 16: The eleven Okay, you know the two towers. Right between

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Speaker 16: them is the World Trade Center number three building, the

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Speaker 16: Marriott Hotel. It's a buztel one. I was in there

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Speaker 16: at a conference, having breakfast myne own business, listening to

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Speaker 16: a guy stick on banking, and then all of a

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Speaker 16: sudden there was like an earthquake and sound like an explosion.

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Speaker 16: The room shook, the chandeliers shook, the table shook, you know,

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Speaker 16: like what and people just upped and scooted out of

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Speaker 16: the room. But we were shunned out of the building.

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Speaker 16: You didn't know what was going on. There wasn't that

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Speaker 16: much noise apart from the initial sort of earthquakey thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 16: but as soon as we were shunted out the doors,

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Speaker 16: you look out there and there's gars and fire, rubble

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Speaker 16: on the road and the air was just full of

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Speaker 16: building paper. Then you look up and what on earth

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Speaker 16: was that? What's happening?

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Speaker 2: So you're still trying to conceptualize what could have happened.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, because the last.

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Speaker 2: Thing you're thinking is it's going.

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Speaker 16: To be a play. Yeah. No, no, that that doesn't happen.

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Speaker 16: That happens in movies and stuff, but not not in

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Speaker 16: my life. My boy do economist at a conference. But

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Speaker 16: the you know, I'm standing there sort of about one

547
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Speaker 16: hundred hundred meters away. It's hard to know. Uh, see

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Speaker 16: this plane coming. Oh and it's what plane? Yeah, the

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Speaker 16: second that's coming, and it's coming, and it's coming, and

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Speaker 16: it's coming. It's right over your head. It banked the noise.

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Speaker 16: I don't know if you've been on an airport listen

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Speaker 16: to an aeroplane takeoff, but it was. It's shrieked as

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Speaker 16: it accelerated into the building. And then just you know,

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Speaker 16: you send the pictures beautiful blue sky, ugly black smoke,

555
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Speaker 16: evil orange flames, and your jaw drops and your innos

556
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Speaker 16: sort of melt on the inside and there's screaming and

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Speaker 16: there's pandemonium then because you know this ain't no accident.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was going to ask you that hans because

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Speaker 3: that's something that I was in New York a couple

560
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Speaker 3: of years ago and learning all about this the when

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Speaker 3: so the first the first plane hits and obviously when

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, what's got Even the

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Speaker 3: government's trying to figure out what the hell's gone on.

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Speaker 3: They're not notified of the face of the planes being hijacked,

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Speaker 3: not exactly that there's no phones are as abundant as

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Speaker 3: they are now, so we're trying to get reports on like,

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Speaker 3: how did it happen? In what way could it have happened?

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Speaker 5: George Bush is reading a book to children in a school,

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Speaker 5: isn't he Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 2: Totally divorced from it.

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Speaker 3: And then when the second plane hits, you're saying, like

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Speaker 3: in your gut, without obviously getting any intel, that there's

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Speaker 3: no coincidence that two planes.

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Speaker 16: Planes don't planes, don't get that lost, plays don't get

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Speaker 16: that lost. That was an attack and there could be

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Speaker 16: more coming.

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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: The story.

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Speaker 3: We're at the second plane has hit, which means we

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Speaker 3: know for a fact that you're on a clock until

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Speaker 3: the whole thing melts and falls down.

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Speaker 2: What happens next.

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Speaker 16: So I got to get out of here. There could

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Speaker 16: be more coming. So I head towards the Staten Island

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Speaker 16: theory because I know that give them the fairy, I

586
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Speaker 16: can go across to Staten Island. Fan was to knock

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Speaker 16: the door of the church, ask to help, and that

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Speaker 16: that was the plan. So I'm heading down there. You know,

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Speaker 16: I'm not injured. I've seen I've seen horror sides. I

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Speaker 16: don't want to tell you I've seen. You know, I've

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Speaker 16: seen people die. You know, you're standing there, You're looking

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Speaker 16: at a building that's just been hit by a plane,

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Speaker 16: and there are body is falling. And I saw one

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Speaker 16: lady she can't wield across my eye line, and that

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Speaker 16: was that was you know, she just crashed to death.

