1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken, your dose of the hottest 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm Amy 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: Torbert and I'm joined by my sister and journalist Kate. 4 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: So we've given Sophie the day off today because she's 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: got a cold. Now on today's show, the sexualization of 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: Robert Irwin, the Barbiecore trend, painting your news feeds pink, 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: and Mikayla Tester's holiday to Turkey takes a disturbing twist. 8 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: But first, on Monday, we spoke about how Jordan Simmy 9 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: was sending his ex Sammy Robinson cryptic messages through his 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: Instagram post. Now just to remind you, he shared a 11 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: poll the Road photo of himself and wrote miss her 12 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: as a caption. Now, it turned out that the caption 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: had actually been edited, and we put a call out 14 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: to our lovely listeners if anyone knew what the original 15 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: caption was, and thank you for those who sent it in. 16 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: It originally said miss my ex. Now if that wasn't 17 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: subtle enough. On Sammy's birthday, he shared a selfie in 18 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: a lift and wrote happy Birthday with a cake emojial. Oh. Unsurprisingly, 19 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: Sammy got tagged quite a few times. So one follower 20 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: wrote under the post, happy birthday to who, and someone responded, 21 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,919 Speaker 1: tagging Sammy Robinson. Under the comment, another user wrote baby 22 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: come back and tagged Sammy. 23 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 2: Now this piss me off. 24 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: Amy. Can he just let her enjoy her birthday without 25 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: inserting himself into the narrative all the time? 26 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? 27 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit inappropriate. I mean, we 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on behind the scenes. He and 29 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: Sammy could be talking again, but wow, he really is 30 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: trying to get Sammy back. See Amy, I totally disagree. 31 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: I think that this post makes it very clear that 32 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: she's not responding to him, and he's starting to get 33 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: desperate and force her to respond in a public manner. Now, 34 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: it was rather interesting because influencer updates au shared a 35 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: story that Jordan appeared in. It was one of his 36 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: friend's stories on Instagram, and in the background was Sammy 37 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: Robinson's dogs. Now a few soupers have done a little 38 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: bit more investigating, and it appears that the video was 39 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: taken at Jordan's office, which of course is also Sammy's office. 40 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: How fucking awkward must it be that they still work together? Well? 41 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: Not work together but work in that same office space. Yeah, 42 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: but it's not a huge office space, isn't it. And 43 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: we did flag this months ago when they made the 44 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: decision to actually work from the same office space, that 45 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: this is going to be fucking awkward, and it appears 46 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: it is. I wonder how it goes in the office, Like, 47 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: is she just giving him the cold shoulder and ignoring 48 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: him and he's desperately trying to get her attention, because 49 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: it would be really hard to move on from someone 50 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: if they're there working in the same building. 51 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: As you every day. Hey, you did this. You were 52 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: working with your ex. 53 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's why we kept getting back together all 54 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 1: the time. We only really properly split up when I 55 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: got a new job somewhere else and didn't have to 56 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: see him or hear about him. So we're suggesting, Sammy, 57 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: move your office if you don't want this go back again. 58 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: I know you've only just moved in. Good everyone, it's 59 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 2: Robert ow in here. 60 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: I'm pretty stoked to announce that I've finally joined the 61 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: wonderful world of TikTok. This week, Robert Irwin graced the 62 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 1: cover of Stellar magazine in a way we'd never seen 63 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: him before. Gone were the car keys, and in their 64 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: place were designer clothes and a grown up looking Robert 65 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: now Amy. The public's reaction to a now eighteen year 66 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: old Robert has raised debate about the sexualization of child stars. 67 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: What sparked this conversation, Well, it was actually a comment 68 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: that resurfaced that was made by Math's contestant Dominicate. So 69 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: last month, Dom commented on one of Robert's TikTok saying, God, 70 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: you are so handsome. She also wrote, Robert, would you 71 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: like to come to the logis with me? 72 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 2: Now? 73 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: Some followers were quick to slam Dom. One wrote you're 74 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: literally twenty eight This is fucking creepy. I was a 75 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: fan of yours. Another labeled at gross predatory behavior. Now. 76 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: Dom defended her comments saying in Australia, legal age is sixteen. 