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Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Rise and Conquered Podcast. I'm your host,

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Speaker 2: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I have such an epic episode for

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Speaker 2: But it's because like when you and this is kind

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love that so much. G and It's so

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Speaker 2: into the episode. And well, let's get into that, because

448
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 2: you said you're just chatting about you know, that practice

449
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 2: of mastering your mindset when you left your corporate job.

450
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Speaker 2: Just start healthy hustletlers, and I love that, Like it's

451
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Speaker 2: literally their first ten minutes and we're like straight, like,

452
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Speaker 2: there's no messing around here. You can tell that we

453
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Speaker 2: you can tell that we're best friends.

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Speaker 3: So seriously, they're always likely.

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Speaker 1: If I ever record with someone and it goes like

456
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Speaker 1: straight into a topic and we haven't even asked a question,

457
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is so my type of person.

458
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: I just like love those chats so much, and you

459
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Speaker 1: as you are my person. You're literally my person, so I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not surprised no surface level chats here, guys, straight into

461
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Speaker 2: the depths of manifestation.

462
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 3: But let's okay, let's back it up a little bit mad.

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Speaker 2: So, so you have a very similar story with me

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Speaker 2: where you had a very successful corporate job. You know,

465
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Speaker 2: you quote unquote made it, and then you decided to

466
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 2: leave that and really kind of pursue your own thing

467
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Speaker 2: and you started your podcast.

468
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Speaker 3: So can you tell the.

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Speaker 2: Audience a little bit about, you know, the reasons for

470
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Speaker 2: leaving your corporate job and what the transition was from

471
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Speaker 2: corporate into you know, finding your passion.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, So I started my corporate career or working

473
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Speaker 1: career at the Cottnam Group, which is a global fashion retailer,

474
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Speaker 1: and I was there for about four and a half years.

475
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Speaker 1: So I worked across at the starting their charity events

476
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Speaker 1: and then as the event manager for cotton On Body

477
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Speaker 1: and I loved the energy there, like the plate, the

478
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: energy in that place was literally electric. And I was

479
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: always outside of my comfort zone. I really feel like

480
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: that is where I learned how important being outside of

481
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: your comfort zone is for your personal growth. And so

482
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: each role I had there, like I was so highly

483
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: underqualified for it's not even funny, Like it's like, you know,

484
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 1: I didn't even get an end to score high enough,

485
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 1: and to score to getting straight to UNI, I had

486
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: to go and study it tay first and then make

487
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 1: my way into university. So like I was so underqualified

488
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Speaker 1: for the roles that I was getting. But what it

489
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: did was make me so hungry to grow and to learn,

490
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Speaker 1: and I guess to keep really paving my own path.

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Speaker 1: And I really, you know, like I said, I learned

492
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Speaker 1: how important it was to be outside of my comfort

493
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: zone and that's when I think I felt the most alive.

494
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Speaker 1: But it was, however, a really demanding job and it

495
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Speaker 1: required a lot of me, both mentally and emotionally, and

496
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Speaker 1: I guess as a result, I really struggled a lot

497
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Speaker 1: with burnout. I had very little time for self care

498
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Speaker 1: or even knowledge of self care, to be completely honest.

499
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Speaker 1: And you know, my relationship probably wasn't the best that

500
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Speaker 1: it could be, and so there was all of these

501
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: flow on effects. Even though I loved it, it was

502
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 1: everything else in my world was not in sync. It

503
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: was like my career was thriving, but every other aspect

504
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,199
Speaker 1: was completely out of whack. But at that time, I

505
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: actually was working with a lot of the Ambassadors, so

506
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: some pretty highly influential people, and you know, I would

507
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 1: watch them and there were these people that were literally

508
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: at the top of their game and they were hustling

509
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: so hard, but they never ever got burnt out. And

510
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 1: I became quite obsessed, I guess, with finding out how

511
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: they did it, like how what healthy habits were they doing,

512
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: or what hacks did they have to allow them to

513
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: always stay at the top of their game and to

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Speaker 1: be that really vibrant, alive, best version of themselves. And

515
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: so my husband's actually been very good at that. Ryan,

516
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: you know, he owns his own business, and he's always

517
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: been very good at investing in himself. And so I

518
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: think throughout that time I really started to inject some

519
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: healthy habits into my own life, and as a result,

520
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Speaker 1: I saw the benefits and I started to feel so amazing.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, I also was started to

522
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 1: find myself in a very toxic environment. There. There was

