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Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen

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Speaker 2: Hard Right now. Though thirteen one, six five are all

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Speaker 2: late people dickheads. It's a very polarizing topic between late

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Speaker 2: people and non late people because I know a lot

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Speaker 2: of late people are viewed as selfish, and that's fair enough.

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Speaker 2: I'm not here to defend the damage that being late

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Speaker 2: inflicts on other people because it sucks. Can I get that?

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Speaker 1: Can I just say, though, if you have a late

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Speaker 1: person in your life, because I do, my boy over there,

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Speaker 1: you just like, it's not a good way to live

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Speaker 1: to just always be getting angry at them, Like, just

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Speaker 1: know that there might be late, probably late, right, And

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Speaker 1: so I know that whenever we're going to meet somewhere,

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Speaker 1: I've got something I need to do when I get

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Speaker 1: to the cafe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's when you're late. I'm like, oh, amazing,

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Speaker 2: I've got half hour to do this thing. To advice versa, Like,

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Speaker 2: I know you're always going to be early somewhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I take the piece no making for half an hour,

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Speaker 2: and I can make way for a full hour. Give

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Speaker 2: you more time doing whatever he's doing there. Nicole, Nicole, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Late people absolutely sucks, but like your time more valuable

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Speaker 3: than everyone else.

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Speaker 2: I hear this, I hear this.

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Speaker 4: Are you going to be the parent that's like all

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Speaker 4: your kids? I will? You are time to work every day?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, he's always you.

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Speaker 3: You can do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you I'm not late. I am late to work.

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Speaker 2: I'm late to everything. That's That's kind of what I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to say. And yes, I am the late pep.

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Speaker 2: My daughter actually says to me, now, Daddy, you always

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Speaker 2: take too long. She said that to me the other day.

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Speaker 2: So yes, I will be, Nicole, I will be so I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, personally, I just I just stopped being friends with People's.

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Speaker 2: Fair enough to get a beer with you, Nicole. I

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Speaker 2: was stinging for it. But we'll have to pass. I

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Speaker 2: might have to cut him, Nickel. I'll cut him as well.

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Speaker 2: Can I Can I just say sorry? Like I do?

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Speaker 2: I do find like I'm going to be Nicole back Nicole, Nicole. No,

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Speaker 2: it's fine, She's I don't care like I understand, Nicole. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so you know, there are like lots of other things

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Speaker 2: that you forgive people for, or maybe you don't. I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 3: You lateness to me is just the height of so yeah,

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Speaker 3: an agreement. Why do your word not mean anything? And

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Speaker 3: really a part of successful adults. And he's saying I

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Speaker 3: have to do someone I committed to it.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to start that thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's fair.

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Speaker 4: Enough because I'm not three years old.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you are also not three years old. It's good,

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Speaker 2: it's all good. Gel. I'm going to keep your number.

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Speaker 2: Whenever I have an argument with will give her a prize. Nicole,

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Speaker 2: You get her down to where can you go? You

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Speaker 2: can one hundred bucks's rest and enjoy eat your chicken

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Speaker 2: with joy and pride.

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Speaker 3: It was very good.

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Speaker 2: It was very good, Monique. I mean you heard Nicole

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Speaker 2: that you're a late person.

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Speaker 5: Yep. I'm always late, like sometimes ten minutes, sometimes like

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Speaker 5: an hour.

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Speaker 2: Okay, is it defendable, Monique?

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Speaker 5: Yes, depends on what I like, what it's for.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So why so why is it defendable?

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Speaker 5: Talk to me, like you know, like if it's like

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Speaker 5: something like UNI class whatever, it can be late. If

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Speaker 5: it's a party, you can be late, because like, yeah, we.

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Speaker 2: Were just saying that fashionably to a party is actually great.

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Speaker 1: So I'm socially very late all the time. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: does flip that way.

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Speaker 2: So do you have time time? I'm calling it time

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Speaker 2: optimism monique, Like do you have like I I'm unrealistic

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Speaker 2: and when I look at the clock about how much

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Speaker 2: time I actually have to do things?

