1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:19,189 Speaker 1: live on the Free. I had Laura Henshaw Wilburgh from 3 00:00:19,268 --> 00:00:21,309 Speaker 1: Kick was in this studio yesterday. 4 00:00:21,709 --> 00:00:22,709 Speaker 2: She looked great by the way. 5 00:00:22,829 --> 00:00:25,549 Speaker 1: Look she's got that pregnancy glow going on. She's about 6 00:00:25,549 --> 00:00:29,789 Speaker 1: thirty three weeks pregnant. But what I personally loved about 7 00:00:29,789 --> 00:00:33,348 Speaker 1: her appearance on the show yesterday was when she stitched 8 00:00:33,469 --> 00:00:39,309 Speaker 1: up her partner Dalton by revealing what Dolts is doing 9 00:00:39,349 --> 00:00:43,028 Speaker 1: to prepare for the baby, which which I truly think 10 00:00:43,149 --> 00:00:45,348 Speaker 1: is it's one of the dumber things I've ever heard. 11 00:00:46,229 --> 00:00:48,068 Speaker 1: We haven't had children, he said, Laura, I'm going to 12 00:00:48,149 --> 00:00:50,789 Speaker 1: take eight pm until two am, but I'm not. 13 00:00:50,709 --> 00:00:52,348 Speaker 2: Going to go to sleep the whole time. 14 00:00:52,549 --> 00:00:55,069 Speaker 1: Why just in case the baby needs me. 15 00:00:59,069 --> 00:01:05,709 Speaker 2: Preparing late. Wow. I was listening to babies crying in preparation. 16 00:01:06,029 --> 00:01:06,268 Speaker 1: Wow. 17 00:01:06,429 --> 00:01:11,829 Speaker 2: Yeah, I bought a baby boot camp. Don't do that. Yeah, 18 00:01:11,828 --> 00:01:13,949 Speaker 2: I was also dumb. I think I think dults is 19 00:01:13,989 --> 00:01:14,789 Speaker 2: worse than mine. Though. 20 00:01:14,869 --> 00:01:17,949 Speaker 1: The idea of in preparation for the sleep deprivation that 21 00:01:17,989 --> 00:01:21,149 Speaker 1: will come from having a baby, to deprive yourself of 22 00:01:21,229 --> 00:01:25,188 Speaker 1: sleep to get ready for that is outrageous. 23 00:01:25,669 --> 00:01:27,749 Speaker 2: Yeah. That doesn't make any sense. It don't make any 24 00:01:27,749 --> 00:01:28,229 Speaker 2: sense at all. 25 00:01:28,309 --> 00:01:31,229 Speaker 1: But again, I'm a glasshouse throwing stones because I did 26 00:01:32,389 --> 00:01:34,949 Speaker 1: for my first child. For Remy, in the weeks leading 27 00:01:35,029 --> 00:01:37,069 Speaker 1: up to her birth, I was I was a bit 28 00:01:37,109 --> 00:01:40,709 Speaker 1: what I get. I get over stimulated by noise. So 29 00:01:40,909 --> 00:01:42,869 Speaker 1: I was like, oh God, they're going to struggle with 30 00:01:42,909 --> 00:01:44,549 Speaker 1: the crying thing. I just don't know what that's going 31 00:01:44,629 --> 00:01:47,189 Speaker 1: to do to me. So I seriously I sat in 32 00:01:47,309 --> 00:01:48,789 Speaker 1: a in a room and I just got like a 33 00:01:48,829 --> 00:01:54,429 Speaker 1: YouTube video of babies crying, and I just I just. 34 00:01:54,389 --> 00:01:54,829 Speaker 2: Sit in it. 35 00:01:57,229 --> 00:02:00,309 Speaker 1: And like to build up some sort of like resilience 36 00:02:00,909 --> 00:02:04,469 Speaker 1: to babies crying. And in my and I'd go insane, 37 00:02:04,469 --> 00:02:08,109 Speaker 1: like I'd sit there being like oh like ages, Like. 38 00:02:08,109 --> 00:02:10,469 Speaker 2: I'd sit there for an hour just in it. It's 39 00:02:10,549 --> 00:02:13,709 Speaker 2: really intense. It's so in my mind the kids to 40 00:02:13,749 --> 00:02:16,069 Speaker 2: go old argue. Yeah, I started to enjoy it after 41 00:02:16,149 --> 00:02:17,269 Speaker 2: a while, which is really strange. 