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Speaker 16: Can't wield. I could see it wearing. She was blown out.

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Speaker 16: She's blown out like a rag doll. It was awful.

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Speaker 6: There.

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Speaker 16: I had to go. You know, you can't you can't

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Speaker 16: see that too much of that stuff.

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Speaker 4: So and hands, did you did you sort of team

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Speaker 4: up with someone? Did you get a group of you together?

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Speaker 4: And you're just there's no a time.

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Speaker 16: I don't know anybody there on my own, and I've

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Speaker 16: got a plan. I got to I've got a plan,

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Speaker 16: so I had to have the statno and ferry. But

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Speaker 16: while I'm waiting in the ferry terminal, that's when it

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Speaker 16: turned pear shape, because all of a sudden, the second

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Speaker 16: tower is falling. Now I don't know this. I'm sitting

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Speaker 16: in the ferry terminal and the building shapes and the noise.

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Speaker 16: People said, what's it like? I said, I don't know.

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Speaker 16: You sit in the film nineteen fourteen where they're in

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Speaker 16: those trenches and there are shots and people screaming, and

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Speaker 16: you know, it was terrifying. The building was shaking. There's

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Speaker 16: a thousand people around me screaming. The noise is just

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Speaker 16: like shells landing, you know, in a war. And then

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Speaker 16: and then you know, soon thereafter the cloud of dust

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Speaker 16: comes over, and then the doors of the ferry open

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Speaker 16: and we walked onto the ferries sort of calmly as

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Speaker 16: we could, and we're all trying to breathe through handkerchiefs

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Speaker 16: because it's getting pretty the visibility is low. Aftered my

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Speaker 16: seat to a lady as she said, nah, I'll standing

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Speaker 16: with my friend. And that's when something really fantastic happened.

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Speaker 4: What happened hands.

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Speaker 16: Well, half an hour ago, four minutes ago. You've seen

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Speaker 16: evil and it's worst. It's been horrible. You've seen death,

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Speaker 16: and then time passes. You get scared again, and then

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Speaker 16: this lady just reaches out her hand and says, would

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Speaker 16: you like to stay with me my family? Oh wow,

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Speaker 16: it turns me, you know, I get goosebumps now just

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Speaker 16: speaking of her grace and kindness.

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Speaker 2: So you do you still talk to her hands?

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Speaker 10: Oh?

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Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, we're your email a fair bit you know,

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Speaker 16: independent today Christmas. You know we've we've changed the emails

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Speaker 16: just recently, but just been hit by Herrick and Ida.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 16: Leslie gets a bit unsettled by nine to eleven. Yeah,

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Speaker 16: because she knew people who died and a lot of

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Speaker 16: those firefighters from Stanton Island heroes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, heroes, that's why, you.

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Speaker 16: Know, Yeah, Leslie, Leslie and her husband Rod and little

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Speaker 16: but John took me in. You've got to appreciate my

644
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Speaker 16: wife is watching this on television, you know, the one

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Speaker 16: your loves. I've got three little kids, thankfully they were

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Speaker 16: all asleep. Took hours to get through this, isan hours

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Speaker 16: she describes as the worst couple of hours.

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Speaker 2: Of a life. Of course, because the mobile phones weren't

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Speaker 2: a thing like they were, and.

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Speaker 16: You weren't working. It's all busy, it's all busy.

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Speaker 2: So she was at home for three hours by herself

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Speaker 2: with your children.

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Speaker 16: No, no, no, the good you know, there's there's there's

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Speaker 16: good comes out of these things. Folks had heard, you

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Speaker 16: knew where I was. I was away work, and they

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Speaker 16: they got to get out of bed and came and

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Speaker 16: sat with Suzanne just to help us stay come and connected.

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Speaker 16: You know, you've got you've got to have you've got

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Speaker 16: to be a friend like that. You hear this stuff

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Speaker 16: is happening, get out of it. You know, it's eleven

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Speaker 16: o'clock at night by now, come on around. They drove

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Speaker 16: fifteen minutes, came on around and sat with Suzanne. You

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Speaker 16: I could contact them.

