WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Britt went to an event with her NIPS accidentally on display 👀 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:12.920 Laura. 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:23.800 Come on, hello, everyone, welcome to Thursday Thursday. 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.880 She's been doing over there, Laura. No, it's not my 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:28.200 dance moves. I have a real problem, guys, and I 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:29.040 don't know what I'm going to. 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:30.400 Do about it. It's terrible. 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:34.200 Yeah, so is my daughter's. Unfortunately, so Molly May. She's 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:37.560 almost five, she turns five next month. She has become 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:39.680 obsessed with Taylor Swift. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:42.680 Swift along with everyone else in the world. 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:45.080 No, but like, the obsession runs so deep, and I 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.280 I mean, I know that she kind of like transcends 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:50.000 different age groups. I didn't quite realize how obsessed a 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:51.239 five year old could be, but. 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:51.960 Anyway, she was. 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:54.520 She's watched, like, listens to the album, puts it on 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:57.560 the car, plays at home, and then on Disney Plas. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.440 I found that they have the whole Errors Toll like 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.840 a concert filmed, and I was like, oh, Molly would 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.160 love to watch this, So I put it on. I thought, 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:06.880 surely I've been to the concert, it's age appropriate. 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.320 She'll love it. 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:12.480 Turns out Taylor Swift is not age appropriate because my 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:14.840 five year old is now dancing like she thinks she's 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:15.520 Taylor Swift. 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.280 And I'm talking she's like dropping it to the floor. 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.039 She's doing this body roll thing where she like runs 0:01:21.040 --> 0:01:22.120 her hands up her thigh. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.160 I know the kindness my go to movie and now. 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:26.040 I yeah, okay for you to do it, brit I 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:28.000 don't know what to do because I don't want to 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:30.520 make her feel embarrassed. I don't want to shame her, 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:31.880 but I'm sure as hell don't want her doing it 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:32.600 at a birthday party. 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:33.119 Can you just. 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:35.040 Imagine if everyone else is just like doing past the 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:38.399 parcel and she's just twirking, she's dropping it like it's hard. 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:40.560 It could be worse, though, I mean, Taylor's lot kind 0:01:40.560 --> 0:01:42.840 of a bee. It's in terms of sexiness, Like it's 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:44.080 not Miley Cyrus. 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.920 But but a five year old doing a body roll 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:47.360 and like pulling their hands up their body. 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:50.160 She's not nailing it. Doesn't look she does. 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:50.800 She nails it. 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:52.760 She's pretty good, but she like she like starts with 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.160 the ankles and then like drags her hands up her 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.360 body up to her waist and that as she's going 0:01:57.440 --> 0:02:01.320 like it's just true sexual and sexualized for a five 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:03.000 year old, Like it's not. It makes me uncomfortable. 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:04.240 I'm sure other mums have that proper. 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.000 Yeah, I reckon, there's load to people that are probably 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:07.960 gonna write in or help you out with that. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.080 I think that's something everyone goes through, right. 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:10.360 I don't know. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.800 It's so frustrating because you think you're you think you're 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.240 picking things at an age appropriate and then somehow they 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:15.799 managed to. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:19.959 Make it all right. Well, listen, it's a big show 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:20.760 today for your Thursday. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.600 I'll vote. We are doing an ask gun Cut next. 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:23.600 We do it every Thursday. 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:25.639 It is where you write in with your deep, darky 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:28.080 burning questions and we do our best to help you. 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:30.480 And we actually speak to one of our listeners today. 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:32.600 Yeah, we've got a bit of secrecy coming up in 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:33.079 this one. 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:35.000 Secret in relationship? What do you do? 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:37.840 And that infiltrates your love life. It's stressful, So we'll 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:39.480 help that person out. Coming up here at the pickup 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:42.840 Hey Thursday, which means we need to do this Why 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:47.919 ask UNCUTA ask gun cut? 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:48.840 We do it every week, don't we? 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:49.720 Yeah? 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:50.720 Everything on Thursday. 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.840 Ask Guncut is where somebody calls up gives us your 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:55.720 dramas and we do our best to answer that. It's 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.960 like a free counselor therapy session. This week we have 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:01.920 someone who's been lied to in their relationship. 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:04.160 Yeah, drama set. We've all kind of been in that situation, 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:06.320 haven't we. Girls, We've all been in a similar vibe. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:09.000 I've never experienced what this person's experience. 