WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Why you shouldn't take your husbands name..

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<v Speaker 1>Come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Where on, Hi ladies.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello everybody, Happy Monday.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello everyone's weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, happy Monday to everyone except for my backside. I

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<v Speaker 5>fell down a flight of stairs, I felt. We moved

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<v Speaker 5>into our new house and it has a flight of stairs.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never lived in a house that has stairs before.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know how to operate them, and I walk

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<v Speaker 1>up them and down them night too.

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<v Speaker 5>I was carrying Lola, my little girls, she's two years old,

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<v Speaker 5>and I slipped from the third step at the top

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<v Speaker 5>and I went straight down. And because I was holding

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<v Speaker 5>onto her and I wrapped myself around her because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>a hero, I landed straight on my arse on the

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<v Speaker 5>on the corner of the wooden steps and just went bang.

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<v Speaker 2>Bay b is that why you're sitting like you're a scholar,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're sitting on your right side with your red

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<v Speaker 2>crossed the world?

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<v Speaker 5>I can't sit on my right bum cheek because it's

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<v Speaker 5>so bruised.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a lot of cushioning on you like you're

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<v Speaker 1>pretty bony.

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<v Speaker 5>It's blue brid It's really really bad. I hope that's

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<v Speaker 5>what it was, actually, guys. This Wow, Yeah, Matti J

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<v Speaker 5>didn't have that much of a fun weekend. Well, we're

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<v Speaker 5>glad you're a right, it's a Lola Deby. Alright, she's fine, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>she's fine. Do you know who else kicks some masks

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<v Speaker 5>over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, tell us our very own Matilda's. How amazing

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<v Speaker 1>is that they're through to the semi finals in the

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<v Speaker 1>World Cup. They're playing England the Lionesses on Wednesday night,

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<v Speaker 1>seven pm.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going to be incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>The craziest thing is though, their statistics right now for viewership,

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<v Speaker 1>how well they're doing.

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<v Speaker 3>The crowds they're pointing out of control.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet you know what's not one hundred percent their pay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to run you through some of the wild

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<v Speaker 1>stats after the.

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<v Speaker 2>Brain got some salaries, do you no, I don't have.

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<v Speaker 2>I have some numbers to all right, we'll crunch them.

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<v Speaker 2>Coming up here here the pickup. Welcome to Monday. It's

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<v Speaker 2>all thanks to Chemists ware House head in today, great

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<v Speaker 2>nine to ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 1>How good was the Matilda's win on the weekend against

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<v Speaker 1>France in the World Cup. It has got to be

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most euxhilarating moments that I've seen in

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<v Speaker 1>live sport in Australia ever.

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<v Speaker 5>You seem like all of the social media are just

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<v Speaker 5>like everyone in the paths or like people on planes

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<v Speaker 5>watching it. It truly just took over the entire world

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<v Speaker 5>and the kids are country so good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so great. If you missed it, they won.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you missed it, but have a

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<v Speaker 1>little listen to this court Divine at her first World

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<v Speaker 1>Cup can write the Matilda's into history.

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<v Speaker 2>To the party, seems and everyone at austral.

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<v Speaker 1>I have teasy in my eyes now feeling that excitement

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<v Speaker 1>of because it was the longest.

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<v Speaker 3>It was ten rounds, this penalty shootout.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the longest shootout in men's or women's football

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<v Speaker 1>sporting history ever. It was just going one for one

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<v Speaker 1>for one for one and it makes me first filled

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<v Speaker 1>with so much excitement and I'm so stoked for them.

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<v Speaker 1>The one thing that is really crazy is that these

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<v Speaker 1>crowds are bigger than any other crowd they're bigger than

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<v Speaker 1>men's crowds, the people that are tuning into TV, not

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<v Speaker 1>just live and turning up. Since Kathy Freeman won at

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<v Speaker 1>the Olympics, we have not had more people tune in

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<v Speaker 1>to watch anything on TV. Now that that is truly crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But the crazy thing is the pay disparity. These women,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say, outperforming the men in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>who they're pulling in and the audiences, but they are

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<v Speaker 1>not being paid anywhere near what.