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Speaker 10: Wow, that's just good.

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Speaker 16: That's just that's said to be a friend.

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Speaker 3: That's what strikes me about your story, Hans, is there's

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Speaker 3: so much human hope laced through that story, and the

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Speaker 3: humanity of everyone looking after each other, and that city

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Speaker 3: picking itself up afterwards, and even just your wife's friends

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Speaker 16: Was that's okay, that's okay, it ends well, you know,

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Speaker 16: How about that.

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Speaker 3: We've got a Manuel and Philip. We're going to kick

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Speaker 3: it off with Emanuel. Who's the dad of Philip today. Emanuel,

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Speaker 3: how are you well?

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Speaker 2: I'm very well, thank you, I'm very well.

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Speaker 4: I am also very well Emmanuel. Thank you for thank

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Speaker 4: you so much. No, thank you, thank you, Emanuel.

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Speaker 5: John tell us a bit about your relationship with your

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Speaker 5: son phil.

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Speaker 10: I'm his mentor, so you know, I am home his father.

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Speaker 10: You know, I try and teach him things. He doesn't

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Speaker 10: always take a lot of notice because there's a bit

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Speaker 10: of an age different, so I think it's a bit different.

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Speaker 10: But you know whatever, we get on quite well and

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Speaker 10: we're always always having a few laughs together, you know.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go, Emmanuel, what's the wildest thing?

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Speaker 2: First question?

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Speaker 3: Your first question, what's the wildest thing you've ever done

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Speaker 3: in your life? The wild wildest, the wildest thing you've

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Speaker 3: ever done in your life?

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Speaker 10: Oh, geez, I don't know things.

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Speaker 16: Well.

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Speaker 10: I suppose I've written. I've written bikes, and one day

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Speaker 10: like motorbikes. And one day I didn't see the fence

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Speaker 10: and I ran through it. Wow, which didn't which didn't

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Speaker 10: help my nose very very well.

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Speaker 3: So I will put down the wildest thing you've ever

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Speaker 3: done is ridden a bike through a fence.

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Speaker 2: A perfect all right?

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Speaker 3: Next question, what is phil most embarrassed about?

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Speaker 10: It's the most embarrassed about all the time that he

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Speaker 10: took a film of his rabbit and whose name was Sinning.

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Speaker 10: And we found another rabbit and put that rabbit. It

741
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Speaker 10: was a floppy years rabbit, and we put that rabbit

742
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Speaker 10: in the yard with Cinny, and Cindy started humping the

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Speaker 10: new rabbit, and Philip, who was four at the time,

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Speaker 10: said we'll call him Humper because Sinny was humping him.

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Speaker 5: You absolutely love that, don't you.

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Speaker 2: Fun All right? Right? Oh, showing me all right?

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Speaker 3: So does he confirm me out a rabbit? You put

748
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Speaker 3: it with another rabbit. The rabbit tried to mate with

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Speaker 3: the other rabbit. Phil spotted it and he said, we'll

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Speaker 3: call it Humper.

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Speaker 10: I thought, geez, that's quite advanced for a four year old.

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Speaker 2: Clever and funny. All right, here we go quite a

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Speaker 3: Do you think that Phil's sixteen year old Canadian girlfriend

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Speaker 3: was real?

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Speaker 10: I'm not sure she could have a pigment of his imagination,

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Speaker 10: but I think she's got.

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Speaker 12: Right.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Was there was there ever any evidence? Emmanuel?

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Speaker 10: No, I didn't see him. It's just what he told me.

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Speaker 10: But I was related to as in another country.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, all right, Emmanuel, stay

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Speaker 2: with us right on. NeXT's going to be interviewing your

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Speaker 2: and his Dad's just dish some very awkward and embarrassing things.

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Speaker 2: He loves his own gear. Emanuel loves it.

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Speaker 3: Stick around as his son Phil has to swim on

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Speaker 5: Yeswe we've just heard from the incredibly eccentric and exciting Emmanuel.