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:10.880 I mean, yeah, my partner had a double life, so yeah, 0:03:10.919 --> 0:03:11.359 I've been there. 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:14.040 Yeah, we've all had checkered relationship parts. So we can 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.280 help Molly, who's joining us today on the show. Hey, Molly, 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:17.320 what's taken under him? 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:17.440 So? 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:21.440 I'm recently engaged and I've just found out that he's 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:27.240 actually been married before me. It's a whole thing, and 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:29.480 you know, he didn't hide it from me, It just 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.480 kind of it just never came up a conversation. So 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.560 I just wanted to know if you guys thought that 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:36.880 it's enough of a red flag for me to leave him. 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:38.960 How long have you been with him, Molly, Like before 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:41.360 he got engaged? Are we talking like quick two months 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:42.720 or I've been a couple of years. 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.720 So we've been together about two years and he engaged 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:49.560 like I got to engage sorry about a month ago. 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:51.480 So how did you come up though? 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:54.040 When you say you've just found out and he didn't 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.240 lie to you, It just never came up before, Like, 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:57.840 how did it come up now? 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.800 So we went to a family event on the weekend 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:03.520 and his brother just casually brought up that he saw 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:07.400 this chick on the weekend to my partner and was like, oh, 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.000 I haven't seen her in ages, And I was like, 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:09.839 who is this chick? 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.200 Oh, you didn't even know she existed. So not only 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:15.480 you didn't know she was engaged, you didn't know she existed. 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.920 Yeah, it was just an old flame, like they were 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:22.800 really young, and it just kind of fizzled out. So 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:24.960 they both kind of came to his mutual agreement to 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:26.920 end it and never talk about it again. 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:28.320 How are you married for? 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.479 I think they were only married for like a year maybe, 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:35.159 but I don't know exact details, but it wasn't very long. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:39.839 Mormly, did you ask him why he kept it from you? 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:40.960 Because I think he. 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.640 Just didn't think it was important because it was so 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.039 long ago. I mean, obviously it's important. 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:48.280 When you asked him like, why didn't you tell me this? 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:50.360 What was his answer? Did he just say he didn't 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:51.560 think it was important information? 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:56.279 Yeah, he just simply was like, it was just so 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:59.040 long ago. I didn't think I needed to mention it, But. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.240 Has he been open with you now with your curiosity, 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.960 because I'm assuming if you're anything like me, I would 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.360 be like prying for information, what, when, how? 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:06.640 Why? 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:08.640 I try to. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.520 Bring it up, but it's kind of just been on 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.440 my mind for the past month, trying to figure out 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.120 how to bring it out, more questions to ask. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:19.640 I'm curious whether I mean it end it? Yeah, why 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:20.160 it ended? 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:23.560 Like, because you know, it's one thing to get married 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:25.400 and then to say, oh, it fizzled out. Fizzling out 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:28.080 after a year seems like a pretty quick fizzle. I 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:30.200 would be really curious if if I was you, and 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:32.600 I would want to know the why behind it, and 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:36.120 maybe if he behaved badly or maybe whatever. Like I mean, 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.880 we're all projecting now, but if something bad happened, maybe 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:40.520 that's the reason why he didn't want to tell you. 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.159 And I don't necessarily think that the person that he 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:45.520 was in a previous relationship means that's how he's going 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:48.360 to behave in your relationship. But I would also see 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:50.200 it as a pretty big red flag if my partner 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.479 just didn't want to tell me that they were married before. 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.440 It seems like a crazy thing to me. Okay. 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.040 I don't think it's a red flag at all. I 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:58.800 don't think you need to like change the locks on 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:01.520 the house and leave. But I do think it is 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.400 unusual that he didn't tell you. But I think what 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:04.919 you need to do now is sit down and have 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:06.839 that conversation and say, look, I'm going to try and 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:09.680 understand why you didn't tell me. I get that, but 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:12.000 I think he needs to be forthcoming now with any 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.840 questions that you may have. And if he's still not forthcoming, 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:17.200 then there are bigger issues because it's one thing to 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:20.440 have withheld the information, but now you know, and you're 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:23.120 curious and you're asking questions. As a partner that's about 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:26.479 to enter a marriage, you deserve to have those questions answered. 