523
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Speaker 1: a lot of people that were really dulling my sparkle,

524
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Speaker 1: and I was aware that I wasn't the best, most vibrant,

525
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: you know, matty self anymore. I wasn't who I wanted

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00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: to show up as every day. And so, you know,

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Speaker 1: when things like that happen in your life, I think

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Speaker 1: that you need to take a step back and start

529
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: really figuring out what's important and so for me, I

530
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: really had to take a step back and I had

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Speaker 1: to redefine what success actually meant to me, Like did

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Speaker 1: it mean the job title and the salary or did

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Speaker 1: it mean a fulfilling, happy relationship and you know, the

534
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Speaker 1: feeling good and waking up feeling inspired and confident and alive,

535
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Speaker 1: and you know that stuff outweighs money for me any day.

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Speaker 1: So I kind of took matters into my own hands

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Speaker 1: and I transitioned to a job in Melbourne, closer to home,

538
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: so that at that point was an hour from home,

539
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Speaker 1: so I was driving an hour to work each day.

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Speaker 1: So I was kind of gone seven till seven seven

541
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Speaker 1: thirty and then traveled all the time on weekends because

542
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Speaker 1: I was in events overseas, like I think at one

543
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: point I did four countries in ten days, so it

544
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: was like incredibly intense. So yeah, I got a job

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00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: back in Melbourne for a health food brand, which I

546
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: just loved, and very quickly I learned the importance of

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Speaker 1: aligning your hustle with heart. So they were a small

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Speaker 1: business and I could really see that fire in their

549
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: balley each and every day. And so it was also

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Speaker 1: during that time that I was able to create more

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Speaker 1: space in my life. You know, I was able to

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Speaker 1: really think about what lights me up, what do I

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Speaker 1: love doing at work, what excites me, what makes me

554
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Speaker 1: feel like, you know, the Maddy I want to be.

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Speaker 1: And I also found my creativity started coming back. My confidence,

556
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: my spark was there. And it was all because I

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00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: had this extra space. Instead of driving to work, going

558
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: into such a hectic environment with thousands of people every day,

559
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: I was walking to work through the botanical gardens or

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00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: riding my pushbick for three k's like such a beautiful

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00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: way to start and finish a day. And so all

562
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I had this time. And because I

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Speaker 1: had this time and this space and this better connection

564
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: with myself, I was given to the universe or my

565
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Speaker 1: higher self for what I was meant to do. And

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Speaker 1: I guess the only way and this might sound totally

567
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Speaker 1: real crazy to people, but like the only way I

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Speaker 1: can describe it, and I remember the moment so crystal clear,

569
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Speaker 1: is that I was walking home through the botanical gardens

570
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: and the idea for the healthy hustlers literally hit me

571
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: like a download from the universe. It was like something

572
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: just dropped from the sky into my head. I knew

573
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: the name, I knew the concept, I knew how it

574
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: would make money. Who would interview? And I literally went

575
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: home and I put together a proposal and I sent

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Speaker 1: it to a friend to see if she wanted to

577
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Speaker 1: co Who's host it with me? And yeah, that's kind

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00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: of how the Healthy Hustles was born. And then from

579
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: there it was just just removing those limiting beliefs that

580
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't smart enough or you know, strong enough to

581
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Speaker 1: do this, and it was just about me then mastering

582
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Speaker 1: my mind. I knew the idea was good, I knew that,

583
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: I knew that I was capable. I just had to

584
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: remove those limiting beliefs and a lot of that just

585
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 1: came down to action. So actually taking that action.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, so many good nuggets that you just said.

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00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: And it's just like mad, it's such an inspirational story.

588
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: Like every time you tell it, I just sit there like, oh.

589
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 3: My god, because no, it is because and this.

590
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 2: Is something I say all the time too, like and

591
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong when I say this, but like,

592
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: you know, you're not special.

593
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 3: I'm not special.

594
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Speaker 2: We just, like you said, you have the whole process

595
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Speaker 2: about making space and then you know this idea coming

596
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: up and you know, taking bold action and all that

597
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 2: sort of thing. And I am the exact same. Like

598
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:10,479
Speaker 2: when I quit my corporate job, I had nothing. I

599
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 2: had nothing lined up, nothing ready, but I knew I

600
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: needed space to find that out and that was a

601
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Speaker 2: scary step. Like I think we can both be like,

602
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 2: holy crip, holy crap. When you work hard for something,

603
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 2: can you know you climb that corporate ladder or you

604
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: you know, have that degree and stuff, and then you

605
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 2: completely turn your back and do something else, it's like, yes,

606
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 2: completely out of your comfort zone. But also now looking back,

607
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 2: we're like, wow, imagine if we didn't do that.