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Speaker 4: Now we've got his son Philip on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Now, Philip, are you concerned it all about what your

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Speaker 16: Somewhat.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 14: I know he's at a bit of a rowdy youse. Yeah,

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Speaker 14: so I'm just trying to live up to it.

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Speaker 4: Do you have an American accent there, Philip?

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Speaker 14: A lot of people think I do it, but I've

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Speaker 14: never been there. I grew up in Australia, but I've

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Speaker 14: been to Canada six weeks.

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Speaker 4: So there's a twang there.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's get down to it, then, Phil because

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Speaker 2: Yeah, interesting, John, All right, Philip. First question, what's the

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Speaker 2: wildest thing that your dad, Emmanuel has ever done?

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Speaker 14: Two things come to mind. One one was like I

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Speaker 14: think he splashed his bosses done in the face with

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Speaker 14: like a bucket of water one time. And I think

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Speaker 14: he got aside from that, he rode into a fence

815
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Speaker 14: with a bike. I think he broke through it or something.

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Speaker 3: The Emmanuel, what was with the bucket of water in

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Speaker 3: a kid's face?

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Speaker 10: Oh well, al was a panel breeding of friendice and

819
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Speaker 10: and we're washing car and the boss's nephew he threw

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Speaker 10: a bucket of water at me, but he hit me

821
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Speaker 10: in the head with the bucket, and and and in

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Speaker 10: those days all was a bit hot. Yeah, but it's

823
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Speaker 10: and I got.

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Speaker 2: Sack totally wild. That is, you didn't you didn't admit

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Speaker 2: that to us.

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Speaker 3: Mate, you just said you rode a bike into a fence,

827
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Speaker 3: which phil got right. So well done, guys, thank you,

828
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 3: bang off to a flyer. Well, all right, next question

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Speaker 3: here we go. We're running hot on, Philip.

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Speaker 2: What are you most embarrassed about?

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Speaker 14: What am I most embarrassed about? Ah? I mean one

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Speaker 14: thing I remember from primary school. This was a long

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Speaker 14: time ago with mum. Actually, I think she came to

834
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Speaker 14: pick me up or something, and some guy or friend

835
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Speaker 14: of mine said, oh, is that your grandma? That was

836
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Speaker 14: pretty embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, Emmanuel loves it.

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Speaker 14: Sorry.

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Speaker 17: So the most the most, absolutely rich Philip, you're saying,

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Speaker 17: the most embarrassing thing that happened to you is someone

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Speaker 17: calling your mom your grandma.

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Speaker 16: Ah.

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Speaker 14: Well, I mean that's just one story that came out.

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Speaker 2: Of course, hard to remember, hard to remember. All right.

845
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Speaker 3: Well, look, I'm gonna be honest. Your dad had a

846
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Speaker 3: different story that you remember here.

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Speaker 10: It is the film of his rabbit and Sindney started

848
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Speaker 10: humping the new rabbit and Philip, who was four at

849
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Speaker 10: the time, said We'll call him Hump because Sinny was.

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Speaker 14: Yester right that that is that one thing. Yes, I

851
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Speaker 14: didn't remember that until you told me.

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Speaker 5: Can I just say your dad absolutely loves that story.

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Speaker 4: He still loves.

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Speaker 2: Oh great stuff, guys.

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Speaker 3: Alright, Manue Final question, Final question, Philip, we spoke about

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Speaker 3: being in Canada before. We know that when you were

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Speaker 3: sixteen you had a long distance relationship with a Canadian girl.

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Speaker 2: Was that person? Ill? Yes, all right, here's what your

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Speaker 10: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: You're a big part of that, and we've had to

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Speaker 2: navigate our way through it for.

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Speaker 3: The last three or four years. I spoke with a

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Speaker 3: guy called Roman Camp recently. This guy, by the way,

896
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Speaker 3: this guy hosts the number one breakfast radio show in

897
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Speaker 3: the UK. He's Martin Kemp's son from Spandal Ballet. He's

898
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Speaker 3: George Michael's godson.