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:31.200 Yeah. I agree. Yes, it's been a rough month. So yeah, 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:32.279 thank you, thank you for that. 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:34.080 Sorry. 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:36.159 Yeah, it's crazy to find that out, isn't it? 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:37.240 The only thing? I think? 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:40.200 And this applies to any sort of like omitting of details. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.840 There is that fine line between okay, well when does 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:44.920 it actually become lying, because like you can say, oh, 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:47.080 I didn't lie, I just didn't tell you. At some 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.440 point it crosses into well you're not telling me. 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.479 Is actually you lying. My friend is no. 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:56.360 My friend genuinely female was married, then got divorced, gone 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.479 to a new relationship years deep, and they were getting 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.160 married with him thing she never said she was married before. 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:03.760 And I said to her, I was like, you need 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:05.520 to tell him. She's like, well, I don't, and I 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:07.800 was like, no, you do, and but she was like, 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.680 but it's a part of my life. Because I was 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.120 like how why. I was like, why are you not 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:13.840 telling him? Because it's when it comes out eventually, he's 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.360 going to be like, cool, why have you lied to 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.160 me all this time? And she's like, well, it's not lying. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:19.680 It's a part of my life. I want to forget 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:22.480 and pretend didn't happen. So I just want to start 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:24.360 living from now. And I said, I get that you 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:26.320 want that, but it's still a part of your life 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.520 that your next husband needs to know. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:30.400 I could not be in a relationship with someone that 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.880 lacks that much self awareness. I'm sorry, but that is 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:33.960 a major red flag. 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:37.240 I'd run, Oh, I wouldn't run, but I think that 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:39.640 it is a red flag. Let's not kind of gloss. 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:43.040 Over that flag, all right, it's a flag. Nonetheless, the 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:44.600 color TBC. 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:45.720 Look thirty one oh six ' five. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.520 I want to know if you have had a wardrobe mishap, 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:51.680 because I certainly had one that I'm still giggling about. 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.760 I don't know if I should be giggling. And I've 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.520 got a photo to show you guys. Not you guys 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:57.600 that are listening, but Mitch and Laurie will show you. 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:00.840 All right, that's an ext I on the pick up guys. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.040 Okay, I had a bit of a wardrobe malfunction that 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:08.360 I'm laughing about now, but I'm also mortified about when 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:11.080 I think back to the moment. So I on the weekend, 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:14.560 I went to this like really fancy luncheon at a 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:16.640 very fancy place in broad daylight. 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.400 It was very outside luncheon. You go to a lot 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:20.480 of I don't mind lunch. 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:21.320 She's an ula. 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:24.680 So my house that I live in is like so 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:27.920 dark and damp, and there's no natural light, and the 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:30.200 lights that I do have in the bathroom are like 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:31.040 really dark. 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.920 It's not the house sad. It's a wet house. 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.360 Well, I used to live in that house. 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:37.320 Often I will get ready in the morning, like my 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:39.680 makeup will or get dress or whatever, and I'll go 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:42.120 outside and I'll be like, whoa, my makeup's terrible because 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:44.800 you can't see light. No lighting. So I got ready 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:46.959 for this event and I was wearing this like brown 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:49.480 body suit. It was really figure hugging. It was a 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:51.600 skim thing and it was hot. It was like sucked 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:53.559 me in and I was like, oh, feeling myself like, 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:56.319 because that's what bodysuits do, right, they suck in feeling, tight, feeling, 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.240 And it was so tight and supportive. I didn't need 0:08:58.280 --> 0:08:59.880 a bra, which great. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:02.000 So I go to the standard with those kinds of things. 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:04.160 Yeah, pretty standard because that's what they're sort of made for. 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:07.400 I feel like it doesn't matter what the what the 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:09.120 attire is. You rarely wear a bra. 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:14.839 Ham you wear one right now. You can see her nipples, right, 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:16.720 they're all natural too. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:18.479 You can see nipples. 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:21.440 Through bras anyway. Anyway, guys, you're sidetracking, So. 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.439 Did you his jaws on the floor. She's got married 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:25.880 and to the wrong woman, quite clearly. 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:29.160 He No, it's really impressed you're not wearing a bra. 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:30.360 They look really nice. 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:33.800 Can we get this up on the social video of 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:35.679 what we're seeing right now? 