77 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: He is eighteen. He can drink alcohol. 78 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: She continued by saying, I can ask him to come 79 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: to the logos with me and say that he is handsome. 80 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: Take a chill, peel everyone, now. I first saw this 81 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: backlash unfolding in the So Dramatic Facebook group and it 82 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: was picked up by a number of other media publications 83 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: and it's important to point out it wasn't just Dom 84 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: commenting on Robert's appearance. Thirty six year old Amy Shark 85 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: also commented that rob looked handsome, as did many other users. Now, firstly, Kate, 86 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 1: I want to hear what is your view on people 87 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: who are older than Robert saying he's handsome. 88 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: Is it creepy or is it okay? 89 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: I don't think that there's any issues with someone just saying, oh, 90 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,119 Speaker 1: you look very handsome, because we've all seen him grow 91 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: up and it was quite startling when you saw the 92 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: photo and you're like, oh, wow, he's very handsome. 93 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 2: He's a lovely boy. 94 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people love not just the 95 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: way he looks, but they are also big fans of 96 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: the way he carries himself and what he does in 97 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: terms of animal conservations. I think that's a big part 98 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: of his appeal. Whereas the comments around oh, well he's 99 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: legal age, the legal age is sixteen, Well no, it's 100 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: actually eighteen. You're considered an adult at eighteen. Yes, the 101 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: legal age of consent is sixteen and seventeen, so it 102 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: depends what state you're in. But I just thought it 103 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: got a bit murky. Then it got a bit yuck 104 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: to sort of have to say, you know, he can 105 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: have sex. I do always feel a little bit uncomfortable 106 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: anytime there is a child star or someone who has 107 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 1: grown up in the public eye when they suddenly turn eighteen, 108 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: there's so much public discussion around their appearance, and it seems. 109 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,679 Speaker 2: To be so much sexualization of that person. 110 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: Well, I think also as a nation, we've kind of 111 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: taken him on as our own son because his dad 112 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: did pass away when he was just two years old, 113 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: and everyone's always had a soft spot for him. So 114 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: I think it's almost like people have waited for him 115 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: to turn eighteen, and I think we have had that 116 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: a lot with female celebrities, and so it's kind of 117 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: weird now when it's turned and it's a male celebrity 118 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: and how we react to females making what seemed like 119 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: predatory comments. And you're right, okay, it is interesting because normally, 120 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: as you said, it is young women who we are 121 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: seeing sexualized online once they turn eighteen, because we saw 122 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: it recently with Millie Bobby Brown, so was only twelve 123 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: when she started appearing in Stranger Things in twenty sixteen, 124 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: and this year in February, Milli Bobby Brown turned eighteen, 125 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: and as this birthday approached like the only way I 126 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,799 Speaker 1: could described as fucked, there was a countdown which began 127 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: to pop up on online forum Reddit, and the post 128 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: ts that they'd be launching an NSFW thread for Milli 129 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: as soon as she turned eighteen. 130 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 2: Does that mean? 131 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't know what it meant until today, So 132 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: it stands for not Safe for work. So in the 133 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: Reddit space, this acronym is used to warn users that 134 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: the content they're about to view may contain nudity, pornography, 135 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: or profanity. So basically, Kate, this was a thread that 136 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: had been set up while Milly was a minor that 137 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: was just waiting for her to officially turn eighteen to 138 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: post sexual pictures of her and more disturbingly, this forum 139 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: had six thousand members sign up prior to Milli turning eighteen. 140 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: It actually reminds me of this essay that I read 141 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: written by child star Mara Wilson. So she was the 142 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: little girl who played Matilda in that epicure and she 143 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: revealed that before she was even in middle school, she 144 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 1: already had photos of her feet published on a. 145 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: Foot fetish website. 