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Speaker 4: So it was a big deal.

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Speaker 2: He had a really, really big deal.

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Speaker 3: But he recently had a documentary on the BBC called

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Speaker 3: Our Silent Killer.

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Speaker 2: Because he's radio producer in the UK. Suicide it was one.

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Speaker 3: Of his best friends and he was totally totally at

905
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Speaker 3: sea with it. As a result, he got depressed. He

906
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 3: explores all of that and in this interview that you're

907
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Speaker 3: about to hear on are You Okay Day, I think

908
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 3: he gives the best advice I have ever heard on

909
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Speaker 3: how to ask somebody if they are okay. It's called

910
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Speaker 3: the two okay rule and you'll hear it here with

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Speaker 3: my chat with Roman camp Havelist Guys. So Roman, the

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Speaker 3: documentary Our Silent Witness is out mate, absolutely huge congratulations.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to really ask you.

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Speaker 3: What, at the end of the day, You've obviously interviewed

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Speaker 3: people over the course of a whole year, You've got

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Speaker 3: a primetime spot on the BBC. What was the number

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Speaker 3: one like take home point about mates helping each other

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Speaker 3: effectively stay alive and battle this epidemic that is suicide.

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Speaker 12: At the moment, the thing that you know, I slowly

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Speaker 12: realized when kind of making this documentary is how much,

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Speaker 12: you know, the onus has to come away from the

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Speaker 12: person that is suffering and it has to go on

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Speaker 12: to the person around that.

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Speaker 10: You know.

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Speaker 12: It's it's I realized quickly that I was making a

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Speaker 12: documentary about friendship and I wasn't necessarily making a documentary

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Speaker 12: about if you're struggling, why you should talk?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you know, and it.

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Speaker 12: Goes back to that same kind of uh, I guess

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Speaker 12: a line, but it does really sum it up for

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Speaker 12: me in terms of, you know what, I want people

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Speaker 12: to be the hero to.

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Speaker 15: Their friends that I felt like I genuinely wasn't to mine.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Yeah, no, absolutely, I think that's what it's all about.

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Speaker 3: And I know for a fact that you know, obviously

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Speaker 3: having Woody with me, then that's I have a chance

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Speaker 3: to have somebody who's a hero to me and I

938
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Speaker 3: give him that opportunity, which I know that you know

939
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Speaker 3: he relishes as well, which is which is really massive.

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Speaker 3: So that's a message for everyone. Give give, give your

941
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Speaker 3: friends the cape, give them a chance to be your hero,

942
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Speaker 3: and it can only make your friendship better. But speaking

943
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Speaker 3: strictly about what we're dealing with here, I know we

944
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Speaker 3: can almost in a lot of ways simplify the problem

945
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Speaker 3: by talking about reaching out to friends and how they

946
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Speaker 3: can help you.

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the.

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Speaker 3: Day, you know, professional help is really where we probably

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Speaker 3: want to direct people after we've had that initial conversation.

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Speaker 3: And I know that while you were making the documentary

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Speaker 3: Our Silent Witness on the BBC that you found some

952
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Speaker 3: pretty alarming stats just with the way that in particular,

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Speaker 3: men interpret depression and why that leads to suicide.

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Speaker 12: Within the UK, seventy percent of men that take their

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Speaker 12: own life do not deem themselves as struggling in any

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Speaker 12: way mentally kidding and no, they're not not seeking any help.

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Speaker 15: They're not seeking any help. They're not they're not.

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Speaker 12: At all aware of their own depression. They see it

959
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Speaker 12: as a means to an end. So there's actually there's

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Speaker 12: actually studies going on now they are trying to figure

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Speaker 12: out is suicide even a mental health thing or is

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Speaker 12: it just a way that men are viewing you know,

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Speaker 12: a problem, wow, and how to end it?

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Speaker 15: You know, only twelve percent, only twelve percent of men

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Speaker 15: that go to see.