42 00:02:17,629 --> 00:02:19,669 Speaker 1: But in my head it was just like, then, I'm 43 00:02:19,709 --> 00:02:21,429 Speaker 1: just going to be great when the baby's crying. I'm 44 00:02:21,469 --> 00:02:23,229 Speaker 1: not going to have like an emotional reaction to it. 45 00:02:23,309 --> 00:02:24,469 Speaker 1: I'll be at one with the cry. 46 00:02:24,629 --> 00:02:26,509 Speaker 2: Were you doing it in leather or like what the 47 00:02:26,509 --> 00:02:28,189 Speaker 2: hell was it? We don't need to go into what 48 00:02:28,229 --> 00:02:30,709 Speaker 2: I was dressed as. What else did your baby boot 49 00:02:30,749 --> 00:02:31,349 Speaker 2: camp involve? 50 00:02:31,589 --> 00:02:33,589 Speaker 1: So the only other thing so there was the crying, 51 00:02:33,589 --> 00:02:35,509 Speaker 1: There was listening to crying, and the only other thing 52 00:02:35,549 --> 00:02:37,309 Speaker 1: I did, which was pretty dumb. And by the way, 53 00:02:37,349 --> 00:02:39,508 Speaker 1: thirteen one oh sixty five is our number because I 54 00:02:39,949 --> 00:02:42,429 Speaker 1: do think there'll be other examples of the dumb things 55 00:02:42,469 --> 00:02:46,069 Speaker 1: that men did to prepare for the baby coming. I 56 00:02:46,069 --> 00:02:49,909 Speaker 1: think generally speaking, women are doing smart things in preparation 57 00:02:50,029 --> 00:02:50,589 Speaker 1: for baby. 58 00:02:51,029 --> 00:02:51,228 Speaker 2: Men. 59 00:02:51,869 --> 00:02:53,629 Speaker 1: The things that we do which we think are going 60 00:02:53,669 --> 00:02:55,429 Speaker 1: to get us ready for a baby, I think generally 61 00:02:55,869 --> 00:02:58,269 Speaker 1: off the mark. So thirteen one oh six five I 62 00:02:58,269 --> 00:03:00,069 Speaker 1: would love to hear more of them. The other thing 63 00:03:00,069 --> 00:03:03,389 Speaker 1: that I did before Remy came is I went to 64 00:03:04,189 --> 00:03:06,629 Speaker 1: so to be honest, the house we were in when 65 00:03:06,749 --> 00:03:08,469 Speaker 1: before Remy was born, there were just it just wasn't 66 00:03:08,549 --> 00:03:11,549 Speaker 1: very child friendly. Yeah, so I spent it was at 67 00:03:11,629 --> 00:03:14,909 Speaker 1: least a full day, and I was just putting sticky 68 00:03:14,949 --> 00:03:20,109 Speaker 1: tape with foam on little edges of everything. Anyway, So 69 00:03:20,469 --> 00:03:23,709 Speaker 1: I spent twelve hours putting foam on every single edge 70 00:03:23,749 --> 00:03:25,789 Speaker 1: in the house. And then I forget who it was 71 00:03:25,789 --> 00:03:28,069 Speaker 1: who informed. They were like, you know, the baby just 72 00:03:28,109 --> 00:03:32,189 Speaker 1: doesn't move. For six bucks, you don't, you don't need 73 00:03:32,229 --> 00:03:33,789 Speaker 1: the baby proof your home now. 74 00:03:34,229 --> 00:03:37,029 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, it's perfect, would just leave them on. 75 00:03:37,669 --> 00:03:39,389 Speaker 2: I was very worried that I wouldn't be able to 76 00:03:39,469 --> 00:03:42,269 Speaker 2: run with the PRAM. So you went running with the 77 00:03:42,269 --> 00:03:45,469 Speaker 2: PRAM in reading it, what with bricks in there? Nothing? 78 00:03:46,789 --> 00:03:47,309 Speaker 2: Nothing in it