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<v Speaker 4>The men are.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, there's so much of this.

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<v Speaker 5>The thing that I think is so amazing is seeing

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<v Speaker 5>with this last game, how many men and women equally

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<v Speaker 5>were supporting the team, how many people were watching. And

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<v Speaker 5>I think the debate has been for so long that, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>but not many people watch women's sports, so we can't

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<v Speaker 5>pay them the same. Well, this just goes to show

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<v Speaker 5>that that benchmark is well and truly shift now totally.

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<v Speaker 2>But you also can't watch what you don't know. If

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<v Speaker 2>they don't promote it, if they don't air it, or

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<v Speaker 2>they air it at eleven o'clock or on a secondary channel,

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<v Speaker 2>no one's going to know that it's out there.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's not just about like knowing that it's existing

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<v Speaker 5>or knowing that it's got a platform.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the investment that goes into it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>People say, oh, we can't invest in it because no

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<v Speaker 5>one's watching it, and it's like, well, if you're not

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<v Speaker 5>investing in the sport, no one is going to watch it.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's kind of that chicken before the egg scenario. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>listen to this former Matilda Michelle Hayman.

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<v Speaker 1>She's retired now, but she's sort of dished the dirt

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<v Speaker 1>on the pay that she received.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty fifteen World Cup. You got into the quarterfinals after

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<v Speaker 2>knocking out Brazil. Much you take home as a result

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<v Speaker 2>of that tournament, you really want to know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the big, the big seven hundred and fifty dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, Yeah, there wasn't anything good back then.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's nice to see, you know, there's a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit of change in the last eight years.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's what we all brought home each was

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<v Speaker 1>the big seven hundred and fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd get more for selling a desk on Facebook marketplace, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean you would, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's because you double the price and everything. But

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<v Speaker 1>that is truly astonishing. That was only eight years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously we've come a long way, and there are in

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<v Speaker 1>FIFA in the football, there are certain countries that are

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<v Speaker 1>starting to pay their women athletes in soccer the same

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<v Speaker 1>as the men.

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<v Speaker 3>So I know America is.

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<v Speaker 1>Starting to do that, England is starting to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Australia still is not.

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<v Speaker 3>But listen to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Seven point two million people tuned in on seven to

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<v Speaker 1>watch the Matilda's play seven point two million people.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's absolutely wild.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure now, and I probably don't know enough

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<v Speaker 1>about football politics, but I'm not sure what is stopping

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<v Speaker 1>equal pay. Now that we can prove that this many

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<v Speaker 1>people are interested, that the many people care, and that

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<v Speaker 1>this many people are watching, what, I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>know their reason.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I also know that obviously the Matildas would

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<v Speaker 5>have signed contracts there would have been prior to them playing.

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<v Speaker 5>They would have signed on for how much money they're

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<v Speaker 5>going to make. I don't think anyone could have expected

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<v Speaker 5>just how enormous it has been, how many views, how

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<v Speaker 5>their merch has sold out, Like, yeah, there's been so

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<v Speaker 5>much love for this team. But I think now this

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<v Speaker 5>set's an entirely different precedent going into the future. There's

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<v Speaker 5>no way that any type of stocker organization that fie

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<v Speaker 5>for the next FEF for World Cup could turn around

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<v Speaker 5>and say, oh, we're not going to pay the same

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<v Speaker 5>because they're bringing in the numbers. They're bringing in the

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<v Speaker 5>more numbers than men than men, so that the argument

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't exist anymore. So we did a little bit of

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<v Speaker 5>digging and currently the women are being paid forty five

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<v Speaker 5>thousand dollars to play, to play the games, but if

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<v Speaker 5>they've made it through and they win on home soil,

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<v Speaker 5>they get paid in additional four hundred and two thousand

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<v Speaker 5>dollars each. Now this pales in comparison to what the

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<v Speaker 5>men are still paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so the men because the guitar the World Cup

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<v Speaker 2>was in guitar last year. For the men, the men

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<v Speaker 2>paid two hundred and sixty thousand dollars just for getting

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<v Speaker 2>into the finals.