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.240 I tell you my story or my nipples just got 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:39.719 hard at Wow. 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:43.280 So because you guys like talking about my boobe. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.160 I went to this event, took all these great photos, 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.080 and I was walking around with such confidence because I 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:48.840 was feeling it. 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:49.600 And then I. 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:52.360 Posted a photo, sent a photo to my partner band 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:55.360 and Ben writes back to me and he was like. 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.560 Oh, did you did you wear that to the fancy luncheon? 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.720 And I was like yeah, and he's but you can 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:03.240 see your boobs and I was like, oh, yeah, I 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:04.959 don't wear a bra, thinking that he just meant that 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:06.440 I wasn't wearing bra and he's like, no, babe, like 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.760 you boob And I was like what And I went 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:13.920 back to the photo. My whole the whole shirt is 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.280 see through, completely see through, but I couldn't see it 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:22.400 in the light. Look at this, Look at the confidence. 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.680 Look at me the confidence I've got to drink up. 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:25.920 In the air. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.400 I'm like, you mean that is full aero. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:30.880 I mean it's great, it is full. And now this 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:32.880 is this was full of This wasn't an event. This 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.600 is full of patrons. But they are also photographs, so 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:38.920 actually paying patreons. I was just walking around with my 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.600 boobs and I but the fact people must have looked 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:43.440 at me, being like, wow, the confidence that girl has 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:44.440 to have her boobs out. 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.400 You know what would be worse? It would be me. 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:48.560 Mine just looked like too empty stocks with sand in 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:49.760 the bottom of them, flapping around. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:52.319 You wouldn't be to spot down in the middle of 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:52.760 my waist. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:56.280 And then was it a flash only situation in the 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:56.880 broad daylight? 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:58.920 Could you see that is not a flash that this 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:00.760 photo right now with my boot This was just a 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:02.120 normal photo, no flash on it. 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:05.000 And look how happy I say, your mouth is open. 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:06.600 You almost look like hey titties. 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:10.840 Three hours And the fact that no one told me 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:13.440 means they all thought I made that conscious decision, so 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:14.800 now I have to sit in and roll with it. 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:16.120 That I was just like, yeah, I'm just feeling it. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:17.679 Ten you're I'm thirteen one or six five? If you 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:19.840 had a britt moment, did this happen to you wardrobe wise? 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.800 So this dates back to my teenage years. I had 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:26.240 some friends around and my little sister and I we 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:28.400 used to fight like cat and dog. We're best friends now. 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:31.920 But she we had just been hanging it on her 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:34.440 as we did, and she wandered off and went to 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:37.680 the toilet and just casually came back out and she 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:43.280 had a strip of I'm not exaggerating, probably ten sheets 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:46.959 of toilet paper hanging out the back of her pants. 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:47.559 It was like. 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:55.160 In a movie scene. It was ridiculous. I was so mortified. 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.080 We laugh about it all the time. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:58.640 I thought you were going to say, on a shoe, 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:00.599 but when it's still connected to the so that's a 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:01.200 real problem. 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:02.200 It's still soaking it up. 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.320 Stop one last one, Lisa, what happened to you quickly 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:05.760 wrap it up for a s wardrobe malfunction? 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.800 Okay. In my younger years, I was dancing at the 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:12.000 nightclub with my friends, strutting our stuff up on stage. 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:15.760 Thought we were awesome. My shoes ding strap broke. I 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.520 was too busy doing the moves, probably to Banana Rama 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:22.840 and Madonna, and out came my boob dancing along with me. 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:25.600 I had no idea. Somebody that was down on the 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:27.800 ground kept pointing at me and I'm like, yay, yay, 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:35.839 and then I realized. I was like, I just want 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.079 to smile. I was so embarrassed. I wanted to cry 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:41.400 and ide, but I just had to pull my top up, 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:45.440 hold it in place, and keep dancing like nothing happens again. 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:48.360 The confidence it's just a boob all right, look coming up. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:51.880 Bumble has made a very big apology Bumble the dating app. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.880 We're all familiar with it. I think you know, you're 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:55.600 probably the most recent time. I think that was actually 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:57.280 the face of it for a while. There, you were 0:12:57.360 --> 0:12:58.360 the face of it. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.520 Bumble for a while. It was a Bumble ambassador. Well anyway, 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:03.600 there was the bus stops. 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:06.679 Speaking of bus stops, they've just done a massive rebrand 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:09.480 and they've had to make a public apology for how 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:10.920 much they missed the mark with this one. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:13.640 All right, thank god you're not associated with them anymore. Britain. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:14.800 Oh years and years. 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:16.160 All right, that's next on the pickup. 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.400 Now we've just established we're going to talk about Bumble 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.599 the dating app. But then we remembered Britney used to 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:22.720 be the face of Bumble. 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:28.280 The day Bumble in Britney, many many many years ago. 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:29.800 I did a campaign for them because I was on 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.559 Bumble and I was single for ten years. I was 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.000 on Bumble and they were like, hey, can we use 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:34.959 your profile as an advert? And I was like okay, 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:37.800 So they put my actual real life Bumble profile was 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.480 on bus stops around Australia everywhere. I still didn't hook. 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:40.679 Up, but. 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.200 Still didn't find the mania dreams on Bumble. 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:46.600 Well no, look, I mean I think the reason why 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:49.800 Bumble has been so it's been like the nice dating 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:51.720 app for so long, and I think it's because part 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.600 of their marketing and their campaigning has been all around 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:58.079 it being a women's first dating app, so if you've 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.920 never used it, Basically the idea is that on there 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:03.120 you can be as a female. You have to make 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.240 the first move, so men have to you can match, 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.400 but they have to wait in order to get a 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:10.560 message from females. So that's kind of changed recently, and 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.720 Bumble's been making a lot of small changes to the 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:14.840 way in which the app functions, and one of the 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:17.839 most recent rollouts is that now there's an opt in button, 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.720 So if you want to allow men to be able 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:22.880 to make the first move, that has been changed as well, 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:24.760 so you can kind of tick that opt out button. 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.360 What if you're old school, like I want the man 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:27.800 to message me, or if you. 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:29.720 Just spend your time Paul you can't think of a 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:31.840 first line, or you're like, oh, make him get away, 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:33.920 But it gives women the choice to do that now. 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:37.520 Bumble has been teasing a rebrand and a new marketing 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.080 strategy for the last couple of weeks and this rolled 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:42.480 out only the other day. But there has been so 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:45.680 much backlash to this because I think they well and 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.440 truly miss the mark. So there's been billboards all around 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:52.120 the country, and the billboard reads this, you know full 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:56.120 well a vow of celibacy is not the answer introducing 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:57.520 the new Bumble. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:58.960 I don't even really get it. 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:01.160 The reason for this is is that some women are 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:04.520 so over dating. They're so over like the rigmarole of 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:06.760 like going on dates, hooking up, doing the one light 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:09.880 stand thing. That celibacy is having a real moment. I mean, 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:11.440 we spoke about it on the show the other week. 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:16.000 Craig Craig David you know who sang a song ploning 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:20.120 on a Wednesday, like he's now celebrate Julia Fox, who's 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:21.120 Kanye West X. 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:22.880 She's been celibate for two and a half years. 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:23.960 Celibacy is having a moment. 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:26.040 It's having a real moment. So this seems like a 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:29.000 very strange ad for Bumble to come off the back 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:31.000 and say, you know what, guys, who whoa whoa whoa, whoa. 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.320 You don't need to take drastic measures like celibacy instead, 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:36.800 just use the Bumble app Now, the reason why people 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:39.360 are angry about this is because they're saying that this 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:43.120 goes against everyone's like very genuine right to be able 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.400 to choose celibacy if they're not happy in the dating world. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.240 That was also not the only billboard. There was another 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:49.320 one that said thou shalt not give up on dating 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.600 and become a nun problematic. 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:53.440 It's a little bit on the nose, isn't it. 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:54.600 I think my. 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:56.840 Problem here is right the second that I saw the billboard, 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:59.800 I cringed and I was like, rip Bumble, Like, I 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:01.560 know that people are going to come for you over 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:04.240 this ad What I don't like, and I've said this 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:06.520 about so many different topics that have happened in the 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:08.720