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Speaker 12: Therapists or take anti depressions or are actively seeking to

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Speaker 12: help their row mental health will end up taking their

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Speaker 12: own life within men that do it.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that is truly Yeah, that's an alarming stat that's

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Speaker 3: pretty hard for everyone to wrap their heads around. Again,

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Speaker 3: If any of this he is rattling you in any

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Speaker 3: way or making you feel like you need to talk

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Speaker 3: to someone, please contact Lifeline. On thirteen eleven fourteen, it

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Speaker 3: is are You Okay to I've got Roman camp with me.

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Speaker 3: He is the national radio host of Capital of FM's

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Speaker 3: radio breakfast show over in the UK and Roman, you.

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Speaker 2: Just released You're just catching up to this chat now.

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Speaker 3: Rome released this massive documentary on the BBC called Our

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Speaker 3: Silent Killer, which was just huge after one of his

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Speaker 3: producers on his show took his own life.

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Speaker 2: Roman.

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Speaker 3: The final thing I wanted to talk to you about

983
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Speaker 3: was this brilliant are you okay or two times okay

984
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Speaker 3: message that you've been spreading, which is asking the same

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Speaker 3: question twice. Can you talk to me a little bit

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Speaker 3: more about that? And I think this is honestly one

987
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Speaker 3: of the best things I've ever heard, and it comes

988
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Speaker 3: to chats around people's mental health and how to actually

989
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Speaker 3: speak to other people when you are asking them if

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Speaker 3: they're okay.

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Speaker 12: I met up with a group of lads from reading

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Speaker 12: just outside of London, and they they had lost their

993
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Speaker 12: best friend to suicide and it was only twenty twenty

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Speaker 12: one years old.

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Speaker 2: And I.

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Speaker 12: Spoke to them and I said, you know, I think

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Speaker 12: my first question was was was does it get any easier?

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Speaker 15: Hoping for them to say to me, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 15: it will get fine, you know all.

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Speaker 12: That type of stuff. Does that kind of go away?

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Speaker 12: And they were honest they said no, They said not

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Speaker 12: at all, like like you're always you're always going to

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Speaker 12: be upset about it. And I said, well, what do

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Speaker 12: you do to kind of look out for each other?

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Speaker 12: You know, yeah, suicide effects.

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Speaker 15: One hundred and eighty people around them. How do you

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Speaker 15: safeguard each other?

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Speaker 12: And they go, oh, well, we've got a rule between

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Speaker 12: between us and you know, we'll text, you know, are

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Speaker 12: you okay? And then you let you wait for that

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Speaker 12: first answer, and then you send the same text again yeah,

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Speaker 12: and you know, you say are you okay? Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 12: or they'll say it in person. Why is it that

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00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,479
Speaker 12: the first question there should be the most important question

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Speaker 12: in a conversation.

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Speaker 15: Yes, with your mate just gets.

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Speaker 12: Battered away, you know, you go, yeah, you're right, you're right, Yeah,

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Speaker 12: anyway football last night. Yeah, you know, but realistically that

1019
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 12: that's the most important important part of the convo. So

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Speaker 12: I said to them, I was like, lad, I don't

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Speaker 12: I hope you don't mind, but I'm absolutely going to

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Speaker 12: take that and we're.

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Speaker 15: Going to run. Yeah, because I love it. I think

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Speaker 15: I think it's genius.

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Speaker 2: But a good chat with Roman.

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Speaker 3: If you miss it, you can get on the podcast

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Speaker 3: Will and What Do wherever you get Your podcast today is.

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Speaker 2: Are you okay?

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Speaker 16: Day?

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Speaker 2: And maybe try that.

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Speaker 3: If you're going to ask somebody if they are okay

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Speaker 3: when you get home, ask them twice because the first one,

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Speaker 3: you know they're going to beat a way, particularly if

1034
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Speaker 3: they're a guy, they're going to say they're absolutely fine,

1035
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Speaker 3: let's talk about the footy. Ask them again, peel back

1036
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Speaker 3: the layer, have a look at what's underneath there, and

1037
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Speaker 3: you could actually save their life, which is extraordinary that

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Speaker 3: you can do that with just the power of asking

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Speaker 3: two questions.

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