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<v Speaker 5>Which is more than four times but almost five times

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<v Speaker 5>what the women have been just turning just for being there.

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<v Speaker 2>For if they get to if they win, they win

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing all up at it'll be forty two million.

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<v Speaker 3>Dollars total, not per person, don't know of.

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<v Speaker 2>Course, for the team. Yeah, for the team, which breaks

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<v Speaker 2>down to be millions each of millions each.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, do you know.

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<v Speaker 1>The other crazy thing is the women will probably be

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<v Speaker 1>earning more and will one hundred percent after this. They're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be laughing all the way to the bank

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<v Speaker 1>with sponsorships and ambassadors ships, and I love that their sponsorships,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no doubt, will be more than what they

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<v Speaker 1>earned for the World Cup, which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nuts good on the tillies. I can't wait for Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, they're playing England. The Lioness is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this game is going to be incredible. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>desperately trying to scour tickets. If anyone has one, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go. We're so excited. Australia is definitely rooting

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<v Speaker 1>for you. We're rooting for you and we can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Next on the pickup, a grave warning why you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>give your children their father's.

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<v Speaker 3>Name because they might not stick around.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, come, welse do you stick around to find out?

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<v Speaker 2>Next on the pickup, Hey, welcome to Monday. A Britt,

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<v Speaker 2>Laura and Mitch here, high ladies, Hello Mitch Jury. It's

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<v Speaker 2>the pickup. Thanks to chemists warehouse heading today, great savings

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<v Speaker 2>every day.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a question for you, guys, hit us. Both

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<v Speaker 5>of your parents are happily married.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, they are sickeningly so it.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds more like a statement to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, no, I was question, and everyone in your household

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<v Speaker 5>has the same last name.

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<v Speaker 1>My parents have been happily married now god forty six years,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, which is incredible. And they're still in love

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<v Speaker 1>and they both go by Hockley.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so to my parents both juries married over thirty

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<v Speaker 2>years and sickeningly in love. They still passionately kiss. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>I know the mine wrote love letters to each other

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<v Speaker 5>and hold dad time. Yeah so weird, Okay, I cannot

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<v Speaker 5>relate to this. I mean my parents got divorced when

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<v Speaker 5>I was three years old. My mum got divorced a

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<v Speaker 5>second time to my stepdad. So like we had in

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<v Speaker 5>our household growing up, a lot of different names. I

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<v Speaker 5>have the same name as my sister, which is my

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<v Speaker 5>dad's last name. My little brother has my stepdad's last name,

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<v Speaker 5>and then my mom kind of kept my stepdad's last

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<v Speaker 5>name just because she didn't want so many last names.

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<v Speaker 3>In the house too hard, confusing. All in here in

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<v Speaker 3>this old house, how are you now?

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<v Speaker 5>There's a barristart who's come out of the UK, and

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<v Speaker 5>she has a suggestion for women, we should stop giving

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<v Speaker 5>our kids the name of their fathers, the automatic surname

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<v Speaker 5>of the father's She goes on to say, you carried

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<v Speaker 5>a baby for nine months, you gave birth to that baby,

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<v Speaker 5>and you will be responsible for that child for the

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<v Speaker 5>rest of your life. When you're registering the baby, ask

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<v Speaker 5>yourself this, Why is the father's surname more important than yours?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>This is big, yeah, But then when you think about

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<v Speaker 1>it a level deeper, your surname is only a product

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<v Speaker 1>of your dad, who's another man. So like you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't give my child the surname of its dad,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll give it the surname of my dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>That patriarchy.