608
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: It's so true. And I guess you know, And this

609
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 1: is for anyone that's feeling the same, is like I

610
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: always had this inner knowing that I was here for

611
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,239
Speaker 1: something more. Like I always I loved my job, I

612
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: loved my career. I always showed up to the best

613
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Speaker 1: of my ability, but I always knew there was something more.

614
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Speaker 1: And I think the more faith that I had that

615
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: would show up when I was ready, when I had

616
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Speaker 1: the space in my life to give it my absolute

617
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: best and to make it work, it would. And so

618
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: anyone that's kind of sitting there thinking, you know, I

619
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: know I'm here for something more or there's something greater

620
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,959
Speaker 1: for me, Like trust that trust that there is, and

621
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Speaker 1: trust that you are exactly where you were meant to

622
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: be right now. Like I can honestly tell you that

623
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Speaker 1: every single job, even the like you know, hospitality jobs

624
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: that I did for twenty dollars an hour, like something

625
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: that gave me something, there was a reason why I

626
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: was there, if it was for a communication skill that

627
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: I developed, or a contact that I might have made,

628
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: whatever it was. Like, wherever you are right now, you

629
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: are there for a reason, and you might not realize

630
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: it right now. But I think the best advice I

631
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: can give someone is just appreciate it. And one of

632
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Speaker 1: the things I'm really I think that I've learned on

633
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: this short journey of mine, but one of the greatest

634
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: lessons is that our previous self wanted to be where

635
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 1: you are right now once upon a time. So you know,

636
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: I'm really honoring that at the moment. Like my new

637
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: season of motherhood and trying to juggle a business that

638
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm so passionate about is the toughest season I've ever had,

639
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: and it's a really emotional, and it's kind of stripped

640
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: me so far from who I was. But I'm reminding

641
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: myself that once upon a time, like younger Maddie, all

642
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: she wanted was to have a business that she was

643
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Speaker 1: passionate about, to be married to Ryan, and to have

644
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: a beautiful baby girl. And I've got all of those

645
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: things right now, So I'm learning to be so grateful

646
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: and appreciate them day in day out. Like no one

647
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: ever says it's going to be easy, and no one

648
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 1: ever says it's always going to be fun. But the

649
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: more that you can appreciate where you are right now,

650
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: I promise it makes the rest so much more better,

651
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: Like so much, it's more amazing because you were just

652
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 1: so filled with gratitude each and every day that you were,

653
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Speaker 1: you were living what you desired.

654
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: Yes, gratitude is so so important, And I think also

655
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: that's I'm glad you touched on that, because that's such

656
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 2: a great point of you know, like it's okay to

657
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: want more and it's okay like that is not selfish

658
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: like something. Again, I'm going to keep talking about my

659
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 2: rise and Conker project, and it's just.

660
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: Because I've got so you should go it's amazing.

661
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 2: Talking to like everyone about it so like, and that's

662
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 2: like the whole thing is like someone will DM me

663
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: and they will be like, you know, like I do

664
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: feel like I, you know, want something more blah blah blah,

665
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 2: and they almost feel guilty for it, and I'm like, no,

666
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 2: that is like it is never selfish for wanting more.

667
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: Never feel guilty that one hundred percent. Like you said, Mads,

668
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 2: it's put on your heart for a reason and you

669
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 2: need to trust that. It's only when you ignore it.

670
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 2: It's like that's when you get out of alignment. As

671
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: long as you are listening to your heart, listening to

672
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 2: your intuition, that is like you know everything's going to

673
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,240
Speaker 2: be okay. And I also love what you said about

674
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 2: you know, all your different jobs and like everything needing

675
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 2: to happen exactly as it did. Oh my god, one

676
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,720
Speaker 2: hundred and ten percent. And it's like, yeah, being grateful

677
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 2: for everything that has happened, because if you can't be

678
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 2: you know, grateful and happy now with what you have,

679
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 2: you literally never will.

680
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: Amen. That is honestly like so important, isn't it. And

681
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, we both know that like the

682
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: more that you get it does. If you're not happy

683
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: within and you're not content, other things filling out your

684
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: world aren't going to make you happy. They might for

685
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: a short period of time, but if you're not completely

686
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,919
Speaker 1: happy and content within, then how can you expect other

687
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: external feelers to fill that void?