146 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: And it gains worse because she's had instances where her 147 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: image has been photoshopped into child porn, and she has 148 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: received countless disturbing letters from grown men. 149 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: There's also other cases. 150 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: I read about Emma Watson, who faced predatory treatment when 151 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: she turned eighteen as well. So she recounted how photographers 152 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: had rocked up to her eighteenth birthday party and lay 153 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: on the pavement to take photos up her skirt. If 154 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: that's not bad enough, these photos were then published on 155 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: the front page of the English tabloids the next morning. 156 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: If these photos had been published twenty four hours earlier, 157 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: they would have been considered illegal, but because she was eighteen, 158 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: they were perfectly legal to print and to take. It's 159 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: just so weird to think that that stuff actually goes on, 160 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: that these adult men are paid to actually go take 161 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: an upskirt photo of a eighteen year old girl. Well 162 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: fres she turned eighteen year old girl. I do think 163 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: that there is a real double standard when it comes 164 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: to the sexualization of women versus men, and whether we 165 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: like it or not, it does seem like that there 166 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: is this inherent view that women aren't as sexually threatening 167 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: to male teens. There have been a few articles about 168 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: Dom's comments, but there's not this huge outpouring of concern really. However, 169 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: if it was reversed and a nearly thirty year old 170 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: man was commenting on some random eighteen year old's post 171 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: calling her gorgeous and asking her on a date, we'd 172 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: probably feel a little. 173 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 2: Bit uncomfortable about it. 174 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: I think that's only the case if the man was 175 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: in the public eye, because we've just gone through that 176 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: it's quite common for men to objectify young women. You know, 177 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 1: there's even a whole reddit flum based on Millie Bobby Brown. 178 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:46,199 Speaker 1: So I think we're used to men doing it, and 179 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: we're used to women being objectified. 180 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: But I think because that. 181 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,079 Speaker 1: There is this skew that it happens a lot more 182 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: to women that when it happens to a man, there's 183 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: kind of like a young guy that there's you can 184 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: kind of turn a blind eye to it because it's rare. 185 00:08:59,400 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 186 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: I think it's because, as you said, that we don't 187 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: deem a female to be as threatening sexually as a man. 188 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 1: And I have noticed this double standard as well when 189 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: it comes to the media reporting on pedophile teachers, because 190 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: Daily Mail they always seem to have an article up 191 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: and it's always a young, attractive female teacher who's been 192 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 1: charged with sexually assaulting a teenage boy. And if you 193 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: look in the comments, most of the comments are from 194 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: men being like, Oh, that kid's so lucky and they 195 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: wish they had teachers like that. However, when it's a 196 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: male teacher, that person is absolutely vilified. I feel like 197 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 1: we need to stop perpetrating this double standard. In the 198 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: Barbie laning plan, you might have noticed an influx of 199 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: hot pink outfits flooding your social feed. The trend is 200 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: called Barbiecore and it's all about the nineties. 201 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: Barbie girl esthetic. 202 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: The Barbie Coore hashtag took off on TikTok after photos 203 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: of Margo Robbie on set of the Barbie film were 204 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: unveiled in late April. 205 00:09:58,880 --> 00:09:59,719 Speaker 2: Now, despite the. 206 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 1: Movie not coming out until July twenty twenty three, the 207 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: hashtag Barbie core has had over eight million views on TikTok. 208 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: Creators have been sharing their barbicore outfits, which include hot pinks, 209 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: bright neons, sparkly accessories, and heavy makeup. But is life 210 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: in plastic so fantastic in twenty twenty two? Now, Before 211 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: we get into that debate, Amy have you noticed everyone 212 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: seems to be wearing hot pink at the moment. Well, 213 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 1: not particularly in my day to day life, but I 214 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 1: have noticed a lot of celebrities are wearing more pink 215 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: than they ever have. So the Kardashians have, of course 216 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: been early adopters of the trend. Kim shared a photo 217 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: of herself on Instagram in June wearing a hot pink 218 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: cropped hoodie and Balenciaga leggings. 