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<v Speaker 2>Patriarch on the world.

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<v Speaker 3>It's true.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's a societal expectation that I think no one

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<v Speaker 1>really thinks about. We just go through life and we're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what we do. We get married, we take

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<v Speaker 1>their name. We have a child, we give them their name.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't really overthink it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, the reason why I found this so interesting

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<v Speaker 5>is because, I mean, I got married in November last

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<v Speaker 5>year and I didn't take my husband's name. I've stayed

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<v Speaker 5>Laura Byrne and Matt's last name is Matthew Johnson.

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<v Speaker 3>Then why was that Laura?

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't take Johnson because I feel like a burne.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm thirty seven years old. I've been Laura

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<v Speaker 5>Byrne my entire life. I feel quite attached to the name,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know Laura Johnson. Just never really felt

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<v Speaker 5>like that should be my name. I didn't really identify

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<v Speaker 5>with the name. But in saying that, Matt never forced me.

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<v Speaker 5>He was very much like, whatever you want. I want

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<v Speaker 5>to marry because I want to spend my life with you.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't need to have the same name for that

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<v Speaker 5>to be the case. And I think as well, because

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<v Speaker 5>I grew up in a household that had multiple names

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<v Speaker 5>in the one house. It didn't like to me, you

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<v Speaker 5>don't need to have the one name for it to

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<v Speaker 5>be a family. But in saying that, when I had

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<v Speaker 5>my daughters, we weren't married and I chose to name

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<v Speaker 5>them Johnson, so my girls don't have my last name.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that you say you don't identify with his

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<v Speaker 1>last name, which totally get like if all your life

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<v Speaker 1>you've been something else, But how do you feel now

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<v Speaker 1>that there are kids involved and three people in the

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<v Speaker 1>family have one surname and you have yours? Does that

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<v Speaker 1>make you any more pool to want to change your

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<v Speaker 1>name so that you feel like you're all one?

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<v Speaker 3>This for me isn't a problem.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm in a really happy and healthy relationship and I

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<v Speaker 5>love my family dynamic, and you know, the name.

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<v Speaker 3>Situation works for us.

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<v Speaker 5>If we were to ever separate, though, and we weren't

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<v Speaker 5>together and my children had Matt's name and not my name,

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's when I would feel this level of

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<v Speaker 5>regret that I hadn't I hadn't cared about it more

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<v Speaker 5>at the time, and then it's weird that you divorce

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<v Speaker 5>and then you change your name.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I'm going to be a.

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<v Speaker 5>Kind of I think a lot of women experience this

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<v Speaker 5>where you know, you go into it with the best

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<v Speaker 5>of intentions, you think you're going to be with someone

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<v Speaker 5>for the rest of your life, and then you break up.

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<v Speaker 3>And what do you do?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you go back to your maiden name if that

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<v Speaker 5>means your children don't have your name? I think that

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<v Speaker 5>as much, which is I'm kind of a bit Switzerland

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<v Speaker 5>on this whole situation. I do think that there's some

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<v Speaker 5>merit to this. Why is it always the default dad's

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<v Speaker 5>name that gets priority.

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<v Speaker 2>We just wait, you get into a gay relationship like me,

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<v Speaker 2>then it's so confusing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I'm like, well I've got the patriarchy. It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>well we both have it. Well, nice when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can do the old double barrel. But it doesn't work

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<v Speaker 1>for you, Laura, because you've burned the Johnson.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>The whole reason why I didn't double battle my name

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<v Speaker 5>in half Venegas because it would have been burned Johnson.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you need to about that. Yeah, Johnson, you

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<v Speaker 3>got it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's okay. Next on the show, I of the Weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>when my first fourteen k run I did the City to.

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<v Speaker 3>Serve you did go walks, A hot girl runs.

