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<v Speaker 1>Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everyone like girls, Hello, boy, the.

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<v Speaker 3>Only one here?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello man, Hello man, boy, Britt law Britt Laura and

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<v Speaker 2>boy everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I learned a very interesting fact today which I

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<v Speaker 4>thought maybe other people might find interesting. Maybe not, but

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<v Speaker 4>I'll get a shot.

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<v Speaker 3>Mount Everest.

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<v Speaker 4>We are all familiar with Mount Everest, the highest mountain

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<v Speaker 4>in the world. Right, So the person who was the

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<v Speaker 4>very first person to climb Mount Everest. You would think

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<v Speaker 4>it was named after him, but actually his name was

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<v Speaker 4>eve Rest. And we've actually just been saying the word wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>That's actually that's incorrect. Mount ever Rest.

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<v Speaker 5>I know that fact, and it's named after him. He

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<v Speaker 5>didn't climb.

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<v Speaker 4>It, didn't he Why did he discover it? So he

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<v Speaker 4>never climbed it. Well, it's not even named after him.

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<v Speaker 4>It's Everest, Laura's facts. Man, everybody know what Laura just

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<v Speaker 4>said every days?

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<v Speaker 2>Good.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, so then, what's the true story so I can

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<v Speaker 3>tell people the real facts?

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<v Speaker 1>Grace get in here on microphone. Oh God, what is

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<v Speaker 1>the true fact?

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<v Speaker 3>Grace told me? And then I wanted to tell you

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<v Speaker 3>because I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>Sir George Evris was the guy who was running a

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<v Speaker 2>like a program where people measured mountains and this guy

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<v Speaker 2>came to him and was like, you won't believe it.

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<v Speaker 3>I found the highest mountain. He did all these mathematical things. Mathematical.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was after the manager of this team.

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<v Speaker 3>But he got his name wrong. Yeah, I guess we've

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<v Speaker 3>just changed it. But no, he wasn't the first. He

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<v Speaker 3>never climbed it, Laura.

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<v Speaker 4>Ever, he should change the name to the first guy

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<v Speaker 4>whoever climbed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get in contact with the sherpers and let us know

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<v Speaker 1>how that goes.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm starting one of those what's those signing things? What's

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<v Speaker 4>the Yeah, no, change dot org. That's it, that's signing thing.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's move this conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>You change dot org coming, Hey, you two, I will

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<v Speaker 2>give you a fact, a real fact. October is breast

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<v Speaker 2>cancer Awareness month.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a lot more important than money.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a lot and it's the pickup breast check Day.

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<v Speaker 2>And we are speaking to Professor Sarah Lewis. She's a

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<v Speaker 2>researcher from the National Breast Cancer Foundation. She does incredible

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<v Speaker 2>work towards the vision of zero deaths from breast cancer.

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<v Speaker 3>What a wonderful place that would be to be.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're going to speak to her after the break

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<v Speaker 2>about how to actually check your breast because it's easy

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<v Speaker 2>to say, hey, guys, check your breast.

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<v Speaker 3>What does that actually mean. We're going to find out

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<v Speaker 3>after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey today, we're doing it on the first of every month, ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breast check day here at the pickup and

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<v Speaker 1>we want to get.

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<v Speaker 5>People to fill their boobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel your boobies, have a little squeeze around, feel if

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<v Speaker 1>anything's abnormal or feeling not right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, listen to this. Three thousand, three hundred Australians will

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<v Speaker 3>die this year. Nine Australians die every day and fifty

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<v Speaker 3>eight Australians are diagnosed every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>Those stats are astronomical. We're lucky enough to be speaking

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<v Speaker 2>to profess Us Sarah Lewis. Sarah is the Dean of

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<v Speaker 2>Health Sciences at Western Sydney University. She's a career academic.

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<v Speaker 2>She's doing some incredible research around breast cancer.

