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Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda jam Nation.

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Speaker 2: There's an old saying, if you want something done, get

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Speaker 2: a busy person to do it.

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Speaker 3: It's so true, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: Because you just get stuff done when you get stuff.

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Speaker 3: Do you notice this when you're on holidays?

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Speaker 4: Because you and I are always busy, But then when

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Speaker 4: you're on your holidays and you're not busy one thing

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Speaker 4: and for the whole day, and I'm overwhelmed by having

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Speaker 4: to do one thing?

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Speaker 3: Was if I'm busy, give me a million things, not

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Speaker 3: do them.

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Speaker 2: You are a very busy person. I don't know another

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Speaker 2: busier person than you. But I'll say this, you never

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Speaker 2: mentioned that you're busy.

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Speaker 3: Are you mocking me out?

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Speaker 2: No, seriously, you don't. You don't say I'm so busy.

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Speaker 2: Then you'll meet someone that guests they're so, I'm just

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Speaker 2: so busy, I'm.

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Speaker 1: So overwhelmed, and you go and I always think, what

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Speaker 1: do you think? Well?

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Speaker 2: This dovetails nicely into this bit of information that I've got.

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Speaker 2: This headline is bragging about how busy you are makes people.

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Speaker 1: Think you're an idiot.

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Speaker 2: Really yeah, because not that I think that someone's an idiot,

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Speaker 2: but if someone goes I've been so busy, and I go, oh,

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Speaker 2: what have you been doing? And they'll say this, this

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Speaker 2: and this, and I said, well, maybe it's not really

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Speaker 2: efficient with it.

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Speaker 3: Do you tell people that because no one likes being

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Speaker 3: told you're not efficient.

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Speaker 1: That's in my mind and your mind's eye.

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Speaker 4: What about all those people on Instagram who say, I'm

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Speaker 4: filming my day. Here, I am at the airport. Here,

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Speaker 4: I am doing a presentation. Here, I am being an

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Speaker 4: influence here. Yeah, it's called doing a job. We all

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Speaker 4: do it.

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Speaker 1: No one gives.

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Speaker 3: A yee yay, yay yay, Booty Spicy Lake.

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Speaker 1: We pat that out later. It's true. No one does,

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Speaker 1: No one gives, no one gives.

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Speaker 4: No one's going to reward you for being busy. And

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Speaker 4: I learned this a long time ago, you know. And

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Speaker 4: I don't think that it's a compliment. Being told you're

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Speaker 4: the hardest working person in television or whatever.

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Speaker 3: That's not a compliment.

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Speaker 4: And I realized too. I was once saying to Nicole Kidman,

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Speaker 4: she's done a whole stack of films in the year

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Speaker 4: back to a brag. Well, but I said to something

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Speaker 4: like that. She said, oh, that sounds terrible, And it's true.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to be the busiest person, because it

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Speaker 4: says that you're not smelling the roses, that you're not

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Speaker 4: spending time with your family, and you are doing all

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Speaker 4: those things. But it's not an accolade to hear that

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Speaker 4: you are the busiest person.

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Speaker 1: This is now phenomenon.

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Speaker 2: It's known as busy bragging, the act of boasting about

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Speaker 2: how busy you are to appear more professional.

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Speaker 4: So you're saying, though the people hearing the brag go,

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Speaker 4: why don't you shut up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: A study by the Personal Psychology Journal, I know that

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Speaker 2: you're always reading as stacked up next to your toilet.

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Speaker 3: I'll do the crosswords.

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Speaker 2: I found the employees who talk about how much work

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Speaker 2: they have to do are likely to be perceived as

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Speaker 2: less likable and less compete.

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Speaker 3: That's what you were saying, You think, why don't you

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Speaker 3: become more efficient?

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Speaker 1: These people are known as loud laborers.

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Speaker 2: Oh and stress bragging can have negative implications for brag ads,

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Speaker 2: as they were perceived as less competent by co workers.

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Speaker 4: But we've always worked in those offices where people do

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Speaker 4: really long hours and say, oh, I'm still here and there,

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Speaker 4: you think why why?

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Speaker 3: Why long?

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Speaker 4: In some industries like to see you working long hours.

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Speaker 4: Others are smarter and know that people get their jobs done.

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Speaker 3: That's all that's required. You don't have to put in

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Speaker 3: the long hours to do your job.

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Speaker 1: Necessarily something better radio.

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Speaker 3: That's you're a lighthouse keepers. A lighthouse keeper, you can't

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Speaker 3: just do a shorter day. You have to take care

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Speaker 3: of the hours of the light.

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Speaker 1: You've got one job at night to make sure that.

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Speaker 4: During that night you go, look, I did it in

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Speaker 4: one hour and going to be now you know you're.

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Speaker 1: Just you're keeping the lighthouse. You don't have to look after.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to look out.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it wasn't the best analogy.

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Speaker 1: You keep in the light.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean, some jobs you do you

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Speaker 3: can't do it.

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Speaker 4: Eight hour operation as a surgeon and a one hour

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Speaker 4: in say, don't worry, I've done it so quickly.

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Speaker 3: I'll finished.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to phone this in.

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Speaker 4: I'm home to watch tipping point. You're going to say

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Speaker 4: one radio station where you.

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Speaker 1: Work, No, all radio stations. I will tell you this,

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Speaker 1: it's goof off central.

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Speaker 2: Every radio station I've ever worked out is a goof

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Speaker 2: off central. You can stand around the water cooler talking

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Speaker 2: to people for half the day and that's why.

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Speaker 1: People do long days. I'm in and out. I'm like

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Speaker 1: a duck mating.

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Speaker 3: Is that quick? Yes, they leave you with the bill.

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Speaker 3: I saw it on the web.

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Speaker 1: I was happy.

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Speaker 3: It's never going to be a pun for his own.

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Speaker 3: You know that finished know that.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to swear again.

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Speaker 3: No, you finished it on a high.

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Speaker 1: Put a swear in here. Good.

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Speaker 3: That was a good swa