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<v Speaker 2>Now And someone was meant to be waiting there at

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<v Speaker 2>the finish line, my good close friend Brittany Hockley. Yet

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<v Speaker 2>when I arrived, she was nowhere to be seen.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you I have a damn good reason

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<v Speaker 1>why I was not at that finish line waiting for you.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I can't wait to hear it. Next, on

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<v Speaker 2>the Pickup, it is the Pickup Monday, AVO britt Laura

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<v Speaker 2>and Mitchell. Thanks Chemists Warehouse. Try the new Fragrance DC

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<v Speaker 2>ten Sport one hundred mil by Dan Carter, new and

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<v Speaker 2>exclusive to Chemists Warehouse. So just forty nine ninety nine ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you see what's around my neck?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>You and your beautiful medal. I love that. Just bring

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<v Speaker 3>your metal to work day. But you're the only one

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<v Speaker 3>that house one.

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<v Speaker 2>Weighing my neck down because I completed the city to

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<v Speaker 2>surf over the weekend fourteen k's and I, as you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in my fit Girl era. I'm doing my daily

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<v Speaker 2>hot girl walks. I'm down twenty kilos post breakup. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel good. My first ever run, guys, I did it.

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<v Speaker 5>And when we say Mitch is wearing a medal because

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<v Speaker 5>he did the run, it's a participation award. He didn't

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<v Speaker 5>win the fun Run experience does get the medal though, right,

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<v Speaker 5>but yes.

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<v Speaker 3>They did it. Yeah, okay, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Just checking participation awards, all right, Joe Rogan.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone's went on and just so people can imagine there

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<v Speaker 1>hundreds of thousands of people do it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's you, like one.

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<v Speaker 5>Hundreds of thousands of people in Australia with an award today, Tarry.

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<v Speaker 4>You came here, your medalst your medals, great, thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>How did it go?

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<v Speaker 2>I finished?

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<v Speaker 3>I participated.

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<v Speaker 2>I was expecting to get a place, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get Maybe I didn't want to know the place, like

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<v Speaker 2>eighty thousand of the ninety six, I didn't want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh my god, I put so much prep into this, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I got new shoes, got to be pairs of howk as.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to Lulu Lemon and got a Lulu Lemon

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<v Speaker 2>bum bag, a running bag.

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<v Speaker 3>I do have your your place here.

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<v Speaker 4>So sixty sixty eight thousand, eight hundred and twenty one.

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<v Speaker 3>People ran, Okay, would you like to know what you came?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you actually have?

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<v Speaker 3>But I haven't?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, yeah, okay, thousand yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a medal for coming forty one thousand, nine hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and seventy eighth.

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<v Speaker 4>That's great.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really good.

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<v Speaker 2>You're talking to me like you talked to your four

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<v Speaker 2>year old child.

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<v Speaker 5>And I am the most supportive mother, and I am

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<v Speaker 5>always full of like you know, gay, supporting her accolades

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<v Speaker 5>and her achievements.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm proud of that. The thing that really got me

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<v Speaker 2>down was that I organized in my good friend Brittany

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<v Speaker 2>Hockey who leaves around the corn from the finish line

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<v Speaker 2>to meet me there because loved ones are there. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like letting go of the Titanic. They're all there with

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<v Speaker 2>hankies and they're all going well done. And now that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm single, I thought, I want britt to be there

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<v Speaker 2>to cheer you in, to cheer me on. So my

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<v Speaker 2>final K, I even run a bit faster. I even

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<v Speaker 2>add a bit of hair gel from a bum bag

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<v Speaker 2>into my hair so I look good for the finishing product.

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<v Speaker 2>I get to the finish line after running fourteen k's

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<v Speaker 2>my dear friend Brittany nowhere to be seen.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, hear me out.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, this is all your fault, Mitch said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone runs at a different pace. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>long it takes you to run fourteen kilomeers. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what your pace is. I don't know if you're marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>Telling me going what's your pace? Whose pace? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>So Mitch was like, please meet me in the finish line.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, one hundred percent, baby, I'm gonna be there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna film you crossing it. I said, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you send.