219 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: She finished the. 220 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: Look off with a bedazzled bag with a B on 221 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: it and referred to the look as having future Alien 222 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: Barbie vibes. 223 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 2: Chloe Kardashian also wore a. 224 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: Pink neon latex dress to her thirty eighth birthday party, 225 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: and of course Hailey Beab is up on the trend. 226 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: She shared a photo on Instagram of her wearing a 227 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: pink VERSACEI course at mini dress. However, the celebrit produce 228 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: who looked like they were channeling Barbie and Ken the 229 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: most were Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly. So recently 230 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: on the Red Carpet, Megan wore a very tight pink 231 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: metallic set, while Machine Gun Kelly channeled Ken with a 232 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: pink netted top blush pants and a multi colored tiger 233 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 1: print patchwork coat. He did really look a lot like 234 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: Ken And I do want to give Margo Robbie all 235 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 1: the credit for this trend, as the photos of her 236 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 1: dresser's Barbie are iconic. There's this one of her and 237 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: Ryan Gosling dressed in matching retro jim gear and it 238 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: has the like G string unititard and roll the blades, 239 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: and it just set me back to my childhood. It 240 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: made me feel very nostalgic. However, I do think the 241 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: trend also has something to do with Valentino. So basically, 242 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: in March, the brand's creative director dedicated the entire autumn 243 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: and Winter twenty twenty two collection to the color hot pink. 244 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: So the collection has been described. 245 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: As Barbie meets legally blonde. 246 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: Now. They even went as far as making the hot 247 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: pink color and exclusive of Hugh called Valentino pp in 248 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: conjunction with Pantone. Now, I do need to know what 249 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: you think about this trend. Well, it is a tough 250 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: one because is barbiecore trend itself. It does seem like 251 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: a bit of fun and it is a nod towards nostalgia. Personally, 252 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm not a huge fan of pink, so I'm not 253 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: going to be wearing it. But when you do look 254 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: at this trend in conjunction with the current Y two 255 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: K fashion revival, it's hard not to have reservations because 256 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: there are genuine concerns that these fashion trends could cause 257 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: a resurgence in the obsession with the size zero body. 258 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thirty three, as are UK and you've 259 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: got to think back to our fashion icons. They were 260 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie, Lindsay Lohan, who were all super skinny. 261 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: They would wear tight mini dressers, go off the hip bones. 262 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: It was the higher fashion to have low, skinny rise 263 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: jeans and everyone was obsessed with size zero. So this 264 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: is the concern, will we go back to this trend? Yeah, 265 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: And it's safe to say that the most important fashion 266 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:02,559 Speaker 1: accessory of the two thousands was being skinny and exclusivity 267 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: was a massive. 268 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 2: Part of the allure of the Y two K trend. 269 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 1: And when you think about it, the low rise jeanes, 270 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 1: the belly button rings, crop tops and body chondresses. There 271 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: was such a massive focus on the middrift area for 272 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: these types of clothing and low wise genes were only 273 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: ever celebrated on super skinny people with flat stomachs. I 274 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 1: have clear memories of larger people being ridiculed who tried 275 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: to wear the trend. You only have to think of 276 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: the term muffin top, which was used to describe the 277 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: fat hanging out of the sides of the low rise 278 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: genes to understand that these genes were not allowed on 279 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,599 Speaker 1: anyone bigger than I would say a sized yeah, or 280 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: if you wore them as you say, you would be ridiculed. Yeah. 281 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: And it's really hard to say, but in the early 282 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: two thousands, clothing options for plus sized people were virtually 283 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 1: non existent. Sadly, plus sized people were excluded from fashion altogether. 284 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: So that's why it seems to be so troubling that 285 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: these trends are coming back in. 286 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: And the thing is, we as a society have made 287 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 2: all this progress in terms of inclusion of a range 288 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 2: of body types in the world of high end fashion, 289 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: So it is really scary to think that we could 290 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 2: be reverting back to this super skinny trend. Yeah, it 291 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: really is. 292 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: And I read an article in Days that discussed these concerns, 293 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: and it was saying how they think that the strides 294 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: of fashion industry have made towards greater inclusivity around body size, age, 295 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: and race may not be a permanent change. It may 296 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: be something that is a trend that actually ends up expiring. 