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<v Speaker 3>Sarah, Welcome, Hi, Hi, good afternoon, guys. Hi Sarah.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I think there's so much information out there for

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<v Speaker 4>people who know that we should check our breasts, like

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<v Speaker 4>check your breast, check your breast in the first of

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<v Speaker 4>the month, but what does that actually look like? And

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<v Speaker 4>for someone who maybe has never done it before, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>how would someone conduct a self examination and know what

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<v Speaker 4>it is that they're feeling for?

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<v Speaker 6>Look, I think chief that day of your month, understand

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<v Speaker 6>that your breaths are going to change a little bit

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<v Speaker 6>according to your hormonal cycle, and so chi's a time

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<v Speaker 6>that's away from your period. And then just do a

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<v Speaker 6>few simple steps, use the palms, the fingertips and work

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<v Speaker 6>around in a sort of clockwise motion. Get a really

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<v Speaker 6>good feel of what is your breast shaped side. There's

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<v Speaker 6>lumps and bumps, a bit different.

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon, everyone's in their car right now, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>a boob. I hope they are men?

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<v Speaker 6>Can do you do it in your car?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure?

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<v Speaker 6>Look at the person next to you. They're probably going

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<v Speaker 6>around in a preformation to you. No, guy, A really good,

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<v Speaker 6>a really good thing to do is to do it

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<v Speaker 6>in the mirror, because, as you know, breaths are a

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<v Speaker 6>mobile organ. They're on the outside of us. Actually looking

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<v Speaker 6>at the way in which your breasts smooth the shape,

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<v Speaker 6>looking for skin textural changes and things like that. Whilst

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<v Speaker 6>doing yourself breast examination in the mirror, you're then you're

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<v Speaker 6>ticking all those boxes.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Sarah, how can you tell the difference between like

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<v Speaker 2>a normal fatty lump or a gland or something that

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<v Speaker 2>we all have, because like when you feel your boobs

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<v Speaker 2>any day, you can feel like little lumps and bumps

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<v Speaker 2>in there, But how do you tell the difference, So,

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<v Speaker 2>for example, if you feel like a little pea or

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<v Speaker 2>something a bit harder, Like, what are the actual characteristics

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<v Speaker 2>we're looking for?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, look, it's important to recognize that most breast cancers

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<v Speaker 6>are actually you know there is start off really small

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<v Speaker 6>and they're hard to feel, so you may not actually

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<v Speaker 6>feel them. I think you're quite right. In particular younger women,

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<v Speaker 6>there are lots of lumps and bumps there. What we're

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<v Speaker 6>looking for is things that have changed, So a new lump,

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<v Speaker 6>a thickening of the breast tissue in the case of

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<v Speaker 6>my own breast cancer, a skin discoloration like a permanent

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<v Speaker 6>bruise that won't go around a go away, or anything

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<v Speaker 6>that actually sort of changes the shape and size of

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<v Speaker 6>your breast that wasn't there before. That's when you need

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<v Speaker 6>to be that sort of breast to wear and then

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<v Speaker 6>go and see your health professional.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it something that men need to be conscious of

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<v Speaker 4>as well? Because I know that we usually talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Women and women need to check their breast but should

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<v Speaker 4>men be even wary of this?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it something that men can can get?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Look, men have a really important role to play.

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<v Speaker 6>A very small percentage of men that do you get

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<v Speaker 6>breast cancer, so they can also check their breasts in

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<v Speaker 6>a similar way to women understanding you know, obviously it's

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<v Speaker 6>a much smaller area that they're going to be checking,

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<v Speaker 6>but you know, changes in that general breast area. It's

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<v Speaker 6>also important to check your arm pits and up to

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<v Speaker 6>the collar bone as well, because you'll be looking for

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<v Speaker 6>changes in those lymph notes that's where they live. And

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<v Speaker 6>for men, actually, I would also say they have an

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<v Speaker 6>important role to help with their partners and indeed noticing

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<v Speaker 6>that perhaps your partner has a change in their breast appearance.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I know the tag line is have you

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<v Speaker 6>felt yours lately? And I'm not suggesting that you necessarily

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<v Speaker 6>go and feel someone else's do.

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<v Speaker 1>It with.