688
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: One hundred one hundred and ten percent. And even this

689
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 2: is kind of a bit left field, but I just

690
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: it just kind of popped into my brain then. But

691
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 2: it's almost like even with the whole you know, going

692
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 2: after what you want and taking bold action and following

693
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,760
Speaker 2: those desires. I again said this to someone in DMS,

694
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 2: is like, if you can't bet on yourself and you

695
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: can't bet on your desires, it's like, how can you

696
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 2: expect other people to That was.

697
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: Such a huge takeaway for me from your pot your

698
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 1: last podcast episode, which was about investing in yourself. I

699
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: messaged you after it and I was just like, you

700
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: are a boss, Like I loved that episode. Your podcast

701
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 1: is the only podcast I ever listened to. Everything you say.

702
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: I just sit there going yes, yes, oh my God,

703
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: like listen to why You're My Girl. But that was

704
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 1: such a huge takeaway for me because it is it's

705
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 1: so true, like if you. If you can't bet on yourself,

706
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: how can you expect everyone else to? And it's the

707
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: same with happiness, like if you can't make yourself be

708
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 1: happy or be happy with you, and how can you

709
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: expect other people to do that for you?

710
00:37:59,640 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 3: Yeah?

711
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 2: Exactly. I just love talking to you.

712
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 3: I feel like we're almost like the same person.

713
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: Hey, it's so true.

714
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: You say something and I'm like, yes, I resonate and this,

715
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: and then I say something and this.

716
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: Is my.

717
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, no you go yeah. I was just going to say,

718
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 2: that's how podcast events like. I remember the whole time,

719
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: me just going, oh my god, I resonate.

720
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: It's true. We literally are we the same person. You're

721
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: just a much younger, wise version of me. I always

722
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: am like, I don't know how you're so wise for

723
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: your age. It's amazing. You're such a huge inspiration.

724
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 2: Oh stop it, I'm lich. I'm so I'm definitely an

725
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 2: old soul.

726
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 3: Hey, I'm in a young.

727
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 1: Body, definitely, diferently.

728
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 3: In saying that.

729
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 2: When I got my palm and like cards read, the

730
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 2: lady did say I was a new soul. She's like,

731
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 2: you haven't been here many times.

732
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 3: I am sure.

733
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: I think with you that and this is It's something

734
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: I talk about a lot, but I think with you

735
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: is that you have awareness. And I think a lot

736
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: of this stuff, like our mindset, our health, all of

737
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,919
Speaker 1: that comes down like is a starting point of being

738
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 1: aware if it's aware of your body and triggers with

739
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: your body, aware of what makes you feel good versus

740
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: what makes you feel bad. Even it literally is an example,

741
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: but when you said, when you recognize it you're in

742
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: a funk and you go and put the music on, Like,

743
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: that's the awareness. You're so aware of what makes you

744
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: feel good versus bad, what's serving you, what's not. And

745
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,240
Speaker 1: I think that that is such a key starting point

746
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: to this whole mindset, health journey and obsession really is,

747
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: because once that awareness is there, it's like you just

748
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: want to keep bettering yourself. You want to keep learning,

749
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: you want to keep growing and expanding, and as a

750
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: result of that, you also want to start sharing and

751
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: to help everyone else around you feel the same. So

752
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: I think that that's that's just my take on you.

753
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 2: That is actually so insightful, and I actually kind of

754
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 2: agree because I agree. I agree in the way of

755
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 2: when you think about like, like you know your I

756
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: know you know, about like limiting beliefs. When I'm talking

757
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: to anyone about limiting beliefs, literally the first thing I'm like,

758
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 2: it's fine, because you know, they're like, oh, I've got

759
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 2: this limiting belief and I'm like the fact that you

760
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 2: are aware of it is literally like it's going to

761
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: be fine, because so many people don't even have like

762
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 2: that first initial awareness because if you think about it,

763
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 2: if you're aware of it, you can change it, Whereas

764
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 2: if you're never aware of it and it's just constantly

765
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: like in your subconscious, it's.

766
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 3: Hard to pick up.

767
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 2: So I appreciate that's actually such a compliment to me

768
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 2: because I do kind of pride myself on trying to

769
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 2: be very like aware of myself and others.