297 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: That is interesting because I have seen a lot of 298 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: brands who have recently been called out for virtue signaling 299 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: in terms of them trying to be more inclusive in 300 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: their marketing, and a lot of people have called bullshit 301 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: on some brands. So I agree, I could actually see 302 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: this trend of being inclusive having an expiry date. Yeah, 303 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: And I think with the recent changes that we've been 304 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: seeing to the abortion rules in the US, it just 305 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: shows us that things are not set in stone, and 306 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 1: advancements that we think we have made we can and 307 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: actually revert back to as a society, which is so sad. So, Kate, 308 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: do you think then we shouldn't be trying to glamorize 309 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: this Barbie trend. 310 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 2: It's hard because it does really. 311 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: Look like a lot of fun on social media, and 312 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: I'm very nostalgic. 313 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 2: I grew up with Barbie. 314 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: I loved playing Barbies, but it did really make me 315 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: think about the celebrities that were famous in the nineties 316 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: and early two thousands, because a lot of them did 317 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: actually have attributes similar to Barbie. So a lot of 318 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: them were obviously very thin, blonde, attractive, but they also 319 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,359 Speaker 1: had ditsy personalities or personas. 320 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 2: I would say. So you think about the likes of. 321 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: Jessica Simpson and Paris Hilton. They were massive A grade celebrities, 322 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: and they were really popular because, as I said, they 323 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: had these ditzy personas. They put on this act of 324 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: not being very intelligent, which I think in the nineties 325 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: and early two thousands, that's what the Barbie trend was. 326 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: I know, we've seen Barbie has evolved since those times 327 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: and become more inclusive, but we've got to remember that 328 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: this barbiecore trend is actually based around the nineties and 329 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: two thousands esthetic of Barbie. It's not the advancement of Barbie. 330 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: So I'm just really hoping that this trend doesn't also 331 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: see a revival in the way we expect women to act, 332 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: particularly after we have just had this massive cultural awakening 333 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: about how we treated female celebrities in the naughties. Everyone 334 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: warned us about the guys in Turkey, okay, but we 335 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: didn't listen. 336 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: Now, first night in Turkey. We met this guy. He 337 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: was super charming, He was super nice. He was like, 338 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 2: let me show you on Turkey. 339 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: Who were like, okay, we don't know anybody, Like whatever, 340 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: what is the worst that could happen? Tiktoka Mikayla Tester 341 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: has detailed her terrifying encounter with a Turkish man who 342 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: allegedly snuck into her bathroom and watched her shower. The 343 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: Only Fans star toured the city with the man for 344 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: several days, with the man previously appearing in her travel vlogs, Amy, 345 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: can you tell us more about what happened? Yeah, well, 346 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: listeners will remember last month we spoke about how a 347 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: newly single Mikayla had thrown shade at her ex at 348 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: Hiss Paul whilst she was holidaying in Turkey. So in 349 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: her previous travel vlogs when the were dating, Mikayla would 350 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: always complain that Addis would refuse to hold her shopping bags. 351 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 1: So soon after arriving in Turkey, Mikayla shared on her 352 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:11,479 Speaker 1: Instagram story that she and her friend Grace were spending 353 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: time with two handsome Turkish men. Mikayla snapped a photo 354 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: of the boys holding their shopping and wrote, Turkish boys 355 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: hold and carry bags without complaining. So Mikayla also included 356 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: the men in her vlog in Turkey. So she explained 357 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: that during their first night in Turkey, she went out 358 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: clubbing with her friend Grace and they were approached by 359 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: these two men, and she confessed in the vlog that 360 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 1: the men in Turkey were obsessed with them. She continued saying, 361 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: they won't stop telling us how beautiful we are and 362 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: it's so sweet. Now the men seem to be laying 363 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 1: it on thick, taking them to their favorite restaurants and 364 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 1: purchasing them the roses in the street. She did joke 365 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 1: during the video that they were very charming and that 366 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 1: they're scared that this is going to be the ending 367 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: of Taken two. Now I'm sure you can tell by 368 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: the name, but Taken two is a movie about a 369 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: young girl getting kidnapped to Paris. So following the Turkey log, 370 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: some followers were concerned about Mikayla's safety, understandably, and one wrote, 371 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: I know these men seem lovely, but please be careful. 