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<v Speaker 6>All eyes on where appropriate. Sometimes, you know, we need

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<v Speaker 6>to look after each other.

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<v Speaker 5>You're doing great work.

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<v Speaker 1>The National Breast Cancer Foundation actually, since their inception in

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen ninety four, the Breast Cancer Right Ausralia has your.

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<v Speaker 5>Amazing it's an amazing stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Too high though.

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<v Speaker 4>I know you've got a conversation that can actually change

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<v Speaker 4>and save people's lives.

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<v Speaker 5>Of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and October is actually National Breast Cancer a Witness Month,

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<v Speaker 1>so're starting today, Professor Sarah Lewis, thank you for joining

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<v Speaker 1>us on the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you, great breast help.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, boobies, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Next on the show, Oh my god, the wedding that

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<v Speaker 1>everyone is talking about, Lana del Ray was married with

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<v Speaker 1>all her closest alligators over the weekend. She was married

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<v Speaker 1>in a swamp to her her new husband that she

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<v Speaker 1>met less than a month ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Dreams glamour like getting married in swamp plans. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 4>it's swampy marshlands, surrounded by alligators.

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<v Speaker 5>Totally. It's an interesting wedding. We've got the deats. Next, Denbo. Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>you guys know Lana del Ray, Brittain, Laura, she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely this is a story I am so invested in.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's it's a bizarre story. Ready, Lana focusing on

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<v Speaker 5>her music career for.

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<v Speaker 1>The last few decades superstar. Oh she's incredible and she's

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<v Speaker 1>arguably thee of her career. She did headline Coachella a

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<v Speaker 1>few months ago. She's everywhere. She was nominated for an Album

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<v Speaker 1>of the Year at the Grammys. Lana is huge now

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<v Speaker 1>after a month of dating. This weekend, Lana del Ray

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<v Speaker 1>married alligator to a guide, Jeremy de Frene. According to

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<v Speaker 1>People magazine, it was a small outdoor ceremony in Louisiana

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<v Speaker 1>in the Bayu where Dunfrein works as an alligator.

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<v Speaker 2>To a guide, So they were alligators at the wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>some regator.

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<v Speaker 4>But I like because I remember when this article or

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<v Speaker 4>the like story first hit the headlines and everyone was

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like trying to figure out whether they were

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<v Speaker 4>or weren't dating, whether it was real, because it sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like fake news. Lana del Ray marrying an alligator like

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<v Speaker 4>tour guide, it sounds like it can't be real. But

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<v Speaker 4>apparently they met in twenty nineteen, so that's when they

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<v Speaker 4>first met. But they've only been publicly dating for one

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<v Speaker 4>month and then they tied the knot in swamp Marshland.

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<v Speaker 3>I wrecked out of alligators.

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<v Speaker 2>She must have had a solid prenup, right, like, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're I don't think alligator tour guides are on par

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<v Speaker 2>with London Ray, like album of the year.

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<v Speaker 3>That's quick. If you've I know, you've known each other

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<v Speaker 3>since twenty nineteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there was a lot of stuff going on behind

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<v Speaker 2>the scenes for the last couple of years and people

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<v Speaker 2>just didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Know about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're married after a month and you are

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<v Speaker 2>as loaded as Lenda Delray, I'd be hoping that's a prina.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also a big Lana fan, and this is very

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<v Speaker 1>Lana Delray, Like all her music is about old Hollywood men.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants a traditional strong.

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<v Speaker 3>Man alligator nom Lanado.

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<v Speaker 4>I disagree. You're kind of like saying that this was relatable.

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<v Speaker 4>We're talking about this earlier and Mitch is like it's

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<v Speaker 4>so relatable, Like she's like the relatable one of the people.

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<v Speaker 4>There is nothing relatable about marrying an alligator tour guy.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, I don't think the wedding itself is

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<v Speaker 5>really normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but her whole vibe is that she's a celebrity,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's like goes through the normal emotions that we

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<v Speaker 1>all go through.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, everyone's been saying it's not going to

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<v Speaker 4>work out because it's such a well first yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 4>such a like shotgun wedding, but also because they're obviously

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<v Speaker 4>from such two different worlds. He was married, well, no,

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<v Speaker 4>so he was engaged before. So he had a fiance.