770
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I think it's too beautiful quality in you know,

771
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: and I you know, I hope you don't mind me

772
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: touching on limiting beliefs. But for anyone, I guess they

773
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: were listening to that and being like, oh my goodness,

774
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even be aware of, you know, my limiting beliefs,

775
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: or I do want to add that, like I feel

776
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: like I have been One thing I always try to

777
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: do is check in on my privilege. And from that,

778
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I had a very ideally childhood.

779
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 1: I have a very privileged life in terms of my circumstances.

780
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: And I don't mean I get handouts or anything like that,

781
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: but you know, I grew up in a family with

782
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: two parents that are still married, that both had businesses.

783
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: I lived in the same home till when I was

784
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: eighteen and moved to Melbourne for university. Like, they're things

785
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 1: that I constantly check in with and realize that they

786
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: are very privileged situations to be in and to be

787
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 1: raised in. And I had a mum who raised me

788
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: a very confident person, So you know, she used to

789
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: think say things to me like as a limit baby,

790
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: or the world's your oyster. And I know they might

791
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 1: just sound cliche things, but when you're hearing them as

792
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: a young girl the whole way through your childhood, like

793
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: you totally believe them. Like I always had an inner

794
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: belief that, like I could do whatever I wanted, and

795
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: I think it came from a place of unconditional love

796
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 1: as well. I was never scared of failing because I

797
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 1: knew that my parents didn't really care if I failed.

798
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: It was just have a go at it and if

799
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: you're good, awesome, like if you don't, well, what's the

800
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: worst you've had a crack? So I do try to

801
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: often check in with that and remind myself that like

802
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: that is a very privileged upbringing to have, and a

803
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: lot of those things are second nature to me. So,

804
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: you know, then the awareness of my limiting beliefs were

805
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: there because they'd never been there before. You know, not

806
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: thinking that I was smart enough hadn't been there until

807
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: I went to high school. You know, thinking that I

808
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: wasn't capable didn't exist until my lady years at cotton

809
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: On where I was having my sparkle dult, So I

810
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: could be aware of those things quite quickly because it

811
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 1: didn't feel true to me anymore. So I just want

812
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 1: to give anyone, I guess I hope it gives a

813
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 1: bit of confidence, or I don't want anyone to be

814
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: sitting there being like, oh my goodness, like I'm not

815
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: even aware of this. I've got so far to go.

816
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: Just know that we're all on this our own unique journey,

817
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: and we're all here for different reasons, and we're all

818
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: paving our own paths, and you know, the more that

819
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: you can honor yours and the fact that you're even

820
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: listening to a podcast like this, like you're on the

821
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: right path, like you are trying to better yourself, and

822
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: I love that and you're in exactly the right place.

823
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love that so much. Thank you.

824
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 4: I feel like I have no that was so good

825
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 4: and I'm so I'm so happy you touched on that,

826
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 4: and I could not agree more so.

827
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 2: I want to switch gears and finish off the podcast

828
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 2: chatting mom life because and I'm sorry if this is

829
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: a bold sort of statement, but I know you, much

830
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: like me, your very career driven. You're a very motivated,

831
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 2: you know, and spy person, and I know that you

832
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 2: know you have kind of explained to me that, you know,

833
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,879
Speaker 2: mum life at the start was a bit of a

834
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 2: hard transition, but I feel like you have come such

835
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 2: a like long way and had your own journey with it.

836
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 2: Could you chat a little bit about that to the audience.

837
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, yes. So, as I mentioned at the start,

838
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: I am a semi newmum sixteen months in, which still

839
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: feels it's weird, gee, it kind of feels like my

840
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: g who Yes, for everyone listening, the name came from Georgie.

841
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: So we did out when we did our live events

842
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: and I had Georgia like literally two weeks after, and

843
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: everyone was messaging me like did you need your daughter?

844
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: After Georgie students.

845
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 2: I was always remember me. I was like, yeah, she did.

846
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 3: She loved you.

847
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: It came from when I interviewed you and you were

848
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: just so driven and inspiring and I was like, this

849
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: is what I want my daughter to be, Like I

850
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: want her to have that wrong name. So Georgia for me,

851
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 1: just represents such a strong, independent, career driven, like aspirational woman. Look,

852
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: she can be whoever she want. That's what That's what

853
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: it was.

854
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 2: Can I just put in there and just say that

855
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: is literally like my favorite thing ever, the fact that

856
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 2: your gorgeous little girl is like named after me, And

857
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: I'm mad. It's like, I actually I still remember clear

858
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 2: as day, like our first podcast when you came to

859
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 2: my little house in Holland Park, you antigues and we

860
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 2: just clicked, and I remember because you hadn't told anyone

861
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 2: you were pregnant, and you told me and I was like,

862
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 2: oh my god, I remember even like touching a belly

863
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 2: and everything.