372 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: They don't all have the best intentions. Do not drink 373 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: anything if you've left it unattended. Mikayla responded under the 374 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: comment saying, girl, do we have a story about this 375 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: guy and then did crying faces. So Mikayla uploaded this 376 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: new video and said, despite everyone warning them about these 377 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: guys in Turkey, they didn't listen, but should have. So 378 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: she explained that her friend Grace had had a crush 379 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: on the Turkish guy in question, and things turned weird 380 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: when the Turkish guy asked for Grace to return something 381 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: of his she'd accidentally taken. Now, Mikayla didn't specify what 382 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: it was, and I really would have liked to know 383 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: because there was a lot of like jumping around about 384 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: what it actually was. So Grace asked him to meet 385 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 1: her in the lobby and that she would bring it 386 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 1: down now. He claimed it was the wrong item, so 387 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: he had to come up to the room to get it. Now. 388 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: Whilst this was all happening, Mikayla was in the hotel 389 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 1: room having a shower with the door open, and Mikayla 390 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: ledges that the Turkish guy heard the water running and 391 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 1: said to Grace that he was busting to go to 392 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: the toilet and he couldn't use the toilet downstairs, so 393 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: could he use the toilet in their room, and she 394 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 1: said no. According to Mikayla, Grace turned her back to 395 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: start looking for the object that was apparently missing. Mikayla 396 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: at this point was still in the shower and had 397 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 1: no idea that any of this was happening in the room. 398 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: She alleges that she then felt these cold eyes staring 399 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: at her and looked through the shower door to see 400 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 1: that the Turkish guy had snuck into the bathroom and 401 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 1: was staring at her naked body. 402 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 2: That Grace horan fie I know. 403 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 1: Grace then grabbed all of the guy's stuff and he 404 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: allegedly got in her face and pushed her and in 405 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: the comment section, Mikayla wrote, we canceled the rest of 406 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 1: our Turkey trip and left the next morning where okay 407 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: with crying faces. I was a little bit disappointed to 408 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: see in the comment section that people were blaming the 409 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: girls for the action of these men. This is the 410 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 1: men's fault. Men should not act like this, regardless of 411 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: whether you've been worn. There's no excuse for it. Yeah, 412 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,719 Speaker 1: it seems like a lot of victim blaming was going 413 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 1: on now. Obviously, at thirty three years old, and with 414 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: hindsight and also experience, we can see that there were 415 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 1: a lot of red flags going on with these men. 416 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: But these girls are twenty two years old, one of 417 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: them is just broken up with her long term partner, 418 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: and they're probably enjoying a lot of attention and getting 419 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: excited over guys showering them with praise. So it was 420 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: probably a holiday romat, yeah exactly. And the boys appeared 421 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 1: to be the same age, It's not like they were 422 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: these creepy older guys. I do have to take my 423 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: hat off to Michaeliff actually sharing that this happened, because 424 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: she could have easily just left this video out. It 425 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: obviously does make good TikTok, but I feel like she 426 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: shared it to warn other girls. 427 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. 428 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 1: It would have been a little bit embarrassing after having 429 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: all these people telling you to watch out and be careful. 430 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: So I think it's great that she did say, well, 431 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: this actually happened, And I do love that she shared 432 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: what the men look like in the TikTok vision to 433 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: sort of warn others. 434 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: Pay if you're in Turkey, look out for these guys. 435 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: Now. 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