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<v Speaker 4>Me your live location as you're running.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll track it, I'll see when you're coming one way,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will meet you there because I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go and sit there for five hours. Who knows how

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<v Speaker 1>long it's going to take you. I'm watching the location.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not moving, and I'm like, oh, he must be

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<v Speaker 1>having to sit down or a water break or a

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<v Speaker 1>toilet break. And I'm twenty minutes go pass and I

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<v Speaker 1>pull up the live location and you're still sitting there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, okay, he must have really been having

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<v Speaker 1>an ask for attack.

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<v Speaker 3>Forty five minutes goes passed, and I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>he's dead. The guy's died.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I realized you didn't send me a live location.

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<v Speaker 1>He sent me a screenshot of your current location, so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you hadn't moved for an hour. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Mitch goes coming up to the last hundred meters Are

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<v Speaker 1>you there? And I was like, sure, I was not there,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's your fault.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>Run his brain?

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<v Speaker 5>This says a lot more about Brits, like her thoughts

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<v Speaker 5>about you and your ability to run.

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<v Speaker 3>If she thought that you were stationary for an hour.

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<v Speaker 3>What were you doing having breakfast?

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<v Speaker 2>And she didn't question it.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't think that was a problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were at the end of the race

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<v Speaker 4>and you were having heart palpitations.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you'd just take You're no.

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<v Speaker 2>Better, Laura, because I went to your house after and

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<v Speaker 2>there was nothing prepared. I thought there'd be hydrolte and

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<v Speaker 2>fruit platters and ready.

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<v Speaker 3>To No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 5>You came to my house afterwards and there was stuff prepared,

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<v Speaker 5>yeas for an inhaler and some toilet paper.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have the toilet paper, but I had the inhaler.

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<v Speaker 5>You came in, you had some paracetamol, you took my ventilin,

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<v Speaker 5>and then you went and did a.

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<v Speaker 2>Poof and there was no toilet paper. Your new out,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and I'm the one who has to suffer.

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<v Speaker 2>I do use my runners bid, which I wanted to frame.

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<v Speaker 2>So thanks a lot for that.

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<v Speaker 4>We're proud of you, Mitt, Thank you, Jesus side congrat I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to go sleep for a month, all right. If

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<v Speaker 2>you missed any of the show today, you can podcast

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<v Speaker 2>it on the iHeartRadio app. We were talking about the

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<v Speaker 2>pay disparity between the Matilda's and the soccer roofs.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and you can go and listen to it all

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<v Speaker 5>on the pickup. We put everything up there, all the

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<v Speaker 5>best bits and all the worst bits, the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>When cold and flu strikes, Demeson gets it done. Always

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<v Speaker 2>follow the directions for use will and what are up next? Boys?

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<v Speaker 2>What's on the show? It's a huge week on Oil

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<v Speaker 2>and Woody. What's for the first time? And I'm very

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<v Speaker 2>excited to say this. We're going to meet the Inspired

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<v Speaker 2>unemployed boys.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty nervous really hope they like me.

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, that's this week. Plus Tony Armstrong is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be dropping in plas the woman who ate the

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred thousand dollars Golden Tim Tam. Yeah, can we

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<v Speaker 2>secure one hundred thousand for her from it? That's right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's courplaw here on wi Ah.

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<v Speaker 3>We love the Inspired unemployed here.

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<v Speaker 2>They're good boys and I am the one hundred thousand dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>Tim Tam. I wish have you watched the new show

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<v Speaker 2>So good from the Boys? Yeah, it's gold, very funny

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<v Speaker 2>gold like that, Tim Tam. All right, the boys are

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<v Speaker 2>up next see tomorrow.