864
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 3: It's just it's so special.

865
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: Oh, No, it feels like it was so long ago.

866
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, I remember going home to Ryan after that

867
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: because we didn't know if we're having a boy and

868
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 1: a girl, and we could not decide on girls' names

869
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 1: and all the names I liked he hated, where the boys'

870
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: names were like totally sorted. And yeah, it was just

871
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: after that podcast and I was like, oh my goodness,

872
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 1: like this name. And then you know, I thought about

873
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: the George's I know, and I'm like, yes, they're all

874
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: such strong women, and like, if I have a girl,

875
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 1: that's that's what I want it to represent. And yeah,

876
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: our family Alders love the name and she suits it.

877
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 1: My little I've got my big Genail.

878
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 3: My little gen.

879
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, so mom life has completely to be honest, like

880
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: I had not so mumsy on my podcast a while

881
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: ago and she said this quote who I'm sorry that

882
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: I can't quote who it's by I've completely forgotten, but

883
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: basically the concept I like you. I remember laughing in

884
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 1: your podcast when you said you always butcher quotes because

885
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: I always butcher them as well. Basically, the concept of

886
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: the quote was that motherhood will strip you so far

887
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: from the person you once were, but it will put

888
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: you back together as a person that you're meant to be.

889
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: And I think for me, I'm finding so much comfort

890
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 1: in that right now and trusting that that is right,

891
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: because I think it has completely stripped me of who

892
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: I was, but not in a bad way, like, not

893
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: in a way that scares me or makes me sad.

894
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: It's just to that I feel like a completely different

895
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: matter is being born, and I feel, I trust that

896
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: it's going to bring me to a more aligned and

897
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: truer version of myself. And I feel like, or I

898
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: know that I am exactly where I'm meant to be.

899
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: But I think motherhood is one of those things that

900
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: you could just you could never ever prepare yourself for,

901
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: you know, from even just from growing a child to

902
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:30,399
Speaker 1: then birthing a child, and you go straight into breastfeeding

903
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: and waking up four times a night to feed the baby,

904
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: and it's just this pure exhaustion that you've never ever

905
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: ever felt before, which obviously brings about a lot of

906
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:45,399
Speaker 1: emotions and a lot of new feelings and experiences. And

907
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 1: you know, there's definitely been for me a lot of

908
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: grief in missing my old life because I am quite

909
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: career driven, and I think at the point where I

910
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: had Georgia, I was probably at my ultimate best. I was,

911
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: you know, we were two weeks out from doing our events.

912
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: Like I've never felt more aligned or on the path

913
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: that I meant to be on, So it kind of

914
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: stooped me straight back, and then we went into lockdown.

915
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:14,240
Speaker 1: So to be completely honest, I'm still trying to piece

916
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 1: it all together. I think I'm really trying to honor

917
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: my season of motherhood as best as I can. I'm

918
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: still really learning to surrender to it and to show

919
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: up as the mum that I know I'm capable of being.

920
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: You know, I think some days I'm so fixated on

921
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: what I want to be doing, what I want to

922
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: be striving to do, But then I have to take

923
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: a step back and remind myself that this is where

924
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: I am, and this is where I've always wanted to be,

925
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: and so to be present in those moments. And I

926
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: think sometimes the days everyone just says to you, I'll

927
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 1: go so fast, but like, you know, it feels like

928
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: it's been my whole life already, and not in a

929
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: bad way, just that like it doesn't feel fast right now,

930
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: but I know in five years time to look back

931
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: and be like, my baby girl's going to school, Like

932
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: where the hell did that time go? So I just

933
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: keep trying to like visualize my future self and be like,

934
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: she will be sad that she wasn't present enough in

935
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,799
Speaker 1: these days. So just like honor this, do what you

936
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: need to do, like show up as best as you can.

937
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: But I'm also being kind to myself around that, and

938
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: I think as any mum's listening is, I try to

939
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: remind myself that I'm not always going to have it right.