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<v Speaker 4>Her name was Kelly, and Kelly, well she's been coming

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<v Speaker 4>out and talking all over the tabloids. Yeah, so she

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<v Speaker 4>was engaged for twelve years to this guy and then

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<v Speaker 4>he's gone on to marry Lana Delray after being engaged

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<v Speaker 4>for only one month.

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<v Speaker 3>But of course you're going to one month, want Delray.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna speed that, lock it down before she changes

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<v Speaker 3>the mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Want some facts about the wedding picture this mosquitoes. The

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<v Speaker 1>wedding took place under a white tent in swamp plant

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<v Speaker 1>in Louisiana.

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<v Speaker 4>Swamp land. That's that's nothing. Screams romance like swamps.

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<v Speaker 5>They had the fan boats surrounding the sort of archers

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<v Speaker 5>at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a fan.

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<v Speaker 5>That's how you get around on the bike.

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<v Speaker 3>With the fan that pushes. Sorry, I thought you meant

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<v Speaker 3>it was just a boat full of fans.

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<v Speaker 1>No, and apparently no, no, no photos have emerged. But

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<v Speaker 1>apparently the fans were on and they were blowing her veil.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen the photos.

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<v Speaker 5>We have the photo that's a pixel.

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<v Speaker 2>It actually looks so I'm not. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>yuck anyone's yarng. It looks so unromantic. But she's walking

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<v Speaker 2>down a swamp. If she's happy, I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 3>We do love Lana.

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<v Speaker 4>But also I don't think it's necessarily the beginning of

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<v Speaker 4>the end, just because it seems a little bit like

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<v Speaker 4>a shotgun wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>And I want to hear the happy stories.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I once worked with the woman who she got engaged

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<v Speaker 3>after dating her partner boyfriend whatever, they met online.

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<v Speaker 4>They were dating for seven days, they went and got married,

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<v Speaker 4>and they've been to fourteen years now.

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<v Speaker 3>Fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think there's a textbook for any of this stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>I think your lovers love.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you feel it, to go forth with

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<v Speaker 2>a printup, yeah, or it will.

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<v Speaker 5>Take your calls. Did it work? How long? What's the

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<v Speaker 5>shortest engagement?

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<v Speaker 3>We can find the shortest one fast, But do we

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<v Speaker 3>want it to be successful? We don't care.

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<v Speaker 4>O gay, he could be unhappily married after seven days

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<v Speaker 4>of dating.

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<v Speaker 3>We want to hear about it.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not the question.

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<v Speaker 1>Happiness we don't care about Here at the pickup, we

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<v Speaker 1>want dates and numbers, calls Here at the show, but

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<v Speaker 1>taking new calls because Lana del Ray was married over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend to her alligating alligator hunting husband.

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<v Speaker 5>Are they hunter to a guy? He runs too? Guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he got to text the gators.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, lots of people have been coming out and saying

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<v Speaker 4>that they don't think that the relationship is going to

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<v Speaker 4>work because it feels like a shotgun marriage. We only

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<v Speaker 4>found now the month ago that they were dating. But

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<v Speaker 4>look now they're married, and we here at the pickup

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<v Speaker 4>think that this is a beautiful coming together of two

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<v Speaker 4>very different people.

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<v Speaker 3>That's going to be a relationship filled with love.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's going to last, and I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So what we wanted is we just wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>know if you've been dating your partner for a very

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<v Speaker 4>short period of time and then you rushed to the altar,

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<v Speaker 4>what happens? Yeah, I start together, you get a good idea.

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<v Speaker 4>We want to give her a bit of a just

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<v Speaker 4>you know, a bit of confidence.

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<v Speaker 5>Emily's joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>Emily, firstly, before you tell us if you're still together,

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<v Speaker 1>how long did you know each other before marriage?

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<v Speaker 8>We knew each other for three months before we got married.

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<v Speaker 3>Three months.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, how long before you got engaged or were you

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of like, oh, we're here, let's get married.