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Speaker 5: Yes, I think I can get ready in like I

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Speaker 5: don't know, ten minutes, but it always takes me like

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Speaker 5: two hours.

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Speaker 2: You've missed it a bit there. Yeah, yeah, yeah exactly.

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Speaker 2: But that's the thing I mean, Like junior producer Analyse

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Speaker 2: is the same. I think she's actually dealing with Nicole

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Speaker 2: out there, which is pretty funny. Did you tell her

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Speaker 2: you're a late person? Av? Did you let her know?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I did, but I got a bit nervous. Why so,

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Speaker 2: why are you a late person? Analyse? What happens at

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Speaker 2: home for you.

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Speaker 3: To I'm also a time optimist, Like I went for

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Speaker 3: a five k run the other day and I told

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Speaker 3: my friend I'd be done in ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: I'm not like Usain Bolt or anything that is mad.

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Speaker 2: It is mad. It is mad like it's mad Like

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Speaker 2: you're not and you're not dealing with your rational mind.

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Speaker 2: You're dealing with something that is deeply embedded in you,

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Speaker 2: that you. You you cannot get like a hold on

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Speaker 2: of times I look at the clock and go, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, I've overshot that by forty five minutes. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 2: I know how long forty five minutes is. I understand

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Speaker 2: that rationally. But then if you put me in a

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Speaker 2: bit where I'm rushing and I've got things to do,

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Speaker 2: I can't do the maths. Are you the same analyse absolutely?

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Speaker 2: Like I just can't. My brain can't comprehend it.

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Speaker 4: Like the five k rum actually took me thirty five

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Speaker 4: minutes and didn't even include the shower I needed afterwards.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Kelsey's called on thirteen one and six five. I

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Speaker 2: love this. Kelsey. Nicole's killing you.

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Speaker 4: Nicole is killing me. We can't bloody help it, guys.

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Speaker 4: Just this morning, I put my water bottle in I

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Speaker 4: put my water bottle in my handbag with the lid

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Speaker 4: undone completely saturated. My handbag had to use too mini handbags,

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Speaker 4: so and then I lost sight of my cat. I

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Speaker 4: had to make sure he was inside. We can't bloody

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Speaker 4: help it. There's no one. Oh, people who aren't late

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Speaker 4: just don't understand that.

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Speaker 2: It's not.

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Speaker 4: Purpose.

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Speaker 2: It's an effliciate Thank you so much, kel I didn't

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Speaker 2: get a chance to say this to Nicole because she

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Speaker 2: said she didn't want to have a beer with me.

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Speaker 2: But I do feel like we do forgive people nearly everything.

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Speaker 1: You're friends with, we've all got full, we've all got

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Speaker 1: things flawless.

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Speaker 2: You're right, but then as soon as you're late, there's

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Speaker 2: this like old school thing that's like that's the height

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Speaker 2: of rudeness, and they use this this method of of

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Speaker 2: you think your time is more important than mine that

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Speaker 2: implies that you're consciously choosing your time, which I don't

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Speaker 2: think like people do. Is that right, Kelsey?

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Speaker 4: Are you know? That's exactly That's exactly why I had

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Speaker 4: to call, because anytime I'm late, it is not on purpose.

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Speaker 4: It is just the world works in mysterious ways and

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Speaker 4: it wants to make me late.

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Speaker 1: So so, Kelsey, the only the only point against that,

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Speaker 1: the only point against that, and this is again it's

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Speaker 1: something that I've adopted, is I'm also the guy where

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Speaker 1: the water bottle explodes in the bag, except everything that

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Speaker 1: can go wrong will go wrong right, like the tire pops,

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Speaker 1: et cetera. So every time I have to be so,

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Speaker 1: I aim for an hour early and then it's right

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Speaker 1: you still Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 2: If you want to continue this debate, then please head

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Speaker 2: along to Will and Muddy. We'll get to that. Just search,

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Speaker 2: we'll get to that. Wherever you get your podcasts, I

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Speaker 2: go to our socials. You can see a link there.

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