940
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: I'm not ever going to be close to perfect. But

941
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 1: Georgia chose me for a reason, and there's lessons and

942
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: experiences that she needs in this lifetime that I'm going

943
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: to teach her that will help her be the person

944
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,839
Speaker 1: she needs to be in this lifetime. And so every

945
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: time that I feel guilty for not being there enough,

946
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: or for not being present enough, or for not showing

947
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: up enough, I just remind myself that it's okay, you

948
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: can do better tomorrow, and She's chosen you for a reason.

949
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 2: Oh, Matt's I'm literally like getting a bit of emotional

950
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,839
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, that is just like the most like

951
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 2: what you said about how Georgia chose you and like

952
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 2: you were like, you know, meant to bring her these

953
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 2: experiences and show up for her and all that sort

954
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 2: of stuff is like literally the most beautiful thing I've

955
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,919
Speaker 2: ever heard. Like I literally wrote down the time because

956
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's going to be the intro.

957
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm maybe getting sidetracked with the question.

958
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,880
Speaker 1: I got so into that, but yeah, I think, you know,

959
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: I am a I think deep Like I'm a deep thinker,

960
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: and I think I'm always trying to digress my experiences,

961
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 1: and especially when they're not always easy, Like it's definitely

962
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: not easy at the moment all the time. It's like

963
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: it's beautiful and it's it's amazing, but it's not always

964
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: it's not always the best time, and I don't always

965
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: feel the best, and so I'm constantly trying to, you know,

966
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: find the lessons in things or understand them better. And

967
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: so that in particular is bringing me a lot of

968
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 1: comfort right now. And I know, I like, I also

969
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: just keep thinking to myself when I get too caught

970
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: up on my own I guess dreams and aspirations is like,

971
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: you know, I'm raising a female of the next generation.

972
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:25,840
Speaker 1: Like that's if I can swear fucking epic, Like that

973
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: is just so cool. Like she's gonna, like us, grow

974
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: up with her own aspirations and desires and dreams, and

975
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 1: like I get to be a part of that. So

976
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: the moment that I get too caught up on myself

977
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: for what I feel like I need to achieve, I

978
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 1: just I try to remind myself of how lucky I'm

979
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: to be a part of her journey.

980
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 2: Oh oh my goodness, I literally like I got goose

981
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 2: bumps when you said that, because I and like the

982
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 2: fact that you're like, I'm just figuring out motherhood. It's like, no, Maddy,

983
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 2: you have figured it out. And it just sounds like

984
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 2: I'm just so happy for you because it does sound

985
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 2: like you're, like you said, even though you know you

986
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 2: definitely would have hard days and stuff like that. I

987
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 2: can just tell from your mindset that you were in

988
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 2: such like a like a really good place. And yeah,

989
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 2: I'm just like so happy for you too to finish

990
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 2: off though I would absolutely love if you could give

991
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 2: because like you said, like it is hard, I'm sure

992
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: you have your days, and I know when I'm like

993
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 2: going to be a mother in the future, I will

994
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: struggle this but struggle with this. But how do you

995
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 2: kind of juggle the whole, you know, making sure you're

996
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 2: present with Georgia and looking after her and her needs.

997
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 2: Also make sure you're looking after yourself and your needs,

998
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,879
Speaker 2: plus striving you know, to have your business and keep

999
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 2: doing that and keep working towards your goals. Like what

1000
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 2: advice would you have for other mothers out there?

1001
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: To be honest, like, I'm I'm really trying to figure

1002
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: that out right now, Like I really am. I think

1003
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:05,800
Speaker 1: I'm I think when you can find moments in the chaos,

1004
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: like make those moments calm and figure out what's not

1005
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: serving you. Like for me, a big piece of the

1006
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: pie is not being organized that's in our home in

1007
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,760
Speaker 1: life in general, Like, not being organized is not serving

1008
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: me right now. And so a huge focus in George's

1009
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: naps is like, you know, I just cleaned out our

1010
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 1: pantry for example, on Sundays, I'm scheduling time to like

1011
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: food prep. I'm using her naps to yet clean out

1012
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: cupboards and prep our dinner. You know. Bringing finding those

1013
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 1: moments to just figure out what's not allowing you to

1014
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,919
Speaker 1: show up as the best version of yourself, I think

1015
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: is really important but like I don't get that all right.

1016
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 1: Like there's days where I literally, in her nap will

1017
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: sit on the couch on my phone on Instagram because

1018
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: I just need a moment to myself to like not

1019
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 1: even think, you know, like I'm definitely not there, but

1020
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 1: I think surrounding yourself with other mothers who are aspirational

1021
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: as well. You know, my Instagram now, I do make

1022
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: sure is filled with nurturing mothers who I feel connected with.