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<v Speaker 3>It all happen that quickly.

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<v Speaker 8>No, we got let's see, we've met each other, and

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<v Speaker 8>then three months later married. So it was about like

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<v Speaker 8>two months after we got engaged and then got married.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, how long have you been together for? Now?

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<v Speaker 8>If they are all right, we've been together twenty four years?

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I got a word.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah the magic Wait, really important question.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you happy?

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<v Speaker 8>I am? I'm still okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't recommend it to everyone, but it worked out

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<v Speaker 8>for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, happy for your Emily. We're getting a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of calls girls, Tracy, Hey, talk to us. How long

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<v Speaker 1>did it take to get engaged?

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<v Speaker 5>And I still together?

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<v Speaker 9>I met my husband when I was twenty one and

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<v Speaker 9>we were both twenty one. Four and a half months

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<v Speaker 9>later we got engaged. Ten months after that we got married,

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<v Speaker 9>and this Thursday we will celebrate our thirty second anniversary.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh but that's incredible. What's the secret?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh gosh, I think just if you know, you know?

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>You just know?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I knew? How do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean?

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, still married and I look back now, and I

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<v Speaker 9>think at twenty one, like we freaked out. Our parents

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<v Speaker 9>are like, you know, it's a bit quick, and it's like,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, but.

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<v Speaker 6>We love it.

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<v Speaker 9>How then we want to get married and now that

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<v Speaker 9>I have adult children at like twenty seven and twenty nine,

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<v Speaker 9>if they said that at twenty one, I'd be like, what.

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<v Speaker 3>The hell, Tracy.

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<v Speaker 4>This is why I asked because when people say you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I mean, obviously I'm happily married now I

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<v Speaker 4>have a wonderful husband. But I thought I knew when

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<v Speaker 4>I was in my twenties, and I would have married

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<v Speaker 4>someone who was terrible for me.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, you know, well the ridiculous part is, and I

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<v Speaker 9>don't know, this probably makes me sound lanme, but this

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<v Speaker 9>was my first proper boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's beautiful. It doesn't make you also a different

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<v Speaker 2>time like.

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<v Speaker 9>Back dad, we got married in nineteen ninety two, so

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<v Speaker 9>that's like an ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also it's also when which was born. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even born, know you weren't, no, But also it's different

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<v Speaker 1>different people. Like it's so personally there's no one blanket

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<v Speaker 1>rule that mark. So Laura, you at twenty one, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry your frontal lobe was jelly, wasn't even well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I really liked men who couldn't be faithful.

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<v Speaker 4>That was my that was my go to my kind.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, we have one more. Jesse's joining us on

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<v Speaker 5>the line.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, thank you, Trace, Happy anniversary, Jesse, talk to us.

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<v Speaker 5>How long were you engaged for? And he's still together?

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<v Speaker 7>Well it's not me, but my dad's side as a

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<v Speaker 7>family have a history of getting engaged really fast. So

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<v Speaker 7>my grandparents got engaged after twenty four hours of knowing

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<v Speaker 7>each other across one year twenty and then my auntie

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<v Speaker 7>and uncle got engaged after five days. What and my

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<v Speaker 7>cousin got engaged after a forty eight hour first date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh and my, so it's genetic.

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<v Speaker 4>How many of these were happy relationships all three.

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<v Speaker 3>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>When you said it was kind of a family thing, I

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<v Speaker 4>thought maybe religious.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, here, I am engaged after twelve years of dating.

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<v Speaker 1>So.

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<v Speaker 5>Completely, so good at the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 3>And my mom and dad, I'm just going to end

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<v Speaker 3>this in there.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom and dad met on the one night over

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<v Speaker 2>dinner as a setup. Knew that night that they were

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<v Speaker 2>going to be together for the rest of their life,

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<v Speaker 2>and in a couple of days. It's there forty seventh

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<v Speaker 2>wedding anniversary. That's beautiful, it's so wholesome. It's my dad's

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<v Speaker 2>been married and divorced three times. Oh well, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>wain to w Laura