1023
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: There's so many different types of I guess parenting, or

1024
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 1: ways of looking at things and not getting caught up

1025
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:20,760
Speaker 1: in what's right or wrong and knowing that there's actually

1026
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: no rules, there's no rule book, there's no one way.

1027
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: It's been a really big piece for me as a

1028
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,800
Speaker 1: mum who has I guess more trusted her maternal instincts,

1029
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 1: and I try to really harness inner, my inner maternal

1030
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 1: instincts and my inner knowing rather than jumping to a

1031
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: book or Google. And yes, those things are great if

1032
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 1: you need them, and I'm not saying not to do that,

1033
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: but that's the type of mum that I'm starting to

1034
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: be or feeling the most confident in. So I'm surrounding

1035
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: myself online and in conversations with other mothers that are

1036
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: the same and that have those similar values. So I

1037
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,280
Speaker 1: think there's so many people out there who are always

1038
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: willing to support you and to give you advice. So

1039
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: just be open to that and just know, like seriously,

1040
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,479
Speaker 1: just know that you are doing a freaking awesome job.

1041
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: Like if you're a mum, you're killing it. Just trust me.

1042
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,280
Speaker 1: Just know that you are killing it, like you're raising

1043
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: a human being. Like that is freaking awesome. That's all

1044
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 1: you need to worry about.

1045
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,760
Speaker 2: I absolutely love that. Thank you so much for bringing

1046
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 2: that to the RNC fam. And to finish off the podcast,

1047
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 2: I have two questions. So first question is, please tell

1048
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 2: us when the next season of The Healthy Hustlers is

1049
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 2: out when we can expect that, and I will make

1050
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 2: sure you know I leave links for you and the

1051
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 2: podcast in the show notes. And then also if you

1052
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 2: can leave us with some you know, a little bit

1053
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 2: of inspiration and motivation and leave us with the best

1054
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: piece of advice you have ever received.

1055
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you so much for that. Firstly, I know

1056
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: you have such a beautiful community on here, so I

1057
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: feel very honored to be able to, yeah, take that

1058
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: they're taking time out of their day to listen to

1059
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,760
Speaker 1: us chat and yeah, if you would like to connect,

1060
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: I would love love to meet you and connect with you.

1061
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: My podcast is The Healthy Hustlers and it's available on

1062
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: all the good potty apps and it's a series of

1063
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 1: healthy conversations with influential hustlers just like your girl, Georgie Stevenson.

1064
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: And my instagram is Madeleine Krafa. But I guess a

1065
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: piece of advice, Oh, I think you know, I know

1066
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: you talk about something really similar. But the best piece

1067
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 1: of advice I've ever been given, and it was such

1068
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: a massive turning point for me, was be you. Everyone

1069
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 1: else has taken and I think the moment that I

1070
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: allowed myself to truly be me and appreciate me for

1071
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 1: all of my unique qualities and strengths, the magic really

1072
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: started to happen. So I think the more that we

1073
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:04,640
Speaker 1: honor who we are, knowing that we're all here to

1074
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: pave our own path and we all have our own

1075
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:11,800
Speaker 1: unique qualities and magic, the more happier and healthier lives

1076
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 1: I believe that we will live.

1077
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: Oh what's a beautiful, bloody piece of advice? To finish

1078
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 2: this episode, Maddie, thank you so much. You know how

1079
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Speaker 2: much I love you, and this has just been the best.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, thank you so much for making the time

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Speaker 1: Oh Gi, thank you so much. I just adore you.

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Speaker 1: You know that I love you so much and I

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Speaker 1: feel so grateful to be here. So thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for the opportunity.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening for another R and C episode.

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Speaker 2: I really appreciate taking the time to be here with me,

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Speaker 2: and also for taking the time for yourself. If you

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Speaker 2: found this episode helpful, it would be so amazing if

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Speaker 2: simply just send it on to a girlfriend or family

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Speaker 2: member who would benefit from listening. We are an independent

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Speaker 2: podcast run by me and my amazing podcast manager, so

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Speaker 2: it would mean the world to us if you left

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Speaker 2: a review on the Apple podcast app. Also, if you're

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Speaker 2: your craving community, please come and join us over at

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Speaker 2: the RNC podcast community Facebook group. Just search Rise and

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Speaker 2: Conquer Podcast Community on Facebook and I will be in

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Speaker 2: there to chat to you.

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Speaker 1: Until next time.